the 1-step guide to finally loving yourself.
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- love yourself sweetie
Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
01:41 - Define your moral compass
05:07 - Don't give discounts
06:14 - It's the actions that matter
06:39 - Give yourself grace
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it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest
The fact that Lana is so stunningly beautiful that she could just become a model and life off her looks, yet she decides to use her wisdom and to help others. If the world was blind, Lana, you'd still impress so many. Thank you for spreading your light.
oh wow this is so sweet. thank you for your kind words.
@@LanaBlakely i agree! Lana i deeply admire you and how wise you are 💕
Looks fade, wisdom is worth more.
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"I don't abandon myself for someone else" That quote was beautiful. Lovely take on self love.
" I don't abandon my self to satisfy someone else "
What if that "someone else" happens to be someone you love like your own child, significant other, parent, sibling or your best friend? Would you abandon yourself for their sake now? Would you do it if it was for the combined sake of literally everyone you love?
I am not saying that you shouldn't love yourself. You definitely should but I think that it is possible to take the idea of self-love too far and into the territory of plain selfishness and narcissism and it's not obvious to me where to draw the line between the two.
“Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is looking.”
I think about this every time I’m about to throw my apple core out the window.
It'll biodegrade anyway, a plastic bottle is a different story though.
"You do not abandon yourself to satisfy someone else"-SO TRUE
soo sorry the audio goes from loud to quiet during some parts. I was moving around quite a bit when filming and wasn't wearing a lav mic hehe, hope it's not too annoying. love you.
Didnt notice
No problem. Your audio doesn't annoy me at all. Thank you for such an important video about self-love. I love you too
Thanks! Definitely getting better at loving myself but that also means putting others down and walking away when you know you deserve better, sometimes we don't have to be the first one to be kind, especially when we are kind always, how about others be kind and respectful, show up and be present this time instead of hiding behind the scenes, give credit, give them what they deserve instead of putting them down, give them that promotion, that respect and credit they deserve, show them they are valued because that is what they need from you. Otherwise, walk away.
❤ support you!
Didn't even notice 22
I'm 21 and my whole life I was people pleaser now i come on stage that I don't want to please anyone I started to forgive myself and care more and take small steps everyday. Everyone deserve true love and kindness so be the person for yourself.
I used to blame myself and depressed many times.
But your sentence 'Don't give yourself, or people discounts' help me being more kind to me.
Thanks Lana.
"I don't abandon myself for someone else", a great quote! We should make sacrifices when needed, help each other, and so on, but abandon one self is the same as suicide even if the body and mind still lives on. But what is the point of life if you abandon yourself?
"I don't abandon myself to satisfy someone else". Wow that hit me well
When you love yourself you dont depend on others for anything
Positive Vibes to everyone here 🙌🏽✨🌻 We all deserve to be the best version of ourselves ❤ Love you Lana ❤
Love u Karla
As someone who is at sea level looking up at the mountain, I appreciate you sharing your experience to help those of us ascending/planning our own mountain. love.
I def really love your calm energy and slow videos. They resonate with me and makes me more willing to take everything in! 💗
you always release videos about exacly what I need in the moment. thank you so much for all your videos!
I’ve recently found this channel and lately I’ve been binging all your videos. I definitely feel like I neglected self love in the past and even now I feel like dumb mistakes in my past take over my mindset some times rather than focusing on where I want to go in life. I definitely think it’s good to take time and get to know yourself such as who is the person you want to be and what your goals are but if you beat your self up all the time that can be hard to do. I guess it’s all about balance with self care and holding yourself accountable
This was so needed. I need to learn how to say no and stick to it. Because actions speak louder than words. I gotta be there for myself
Much needed to hear this. Since last 2 days I've been beating myself up for saying no to a friend who always break my boundaries.
This video is such a relief to me❤
Thank you so much Lana❤❤❤
"I don't abandon myself for someone else😌"
Love this, Lana. Treating yourself with respect & love is imperative to a happy life! Awesome insight as usual. BTW, I thought the audio was fine.
Lana that was really powerful of you to say such things!! I will absolutely taking notes. As a people pleaser, i find this very helpful to help me love myself even more💗 Thank you for a billion times!
Another aweasome video of Lana full of excellent advice as always. I already listened to all your podcast I hope you will create more podcasts in the future, the topics you talked there were always compelling.
It can be so easy to fall into the trap of self-doubt and self-criticism, but your video reminded me of how important it is to take care of ourselves and to love ourselves for who we are💐💗💗
Your videos really help me to take good care of myself and my well being. It means a lot to me
This stuff is so powerful and liberating.
I have analysed many times where I treat myself harshly and overly critically and not the way I would treat someone loved.
I do care for myself but I guess it's time to pump it up.
Thanks a lot Lana!
Thank God this channel exists. I’ve been here for almost 1.5 years and I learned so much. Thanks Lana❤
I’m really happy I found your channel 🤍 I love your energy and content. Thank you 🫶✨
This video on self-love is so inspiring and empowering! It's easy to get caught up in negative self-talk and self-criticism, but the tips you shared remind us that we deserve to treat ourselves with love and compassion. I particularly appreciated the emphasis on setting boundaries and saying no to things that don't align with our values and goals. Thank you for sharing this important message and helping us all work towards greater self-love and self-acceptance.
Thank you for these videos Lana🧡 truly so insightful and comforting, packed with so much value and with your beautiful energy🤍 keep shining 🌻
Listening to your talking on any topic , always feels like a meditation to me soothing the mind and soul 🙏
Thank you for this, Lana. You have helped me so much in my journey of solidifying my character, healing my insecurities, and appreciating myself. You have taught me a lot. Thank you. 💗
I feel lucky to have found you and have you by my side in life as an advisor!
something I once found that really changed my view on self- love and my moral compass was "be the person you would ideally fall in love with". that made me reinterpret my definition of both self-love and love I can be given by someone else
Lana, its great that you decided to share your wisdom with everyone. At 71 years of age, I never met anyone like you. You are unique and special. Keep it up.
This channel is A GAME CHANGER. You inspired me to have my CZcams channel about weight loss and glow up , AND I GOT 48k VIEWS from 0 account. All thanks to you! I just stopped fearing and started to go forward + using all your tips!
thank you lana . i love everything about about your videos , the serenity watching you is priceless . I take notes everytime
You help me see the light for a better future, thank you always for your amazing messages
You have the most soothing voice, Lana. Yes, I figured self-love was a missing piece during my recent slump. I'm back at my feet again quite ready to conquer the world after being reminded that I simply have to be kind to myself. 👌
This is probably the best video I've seen on self love. Thank you. :)
Thanks for posting this video Lana, such wise words that I think I will need to refer back to often. 👍
Very well said, Lana! Couldn't agree more on what you've said.
Thank you for this.
💜💜💜 I just say thank you a million for being here. You are literally my soulmate💜💜💜
Your hair is so healthy! ❤Your video about self-love is a masterpiece. It contains lots of love and helpful advice which will lead to fulfillment in people's lives. You have a good heart. I am happy that you want me to love myself.
I've been struggling with being such of a pleaser (specially with my family) and the quote "i don't abandon myself for someone else" got me thinking of how i once told that to my mother and she told me that i must do things that make other people happy sometimes even do those make me feel like crap
I don't know why every time i watch your videos I feel I gained my energy back. I feel fresh and energetic. May God bless you with a beautiful life dear🤍
lana is so beautiful and intelligent, and speaks so well, if she starts giving advice, life can truly transform.
Your voice is really soothing, its always nice to listen to you 🤍
Honestly from my heart , wish you healthy, wealthy and peaceful life ✨
I consciously and by impromptu minimised window to check myself on learning from you Lana. True enough; you do have value lessons as I paid serious attention listening, pushing aside from visual judging looks. Congrats and Thanks for sharing your Value. Respect 🙏🍀 Subscribed.
Such a good video! For me personally, the hardest part about setting your boundaries is when people make you feel bad about that. For example, I don't eat meat and the amount of time people in my family try to make me feel weird or bad about it is insane. But I've learned to stick to my moral compass, even if it results in not being understood oder being perceived as somewhat different. Thank god, my friends are totally different. Also, about saying no: I often feel selfish when I say no to doing smth "because I don't feel like it", because I know it would make the other person happy if I did said thing. I definitely say yes too often.
What an amazing video! From one creator to another! Beautiful work! You are such an inspiration :)
I appreciate the openness and kindness in the video. The thing is that not all forms of self loathing or lack of self worth stem from the same causes. Unfortunately, it's extremely difficult for people who were raised by abusive parents or caregivers who showed them verbally or through their repeated actions that they don't deserve to be loved. That they are unworthy and a problem. I know we all go through serious issues in life which shouldn't be minimized but when a child's first contact with this world is made with people who instead of offering or trying to offer stability and love to them, either neglect them, resent them or otherwise live in a chaotic or physically or emotionally unsafe environment, it leads to that child unconsciously absorbing that stress or trauma and thinking of the world as an unsafe place and having extremely low self esteem. I know it's important to work on ourselves but it's also important to acknowledge that for a lot of people, the root of the issue is tied to childhood wounds. It's extremely difficult to heal them. I wish peace and healing to everyone reading this. May all our physical and emotional burdens be eased.
you’re insanely beautiful not only your looks but the way you speak and your personality
Hey Lana, Happy Sunday, I already know that this is going to be a great video!! Loving yourself is very important ❤❤hope you are doing well 💗 💜
So much practical and real life advice. By watching this video we understood what is the unconscious reasons for so much types of negativity we experience. Thanks a lot 👌👍☺️
I love watching video's on these topics as they serve as reminders for me. What youre embodying serves as an opportunity for me to jump into who i truly am, or who im working towards becoming whooo.
We are all just reflections for each other
It’s been so hard for me to love myself..I often get into uncomfortable situations because of it, I’m really grateful for this video, thanks Lana 💗
When I hear you explaining various things it calms my anxious heart and mind..I slow down and start to think about it in a better way rather than jumping to conclusions about myself which are mostly just my own thoughts.
Thank you Lana,in my life i tryed to love others and forget myself and your video makes me open again my eyse and soul to love my self and take care ty ❤️
You are such a sweetheart, beautiful with your experience with your grace and the power that you have in your softness. Keep inspiring us💗💗💗
I love your content in general, but this is my favorita video. I struggle with self love and I believe a lot of people do too, and this is so... basic
Honestly, thank you so much for sharing these humble and kind videos and life lessons ❤
I know it's a self-love video but I'm rooting for you too, Miss Blakely! love the "Don't give discounts" part, a very fresh perspective to look at things. :)
Omg Lana your hair is so beautiful 😭
This video was AMAZING. Thank you so so much for making this 🙏🏼💞🍉
I love how you talk slowly and you take your time to tell things . Whenever i watch your videos i feel relax 😌 thanks🇲🇦 🇲🇦 for everthing
Such a superb content that I found today, made me to comment. Lana, appreciate the content. I am also in my journey. Been struggling with rules for myself. With your video, I got a 100% clarity for what rules should be set. Thankyou so much for this!
Girlll you gotta show your hair routine...boy oh boy every time it looks so good and I've always admired it! love the video btw!
Apart from the fact that you are pretty, which is obvious. I like how you stimulate people's minds with your wisdom. Your values and concepts of life are immensely deep and thought provoking, in this insta glam world. Keep up the good spirit and continue your work. Cheers Lana!
We need people like Lana to lighten up and rejuvenate the lives of thousands of people across the world. Great video and highly motivating for youngsters! Keep it up Lana!
Thank you for this video Lana! Can you make a video about unlearning not-so-nice attitude from parents? Or like managing your emotions in general?
Thank you for the tips you've gave to us. It's useful to me.
At First I used to watch your vids (frankly anyones') at 2x😌
Now I realised that the speed u are talking in naturally has a reason and i am able comprehend more
The way you style your hair is gorgeous!
Those words made my anxiety goes away, thank you
This video actually hit me pretty good. I did start to cry some. I’ve starting this journey prior to watching this video and it just reinforced what I need to start doing. I’ve put past relationship people ahead of myself and let them damage me. I been single two years cause I walked away from a relationship where that person told me basically they didn’t feel the same way I did about them. When i tried to break up with them they didn’t want to break up. But I choose to still walk away. I couldn’t be in a relationship like that cause I know what I’m worth. It was extremely hard but I did it for myself. Anywho I need to learn this all over again before I start dating again. Good video!
I’ve created a world where saying no is like gaining more time. Time is the most precious thing on Earth even if I use it to do nothing at all.
This Sundays uploads are a vibe
Definitely beautiful , your face glows like a flower does in the sunshine. And u have a great way of explaining and clarifying 😍
Thanks Lana is teaching us how to live. This video is going to favorites bar in Chrome!
The advice I need right now. Thanks for sharing.
I feel like self love is also really abt acting with others the way you want people to act with you. When you act good to others you are more likely to stand up for yourself when people disrespect you or make you uncomfortable. It helps you being in peace with yourself and knowing that because you are a good person you genuinely deserve to be treated well.
Thank You Lana for this amazing video ☺
The definition of real self love is defined by her ❤ each word is insightful
i share your idea
Lana changed my life for the better.
Her message of self-love and acceptance is something that everyone needs to hear, and her tips for cultivating a positive self-image are both practical and effective. I especially appreciated her emphasis on the importance of self-compassion and forgiveness, as these are often overlooked in discussions of self-love. This was a refreshing reminder that we are all worthy of love and acceptance, and that it is never too late to start loving ourselves
Thank you Lana Blakely. I am your big fan from China. I really love the way you talk, just like a slow stream. Watch your video really comfort me a lot. I will always remember the phrase that don't abandon yourself to satisfy someone else. I learn a lot from your video, grateful to you all the time!
I'm a fan of Lana at this point. I'm waiting for her to write a book so I can have her on my book shelf.
watching your hair is a joy
It's really hard to love myself but I'll start doing these tips and i hope it works 🖤
i always find these videos funny. it's easy to love yourself when you look like that. this shallow world gives value to you. but how could you love yourself if no one else did? that's something you can pretend to understand, but you'll never.
Exactly. It gets to a point where the type of shit that she preaches, sounds juvenile and shallow.
Once you find people that truly love you , you will notice they don't love you for your looks they love you for what's inside. "People won't always remember how you looked or what you did but they'll always remeber how you made them feel" love yourself by feeling confident and proud of what's inside and not outside. ❤
holy cow, you have 1.36 million subs now ! I remember barely 50k !!! so happy . . 👍🏼
Tack Lana! Behövde verkligen det här
Lana is truly elegant & beautiful, very calming voice & always offering good sensible encouragement. ❤❤❤❤❤
I love that so much 💜💜💜 Thank you Lana 💘
please bring back The Lana Blakely Podcast to life 😭💜 I'll keep refreshing till I see a new episode 💜
Thank you so much! I needed that ❤
Thank you so much for he video
due to sitting all day and studying for the last 2 years, i have gained weight a lot. When i went to shopping for clothes today i found myself almost crying in the fitting room and it sucks honestly
Lana uploads gotta stop what I’m doing and watch this, so let’s find out what I’m doing wrong with my life and how to improve.
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kinda needed exactly this today, thank you!
This girl is just the definition of perfect. So mature,highly intellectual, very beautiful she is just perfect has the most calmest voice ever... bro I just love her ❤
The problem is there's only one of her
Lana is the definition of beauty and brains!!!! Slayyyy queen ❤⚡️
Yeah just now realizing this, after tired of being hurt by someone else actions. When the whole time I just need to focus on myself.