All the difficult things I had to re-learn this year
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- čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
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Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
00:55 - Consequences
01:39 - Friendship
02:49 - Quotes & writing
04:05 - Community
05:54 - Time heals
06:25 - The now
07:00 - Planning life
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this was the perfect video to end with the floating boat end scene...why'd you leave it out?
it's okay to learn new things or have to relearn them.
I thought life was ongoing unfinished until my mother passed away. I hope my strength and energy maintains although experiences will be interpreted different, maybe i an looking for someone particular to watch “new normal family” with, 🤔
God is unquestionably real, and the boundless life we experience is not a deception. The existence of the Afterlife is undeniable. While our current existence is transient and uncertain, we may find ourselves unable to escape its grasp.
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While watching this quote came to mind “I am very interested and fascinated by how everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other" - from the Perks of Being a Wallflower
Very insightful quote.
I think on a spiritual level, everyone knows we are all connected and that is unconditional love.
On a physical level, with all of the nonsense of ego and the lean towards materialism and shallowness, it's easy for us as physical individuals not to like those parts of eachother since it demonstrates our disconnection.
I view nostalgia as a bit of a "comfort zone." A place we all go to when we are discontent with our current life. The interesting part, however, is that nostalgia makes the past more glorious than it actually was. The past, present and future are all filled with hardships. But what makes the past unique are the little things that helped us get through the tough times. The songs we used to listen to. The shows and movies we used to watch. The memories we had in school. That grocery store we used to go to but is no longer there because it got demolished and replaced by another business and every time we past by the place I say, "man do you remember there used to be a Kmart here? Those were some good times!" Even the transition from summer to fall where the sky turns grey and the leaves turn brown usually puts me in a nostalgic mood. Anyways, I'm rambling. It's just the part in the video where Lana mentioned nostalgia got me excited.
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Very thought provoking, Lana! Love your videos. I'm 62 now and still learning new things. Sometimes from young, intelligent people like you, Lana. Keep being your awesome self!
The same goes for me - also at 62, although I don’t feel older than 30
@@techslfink9722that’s awesome! Stay young, my friend!
Never to old to learn!
I'm 17 and lately I was thinking about most of these things you talked about. Thank you for making this video because the answers are clearer now.
Thank you for sharing, really thought provoking. The question like 'where do you see yourself in 5 years' just annoy me, sure I can say I want to become this or that but then again life rarely goes as planned. So now I just embrace curiosity and willingness to learn new, exciting things.
Lana, your videos are always so insightful and thought-provoking! 🌟 This year has indeed been a time of learning and growth for many of us, and your wisdom is greatly appreciated. 💖📚
I can't begin to tell you, how much I love your content. Thank you for creating these videos, they've helped me a a lot during the days when felt lost or stressed out. I have learnt to understand a lot of things about life and also about myself. A big thanks to you!
I have almost died twice and I am in my 30's. It is natural for me to think about my mortality.
Thought-provoking video. Kind of reminds me of the saying about life being like a river. You can swim and keep your head above water, but over time, the river will carry you downstream. Life will take you to your future whether you want it to or not.
I appreciated your videos.
I also learn along the way as you do.
Thanks Lana!
I quite like your existential monologues. Being a human moving through time is such a beautiful experience. Embrace the suck and memento mori.❤
Your videos have helped me thru so much ❤ “the direction of the wind will have the final say.”
Hello Lana!! This is another wonderful and great video as always!! Thank you Lana!!
Thank God you are always there for us Lana!Not sure what we would do without your videos♥️🥺
Now when i become 38 ..the biggest lesson i learn don't look for friendship or relation .. The good ppls come to you in right time when you love yourself first.. So learn how to love yourself
I found this too! Surrendering and not seeking is the best since what is meant for you will not miss you. It shows up in your path at the right time and without effort.
I found this channel just after promising myself to start loving myself and start to care about little things that make me what I am. You share the content and lessons that I exactly need right now. Thanks Lana❤
You won’t be disappointed !!! She’s amazing
yeah, I am an adult now and can’t believe in it. I convinced that there is no adult exist in the world, all are children who plays role of adults.
This is spot on. Definitely a lot of the things I've learned over the last decade or so.
Great video! Thank you Lana!
Life is more than eyes can comprehend. But most people “know” too much to understand this ….When you understand this simple thing, life becomes wonderful, full of joy and love .
Nice to hear from you again. Look forward to seeing. Soon.
Wow, your honesty is refreshing. Re-learning difficult things can be a humbling experience, but your positive perspective is a testament to your strength. Wishing you continued success on your journey of growth!
Thank you Lana!
Lana, another great video, I feel that you are not your chipper self, hope everything is ok, with love from the USA.
Discovering this channel has been the greatest thing that has happened to me 💜
There's a new glow I see in you. Either that or I have missed a lot of your recent videos :)
Thank you, Lana, as always. ❤
Inspirational & heartfelt advice for all 🌟
Much needed honest video ❤
I really love how come you are in your videos ❤
I love that we share the same world.
I like the little things I remember about you.
The direction of wind will have final say ! So true nothing is in our hands so true
Hi Lana 👋,
I find it interesting that the reality of how finite life is can feel so far away until we realize it’s a lot closer as we grow older. What’s even more interesting is that upon coming to this realization, I’ve also learned to embrace the reality that life rarely happens according to plan. Even though I may feel puzzled about where life has decided to take me now, maybe one day I’ll eventually understand and be grateful for it in the future.
Sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤗
I Just started this channel after watching your video. Thank you.
Happy New year happy merry Christmas
It's literally 12 hours till new year in my country and I'm watching this video as a reminder. ❤
Interesting topic!
This year so do I!
Ive started writing stories whenever something particularly interesting that happens to me. That way when i hopefully have kids and grandkids I'll have cool stories to tell.
Hello Lana, wonderfull hope all the best❤❤❤
Tack!
Du är så vacker och inspirerande ❤️
”oh no, Jim’s caught some nostalgia and can’t seem to stop hitting himself with it”🙃
Would love to know about your diet plan and workouts you do.
Watching you since long time and you look so young always and still look the same 👌.
I just want to say that you’ve help us a lot Lina and we really
Appreciate the support you have gave us I’m literally going to cry. ❤thanks for everything I’ve been watching you for like 5 years and you’ve had changed my life. When you came into the picture don’t worry I’ll meet you one day my dream is to meet you. 💗 watch my dream will come true i bet watch
loved this video!
Your ponytail is so beautiful I am admired of it
I've struggled with mental wellness for 15+ years, and I must say this video is eye opening. It's not always easy to maintain a happy mood or an uplifting vibe all day, everyday. As I've grown older the more I've realized I'm only human, and that I need to stop beating myself up for not being chipper 24/7. I'm a bit of a perfectionist and I've decided to work on loving myself more this year.
I LOVE YOU LANA❤
God -- Sweden is such a beautiful piece of land.
this was the perfect video to end with the floating boat end scene...why'd you leave it out?
Love is like i accept you with your weaknesses.
love is like i accept you with your weaknesses.
Beautiful beautiful video. Needed this right now. Very poignant.
Well done. Have a good Day.
I don't learn things, the things learn me!
I felt this
Hallowen! Riktig Godt Jul. 🎄☃️❄️✝️🛐✝️🛐✝️🛐 Hoppå sø ... Takk
3:10 now that is an impressive library
I agree finances & education level help, so on that level i absolutely screwed up my youth.
Thanks
I am so early! I love you, my comfort youtuber
But one of the things she expressed to me was that didn't matter.
All the things she said & did with me, drew my my heart into her in other way possible.
Like extremely in a compelling way.
Hii angel,im ur big fan,i watch ur every video,,i wanna see ur hpy face always,,ur voice very sweet,,plzz take care ur health,god bless you,
Do the difficult things while they are easy and do the great things while they are small. A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.
PLAN TO LIVE AND LOVE TO PLAN
🌲 HAPPY HOLIDAYS
We need a Blakely manifesto!
I remember in one of your podcasts you mentioned that most of your audience was men. If you did, then I don't want you to feel uncomfortable about it cuz you gave us the sanity of mind, the support and the feeling of importance that we lack in this world. We have a lot of respect for you. Thank you. ❤
I'd missed a lot from your channel. After what happened to me, mentally and people walked away from me. I kinda stayed away from the things I loved and even habits, including your channel. I APOLOGIZE. It is really good to be back.
☕.. The art of sailing is knowing the direction of the wind and how to steer through it-- we still have some control over it though! 😂😂😂
@Lana Blakely: What is the role of books in your process of learning? Have you any books to add to the 7 books that you mentioned in your 2020 video "7 Books That Changed My Life"? How does Laird Hunt's novel "Zorrie" compare to John Edward Williams's novel "Stoner"?
I miss you, Lana.
I love you❤❤
Wow nicely. Du hjelpe me Klarer klar? Unnlysed.... Takk ...... Sweden
the voice, our voice.. again it could be just me.. here your voice is hurt, hmm.. if not hurt, there is a shadow in the voice.. i cannot feel or see yet, but i can hear that shadow, from the most recent video.. You know you are beautiful
Ok i agree with much of things you speak of, but im curious how i could not like a woman who i strongly care about or love.
I think all mortals have a fractured memory that parses various events based on relevancy vs. irrelevancy. 4-5 humans can have a shared experience whereas they absorb details based on their own interpretation of relevancy/irrelevancy. hence even our own we think of only the good parts and tend to omit the unflattering details. the stuff that makes us infallible we tend to conveniently forget.
Hi very interested places you travel I like
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You can't plan life out, as life is what happens when you plan something else, though what you can do is improve your ability to maneuver within it...
Start with the basics, you mentioned memory...that's one of the most important things most people overlook on improving about themselves...many ways to do it, one of the best is to say something out loud, or in silence, and "make a mental note" of it , then add something else to this linear rope in your mind...go to about 5 items, then head back to the first thing, while saying each thing you came up with along the way....Then go back to the end, saying everything in order, and add one more thing...
Keep doing this, forward and backwards, until you lose track, or get tired...the best time is right before bed, write down what all the things you kept track of in order are, go to sleep, and wake up to take a quiz on how well you remembered everything...
Do this every day for a month, or keep it as a constant routine, and you will begin to notice your ability to recall things, correctly, in chronological order has improved substantially...
The rest is learning things that will benefit you in life, e.g. : learning new languages, understanding the basics of how to repair a vehicle, how to grow your own food, create your own electricity, essentially start to look at the world as something that you have bail out of to eventually rely solely on your own abilities and natural resources...learn to live independently...that doesn't mean you can't interact with the world...though when you can supply your own electricity, food, and water...you will find that everything else becomes that much easier...
Though it's not easy to do these things, consider them your life long goals...as this world is not what it represents itself to be, and depending on it is a sure fire way to be let down by it...basically learn to live through the bust times in the economy, and you will flourish through boom times...each manufactured, so be cautious of taking on debt when times are good, that's like playing musical chairs...the losses are written into the system...
Have a great weekend,
-ER x
i love you i need you
I dont know why how ....... But you came in my Dream today 😋
came here for more of your voice therapy ..
Here's a comment from my own experience:
Being overly critical about people's behaviour and life in general can sometimes hold you back because of your knowledge on certain things.
Simply put, try not to overthink... just enjoy life and allow some people in.
You have a wonderful soul, and there are still men around the world who truly appreciate that.
This is my crush ❤
One of your best and deepest videos, thank you for it, I appreciate that. If it is not too personal, could you some day share with us to which conclusion your thoughts on God and the meaning of life you came so far? Though you never address those topics directly, you seem to be a very spiritual person with deep insights in the nature of reality and life and I would love to hear your insights about that. You say, I am not here by coincidence. Well, by what then? Thank you very much for all you share with us and for all your deep thoughts. Have a joyful time.
I think you prove that final quote in the video wrong. The wind might take us unexpectedly sometimes, but if you aim for a place to go with purpose and the proper standards, you'll end up where you want to be despite the direction of the wind. You are proof of that. So really, we have the final say on our own direction.
Lana definitely knows what shes doing with that thumbnail 😂
No one gonna talk about how beautiful lana actually looks!?
0:26 you are cute ... , happy new year...
TO THE SUPERIOR ASTRAL! BIG FOCUS! LIFE OF THE UNIVERSE! HERE WE ARE TO IRRADIATE THOUGHTS TO THE SUPERIOR SPIRITS, IN ORDER TO GET INVOLVED IN THEIR LIGHTS AND FLUIDS, STRENGTHENING US FOR THE FULFILLMENT OF OUR DUTIES.
love you gorgeous🌷🍓❤Great Graceful LANA💑💕💑♥
This reminds me of an old joke (and I'm paraphrasing): How do you make God laugh? Make a plan.
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Lana Hi how are you my dear friend
I mean it seems as if i must have liked her to get to level of care for her that it turned into love?
Time does heal all wounds. What we think has reached the point of bearable is forgotten all about in 10 years. Btw, you're probably the coziest person on youtube, so you shouldn't think that people have a demonic grudge against you or something like that.
Hi! Can You help me? I'm from Eastern Europe so my English isn't perfect but I need your help. I'm 15 years old and I got into a relationship online. Our friendship developed very quickly, he cares about me very much, he writes that I mean a lot to him, he cares about me and is an ideal when it comes to character and treatment. There are literally no red flags. However, I don't love him and I'm not physically attracted to him. I write that I love him too because I don't want to hurt his feelings. I have never been in a relationship, but I miss the boy who was my only and first unfulfilled love. I can't love my current one but I don't want to hurt him because I know how much he cares. What would you do in my situation?
Hello 🤍
If you want my advice
I'll tell you to try not to fall in love at this age.
My dear believe me “the right person will come at the right time”.
But in the current situation tell the boy the truth, don't give him false hope even if it will hurt him a little , but if you pretend that you love him and he knows, he will be hurt more.
She is definitely my dream woman.
Maybe, this is why I am single.
I know plenty of men are single in the US.
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I like how Lana looks depressed and gloomy in most of her cover photos for the videos but once you click on it, it’s actually very uplifting lol