The Value Of Our Life Feeling Depressed & Happiness!
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- čas přidán 15. 07. 2016
- A talk on the relationship between the Value of life, what gives our lives value, depression because of it and why we are not happy all the time!
#Breakup #heartbreak #lifecoach
Mehran Dadbeh (Author)
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Thank you . This changed the way I look at life. Now, I understand that I have already won the jackpot which is life, and I was born to experience this jackpot, and that's the motive to be happy everyday. Thank you ! mamnoon
erbaktash You are very welcomed. :)
Mr. Dadbeh I watched so many of your videos and each one of them helped me in different ways but I watched this video many many times and I wanted to say thank you again for your time and effort .This video changed my view about life cause sometimes for some reasons I was thinking life doesn't mean anything and often I felt depressed but it is been two days I am enjoying my life and I am happy to have so many blessings in my life 😃
This channel is so powerful and underrated. I know it's not about the numbers or the recognition (which all feed the ego) but more people should see this because it would definitely benefit them and their life in a selfless way. Have shared with my family and hope it helps them the same way it's helping me.
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Alexandrine Bernard I certainly agree Alexandrine 😀🙏
Beautiful as always. Thank you
❤ Always turn to you when I need help. Definitely my rock
Guys, this man right here is gold.
I know you watch his videos and he helps you with the content he posts. Just look at the ratio of views and likes here. A therapist will charge you a fortune for the knowledge he shares here and all he needs is to help more and more people. So even before you start, at least drop a like and comment.
Just like we need his support, he needs ours too.
Also doc, you re amazing
Absolutely right
Thank you for your videos! I love your energy and the content. Please continue to create those islands of wisdom and happiness!
Thank you and your welcomed "Lab7" ! :) I am delighted that you find the contents helpful. I hope you have subscribed! :) and pressed on the bell symbol to be notified when I have live talks on youtube where you can ask your questions and have it discussed.
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Mehran, thank you for sharing your wisdom & experience. Your perspective has made a significantly positive impact on my mental and spiritual health throughout many challenges of life. I can't thank you enough.
yes you can ! :) just share what videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your soial media if you will so others will get to know about my work and I get to reach more people around the world letting them know that there is help and best to uderstand how we function on the acuality level..... Be well and good to yourself. Mehran
I love your videos! Thank you for sharing 🤗
Really good message in this video. I wish I'd learned the value of life before I met my ex or sought advice while with her to help the relationship. I had everything but I wasn't happy, and that's because I wasn't happy with myself. I was always living in the past, lamenting my decisions, wishing I'd done things differently. It was toxic behaviour and not fun living around negativity all the time. I have learned a lot over the last few months.
I love your analogy of making the statue and then praying to it! Your line of reasoning with this is just great!
Thank you Joseph, glad you enjoy the videos and find them helpful. Mehran
This is so brilliant....
Being is happiness :) Thank you Mehran :)
Thank you thank you. You are a brilliant man! I just share your amazing videos on my Facebook page.
You are welcomed Chlory, glad you feel strong again, Mehran :)
PBTG PRAISE BE TO GOD for having blessed you with insight to help illuminate our minds thank you , again , for your efforts and wise words
Came across your channel and has been a good thing in a time of need much appreciated!
Glad you enjoy the channel and find the videos helpful to you, Armando. How did you come across the channel, I am hardly visible! :) thousands of people across the world send-up appreciative messages for profound and life-changing effect but they all find this channel accidentally! :)
I look up how to move. On and out of many up links your channel I played and by chance you spoke of a viewer ? And I kept watching and saw how connected you try with those in pain heartache etc..and kept seaching and well I've dealt with my value for some time and this really hit home ...your doing a great thing and sincerity in your post is a great help to us and those who fall victim at times to grief!
wow good job my dear friend. You became my friend, I love this video again I really don't know how I found this website but I am really happy cause it gives my life meaning and I am using every word that I am listening from you every moment in my life. I love your videos sooooooo much😃😃
You are welcomed Raw. I am happy that you are at your comfort zone and enjoying the videos and are happier when watching them. :)
Thank you you made me smile today 😊
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Adrian.
There are over 1,300 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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I love your analogy of making the statue and then praying to it!
Thank you , glad you enjoy the videos :)
Life is an interesting thing. It's given to us only for a moment. Few years and we all die anyway. There must be something else out there. It almost seems like life is just a playground and test. There is few fundamental rules to life and once you discover then you start to see patterns in life. Once you falliw different patterns you get different results. Life is to organised to be just random thing and an accident. Thinking like this I come to conclusion we are her first s purpose... And what can that purpose be? We all feel it deep in our heart. Falls your heart and you will go through the what you were meant to in this life.
thank you thank you thank you thank
Good advice sir
John Smith glad it is helpful to you.
without words ... u got it :) regards :D
Não deixes para amanhã o que podes fazer hoje!
you made me happy
You are welcomed Aziz.
I have a beautiful home it's not the home that makes me happy it's making it nice fixing it up working on it. The journey not actually having it creating making a cool beautiful garden etc..
this is brilliant! u are brilliant!! may i ask a question...it may sound strange, but would you say that those of us who have attained wealth, material things, fancy jobs/careers, are individuals who feel less valuable and less worthy, than those of us who just get by with the basics?
No Paloma Linda, it depends on what the meaning of happiness is to the one. It depends on what was your motivation to gain all those material things. If it was to gain value and feel worthy then you have failed in achieving that even though you may feel as if you are now important, happy or confident because of it. Depends on if the motivation for attaining all those goodies was your understanding that it is things that brings happiness. As then your confidence/ happiness is limited to the duration of that fashion or how long that what you have attained lasts. The value and worth of each person in real value and not in material value comes from love and compassion for oneself and your life and the living beings in it, comes from inside of your consciousness, your real value and happiness comes from what worthy knowledge, experiences you learn and share what you have learned, help others and yourself to develop further, grow and advance as a human being with higher human values rather than the values we may attain in the commercial world for the purpose of feeling better than the others and feel confident through having attained these material things and nothing much else. However if your motivation for the luxury and comfort you have gained and provided for yourself is not to be better than others and not your way to gain confidence, your worth and value, or used as a path ways to manipulate and oppress others in one way or another and instead it is because that you just like toys and enjoy the use of them, the technology of it, the enjoyment of it, then I am all for it as who would mind to have some nice stuff. As long as you do not think pathway to happiness and confidence is through and limited to gaining them through material things then all is good to have all the gadgets and things you want but if things are the prerequisite of confidence and happiness for you, then that is just misleading oneself and causing and leading towards major disapoitments as that for sure is no shortcut to genuine happiness, worth and confidence, and is nothing but an illusion, an image of happiness and not a happiness and confident independent of the material things! One can be wealthy and happy and confident but the source of happiness and confidence is not wealth and things as it would then be for purchase and no longer a way of being, knowledge, an art, higher level of consciousness, it would then be a powerless commodity for trade!
Deep stuff here
Glad you enjoyed it.
The meaning of happiness to me is having a life with a sole mate, living in a place out of the city. Family and love mean alot. Too me thats my happiness. Its funny though as all my relationships have been disastrous. Material things can be taken away, burned and stolen. I dont understand how people can look down on others who dont have much material possession.
Conditioning handed down from thousand years ago! :) They have defined value and translated value of material things to represent the value of individuals and advancement in life and have created the measuring unit for human values to be material things/ possessions. How unfortunate. Human being still does not understand his or her own values and measures gold with units of Tin! :)
Conditioning which has been handed down to them from generations past. They have not understood the value of human being and still measure and seek their value it in value of things. They have the value of things represent and translate to the value they have for their own selves and measure success by way of what they have acquired and material possessions! Far from further understanding civility, extending love, compassion, care and comfort for all which are the higher goals in personal life and becoming of a advanced society is.
Can you make more videos about lack of self esteem and self worth? And how to heal the deep suffering that comes from it? I’ve been living with a narcissistic parent my whole life which I think may be the root cause of my suffering, and I feel like I’m wasting my life, not knowing what I should be doing and not feeling like I’ll never be competent to achieve a life worth living
Will put it on the list of videos to make.
I constantly try to keep my focus on living the life I wanna live, making myself the best thing in life instead of only a career or something and living in the moment. But I feel the society makes it hard. Everywhere you go people ask first thing: so what do you do? And then if you say something like im a pt or docter or fysiotherapist or something you instantly get a reaction like you matter. There a only few people that understand that the mind and who you are within is actually what matters and focus on that, focus on who someone really is instead of what they have accomplished. I find this hard to live with. I feel society pushes us to a point where u only may feel value when u have a own home, a career, friends and relationship etc.
Yes Jessie, good observation we have all been conditioned to think about others based on what they have studied or have as if what they have studied or what they are good at represents their behaviour, values, understanding of life and as he or she knows about him/ herself and hence could know about others or have some kind of awareness that you or others may not all because he or she is an engineer, or a doctor or a lawyer while they regardless of what they are good at or studied in university are the biggest assholes in personality, values and responsibility towards others or when in a relationship......most have lost the way of the universe!
You may enjoy this video:
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P.S Was it you Jessie who ordered a book recently? I remember one book was purchased by a name exactly like yours which I now think it actually was you (perhaps). Just noticed your first and the last name was on the order. If it was you make sure to e-mail me when you receive the book.
Yes exactly! You are so refreshing to me, I have the same thoughts about things as u, but because thinking in this way is a little rare I sometimes feel lonely that I am thinking like this. Glad to have you!
And yes I am the one who orderded the book! I will definitely sent you an email when I received it!
Glad you enjoy the channel and the contents resonate with you. Did you watch and enjoyed the link I sent you in my last response?
Yes I have watched it! It makes sense to why most people are the way there are now.. I’m not sure if you’ve read in the live that I have received your book! Thank you for your kind words in it
Oh, I did not notice that you mentioned it in the live talk session! :) I am glad you received your book, I am surprised how fast it got there. They told me 2 to 3 weeks! Great, thank you for letting me know and I hope you will enjoy reading it at your leisure.
Hello Mr. Dadbeh
As these words are beautiful, for this consciousness to happen isn't one self must take drastic measures, getting rid of all materialistic things and conditioning, isolation. The conditioning of todays world of technology and information has put an impact on the new youth to be dependent on these materialistic things. How can one self be detached of these "things" and still be happy with the attention of being raised in this environment of advertising and brain washing. Should this be taken with a grain of salt or more of finding a balance in one self consciousness by losing everything and finding this inner happiness? Should one live in isolation to find this?
No. Living in isolation may be fine for a retreat but not as a way of life as that is not natural. It is easy to go into the mountains and find harmony and state of coordination and meditation but achieving that while living in the city and dealing with life is the more powerful development and advancement in becoming one with the universe. Real life is not happening in the seclusion and away from everything while it is necessary for regeneration our sanity and energy within we must spend time alone sometimes and perhaps meditation daily will give us that balance. So learn to live and deal and overcome challenges while you are living and not imprisoning yourself to be away from the insanities and the disturbances all the time. Create that balance and live your life, active and tolerant and wise and peaceful. Able to and deal with negatives and positives and create the ability to stay away from the negative situation and people while walking confident amongst the relative world with all it's good and bad as after all this is not the absolute universe and we are living in a relative one! :)
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22:30 Zinc? Is that an element of the periodic table? ☺
Yes: Zinc is a chemical element with the symbol Zn and atomic number 30. Zinc is a slightly brittle metal at room temperature and has a blue-silvery appearance when oxidation is removed. It is the first element in group 12 of the periodic table.
I do get your point. Lets go to that other world again for a moment. The beings there ask, “Do you want to go and experience life on earth?” You (or me) says, “YES, I want to go and be born on earth and experience that!” So your wish is granted. You are born!
Unless people come to you immediately with assistance and milk and material things to keep you cool or warm and dry you die by the end of the day. Dependency on others and THINGS happens IMMEDIATLY, or your jack pot ends in minutes or hours. On your own, you die. EVERYTIME, no exceptions. You have tea or cherries because of money. You have a lake to walk by because of money and peoples talents and abilities make a place for you to walk on. Just being born, is sure death, without that material world and its goods. If you are independent, you die. Yes, you are born naked. Someone MUST cloth you in seconds or your dead. If others do not put value on you, you will die that very day of birth.
Just noticed your comment! :) You are too focused of finding problems in an opportunity! The idea of having hit the jackpot by having been born is that you have all these challenges and opportunities as if you are in a play-land and go through the journey of discovery and learning including all stuff that you consider them as hinderance or the necessities fo staying alive. and that is why as at the end of the video in our example we all would wish ( at the last moments of our life ) to get to be alive one more day if asked instead of asking for the gold, that clothes to keep us warm or covered, the sea walk to enjoy the pleasure walk, the money to be wealthy...and everything else that you considered it necessary to have a good life... Hope this brings your attention to the point of the video and what I am trying to show here. Thank you for your comment I would had responded to it if I had seen it earlier.
Hello Sir. But isn't money of any value? Money is a way to independence and not having to work 9-5 if you reach certain wealth, you can be free and not under someone's commands.
you can have money as much as you want, but money alone is not the meaning of happiness. money is necessary to make provisions easier to get but your happiness should be independent from money so you happiness would not be conditional.
@@MehranDadbeh thanks!