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As a society we need to make it acceptable for boys and girls to wear/act however they want- and still be boys/girls. Look at the backlash women had only a few generations ago when they wanted to wear pants

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As a cis lesbian, I completely respect your openness and vulnerability here, and I understand that you can be trans and still be attracted to women, but I personally would not be attracted to a transgender woman and hope that there are solutions to this that doesn't harm the lesbian community or the trans community. I think being open does help both sides. There seems to be this notion that lesbians need to be open to trans girls to not be transphobic, but I don't think that that's true. Homosexuals can live peacefully alongside female-attracted trans girls if we communicate properly when intersecting in spaces. I think that a female-attracted trans girl should be able to enter sapphic spaces as long as they understand that in most cases, lesbians will not be attracted to them, and bisexuals are more likely to be open to dating them. Trans women attracted to women should also try to clarify their transhood when in a sapphic space so that there isn't so much confusion. I also totally support T4T!! I think that is awesome. For the record, what I'm doing here is attempting to suggest compromises throughout our communities, because the reality is that the traditional label for and conceptualization of lesbianism involves biological sex more than gender presentation, and regardless of how hard lesbians have tried to have an interest in the male sex throughout history, it just is not possible. Of course by saying this I'll be called all sorts of names, "transphobic", "TERF", yadda yadda yadda... It seems these words are being overused and losing their true meaning. Staying grounded in reality and working through REAL complications to see eye to eye is not transphobia people!! Anyways, I digress. Trans girls attracted to women do exist, yes, but we still need to establish boundaries.

No need to stress about this. Love comes in all shapes, sizes and sexual orientations. So jump right in and love someone ✨

No such thing as a transgender lesbian

I used to joke around and say "haha im not gay, im lesbian" i guess its only a joke until it isnt😂

Do you understand that female lesbians want to date people without male genitalia no matter how they identify? I never thought that lesbians needed prostate gland checks? You must understand that women question your logic.

I dont know why but ive always been super creepd out by transbians, probably because the few times ive tried to make freinds with them irl they tried to grab me in a naughty way 😡

Lesbians don’t want eggplant

very nice

Do you identify as AGP tho? or Do you say hell no not AGP at all. simply. a pure trans lesbian with zero self auto eroticism?

I hope your experience will never be mine. But every time I ever told anybody I was transgender especially at work it resulted in me losing my job. I even had a counselor tell me that I needed to stop telling people so that I could keep a job. So like I said I hope the world changes to where you don't have to experience what I experienced but now in my retirement years and I'm struggling. Oh and I don't have any friends.

I also got a Polly Pocket on my 5th or 6th birthday! My first girl toy. Also the last I got, I'm afraid.

This is just so dawn true... I can relate embrasingly lot to this... :/

These are female presenting heterosexual men. Trust me they can find straight women that like them. But Lesbians like biological women with biological female parts. So they're barking up.the wrong tree.

First of all: I think your voice still sounds great (definitely better than mine) despite the cold and I wish I could pass as well as you do…. Secondly: thank you very much for the video. It was soooo relatable for me in so many ways and it definitely made my week quite a bit better

What you need to say to your sis is what if normal was considered by society as not normal, crazy I know, just ask her how would she feel in that context. Would she feel comfortable feeling normal when all of society wasn’t normal. Here’s the crux of this issue, all humans are not normal as normality is merely an idea or perception pertaining to certain conditions in place. But the list not the name really exists, only in societal perception. So if it’s your life, then it’s you reality, You know who you are so love and embrace and own yourself, and have great faith in yourself as you know yourself and your direction in life. If your sister or family cannot come to terms with who you are, then to be honest is their problem not yours ok. This is about your life, not theres

Just seeing this today, I’m learning more and this speaks a lot to me. Regardless of how far this message goes, it reached me. I’m new in this journey and my mind is already a mess. Thank you for speaking something, anything, that gives a few of us a voice and helps us put our own unique thoughts together. Stay strong and live long

I'm trans and bisexual but lean towards women

Why can't a trans lesbian just date other trans girls?

OMG thanks for your video, you put some words on my feelings as well, except just form me my greatest regret is to been born in 1982 at a time when these subject was anyway kind "out of the line" because yes i always felt bad in my body and yes i love women and as you my first feeling was ok you love girls so your're a boy and at my puberty we were in above 1993 so no internet, not trans comunity, very closed gay circles nowhere to get exchange and information and then i forced me to boy life, musculation, martial art, i even ender to work as pruner and trucs mechanics i had girlfiends i been maried to a woman, i had a daughter, i divorced and now at 41 due to back probles i should stop working manualy i no more need to rely on a strong man body to live and guess what yeah my lack of acceptaion in my gender identity hit me again pricipally because i am now single for a wile and the clock turns. But hey i build a man life durin 30 years and genderly i fell like i always felt like doing the splits for too long, add to this that i am HP multipotential.... fuck my though and feelings are a fucking soup. But hey i decided to meet a therapist about this subject. Whait and see. But Thanks again Girl! Thank you so much just for this video.

i cant make friends with trans people, for one a transwoman is a male and a transman is a female. 2 i vote republican and it seems that to other trans people they are fanatics with politics. im transgender with surgery and 11 years of being that

*A pre opt transman wish to get a post opt transwoman lesbian!*

Same. Big f-ing same. I don't pass, and probably will never pass, I will never be skinny and cis passing like so many younger trans girls. It sucks to feel one way about myself but not have any of it reflected back to me from other trans people and cis lesbians.

Boone?! Holy crap! I watched your younger years. I so wanted your hair lol. I'm a transgender lesbian also. You're not alone. I'm here. Unfortunately letting you know is about all I can do. But your old videos did help and they pushed me on. I still want that hair! I'm glad to see you're still hanging in there. Keep your head up girly.

I get it, I’m trans and pans but there’s a like homophobia and transphobia that kinda slips out bc I live in a Christian city, I still support tho ❤

I relate so damn much!

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Im 30 years old, livin that CIS life, I've known I was like you since pre-school always been out about it cause lets face it folks don't know understand anyway. What you said about "People accepting your legitamacy as a lesbian them first needing to accept your legitamacy as a woman" YES. All I can say from where I'm standing is YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE.

Wow! you're tall. Never would have thought you were that tall.

It's the voice. It's always the VOICE that gets these girls spooked. If you have a good voice, you won't need so much surgery.

If humans had to teach children anything most kids would be handicap, crazy how people cant just teach even what they know, wow no wonder how the system just rear the people however they want.

I got hit on but it was by another trans girl 😂

You're a straight man!

If you’re openly trans its just asking for unfair treatment and disgusted judgment. Stealth living is the best way of existing as a trans person. I think most trans people should go stealth unless they have unlimited mental energy to openly trans

If you are a Trans-woman attracted to other Trans-women you have the right to identify as a lesbian

you look gorgeous, and that top and skirt combo _really is_ willllldd love from a fellow transbian (though pre transition :/)

Smells like AGP round here (basically smegma)

Thank you for talking about this. I am probably more than twice your age and my own internal transphobia is really hard to deal with. Thank you again for a great vdo x

You so beautiful girl

There is a chat in the discord for trans women who like women.

Holy crap. I work from home and in my breaks try to figure out what I'm gonna wear on the one day of the week when I go into the office because I want to be me but also am not out at work yet. I used to make my own clothes as a young adult.

The dueling invalidation of my identities is precisely why I stayed in the closet for as long as I did. Came out as a Woman at 34. I’m 36 now. My experience left me desperately clinging to some level of bisexuality that never existed. “If I was into women, I had to be a man”. I was 16 at that point. I’d been in the closet since 6, and that tightrope act cemented my fate. I stayed there until 2022. Thank you for this. So many nights I want to cry myself to sleep because I’ve wasted so much of my identity in outright denial: drinking myself into a living coma, depressed and nihilistic. But when I see beautiful people like you sharing your story, living unapologetically authentic, with the courage to bear your soul to the world, it gives me the hope I need to carry on.

i disbelieve you are not a biological woman.

I have suppressed my real sexuality for years because I was so scared. Now, I feel like I wanna die and I don't understand why. I thought I was having fun but maybe I only didn't know how to separate my feelings from however had fun with me... I just feel so sick rn

I identified as a trans lesbian since I was 16. Yet, when it was twice as old and transitioned, I was basically scared straight as in I was dating men for years exploring that part of my bisexuality that I never even intended to explore. I would say it was better than loneliness but really, it wasn't. Any love I was able to feel for guys has died since. They still are acceptable sex toys if they 100% submit to my will but even talking to one of them makes me so annoyed that I wanna die. I hate men. I always did. I never wanted this and I don't know what made me do it or rather I don't want to think about it because I just can't take it anymore. Though it all feels a bit better since I swore to myself to nevermore allow a dick near me unless it's attached to a beautiful women who respects and desires me at the same time.

Thank you.

I'm so glad I found this video, this is exactly the same as how I felt as a trans lesbian and it feels so good to know that this is a common experience and that I am not alone, thank you Boone!

ty for making this

This is great!! 💖 I thank you for your words!😄