"How To Be confident After A Bad Breakup". 2 + 2 = 5 ?
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- "How to be confident after a bad breakup". 2 + 2 = 5 ?
Is a friendly discussion about How to be confident after a bad breakup",. and how and why we react to things in life and why we feel a need for what we think we have the need for ! :)
#Breakup #thoughts #confident
Mehran Dadbeh (Author)
Break-Ups, Life & Your Psyche
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Thank you so much! Of all the youtubers in this genre of content you make the most sense! You're the first one to actually help me understand myself and my situation.
Robbe Claes glad you found the channel and find it helpful Robbe. You can join in the live talks ( they are all free) on Fridays Vancouver time 12 noon. Ask yr questions and listen to other people’s questions and concerns as well. Watch the trailer on my channel intro to know the extent of support on this channel. You will be perfectly fine, I am certain of that. 😊
@@MehranDadbeh What you have done for me in 4 hours time is literally unbelievable. You make it so easy to move on... No bullshit content that tells the trut, many many thanks! You're an amazing man.
@@CCA2481 Delighted to hear this. Try to help the channel to grow and get more exposure! This will help the channel and more people as they get to know about this channel and its contents. With many thanks, Mehran
The one who leaves is the weak one because she was the one who gave up. That's the way I see it. If she left us is because she was not strong enough to deal with the challenges of the relationship so it makes total sense when you say that she was not a good foundation to build something on. I love these classic videos. They are always relevant regardless of the time.
Glad you find all these older ones as they are always longer and more in detail.
I can relate with the last part there...
Thank you for, indirectly, answering to my message Mr.Mehran
Greetings from Greece!
Wow, think this is the best video yet!!! Really sums up everything I need to remind myself. Thanks so much. :)
Mehran, this is the fourth video of yours I've watched tonight..
Breakthrough stuff you're dishing out man... good stuff.
Good information.
You have an ability to make sense of what seems senseless amidst the pain of heartbreak.
Thank you for your contribution to those of us who are hurting.
You are extremely appreciated.
You're helping people get their lives back into perspective.
+David Hart Good, thank you I am glad that they are helpful. Please do share the ones you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others would get to know about my work....
+Mehran Dadbeh I absolutely will Mehran! Many can be helped by your words.
Thank you Mehran! for open my eyes. Your advises make a lot of sense.
Never stop making videos!! You are so helpful and clear. Like others have said- you’re so clear and what you say really thinks. Appreciate you so much!!
I love how you drink tea or something in every video. I take my cup of tea and watch your videos every day to feel better after the hardest break up I've ever had. Thank you so much.
Did u recover?
Wow.Brilliant. Thank you for this insight you have shed soooo much light on my life.
thank you Mehran i watch your videos everyday you help me allot :)
Hey - this one is definitely my favourite video of you! It's the concentrate of all your conciderations.
Thank you for making this clear, true, and I appreciate it a lot!
You are welcomed dear.
This is the best and most honest Explanation of a breakup Ive ever seen online, Mehran explains what you need to know, not what you want to hear.
Thank you Alvaro, I am delighted that the video is helpful to you.
You are so good. It's like meditation for a broken heart. I feel like I owe you a lot of tea!
LOL, instead of tea for me, go to my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and buy yourself an e-book of mine that you like as they are just as the price of couple of cups of coffee or tea now. I want every one of you guys to own a copy. Look at the table of contents of each book, read the sample chapter of each when opening them by clicking on the books and see which one is what addresses your concerns then get the e- Book version of them as it is now on the anniversary special pricing. That would be good enough as it will do what you want ( to contribute in supporting the channel ) and what I want which is every one to own a copy and read the books when they need to or in the mood for some pondering! :)
I keep watching this one over and over...it helps me the most.
I just want to give you a big hug man you’ve helped me so much thank you!
You have really help me alot, thank you so much! all ur video are very helpful.
You are welcomed Forkey,I am glad that the videos are helpful to you. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Thnx a lot sir for ur valuable advice.
I must admit, I've written down more than a few things you've said. Thank you for your wisdom.
MooCow Rex You are welcomed dear. I am glad the videos are helpful to you.
Thank you my morning drive to work listening to your words helps to get out of the slump im feeling..
Glad you enjoy and find the videos helpful.
Your videos are helping me so much! My boyfriend didn't really explain why he would break up with me, so I was in deep depression for a while now. But then I found your channel and it becomes more and more clear to me, as I watch your videos. Thank you so much!
Polina Kotovsky You are welcomed dear. Just share them if you find them helpful ! :)
Wow! This is the best video you have made for us. Everything your saying is so true. Who gives a crap if the guy or gal left you! My husband left me & our pets after 17 years. Always saying he loved me but screaming at me all the time. I was never perfect enough cleaning doing his laundry cooking etc.. I finally stood up to him and said, " you can't scream at me anymore, take it to a bar or stay away a day". "If you can't control it & want me to feel bad for whatever is upsetting you". So, he moved out & threw me away likeI was trash disposable. A lesson for those who want to stay with anyone who doesn't treasure & value them. It's better they leave you early the later. You have tons of memories etc.. not easy to recover at all.
Just finish a 3ys relationship, feel terrible like shit. After watched your video, It's really really really helpful, thank you sooooo much!!!Even I know it's still hard for now, but feel so much better. Again, thank you so much!!
the fatherly advice I've never had
I am glad you find the video helpful Tapatios. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
czcams.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Thank you so much, so very much, all these videos are helping me tremendously, you sir, deserve all the good in the world, because you are a good human being for sharing these with us, the heart broken ones. After watching about 8 videos of yours, my life is starting to be brighter, two days ago it was a hellish nightmare, now it kinda looks brighter, i still hurt, but im trying to handle it! Thank you so so much! (26 yrs. Romania)
delighted to hear that dear. enjoy your life as it is not summed up in one relationship or one partner. Life is lot more and has lot more to offer. You will be fine, we all experienced similar things and we all càme out of it fine, stronger, wiser and eventually happeir and enjoyed our lives fully and you will too. Be good to yourself always . Mehran :)
Thank you so much for the guidence, this video just cleared off so many things in my head. Thank to your videos I can finally say i can move on now, and i will find that person that I can actually build a strong foundation and start together.
Delighted to hear this Weiwei. Keep building and you will find normal, balanced and happy life before you know it. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
You sir are great his age gives us the best advice and feels just right
nice video helps a lot of people please continue making video your a hero Mr dadbeh
+Adamjay Fajardo Thank you dear. Please share the videos you like on social media and let others know which helps them and helps to publicise my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com thank you for the kind words, Mehran
It's about the ego
Great video(s). I have been watching at least 5 of them already. I am 35 and from the United States.
+Bonnie Stewart Hello Bonnie,
I am delighted that you are enjoying the videos dear. My FB page is " Mind That Seeks Truth " both pages
( Author and Books ).
You somehow make me feel good about myself. Thank you!
Good then get used to it and treat yourself right, be good to yourself always.
Thank you so much for your videos. My high school sweet heart left after 20 years of being together. I'm so hurt and so torn but your videos are helping me feel better about myself. Thank you for taking some time to have tea with me.
I am glad you find them helpful Michael. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
czcams.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
That was a good talk. Thanks a lot!
the81kid You are welcomed.
It's the best thing i heard on the subject and made it so clear for me now why it doesn't worked. I've putted all i had in the relation, trying to make it worked so hard and listening to everything that she told me wasn't ok. But i realize how true what you say is, and that if someone only expect you to be how they want without putting anything on the table, it doesn't worth it and they will always be insatisfied anyway and no matter what you do it won't work.
I'm not being cynical but i just think you are right, it's hard to find someone how you described it :)
Finally yes it's way more easy to let go now.
Thanks again !
I am glad that you see it clear now. Move on and enjoy every minute of your life. Life has lot more to offer than one relationship. :) Be good to yourself always .
Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and what age category you are in. With thanks, Mehran
I'm from France and i'm 22 ! (Also just wanted to add that the last part on memories is really helpful too, it's easy to let good memories trick your judgement)
I'm from France and i'm 22 ! (Also just wanted to add that the last part on memories is really helpful too, it's easy to let good memories trick your judgement)
Keep watching the videos Mertin, as there are many helpful videos on the subject and you will find them completing your understanding of your psyche in such situations in life. Please do share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you could so others will also get to know about my work. With thanks, Mehran
U are a good human.... U videos helped me.... I wish you good health and all the happiness in this world....
Thank you very much dear.
Mehran~
I want to thank you for your insight and sharing here with us. It has helped me tremendously and I have a new perspective on how to deal with a break up in a healthy way. I needed to hear what you said, and I wish I looked for you sooner. 2+2=5 discussion turned my thoughts 180* and I just laughed out loud when you said, "who gives a FUCK?!?" and I really needed to laugh! Thanks again, and I am looking forward to rediscovering ME!
+Elaina T You are very welcomed Elaina, I am delighted that the videos are helpful to you. Almost all kind of scenarios in regards to after break up thoughts, thinking, concerns, challenges and questions are discussed in different videos available on the channel , So look closely and find the titles that you might be looking for. Please share the videos you like along with my site adress www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others will get to know about my work and get a chance to read a sample chapter of my books and go from there. Be good to your self :) Please let me know from where you are watching the videos and what age category you are in. With thanks, Mehran
You’re amazing! Thank you!
I am glad you find them helpful, Johnny. You will be fine, there are over 1,000 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on CZcams channel:
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On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page:
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
(Today or the day of the week) 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link:
czcams.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
I needed to hear this talk. I have some self improving to do.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Christine.
There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on CZcams and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages.
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on CZcams channel:
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or
On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page:
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic),
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For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Still amazed and thankfull about your words and videos MAN you rock !!!, there are things we forgive at the time we provide or got accustumed to provide and her to receive, I was on a cicle of providing and she receiving, I remember she was expecting money from me to give to their people, she never worked, She never had a Job during my stay with her. And I remember asking and assessing my own person If I did not provide I would be not a good person. Again thank you much for this valuable advice.
You are welcomed. Did you tell me the country from which you are watching the videos, your age group? Please make sure to share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about the help that is available. I also have a live talk on Sundays 8.30 AM pacific time ( west coast Canada time ) on a FB page called " Amazing things in the world “ ( here is the link : facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ ), and usually I answer questions at the end of the 10-15 minute talk, you are welcomed to join us there. Also please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. Be good to yourself always. with thanks, Mehran
+Mehran Dadbeh yes I'm from Mexico, living in guadalajara
+geragamo Thank you. your name?
+Mehran Dadbeh gerardo garcia
hey dad, title this one, "How to be confident after a bad breakup"
it is a good video and will generate more outreach with that title. :D
Toos Training ok , breakfast together today ?
Mehran Dadbeh sure
+Toos Training this convo made me smile, love your videos sir
I wish i had a mentor like you in my younger years.
You are still young! :) Thank you for the kind words Nick. I am glad you find the videos helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran www.mindthatseekstruth.com
what a fucking legend, absolute genius, thanks for the perspective
Thank you for the kind words Shrivesh. I am glad you find the video helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
yeas doctor ur advice is great and it really helped me and it hellped very early!!!
Delighted to hear you feel better and stronger. :)
Outstanding! - Looking where to like on Facebook
+Mark Papa Mind That Seeks Truth on face book . :)
I am glad the videos are helpful to you. Please share them on your social media as my newly finished books will be soon ready and I need as much exposure as I can for the marketing site www.mindthatseekstruth.com ( will also be complete in a week or two ). Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category are you in. With thanks, Mehran
you are very wise thank you and good health to you ✌
You are welcomed, be well and be good to yourself always. Mehran
thank you!!
Eva Vand you are welcomed dear :)
this channel name should be called NO Regret !
Aha- still watching these wonderful Video’s Mehran. Truly Enjoy your Wisdom, insight & warmth to all of us out here mere strangers-that May have been through a break-up. Or, trying to figure out should we quit Coffee & which tea to try first -LOL!!!
Therese Meggitt lol. Delighted you are enjoying the videos. Make sure to go on my site and pickup a cooy of the ebook version of the book "Me, My Psyche & I ".
I want everyone to have a copy and that is why I have made them so cheap and very affordable! :)
Mehran I love the title & yes will definitely go there & get a copy of your new book. Ask everyone else to Hurry up & get one too. Also, I’m sure You know your making it hard for us to truly like Men we date and meet. They are just not as smart, wise & profound as you it seems. Meaning-We women out here now expect the very best in a Man -we date or are seriously interested in. Yes smart & wise -Lol!
Yes of course every one deserves a high quality relationship and must have high standards. And thank you for the kind words, I now have a big head! :) Glad you are enjoying the videos Therese.
....Good & you should!!!!! ; )!
Thumbs UP on the polite F bomb !!!!
thank you sir!
You are welcomed Casy.
Genius. Sir you have no idea how much you help me get through each day. Thank you for posting these vids and thank you for your genuine caring nature. You make a huge difference in my struggle to get over my breakup.
Hamish Hardy You are welcomed Hamish. Glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to join my FB page
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It would also be good if you share my animation promo ( you can find it with embeded link to my youtube channel on my FB page ) on to your social media to let people know that there is support after break up and also to let others know about my work.
Thanks!
Thank you so much for everything you do. Your videos have helped me process the end of my first relationship and I feel much better. It felt so nice watching and learning from your videos. As a young man I felt so critical of myself for what I felt but slowly coming to terms with everything has made me realize that this has been for the best. Thank you so much Mr. Dadbeh!
@@rockleone5554 Delighted that the videos are helpful to you and you are enjoying how to see it rather than how we are conditioned to see things and react to them. Thank you for the kind words and supporting the channel M. 😊
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thank you
hello from South Korea. This is my second thank u comment on your videos, and I finally have my guts to share my story. I broke up with my ex boy friend bc I caught him doing Korean Tinder-like app and exchanging numbers with the girls from there. I said goodbye to him immediately bc it was the second time that he cheated. (with his first cheating, I was able to read his flirtings and asking, almost begging, to meet the girl. and he admitted that he only met the girl and didn't do anything but who cares.) Now 3 months have pass with almost no contact and I am trying to tell myself it will pass. But the 4 years of memories are still in me, making it unbearable sometimes. We were "pretty good" together except his cheating part. I have been asking questions like, "Was I not pretty enough, thin enough, rich enough, sexy enough for him?" to myself. The fact that he told me he did it TWICE just out of boredom made me even more powerless. These self-doubting questions were killing me until today when I heard you.
I do NOT need affirmation from him.
I do NOT need to satisfy his needs.
I still have alot to fix to mend my heart for another love. But I have taken a baby step toward overcoming thanks to ur msg.
Thank you so much.
Delighted to hear that you see the power of truth and you are now receiving your affirmation from within yourself and correct thinking. I heard you saying about all the memories.....but remember dear Memories are not the person! Memories and the person are two different thing and memories do not represent the person! Memories are what at one time someone was like and things that two people may have enjoyed together at one time but just as the fact that those memories are all dead and none existence so it the character and personality of that person now versus then. Memories do not mean that that certain person is still same as once was and it does not mean that the person has not changed and if he has changed then regardless of what memories you have with the person , he is no longer what you want! Do not focus on the memories, focus on how the person's actuality is. There are over 300 videos on my channel addressing matters of break up and I am certain that if you search for topics that may concern you, you will see clear and find your freedom from this break-up/ relationship. You can start with this one : czcams.com/video/PC262p7zzew/video.html
Be good to yourself aways. Mehran
👌👌👌👍👍 awesome
Thank you Vishwajeet glad you enjoyed it and find the video helpful. :)
my ex partner had a beautiful little courtyard garden...its stupid but i miss it months later...and i still feel pain.
tune73 I hear you, my ex had an oasis too.. it's been 2 months after breaking up.. how are you feeling? Positive vibes to everyone!
Love many of your videos. Are you a medical professional or just a good guy?
+Mark Papa Lol :) Just a boy, a man, a father who wants others not suffer so much after a break up and understand better how their psyche works and how to understand and re-condition or better said free their consciousness.:) My research and findings are not done in a university in this field but in the field of play this journey is taking place, life . :)
I'll definitely help spread the word. I wish the quality of your recordings matched the quality of the content. Sometimes the audio is a bit challenging but really appreciate what you are doing!
+Mark Papa Yes I know what you mean, I sometimes talk while not close enough to the mic and the mic I have although a good one it is , does not reflect the clarity of the sound. I had a few videos with real low sound quality at the very beginning but now it is mostly ok. Well I guess when the books are all sold out I could make recordings in a special studio room with quality recording facilities ! :) Or simply I best speak a bit more clear and louder which may do the trick. :) I appreciate your kind words and wish health and happiness for you and your family. With regards, Mehran
I appreciate the video. What happens if they break up with you and keep coming back or keep texting you or calling you after the break up. It's been about three weeks since we broke up and she has been calling me a couple times and texting me as well. I haven't responded, should I respond back to her or remain doing the no contact? The problem is, when she comes back we end up splitting up again. Why?
Mark Sanchez You are sucked in with the feeling of the pleasure of being together ( sex or other pleasant moments or activity ), but not recognizing and focusing on why you broke up and why you don't want this relationship. So in the absence of the sense and logic and facts and memory of the bad stuff and the reasons of break up and division in your thinking field of the both of you, then you get fooled by your own mid thinking that the old problems do no longer exists. So if you know that it is the same thing but just a different day, then do not get back together as pleasure is the reason you are getting back with her and not anything fundamental change or any kind of newly found compatibility.
On the part that she texts you and what should you do , you ask, is as if you are not in any kind of control in this. So simply notice what does a donkey do if you sit on it and keep hitting it or bothering it.... ? does the donkey say what if some one sits on it and keeps hitting me, what do I do? or simply moves away, bucks the rider off ? Now I realize that we are not donkeys and we do not buck off or away :) but in human terms it translates to that we can block the text, and block the phone number. You are in control and you talk as if it is up to her to get back with you or not and you have no saying in this. So simply block her numbers and that would take care of that. Be polite to her but be good to yourself and protect your sanity and move away from any bad relationship.
Everything you listed at the end is exactly what my ex was like and wanted. What have I done?! This is why I can't deal with my situation. I have made a serious mistake and can't forgive myself.
forgive yourself and learn about yourself through this experience and grow and go forward, nothing so drastic has happened, this is life, we learn and grow! :)
Hello Mehran, got a question for you.
I have been in a relationship with a woman I still love. But we broke up. I have been healing up for about 2 month now and I still miss her and so. But I also feel kind of jealous and angry that she is happy with someone else now. Is that normal? Or I should attend some hospital?
Hi, Mehran! One question which really torments my mind...a really short summary before. I am 20 and my ex is also 20. We both lost our virginity to one another BUT here is the problem. We had sex only 3 weeks after we got together,and mostly because I took the initiative. Now, I'm really sorry for having slept with him that fast. Anyway, we broke up but for some other reasons which he knows better because he left me really confused. How can I forgive myself? :( my family has a religious backround really strict. Maybe you have heard about 7-the Day Adventists. I don't know... I carry the guilt inside me and I 'm scared I'll never find a man who will love and accept me for who I am :(
I'm in this place right now but I will be okay
Hey Mebran Great video, but I have question for you. My ex broke up with me 1 month ago by phone, I dont know why she did it by phone, because that is really immature and just really hurting. I wanted the relationship to end too, because it was just weird and awkward ar the end, but I am still hurt even after that time and struggle with confidence. So why can't I move on even though I wanted the relationship to end and how can I build up my confidence towards people again?
+Bloon27 It's always a funny feeling when for a while you knew you do not want the relationship any more and want it to end but don't act on it until she feels your intention and she takes the initiative and breaks it up and even though you always wanted it to end but now you feel hurt . This is because you did not make the decision when you should have had and now feel rejected even though rejected by what you had plans to reject or wanted to reject it. So you feel cheated to what you wanted to do and feel as if you lost the game and feel hurt because you feel you are the one who did not wanted the relationship first and you should be the victor ! :) Cheated out of your trophy and now you feel you want her back so then you can break it up at your time ...another words you feel like shit because you were not in control and your ego is hurt for you could have been the one initiating the break up as you had planned. It's only the image you had for yourself that is hurt otherwise in reality nothing has happened and you actually got what you wanted but instead of focusing on the fact that you got what you wanted and initiated in energy, you are focusing on a game or who got the credit and who got the rejected card and who's image is tarnished in who's mind and all that. Just focus on the fact that you got what you wanted and pay no attention on who did it but just the end result which is exactly what you commanded it in your mind and that is what has happened and that is great and so then you are just perfectly fine and opinions of whomever you are thinking of does not matter. :)
Mehran I was not expecting the change to be so drastic until it came to effect. Not seeing you twice or thrice a week has definitely left an emptiness in all of us and possibly yourself included. I think I can speak on behalf of all your audience that we support all your work and the amount of effort that has been made from you to enlighten today's society. So please always remember that you have your audience on your side always and our support will always be there for you. We will never allow your channel to die. That will NEVER happen! Take care my friend, see you next Saturday. ☺👍
What if you tried almost everything to make a relationship work, showed attention, gratitude, care and how important a person is to you, gave chances when person didn't show you the same level of commitment and appreciation back and took you for granted? And you still try. Is that stupidity or faith in a person's worthiness? Everyone has value, I don't find anyone useless but worthy.
"We have based our happiness on other people's needs and judgements and responses..."
Yes, I have. I didn't realise I did. Only on reflection have I noticed how dependent I have been.
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Thank you for the kind words "SK". Glad you enjoy the videos and as for tea drinking, enjoy Asam with cardamom, you might like it, otherwise, you can't go wrong with Chamomile! :)
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What if someone broke up with you because he accused you of doing something bad but you didn't.. and is now blocking you and won't listen or give you a chance to explain? would you keep trying to prove your innocence or just let him go?
Sarah S Let the person who is not interested in truth go. As such people lack interest in communication and interested in rulingvtheir lives by ego and compolsive and not compassion , cooperation and reasonability. Reasonability to them is how they want something to be and that is not in harmoney with the concept of partnersip. Move on you have nothing to prove or to prove your innocence to any one.
Mehran Dadbeh Thank you. That's true if he cared he would hear me out and communicate. I just found your channel yesterday and I can't stop watching :) You're wonderful, great advice!
You are welcomed. Glad you enjoy the channel dear.
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran :)
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Wait a minute
If our memories are dead does that mean everything or everyone we engage with becomes part of the dead scrolls in our minds.
Does it mean that the people who are healthy for us and remain part of our lives
We should not reinforce the memories of how they claim to love and support us.
I'm confused now
Yesterday is a memory but it existed or occurred in a point in time
So from child we are programmed to behave believe and breakthrough into our true identity
Without memories
How can we map out our blueprints to build a life based on experiences
OK the memories of people who cause us great disappointment are difficult yet underneath the illusion of pain the memories are inflicting on us is valuable information if we don't have those painful memories how can we prevent future memories from repeating itself
Memories form our consciousness and they are recorded 24/7. Many kinds of experiences gained from certain actions result in knowledge which is recorded in the memory and is useful to sort out things or benefit from them so we would not fall in the same trap, make the same mistakes or avoid certain negative outcomes all because of useful memories for our survival or improvements....... however when there is a memory which we have no use for it and it just creates pain and suffering or anger and so on, including events of a broken up or a bad relationship ( note that in this video, in this context when we are talking about the pain the memory brigs us in a broken up relationship from the 18 minute of the video onwards, we are referring to memories in relation to a bad and broken up relationship) then we need to focus on the fact that there are no dangers from them any longer as such memories which cause pain and anger or suffering for us are no longer in existence and we need not to consider them or react to them as if they are still alive or happening whenever we think of them. Why would you want not to enjoy memories that bring you joy and happiness. We need our memories for many things including learning and studying and research and operating machineries and drawing on past experiences for research and recognition of things and danger and ...so on. Watch again whatever segment you watched to make it clear for yourself what it is intended to be delivered Christina.
Mehran Dadbeh i am fascinated by the mysteries of the brain
You make valid points regarding memory that no longer service us in the moment
Yet with all due respect
If our thoughts create our reality
Why does the mind create such false perspectives without having any definitive evidence of certainty
Therefore we base our fure on false pretenses
How then can we differentiate fantasy from reality if our synapses our being connected based on fictitious pleasureof what the mind can't. Make a true distinction between reality or fiction
Dear Christina , I am delighted that you are enthused and interested to know more on the topics of mind, memory, thoughts, reality, perception ....however dear these are all elaborate discussions which I have through different segments of the videos discussed and all your inquiries are addressed in and among different discussions. Unfortunately to clear your questions as they are posed I would have to start from begging and reconnect the topics in order to make my respond effective, in sequence and helpful and that will take a long time and becomes mote like a book instead of a paragraph to write here! :) Please look at the playlists and see which of them could be addressing your questions. Try the play list " The Psyche " I think you will enjoy it very much. I have live talks 2 times a week on most weeks . One was on Saturday ( yesterday morning and one will hopefully be tomorrow on a FB page with the following link : facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ tomorrow ( If I wake up on time as it is now almost 4AM and I am still responding to e-mails from around the world and I best sleep now.:) You can join in if you had the chance. How you will enjoy searching for clarification to your question among the videos. This question of yours needs an enjoyable interactive discussion which is not practical here and tonight. With regards,, Mehran
my boyfriend was trying to have breakup with me from past 2 months. everytime I used to convince him . things get fine for few days ..then again he stopped talking to me.. a week ago he blocked me from all calls and text...today I called him after 3 days thinking he might get ok. but I am getting the feeling .he is gone...I m in terrible pain... i loved him with my whole heart. what to do now?
kajal gupta Stop loving he who does not feel the same. Move on and underestand no one deserves your love if they do not respond with the same emotions and feelings.
sir actually ma biggest problem is me n ma ex. belong to d same class in collage ...daily im suffrng coz shez vry happy witout me ..i daily see her ,shez vry happy dng her stuffs regularly n shez vry happy...she created a bad impression on me in ma class... bt i cnt b happy...wen ever i see hr smilng r i see her pics im feelng really very low...im suffring alot coz of tiz...im loosing ma conifidence...im tryng nt to see her pics bt i cant control myself...plz give ur advice...
Are you spying on me? your videos are exactly what i am going through..thank you for them,so helpful
LOL I am sure I am not ! :) But I do know that the understanding is universal as we are each and all representing what any of us would or could feel and is going through after a break up. I am glad that you find the videos helpful. Please share them on your social media if you will so others will also get to know that there is help available. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
You say memories don't exist. The passed is the past it don't exist. Your living son prooves you had a past. He talks with you and looks like you and his mother. I am uderstanding manythings but I can't get this Idea that the past don't exist and is nothing. I watched your video 20 minutes ago. Now YOUR video is in the past and doesn't exist? I'm not getting this part about history does not exist. Help me understand how history does not exist.
It means it does not exist after once it did exist. It does not mean it never happened or it never existed when something was happening when it was happening ( in the past ) but it means that after it happened then it is no longer alive, no longer an actuality and just an imprint of what once was actual. So thinking / believing / treating something that once was but no longer is happening or was in existence is not accurate. Hence memory ( what is a memory in our memory ) does not exist anymore, it is not alive, it is dead. Hope this clears it further for you.
I'm trying to understand. You use memories and history all the time as if those memories are "real" to make many points. Your past videos happened. So now they are no longer alive? Are your videos just imprints with no actuality after I hear them? If so, how can I use dead (no longer alive) imprints to see as tangible knowlege to use? Your videos have drifted on the stream of life past me and now are not in the present. I have listened to past videos of yours more than once. To me they still exist. The pictures on your walls are frozen times of past events you enjoy looking at. Why? Memory does not exist anymore you say and just wrote. I'm still missing this point. (when I push the reply button), this note to you will not exist for me because its not in the present anymore ? Is that right?
No you are focusing on existence of the imprint, memory exists but memory is not fresh, is not actuality, memory of something is not the same as when that something happened. This is what we are talking about so you are worrying about changing or fixing something that happened and no longer exists now, is a non issue as it is a reflection of what happened, a picture of a game is not the game but is a snap shot of the game or a video of an event ( game ) is not the event ( the happening of ), it is a recording of something when it was happening live. The picture exists, the video exists, the memory exists but when the picture or the video ( the action of what happened ) does not. They are no longer an actuality, no longer alive as when they were happening. Hope this brings you closer to seeing it! :)
thank you
Benjamin Guerra Very welcomed Benjamin . Keep going forward dear :)
I've been struggling with some probles, the girl i loved left me some time ago.. but i really really really felt better with your words!
i watched like 3 more videos of you.. and wow! you are so awesome!!! i really thank you..
i finally can say that i opened my eyes!
Benjamin Guerra I am very glad that the videos have been helpful to you dear and that you have been able to see the unlimited opportunities and possibilities that life has to offer and that life can not be condensed to one relationship or one woman. Good for you, be kind to yourself and keep going forward. Socialize with positive people and do your every day duties and responsibilities and enjoy every minute of your life as life has lot more to offer than you can imagine :)