I have trouble making conversations with my friends like even when I try to say something it feels like they are not interested You guys have any tips ?
0:47 - Develop new skills 🌱 2:14 - Get comfortable with being uncomfortable 💪 4:50 - Push yourself to do things that scare you 🚀 5:31 - Accept and acknowledge certain emotions until they go away 🧘 7:36 - Be open to talking to strangers/network 🗣 8:06 - Let go of perfectionism 🚫 10:54 - Create routines ⏰ 12:18 - Take care of your inner and outer appearance 💅 13:43 - Work on your posture 🤸 14:55 - Create another version of you until it becomes you 🔄 17:20 - Use the "Okay and?" mentality 🤔 18:03 - Realize this life is temporary ⏳ 18:48 - Realize how weird other people are 🤪 20:11 - Limit your social media 📵 22:04 - Realize you are not that important 🚫 23:25 - Love yourself while in the process ❤ 24:13 - Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love 🗣 25:44 - Walk into places like you own the place 🚶 27:31 - You don't need to prove yourself 🙌 29:20 - Realize you know nothing and be willing to learn from others 🤓 29:37 - Stop trying to "fill in" and really listen to people 👂 31:08 - God always provides 🙏
@Sofia Sofi no one can teach you anything until you let go of your prejudice and inferiority complex that you have the need to diminish others because you can't accept the truth, would we listen to you? Picking at a woman for having beauty procedures and making fun of her accent while she speaks more languages than you probably lmao how shallow! Touch some grass.
@Sofia Sofi if u are here to complain then leave also, change your mind. surgery doesnt change the fact that she can teach about confidence, if that (or her) doesnt resonates with u then stop watching and stop judging peoples appearence and STOP BELIEVING THAT SOMEONE CANT TEACH ABOUT CONFIDENCE OR SELF LOVE JUST BC THEY HAVE GET SURGERY, 🤍.
i think the phrase “if the highest version of yourself wouldn’t do it then don’t do it” has single-handedly changed my life. i’ve been applying this all morning and oh my god i feel like a new person already BLESS u liz
@@Bioassassin_ i have a really vivid idea of the kinda person i wanna be so when i ask myself that question, i feel like subconsciously i already know the answer. it just makes it really easy for me and i just do it. it’s hard to explain in a comment but yeah 🤭
@@Bioassassin_ that's easier to imagine than you think. it's just about being present and asking yourself that question. you don't think it's easy to tell if the best version of yourself would be eating a terribly unhealthy meal or sitting around all day being lazy or having a messy unorganized life?
OUT OF ALL HONESTLY YOU'RE THE ONLY CZcamsR I TRUST MY LIFE WITH, YOU JUST SAY FACTS, SCOLD US, PRAISE US, TEACH US, MAKE US LOVE OURSELVES, YOU MADE ME SUPER CONFIDENT, ILY LIZ FR, YOU ARE MY THERAPIST!
This is an incredible message. I have been on CZcams for many years and this is the first time I've ever commented on a video or felt compelled too. Keep spreading your message and uplifting other humans! Loving yourself is SO SO healing. Speaking love into yourself is what heals us. My life has started to change in incredible ways and I've been working on these things and hearing your perspective was a wonderful reminder. PREACH!!!
Your words are powerful! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I’m sure a lot of people who watched this got something valuable that will help them become confident and build the courage to aspire more and be the BEST version of themselves. 🥰
liz is the real deal, there is no fancy editing or some silly intro, she gets straight to the point and they are VALID asf. liz is a blessing for us, before i always check if liz uploaded and im so glad she uploads more often now
I’m literally going through a break up and every time I’m about to have a break down I watch Liz and feel so much better. God just sent her to me in the right time. God bless you Liz Nshalla
I’m so glad I found this woman in a really dark time in my life. Her words and affirmations have made me realise that I want to change and I need to change. Hopefully I can look back on this comment in a couple years and think yeah, I did that
Stop with the affirmation crap. It should come from deep down inside of you. Writing down or watching those stupid manifestation vids are of no use. External motivation is useless in the long run.
she is not really saying anything useful, apart from bragging about herself in order to feel better. The only way out is just to be a decent human being. Wish you well.
I just wanted to say thank you. I've been a single mom to a 5 year old. I spent the past 5 years staying home raising her. I got my registered dietitian license a year ago right when she started preschool I had plans to go back to work. Never planned that she was going to be sick the whole entire time in preschool. Ended up not returning to work because we were sick nonstop. She just started kindergarten and thankfully hasn't been sick. I started my resume and looking for work. I NEEDED this video. My drive and confidence hasn't been the greatest. I've been in mom mode for 5 years and now going back into the work force has been a struggle. Thank you Liz. May blessings and good vibes come your way❤
I just deleted Instagram and TikTok. Watching this made me realize that the only thing those two social media platforms did for me is make me feel insecure about myself and make me distracted from my goals. No positive things at all. Thank you so much, Liz. I genuinely appreciate you and your advice that you give out. I hope to one day become the best version of myself too. Continue to be amazing!
@@aishalol it not that hard it used to be cool before but tiktok is getting weird and toxic each day delete it if it not helping but making you feel insecure
0:46 - Develop new skills 2:13 - Get comfortable with being uncomfortable (fave moments: 2:41, 3:05, 3:29, 4:14, 4:35) 4:49 - Push yourself to do things that scare you (fave moments: 5:08) 5:31 - Accept and really feel certain emotions until they go away 7:36 - Be open to talk to strangers/network (fave moments: 7:52) 8:06 - Let go of perfectionism 10:53: Create routines (fave moments: 11:46) 12:17 - Take care of your inner and outer appearance (fave moments: 13:21) 13:43 - Work on your posture 14:55 - Create another version of you until it becomes you (fave moments: 16:25) 17:20 - Use the "OK AND?" mentality 18:03 - Realise this life is temporary (fave moments: 18:29) 18:48 - Realise how weird other people are 20:11 - Limit your social media 22:04 - Realise you are not that important 23:25 - Love yourself whilst on the process 24:13 - Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love (✨ 25:23/25:43) 25:44 - Walk into places like you own the place 27:31 - You don't need to prove yourself (27:41/28:37, 28:09) 29:20 - Realise you know nothing and be willing to learn from others 29:36 - Stop trying to "fill in" and really listen to people (30:03, 30:30) 31:08 - God always provides
Liz, thank you for your wisdom and reality checks. Girl, I can’t even tell you how much your words impacted my life and opened my eyes, ill forever be grateful. Thank you again 🙌🏻
liz, this video has empowered me so much you have no idea. to see a woman so strong and confident be so transparent about her own struggles and insecurities through life makes me feel like life is possible. when you opened up about social anxiety and your fear of blushing, you spoke to my soul. it has controlled my life for so long and to that i say NO MORE!!! bless you for the work you do for those of us that need extra help to get through this crazy thing called life. you are AMAZING.
I actually watched this whole thing without skipping anything whatsoever , this is usually so hard for me but she actually makes an incredible amount of sense and actually makes me feel motivated for life
Please don’t ever take this down. This is the most open beautiful transparent conversation about confidence in relation to society. Thank you I will watch this every time I feel afraid to do something. Truly inspiring thank you sis.
As a 16 year old girl, this women is changing my life. I've been watching her videos for a couple months now and even though it's a struggle, I'm becoming more and more into the person I want to be. It's amazing seeing powerful women like her. I appreciate her for all she does.
why do people think this is cringey? this video is so inspiring, it actually helped me. at first, i was like, "theres no way im gonna watch a 30 minute video" but i did, and i dont regret it
Never have I ever watched and listened to a video with the concentration I did with yours . I'm very grateful to God that i came across this video. Thankyou liz .God bless you ❤
Every time I watch one of your videos I feel more confident. You’re doing a lot of good for a lot of people. I came across one of your videos when I was looking for “how to clear your energy” and i scrolled past it because I didn’t have time. But tonight I was in the car driving so I was like let me see what she has to say…Girl! 😮 Damn right this is valuable! You’re sharing priceless info. God bless CZcams 🙏🏼
🙏 I hope this might help you🙏 0:47--DEVELOP NEW SKILLS 2:14--GET COMFORTABLE WITH BEING UNCOMFORTABLE 4:50--PUSH YOURSELF TO DO THINGS THAT SCARE YOU 5:31--ACCEPT AND THE REALITY FEEL CERTAIN EMOTIONS UNTIL THEY GO AWAY 7:36--BE OPEN TO TALK TO STRANGERS/NETWORK 8:06--LET GO OF PERFECTIONISM 10:54--CREATE ROUTINES 12:18--TAKE CARE OF YOUR INNER AND OUTER APPEARANCE 13:43-- WORK ON YOUR POSTURE 14:55--CREATE ANOTHER VERSION OF YOU UNTIL IT BECOMES YOU 17:20--USE THE "OKAY AND?" MENTALITY 18:03--REALISE THIS LIFE IS TEMPORARY 18:48--REALISE HOW WEIRD OTHER PEOPLE ARE 20:11--LIMIT YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA 22:04--REALISE YOU ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT 23:25--LOVE YOURSELF WHILST IN THE PROCESS 24:13--TALK TO YOURSELF LIKE YOU WOULD TALK TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE 25:44--WALK INTO PLACES LIKE YOU OWN THE PLACE 27:31--YOU DON'T NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF 29:20--REALISE YOU KNOW NOTHING AND BE WILLING TO LEARN FROM OTHERS 29:37--STOP TRYING TO "FILL IN" AND REALLY LISTEN TO PEOPLE 31:08--GOD ALWAYS PROVIDES
It just really feels like she's talking to you as an induvial, her voice her wording, facial expression, just so real. She's straight to the point, tells us what we need to hear. I love this channel.
Liz, I love you.. I was lost before I knew you. But now I feel comfortable and confident, and people’s opinions don’t matter to me. Thank you. Your words were enough to change the course of my life ❤❤
honestly this girl makes me feel so motivated to just step out of my comfort zone and i love her. If she had a podcast i would listen to it whenever i could
JESUS CHRIST is LORD and He loved us while we were still sinners to die for our sins and be raised from the grave for our justification as the sinless, perfect Lamb of GOD, Who takes away the sin of the world, fulfilling the righteousness that the law requires, which we, sinners by nature, could never fulfill. for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD. however in this present age, we may now be saved by the grace of GOD through faith in Him alone, followed by the act of repentance or the turning away from all of our sins. we must be born again. JESUS CHRIST is the Way and the Truth and the Life.
living my whole life with perfectionism and the mentality of what others will think of me if I do this, say this and blah blah, this was the kind of content I needed to see the most. Im trying hard to make a better version of me and I know that I lack in many ways especially when I find it so hard to interact with people. Im working on making good new habits to improve myself and become comfortable doing them. It is a long way to become the highest version of me but it feels really good walking in this path. Thank you liz❤
The encouragement to challenge myself and view difficulties as opportunities for growth has been a pivotal aspect of my journey to enhance self-esteem. Embracing challenges has become a stepping stone to self-improvement.
it's crazy how just one video of yours can be applied to many different aspects of my life - academics, sports, friendships, my appearance and so much more. I'm truly grateful I discovered your channel because from the first video I watched of yours I have gradually started to become the best version of myself.
Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable made me a bit more confident than I was before. Recently started wearing hijab tho I always wore fitted western dresses . I was unsure if I would really be able to maintain this lifestyle . I was thinking of wearing hijab for a long time , but all the time I just said to myself, *no no I'm not ready , I'm still not comfortable* then just suddenly one day I realized if I wait to be comfortable I would never be able to be comfortable, I have to be uncomfortable and push myself in order to be comfortable*. Alhamdulillah now I wear hijab with much more confidence and I love it .
Almost everyone, including the media, is anticipating a market catastrophe, and as a result, many are turning a blind eye to the opportunities in the market. I recently began investing in stocks and it was the best choice I've ever made. If you genuinely want to be financially secure, disregard everything the media is suggesting. The market offers a lot of chances. Maximize your use of it
@@anilhettiarachci8467You can make a lot of money from the market regardless of what occurs, whether it strengthens or crashes. The key is to be well positioned, and that's what matters most.
Every woman who uses CZcams is lucky. We're lucky you decided to share your knowledge and grace us with your existence, Liz. Thank you so much. I'm not where I want to be but because of you, I started moving and I will keep moving.
I’m not someone who cries easily but this whole video made me teary eyed. I don’t ever remember watching a video of someone talking and literally LISTENING to their words for 33 minutes straight without a break. I don’t know what else to say. I don’t know if “thank you” is enough. You are a brilliant person.
I don’t usually comment.. But this video literally made me feel things. It made me change the confident that I already have, yeah sure I’ve always been confident, but I always felt like something more is missing. But after finding this video it made me change the confidence I had. Thank you, thank you Liz and everyone else who’s reading this. Sometimes life can get really complicated, but we all get through it. Never give up guys! (:
I'm currently trying to overcome my social anxiety. I found out about this channel about a month ago when I was in a rut. This summer was one of the worst depressive episodes i've had in a minute and it made me feel like I was a loser and a failure. I constantly was comparing myself to my older sister, was comparing myself to my peers, comparing myself to those younger than me and became obsessive over my appearance. I hated going outside, I hated social interactions. Leaving my room felt like a death sentence and don't even get me started on my personal hygiene lol. I had NO energy and I would wake up feeling so tired. Writing my manuscript felt like a chore and I am a passionate writer with a vision to make it big in this world. i HAD to get a grip, and before you say 'you can't just snap out of mental illness.' I get it I've been there. It was a shitty process and I'm still going through the process. I started praying again and getting closer to God. I changed my medication and psychiatrist. I changed my perspective on life. I realized what I can do is enough for me and I do NOT have to prove myself to others. I don't have to sacrifice myself just for other's comfort etc. I do not have to conform to society's expectations of me. This realization took YEARS. Liz is correct. No one cares. I used to feel like everyone was looking at me and judging me negatively. I used to go to the extent of memorizing and practicing how I should move in public out of fear of being laughed at. Honestly, none of this matters in the grand scheme of things. Just be yourself, try doing things you alone enjoy, but do not burn yourself out, do what makes you happy, rest, drink water, and listen to your body and your mind. Amazing video!! 💞💞💞
Currently going through a very similar thing; depressive episodes, comparing myself to peers/sisters, obsessing over my appearance, etc. My social anxiety and depression have stopped me from doing so many things in my life and I am ready for a change. I'm happy you're changing your mindset and perspective on life, for the better and starting to see progress. This comment has inspired me to start my journey today. You got this and we're in this together!!!!
Hey girls, just wanted to say that I've been through similar stuff and actually still going through it though I am improving. With time, it's getting better but there are still days that I feel so defeated, however, we can't give up! I am also ready for change and the effort it will need! Let's do it, we got this!!!
@@soniamanzoor22 I definitely feel better knowing that I'm not alone. It's day 3 and I'm struggling, so your comment really means a lot. It is actually shocking seeing how many people relate to what we're going through, but I know that all of this hard work over time will pay off. Thank you for the encouragement! We got this :)
@@paige3316 Yes! You are not alone. I’m going through the same stuff it’s hard for me to get over some of the stuff my my past etc. Knowing that I’m not alone helps me realize that I’m not going thought this by myself. :)
I have to say nowadays lizz videos have become the morning routine for me ❤ Thanks for being straight to the point and telling us what is important to our life I'm really greatfull to you Lizz ✨
Liz, you are just so pulchritudinously perfect and your advice is so ineffable. I literally am turning my life around and it’s because of your advice. I’m moving out in a couple months(I’m 18)and tbh I can’t wait to make a mark on the world using all I’ve been learning from you. I literally love you❤❤❤❤thank you so much
every time liz posts i get so excited because her videos have been helping me so much with improving myself and becoming the highest version i can possibly be. i love her sm, THANK YOU LIZ 💗
28:13 "they won't understand you because, the vision is not for them, it was given to you" this made me cry ♡ "God always provides" "there is no good or bad, it's fate"
This is the first time watching ur videos liz. I got addicted. I listened to every single world u said. brought my confidence up, and watching u everyday will for sure change my life,And make it better. Thank you so much Liz!
My adopted family don't care about what I do. So I'm living life without judgement. I used to be ashamed, but I realize I was set up for failure as a child. Now at 38, free from the toxic family and can't wait to succeed on everything I want!!
I had social anxiety so I listened to her this summer,to become confident, and completed a 6 week boarding school academic program(roommate and all). I feel waaaayyy more confident in public now by allowing myself to feel uncomfortable in a new environment during the summer program. She is right guys, try something out of your comfort zone, its scary and difficult at first but you’ll love yourself more after I swear…it can even be a new hobby like crochet tbh(become a crochet god haha)
omg I did the same thing. I used to have really bad social anxiety and could not even buy groceries alone, then i went through 5vmonths of therapy and then went to a boarding school with roomates as well. I’m a completely changed person and have never looked back. Proud of u for doing the same it takes a lot of bravery and hard work
In july 14th this year, i went to Englands Thorpe Park theme park, and i felt scared to go on a quite tall 130ft coaster called the swarm, my hands were shaking but i went and did it anyways and i loved the drops i loved the twists and turns and i loved the adrelanine rush. i felt more brave to do even more rollercoasters then.
I started feeling anxious around people for no reason, wasn’t always like this but honestly ever since listening to her I feel much more better and more confident. It’s like i became a different person.
I don't usually comment on videos but I wanted to say that ever since I watched your video ("this video will change your live"), I started taking care of myself and my future and REALLY giving me the chances to achieve what I want. Before that, I was in such a bad place and I didn't gave me the recognition I needed. You radiate a nice and confident energy, and right now i'm just becoming more and more powerful over me and my future in general. You really is amazing at giving advice, love you!
This is what i called a rare treasure on youtube : straightforward, transparent, no BS, empowering. truly inspiring woman, thank you and please keep sharing a piece of your beautiful mind. The world needs it.
Yes I agree, it’s so rare to find on CZcams now, she’s special 😌 I also recommend the channel Love Your Natural, she also gives off pure and authentic vibes, her advice is so good, her mindset reminds me of Liz’s💞
Beauty, confidence, humility, and knowledge all fit under the name Liz. I truly love you and I believe that I will make myself more sophisticated by applying your information. Thank you for being there, Liz.
I can’t believe I’m barely listening to you I’ve seen u 2 years ago but never really watched your videos and wow u are definitely going to help me get out of this rut I’m in. Your words I will apply everyday to my life like I use to when I was happy and I had my power! I can do this I will do this and I will be happy and win in the end! The kind hearted always win in the end !❤
17 year old male here. I'm honestly still trying to find my place. I've internalized the bullying I've received for years and see myself as a loser because that's what I've always been told. Rewiring that horrible kind of mindset is one of the hardest things Ive gone through and this video is so helpful to me. One of the things that helps is looking at myself in the mirror and flexing, standing with perfect posture, seeing myself as someone ELSE, a sort of alter ego. I take my glasses off to blur it, to help imagine myself as someone else. In that moment I force myself to see myself as someone else, someone's who's confident and carries himself highly. When I'm in public and start to feel low of myself, I keep the image of the person I saw in that mirror and remember who I am.
you're amazing and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I think the method you're using is really smart in fact I might even try it out myself so thank you! but yh stay strong bro you got this and one day you will be that person who you admire and love and are proud of so keep it up :D
the scolding made me feel embarrassed but, at the same time, it opened my eyes. comfort zone really fucked me up without me even noticing, and the idea that for becoming who i want to be, i need to do things that i don't want to is necessary. thank you liz, every video of yours help me so much 💖
How to be hot and confident? - ever wondered what we actually speaking about? How to be lusted for and fornicated on. - is there any way mankind could be more sick or was the limit reached? Whom there is of risk to mate for? THE TARES whom are to the public known as the "lizard people" , the aliens . Biblically are they known as: the tares the fallen angels the Nephilim's There are not just humans out there. Earth is much crazier place then that. czcams.com/play/PLHYOKu9d9bz5azWnKymBiZMO_braY0AVr.html Rather then hot and confident, humble is what we must become. Souls, know and understand these bible verses: 1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. Acts 15:29 That ye abstain from meats offered to idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication: from which if ye keep yourselves, ye shall do well. Fare ye well. 1 Corinthians 5:1 It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife. Acts 15:20 But that we write unto them, that they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from fornication, and from things strangled, and from blood. Acts 21:25 As touching the Gentiles which believe, we have written and concluded that they observe no such thing, save only that they keep themselves from things offered to idols, and from blood, and from strangled, and from fornication. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: In shot, all the one night stand, you all practice, ain`t even with a human being. And abut the timeline, we live in, GOD clears out that there be time, in which: Luke 23:29 For, behold, the days are coming, in the which they shall say, Blessed are the barren, and the wombs that never bare, and the paps which never gave suck.
Liz! You're stunning! I'm so grateful for you ! I've learned so many important things from you! You're a miracle ❤ Thank you God for creating the wonderful person who is Liz!❤
This is exactly what I needed, i’m not confident at all and watching this made me realise how sad my life is. thank you for giving me a reality check that no one else has. I’m going to improve myself
This is a my takeaway from this video and what i learned! -DEVELOP NEW SKILLS. -WHEN DISCIPLINING AND DOING SOMETHING SKILL BASED, FELINGs SHOULD BE OFF. -GET COMFORTABLE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE. Thats how you will improve yourself. Thats how you get better at something. Thats how you become confident in something. -PUSH YOURSELF. Give yourself new limits when you keep growing. -ACCEPT AND REALLY FEEL CERTAIN EMOTIONS UNTIL THEY GO AWAY. BE OPEN TO TALK TO STRANGERS/NETWORKING. God might send you certain people to interact with. -LET GO OF PERFECTIONISM. Perfectionism is centered around what others think, and constantly being concerned with that limits you from what you can achieve. -CREATE ROUTINES. Routines organize your mind. “An organized mind is an organized life” -liz. -TAKE CARE IF YOUR INNER AND OUTER APPEARANCE. Not caring about how you take care of yourself outside and inside is a form of disrespect towards yourself. So taking care of yourself and prioritizing yourself will make you respect yourself, and others respect you as well :) -WORK ON YOUR POSTURE. If you’re moving, playing sports it really helps with posture. -CREATE ANOTHER VERSION OF YOURSELF UNTIL IT BECOMES YOU. Visualize your highest self. What do they do? What do they act like? What do they think? What are their hobbies? Whenever you do something think “Is this what the highest version of myself would do?” and slowly you will become her/them/him by pretending to be them. -USE THE “OK, AND?” MENTALITY. Why is failure bad? Its really good and that means you can start over. Do it again and again until you get it. Don’t let failure stop you from being who you wanna be. -REALIZE THIS LIFE IS TEMPORARY. Do you want to waste your time and energy worrying about what others think. Put that energy into improving yourself -REALIZE HOW WEIRD PEOPLE ARE. Everybody has something weird, unique, and quirky about them. Nobody is perfect. Its beautiful and its human! So accept and embrace it. -LIMIT YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA. Especially if you are very insecure. Social media tells how we are supposed to be and look. It will make you feel very bad about yourself. -START REALIZING THAT YOU ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT. This realization frees you. Everybody really only focuses on themselves. -LOVE YOURSELF THROUGHOUT THE PROCESS. Love yourself in every stage of your growth because you deserve it. You’re improving yourself throughout so enjoy and embrace that. -TALK TO YOURSELF LIKE YOU WOULD TAKE TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE. Say affirmations and compliment yourself, flatter yourself! Its a huge booster. If you talk passionately and treat others with love then why is it weird to do it to yourself? In order for someone to love you, you have to love yourself. -WALK INTO ANY PLACE LIKE OWN THE PLACE. -YOU DONT NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF. If you have good intentions and a good mindset, that itself is good enough. Don’t look for validation, bc if u do u wont get what u want. If u think what your doing is good thats enough to accomplish what u want to do. -REALIZE YOU KNOW NOTHING AND BE WILLING TO LEARN FROM OTHERS. Knowledge is beautiful. -STOP TRYING TO “FILL IN” AND REALLY LISTEN TO PEOPLE. Really process and think about what someone has said to you instead if solely reacting to it. People can teach you beautiful things. Really listening and not hearing is how you can learn beautiful things. -THE UNIVERSE ALWAYS PROVIDES. Say this as an affirmation. The universe/god always has a plan, trust it because its for your best. Realizing this can make you powerful!! Thank you so much liz, you have helped me so much and i am so grateful! Also hope this list helps others as well!
Sorry about my English. i just want to share my story.I was very shy and always feel ashame about myself about my look when i was in higschool. But then i met a good teacher she taught me a lot, not just about knowledge she also teach and give me everything about life and lessons. She pushed me to do things that i've been always scared of for years. Right now im confident to do and learn anything that im not good at and do the best about things im good at. Be confident is a key to helps you be successful much easy in your work, your life.
Please don’t take this lightly. You have changed my life. You have changed my perspective. Not even cancer could do that to me, I have been depressed and disappointed with myself. Unable to forgive myself for my mindset and unable to forgive my body for feeling like it betrayed me. You have helped me to heal in ways I could never fully explain but I thank you deeply, from the bottom of my heart. I finally feel i can enjoy being alive. I’m only in my 30s but felt horribly old. All has changed thanks in part to you.
Her videos were the inspiration, she didn't change anything, you did! Give yourself more credit because you're doing so so amazing by trying to change for the better. It's even harder when dealing with serious health conditions/diseases aswell as struggling mentally. You're doing so well and I wish you all the best, you deserve to get better and to live a wonderful life! I wish you all the best 💕
i watched this whilst finishing off my workout, doing my skincare and doing my hair and honestly i feel sm better and ima definitely start tomorrow off like its a fresh beginning, this was so mind-opening and honestly im so glad i clicked on this ngl
@@alishkaduwadi7928 yea i finished everything i had to do whilst watching the video and then i kinda like started the next morning as like a fresh start ig
@@PaulGrunschild im bein serious i finished everything i had to do whilst watching this vid and honestly some of the things she said stuck w me and ive watched a few of her other videos along side this one and im definitely more confident in myself now
I love how you said: i'm like a cockroach, you try to kill it but she comes back multiplied 😅😅 it'll become my life mantra.. im so glad i discovered your channel
thank you for delivering these powerful statements to us! it effectively reached my heart! you are really an amazing person and i hope you never get tired of showing how awesome and valuable your words are! love youuu^^
This woman needs an award for motivating insecure and lost souls! This made me realise that the world doesn't end if something upsetting happens. Girl u made this video and made me feel GREAT!!!! Thank you DO MUCH for opening my eyes 💗
i was procastinating while studying and she motivated me to actually study! because shes right yk. i was always an F student and now ive become an A student but i feel like im so scared of studying that i leave it for the last moment and then regret it. super happy i found this video :D
Procrastination is also a really big issue for me, mostly because of Importer's Syndrome. I feel so useless and not good enough sometimes I feel exhausted from just thinking about the work I need to put in to get good results . But I noticed that once I acknowledge that" yes I won't always feel good enough or intelligent enough, I do get mostly very good results" it gets easier to deal with the not so good grades
You know what Liz, you describe the confidence issue in the most realistic way ever. You talked about the most common obstacles we face to build confidence in a powerful way! I was really facing this problems like major obstacles. You are right, God provides always. If we face any downfall in life it's for a reason. I got a issue that I Couldn't handle downfalls in my life and breakdown comes very badly. But Now, From your words, I can accept this situation and move forward. Appreciate your words The wizard Liz. Love from Bangladesh ❤
i never realised that humans were wired for comfort as opposed to happiness but it truly makes so much sense, understanding this is the key to discipline
I don't usually comment but, oh my god, I have never felt this good after listening to someone. I literally did not want her to stop talking, it was as if somebody was actually knocking some sense into me and telling me to JUST BE CONFIDENT AND STOP WORRYING WHAT OTHERS MIGHT THINK. I appreciate you Liz, in so many ways. Thank you and utterly grateful. More power to you. :)
i'm in a really low point of my life, where i struggle every day, but listening to her made me realize i'm not actually doing anything to change that. this video was a huge motivation for me to start getting things done and really change my life for the better. i know she doesn't really look at the comments, but i'm just really grateful this video showed up to me. to other people trying to become the best version of themselves, i hope you also find peace and motivation in this video, wish you guys all the best. :)
Thank you for all you do, I appreciate it. You are genuine, sincere in helping others. Most people would charge for this type of help but you are freely giving it away to us. God bless you and your family for all you do. I have fallen into a terrible rut and you give me hope to start again. I was telling people to be careful with the people around them they can literally steal your energy and drain you of everything. It’s hard to explain but I’m sure you know what I mean. I have learned to keep myself away from those type of people and God has been warning me I should of listened to what he was trying to tell me and also its not good telling people your goals and dreams there are people that will actually jinx you. Like I said you have restored hope in me and I’m going to get up and do it all again. Much love ❤️
1. Develop new skills 2. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable: do small things but do them consistently 3. Push yourself to do things that scare you 4. Accept and really feel certain emotions until they go away 5. Be open to strangers/network 6. Let go of perfectionism 7. Create routines 8. Take care of your inner and outer appearance 9. Work on your posture: make sure that you move a lot 10. Create another version of you until it becomes you: act like the highest version of yourself and eventually become that 11. Create the "okay, and?" mentality 12. Realise this life is temporary 13. Realise how weird people are 14. LImit your social media 15. Realise you are not that important 16. Love yourself whilst in the process 17. Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love 18. Walk into places like you own the place 19. You don't need to prove yourself 20. Realise you know nothing and be willing to learn from others 21. Stop trying to 'fill in' and really listen to people 22. God always provides Thank you Liz for providing such useful advice for me!
Hi this is @korucoach, I totally loved your video so wholesome, a woman of substance, faith, openness. I just love your conviction; you are honestly one of the most powerful speakers I have heard for a long time. I love your truth, your honesty, your advice, your vulnerability. God bless you and wishing you further success. Just loved this!!!
If I can't have a friend like her, I'm going to be that friend
same girl
YES
same
same
yessss
She spoke thousands of words and every single word is powerful and inspiring. Literally.
fr even when she says the word ‘and’ it’s inspiring
I have trouble making conversations with my friends like even when I try to say something it feels like they are not interested
You guys have any tips ?
@@hanquokka4396get new friends they should be interested in what u have to say if they are ur friends
@@LR-ui5ss thankyou ill try doing that ❤️
@@scott7465 thankyouuu❤️ I'll definitely watch it
once you start listening to her, there's no going back to sadness💞
True, I started this week and oh my I love her already.
Her voice sparkles my water , breaths my air and colors my bugatti
It's actually so true, I'm really thankful
0:47 - Develop new skills 🌱
2:14 - Get comfortable with being uncomfortable 💪
4:50 - Push yourself to do things that scare you 🚀
5:31 - Accept and acknowledge certain emotions until they go away 🧘
7:36 - Be open to talking to strangers/network 🗣
8:06 - Let go of perfectionism 🚫
10:54 - Create routines ⏰
12:18 - Take care of your inner and outer appearance 💅
13:43 - Work on your posture 🤸
14:55 - Create another version of you until it becomes you 🔄
17:20 - Use the "Okay and?" mentality 🤔
18:03 - Realize this life is temporary ⏳
18:48 - Realize how weird other people are 🤪
20:11 - Limit your social media 📵
22:04 - Realize you are not that important 🚫
23:25 - Love yourself while in the process ❤
24:13 - Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love 🗣
25:44 - Walk into places like you own the place 🚶
27:31 - You don't need to prove yourself 🙌
29:20 - Realize you know nothing and be willing to learn from others 🤓
29:37 - Stop trying to "fill in" and really listen to people 👂
31:08 - God always provides 🙏
Oh may God bless you. This really helpful, thank you
Agree except the last point.
Thank you for taking time out to make these important notes. I will screenshot them for future reference.
❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏾
this is not cringe, this is the most important and powerful way to be confident. she is so confident and the way she is expressive is so inspiring
Fr those ppl are on sum else bc is not cringy.
Siiiii
@@Abilmaooz not even a little?
@Sofia Sofi no one can teach you anything until you let go of your prejudice and inferiority complex that you have the need to diminish others because you can't accept the truth, would we listen to you? Picking at a woman for having beauty procedures and making fun of her accent while she speaks more languages than you probably lmao how shallow! Touch some grass.
@Sofia Sofi if u are here to complain then leave also, change your mind. surgery doesnt change the fact that she can teach about confidence, if that (or her) doesnt resonates with u then stop watching and stop judging peoples appearence and STOP BELIEVING THAT SOMEONE CANT TEACH ABOUT CONFIDENCE OR SELF LOVE JUST BC THEY HAVE GET SURGERY, 🤍.
I love the way she talks, sounds like she is scolding me, but her voice and perspective are powerful!! I really love to listen her. < 3
PREACH 🔥
huge fan:)
i think the phrase “if the highest version of yourself wouldn’t do it then don’t do it” has single-handedly changed my life. i’ve been applying this all morning and oh my god i feel like a new person already BLESS u liz
How do you know what the "best" version of yourself would do, if you aren't currently the "best" version of yourself now?
@@Bioassassin_ i have a really vivid idea of the kinda person i wanna be so when i ask myself that question, i feel like subconsciously i already know the answer. it just makes it really easy for me and i just do it. it’s hard to explain in a comment but yeah 🤭
@@Bioassassin_ that's easier to imagine than you think. it's just about being present and asking yourself that question. you don't think it's easy to tell if the best version of yourself would be eating a terribly unhealthy meal or sitting around all day being lazy or having a messy unorganized life?
@@chels_o5 nnmmmnnnnnmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
@@Bioassassin_ Its like basically how you want to be how you desire yourself that is the best version of u
OUT OF ALL HONESTLY YOU'RE THE ONLY CZcamsR I TRUST MY LIFE WITH, YOU JUST SAY FACTS, SCOLD US, PRAISE US, TEACH US, MAKE US LOVE OURSELVES, YOU MADE ME SUPER CONFIDENT, ILY LIZ FR, YOU ARE MY THERAPIST!
She's Literally my mentor!!!♥️
Sameeee
right. whenever i see liz, i just think "I trust her." I don't trust many people the way I trust Liz.
💯 agreed
@Mike what do you mean?
This is an incredible message. I have been on CZcams for many years and this is the first time I've ever commented on a video or felt compelled too. Keep spreading your message and uplifting other humans! Loving yourself is SO SO healing. Speaking love into yourself is what heals us. My life has started to change in incredible ways and I've been working on these things and hearing your perspective was a wonderful reminder. PREACH!!!
You know it's that time of life so you again came here to listen to lizz,
This is the first time ever in my life I have watched a 33 minutes video straight without skipping. Im so proud of myself💀
LMAO. PLS I CAN'T-
Same omg💀💀
Bro same
😭😭😭😭good for you❗️❗️❗️
Me too 😶
"consistency is all that matters,
if you don't do it every day,
If you don't build up that consistency
Nothing great will ever happen"
Betul sekali , konsistensi
Exactly
We’re NOT robots
Your words are powerful! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I’m sure a lot of people who watched this got something valuable that will help them become confident and build the courage to aspire more and be the BEST version of themselves. 🥰
liz is the real deal, there is no fancy editing or some silly intro, she gets straight to the point and they are VALID asf. liz is a blessing for us, before i always check if liz uploaded and im so glad she uploads more often now
Ikr she´s so real and just like u said she goes straight to the point, such a blessing
You missed the editing she had to do to her face to be able to gain that confidence lol. And then have the audacity to try and preach about it…
@@garlicmayo_ why do you care
@@nancysingh2536 because it’s like seeing people get personal training from someone that’s fat. It just doesn’t make any sense
Best thing is that there is no edits
Whenever Liz uploads, it's a good day. This lady single handedly turn me into a very powerful person.
222 likes on your comment :) You're on the right path, love.
If all you needed was a video, you were already powerful :)
Literally
Absolutely true
same. She is the only person I WAIT for. Love her.
Whenever I get negative energy, I come watch this video and it really helps, thank you Liz💗
I’m literally going through a break up and every time I’m about to have a break down I watch Liz and feel so much better. God just sent her to me in the right time. God bless you Liz Nshalla
"Pain of regret is so much worse than pain of discipline."
Wow this is a gem
short term pain 4 long term gain
so true
I’m so glad I found this woman in a really dark time in my life. Her words and affirmations have made me realise that I want to change and I need to change. Hopefully I can look back on this comment in a couple years and think yeah, I did that
You are capable of doing what ever you need today. You got this Sarah.
Stop with the affirmation crap.
It should come from deep down inside of you. Writing down or watching those stupid manifestation vids are of no use. External motivation is useless in the long run.
Literally same here. Hope you’re doing well. Just recently got into these videos and hoping for the literal same.
she is not really saying anything useful, apart from bragging about herself in order to feel better. The only way out is just to be a decent human being. Wish you well.
How are you doing?
I just wanted to say thank you. I've been a single mom to a 5 year old. I spent the past 5 years staying home raising her. I got my registered dietitian license a year ago right when she started preschool I had plans to go back to work. Never planned that she was going to be sick the whole entire time in preschool. Ended up not returning to work because we were sick nonstop. She just started kindergarten and thankfully hasn't been sick. I started my resume and looking for work. I NEEDED this video. My drive and confidence hasn't been the greatest. I've been in mom mode for 5 years and now going back into the work force has been a struggle. Thank you Liz. May blessings and good vibes come your way❤
Wow! As someone introvert and has social anxiety, exactly what I needed to hear today! She literally speaks directly to my soul. 💖
I just deleted Instagram and TikTok. Watching this made me realize that the only thing those two social media platforms did for me is make me feel insecure about myself and make me distracted from my goals. No positive things at all. Thank you so much, Liz. I genuinely appreciate you and your advice that you give out. I hope to one day become the best version of myself too. Continue to be amazing!
proud of u! I wanna delete tiktok but it’s to addicting 😭
I deleted tiktok 8 months ago and I’m so so glad I did. Just mindless sheep activities on there
thats so good!! God bless!
@@aishalol it not that hard it used to be cool before but tiktok is getting weird and toxic each day delete it if it not helping but making you feel insecure
@@ManicMaidenASMR so true ah I need to delete tik tok now
0:46 - Develop new skills
2:13 - Get comfortable with being uncomfortable (fave moments: 2:41, 3:05, 3:29, 4:14, 4:35)
4:49 - Push yourself to do things that scare you (fave moments: 5:08)
5:31 - Accept and really feel certain emotions until they go away
7:36 - Be open to talk to strangers/network (fave moments: 7:52)
8:06 - Let go of perfectionism
10:53: Create routines (fave moments: 11:46)
12:17 - Take care of your inner and outer appearance (fave moments: 13:21)
13:43 - Work on your posture
14:55 - Create another version of you until it becomes you (fave moments: 16:25)
17:20 - Use the "OK AND?" mentality
18:03 - Realise this life is temporary (fave moments: 18:29)
18:48 - Realise how weird other people are
20:11 - Limit your social media
22:04 - Realise you are not that important
23:25 - Love yourself whilst on the process
24:13 - Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love (✨ 25:23/25:43)
25:44 - Walk into places like you own the place
27:31 - You don't need to prove yourself (27:41/28:37, 28:09)
29:20 - Realise you know nothing and be willing to learn from others
29:36 - Stop trying to "fill in" and really listen to people (30:03, 30:30)
31:08 - God always provides
Thanks:) ❤
Thank you for this 💕
Omg thx!!!
@@Mysm1080 oh first time enountering an algerian fellow here 💖
thank you!
Liz, thank you for your wisdom and reality checks. Girl, I can’t even tell you how much your words impacted my life and opened my eyes, ill forever be grateful. Thank you again 🙌🏻
liz, this video has empowered me so much you have no idea. to see a woman so strong and confident be so transparent about her own struggles and insecurities through life makes me feel like life is possible. when you opened up about social anxiety and your fear of blushing, you spoke to my soul. it has controlled my life for so long and to that i say NO MORE!!! bless you for the work you do for those of us that need extra help to get through this crazy thing called life. you are AMAZING.
I actually watched this whole thing without skipping anything whatsoever , this is usually so hard for me but she actually makes an incredible amount of sense and actually makes me feel motivated for life
Ikr
Yesss
YES
Forr realll
YES!!
Please don’t ever take this down. This is the most open beautiful transparent conversation about confidence in relation to society. Thank you I will watch this every time I feel afraid to do something. Truly inspiring thank you sis.
As a 16 year old girl, this women is changing my life. I've been watching her videos for a couple months now and even though it's a struggle, I'm becoming more and more into the person I want to be. It's amazing seeing powerful women like her. I appreciate her for all she does.
Liz, this is an eye-opening video, there so wisdom, and it's coming from your higher self 🙏🏾
why do people think this is cringey? this video is so inspiring, it actually helped me. at first, i was like, "theres no way im gonna watch a 30 minute video" but i did, and i dont regret it
Men
these days some toxic people find everything cringey except their interests
Because look her with her FKIN FILLED UP LIPS . Thats lack of confidence right there. So basically she is bullshitting people.
Never have I ever watched and listened to a video with the concentration I did with yours . I'm very grateful to God that i came across this video. Thankyou liz .God bless you ❤
Every time I watch one of your videos I feel more confident. You’re doing a lot of good for a lot of people.
I came across one of your videos when I was looking for “how to clear your energy” and i scrolled past it because I didn’t have time. But tonight I was in the car driving so I was like let me see what she has to say…Girl! 😮
Damn right this is valuable! You’re sharing priceless info.
God bless CZcams 🙏🏼
🙏 I hope this might help you🙏
0:47--DEVELOP NEW SKILLS
2:14--GET COMFORTABLE WITH BEING UNCOMFORTABLE
4:50--PUSH YOURSELF TO DO THINGS THAT SCARE YOU
5:31--ACCEPT AND THE REALITY FEEL CERTAIN EMOTIONS UNTIL THEY GO AWAY
7:36--BE OPEN TO TALK TO STRANGERS/NETWORK
8:06--LET GO OF PERFECTIONISM
10:54--CREATE ROUTINES
12:18--TAKE CARE OF YOUR INNER AND OUTER APPEARANCE
13:43-- WORK ON YOUR POSTURE
14:55--CREATE ANOTHER VERSION OF YOU UNTIL IT BECOMES YOU
17:20--USE THE "OKAY AND?" MENTALITY
18:03--REALISE THIS LIFE IS TEMPORARY
18:48--REALISE HOW WEIRD OTHER PEOPLE ARE
20:11--LIMIT YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA
22:04--REALISE YOU ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT
23:25--LOVE YOURSELF WHILST IN THE PROCESS
24:13--TALK TO YOURSELF LIKE YOU WOULD TALK TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE
25:44--WALK INTO PLACES LIKE YOU OWN THE PLACE
27:31--YOU DON'T NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF
29:20--REALISE YOU KNOW NOTHING AND BE WILLING TO LEARN FROM OTHERS
29:37--STOP TRYING TO "FILL IN" AND REALLY LISTEN TO PEOPLE
31:08--GOD ALWAYS PROVIDES
many thank sis
Thank you a lot! That was really helpful!😊😊😊😊
you're an angel
p
Thanks a lot
I love listening to you talk- I wish you had a podcast. I'd listen every morning while getting ready for the day. You're so inspiring
OMG YES
Agreed
yes we need the podcast
for real
can't agree more
Thanks a million. Your every words is very powerful. Thanks GOD for sending this video to me. GOD Bless you always.
everytime she said LISTEN, i feel peace inside
It just really feels like she's talking to you as an induvial, her voice her wording, facial expression, just so real. She's straight to the point, tells us what we need to hear. I love this channel.
lmao
It definitely shows she passionate about what she feels and she’s definitely educated and put in a lot of work for the topic
So glad she created this channel
Whenever my vibration is a little off and the doubts creep in, can guarantee listening to you will be helpful. Grateful for you Liz. Thank you. ❤
Liz, I love you.. I was lost before I knew you. But now I feel comfortable and confident, and people’s opinions don’t matter to me. Thank you. Your words were enough to change the course of my life ❤❤
The fact that I don't even want to skip a part because everything you says make sense and is worth my time.
You’re right like now i’m watching a video that makes sense and useful ☺️
honestly this girl makes me feel so motivated to just step out of my comfort zone and i love her. If she had a podcast i would listen to it whenever i could
im listening to this as a podcast haha
@@ketokeko what podcast is it?
JESUS CHRIST is LORD and He loved us while we were still sinners to die for our sins and be raised from the grave for our justification as the sinless, perfect Lamb of GOD, Who takes away the sin of the world, fulfilling the righteousness that the law requires, which we, sinners by nature, could never fulfill. for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD. however in this present age, we may now be saved by the grace of GOD through faith in Him alone, followed by the act of repentance or the turning away from all of our sins. we must be born again. JESUS CHRIST is the Way and the Truth and the Life.
living my whole life with perfectionism and the mentality of what others will think of me if I do this, say this and blah blah, this was the kind of content I needed to see the most. Im trying hard to make a better version of me and I know that I lack in many ways especially when I find it so hard to interact with people. Im working on making good new habits to improve myself and become comfortable doing them. It is a long way to become the highest version of me but it feels really good walking in this path.
Thank you liz❤
The encouragement to challenge myself and view difficulties as opportunities for growth has been a pivotal aspect of my journey to enhance self-esteem. Embracing challenges has become a stepping stone to self-improvement.
it's crazy how just one video of yours can be applied to many different aspects of my life - academics, sports, friendships, my appearance and so much more. I'm truly grateful I discovered your channel because from the first video I watched of yours I have gradually started to become the best version of myself.
i always notice that like it’s so cool it’s general and specific at the same time and this advice can work in so many ways
Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable made me a bit more confident than I was before. Recently started wearing hijab tho I always wore fitted western dresses . I was unsure if I would really be able to maintain this lifestyle . I was thinking of wearing hijab for a long time , but all the time I just said to myself, *no no I'm not ready , I'm still not comfortable* then just suddenly one day I realized if I wait to be comfortable I would never be able to be comfortable, I have to be uncomfortable and push myself in order to be comfortable*.
Alhamdulillah now I wear hijab with much more confidence and I love it .
good job for you for making change
@@anastasya4180 thank you ❤️
U did a great job and we gotta all learn from u 💫
w
Keren
I just found your channel TODAY. I’m here to stay and listen. Thankyou Liz! 🙏🏼
Almost everyone, including the media, is anticipating a market catastrophe, and as a result, many are turning a blind eye to the opportunities in the market. I recently began investing in stocks and it was the best choice I've ever made. If you genuinely want to be financially secure, disregard everything the media is suggesting. The market offers a lot of chances. Maximize your use of it
What opportunities are there in the market and how do I profit from it?
@@anilhettiarachci8467You can make a lot of money from the market regardless of what occurs, whether it strengthens or crashes. The key is to be well positioned, and that's what matters most.
@@udeikechukwu2348I will really like to know how this things actually work
@@anilhettiarachci8467All you need is a good capital and the service of a professional broker, with those you're guaranteed of making profit.
@@udeikechukwu2348Do you have an idea of any good broker I can start with?
Every woman who uses CZcams is lucky. We're lucky you decided to share your knowledge and grace us with your existence, Liz. Thank you so much. I'm not where I want to be but because of you, I started moving and I will keep moving.
Yes, always forward and up! Love yourself and give yourself props along the way. Much Luck with your goals.💝
I’m not someone who cries easily but this whole video made me teary eyed.
I don’t ever remember watching a video of someone talking and literally LISTENING to their words for 33 minutes straight without a break.
I don’t know what else to say. I don’t know if “thank you” is enough.
You are a brilliant person.
My sentiments exactly. Unbelievable from the first minute.
you put what I was feeling into words! liz is truly remarkable.
@@MdoubleHBx This ain’t Tinder😂
@@MdoubleHBxnobody cares. Consider yourself hun
@@MdoubleHBx people like perverts like you r trying find date these places. I care about environment and more intelligent than you don’t worry.
“Eh I don’t know what to do with this knife 😢”
LOL that got me
😂
I just want to say, thank you so much for delivering this message. It was right on time 🤞🏽❤️
I don’t usually comment.. But this video literally made me feel things. It made me change the confident that I already have, yeah sure I’ve always been confident, but I always felt like something more is missing. But after finding this video it made me change the confidence I had. Thank you, thank you Liz and everyone else who’s reading this. Sometimes life can get really complicated, but we all get through it. Never give up guys! (:
glad you found your confidence 💗
appreciate you
Yess
❤❤❤❤❤
🤗I love it♥️, such a good comment
I'm currently trying to overcome my social anxiety. I found out about this channel about a month ago when I was in a rut. This summer was one of the worst depressive episodes i've had in a minute and it made me feel like I was a loser and a failure. I constantly was comparing myself to my older sister, was comparing myself to my peers, comparing myself to those younger than me and became obsessive over my appearance. I hated going outside, I hated social interactions. Leaving my room felt like a death sentence and don't even get me started on my personal hygiene lol. I had NO energy and I would wake up feeling so tired. Writing my manuscript felt like a chore and I am a passionate writer with a vision to make it big in this world.
i HAD to get a grip, and before you say 'you can't just snap out of mental illness.' I get it I've been there. It was a shitty process and I'm still going through the process. I started praying again and getting closer to God. I changed my medication and psychiatrist. I changed my perspective on life. I realized what I can do is enough for me and I do NOT have to prove myself to others. I don't have to sacrifice myself just for other's comfort etc. I do not have to conform to society's expectations of me. This realization took YEARS.
Liz is correct.
No one cares. I used to feel like everyone was looking at me and judging me negatively. I used to go to the extent of memorizing and practicing how I should move in public out of fear of being laughed at. Honestly, none of this matters in the grand scheme of things. Just be yourself, try doing things you alone enjoy, but do not burn yourself out, do what makes you happy, rest, drink water, and listen to your body and your mind.
Amazing video!!
💞💞💞
Currently going through a very similar thing; depressive episodes, comparing myself to peers/sisters, obsessing over my appearance, etc. My social anxiety and depression have stopped me from doing so many things in my life and I am ready for a change. I'm happy you're changing your mindset and perspective on life, for the better and starting to see progress. This comment has inspired me to start my journey today. You got this and we're in this together!!!!
Hey girls, just wanted to say that I've been through similar stuff and actually still going through it though I am improving. With time, it's getting better but there are still days that I feel so defeated, however, we can't give up! I am also ready for change and the effort it will need! Let's do it, we got this!!!
@@soniamanzoor22 I definitely feel better knowing that I'm not alone. It's day 3 and I'm struggling, so your comment really means a lot. It is actually shocking seeing how many people relate to what we're going through, but I know that all of this hard work over time will pay off. Thank you for the encouragement! We got this :)
@@paige3316 Yes! You are not alone. I’m going through the same stuff it’s hard for me to get over some of the stuff my my past etc. Knowing that I’m not alone helps me realize that I’m not going thought this by myself. :)
@@paige3316 just seeing this reply and 😭😭 Ty so much
When liz said "Create this better version of yourself doesn't mean we have to hate this version", I started weeping. 🥹
Thanks Liz. Love you. 🫶🫶
I have to say nowadays lizz videos have become the morning routine for me ❤
Thanks for being straight to the point and telling us what is important to our life I'm really greatfull to you Lizz ✨
Liz, you are just so pulchritudinously perfect and your advice is so ineffable. I literally am turning my life around and it’s because of your advice. I’m moving out in a couple months(I’m 18)and tbh I can’t wait to make a mark on the world using all I’ve been learning from you. I literally love you❤❤❤❤thank you so much
every time liz posts i get so excited because her videos have been helping me so much with improving myself and becoming the highest version i can possibly be. i love her sm, THANK YOU LIZ 💗
agreed!
Congratulations!
28:13 "they won't understand you because, the vision is not for them, it was given to you" this made me cry ♡
"God always provides"
"there is no good or bad, it's fate"
11:11
I cried too
This is the first time watching ur videos liz. I got addicted. I listened to every single world u said. brought my confidence up, and watching u everyday will for sure change my life,And make it better. Thank you so much Liz!
My adopted family don't care about what I do. So I'm living life without judgement. I used to be ashamed, but I realize I was set up for failure as a child. Now at 38, free from the toxic family and can't wait to succeed on everything I want!!
I had social anxiety so I listened to her this summer,to become confident, and completed a 6 week boarding school academic program(roommate and all). I feel waaaayyy more confident in public now by allowing myself to feel uncomfortable in a new environment during the summer program. She is right guys, try something out of your comfort zone, its scary and difficult at first but you’ll love yourself more after I swear…it can even be a new hobby like crochet tbh(become a crochet god haha)
omg I did the same thing. I used to have really bad social anxiety and could not even buy groceries alone, then i went through 5vmonths of therapy and then went to a boarding school with roomates as well. I’m a completely changed person and have never looked back. Proud of u for doing the same it takes a lot of bravery and hard work
In july 14th this year, i went to Englands Thorpe Park theme park, and i felt scared to go on a quite tall 130ft coaster called the swarm, my hands were shaking but i went and did it anyways and i loved the drops i loved the twists and turns and i loved the adrelanine rush. i felt more brave to do even more rollercoasters then.
I started feeling anxious around people for no reason, wasn’t always like this but honestly ever since listening to her I feel much more better and more confident. It’s like i became a different person.
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How did you do to be more confident please ❤😭
You are a great teacher. God bless you. 🌻
Just discovered your channel today. I have a lot to catch up on, but this was a great start. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us queen!
I don't usually comment on videos but I wanted to say that ever since I watched your video ("this video will change your live"), I started taking care of myself and my future and REALLY giving me the chances to achieve what I want.
Before that, I was in such a bad place and I didn't gave me the recognition I needed. You radiate a nice and confident energy, and right now i'm just becoming more and more powerful over me and my future in general. You really is amazing at giving advice, love you!
This is so amazing for you and im so interested, any updates or things you changed in your habits?
This is what i called a rare treasure on youtube : straightforward, transparent, no BS, empowering.
truly inspiring woman, thank you and please keep sharing a piece of your beautiful mind. The world needs it.
Yes I agree, it’s so rare to find on CZcams now, she’s special 😌 I also recommend the channel Love Your Natural, she also gives off pure and authentic vibes, her advice is so good, her mindset reminds me of Liz’s💞
Beauty, confidence, humility, and knowledge all fit under the name Liz. I truly love you and I believe that I will make myself more sophisticated by applying your information. Thank you for being there, Liz.
I can’t believe I’m barely listening to you I’ve seen u 2 years ago but never really watched your videos and wow u are definitely going to help me get out of this rut I’m in. Your words I will apply everyday to my life like I use to when I was happy and I had my power! I can do this I will do this and I will be happy and win in the end! The kind hearted always win in the end !❤
17 year old male here.
I'm honestly still trying to find my place. I've internalized the bullying I've received for years and see myself as a loser because that's what I've always been told.
Rewiring that horrible kind of mindset is one of the hardest things Ive gone through and this video is so helpful to me.
One of the things that helps is looking at myself in the mirror and flexing, standing with perfect posture, seeing myself as someone ELSE, a sort of alter ego. I take my glasses off to blur it, to help imagine myself as someone else. In that moment I force myself to see myself as someone else, someone's who's confident and carries himself highly.
When I'm in public and start to feel low of myself, I keep the image of the person I saw in that mirror and remember who I am.
keep it up maan ur doing amzing 😊
As you should
insecurity it's really torturing
You’re so beautiful and confident and your cat is so cute
you're amazing and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I think the method you're using is really smart in fact I might even try it out myself so thank you! but yh stay strong bro you got this and one day you will be that person who you admire and love and are proud of so keep it up :D
I will come again at this video to say that i am at the best version of myself. Thanks Allah for letting me find this video ✨❤️
🙏🙏🙏same
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waiting for you to come back and tell us how it been for u suhailah✊🏽✍🏻
I could listen to this lady whole day and never get bored of it ✨😩her words are so comforting 🤌🏻
I really admire Liz... I'm so grateful for her to appear in my life, she literally changed my mindset❤
the scolding made me feel embarrassed but, at the same time, it opened my eyes. comfort zone really fucked me up without me even noticing, and the idea that for becoming who i want to be, i need to do things that i don't want to is necessary. thank you liz, every video of yours help me so much 💖
The fact that I've seen this so many times but I can come back to it and still feel motivated is amazing. Thank God Liz is who she is today. Love you.
How to be hot and confident? - ever wondered what we actually speaking about? How to be lusted for and fornicated on. - is there any way mankind could be more sick or was the limit reached? Whom there is of risk to mate for? THE TARES whom are to the public known as the "lizard people" , the aliens . Biblically are they known as: the tares the fallen angels the Nephilim's There are not just humans out there. Earth is much crazier place then that.
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Rather then hot and confident, humble is what we must become.
Souls, know and understand these bible verses:
1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
Acts 15:29
That ye abstain from meats offered to idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication: from which if ye keep yourselves, ye shall do well. Fare ye well.
1 Corinthians 5:1
It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife.
Acts 15:20
But that we write unto them, that they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from fornication, and from things strangled, and from blood.
Acts 21:25
As touching the Gentiles which believe, we have written and concluded that they observe no such thing, save only that they keep themselves from things offered to idols, and from blood, and from strangled, and from fornication.
1 Thessalonians 4:3
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
In shot, all the one night stand, you all practice, ain`t even with a human being.
And abut the timeline, we live in, GOD clears out that there be time, in which:
Luke 23:29
For, behold, the days are coming, in the which they shall say, Blessed are the barren, and the wombs that never bare, and the paps which never gave suck.
Liz! You're stunning! I'm so grateful for you ! I've learned so many important things from you! You're a miracle ❤ Thank you God for creating the wonderful person who is Liz!❤
Thank you so much liz, you are indeed a God sent to me. I am already writing my daily time table
This is exactly what I needed, i’m not confident at all and watching this made me realise how sad my life is. thank you for giving me a reality check that no one else has. I’m going to improve myself
@Tomaka you can do it ✨
*you WERE not confident until now. Remember that you are what you say you are
you will be
This is a my takeaway from this video and what i learned!
-DEVELOP NEW SKILLS.
-WHEN DISCIPLINING AND DOING SOMETHING SKILL BASED, FELINGs SHOULD BE OFF.
-GET COMFORTABLE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE. Thats how you will improve yourself. Thats how you get better at something. Thats how you become confident in something.
-PUSH YOURSELF. Give yourself new limits when you keep growing.
-ACCEPT AND REALLY FEEL CERTAIN EMOTIONS UNTIL THEY GO AWAY.
BE OPEN TO TALK TO STRANGERS/NETWORKING. God might send you certain people to interact with.
-LET GO OF PERFECTIONISM. Perfectionism is centered around what others think, and constantly being concerned with that limits you from what you can achieve.
-CREATE ROUTINES. Routines organize your mind. “An organized mind is an organized life” -liz.
-TAKE CARE IF YOUR INNER AND OUTER APPEARANCE. Not caring about how you take care of yourself outside and inside is a form of disrespect towards yourself. So taking care of yourself and prioritizing yourself will make you respect yourself, and others respect you as well :)
-WORK ON YOUR POSTURE. If you’re moving, playing sports it really helps with posture.
-CREATE ANOTHER VERSION OF YOURSELF UNTIL IT BECOMES YOU. Visualize your highest self. What do they do? What do they act like? What do they think? What are their hobbies? Whenever you do something think “Is this what the highest version of myself would do?” and slowly you will become her/them/him by pretending to be them.
-USE THE “OK, AND?” MENTALITY. Why is failure bad? Its really good and that means you can start over. Do it again and again until you get it. Don’t let failure stop you from being who you wanna be.
-REALIZE THIS LIFE IS TEMPORARY. Do you want to waste your time and energy worrying about what others think. Put that energy into improving yourself
-REALIZE HOW WEIRD PEOPLE ARE. Everybody has something weird, unique, and quirky about them. Nobody is perfect. Its beautiful and its human! So accept and embrace it.
-LIMIT YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA. Especially if you are very insecure. Social media tells how we are supposed to be and look. It will make you feel very bad about yourself.
-START REALIZING THAT YOU ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT. This realization frees you. Everybody really only focuses on themselves.
-LOVE YOURSELF THROUGHOUT THE PROCESS. Love yourself in every stage of your growth because you deserve it. You’re improving yourself throughout so enjoy and embrace that.
-TALK TO YOURSELF LIKE YOU WOULD TAKE TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE. Say affirmations and compliment yourself, flatter yourself! Its a huge booster. If you talk passionately and treat others with love then why is it weird to do it to yourself? In order for someone to love you, you have to love yourself.
-WALK INTO ANY PLACE LIKE OWN THE PLACE.
-YOU DONT NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF. If you have good intentions and a good mindset, that itself is good enough. Don’t look for validation, bc if u do u wont get what u want. If u think what your doing is good thats enough to accomplish what u want to do.
-REALIZE YOU KNOW NOTHING AND BE WILLING TO LEARN FROM OTHERS. Knowledge is beautiful.
-STOP TRYING TO “FILL IN” AND REALLY LISTEN TO PEOPLE. Really process and think about what someone has said to you instead if solely reacting to it. People can teach you beautiful things. Really listening and not hearing is how you can learn beautiful things.
-THE UNIVERSE ALWAYS PROVIDES. Say this as an affirmation. The universe/god always has a plan, trust it because its for your best. Realizing this can make you powerful!!
Thank you so much liz, you have helped me so much and i am so grateful! Also hope this list helps others as well!
You are a lifesaver ✨
@@evolvejaz ty!
THANK YOU SO MUCH 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@abduchiller ofc! Glad it helped
thank uuu
listening to this video is like my older sister giving me some of the most useful life advices.
Sorry about my English. i just want to share my story.I was very shy and always feel ashame about myself about my look when i was in higschool. But then i met a good teacher she taught me a lot, not just about knowledge she also teach and give me everything about life and lessons. She pushed me to do things that i've been always scared of for years. Right now im confident to do and learn anything that im not good at and do the best about things im good at. Be confident is a key to helps you be successful much easy in your work, your life.
Please don’t take this lightly. You have changed my life. You have changed my perspective. Not even cancer could do that to me, I have been depressed and disappointed with myself. Unable to forgive myself for my mindset and unable to forgive my body for feeling like it betrayed me. You have helped me to heal in ways I could never fully explain but I thank you deeply, from the bottom of my heart. I finally feel i can enjoy being alive. I’m only in my 30s but felt horribly old. All has changed thanks in part to you.
Wow, I hope you’re healing and safe. cancer is no joke. You deserve happiness 🙏
Her videos were the inspiration, she didn't change anything, you did! Give yourself more credit because you're doing so so amazing by trying to change for the better. It's even harder when dealing with serious health conditions/diseases aswell as struggling mentally. You're doing so well and I wish you all the best, you deserve to get better and to live a wonderful life! I wish you all the best 💕
Damn
I'm happy for you
how sad that some girl on youtube impacted you more than cancer. you clearly don’t appreciate life.
i watched this whilst finishing off my workout, doing my skincare and doing my hair and honestly i feel sm better and ima definitely start tomorrow off like its a fresh beginning, this was so mind-opening and honestly im so glad i clicked on this ngl
She's serous or this is sarcasm?
you should finished all the things today rather than tommorow.
@@alishkaduwadi7928 yea i finished everything i had to do whilst watching the video and then i kinda like started the next morning as like a fresh start ig
@@PaulGrunschild im bein serious i finished everything i had to do whilst watching this vid and honestly some of the things she said stuck w me and ive watched a few of her other videos along side this one and im definitely more confident in myself now
@@ciannaspage3 but its more better if u start today wit a positive mind rather than tommorrow.
I love how you said: i'm like a cockroach, you try to kill it but she comes back multiplied 😅😅 it'll become my life mantra.. im so glad i discovered your channel
thank you for delivering these powerful statements to us! it effectively reached my heart! you are really an amazing person and i hope you never get tired of showing how awesome and valuable your words are! love youuu^^
This woman needs an award for motivating insecure and lost souls! This made me realise that the world doesn't end if something upsetting happens.
Girl u made this video and made me feel GREAT!!!! Thank you DO MUCH for opening my eyes 💗
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Chi cyy😅
Is so powerful Word😍
i was procastinating while studying and she motivated me to actually study! because shes right yk. i was always an F student and now ive become an A student but i feel like im so scared of studying that i leave it for the last moment and then regret it. super happy i found this video :D
Procrastination is also a really big issue for me, mostly because of Importer's Syndrome. I feel so useless and not good enough sometimes I feel exhausted from just thinking about the work I need to put in to get good results . But I noticed that once I acknowledge that" yes I won't always feel good enough or intelligent enough, I do get mostly very good results" it gets easier to deal with the not so good grades
@@lauraaa3049 honestly tho acknowledgment is the first step to success, acknowledging your fears and weaknesses
@wildflcwrhqney Procastinating or Procrastination? I am so confused right now because I am not a native speaker, help me, please
@@trinhtranvan4190 omg im sorry it's actually procrastinating, it was autocorrect haha! thank u for pointing it out :D
Actually I am going through the same thing as well but seeing your comment just motivated me
This is really good advice. It is honestly not what I was expecting. She gave the tough love that so many of us needed. Thank you for the advice.
You know what Liz, you describe the confidence issue in the most realistic way ever. You talked about the most common obstacles we face to build confidence in a powerful way!
I was really facing this problems like major obstacles. You are right, God provides always. If we face any downfall in life it's for a reason. I got a issue that I Couldn't handle downfalls in my life and breakdown comes very badly. But Now, From your words, I can accept this situation and move forward.
Appreciate your words The wizard Liz. Love from Bangladesh ❤
She is a bigger sister that everyone needs ❤
i never realised that humans were wired for comfort as opposed to happiness but it truly makes so much sense, understanding this is the key to discipline
Thankyou, liz. This makes me so much better. It's my first time watching your videos, and I'm already in love with you. I love you! Amazing human ❤️🫶🏻
I’m literally crying by looking this video, thank you Liz, you’re amazing ❤
Liz is the big sister I always needed. She gives us the motivation we need to put ourselves back together and go get what we deserve. God bless you
I don't usually comment but, oh my god, I have never felt this good after listening to someone. I literally did not want her to stop talking, it was as if somebody was actually knocking some sense into me and telling me to JUST BE CONFIDENT AND STOP WORRYING WHAT OTHERS MIGHT THINK. I appreciate you Liz, in so many ways. Thank you and utterly grateful. More power to you. :)
i'm in a really low point of my life, where i struggle every day, but listening to her made me realize i'm not actually doing anything to change that. this video was a huge motivation for me to start getting things done and really change my life for the better. i know she doesn't really look at the comments, but i'm just really grateful this video showed up to me. to other people trying to become the best version of themselves, i hope you also find peace and motivation in this video, wish you guys all the best. :)
Thank you for all you do, I appreciate it. You are genuine, sincere in helping others. Most people would charge for this type of help but you are freely giving it away to us. God bless you and your family for all you do. I have fallen into a terrible rut and you give me hope to start again. I was telling people to be careful with the people around them they can literally steal your energy and drain you of everything. It’s hard to explain but I’m sure you know what I mean. I have learned to keep myself away from those type of people and God has been warning me I should of listened to what he was trying to tell me and also its not good telling people your goals and dreams there are people that will actually jinx you. Like I said you have restored hope in me and I’m going to get up and do it all again. Much love ❤️
I just watched this 33:30 minutes video without getting bored & not skipping even a second! it's really amazing
Same, the best advice video I have ever watched
1. Develop new skills
2. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable: do small things but do them consistently
3. Push yourself to do things that scare you
4. Accept and really feel certain emotions until they go away
5. Be open to strangers/network
6. Let go of perfectionism
7. Create routines
8. Take care of your inner and outer appearance
9. Work on your posture: make sure that you move a lot
10. Create another version of you until it becomes you: act like the highest version of yourself and eventually become that
11. Create the "okay, and?" mentality
12. Realise this life is temporary
13. Realise how weird people are
14. LImit your social media
15. Realise you are not that important
16. Love yourself whilst in the process
17. Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love
18. Walk into places like you own the place
19. You don't need to prove yourself
20. Realise you know nothing and be willing to learn from others
21. Stop trying to 'fill in' and really listen to people
22. God always provides
Thank you Liz for providing such useful advice for me!
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THANK U SO MUCH ! 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
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Hi this is @korucoach, I totally loved your video so wholesome, a woman of substance, faith, openness. I just love your conviction; you are honestly one of the most powerful speakers I have heard for a long time. I love your truth, your honesty, your advice, your vulnerability. God bless you and wishing you further success. Just loved this!!!
I just discovered you today and I’m so grateful. You’re such a beautiful person inside and out. Thank you for all the help you are giving us ❤