Things only highly sensitive people understand :')

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  • @LanaBlakely
    @LanaBlakely  Před 10 měsíci +285

    If you're a HSP - how did you know?

    • @gingerbrigite
      @gingerbrigite Před 10 měsíci +77

      We know in our deep souls. I'm compassionate, I feel the pain in the world, I'm sad when I hear the news when it's something sad, I'm an empath. Also I think HSP gives us creativity. ❤

    • @marcin3136
      @marcin3136 Před 10 měsíci +10

      When you have deeply knowleadge from diffrent fields of science you can say it. In other cases you cant be sure (misunderstanding). Im sure you know :)

    • @NeoNine10
      @NeoNine10 Před 10 měsíci +23

      Everything that seems to make you not like others.
      The slightest thing that bothers me, doesn't seem to bother others.
      I did also pass Elaine Aron’s HSP test on her website, though they say there is no true test for it. Only yourself can really know in the end.

    • @alon.galperin
      @alon.galperin Před 10 měsíci +31

      Annoyed by sounds. Can hear and smell things before most of the people around me.

    • @theintentionalist
      @theintentionalist Před 10 měsíci +16

      When an "outsider" calls me out for staring in awe at seemingly mundane things in the milieu.

  • @shivalika10
    @shivalika10 Před 10 měsíci +429

    “The smallest things can hurt me greatly and the smallest thing can make me extremely happy” felt so much love and resonance in this statement❤

    • @d1vy4
      @d1vy4 Před 10 měsíci +6

      The only time I'm thankful for being sensitive is when i find happiness in those little things :))

    • @shivalika10
      @shivalika10 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@d1vy4 I can totally understand ❤️

    • @Zaib593
      @Zaib593 Před 9 měsíci +2

      It is exactly me, who hurts at small things and be happy small things

    • @xw6475
      @xw6475 Před 4 měsíci

      I feel the same way too!!

  • @user-bq4uf1id7i
    @user-bq4uf1id7i Před 10 měsíci +595

    being sensitive is kind of a blessing, you feel a lot more feelings.

    • @ronny-yj8oc
      @ronny-yj8oc Před 10 měsíci +67

      a blessing and a curse at times

    • @wintermoonlight1111
      @wintermoonlight1111 Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@ronny-yj8oc exactly

    • @sameerjassal6841
      @sameerjassal6841 Před 10 měsíci +22

      @@ronny-yj8oc feels like a curse alot of the time - so much harder to get through everyday life

    • @user-vl4hr6cv2d
      @user-vl4hr6cv2d Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yess obviously ❤

    • @zharahussain8004
      @zharahussain8004 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@sameerjassal6841Allah make ease for you and us all

  • @vellorenitin
    @vellorenitin Před 10 měsíci +77

    When you said " Funny how those people never point out your sensitivity when it benifits them" my mind was blown, i was like why didn't i think of that? I used to feel ashamed that i was sensitive but now i won't Thank-you lana!

  • @guardian-X
    @guardian-X Před 10 měsíci +61

    I've avoided relationships all my life. It involves too many feelings for me and can feel like too much.

  • @mrinalinidevi6603
    @mrinalinidevi6603 Před 10 měsíci +194

    This ability to already sense what the other person is feeling when they walk through the door is often overwhelming. It's like even though they are not going to talk about it, but there is this constant urge to make them feel better. This ability has helped me a lot in assessing the situation or environment. But sometimes it feels like I am the only one in the room who knows that something is not right and don't know what is it while others are completely ignorant.

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Před 10 měsíci +16

      Oh yes all of this.

    • @Seca95
      @Seca95 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Try living with a mom and a sister who are completely oblivious, constantly turning life into hell for me as well as themselves. Zero ability to read the room to avoid conflicts, absolutely zero. I wish I were like them or they were like me.

    • @LukeLFN
      @LukeLFN Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Seca95 I understand

    • @yimascat
      @yimascat Před 9 měsíci

      same..!! my mom is similar to me, I love love helping others like it’s just always been there in me ever since I was young like ofc helping others is rewarding and yesys but I would like help others so much to the point where I turned into a people pleaser and my brain only focused on one thing in school which was the social aspect of school “people” I’m a people person I feel and when I got to middle school the environment and energy felt very… yucky.. and that unfortunately affected me a lot, I got anxiety and depression and I broke out due to severe stress acne but after I convinced my parents I want to take online school my skin cleared up and I am doing better and getting therapy

    • @yimascat
      @yimascat Před 9 měsíci +2

      It was always hard to explain to my mom why I felt so affected when I went to school, my brain is like a sponge and I didn’t know how to clear any energy I picked up and so my mom would always say “why aren’t’ you like your other cousins, why can’t you do it if everyone can?” she had that kind of mindset so yea..

  • @celestial5036
    @celestial5036 Před 10 měsíci +8

    “I will love you so hard it pains me, but I’ll also forget all about you”
    “There is no spectrum of betray me a little or alot”

  • @heeyaustin
    @heeyaustin Před 10 měsíci +66

    I also think HSP’s tend to fall into addictions easily. It makes sense as it’s usually a way for us to tune out the world and not feel the weight of the world so much by numbing our sensitivity with whatever feels good

    • @avtoportret
      @avtoportret Před 10 měsíci

      Indeed, neurodivergent people (ADHD and autistics - HSP doesn’t exist - are benefiting from the prescription drugs).

  • @somyahere
    @somyahere Před 10 měsíci +409

    Clicked unnaturally fast

  • @janinejournals
    @janinejournals Před 10 měsíci +25

    Realizing that being a HSP is a superpower is life-changing. Like, wow. We're neurodivergent people navigating a world built for neurotypical people. That makes it harder for us. There's no filter in our brain. The high highs, the low lows - we experience it all.
    Ask yourself - do we *have* to experience the whole deal? Or do we *get* to experience all of it? The latter view changed everything for me. You can't change how you're wired, and you shouldn't want to. You heal the world with your empathy. You remind them that beauty and joy are in the little things. Find your strengths and share them with society ♥

  • @bryanguijarro4418
    @bryanguijarro4418 Před 10 měsíci +15

    Being sensitive is a signal that you're so much stronger than you think. You feel the world around you and that's what makes you a real smart person. I used to feel like that, but finally I understood it all; many of us don't take a lil moment to meditate and think about their feelings, and they're living their lives faster and, in my opinion, we gotta take just a minute to disconnect and make a deeply search inside of our thoughts to find what's wrong and why we're feeling like we aren't doing things well. Blessings.

  • @atishya3259
    @atishya3259 Před 10 měsíci +192

    Lana, I have no other sibling.. But you make me feel so loved, just as an elder sister. Thankyou for filling up that empty space for me.

  • @vivekanand2970
    @vivekanand2970 Před 10 měsíci +49

    You don't know how much I appreciate this video. My girlfriend is a beautiful soul and very sensitive at that. There were moments when I told her, it's your fault you feel bad. It's hard to level with her but you saying these words helped me understand what she might be feeling. I've let her down time and time again but I hope I can be a man worthy of her in my future.

    • @Emi-jy5ct
      @Emi-jy5ct Před 10 měsíci +14

      What a beautiful comment!

    • @ameliac1190
      @ameliac1190 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Omg! She’s lucky!

  • @yuma130
    @yuma130 Před 10 měsíci +41

    Why do I feel like smiling and crying at the same time? That's so amazingly relatable

  • @kristinandj
    @kristinandj Před 10 měsíci +48

    As a highly sensitive person myself, I want to thank you for making me feel less alone

  • @nateo200
    @nateo200 Před 10 měsíci +141

    The vibe she gives is always exactly what I need!

  • @daleincisions
    @daleincisions Před 10 měsíci +32

    as an Adult Guy I been diagnosed and labeled as HSP , it's a blessing or a curse depending on how we act on it .
    I feel more deeply than anyone else and notice little things that others can't . My intuition is always 100% accurate .
    We feel more before we know something is good or bad is going to happen .
    Thank you Lana for discussing our personality .

    • @interestingtimes6242
      @interestingtimes6242 Před 9 měsíci +5

      It kind of sucks being HSP who is a man. I’m convinced it’s a turn off for most women, but not all. I believe it’s a trait my wife appreciated in me, before she passed. It’s pretty rare, though. Lots of female friend, though! Ugh. No, I won’t go shopping with them.

    • @jackwalker1822
      @jackwalker1822 Před 9 měsíci

      Being a HSP man, women don't want me. They feel that it is only a trait allowed in females. What if a man is just wired that way? Too bad. If you are a man and an exception to this, and found a woman who appreciates it, then you are very fortunate and rare.

    • @VaronPlateando
      @VaronPlateando Před 9 měsíci

      as a hsp gent myself, I highly doubt xx.s are able to grasp or even empathise with what that implies for gents, due to their (evo.psych) nature, and current culture encouraging their navel gazes. as I note, living life's decades left scars etc., certainly, and as for some (eg inter-personal) impressions, merely phantome pain is registered now. should help to practise non-attachment and | or stoicism.

    • @kutay8421
      @kutay8421 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I see and All in !
      As a man of 38, my neurons still trigger same amount for 1/3 voltage (tested). Just sensitive as a baby. But in a 130kg muscular body. I am not sure if anybody but HSP's understand me. Be it a f.ckbody or a nature/nurture relationship or just a person to talk to I want 'em to be Sensitive too.

  • @a_man8589
    @a_man8589 Před 10 měsíci +14

    Sometimes I wonder, how difficult my life becomes being an HSP. How overwhelmed I feel, noticing the unsaid emotional behaviours of others. I forgot that this highly sensitive trait also makes me exceptionally connected to Nature and things that others won't feel at all. Thank you Lana. Love you 🫂💞

  • @Kamilakhafizova
    @Kamilakhafizova Před 10 měsíci +14

    Being a HSP makes me feel so unique and special) and there is no one on earth but you and your sensibility , emotions and comfort.

  • @softcoach
    @softcoach Před 8 měsíci +7

    I'm a highly sensitive person and I cried at how beautiful this video was!

  • @ljubicasmolovic8326
    @ljubicasmolovic8326 Před 10 měsíci +30

    This is so me. I loved when you said that people don't complain when being sensitive serves them, how I can feel them. Over the years, I learned that real friends don't have problems with my sensitivity, they appreciate me for it. And I so deeply understand the feeling of being high on life. Yes, there is only one way I like my coffee. Why is that so hard to understand? Thank you Lana. I feel understood.

  • @cheekymonkey5150
    @cheekymonkey5150 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Lana you told exactly how I feel lately. A bit lonely and misunderstood with my ability to sense everything, enjoy the littlest things, but I am also easily overhelmed and need my time to recharge. I love nature walks and animals. I definitely don't need drugs or alcohol to feel high. Thanks for this film ❤❤

  • @bobbyhill8486
    @bobbyhill8486 Před 28 dny +1

    Never have I felt sooooo understood! I’m literally screaming rn at how much I relate to everything

  • @Ice-ug3ox
    @Ice-ug3ox Před 9 měsíci +3

    As a male, All my life I've been trying to de sensitize myself.... but once i saw it as a superpower, im more happy...😊

    • @nadanada5488
      @nadanada5488 Před 8 měsíci

      Ahh i love sensitive man, i just feel they understand girls better

  • @kirstenvanderpas5356
    @kirstenvanderpas5356 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Through my deep connection with nature. such as becoming extremely happy with cloud formations, the smell of the forest, the glittering on the water,... also having no brakes on the expression of my emotions and... cleaning as a form of control over my life.

  • @sasandipahanmi3580
    @sasandipahanmi3580 Před 10 měsíci +12

    Yes, I'm a HSP too. I found it when I met the boy who brokeup with me 4 and half months ago. Cause even his little words and actions were really hurtful for me. Yeah, I can feel everyone's feelings so deeply even when I don't know anything of them or haven't seen them ever. Every bad news like murder cases actually never fail to bring some tears to me. I don't think it is bad to be highly sensitive. Because in this complex world we are so kindful and so empathetic. We can truly be happy about ourselves. Cause we know that among of a lot of bad and tough people ;we are so soft and deeper connected people with the nature.

    • @TheRoadrunz
      @TheRoadrunz Před 10 měsíci +3

      Just current finding out whether I am an HSP…
      Just curious for further reference…
      Do you tend to remember almost every text without needing to go back to it …
      Do you tend to sense the emotions of your ex from behind the pictures they post…can you tell people from your family apart by listening to the sound of their footsteps or the way they unlock the door when they’re coming back home…

    • @zachripp8163
      @zachripp8163 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@TheRoadrunzall of these things apply to me so you probably have it

  • @nelibeshkova
    @nelibeshkova Před 10 měsíci +5

    That's SO relatable! I love how you highlighted the yin and yang of being a highly sensitive person 🩵

    • @nelibeshkova
      @nelibeshkova Před 8 měsíci

      @@ToriPunjabStyles 100 %, well said! x

  • @ArtishaaNoelle
    @ArtishaaNoelle Před 10 měsíci +38

    This video was just perfect in every way I loved it thank you for clearly understanding us highly sensitive people ❤ I appreciate you ✨

  • @sofiasunshine1311
    @sofiasunshine1311 Před 10 měsíci +20

    Listening to you feels like reading a book❤

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Před 10 měsíci +9

      That’s beautiful , thank you

  • @Awhcas
    @Awhcas Před 10 měsíci +6

    I am like this. I need to have a routine because i know exactly how I need things for me to have a successful day, and that my day won’t be the same without following my routine. Sometimes it can be overwhelming experiencing such drastic “mood swings” from one little tiny thing upsetting me to one little tiny thing making me the happiest person in the world. I’ve had full crying sessions because I’ve felt so bad for people less fortunate than me who don’t have homes or food, people that I don’t even know. I’ve cried with happy tears at the sight of a cat. I have always been able to put myself in others shoes incredibly easily, and then knowing exactly what they need. Sometimes it feels like I just care too much about everything and everyone when other people don’t care about me the same way. Even people I don’t necessarily like very much, I still care about them and would want to help them. I didn’t know anyone else felt like this, but I’m glad I saw this video

    • @maritalma2773
      @maritalma2773 Před 10 měsíci +2

      oh yes. And sometimes it feels like way more than I can handle. I get overwhelmed and just want to cry, but then when I'm sad and on a walk in an attempt to make me feel better, I run into a cat that's extra cuddly and suddenly things are a bit more okay. Or the moon is extra bright, the clouds look like an elephant and the air smells nice. I can't hate anyone, because I understand. I always understand. It's a lot sometimes, but I think in the end it's worth it.

    • @Awhcas
      @Awhcas Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@maritalma2773 ya I can’t ever hate anybody because automatically I think of all of the things they might be dealing with that would cause them to be the type of person to hate, but then I feel bad for them, and then that reminds me of all of the things other people are dealing with, and I feel bad for them too. Sometimes I can’t ever escape because I just want everybody in the world to be happy but I know I can never do that

  • @molassescricket6663
    @molassescricket6663 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Channel your sensitivity Lana. Expect a lot of dissatisfaction, disappointment, and pain. Yet you will experience great joys in life and highs that are off the scale. It’s all that much more bittersweet for us HSP’s. Write poetry, paint, draw. Turn your sensitivity into strength.

  • @scriptxyoufurry
    @scriptxyoufurry Před 10 měsíci +3

    thank you for posting this i really needed this video, it feels so comforting knowing that im not just going crazy being this sensitives towards people or how im so easily moved, i absolutely adored the way you said “moved” in your video as its such a calming and reassuring word to me ^w^, but continuing on, thank you from my fluffy soul that you made this video, it made me feel alot better bout who i am and most definitely understanding where people told me im too sensitive but its actually a blessing to me and not a curse :3 so for that i say thank you ❤ and hope the absolute best with your videos continuing on forward 🩵

  • @drabbit61
    @drabbit61 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I am 62 so it's..50+ years feeling these...differences
    You expressed, it nicely.
    Thanks ❤

  • @myungssii
    @myungssii Před 10 měsíci +4

    And I thought being sensitive would be something bad. You just gave me a whole different perspective of this topic while describing me also. Thank you for that. I love your page 💕

  • @marinac.ll.4840
    @marinac.ll.4840 Před 10 měsíci +7

    This was the most beautiful way ever to describe not only yourself, but also HSP. Thank you sm for making this! ❤

  • @superlyobsessed
    @superlyobsessed Před 10 měsíci +1

    You described highly sensitive people in the best way I've seen so far. Thank you ☺️

  • @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
    @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Před 10 měsíci +13

    Awesome video, Lana. I'll take a highly sensitive person over a non-sensitive person any time!

  • @93anagirl
    @93anagirl Před 10 měsíci +2

    This was so calming and soothing to listen to/watch. I've been very anxious lately and something about this style of video just speaks to my soul and your voice is so calming. Your videography is also beautiful.. it almost felt like a documentary/movie. And yes it's beautiful to feel so much but sometimes very difficult.

  • @Sara-zd5tm
    @Sara-zd5tm Před 10 měsíci +4

    i'm a HSP but i hide it. all the time. because i'm afraid i will be judged or ppl will feel uncomfy or they will dislike me. is this just my anxiety? because i'm tired of this. and lately, i've been feeling lonely. even though i have a loving family, i know i have to be perfect because that's what they expect of me. i just feel like i can't show my sensitivity. what should i do?

    • @klaudinegarcia8932
      @klaudinegarcia8932 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I feel you!!!!! 😢 I'm very paranoid people won't like me because I've been rejected many times due to my quiet and sensitive personality... My family loves me very much and they accept my quiet side but, not so much my sensitive side... I guess its very hard for them when I'm being sensitive at times 😢.... My parents idea of perfection is for me to be a good, obedient and pure daughter. I think it's because I grew up in a conservative and religious household...

    • @zachripp8163
      @zachripp8163 Před 10 měsíci

      @@klaudinegarcia8932 whenever someone dislikes you for being quiet or sensitive it's just the way they see the world. They are the ones missing out on how enjoyable it is to be around quiet/shy people once you get to know them. If you ever need someone to talk to lmk 😜

  • @jossianbeshai235
    @jossianbeshai235 Před 10 měsíci +40

    I agree with this video so much and I am indeed a HSP I first realized when I noticed I did not like violence, sensitive to other’s emotions, sometimes feeling over stimulated, getting vivid imaginations and sometimes with my beliefs to like Jesus son of god, and really appreciating beauty. Lana you are so easy to relate to and I love your videos 💕

  • @Swastikasarkar-wx2wc
    @Swastikasarkar-wx2wc Před 10 měsíci +7

    Lana you make me realise that being a quiet girl who observes everything isn't a bad thing. It's just that I feel a lil bit more than others and never got the one to whom I can open up my feelings and thoughts. All I'm hoping is god will give me a partner with whom I'll feel the most comfortable to share my thoughts 🫶

  • @brieschaffer5300
    @brieschaffer5300 Před 10 měsíci +1

    thank you for this video. I think it helped me see the bright side of being sensitive to the world. I definitely try to hold myself back so that I don't feel things as strongly, which helps prevent the bad feelings but maybe also prevents me from experiencing the "highs" of the world too.

  • @dinahconnell6947
    @dinahconnell6947 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Being validated and feeling betrayed by family are big big depression point for me. 😢

  • @SynnoveJamila
    @SynnoveJamila Před 10 měsíci +1

    oh! I knew you were in Norway! Perfect place to get overwhelmed by nature's beauty hihi I really appreciated this video, pointing out the beauty of being sensitive. And as you mentioned in the video, it's not always a quality that gets appreciated by other people. Hence, why I've become good at having a straight face when I'm actually feeling a lot inside. I sometimes feel that people won't take me seriously if I show too much emotion, or if I'm too excited about something. Especially in a male-dominated setting and at work. But I'm happy that I have people in my life that appreciate the fact that I care, A LOT.

  • @dims1100
    @dims1100 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love this video. I resonate so much with feeling emotions deeply and it can oftentimes make me feel like an outsider but it's nice to know I'm not the only one. This video made me think about the quote "I don't know what it is like to not have deep emotions. Even when I feel nothing, I feel it completely" by Sylvia Plath.

  • @pranavghosh9531
    @pranavghosh9531 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Others feels the exterior pleasures of life but sensitive people feels the essence of life!...

  • @Karolhaygh
    @Karolhaygh Před 10 měsíci +2

    So relieving to know I am not alone in this world. Thank you Lana, and thank you to every comment down below, I feel understood and loved.

  • @hereues
    @hereues Před 10 měsíci +10

    i’m very sensitive and i deeply relate to how i am not capable of feeling a little of something

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Před 10 měsíci +7

      I honestly only recently realised this about myself

    • @Snailmail1
      @Snailmail1 Před 10 měsíci

      @@LanaBlakelydo you mean you don’t get bored with life much? What if I’m the opposite where a lot of things don’t make me happy or excited? Does that mean I wouldn’t be highly sensitive

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@Snailmail1 I don’t think you should read into someone else’s experience too much. Everyone is sensitive in different ways. For example, a lot of HSP have difficulty setting boundaries with other people, while I don’t relate to that at all. We’re not all the same!

  • @bowman-san2681
    @bowman-san2681 Před 8 měsíci +1

    OMAGAD, 1:57 YES YES YES I can feel their mood by how they closed the door or how long it took them to take their shoes and coat off, or how they places them on the coach. OMG.
    I have read in the past that children raised in abusive or toxic household are highly perceptive of the moods of their parents and of tiny details like I mentioned, but I was not raised in such unsafe environment. So I wondered for long why I am the way I am... so sensitive? so emotional... so perceptive of my surroundings, sounds, smells, and moods of other people...
    Thank you so much for the video. It feels so nice to know I am not alone.
    I just finished watching, and I wanna add what I can relate to: 4:17 YES, I am really appealed to drugs and alcohol. I drink it for the taste and for curiosity, but I am not addicted, neither am I in need of their effects. YES, going on a hike and being in nature feels so great! I also like just observing nature beauty of life, of real life in nature, not that we have in the megapolis where there is so little nature and birds and animals, just grey concrete, shiny buildings, and loud transports...

  • @jimjimmy8990
    @jimjimmy8990 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Lana, thank u for this video ❤. As sensitive as I used to be, it dawned on me that it's way more relieving not to take things too seriously.

  • @embodiedauthenticity
    @embodiedauthenticity Před 10 měsíci +2

    What a piece of art this video is! I also highly relate to that heightened level of sensitivity.

  • @OnTheSensitiveSide
    @OnTheSensitiveSide Před 10 měsíci +2

    I feel like I’m the only one who always called myself too sensitive. No one else had to do it for me. Ever since, I’ve been reprogramto ming myself to embrace my sensitivity and stop apologizing for being more delicate.
    This is an artful piece on the beauty of high sensitivity. Thanks for sharing your inspiration 🙃

  • @user-wn6rd8bl2s
    @user-wn6rd8bl2s Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank u soo much for bringing up this topic . I'm a highly sensitive person and could relate to u. Sometimes the smallest criticisms that people say effect me severely. Anyway thank u for this video

  • @N-HTTi
    @N-HTTi Před 10 měsíci +2

    Being functional in a dysfunctional world is the curse of the numbed
    I feel and I feel depleted and my feeling accurately represents my experience
    To see to feel to touch to appreciate and agonize. What wonderful gifts they are
    I only wish people can be more sensitive to me instead of labeling me the crazy one

  • @malika6713
    @malika6713 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this feeling of being more than ok with sensitivity. I relate to so many things you told. Oh clothes! Yeah, no matter how they are i' ve been always irritated by my clothes and i don't wanna wear them most of the times. When i told it to someone, they didn't understand. As a teenager, even when i painted my nails, they hurt so much i couldn't sleep.
    I was having a hard time with accepting my sensitivity. Every single person gets it as a weakness, and i end up feeling bad about it, knowing that i can't change a thing... i was considered as an easily-offended, childish, innocent and so on for being like this...Btw, about not getting bored, yeeah! I would sit hours just staring somewhere and enjoying peace and quietness or beauty of nature and i never get bored...anyways, i am saving this video to rewatch, love you❤

  • @valerygonzalez7475
    @valerygonzalez7475 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I feel overwhelmed by the world, too much information, too much corruption and too much malice.. I feel can't adapt.. On the other hand, I like things that are simple and considered boring by society, I like order and I give so much importance to health, emotions and details. I'm the quiet, boring girl that wanted be healthy and spend her time in the nature or make some sports instead in the club.

  • @sanjidakamal5068
    @sanjidakamal5068 Před 10 měsíci

    Hey Lana! Well i got to know that I was a hsp during the lockdowns . I am always thinking deeply and most of the time my friends don't understand me . I feel bad easily when my loved ones talk to furiously or indifferently. It creats a huge lump in my throat and I can't breathe. Similarly a very little of kind gesture makes me happy. I feel good when I see someone happy. I don't know why I said all this. But it felt good to share. Thank you so much Lana. Thanks for being you😊❤

  • @user-dl5vm7gy5b
    @user-dl5vm7gy5b Před 5 měsíci +1

    1) other moods affects you
    2) you feel whiplash of emotions
    3) very sensitive

  • @leaodecarvalho4482
    @leaodecarvalho4482 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanks to your channel cuz you help me better to understand a HSP person, I have a crush on someone who is highly sensitive, and everytime I try to Impress her, it always end up awkward and it often makes her stay away from me, One of her close friend told me that she likes me too, but due to the things above. She often blocked me, I find it hard and overwhelmed. But now I'm more relax, even though, we rarely contact each other, I'm hoping that one day, we'll meet again and I can do better. I like her a lot, because she's calm and smart.

  • @khaoulalydia9283
    @khaoulalydia9283 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I thought that sensitivity was holding me back from doing a lot things and struggled a lot because that , people used to call me SENSITIVE and that made me feel so sad I was thinking like I'm that person who focus on every single details how can I even live I tried to change that but I couldn't change anything ... but time made me reallizing that It is something that distinguishes me from others and now I'm satisfied with everything . thank you for the video ❤‍🔥

  • @margalidajt3575
    @margalidajt3575 Před 10 měsíci +1

    This has to be the most special and relatable video I've seen in a lot of time. Thanks Lana, this was a blessing ❤️

  • @poovanna4284
    @poovanna4284 Před 10 měsíci +2

    You're videos has a very different kind feel with you way convey you're thoughts the calmness energy you're bring to the videos is so good

  • @vanja_v_
    @vanja_v_ Před 10 měsíci

    💜💜💜 Dear Lana, everything you said resonates a lot. Thanks for this video, it feels so good to hear I'm not alone. When (few months ago) I read Elaine Aron's book The Highly sensitive person, and watched documentary Sensitive The Untold Story, it literally changed my life and perspective. Now I understand myself and others much better, I'm different, but not in a negative way. Finally, I started to accept this trait and celebrate it. 💫I realized how important it is to adjust my lifestyle, to say "no" when I feel like it, and create daily routines in order to create peace and predictability (whenever possible) to avoid overwhelm and sensory overload. I believe this ability to feel things deeply is a gift, and I would not change it. However, I definitely think HSPs need to be extra considerate to create their lives in a way to preserve their mental health and inner peace. I guess it is essential to know yourself extremely well, honor your needs, and keep healthy boundaries.💜💜💜

  • @chedysouilhi7408
    @chedysouilhi7408 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Sensitive poeple are actually the most caring and affectionate , please try to understand them instead of judging them all the time
    another great video , im really thankful for your content miss lana it always puts a smile on my face and enlightens me
    have a great day

  • @StudentLifeIDEAS
    @StudentLifeIDEAS Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for putting all my feelings into words! I can finally share this video to a person who asks me why I am the way I am!💕

  • @empshock6992
    @empshock6992 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is the best video I’ve seen on HSP. I loved your heartfelt explanation and the beauty of it. I felt that. ❤

  • @kikiursalone
    @kikiursalone Před 10 měsíci +2

    I'm the complete opposite but you reminded me of a loved one who passed away so thank you for that! ❤

  • @indigo_diary
    @indigo_diary Před 10 měsíci +3

    This was soo beautifully written & filmed 🤍

  • @yanailiuk1580
    @yanailiuk1580 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Your videos feel like a hug 🫂❤
    You literally inspire to live
    Thank you Lana 💫

  • @youtube_music_lovers
    @youtube_music_lovers Před 10 měsíci +2

    I'm watching this at 3am and it so soothing. I also resonate with most of what's being said.

  • @techslfink9722
    @techslfink9722 Před 10 měsíci +1

    There’s always so much I can relate to in your videos🙏 Also the content and your friendly voice is like a mental warm blanket🤗

  • @yoshi314
    @yoshi314 Před 10 měsíci +2

    what i don't like about some HSPs is that they throw around their sensitivity as a weapon : "you cannot say that, because i am HSP, and that hurts me".
    who knows, maybe i have bad luck with people.

  • @winnyfredxxxx
    @winnyfredxxxx Před 10 měsíci +1

    I wish there was a book with everything you say in your videos. Your words are so beautiful to listen to ✨

  • @comodemiel
    @comodemiel Před 10 měsíci +4

    I’ve always known I’m a HSP but this video just confirmed it for me. Literally everything you’ve said spot on. Ty for being my favorites youtubbie. You make me want to travel the world alone and find myself. ✨✨

    • @comodemiel
      @comodemiel Před 10 měsíci +1

      Also question, are this dr marten sandals? They seem slimmer and more feminine .. but I’m unsure if it’s because it’s not a close shot of them 😊

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Před 10 měsíci +1

      💕💕 and yes they're dr martens. my most worn shoes for the past 3 summers!

  • @ANUBHAVERMA_003
    @ANUBHAVERMA_003 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you so much for making me feel quiet , really calm . After watching your video i toally feel i sense of calm and peacefullness in my mind 😇

  • @aizaestebanbinasbas1360
    @aizaestebanbinasbas1360 Před 10 měsíci +19

    You are not just a CZcamsr, your like a sister, a friend and a sort of therapist. Thanks a lot for this another relatable content, what a relieved knowing that being deep and intuitive is a normal thing its just that we're hsp

  • @isadoregoldstein3449
    @isadoregoldstein3449 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you! This helped me accept my sensitivity more!

  • @Kasia_Luna
    @Kasia_Luna Před 10 měsíci +1

    This resonates with me so much. Thank you for this work of art, Lana. 🥰

  • @bonestep6133
    @bonestep6133 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I have no idea how this channel ended up in my feed but I Genuinely enjoyed this.

  • @Aqgodfather
    @Aqgodfather Před 10 měsíci +1

    Being highly sensitive is a super power . I enjoy having that power 💙💪🏻🙏🏻 stay blessed, much love Lana

  • @charlizebouchard1718
    @charlizebouchard1718 Před 9 měsíci

    Gosh that was a good one. Sending my best wishes to you and Fred, Lana! Thank you for sharing.

  • @sutti8
    @sutti8 Před 10 měsíci +1

    A better and positive perspective .
    Thank you ❤

  • @terezaknizatkova6674
    @terezaknizatkova6674 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love the way you described this! Thank you very much ❤

  • @davidpt
    @davidpt Před 10 měsíci +2

    clothes tags are easy to remove with a scissors if you just cut the lines that sew it to the clothing piece, and you won't damage your clothes

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I usually do that. But sometimes I’ll notice a tag when I don’t have scissors available and I just can’t stand it… :-) Obviously if it’s an expensive piece of clothing I’ll just suck it up

  • @rojinabaral9369
    @rojinabaral9369 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Your voice is so calm and soothing💐

  • @jat651
    @jat651 Před 9 měsíci

    I knew that I was a HSP by being overly considerate ever since I was a kid. I love you and your content Lana, keep it up! This instantly resonated with me ❤

  • @priyaagarwal7068
    @priyaagarwal7068 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Lana, I really hope yk how amazing you are. This video holds so much peace . i felt so so good agh

  • @MalinaStarkMusic
    @MalinaStarkMusic Před 9 měsíci

    100% relate 🤍 so comforting to know there are people out there feeling exactly the same.

  • @lily98970
    @lily98970 Před 8 měsíci

    I just moved back to uni and a big change like that, losing control over a lot of things and life moving too fast and yet somehow too slow is giving me breakdowns per day. Trying to make it work out but to be honest Sometimes It feels impossible. It is a blessing and It is a curse...

  • @Oksimo-jc4tz
    @Oksimo-jc4tz Před 10 měsíci

    Great video. This was unexpectedly relatable to me, and the way it was made is really calming ;)

  • @saoirsekenny6852
    @saoirsekenny6852 Před 2 měsíci

    thank you for being such a comforting voice

  • @OpheliasAdvices-mp9km
    @OpheliasAdvices-mp9km Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for this, extremely validating and calming

  • @kaneetaarshad8987
    @kaneetaarshad8987 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I feel so seen lana, I think I might just cry. You’re so beautiful and so are the things you say

  • @sytse66
    @sytse66 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I can totally relate to this! Regarding the single flower in the field, something similar… is that still an enjoying clothing label at 3:50?

  • @leggermentesara
    @leggermentesara Před 10 měsíci +1

    I got emotional 😢❤️ the part at 4:11 never thought of it, but so true!

  • @thegritsch
    @thegritsch Před 10 měsíci +1

    Yep. And you can read people like an open book. Took me a while to learn that many people are not comfortable with that

  • @falconprogramminggaming8218
    @falconprogramminggaming8218 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I have manifested the voracious enigma of words in this quote: "Words are powerful and endorsing creatures. They are silent entities, hiding under the veil of mundane quirks. Yet they are also the sole ambiguous dominators for perpetuity." ~ Me

  • @celestial5036
    @celestial5036 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I am an HSP but the first part about wearing scented products and clothing with tags isn’t relatable. Like yea tags annoy me but not in a way that would be different from others. In fact I love scents

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem Před 10 měsíci

    As a highly sensitive person, I can totally relate to this! From feeling emotions intensely to needing that much-needed alone time to recharge, being an HSP comes with unique gifts and challenges. Understanding our heightened awareness and deep empathy allows us to foster meaningful connections and appreciate the beauty in the little things. Let's embrace our sensitivity and celebrate the richness it brings to our lives!

  • @analuzzalazar399
    @analuzzalazar399 Před 10 měsíci +1

    bro that’s literally me ❤️‍🩹, i’m an hsp person too and watching these type of videos make me feel like i’m not really a weirdo ✨