how to cultivate strong self-love | filling the void you feel | @tiffanylaibhen
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- čas přidán 7. 11. 2023
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can we be honest for a sec? how many times have we been on the asking end of respect, love, honesty, compassion (the list goes on) ..that we fail to give ourselves? we're diving into self-awareness + taking responsibility for the role we play in our own longing... and also into the power we hold to change that immediately.. grab your bevvys + let's get into it 🍷
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“Everyone is actually doing the best they can at their level of emotional maturity.” Sheesh this is rich 👌🏾
Listening to this In the morning while showering was the best decision I’ve made✨ now I’m gonna get dressed and take myself out on a date and buy myself roses✨✨
Self love is beautiful
this made me smile so big 😌 have a beautiful day!
I will do the same….let’s start from there 😍
Literally just went through a breakup last night, that was completely unexpected so now today I have to move out after 2 years together. Thank you for dropping this. I love hearing your messages.
Stay strong sis ❤
Hugs 🤗 and kisses. You got this. 🤍💚
You got this sis❤️ your gonna love finding yourself again
Sending lots of love your way❤❤❤
Going through a break up right now with my boyfriend of almost 8 years & my now child’s father as I am currently almost 7 months pregnant and it sucks. But through out this process I need to just focus on my baby & I! Stay strong sis! We got this
Girl, I needed this because I was barking all morning, and I just sat down and started crying. I'm crying as I'm typing this. The lack of love I've been showing myself looking for it in others lately is disappointing. I feel like I've lost myself lately. Thank you for these words. I needed them. It's always up to me
I’m a bit late but I’m sending you the biggest hug girl because I gettt it! praying your able to make a few shifts to find some more inner peace.. you’ll start to see it reflected on the outside 🤎
This was especially difficult for me because I couldn’t even define love, let alone give it to myself. I looked to 1 Corinthians 13 4-8 and my life has changed. Now I treat myself how the Bible defines love to be. And I’ve never been more full.
Thank you
Am I the only one who has it the other way round. I just want a relationship. I’ve been single for so long. I know how to look after myself be by myself, go out with myself, push myself to do better motivate myself, but sometimes I just want a shoulder to cry on or some support to keep me going 😢
@@user-st9fs6xu5yI’ve just said I don’t need someone to keep me going. I’m comfortable pushing myself and doing things on my own. BUT I WANT a partner. I don’t NEED one
That's real. We are taught on one hand that we are strong black women, we can make it on our own, trust in God & keep it moving. All of that is true but we are human & we were NOT made to work everything out alone so we need to be loved, held, talked to & cry with by other humans. I do agree that the work starts with self bc "no man is an island"
Self-love is a different ball game if your single...You have 1 choice+ that is to LOVE YOURSELF ..it's hard but the journey is priceless+ empowering✌️✨💖
I was totally in this deep funk because of this very reason last week. I cried constantly all week. Thank you for this 🙏🏾💖
💕 Steps start @ 15:48 💞
Thank you 😊
1. Identify the problem/void
2. Identify how you imagine the relationship is going to fix the problem, be detailed
3. Do those things for yourself
4. Choose one to implement
5. Don't point fingers/lash out
FINALLY someone who explains self love in a way that I understand bone deep. The idea about finding the void and filling it yourself is gold that I can practically apply straight away. Your content is excellent instant sub thank you 🙏
Your comment really is the cherry on top to this quest of self love 🥹🥹🥹🥹 your comment has truly blessed me indeed❤ thank you
I used to give love and care to everyone but never giving it to myself I still have lots of insecurities but I'm trying my best to put me first this time it's a hard journey for me so please everyone pray for me 💙✨ and thank you Tiffany you've always been there since day one of my healing journey 💙✨
Same here
Tiffanyyyyy, ! Shouting amen amen amen .. at my big age Lord knows you have reminded me to wake up! Hug myself ! Love myself, be okay ! Build me. Recognizing individuality, regulating boundaries, my family reminded me. I am the common denominator and I need to show up for SELF and not always allowing people to be codependent or vice versa. Lord I really have some cleaning up. I am not for everyone. You may have just saved 50 percent of my mental health😢.. thank you
Yes! To be honest I still get kind of iffy and listen with precaution when being told to continually love myself I do think however that you have a good balance
I’m tearing up reading this. sending you a big hug 🫂🤎 we love aha/realization moments 🙌🏾
@@TiffanyTVthank you .. everyday has been a challenge.. I pray for strength and positivity energy 🙏
Thank you sooo much for you all your feedback...I am continuously praying for the guidance and strength on my life attributes.. work everyday and push towards abundance. Today is February 1st and I inhale/ exhaled
Ah, how synchronized... self love has been the center of my awareness lately. Thank you for this video ❤
Don’t know how I found this video, but I’m so happy I did. My husband and I had a major argument three days ago. He asked for space but it’s been three days. I’ve been keeping busy for the last 72 hours waiting for him to talk to me( I’m anxious attached and semi- codependent). After watching this video, I’m inspired to work on myself, love on myself, take the time to pour into me. I’m so use to “us” that I’ve been forgetting me 😢
I relate to this alll too well… it’s almost impossible to fix things in a relationship before we’ve healed what’s going on within ourselves. sending you love + and big hug on this part of your journey + praying for health in your marriage 🫂🤎
@@TiffanyTV thank you very much !
“Is this really about him”😮💨 we truly project unhappiness onto others in the form of nitpicking. I’ve been guilty of that. Learning to go within and be content with self has done so much for me! Great video Queen🫶🏽
that part! thank you love 🤎
I’ve realized this as well and I’m glad you said it so I know I’m not crazy. Whenever I feel unloved it’s due to a lack that I started slipping on ❤❤❤
Another home run. This is beyond impactful, this is exactly where I am. Thank you once again for sharing. I am speechless and taken back by how well you managed to deliver this message. This is an amazing starting point for healing ❤😊 You are so amazing 🙌🏿
I definitely needed this ! thank youuu
This is a very great timing❤
Tiffany!!!!! As a mental health professional I want to thank you for your energy and your support to empower others to seek self-love. Self love is sooooo crucial to your mental wellbeing. I have shared your video with my clients as a source of motivation. Keep up the work mama! It’s truly healing to others.
This is so powerful! Self-love
Love love love this !!! Keep shining beautiful
Okay but I loveee!! I had a tough moment yesterday with work and I needed to hear this! Know your someone I look up to when it comes to growth! ❤️🙏🏼
Wow, I needed this today. Thank you Tiff💜
Your videos have truly aided me so much in my journey. Thank you so much.
Ok so why is it that every time you drop a video it's exactly what I need! Thank you sis!❤
I needed this!!1 SO HELPFUL
Thank you for this! Love your words of wisdom ❤ keep shining!
Yes Ma’am. Well said. May God continue to bless you
Thank you for being the big sister I never had but always needed❤️
You're amazing and helping me through a tough situation.
I’ve been focusing so much on this lately and maintaining my self awareness like this and it’s been game changing for me and those around me. Thank you for the confirmation and additional tips 🌸
Girlll I be watching your videos wishing I has friends like you lol. I just feel like you’re so self aware about your actions and how your behaviors can contribute to how you feel and your environment. I loveee that about this channel because it’s hard to come by people who are self aware about themselves. Honestly even I have to work on being more self aware myself and it’s harder than it seems, so I don’t blame anyone who has a hard time doing that. It’s a lot easier said than done, and takes baby steps and a lot of time to fully understand it all. But anyways this is so true, keep up the great work ❤
This video was right on time! Thank you for your wisdom Tiffany! 🙏🏻💕✨
I’m so in love with your channel ❤️I can truly say it has helped me a lot.. continue changing lives lots of love
You never miss Tiffany. Thank you.
Talk about perfect timing!! I really needed to hear this today 🥰
Hands down, the best cideo I've ever listened to about self-love. Thank you!
You’re speaking to me!! I am reclaiming my power and learning how to communicate directly. Getting to the root of what is, what I’m feeling, what I need, has helped me so much 🙌
This is literally what I needed to hear for today. Thank you so much ❤
Still healing from my last relationship
I truly needed to hear this.
Thank you.
This is by far one of the most important and beneficial videos I have ever seen on CZcams. ❤ Thank you so much.
she brings out the best in me is swear
This was everything I needed. Here goes!!!
Thank you Tiffany… this video was just what I needed now ❤ 🙏🏼
This video is everything. Thank you!
Tiffany!!!! Oh my....you was in my head!!! I needed this!! I will be rewatching and writing down notes!! Thank u
Thank you for the reminder to continuously look inward when heavy emotions are arising in our relationships. I needed that perspective shift. ❤
Absolutely love this! Have to fill up your own cup because it's not anyone else's responsibility 🤞🏾
I loved the actionable steps you gave to sit with how I am feeling and take responsibility by implementing what I need for myself ❤
Thank you for sharing with us. I am sitting at work, working listening to this!! ❤❤❤
THE WAY I AM CRYING......😭😭 Thank you!! this was a real blessing. ❤
Your videos always hit at the right time. Thank you!
WOW! I needed this video. And the way you say is everything is exactly how I need to hear it. I’m going to need to rewatch this a few times. And I just subscribed ❤
Thank you for making content like this for us
This was so enlightening and beautifully articulated 😌 Thank youuuu 🙏🏾
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This video is how I found you and I’ve been binging ever since! This was so good and just what I needed to hear as I found myself questioning a few decisions.
Thank u so much for this video! It was a perfect reminder and I needed it!!! Have a nice day🧚🏻♀️🩷💌
U said a word..Love your messages !
Please keep going and I pray God blesses u
I love your positivity! I just wish I could be like this
You are a gift. ❤
Oh I love this! My biggest problem is me not getting enough alone time and I can take that frustration out on others sometimes. This is something I’m currently working through and have been working through for a while. Thank you for this video ❤
this was such a beautiful & needed video ✨ thank you!
I just want you to know your words go a long way.. truthfully I needed to hear this because lately I’ve been relying on others for my happiness and it never works out in the end. I’ve been depressed for a long time but I’ve been watching your videos and I swear it’s my therapy.
I’m becoming a better and smarter women every day. I feel your words really touch me.
Thank you ❤️
GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SELF!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO…
CHANGED MY LIFE!! I’ve shared this video with sooooo many people & they’ve shared it. Everything you’ve said is so true. THANK YOU… please continue to make videos like this because our sisters need to know. I’m now watching all your videos now😊
I love the way she presents herself
Thankyou so much! Everything was very well said !
You did so well with this video Tiffany! This video literally came at the right time and I am going to put everything you said into practice and actually journal!
This was another beautiful said reminder to fill my cup before anything I do. So that I can feel loved and good within myself and be able to pour out positive and loving energy with others. This was really really helpful for me, this week was a struggle and listening helped me see what I was missing. Thank you truly again for another impactful message! I truly believe god is working with you to help our generation ❤
i needed this.thanks alot 💖💖
Thank you for this.. I'm saving it to revisit when I need it again. You're amazing.
I’m literally in a relationship where I have to love on myself because I’m definitely feeling like I’m not getting it in the relationship. But like you stated maybe it’s me. And that’s the mission I’m on to find out. Thank you for this video, right on time.
Thank you! This video came just in time. I really needed to hear this
Wow Tiffany this was so timely ❤ thanks for sharing your experience. I look forward to your videos ✨ they’re part of my morning routine when you drop ☀️
You understand life therapy and you would be an amazing therapist!! thank you for sharing and making us feel understood while finding ways to become better with our emotional understanding and creating being experiences for ourselves and people around us!
Your voice is so soothing ty for sharing and spreading this message ❤
I’ve been having to talk to myself in the past few weeks about exactly what you spoke ab in this video. You have such incredible insight and wisdom that helped guide me more down this path of self fulfillment and love. It’s so uncomfortable pulling myself out of these habits and coping strategies I’ve been using since I was a preteen, but I’m already starting to feel better bc of the work I’m doing. Thank you for sharing ❤
Wow! I’m so glad I came across this. Thank you. ❤
Wow!!! Thank you so much!!! This was amazing and much needed!! You are beautiful! Thank you for sharing this with us!! God bless you! 🤎
I needed to hear every word of this omg😫
Love and appreciate this episode. It was the interdependency and codependency breakdown that I needed to hear most. I’ve been codependent before in relationships and have stayed single so long to avoid it happening again but this video helped me realize that I no longer feel that way and have built a great sense of interdependence with my loved ones already ☺️🙌🏾
Tiffany!!! You are highly appreciated for sharing this video! 🫂 you have spoken on this topic so honestly & elegantly 👏🏾💎✨ Wishing you all the best & look forward to working with you 🫂
thank you for this message
I def needed this. I started listening in the gym but paused so I could play it later on. I struggle with this currently with my partner and I find myself going absolutely crazy sometimes. I am trying to truly work on myself and find myself and love on myself tho. So I have that step being worked on. But it’s hard sometimes! Thank you for this Tiffany!
This hair and the length is THE look! ❤
Thank you, Queen 👸🏾💖
You are a blessing. For individuals who find it difficult to articulate their true emotions (me)… this has helped me truly learn to look inward first, because now I have my voice to advocate for myself with others
Girl U just got a subscriber 🎉🎉🎉🎉am here for this girl 😊😊😊YASSSS baby
Much needed video, thank you!
I’m so glad you touched on this topic! It’s so good I have to send it to my mama, she got to hear this too!
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You go girl! Affirming you every chance I get! You are where you’re supposed to be! ❤
🙏🏾 it’s well received love! thank youu
You just spoke to my soul! Thank you so much for this, I have been feeling depressed down and with anxiety for some time now and you truly helped me to open my eyes and realize that I have to pour into myself more. ♥️ thank you! Definitely subscribed to your channel and would love to see more!
I love your videos. As a male follower I resonate with a lot of what you’re saying. Thank you!
I just clicked on the video and the vibes are vibing and I love that this popped up on my page!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ new subscriber is right on time.
Girrrrrllll… i can’t believe this video was right on time fr. I had a whole melt down yesterday. I was feeling alone (my brother passed a year ago and all my family lives far away I was feeling so heavy balling my eyes out) Sometimes I rely on my man too much to make me happy. Now I’m realizing i do this to all my loved ones, our kids even too. I was crying and he didn’t know what to do but I also wasn’t communicating well. I definitely rely on others too much and my healing journey has taught me I am still learning. Thank you so much for this message I am definitely applying these lessons to my life. 🥹🤍🤍🤍🤍
Much love, you got this! 🙏🏾 ❤
I actually really enjoyed this advice and you diving into regulation. I’m continuing learning boundaries and regulating myself. It’s also added bonus if you voice your concerns and thoughts that the person actually cares.
I really really really like this video ❤ it’s something that I needed to hear but also that my daughter needs to hear as well. This is very informative and I really feel the love and that it’s coming from a good place. Thank you 😊 and I will be taking your advice…I’m so thankful to have ran across this
This video is everything! So much wisdom and amazing advice. Thank you for this! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤