Finding Community as a Trans Lesbian

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  • @koherentnyudon8353
    @koherentnyudon8353 Před rokem +6

    So happy for you! I really appreciate what you do for our trans lesbian community.
    I hope to gain more confidence over time.
    Certainly an important step in this direction for me will be surgery and work on my voice. Thanks for showing it's possible.

  • @jimk.9493
    @jimk.9493 Před 10 měsíci

    Truly glad to see and hear that things are working out! Always great to hear your thoughts, and as always, most insightful👏👏👏👏👏

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you so much!!! :) 💛💛 that means a lot to me!!!

  • @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos
    @ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos Před 11 měsíci

    I found your content quite recently, and it's been interesting watching you come into yourself as a young woman in fast-motion as I play catch-up as an older one. I adore both your positivity and your candor. They give me hope for the future; not just for my own, but for everyone that finds themselves on this road less traveled. Thank you for sharing your story as roadside markers for those of us that follow

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před 11 měsíci

      Thank you so much 💛💛 that is incredibly kind of you. I am so happy to get to share my experiences, and I can only hope it may be helpful to some. Thank you again :)

  • @imyourming1128
    @imyourming1128 Před 9 měsíci

    I discovered your channel recently, and I absolutely love your content 🥹❤️ you have such a lovely voice and you're so pretty!! I'm not even sugar coating ❤️

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před 9 měsíci +1

      My goodness, thank you so much!!! That means a whole lot to me. :))

  • @user-bu8ky8pd1o
    @user-bu8ky8pd1o Před rokem +2

    Hi Boone,
    I'm always amazed by how well you articulate your thoughts.. makes me think of a John Mellancamp lyric, "You aren't as green as you are young." You are continually inspiring, I cannot express how much.. some of us are not so articulate 🙂. Thank you for the hug.. sending one back.
    Lotsa love 💕
    Kira S

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +2

      You've absolutely made my day, Kira. Thank you so much. Many hugs ❤️❤️❤️

  • @2kavi
    @2kavi Před 9 měsíci

    Oh i remember seeing your video when i was in college. You look great and happy, hope you are having wonderful time.💕

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před 9 měsíci

      Aww this means SO much to me. Thank you so much!!!! I hope everything is going well for you :)) 💛💛💛

  • @FredbonFilms
    @FredbonFilms Před rokem +26

    How did you get your voice to sound SO good? Dude I can only strive to be like you :(

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +21

      Aw thank you so much for that!! It's been a very long journey. I looked up tons of tutorials on CZcams and elsewhere. I made a video about it, though it's a bit outdated. I highly recommend checking out Trans Voice Lessons on CZcams!
      Thank you so much for your kind words. Please strive to be like YOU! You're incredible the way you are 🥳

  • @punkedpinkandemotionalsoup

    I have to thank you. I found this video on one of the trans reddit sub-threads and your wisdom has allowed me to let go of some feelings and confusion I've been holding onto about my place within the trans community. I realize now that I'm ready to move forward out in the real world as a confident trans femme that has friends and support from all different walks of life, and that trying to force myself into the trans community, so that I can pursue my own idealization of what the trans community should be is harmful to me, and ultimately non-useful to our community. To put it simply, I can now accept that I am a trans person living in the world and don't need to relate my entire identity and existence to my transness.

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +3

      I am so incredibly happy to hear this. I am SO proud of you!!! That is an incredible thing to accept, and I am thrilled that you finally feel comfortable moving forward. ❤️ Thank you so so much for sharing, and I am ALWAYS rooting for you!!!

  • @GIRLRAZR
    @GIRLRAZR Před rokem +2

    I SO PROUD OF YOU! =)

  • @BrendanTripp
    @BrendanTripp Před rokem +3

    Boone ... nice vid. Very self-exposing (I did feel like I was at an AA meeting for a bit there!), and at least staying close to theme. For most of it, I was waiting for you to burst into song:
    Regrets, I've had a few
    But then again, too few to mention
    I did what I had to do
    And saw it through without exemption
    ... which would have been awesome, it somewhat cliché.

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +2

      Dang!!! Next time, I'll definitely make it a musical endeavor 😂 thank you so much 💛

  • @JMWeaver
    @JMWeaver Před rokem +14

    This is rad! So happy for you! I'm a trans lesbian as well and I'm lucky I didn't have to date blindly. I stumbled into community and found family.

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +4

      I'm so glad you have that. And thank you!!!! 💛💛💛💛💛🙏

  • @noahmcgillivray9487
    @noahmcgillivray9487 Před rokem +1

    You’re awesome!

  • @wanderingrogue3039
    @wanderingrogue3039 Před rokem +1

    This video makes me feel heard

  • @kayla_Ra
    @kayla_Ra Před 10 měsíci

    thank you 🌻

  • @BLOPS2ps3
    @BLOPS2ps3 Před 21 hodinou

    How are you now? Just found your page on my feed. Seems you are doing super well in this video, atleast you already passed my goals

  • @joselinawilliams8603
    @joselinawilliams8603 Před rokem +6

    I needed this thank you💖🩵

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +6

      Thank YOU. I'm so glad this was helpful ❤️

    • @joselinawilliams8603
      @joselinawilliams8603 Před rokem +2

      @@boonewilliams5338 as a fellow Trans Lesbian Ik how you feel when it comes to this I love ur content because I myself struggle To maintain friendships and find a romantic partner I’m happy ur mom actually supports u some transgenders don’t and I’m one of them anyway keep up the good work

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +3

      @joselinawilliams8603 I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how hard that must be. That said, I know you will find your chosen family and with it, a sense of belonging and community. I am rooting for you always. 💛

    • @joselinawilliams8603
      @joselinawilliams8603 Před rokem +1

      @@boonewilliams5338 thank you that means a lot from you as I’m a huge fan of your content🩵💖

  • @KorithTheDestroyer
    @KorithTheDestroyer Před 2 měsíci

    I get it, I’m trans and pans but there’s a like homophobia and transphobia that kinda slips out bc I live in a Christian city, I still support tho ❤

  • @stevemitchell-vn6hp
    @stevemitchell-vn6hp Před 7 dny

    hi, i am janis and am also a transgender woman and lesbian too, pre hrt.

  • @Briannadawn20
    @Briannadawn20 Před rokem +1

    Washington D C is similar to LA as far as a lot of people are from many other cultures and places. When I lived there I was a cross dresser in my 20’s. Full support from wife and friends. On the street or in clubs I passed as biological women almost 100%. Now not so much only had the term and definition for about 3 1/2 years even though a friend of mine was trans and that was early 1990’s. Kinda wish I was still there. Circumstances don’t allow for that now. Best of luck

  • @spiritual1504
    @spiritual1504 Před rokem +1

    I really want to change my name and live trans but I’m ashamed 😢 because I don’t want to be judged 🌈 I don’t have any one to come to

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +2

      I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how difficult that must be. I know it's so hard right now, but I have great faith that with time, you will find chosen family and those that you feel comfortable being your authentic self around. It's a journey, and it isn't linear, but it DOES get better. I promise. 💛
      Wishing you the very best 💛💛💛

  • @miranda.cooper
    @miranda.cooper Před rokem +2

    A cute lesbian just hugged me! *gushes*

  • @kwahdomo9598
    @kwahdomo9598 Před rokem +2

    Excuse my complete ignorance but what is a trans lesbian ?

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +4

      A lesbian who also happens to be transgender. :)

    • @kwahdomo9598
      @kwahdomo9598 Před rokem +2

      @boonewilliams5338 thanks ! Educated ! 🙂

    • @boonewilliams5338
      @boonewilliams5338  Před rokem +4

      @@kwahdomo9598 it's my pleasure!! I'm always happy to answer questions. Thank you for asking! :)

  • @charleskesling4477
    @charleskesling4477 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm a trans woman who is attracted to women how can you tell if a woman is trans attracted

  • @terrancewagner164
    @terrancewagner164 Před rokem +1

    I am a transgender lesbian girl and still single Amanda

  • @timmusician5060
    @timmusician5060 Před 9 měsíci

    I always wonder if post op trans lesbians every have urges to use their old equipment on another woman.
    I assume that since your brain has female structures that maybe the part of the brain that’s wired to the genitalia is expecting to process the types of sensations a woman with female genitalia would experience. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @machinerin151
      @machinerin151 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Most trans girls don't really have that kind of connection to it mentally in the first place. So no, no such thing would ever occur for them. If one of the rare 20-30% who are even capable of getting hard originally get SRS - some regret it because of that feeling.
      I am a super rare one, where it is one of the main ways my sexuality gets expressed, I never met a trans girl exactly like me, everyone is so much more fembrained in this regard. I would never get SRS because of it. I would instantly regret it.

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 Před měsícem

      A biological female's anatomy isn't remotely replicated with SRS.
      Google it as I can't explain the obvious differences and details here on CZcams or my comment would be deleted.

  • @michaelp8995
    @michaelp8995 Před rokem +1

    Congrats I knew a guy that didn't get any attention from women but transitioned and has a lot of girls she sleeps with and friends and they are happier now

  • @weirdnotormaybe
    @weirdnotormaybe Před rokem +9

    So you are straight male?

  • @sophia6955
    @sophia6955 Před rokem +7

    So you couldn't get chicks as a dude?

  • @tungstenanderson5991
    @tungstenanderson5991 Před 11 měsíci +3

    You need to date each other.

    • @machinerin151
      @machinerin151 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Uhhh... we do, all the time?
      I am another trans lesbian and I have a trans girlfriend. Love her to bits and would die for her!