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- čas přidán 10. 05. 2015
- How to move on. Is a friendly discussion about how our world was before the break-up and now after the break-up and what is and can be next. Your world is Stable & is not lost. Perfect time to move forward!
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Mehran Dadbeh (Author)
Break-Ups, Life & Your Psyche
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Thank you. You have no idea how much you've helped me during my most painful times mid last year. Listening & watching you kept me sane. You're my dependable bestfriend. Just one click and you're advices & intoxicating laughter while sipping your tea reminds me that there's more to discover out there.
You are a blessing.
Again, Thank you so much.
Jrose Guerrero Thank you dear. I am glad you see the light :) make sure to like my face book page "mind That Seeks Truth" as I will announce it when my books will be ready for print. Keep smiling and focus on your blessings and things that are connected and are there for you and have as life is as stable as it ever was for the reason for the stability is and has always been you and no one else, we just sometimes give the credit of it to others. :) be positively active and life will reflects back to you what you extend out dear. You are on your way to find better things as the world is our playing field and the ball goes to every one to move, kick and play with as long as you are in the field ready to play ! :)
Please let me know from where do you watch the videos and how young are you ?
Hi, thank you again. You are really like a good friend to me now. All your advices really make sense. Sometimes funny but most of the time serious... I'm 100% sure you have saved so many people from sinking into that deep hurtful emotions.
In response to your question. I'm in Los Angeles, CA. I'm 43 ;-)
Please don't stop sharing your gift to us.
Jrose Guerrero Thank you dear. I am delighted that you enjoy the videos. I am very grateful that the videos have been helpful to so many people than I thought they would be. I have been experiencing many or better to say overwhelmingly many positive comments and e-mails and every day delighted that someone somewhere in the world is finding the videos helpful. The Skype chats that I have been having with people around the world have also been surprisingly very high in numbers. I have asked from some of the friends with whom I had Skype consultations to send me their testimonials about their experience with our talks so I may use them in an appropriate section of my books and on the internet site ( being built ). All delighting and surprising. Again thank you for such lovely comments as they make me happy to hear that you have found the videos helpful. :)
Very insightful. This made me picture my co-dependent tendencies as relying too heavily on a single connection. The cure then is clear: put more time and effort into developing the other connections in my life. Then, I will be able to seek romantic relationships out of desire, rather than need.
Very true sir. I was very depressed and even now sometimes I am, and whenever I feel depressed I see your video and it makes me feel better. Your advice, your reassuring voice, your laughter... Everything makes me feel better. You don't know how much I owe you. Your videos help me come out of the gloom and start thinking from my head rather than heart..
syed aryan Keep it going , keep that energy and reasoning and thought process going dear, you are on the right track to strength and balance . I am delighted :)
syed aryan same as me
😳"WOW" I GUESS YOU ANSWERED ALL MY QUESTIONS FROM THE PREVIOUS VIDEO!!😂 THANKS!😌
Glad to hear that. If you need to explore further then please go to my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a Skype consultation appointment and we will explore it together. Don't forget to share the videos or the channel link whenever you can on your social media or what works for you so we will get more exposure, reach more people and grow. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Another helpful video. More power for your channel :)
This is giving people like us hope that there is a bigger life out there :)
love mr mehran!! u are the most relationship coach id like the most!! very wise and deep 👍🙏🙏
Love this video doc!
Best one yet ! Very inspiring. Thank you.
Mehran Dadbeh you are great . The only person that gives me calmness with his words. I owe my happiness and positive way of thinking to you . I love your videos .
Thank you so much!you are a true inspiration when everything seems so dark in my life .
I respect the analogies you shared towards the end of your this video. It hit home for me . Thanks!!!
Great videos! I have watched a few and Your Scenarios help to understand what our minds go through during painful situations. Thanks for helping me to better understand. I have to let go of the memory and create new ones to connect to something new in due time.
jMarie A. Hello jMari, Thank you for your comment. I am delighted that the videos are helpful to you. It is important to understand form where does our pains stem and how our psyche reacts to the past and affects our present . Once we realize this connection then the illusions and reality become clear and better chance to be distinguished. Then with the help of such knowledge we become more alert as to how to help ourselves to deal with emotional reactions and reactions to the emotional imprints .
Dear Mehran, thank you for your reply on one of your other videos. I'm from South Africa. Thank you for all your good advice, you are an inspiration. Much appreciated.
Thank you for your wonderful videos. I really appreciate what you are doing.
These are some of the best most helpful videos I've seen.
Not preachy, feels like a friend is talking with me.
Thank you so much.
So long as I have my health, I am okay.
Thank you for the kind words. I am glad you find them helpful. I am delighted that you are on your way and moving on now. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for free webinars, Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Mr Mehran another great video! Really like this one
Great advises you give sir to this mature man!
Hi sir, I have been watching your videos of late.i was totally devastated and very unsure and wanted some good counsel , and you have been really helpful. I was almost contemplating suicide. Now I feel better. Thanks a lot for being there... # respect
syed aryan No relationship break up is ever worthy of harming oneself, suicide or otherwise. We are all in this world, the world can not be in one of us to feel as if we don't have her then we don't have the world. The world is far bigger and more important than one relationship so no relationship worths killing ourselves for. All fishes are in the ocean but the ocean is not summed up in one fish ! So simply respect life as we live in a world in which many lives exist but life does not exist in one person or relationship. So get your values and priorities in order. No physical relationship could worth or represent the whole universe in which we exist so please do not give the illusion of such importance to any one girl or any relationship. Live your beautiful life and enjoy the experiences it has to offer but never deprive yourself from all these experiences as these experiences including all the break up pains we experience is what we are here in this life to learn, experience and then get stronger, wiser, and better and use such wisdom in the dealings and negotiation of the rest of our lives and encounters. Only the misinformed of the value of our gift of life think about killing, destroying the most important and valuable gift we have been given by the creator of life. We must protect this gif at all costs and no relationship or woman has the worth or power to deprive us from enjoying our gift as best as possible in this short journey of life we are experiencing . :) Enjoy your fortune and never betray the most valuable thing we have , our health, our life , for if we can not protect that , then we can not appreciate or value or protect anything else either. :)
Great methapore I love it make so much sense
My wife is leaving me after 25 years. Your videos help me so much. Thank you
luciano coppola how it feels for you now did you move on?
Thank you so much Mehran.. your videos really help♡
Yasii Kh You are welcomed Yasii. Enjoy every moment of your life and build a happy one dependent only on your inner knowledge of you and hopes and abilities and flexibilities towards life and not on too many outside influences or entities. Life has lot more to offer than you can imagine but not all of them are in your field of vision at one time, they are presented to you in time and when it is all good an ready. So you never know what is on its way for you and towards you but important is that there are on their way for you and will present themselves to you in time dear. Be patient and know that you will be just fine eventually as every one else has gone through such emotional stuff and they all have come out perfectly fine and enjoyed a happy life and better than ever. Socialize with positive people , get involved in positive activities , exercise to your fitness level, eat good healthy food and water and find new and good friends. You will be fine. Be good to your self dear. :) Check out my Facebook page " Mind That Seeks Truth " and share the videos dear .
Man, you don't realize how helpfull at least for me are your awesome videos, you are my personal Doctor, congratulation man, keep making videos like this, even books had helped me of course, but your videos are so straight to the point the we don't see our own healing is there, it is a blessing you are the person you are, again, congratulations, and the best of life for everyone who see this videos and gets help from them, specially you man, God bless you man, BEST REGARDS
My pleasure geragamo,
please share the videos you like on yr social media and join in my Sunday talks if you can and visit my fb page "Mind That Seèks Truth" (Author). thank you for the warm words, I am delighted that you enjoy the videos and find them helpful yes it seems that many around the world are enjoying them. I am certainly enjoying seeing people are strong and happy again as the result.
Nice video
love it
Thank you, I didn't notice all the connections still working, thanks for remember me.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Fabian.
There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on CZcams and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages.
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
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On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page:
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I like your sense of humor you made me laugh with you and I am open minded to your concepts and ideas on what to do to move on
I am glad you find them helpful Christina. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
beautiful videos thank u,
+Lamix Gaming You are welcomed dear. Glad it is helpful.
I had a bad breakup due to my ex being a total jerk his Ego & pride got in the way. He kept saying he didn’t trust me because I dressed so nice now I was gonna cheat or hurt him. Plus I was going out more. So I’m trying to move on without him and taking care of our puppy. I feel sad some days miss him but wish I didn’t try to think of the mean him the mean things he did but itdoesn’t always work. So I’m sitting here in the morning drinking my coffee nights eating junk food on days not exercising as much etc. lol I’m a mess .... trying to move on doing things I want setting goals have goals etc.. just impatient
Very inspiring! Thank you sir
I am glad you find them helpful Rue. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Thank you, I have visited and liked your page on Facebook. I am from London and 25 years old. Your videos really help to keep things in perspective and reduce the pain.
Thank you sooo much
You are welcomed Ana. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
THANK YOU (:
you are welcomed.
Mr Mehran I want to tell you that your thoughts and analysis about the psychology of breakup are so powerful and insightful, but do you agree with me if I told you that it's difficult to force our brains to think that way in order to move on fast and strong? how can we deal with that?
Yes it can be difficult if we simply become aware of what is being said rather than doing something with this information! For example you need to dig deep and discover what was/ is the primary reason why you wanted her or want her? What is it that does not let you move on about her or still want to be with her. When you recognize that ( like you want her because of sex, or what part of her you like about her ( physically or mentally ) or what or how it was interacting with her....then focus on that what you like about her in some one else and replace that what attracts you to her / about her....Such things like sexuality, attraction for physical reasons of some kind, or what ever about her that keeps you wanting her/ desiring her, needs to be replaced by the same or better in some one else! ( even with someone in the movies you like or some one you don't even know, just replace the source of that what you are attracted to in her ).
Your thoughts to be admiring what you like about the ex in some one els's looks, other physical attributes , mentality, manners, habits......as such things will not let you be free in your goals and decision to move on as it interferes with your judgements about her and about what you want to accomplish. Get that handicap away from yourself by replacing what you are interested in her and then you may have a stronger chance to speed up the moving on process. Plus doing and paying attention and putting to practice the other stuff I have talked about in this video. :) You can't constantly be thinking about what you like about her ( her good points physical or mental ) and then try to forget about her or move on.....:) You can't move on when you are still loyal to someone because of conditioning or being used to her and having established a cooperating / new order in life with her or still loyal to her or to your relationship or the idea of having been with her or the idea of wanting to be with her due to desiring her or being used to desiring her or because this is what the culture or customs or traditions drilled into you tells you that you must desire her and keep the relationship together so you will have the image that you are condition to expect from yourself in your own mind. You need to detach your mind, thoughts from any reason or logic for wanting her or wanting the relationship....then you can focus on the fact that you want to move on.
Brilliant ! I'll be always grateful to you Mr Mehran, Thank you.
sir you don't know in how much pain I am. I watched your videos daily even I repeated some of them.
my gf left me after 6 year she loves me alot. I kept on begging even today also.
I don't know why my heart is heavy. I am her first love since her childhood, she lost virginity with me , she is rich, she did alot of things with me now suddenly she ghost me.
inside ithink if I beg may b she give me another shot or inside down I think she will not because of her new boyfriend..
my life I totally devastated and on stake.
help me sir.
Well Mehran you're right but with all due respect girls aren't exactly dropping from trees for us to move on to something equal/better than our ex.
lol, ok but you can not consider the ex "the best " if she is no longer loyal to you or willing to be with you or treating you right. So then what is good in that relationship and how could she be good in that case? So really what you consider good in her is when she was good, behaving good, in your favour, paying attention to you and being for you, treating you good... but she no longer does all that so she (as she is now, when she has broken up with you ) is no longer considered or possesses characteristics and qualities that would make her be the right candidate for you. So then what you consider good or the best is the memory of her in your mind and not what she actually is ( changed into ) now. Then she is not the best any more hence you can find much better girls! :)
She just said that she likes someone else...but she also likes me...I was about to become Better after the break up and now I am again sooo depressed and so terrible...2 days ago we went for a cup of coffee and we kissed. She likes it but said it's not right....what should I do? I am so terrible right now... :(
I can't eat anymore...I lost my appetite...
What would you think about the girl that when you tell her that "you like another girl and you like her too", she still hangs around and starts crying to be with you? You will think " she is not good enough for me because she has no pride and she thinks she is lower than me and is begging me to like her" and then you will walk away and won't think of her much!
So grow a pair and move the heck away from her and go find yourself another girlfriend when you meet a nice one. Just stop "moshy moshy" after her for a kiss or I will give you a Kick ! :) She is playing all mighty with you " I like another and I like you too". You should say "good luck, but I don't like a girl who likes some one else. Have a nice life, bye". This is what you do in such cases.
Now the choice is yours, sit and wait for her grace to throw you a kiss and you run after her like a dog or grow a pair and focus on your life and socialize with other people and friends and new girls and let the nature take it's course and when you find a nice girlfriend you will see this was the right thing to do and was well worth the patience and moving on away from her and whom ever does not want to be with you .... in the meantime you will have your powers as a man and feel good about yourself that you did not suck up to her or any one else who would prefer or like another ..... Stop this none sense and get your balls in their place and not in her hands and move on! :)
P.S go eat don't let things like this to play with your life, these things come and go for ever ...eat your food and stop being a sisy! :) eat your food and enjoy yourself. She is just a girl that has nothing over other nice girls. the difference is that you know this one that is all. If you knew more girls you would not even give a damn and would easily say bye bye to her with no problems at all. Go on and don't allow any one make you treat yourself less than perfect!
Donno why i laughed the moment he drank his tea
lol
love it
You are welcomed Sara. I am glad you enjoy it. :) You never responded in regards to my comment about your music. Is that you , the musician with such talent, such songs and voice? Are you still making new music? I enjoyed listening to them:) watched a few of your recordings on CZcams. If that is you then you are very talented which is also helpful to your recovery as it enables you to produce something beautiful which would help people in their dealings with challenges they encounter in their daily lives. Focus on what you can and are doing for others and that makes you stronger from within and helps you see how manageable and small your issues may be compared to what many others in the world may be going through on daily basis! Be good to yourself always. Mehran