#1 Reason Why Happiness Is The Cause Of Your Break Up!

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  • čas přidán 25. 09. 2015
  • Happiness is one reason for the break up is A friendly discussion on the relationship between happiness and breakups. What happiness has to do with relationships, with girlfriend or boyfriend search. #1 Reason Why Happiness Is The Cause Of Your Break Up is the title of our discussion here in this video. Why Breakups happen even though we wanted to be in a relationship....That was the whole point, to be happy!
    #Breakup #heartbreak #lifecoach
    Mehran Dadbeh (Author)
    Break-Ups, Life & Your Psyche
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Komentáře • 48

  • @shubbledc
    @shubbledc Před 8 lety +12

    your wisdom is on another level. like i dont even know where you got all these things.. its like no other. and i feel lucky to be able to hear and understand things the way you do. thank you for giving peace and sharing golden wisdom through your videos it really helps people :)

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety +1

      Thank you dear, I am delighted that the videos are helpful to you. :) Be good to yourself, Mehran

  • @abhinaviyer8958
    @abhinaviyer8958 Před 7 lety +8

    doc...your laugh is very contagious. .....lol

  • @SavvasTheLegend
    @SavvasTheLegend Před 8 lety +8

    I believe that the main reason people cant be happy is because they weigh and think of the negative things that happen to their life a lot more than the good ones.For some reason when something good happens even something simple people tend to feel like its natural and let it pass like nothing but when something comes that is bad they make it 10 times bigger in their mind.I always thought of life as a balance of bad and good things.For every bad thing that happens, something good follows.So we should not let bad things get to us by thinging that something good is on its way. :)

  • @sara-dx3ix
    @sara-dx3ix Před 5 lety +2

    You are so insightful & gracious.
    We are trained to look exisentually for validation & happiness when we need to train our mind to look within as you say. The best thing to ever happen to me was waking up to self-love & feeling gratitude every single day. Thank you very much 🐇

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 5 lety

      Thank you, Sara, I am delighted that you enjoy the channel and find the videos helpful :)
      There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
      The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
      Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
      You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
      Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
      Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on CZcams and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages.
      Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
      P.S.
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      On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page:
      This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
      LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
      With Mehran D (Author)
      Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
      Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic),
      1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link:
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  • @HicJacetVampyr
    @HicJacetVampyr Před 7 lety +3

    Thank you for your time and truth Mr. Dadbeh. I'm really a fan of yours and been watching regularly. Just as you said it..people are ignorant and blind when it comes to truth. We all are living in a lie in some way or another. Man need education, time and a lots of experiences to reech some level of understanding the meaning of living, relationships and happiness.

  • @MikeJackson690
    @MikeJackson690 Před 4 lety +2

    This is all very true. My inner unhappiness with myself, discontent with my life, my past etc ruined my relationship in the end. All she wanted was a nice, easygoing life but I let my issues get in the way. I have learned but am sad without her. I am not getting with someone new until I am content on my own. For the first time in my life! Finally get it at 32...

    • @lourisela
      @lourisela Před 4 lety

      same happened to me. How are you doing?

    • @MikeJackson690
      @MikeJackson690 Před 4 lety +1

      @@lourisela Hey Nuno, not great. I miss her every day and rue the lost future I could've had with my ex. Every day that passes without hearing from her is another day I feel forgotten. I am giving myself negative self-talk, worried about my ageing looks, my finances, my future... Everything. I miss my old life, the one I SHOULD have been grateful for. I feel like such a fool.
      Sorry for rambling. How are you?

    • @danielche2349
      @danielche2349 Před 4 lety

      General Waste how are you doing now? I’m in the same boat...

  • @trusteezy
    @trusteezy Před 8 lety +4

    Fuck yea dude you're the man!!!!!

  • @orangeandslinky
    @orangeandslinky Před 7 lety +2

    I see the truth in the basics of life as being where happiness can, and even should be. After having and being thankful for those basics is done, everything else is just (as you say) gravy. You said, you wake up in the morning and (THANK GOD) that you can see, and have a bed and don’t have a terminal illness etc. When you say, “YOU THANK GOD” for these things , do you really mean that? Do you know or believe in God? Do you really thank God for the basics? If so, who or what is God to you? Thank you for your many fine videos. I watch everyday.

  • @aphroditanyc
    @aphroditanyc Před 3 lety

    He’s basically speaking about gratitude

  • @sasha1904
    @sasha1904 Před 8 lety +1

    Your videos have helped so much. I dated someone for nearly 2 months and thought it was going well. He even lied and said he saw me in his future and then ended things with me via facebook . he couldn't even end it face to face and i thought he was a sweet guy but i've learned that , that's a reflection of his character and not mine :)

  • @KaijuAgar
    @KaijuAgar Před 8 lety +6

    Your laughs and your positivity makes you such a great person. I've watched alot of yur videos, everytime I watch one I just feel as if my dad was talking to me. I think we can all agree that we feel very comfy when we watch your videos, the background, teh tea, your laughs makes it so intimate and comfortable. I love you ! :)

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety +1

      +Kappa Thank you Kappa, I am delighted that the videos bring comfort and tranquility to you. Thank you for the kind words. Wishing you health and happiness dear, always. :)

    • @KaijuAgar
      @KaijuAgar Před 8 lety

      Thank you sir, thank you. :)

  • @evox467
    @evox467 Před 2 lety

    You are best Mehran. Thank You.

  • @Aaredhel
    @Aaredhel Před 8 lety +1

    One of the best videos ever!
    Thank you :)

  • @izabellizima
    @izabellizima Před 7 lety +1

    Great video. It actually is helping with my existential crisis. What I gather is that happiness is not a destination or a thing or being outside ourselves. It is a perspective or gift we have inside ourselves and take from granted. Excellent video.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      Thank you Izabell, Yes it is a capability in all of us. All we need to do is to condition it, program it, activate it in thought and it should be and is independent of any thing. It directs this feeling, this energy from the within like the mobility technology of a tank ( the tracks) which lifts and rolls the entity of tank over any train independent of what and how it is laid out in front of it! :) It is a conditioning , it is a reaction of our entity to daily life independent of desires, needs for more , relationship, money, cars, things of any sort. Then we will be happy while on our way in pursuit of what we wish to achieve , attain or accomplish in life ( whatever it may be) and happiness becomes an actuality of how we feel throughout the journey and not only at the destination of some kind. Be good top yourself always. Mehran

  • @ronjaanjagasner3525
    @ronjaanjagasner3525 Před 7 lety +1

    u absolutely rite mr mehran. i really dnt hve those kind of patience 😔. i like quick or magic thing to sort of my prob now. thts why hard for me to move on. but i ll try. wht i know now is am in pain becoz there is still love inside me for him.

  • @dragon0085
    @dragon0085 Před 8 lety +2

    Thanks, I needed to hear some of this, namely that if the person wanted a relationship themselves, they arent as happy as we fantasize.
    Can you still do a video when WE were the person that dumped the other? There is a lot more regret/questioning over doing it.

  • @laura835
    @laura835 Před 8 lety +1

    I wish I heard your message when I was young. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 8 lety +3

      You are still young :) Today is the first day of the rest of your life! :)

  • @rahelefromiran718
    @rahelefromiran718 Před 6 lety

    The video is really useful. You are great! Thank you so much!
    🌷

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety

      I am glad you find them helpful Rahele. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
      P.S.
      How to join the live talks:
      You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
      facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
      or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
      This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
      LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
      With Mehran D (Author)
      Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
      Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
      12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
      czcams.com/users/MD007ish
      www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
      For Skype consultation:
      If you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.

  • @comeonfuckthis
    @comeonfuckthis Před 6 lety +3

    This video really helped me thank you.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety

      I am glad you find them helpful Dan. Hope you subscribed and liked! :) Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
      P.S.
      How to join the live talks:
      You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
      facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
      or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
      This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
      LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
      With Mehran D (Author)
      Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
      Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
      12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
      czcams.com/users/MD007ish
      www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com

  • @tuwandamuhammad2316
    @tuwandamuhammad2316 Před 6 lety

    This is good. Thanks for this.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety

      I am glad you find them helpful Tuwanda. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
      P.S.
      How to join the live talks:
      You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
      facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
      or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
      This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
      LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
      With Mehran D (Author)
      Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
      Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
      12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
      czcams.com/users/MD007ish
      www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com

  • @Gee99
    @Gee99 Před 6 lety

    Oh my God!Sir you're so good in what your doing! 👍👍👍👍👍

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety

      Thank you Gee Gee, glad the videos are helpful to you. :)

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 Před 8 lety

    Told you there is something in that tea I'm down after break-up with husband need that tea to smile more lol.

  • @geragamo
    @geragamo Před 8 lety

    Awesome

  • @MikeJackson690
    @MikeJackson690 Před 4 lety

    I didn't choose the wrong partner, she did 😞

  • @trusteezy
    @trusteezy Před 8 lety

    Smart dude I learned so much thank you

  • @TheLUCYCAT
    @TheLUCYCAT Před 8 lety

    Ok this is an idea I can give you from my experience in business. Since tea is your thing you need to get a line of teas and put you label on them and sell them along with your books. So if a book is about break-up the tea needs to be bitter, and when they get over it, NOW you sell a( put yourself together) book, and provide a sweet tea. Thank you
    I of course would appreciate a little something if the idea takes off. What do you think?

  • @mickayleeagius6526
    @mickayleeagius6526 Před 6 lety

    My girl has broken up with me because she fell for her ex again, this guy is a bad boy and well she has no chance with him and she probably misses me. She has hurt me in many ways because she told me that I wasn't the one and we fought. A girl started to talk to me and she came back saying that I didn't love her because I started talking to a new girl. So I really felt mad that she ditched me over her ex and she had the audacity to say such a thing. so again we fought, I apologized for the mean things I said but she didn't even say sorry, she just wanted to be right and wrong me. Now she wants to be friends on text but I didn't even reply to her. I fear that this new girl that I started talking to might be a rebound, I mean I started loving her each passing day that passes, but I still remember my ex sometimes in the back of my mind. This girl is so sweet and I am starting to love her more and it pains me to think that I should break up with her. I am so confused right now about what should I be doing? and what type of love should I case after.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety

      Obviously ( from what you said above) your ex has ego and loyalty issues. You are the altimeter decision maker on this but I don't think you should jeopardize the relationship you have with your new girlfriend. Stick to the new relationship with the new nice girl and let the ex go. :)

    • @mickayleeagius6526
      @mickayleeagius6526 Před 6 lety +1

      Very true. Thanks a lot! you really help people like me a lot good sir :) !

  • @JR-xp1iz
    @JR-xp1iz Před 4 lety +1

    I find short videos annoying, the longer the better, guess its because I'm older. Sound bite videos are rubbish to me.

  • @debmalyasen1
    @debmalyasen1 Před 7 lety

    tea from chaina..like everything else....hahahahahahahha.hillarious..hahahaha

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 Před 8 lety

    Yes my ex is drinking alot too much he said.. hmm.

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 Před 8 lety

    Wonder what your drinking looks like tea but your laughing is their alcohol in it? Kidding.