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Hey, altho some of these are uncommon, they are really good advices! That “steer clear of labels” really works for me and I love how honest you are with saying that you’re not there yet, but you will be! “I want harmony, not perfection” is one that really hit me and was also a good way of finishing the video, especially because I either see people being wayyyyyyy too much on the routines or no routine at all. But this is a nice approach to make it disciplines yet flexible! Thanks for the tips, lana! <3

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Hookups and casual sex is not a path you want to go down unless you wanna spend the later part of your life alone.

Things break. Borrow a tool box.

They're called minerals, Marie!

😤 that's gegachad🗿 thinking but cute 😍😍

You're so chill lol. :)

I can't understand why 2.6 or 26k, or constant coincidence this and that leaving me wondering why me . And still no answers leaving me tempted to regress even further and trust people less and less because nobody ever gets to the point or tells the truth. But I do. And you all confuse me. And I smoke cigarettes so why flag me about anything? Have a nice day anyhow.

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Hookup culture is going back to the animal kingdom for humans. It is the way that primitive cavemen and cavewomen mate before they travel in packs.😊

Hello! I saw a video on CNN reporting Chinese deepfakes on douyin...and saw Lana being deepfaked. If you already knew sorry to repeat, but it was very surprising 😮

your face made me calm this time , thank you for existing!

Pray to God he will provide to you

I don’t like being yelled that either, but setting that boundary makes me feel like a hypocrite because I also have a problem with yelling at people.

Yes!! Carl Jung talks about this

I don't get it....I try and try to be a decent person. I want to talk with wisdom, love and consideration for those I'm speaking to...and yet...they look away, or right through me whenever I speak. I don't feel like I matter unless I'm doing something for them. I'm a homemaker. I cook. I clean. I do laundry and shop for ingredients needed for special meals. Then I'm special. I have so many wonderful ideas. Then I'm special. I act silly sometimes and speak of comics, cartoons and other silly topics that I'm interested in. Then I'm nice to be around. I break the mask and come out as a person who knows she doesn't have a real job, but knows the values of hard work and do my best to earn my keep (in this day and age I don't want to have just a job where I'll be unhappy right now)...and I'm worthless. I pray for wisdom to speak and help others. I'm ignored. Why? Why don't I matter then? Everyone else gets their time to shine and speak, but I have to ask for a turn and still get ignored and talked over. I'm alone with no friends to speak to and can't tell anyone my troubles.

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Narcissistic and expect everyone show up to your birthday party ☝️ You expect everyone to show ip when you ask. Lots of people are like this. And they learned the hard truth after and during the lockdowns that they aren’t priority 😤

My takeaway from this video is the following: 1. we are all busy today because there is so much we can do by ourselves; 2. she dated for 10 years and has decided that her independence is more important; 3. there is not as much interest in marriage today like there was in previous times -- which is becoming a recurring theme.

The whole notion of “empowerment” in general is ridiculous. Empowerement is just a feeling and idea in your head, it’s whatever you believe it to be and has no impact on other people. You feeling “empowered” does make other people feel like you are powerful, you just look like someone potentially having a manic episode.

Modern dating via technology is basically equivalent to junk food; you know it's not good for you, yet you continue to eat it. Moreover, what is the actual value of a relationship today when another relationship is available to you without much effort? Basically, it's speed dating on a continuous loop and that's the underlying premise in designing these apps. The end result is frustration and a tendency to cause mental health issues in people. What was once a tradition is now basically a throwaway process. The way I see it, more and more people will remain single, yet continue investing their time into the apps to see if they can "find something better". Time marches on and that single 30 year old is now a single 40 year old and becomes so frustrated with the whole thing that he/she curses dating and vows to be single for life. That is the situation we are in now. This will mean that fewer and fewer people will get married, have children and have a need to buy homes. The ramifications of this will be great both in the short and long terms!

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Cool video but one part I disagree with mostly. Heard you mention guy friends and while I do not know your personal situation, I do not think in a general sense male and females can be friends. Most guys who don’t get girls (which is most guys these days) are definitely using the friendship as a long term play. If a girl wants to get a guy friend, you have to assess whether you think that guy has options. If he’s got options and he’s saying he wishes to be your friend it’s more believable cuz he doesn’t need you as a romantic interest. But if he’s got none and trying to be your friend, he’s lying about his interest in you and waiting for the right moment. He’s a grown man with no sexual options and he’s keeping this woman around as a “friend”, not very likely.

Female friendships is definitely difficult no matter which stage in life. I experience that right now and I’m scared to be 😩 lonely

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And yet becase you 'd be in the top 1% of population if rated for physical attractiveness YOU will STILL find and endless stream of people including obviously admirers of the opposite sex wanting to be around you and kocking on your door panting like thirsty dgs with their tongues out no mattwer HOW crap you treat them and unsociable your personality ! Thats just a ad fact of life and the Halo effect Now try pulling off introverted behaviour If you DONT rank in that top bracket of physical attractiveness if you want to know what Its REALLY like, how it can REALLY bite and what REAL loneliness is like Not because you started like that but you feel you have to protect yourself for example by having a mental illness , or a history of abusivve relationships ,or experienced a dysfunctional family uprbringing all leading to very low self esteem amd have suffered rejection constantly all your life whenever yuu have TRIED to be social in ANY sense making you ultra sensitive and scared to even function in social settings Physical attractiveness is the number ONE thing that effects our choice and number of social relationships and opportunities available NOT our actual personality This is just a fact , harsh ne, but a fact Thats why we have social media flooded with shallow obnoxious narssists with no talent but whi rank very highly In extreme physical attractivenss with MILLIONS of followers When others ihave a few thousand despite having REAL talent For examop[e I am a musiscian and see this all the time with the "guitar girl "channels , decent players , nothing specuial but with 50x the follwers of actaully incredibl uytalented players who are either less atrractive women or men pushing out REALLY great content Note I am NOT saying personality has NO effect, just that its NOT the actual most important factor when peoples beahviour amd traits are assesed abu others and they are categirised as someone who socially they want to be around or have relatiomshoos with of any kind You will be ALWAYS be judged very differently according to your level of physical attractiveness and this will create circular feedback loops that will THEN effect your personality making you more or less confident amd more likely to BECOME genuinely Introverted I wish we lived in a different world but at the moment as a species we are not that developed , me included Your channel iIs very good btw but if you were a bald middle aged man or a kes attractive physically givng exactly the same conteent you'd proibably be lucky to have a few thousand followers unless you were a world rekniwn ecpert or author in these subkects and even then you'd still never get near the subscribers you have niw , maybe a a couple of hundred thousand Thus is not an attack on you at all, its not your fault Its just the reality of things and I am saying this becasue knowing this It always makes it hard for me to take seriously Life, relationship and personality advice and content etc from a person who is in that top bracket of physical attractiveness becaue I know the lense the world see them through because of this and then in that feedbaclk loop THEY perceive the world may be very differernt feom 90% of people even though they don't realise this Again NOT your fault at all and I'm glad for you that you are doing so well , your content is very good

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As a life path 9, I will leave you with this, we seriously will never know it all. Be kind to others, have grace, and tell her she is immaculate ❤ even as she cries.

i miss home, i really cannot take it anymore. everyone in college is so fake, i just want to escape. nobody here is happy for me. everybody wants to compare. i worked hard, i didnt take anything away from anyone. I WORKED HARD I DESERVE EVERY BIT OF IT, why are these people making me feel like I dont deserve it, I hate it. I just want to go home

I've been saying this. People are becoming more and more selfish by the day

Yep. Such a messed up thing …

I love rule 1 - the way you chane negative statment to positive statment because I believe that gives supprortive feeling and then we are more likely to support good habits development. 🙂✔️

I like Lana, it saddens me that the man she ends up with is going to be a real drip. 😢

It’s very hard when you have ASD like me to have direct eye contact.

This is bullshit

Ok someone please tell us if hip dips are Scandinavian or Neanderthal or something????

something that I learnt to do is to distance myself from friends if I'm feeling insecure, envious, or just in a really bad headspace. This way I dont hurt my friends with possible passive aggressiveness and I dont hurt myself by saying/doing things I regret. While I think this is a good approach, it is so lonely and isolating. I crave companionship and friendship but knowing my friends are happier and living a "better" life then i am right now motivates me to stay away from them and not confide in them so they think I'm happy and living a good life. Its an ego thing and I hate it.

when men get ghoested its by their looksmatch when women get ghosted its by chad whos 4 points out of their league women have no right to complain about ghosting, it would never happen to them if they didnt have such high standards and entitlement

I was crying minutes ago, I went silent while watching you. especially, when I heard you saying "just keep swimming, just keep swimming...", the slight smile appeared on my face. that really relates to me. from my favourite book, and my best friend used to say this a lot to me, never felt how much it actually resonates with my situation, right now, I really needed to hear that, thank you so much...)

people are gonna hate me for this and probably gonna assume i'm here to advertise my religion, but i kid you not this is so hilarious to me because as much as America wants to be more positive and accepting of different stuff, Americans are the most insecure i have ever seen 😂 The hijab solves this issue by a landslide. Girls living on a land where everybody wears the hijab properly don't face these issues on the scale you guys are. Every girl will deal with these issues, it is very natural, but trust me when i say Saudi girls don't have these issues to such toxic levels like America. It's because they're all covered and women's bodies aren't getting compared and analyzed with each other every single second. Women aren't comparing other women, men aren't comparing other women, the female body is left sacred and not talked about. They want to compare, that's how the human brain is designed to work. Almost every single brain is comparing humans, faces, appearances, behavior, colors, etc. etc. Like it would be weird if your brain wasn't comparing appearances. And that's what the hijab isn't letting people do: comparing and making your own judgments, your own custom standards and your own custom expectations.

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I’m an introvert for life however I had some fake friendships just not to be lonely and I felt like I betrayed myself and I got involved in drama which is so much beneath me like I’d never do this on my own. Now I’m very picky when it comes to friends but it’s worth it :) Your friends need to have somewhat the same interests and the same way of thinking. I’m not saying you need to be each others copy but let’s say you’re an introvert it would be good if you would be friends with another introvert. If your friends with an extrovert you’re going to be dominated by them and you will feel really lonely inside and not like you’re truly you and then they will bring you so much useless drama like.

I’m an introvert for life however I had some fake friendships just not to be lonely and I felt like I betrayed myself and I got involved in drama which is so much beneath me like I’d never do this on my own. Now I’m very picky when it comes to friends but it’s worth it :) Your friends need to have somewhat the same interests and the same way of thinking. I’m not saying you need to be each others copy but let’s say you’re an introvert it would be good if you would be friends with another introvert. If your friends with an extrovert you’re going to be dominated by them and you will feel really lonely inside and not like you’re truly you and then they will bring you so much useless drama like.

I remember watching this last year when my cat passed away, I’ve been searching for it ever since

Thanks for introducing me to this book! Currently reading it right now and it provides insights to me and my current relationship. For some reason gives me sense of relief and security in my turbulence on my relationship

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