Are Muslim Men FAILING Their Women?!
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 9. 08. 2021
- Are Muslim Men FAILING Their Women?!
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As a father of three single young men in their early-twenties, the short answer is yes BUT it is not all the mens' fault. This economy makes it very difficult for many young men to provide a household, plus the significant majority of college-educated Muslim women do subscribe at least in part to feminism and will not tolerate a husband to have ANY authority over them, for example access to their mobile phones. This is a fact. It is a challenging time for young Muslim men subhanAllah; much more so than in my time. As parents I can tell you we did not expect this. May Allah swt guide us all.
To the traditional young single Muslim females I say: Please make yourselves more known somehow in the Muslim community as believing in traditional values. There are many, many Muslim men saying I cannot locate a traditional Muslimah in this society.
I know of traditional young Muslimas looking to find good husbands. How do we as a community help them get together to meet?
Also if college education is a cause (in part) for the concern, then perhaps it's time to rethink the value we place on it.
Its 100 percent true. These so called Muslim feminists would choose the value of feminism over what's in Quran. Especially if they have a moderate earning job. You can see in the a lot of them complaining that its better for vvomen to live alone, I don't need a man etc.
So true.
@@melissaa2337 Are u one of those yourself sister? Dutch revert?
Both men and women must go back to Quran and Sunnah and do their part
Agreed! Itâs so uncommon to find people like that nowadays especially this generation.
Lead the way boy.
Quran 4 : 32 -
And wish not for the things in which Allah has made some of you to excel others. For men there is reward for what they have earned, (and likewise) for women there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allah of His Bounty. Surely, Allah is Ever All-Knower of everything.
The non Muslims destructure the ppl while structuring tyranny, Islam structures and balances all! feminists came after c. banks to switch farm slavery removed for money and tech revolt to debt slavery, and break up minority families with Xena, and family fake plans etc and create a lobby class and inflate the same money ppl are working increasing poverty.
Islam we have 5 pillars to guide the community, 6 pillars of Iman to guide the individual (See hadith Jibril) & we have 5 protected pillars in shariah to guide society. This gives us unified building points for our deeds & direction and layer by layers guidance.
The 5 Protected Pillars of Shariah are :
1) Din - or Religion.
Truth is natural. atheism built 0 civilizations & Islam is the preserved faith others point to, humanity in whole Proves Islam true, & Allah is Just, All Wise Merciful.
Allah made us needy pairs (Quran 36 : 36) & its a sign Allah is 1 (Surah Iklas).
2) Life
Islam teaches halal diet & hygiene to prevent infection (& excess harm to animals). We reject extremism. Scholar Ibn Taymiya said there is no deviant group except there is a non Muslim behind it, today's cia iran or al queda is no different, & Islam is free of it.
3) Mind.
Islam teaches transparency in their religion to guide and unite humanity under trust and building under preserved scripture and in material world with science method made by a Muslim to imitate the Qur'an's value of preserved and clear evidence. It also forbids harmful substances like intoxicants or Khamr.
4) Family.
Islam teaches marriage preserving best family to build civilization. Ppl are not born "Qoem Loot" - id twins study & basic genetics show, also they banned from bio donations (should be again registered like suicide or addiction), many revert when wanting a family, & have higher self infliction then refugees. Singles are recommended fasting (like Ramadan, but 2x a week) at puberty to maintain gratefulness & chastity & resets the body (like a climax).
5) Money
Islam teaches Zakat as its 5th pillar of Islam, this inspired social benefits (not socialism necessarily), to spread wealth and feed the needy and in addition Islam forbade wasting wealth like with gambling or unjust trade like unequal lending or undercutting etc.
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Quran 2 : 31 - And He (Allah) taught Adam all the names ...
- Learning vocabulary with concept is important, its picked up naturally like a baby picks up a new language before its first memory!
Fard al Ayn - Obligatory on every individual Muslim. (Like hadith Jibril)
Fard ul Khaffaya - Obligatory on specialist Muslims - based on the sciences of Islam, among the first is Tawhid in Allah's Attributes, and among others is learning extracting the rulings from Quran & Sunna to Shariah Law to cure societies ills!
May Allah guide us , and thank you for reading, kindly spread the truth!
A big Issue facing Muslim men leads women to feminism is BIDA! It divides umma, & sufi batinis hide evidence & hence teach ext. taqlid, they justify with imam extremism leading to shirk & grave worship (Q 9 :31). Tawhid ties to safety (Q24:55) It leads to colonies, division & girls targeted by fatwas divide further, haram, society reunites after the bida on secularism, when they should of been united on Sunnah which would bring justice and optimization - so how do we not reject Bid'a for Sunnah? Sadly alot of imams don't teach Islam correctly to manipulate Muslims to get quick donations off of them just like those who pray to graves and ask for haram grave treasure buildings when sunnah is to lower the graves.
The 4 mathhabs many (Batini Sufi) imams use to push bid'a, they themselves said refer our statements to Quran and Sunnah!
Clear Sunni unity over blind bida'a division to beat liberalism on inside and colonies on the other side.
1) Abu Hanifah : "It is prohibited (23) for someone who does not know my evidence to give verdicts (24) on the basis of my words."
2) Imam Malik : look into my opinions: all that agrees with the Book & Sunna, accept it; and all that does not agree with the Book and the Sunnah, ignore it."
3) Imam Shafi : "Muslims are unanimously agreed if a sunna is made clear to someone, it is not permitted (33) for him to leave it for the saying of anyone."
4) Imam Ahmad : "The opinion of Awzaa'i, Maalik, of Abu Haneefah: all of it is equal in my eyes. However, the proof is in the narrations (in the sunnah)."
This is from the beautiful work of Sheikh Albani's Prophet prayer...
When we say Muhammadur Rasulalah it means our isnad ends with Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him whenever able!
The best interpretors of the Quran and Sunnah are the Sahabas, see Quran 9 :100!
As the saying goes âWomen lost their haya when men lost their gheyrah.â
What does haya and gheyrah means, if you dont mind explaining, please and thanks
@@clarietee3043 Haya means modesty/shyness. Gheerah is protective jealousy.
@@Big-gp9bi why not listen to Tommy Robinson đ
and the men becoming ppl who have no ghaeerah for the din, dayouth in the din came first as the SAlafis are pointing out to the arrogant sufi and shi'a grave worshippers and ikwani kawarijs..
A big Issue facing Muslim men leads women to feminism is BIDA! It divides umma, & sufi batinis hide evidence & hence teach ext. taqlid, they justify with imam extremism leading to shirk & grave worship (Q 9 :31). Tawhid ties to safety (Q24:55) It leads to colonies, division & girls targeted by fatwas divide further, haram, society reunites after the bida on secularism, when they should of been united on Sunnah which would bring justice and optimization - so how do we not reject Bid'a for Sunnah? Sadly alot of imams don't teach Islam correctly to manipulate Muslims to get quick donations off of them just like those who pray to graves and ask for haram grave treasure buildings when sunnah is to lower the graves.
The 4 mathhabs many (Batini Sufi) imams use to push bid'a, they themselves said refer our statements to Quran and Sunnah!
Clear Sunni unity over blind bida'a division to beat liberalism on inside and colonies on the other side.
1) Abu Hanifah : "It is prohibited (23) for someone who does not know my evidence to give verdicts (24) on the basis of my words."
2) Imam Malik : look into my opinions: all that agrees with the Book & Sunna, accept it; and all that does not agree with the Book and the Sunnah, ignore it."
3) Imam Shafi : "Muslims are unanimously agreed if a sunna is made clear to someone, it is not permitted (33) for him to leave it for the saying of anyone."
4) Imam Ahmad : "The opinion of Awzaa'i, Maalik, of Abu Haneefah: all of it is equal in my eyes. However, the proof is in the narrations (in the sunnah)."
This is from the beautiful work of Sheikh Albani's Prophet prayer...
When we say Muhammadur Rasulalah it means our isnad ends with Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him whenever able!
The best interpretors of the Quran and Sunnah are the Sahabas, see Quran 9 :100!
I'm 17 Indian muslim....and i really love ur videosđ...i try to explain these videos to my mother.
I'm from Pakistan đ”đ° my ancestors are from India.
@Byron Perry Do you master the classical Arabic language Byron?
@@BassProFlops oooookayyyy
Love these recent videos! Since I was in 5th grade all I wanted was to be a stay at home mom like my mom was. I didnât grow up in a Muslim family but my mom only worked when we were dirt poor and my dad hated every minute of it because men flirted with her and thereâs reason to believe my baby sister was abused in a number of ways by a trusted babysitter. Anyway, my husband (SE Asian) has always told me that Iâm not a productive family member since I donât contribute financially. I went to work after my second baby was born while he watched the kids and I dealt with creepy men and other situations I didnât like. I only worked just under 3 years but even after I tell him what it was likeâŠover twenty years later heâs still after me to get a job cause things are expensive. Iâm the best at saving money, my daughters and I are far from high maintenanceâŠno Starbucks, hair care, no manicures or makeup etc. Iâm great at saving money yet heâs always after me to bring home money. This feminism business is hitting the Muslim community so hard these days that homemakers are looked down upon when financially and morally we are doing way better than they are. We need men that are traditional and women that are traditional for marriages to actually work and to guide our children to the straight path. Especially when married we shouldnât send our spouses into fitna when we donât have to. Even potential spouses for my daughter have required that she work to help him out! What is this?? If youâre a Muslim man looking for marriage then you need to be prepared to take care of a family financially alone and also emotionally be there for your spouse as she will be there for you.
Mashaa Allah sis may Allah bless you for being an inspirational role model. Unfortunately some of us reverts grew up with more traditional families than Muslims these days. Alhamdulillah I was blessed to find someone who wanted to build a traditional family together with me. May Allah bless your family and grant you all firm strength and faith đž
Wait. He's watching the kids whilst you work? That doesn't make sense. It's his job to work and your job to watch the kids. Might want to refer to an Imam for advice
Asalamalaykum.
Here are some things you are not factoring in sister.
1. Most women today are not like you. They want a man to provide more than what Islam requires them to i.e vacations overseas, spending a lot of wealth on them etc. These women also don't want to follow Islamic rulings for example not going out without a mahram etc. The only time they mention Islam is when they twist the context to help support their narrative i.e they want to work.
2. Most women want to work today regardless if their husband says no.
3. The hadith about one of the signs of the day of judgement being that both the husband and wife would work because they would not be able to afford a living otherwise. Of course I'm not saying the Prophet Muhammad S.A.W condoned this.
The way you are sister most women are not.
@@MrSuperman957 He's also working.
Potential spouses want your daughter to work because wuite frankly most women today bring nothing to the table. They don't want to cook, clean, look after the children etc nor look after their husband's sexual needs. Trust me sis women are mostly not traditional today. Watch Fresh And Fit to see this in front of your own eyes.
Women by nature like and respect chivalrous men who can be in charge of the household, provide for the family etc. But since we live in a materialistic society where itâs difficult for a man to actually shoulder the bills alone, women can on their part be productive by limiting the expenditures, cutting down on wastage and non essential expenditure. Together in Sha Allah they can help a single income work at the end of the day. Keep in mind needs are limited wants are not. If we all become minimalist like the prophet alayhi salam in Sha Allah we will not just survive but thrive as single income households. Remember when we try, we will surely find Allahâs help. Man proposes God disposes.
Sister , this comment right here deserves an award , mashaa Allah , RESPECT from your fellow muslim brother.
Women by nature like men for who they are not for what they provide
Highschool students have relationships and often live with parents
Also not all couples have family
MashAllah what a wonderful comment
That is so true! If I am a house wife then I will really look for the cheapest options (that are still good), make clothes, fix holes in clothes,... Just to cut the bills. In Sha Allah will this be good enough!
Women rarely ever pay the bills even when they work. I have seen it all. Its âequality â in name only.
The lady said it right! Thank you brother for discussing these. When it comes to house hold a lot of men want the wives to be traditional and when it comes to money they want them to be feminist. A lot of the men from desi & Arab culture use the money of the wife to run their family and send their money to their families back home.
Wow.
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
The Prophet (ï·ș) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."
Sahih al-Bukhari 29
Weak weak hadith
nobody is grateful to anyone
@@arabiccompprograming5161 I can tell just by looking at your profile picture that you're a jahil.
"Sahih
A sahih hadith is a hadith that has been accepted as being an authentic account of something that the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said or did during his life. The requirements for a sahih hadith were laid out by Ibn Hajar al-'Asqalani (1367 - 1449), who dedicated his life to the science of hadith. According to Ibn Hajar, a hadith must meet five conditions in order to qualify as sahih. These are:
The hadith must have been passed down by an unbroken chain of narrators, all of whom were known for their reliability and strength of character.
Each narrator in the chain must have displayed superior ability to memorize and recite the hadith as it was told to him, word for word. Failing that, he must have documented the hadith in writing, again word for word as he heard it, without altering its contents, even if doing so would make it more readable.
Each narrator in the chain must have been close enough to one of their predecessors to have received the hadith in question directly from them.
The hadith does not include any flaws relating to how it was shared or recorded.
The hadith cannot have any doctrinal flaws, nor can it contradict a teaching in the Quran or the teaching of another accepted hadith."
So as you can see it's not a weak hadith.
@@arabiccompprograming5161
Prove weaj
@@fightermma everyone has to kill there own evils of there own flesh .
We are failing EACH OTHER by not following the guidelines what Allah & His Messenger instructed us to do.
And thatâs the whole point.
I'm really enjoying the family orientated videos
me too... and not the movement...
I agree with that sister's comments. It all falls on the man. We as men are the leaders, providers, and protectors. Whatever we stand for - or fall for - is how society will shape itself. I think that if we adopt a "traditional" mindset and stick to those values and morals in our day to day lives, we will at least have a chance of fixing a lot of the societal issues we have today
While I agree with that unfortunately society has changed where, for the most part, men can't be the only people working in the relationship because everything is too expensive. Not to mention getting a mortgage etc.
@@TylerTheObserver aren't mortgages haram?
@@alhomsiyyah there are quite a few islamic banks in places with a larger muslim population. I know in minneapolis there's an islamic bank. Idk how that works though i just heard about it
Thereâs no such thing as a halal mortgage or Islamic banks. Truth be told both concepts are about as Islamic as a pork pie đ„§
@@alhomsiyyah honestly at this point I'm not sure because apparently some scholars have come out and said that since it's nigh on impossible to own a house without one that it's permissible (not 100% halal still but allowed)
Partners these days don't value their families, it's all about their games, social media and online life. They toss you aside like a piece of garbage it's sad.
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That sounds like a teen life not a person trying to start a family đ
@@aphr0d Yep. If people in their late 30s don't act their age and behave like teenagers then what can we expect đ€Šââïž
@@aphr0d there are grown men married behaving this way! May Allah aid us
@@SaraDollMua you're right, it's very normalized to become obsessed with things instead of simply enjoying them. It has to do with the culture of escapism many have adopted. Running away from problems instead of dealing with it head on and asking Allah for guidance.
Thank you... I hate it when men keep pointing the finger at women like yo if you wern't broken yourself, women would be on the right track.
both reflect each other... and both can have overlapp and details.
example feminism elads to xena and single moms who keep their sons home longer for attention but then daughters of single moms long for male attention, so this feminist selfish agenda creates imbalance! and the men becoming ppl who have no ghaeerah for the din, dayouth in the din came first as the SAlafis are pointing out to the arrogant sufi and shi'a grave worshippers and ikwani kawarijs..
big Issue facing Muslim men leads women to feminism is BIDA! It divides umma, & sufi batinis hide evidence & hence teach ext. taqlid, they justify with imam extremism leading to shirk & grave worship (Q 9 :31). Tawhid ties to safety (Q24:55) It leads to colonies, division & girls targeted by fatwas divide further, haram, society reunites after the bida on secularism, when they should of been united on Sunnah which would bring justice and optimization - so how do we not reject Bid'a for Sunnah? Sadly alot of imams don't teach Islam correctly to manipulate Muslims to get quick donations off of them just like those who pray to graves and ask for haram grave treasure buildings when sunnah is to lower the graves.
The 4 mathhabs many (Batini Sufi) imams use to push bid'a, they themselves said refer our statements to Quran and Sunnah!
Clear Sunni unity over blind bida'a division to beat liberalism on inside and colonies on the other side.
1) Abu Hanifah : "It is prohibited (23) for someone who does not know my evidence to give verdicts (24) on the basis of my words."
2) Imam Malik : look into my opinions: all that agrees with the Book & Sunna, accept it; and all that does not agree with the Book and the Sunnah, ignore it."
3) Imam Shafi : "Muslims are unanimously agreed if a sunna is made clear to someone, it is not permitted (33) for him to leave it for the saying of anyone."
4) Imam Ahmad : "The opinion of Awzaa'i, Maalik, of Abu Haneefah: all of it is equal in my eyes. However, the proof is in the narrations (in the sunnah)."
This is from the beautiful work of Sheikh Albani's Prophet prayer...
When we say Muhammadur Rasulalah it means our isnad ends with Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him whenever able!
The best interpretors of the Quran and Sunnah are the Sahabas, see Quran 9 :100!
Way to pin point tge finger at men. If it werent for many women being blindes by radical feminism and wanting all their rights but non of their responsibilities, marriage would be simpler!
Jazakallah khairan ustadh for the knowledge.
But there are men who seem to be traditional but in reality they're psychological abusing their wives..demeaning their wives..being disrespectful and at the end just maki g her go crazy
This is a HUGE problem. Not to mention the men who say they're traditional but are really on the redpill garbage.
I hate that some men use tradition as synonymous with complete control and dominance.Very ignorant interpretation of the idea of responsibility and leadership.Imagine a society with this kind of leader, they will not admire him but fear him.
If you have these attitudes of what qawaama (responsibility) looks like and insist on it and you want to marry please let the sister know from the start some may accept others wont but you save both of you a lot of trouble.
@@faebalina7786 100% It's because they know it's bullshit and ea t to trap a good woman into marriage, aouthubillah. Just be upfront and find a woman who is okay with that nonsense. đĄ
@@sb_1389 I feel like the good and truthful Muslims tend to find the opposite in marriage nowadays because of people not telling the truth from the jump. Omg and donât get me started on the people that trap good, practicing Muslims and deceive them by acting as if they are practicing. But in reality once they enter the marriage they use that person for their advantages. It goes for both genders. Seen it happen to people closest to me and now they canât get out of the marriage cause they had kids to early w that type of person. So sad wallahi đ
@@Miss.R02 agreed, I've seen it too (both genders being used and abused) but our communities seriously need to abolish the stigma of divorce. Kids are not a death sentence.
Thank you!!!
These are very important topics! Jazak Allah Khair brother Saajid.
I don't condone feminism. I'm seeing a lot of complaining and what sounds like whining from brothers about Muslim women. That women don't want to live with in laws, that they want to have more than you can afford, that rent is expensive and that women are picky when looking for a spouse. Brothers please, have more strength. The whole point of this video was to point out the shortcomings of some men when it comes to being traditional husbands. It's your job to provide for your wife and children. Good men are for good women and vice versa. So become what a good woman wants to marry and stop complaining and worrying about all the bad ones.
@@popcornto6032 me. I was working and got paid well enough to live comfortably as a young woman. My husband had debt and didn't make that much. We got married and lived in an apartment without furniture for a year, we slept on a matress on the floor. I gave up my independence and my comforts to be with a good man. Allah has blessed us with children and wealth and security. Don't underestimate the generosity of Allah in granting you what you ask Him for and even more subhanAllah. Just work on yourself and be prepared to keep working hard to stay steadfast on Allah's Deen. It takes a lot of strength to be a moral upright man in today's world, so stop expecting it to be easy.
@@popcornto6032 me too: I lived both of my parents , with all the comforts in the world , but I married my 24 year husband . We lived in a one bedroom apartment, with the cheapest furniture he can afford , I did not even take mahr from him. It has been 13 beautiful years and 3 healthy babies Alhamduiallah. Trust in Allah and do your best , Wallahi he will not fail you.
As someone else said, (ab)using thr word "providing" to mean 5 bedroom houses like most western Mozlemahs do is not valid. How many girls will accept a studio apartment until he gets a 6-figure job even if he prays 6 times a day? Yeah.
@@absolutelynobody3837 I mean, just two bedrooms will probably do the job, the kids have to sleep somewhere.
@@popcornto6032 akhi and the food of our Prophet pbuh were sometimes just a handful of dates and our mother Aisha didn't cook everyday. How many of us would be satisfied with a plate of berries and salads after a long day at work.
As for living with in laws, that is not the sunnah. (Edit: providing means to provide the woman according to the standard she is living under her father, unless she agrees to otherwise.)
Who ever wrote that email to you is beyond right 100% Jazakallah khair to both of you she really spoke for all of us women! And we need to speak like that how we feel as women when we work! Jazakallah khair brother for your great work keep up may Allah bless you with everything good đ€Čâïž
Im also genuinely dissapointed that muslim males who support red pill exist and they say things that are so unjust and foul about women it literally has no place in islam and there is little less productive or masculine then men gathering to winge about women especially when the deen provides everything those who are complaining about modern relationships and women wish to have.It seems no different to radical feminism to me.
Sorry to burst your bubble. Men don't complain for no reason. If you don't like what they say then take it from the Prophet (PBUH) himself :
"Amongst the inmates of Jannah nisa would form the minority" (Sahih Muslim 36: 6600)
Try and look through our lenses, try and scrutinise yourself and nisa around you. Look past your victim mentality. InshaAllah, you'll come to realise our point of view.
@@hanzalaomar9915 You have just demonstrated my point I did not blame men in general and absolve women in general you interpreted that as such i guess because I am female and critiqued this group who you seem to sympathise with.I am not going to debate you because I genuinely dont think you will hear what I have to say and will misconstrue what I say.So inshaa'Allah the scholars, teachers and the like will address the matter.
@@hanzalaomar9915 Please correct the hadith
We, women, have to be strong sometimes. For example when my parents divorced my mom had to be strong and work to raise 2 daughters, and she thought us to be strong and to take care ourselves. We would love to not be this strong but we don't have anyone who would take care of us because men nowadays do not want to take responsibilities. Even our father didn't help us financially or mentally. he got married and started living a new life pretending we do not exist. We had to be strong to live honorable life. It is all happening because of western ideologies. It ruins families and changes our roles. Today I have education and I earn enough to live a good life and do not want to get married to provide for my husband and children. I can only help. Man should be provider and protector no matter how strong is the woman. Man please be man!
Men and women both need emotional support and that is being husband and wife and live based Quran and Sunnah and donât let western corrupted ideology occupy their life and thinking. After divorce a woman can married another man to be a breadwinner and if that is not happening then she can obviously get her âmeeras â from father and brothers and same time asked them to support her. Women absolutely are not allowed to be around namuharram whether work or education, there are other alternatives and ways. Worst case scenario if none of those are available then she can work where there is no men, only female working places. Also the corrupted ideology of feminism teaches women nowadays that they can do everything y them self like work, education, raising kids without husband being divorced or separated and thatâs just Fitna and these all end up on misery, chaos, depression and so many negative things. By the end of the day whatever Allah swt order us to do if we stick to that our life will be great and better and thatâs husband and wife live based on what Quran and Sunnah tell them to do
@@samimsalihshamimYou are talking about ideal world but nothing is ideal in our world. It is easy to say get married 2nd time. When woman has 2 daughters you think it is easy to get married to a good man? 2 daughters are not always safe to be around a man while many girls are sexually or mentally abused by their own father. Meeras? Not everyone have rich family and not everyone have brothers. Moreover, God commanded us to seek knowledge all the time and education is very important for everyone, especially women who takes care of kids, who helps to do their homeworks at home. For example, my mom was the most intelligent and smart person in my life while I was a kid because she had education, not only she had education she was a doctor, a hero who helps people to cure by the will of Allah and gets paid for that and raises 2 kids. So please see each situation separately. Each life story is unique and Allah is the only one to guide us and to judge us. Our intentions are more important to Allah then out deeds.
@@nakinaz2143 pleasing Allah swt is not becoming an engineer or working along side namuharam men and thatâs what Quran said and even Said for the men to make sustenance for family and Allah swt pleases with woman obeying husband and nourishing home and raising kids. Some education field are needed for women like medical or teacher and that have to be only women education facility and work place but thatâs hardly available so itâs better for them to stay home and get some medical knowledge and practice that with only women in no men presence. You can not convince me with some Worldly examples. What Quran and Hadiths said should be followed. Now if you want to work in between men thatâs totally up to you and itâs Haram and you will be answering for that before Allah swt on the judgment day or hereafter. Watch some videos of brother Daniel Haqiqjo and his wife and you will realize.
@@samimsalihshamim May Allah guide you!
@@nakinaz2143 Ameen, Thank you including you so no one follow Nasty feminism and corrupted western ideologies that ruin millions of husbands and wives life. I knew in what mode or style you wrote the guide you message
This series is just amazing Mashallah. May Allah bless it and us all.
I completely agree with this sister Saajid!! I completely agree that the Western secular liberalist ideology had completely ruined both men and women and twisted not only the roles but also the psyche. I feel proud to be the breadwinner in my family, for my family and my women should be the bread makers inside the house!!
*Best marriage advice is to learn the Islamic concept of marriage and then do what works for you as a couple within that framework. Don't take on expectations from outside whether it's from the liberals, from the traditionalists or youtube duaat. A couple can be happy for years with their system and then the Marriage breaks down just because someone else said "hey you r being disrespected by your spouse for doing such and such" and then waswas takes over.* Always pray to Allah to bless your marriage and remember that TEAM WORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK!
You are so right and also the Sister who doesn't like to work with men is right. Very well written. One of my experiences was that I told my husband about a man at work who pressed himself into me from the back while I was standing at the photocopier. I wanted him to have a talk with this guy and he refused, laughing and saying "You're American, you can take care of yourself." This hurt so much. The other thing 1970's feminism did was to make it almost impossible for a family to survive on one salary because it encouraged women to work outside the home and consequently retailers raised prices so eventually women had to work unless their husband was a doctor, lawyer, etc. Good video.
Right now i am a good friend of a kind non muslim man. He doesnt smoke, doesnt drink, doesnt gamble, never lie, VERY HONEST, single and polite, not doing any extramarital sex, eats wisely, love Palestinians.
I wish i find these quality in a muslim man in my reach.
OR May Allah make him a muslim. So I can marry him.
If he is attracted to you (and even if he isn't), teach him about Islam. Don't be shy. And may Allah bless you and your efforts. I know many cases like yours that have succeeded, at least five.
Give him gift đ with Quran and Islamic basic books. Make Dua for him and take him to Masjid which can give him Dawah.
But careful bc he is not your Muhram so keep it halal Insha Allah
There is a Niqabi sister in CZcams call âMehdinaTVâ she said we knowing each other for 4 years before they get married to her husband and he wasnât Muslim but when he reverted he married her whole he never seen her face SubhanAllah. Idk how he did that coz for me physical attraction is very important to me đ
Have some shame for Allah's sake,stop doing prohibited things
@@halalpolice7544 you all really aren't going to tell her she's doing wrong?all this because she's a woman?.
Mashallah! The shirt looks slick, brother! May Allah love you more.
No hope in America. Wives will not follow husbands and kids will get spoiled and may lose deen. Only moving out can help
Keep praying though. Inshallah our next generation will be strong in their deen.
@@SonoftheFortunate we see much opposite sadly, brother. Look around yourself. Untill too late, relocation would be best.
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I do agree, relocation would be best, if Saudi accepted Muslims. Inshallah I'll live in Madinah.
@@SonoftheFortunate i would love to. Saudi will not accept though. But malasia, indonesia, turkey, egypt... all full of mosques, azan voices... and kids will not know dirty parades.
It's no better in the UK akh
Not gonna lie, I will run far away from the man who want me to pay equally to him Audubillahđđ
@@user-ss6dt1rj5z music and Nasheed are different. Learn Insha Allah
@@user-ss6dt1rj5z Why?
Every man is a male , but not every male is a man. May Allah make a rijal out of us. Barakallah brother
Wa Alaikum Salam Brother Saajid. I love you for the sake of Allah and as a new revert your content has been SO beneficial to me in my learning process. I think that you are an amazing guy with many talents. Allah has guided and blessed you immensely. Thank you for spreading beneficial knowledge to us all. May Allah reward you with Jannah!
Ameen
@@fandangofanful I like you screen name. Good Vibes are good.
And don't even ask about mine, lol. My name is Sabrina but, I have no idea what "the Beezee" means. I think i just made it up for kicks one day. It don't mean a thing though.
@@HabrenOdinsdottir Thank you. No worries sister it happens. Yours reminds me of that one ad "easy, breezy, covergirl" lol. Sabrina is a beautiful name by the way Masha'Allah. I hope this message finds you with high imaan. May Allah grant you beneficial knowledge and grant you ease in this life and the next. I pray that the Quran becomes the delight of your heart and your companion through all that comes in life. Love you for the sake of Allah!
@@fandangofanful Asalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatu Sister! That was a beautiful message. It literally brought tears to my eyes.
And I do really like Saajid and Uthman. Both are very knowledgeable and have outstanding Eman and personality.
I love you also for the sake of Allah.
May His Guidance and Mercy find you Always.
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@@HabrenOdinsdottir Walaikum Assalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh sister! I'll keep you in my duas. Insha'Allah may we meet in Jannah. Can you imagine showing each other our books filled with good deeds? Subhanallah.
May Allah bless you for the good you're doing.
My father works for minimum wage and he provides for my mother and 5 (including me) children. All our needs are met. Granted we live in a state with low cost of living and a part of an area where it is very cheap to live but nonetheless, this kind of living is possible. Inshallah I will meet a man like this after college. I just want a simple life.
SubhanAllah. that's a great attitude
I know families where the husband makes minimum wage and his wife stays at home with 5 or more kids. There is no question to him that itâs his islamic duty to provide and the wife should raise the children. They donât live fancy, but very simple, basic life, but this is the kind of husband you can respect and rely upon.
And there are âmodernâ men, some of them with wages above average, complaining about the economy, how they âwould likeâ a traditional wife, but itâs just not realistic in this time and era to live on one income. This is weakness, not islam. Excuses to their weak mind.
@Byron Perry To you maybe. I converted to islam and itâs all I need Alhamdulillah
Yeah as someone looking for a traditional husband, it can be hard to find someone who fits that role. I know theyâre out there though. May Allah bless all us single Muslims with good spouses and guide us all.
As a young woman in the USA, thereâs a lot of pressure to go out and work and contribute to society otherwise youâre just mooching off your parents.
Get married to a good man to work for you and you nourish him and house and that way you have to work with Namuharram men which displeases Allah swt and is sin. I donât why many men and women are ignoring all those great solutions and ways out there.
@@samimsalihshamim well yes, Iâm trying to get married. Thatâs what I said. I know working with men is haraam. What other solutions and ways are there then?
@@Fatima-of3fl I will explain bunch of them. Let me know when you ready to take my email and phone
@@samimsalihshamim Iâm not giving my info to a random stranger online. You may share it here, maybe somebody reading could benefit from it.
The main solutions for women is to stay home with their families and look for potential husbands in a halal manner. Or if the woman doesnât have anybody to support her, try to get a halal income. May Allah make it easy for us all.
@@samimsalihshamim isnt it haram for you to speak to a non mahrm woman by yourself ,but you are here preaching .so funny
Alhamdulillah before i sleep :)
Women want traditional men but don't want to be traditional women.
JazakAllah khair for these videos. I am meeting a potential spouse and I really need to know more about this topic. I am a revert sister, but my non-believing parents where the "traditional" couple. My mom also got a bachelor degree, but decided to stay home and used her knowledge to teach her stepson and me and my other 2 siblings when we had problems at school. So I think I also want that, but I also don't want to put too much pressure on my husband because houses are soooo expensive and I don't want him to think that I am a lazy woman who doesn't want to work (I am about getting my master's degree, but I also want to be a traditional wife. Maybe not now, but definitely when I am a mom).
So I have a lot of struggles, but I think I am going to talk about it with him. Because of your videos and the research I have done in the last few weeks, I have another vision of my future then just one month ago and I am also much closer to Allah.
But it's sometimes a bit hard to trust someone for 100%, that he will really support me and that he doesn't think that I will be his "maid" only because he gets money and I don't.
I am thinking about getting my own business, just a little think to get a bit of money and to help people, but I don't really have a good idea for now. But I think that is the best combination for me to get money, don't come in contact with non mahram men and just have something extra to work on. But everything is just in the beginning phase, but jazakAllahu Khair for the videos, they let me realise some good things!
May Allah grant u a good and humble husband. U can say I have the same mindset as u about having a small business may Allah make it easy for us. Salam
@@saragasmi88 as salamu alaykum, ameen and that's so sweet of you. May Allah grant you the same and even better!
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Jazakallahu khairun FE Duniyaa Walaakirah and please do keep me in your prayers â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Respect the woman, respect the man, respect their efforts, and understand limits, don't expect too much, be humble, remember the good efforts in a 'bad' phase in relationship. Just do your best and learn from each other
And one principle to remind u of. If you have nothing good to say don't say anything. Love peace.
Men need to man up. Look after your women and your family. Show up when it matters most.
I just love when modern vvomen who refuse to wear hijab wants a moderate Muslim man who will follow every aspect of Islam except the one's that contradict her lifestyle.
Im a Muslim woman who wears hijab. Believe me when I tell you that many moderate Muslim men donât want a wife to wear hijab. Because they want to be undercover Muslim men. I hope you talk to them too
@@SinaAla dayooths aren't muslim men
Isn't it also the opposite as well? Men who gp around doing subhanallah then want a pure woman who will listen while at the same time work outside and inside the home?
@@agathachris9722 that's disgusting but men who actually follow islam,aren't like this sister, ofcourse not.
Everyone plays a role in a relationship and family as brother saajid mentions. Some women may find it difficult to start being 'traditional' straight after they're married and that's okay. You're learning as you go. You're learning contrary to what you've grown up with in the society you live in, and that change is completely understandable.
The same goes for the men, however the consequences may be more dire. So while I see that both men and women need time to learn, it's up to the men to learn faster since they guide the whole relationship. But to both: Don't feel like a failure if you don't act 'traditional' straight away. It's okay to be a part of that learning curve.
both reflect each other... and both can have overlapp and details.
example feminism elads to xena and single moms who keep their sons home longer for attention but then daughters of single moms long for male attention, so this feminist selfish agenda creates imbalance! and the men becoming ppl who have no ghaeerah for the din, dayouth in the din came first as the SAlafis are pointing out to the arrogant sufi and shi'a grave worshippers and ikwani kawarijs..
Jazaakumullaahu khayran
Be patient brothers
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i go to "extremes"
This video actually makes a lot of sense for someone who lives in America, but for women who are in Pakistan/ India where husbands can be beyond abusive , many times leave their wives , beat em not support their own children , a women is left to support her self , also here men are very powerful and we women cant really stand up to their violent behaviour and are expected to bear the treatment. I have 5 living examples arround me at the moment , my khala, my sisters friend, my maid , another maid that left , my grandmaâs sisiter, my mothers cousin well there are many . Also like here we have muslims everywhere so the discrimination isnât a deal , the harassment of being a women and working is the deal here , but still i get that it might be uncomfortable for some women , for that case we have online jobs too .
I agree with the basic concept of feminism. In that it means equality. But men and women have equal rights. Islam gave it 1400yrs ago and the west has caught up.
@Firdows s we are equal in the eyes of Allah but we have different roles and responsibilities that are both equally valuable. The west is messed up by thinking women have to copy men to be equal. And now there's a lopsided society that will pay for the damage in future generations :( there is no emphasis on family and they act like raising your child is less than, compared to having a "career to make you a useful member of society." As if raising the next generation is not useful. So that's where the west messed up. In trying to gain equality, women imitate men instead of having women and feminine roles be equally VALUED. Western men and their mindset is very toxic though so i don't see any hope for them doing that lol. Alhamdulillah for Islam that's all I gotta say
Men and woman does not have equal rights nor are they same as in equal. We can see the inheritance law in the Qur'Än, it is different and not equal.
This is by the Divine Wisdom of AllÄh, Whom is our Creator.
There are things where the Women is clearly superior and there things that the Men are superior in, equality in the sense were exactly the same nah
@Byron Perry
Women's testimony is half worth of men due to menstrual issues as explained by Sheikh UthmÄn ibn FÄrooq, if I remember correctly if he explained this that is.
As for a woman asking for a divorce in IslÄm, it is very simple and easy, many cultures or even religions would not allow for a women to divorce her husband.
It is not the Religion of AllÄh that is what you have said it to be, rather it is the disease in the hearts of men whom oppose AllÄh and His Messenger ï·ș. May AllÄh Guide you, AmÄ«n.
@Byron Perry The West didn't even understand that Racism, or abusing their womenfolk were wrong up until recently, Islam preached against this 1400 years ago we were right about it then and we are right about it now.
Chicken and Egg situation here tbh
Yes they are.... unfortunately
Salam alaikom,from my point of view, it is not that the Muslim man does not want a traditional woman, the problem is that we live in different times and we have to adapt unfortunately to it,there are many men who want to get married but cannot because of financial problems, it is impossible to live right now with a single income and sometimes not two, I wish we could choose the traditional way,that is the best but in our time we have to help each other to survive.
Islam doesnât change with time. The islamic responsibilities of wife and husband remain the same. Husband has a duty to provide and wife obey. It works when you follow the deen properly. You might need to live more humbly, move to a cheaper place, smaller house. Real men donât make excuses but act on their obligations.
@@lunaorchid4378 I have not said that Islam changes with time, but that there are certain things from the 7th century you cannot apply them in the 21st century, the responsibility is to know your limits and be logical, in the end everyone has their perspective of what they want and only God really knows our intention, my best wishes sister.
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I remember someone told me about how to view men and women in islam perspective. In islam to believe in after life is one of the foundation. So living on earth is the way to have a place in the after life. The maker of this physical universe will be the same maker of the after life universe. There can't be two or more different maker/creator. So choose wisely. Anyways. So if your vision or goal is to have a proper place/life in the after life. One should care most about how to get there most effectively. The men and women of islam conduct their life just of that.
If the women make more money, have better job, more famous, more medals, more subscribers, more followers, those dont guarantee of a proper place in after life. In fact those are irrelevant for muslims men or women.
And if you havent understand and appreciate that basic foundation of islam, you will not understand the men and women on islam. The muslim men and women will always be at fault.
Wallahi that is true. may Allah swt guide us all to the right path
In my country, if I say I want to be a housewife, people will think I'm crazy... That much pressure has been made by the society now.... If any woman wants to get married before 27, her father will come screaming like she is ruining her career and life by getting married, her education will go in dustbin for which she has worked really hard if she get married before having we'll paid job.... And if the father is normal, then the groom will be psycho for a paid bride... The most highly paid woman will get the best groom.... Oh and of course, the aunty culture which is destroying our, specially my life..... If I say I want to stay at home after marriage, they will question why would I want to be a trophy wife? Honestly, 99% of women at this time of the world, don't know the difference between a housewife and a trophy wife....
May Allah SWT make it easy for all of us sis. Keep the patient and ignore the pressure, only do what please Allah SWT. May Allah swt bless you and reward you in Jannah
What country is that sis, if you donât mind asking. Just curious
@@halalpolice7544 of course.... My country is Bangladesh
why these so called traditional wives dont agree to marry traditional men in the first place?
there are more traditional men than women these days.but men r forced to become modern. other wise they will end up behind the bars by these hijabi, niqabi women.seen by my eyes
There are not many traditional men and women and even fewer that understand Islamic marriage and the way it should be conducted according to the Quran and Sunnah. My parents had zero concerns allowing my brother to marry and they easily found him someone who is pious and lives her life between a Quran School and her home. For myself, its nearly impossible and it doesn't help that as a woman, I'm much mote vulnerable than a man.
@@agathachris9722 for u your parents look for a well settled man.but traditional man cant be well settled these days easily.u have to make a choice.
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*It depends on where you live. I think in the first world countries where men haven't had to face struggle and enjoy comfort I.e. gaming/sneaker culture of gen z, their transition to manhood is slow and their women become like men as a result. In the 3rd world it's a mix of both but generally men who encounter hardship early on develop differently and mature faster, which is why you find a lot more traditional home-making women in these countries.*
3rd world is undeveloped for a reason and 1st world isn't one
1st world women are more feminine than 3rd world women
@@portalsevil i get ur point however by feminine i meant in submissiveness to the husband and raising the kids. 1st world women tend to be more spoiled and ambitious. In appearance they may look very feminine since they can afford to groom more but often lack the desire to tend to the home and raise children.
"Equality is a false god".
So should the woman not be educated? Should she study for 5-7 years and not get any use of her education?
Why does it have to be the one extreme or the other, why not find a suitable and Islamic balance as you mention?
How can you raise kids if you're a female lawyer, or a doctor, engineer, you name it. Then you have the burden of a husband coming home, kids. It's mentally draining.
@@blueflame3531 there are plenty of other career paths?
@@unapologetic7281 The higher the job on the social ladder, the more pressure there will be. It's almost impossible to raise kids in that environment, your day rhythm is erupted by some naggy boss. Then you have to go home and Raise the kids. Why are so many successful women alone? Men don't want that stuff in their life.
@@blueflame3531 I agree with what you are saying. I do think women should find a way to make money save and invest it so that one day they can do something like create their own business or work from home, if they really do want their own personal income (which there is nothing wrong with). However, I also believe in moderation and still think that balance is key to everything and that being educated and getting a degree shouldnât mean that women shun out other moderate to above average paying jobs outside of being a doc, lawyer etc, which still ensures flexibility.
@@unapologetic7281 Almost most degree jobs expect you to work 32 hours. Even low paying jobs plan your over 5plus days. It's too corporate nowadays. Own business is nice in general. You have control. But that too, is hard to get.
I have an inkling that most women here claiming to be 'traditional wives' are just in it because they're lazy, not because they have anything to genuinely contribute; not from a financial perspective, but from a character, deen, home making perspective. If you can't cook, clean, be physically healthy (exercise), be nurturing and fully obey your husband in what is Islamically permissible, then you're not really fit to be a traditional wife. Being traditional doesn't mean laying on the couch all day watching TV shows and posting comments on CZcams videos while your husband breaks back to provide, you have to put effort into your home every single day. IF you're not at that level yet, then you have to start working on yourself so you're prepared when you do insha'Allah find a good husband.
Even our elders who weren't even religious but had the correct culture back home were far better than people today who argue and moan over everything despite being religious
If my wife agrees to be a traditional housewife, I'll work an odd job after my professional job and weekends.. and pray tahajjud everyday.
Any man that forces or ridicules his wife into working while he sits on his assâŠ..is not a man. And my sisters who want to stay at home like they were created forâŠ.deserve real men to be their husbands, not cowards. Shame on those men. I have more gheerah than they dođ
If he is unable due to medical or physical reasons then thatâs different and then may Allah reward the wife who supports her husband. If he is just chilling at home and spending her money then he should just go jump off a cliff, how embarrassing.
Can you use more "quotes" ?
What do you say for a wife who is married to a man who suffers from mental illness and she does the job of a man like providing everything for him and paying all bills.
That she is the exception not the norm. We have the example of the wife of Ayub AS who looked after him and went out of the house to look for sustenance for them while he was ill.
As long as you fear Allah and not acting against the Al Quran you are good. Don't try to justify your committed actions with AL Quran. It just doesn't work like that.
Me and my wife are 21 year old converts and we got married at 18⊠our relationship gets better and better when we read more and more Quran when we are closer to allah and if there is any drama in our relationship itâs usually from the non Muslim family members being noisy lol
We follow what Muhammad s.a.w. Did as well. People will say âoh that is the old way, we donât do this type of stuff anymoreâ but it just seems like they are just insecure that they donât do what is right so they want to bring other people down with them. The only way that itâll work is if we do what we are supposed to do. It makes it super easy going (like I said my only major problems in my relationship is non Muslims family members trying to be noisy and want us to do it their way)
But women do have the right to work in Islam. Itâs not a western thing or âfeminismâ. There are soo many Muslim women who worked during the time of the prophet saw. Both can work out bidânillah
Can work with husbands permission, yes. But still better to stay at home especially when kids.
@@absolutelynobody3837 no the husbands permission is not needed in this situation there's nothing wrong in working in the first place to ask "permission" from
Itâs permissible to work but they most discuss as couple and itâs better for her to stay at home.
Also there is no single Hadith who says Muslim women use to work like today so plz letâs be careful sisters.
Ofc like our mom Khadija RA was business women but her servant and prophet Muhammad pbuh use to work and she use to stay at home. Even when she was nonmuslim, she never traveled alone with random men (like we do today) or mix with men.
@@user-rz8iz8xv3k Good luck answering on Judgement Day for speaking against Allah without knowledge
@@halalpolice7544 may allah bless you
I would suggest watching Maryam Amir she is a female scholar of Islam (which is halal Aisha r.a used to teach men and women, a lot of our Hadiths come from our mother Aisha r.a) she talks about these issues, she studied Islam herself. A lot of men like to twist Islam with their desires. The Hadith that the prophet saw says, donât prevent the female servants of Allah from going to the houses of Allah. But it is better for them to stay homeâ that is for HER to decide. Also work is permissible but seriously? What kind of man would stop his wife from working if it is halal and take her happiness away?
Samra bint nahik is a sahabiyat who was in the marketplace there was another one but I forgot her name, she would sell stuff in the marketplace. The prophet saw told women to give zakat. Maybe it was because they HAD money. When a women asked the prophet saw about if she can give her husband zakat cuz heâs poor, he didnât say âyou shouldnât have moneyâ he gave her fluid tidings that she would get double reward (saw)
May Allah bless you
Where are they oh Allah they just follow what their woman tell them to do all because of money first they hide then they appear just doing what their women tell them no matter right or wrong.
I can't abide that. It goes against the laws of Allah.
I've had the Muslim men tell me to shave/trim my beard because it's too obvious that I'm a Muslim and that it's dangerous. Forget the fact that we live in a town where I haven't heard of any such hate crimes, forget that looking like a Muslim is the purpose of the beard as was commanded by Rasullullah (sallahu alayhi wasalam), have they not considered how our women might feel?
Will they tell them to take off the hijab? I'd prefer to marry a niqabi. The least I can do is have an obvious beard. These "men" would rather have the women face the trouble than take responsibility. They're over 50 years old by the way, not some high school children.
Marrying a man without a beard is like marrying a woman who wears no hijab. No way.
The quran was written in 7th century Arabic. The Quran is the meaning and it is not confined to one language. The purpose is to understand and it can be in any language including anyone's mother tongue.
Al hayatâ (life), 145 times; âal mawtâ (death), 145 timesâal-dunyaâ (mundane life), 115 times; âal akhiraâ (the afterlife), 115 timesâmalaikaâ (angels), 88 times; âshayatinâ (demons), 88 timesâar rajul (man), 24 times; âal marâa (woman), 24 timesâas salihat (good deeds), 167 times; âas sayyaâatâ (wrong doings), 167 timesâqulâ (say), 332 times; âqaluâ (said), 332 timesâan nasâ (people), 50 times; âan nabiyaâ (prophets), 50 timesâal muslimatâ (Muslim women), 41 times; âal musliminâ (Muslim men), 41 times"yawma-izhin" (That day), 70 times; "qiyama" (Judgment day), 70 times"dunya" (near), 115 times; "akhira" (far), 115 times"shitaa" (winter), 1 time; "sayf" (summer), 1 time"Isa" (Yahushua), 25 times; "Adam", 25 times
Iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times and seek refuge from iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times.
Belief and disbelief 17 times
Clay (teen and sperm (nutufa
112 times (how ALLAH says he made us)
Charity (zakat and blessings (baraka same amount of times.
The words "Sea" and "Land" are used 32 and 13 times respectively in the Quran. 32 plus 13 equals 45, and the two words make up 71.1 and 28.9 percent respectively of those 45. These percentages roughly correspond to what we today know the proportion of the Earth's surface made up of water and land to be."Human being" is used 65 times: the sum of the number of references to the stages of man's creation is the same:
al-Fatihah in itself has 7 verses, 3.5 dedicated towards our praise of the Omnipotent, and the next 3.5 dedicated towards our prayers to the Omnipotent.The words âsalawatâ (prayers) and "aqimis-salah" (establish prayer) are mentioned 5 times in the Quran, the same as the number of mandatory daily prayers.The word "alwan" (colors) is written 7 times, the same as the number of colors of the rainbow.The words "samawat" + "sab" (heavens + seven) are written together 7 times, the same as the number of heavens described in the Quran.There are 365 days in a year. The word "yawm" (day in singular) is written exactly 365 times.
Muslims circumambulate around the Qibla, seven times during pilgrimage. The word âQiblaâ is used in the whole Quran exactly seven times: 2:142:8, 2:143:15, 2:144:8, 2:145:10, 2:145:14, 2:145:18, and 10:87:12"
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itsa 21st century trap
Been trying to get married for 6 years now. I was adamant on marrying a pious woman who wanted to be a housewife. But lo and behold, even the âpiousâ families did not like this. They all want to go out and work. But the funny thing is, when I asked them how finance should be managed; they all said that the man would have to pay for everything and she would just do whatever with her money. So basically the kids would grow up without a mom; dad would have to be a corporate slave and an ATM machine for mom and she basically gets to have all the fun in the world. What kind of an âequalityâ based deal is that? Some even said that we could only have kids only if we had earned millions of dollars to fall back on!!!! Basically the man is the mule who is expected to carry cinderella until he hits the grave. Sour deal, I hope the dajjal comes soon, so that I can see these women follow him to the very depths of hell, forever.
Bitterness isnât healthy
@@amatulfulani6390 following the dajjal is even more unhealthy, dear.
@@mohammadmursalin6817 sadly there is a lot of truth to what youâre saying, I ask Allah to grant you a wife that fears Allah and fulfills the rights of her spouse and kids. Nevertheless, Itâs also important to have tawwakul in the qadr of Allah and to not want jahanam for your sisters in Islam, since you wouldnât want the same for your female relatives. Sending lotâs of duas your way, indeed the nasr of Allah is near !
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Ler them work like men at the end ofvthe day guidance only comes from allah.
Allah cant control anyone , we find our way to control ourselves
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If I could find a believing sister who wants to live in a box with me, Iâm all for it. She could stay in there all day while I go out and work. Iâll even ride a bicycle to work. I apologize that I am not Mohamed bin Salman.
So, yeah, I'm down to be that kind of wife. I'll live in a box. (Edit: spelling)
Have you heard of tiny homes or diy shipping container homes?
we exist! honestly many sisters just want a humble hard working man who loves them with kindness.That other stuff matters to few not all.
@@sb_1389 I have and I'm so interested! I'd love to live like that! Some of the tiny homes are just amazing. I've also seen where 2 shipping containers are cut and put together side by side or on top for more space. It's a great way to reuse something that would end up taking space in a landfill etc..
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@@faebalina7786 Ameen Sister.
The quran was written in 7th century Arabic. The Quran is the meaning and it is not confined to one language. The purpose is to understand and it can be in any language including anyone's mother tongue.
Al hayatâ (life), 145 times; âal mawtâ (death), 145 timesâal-dunyaâ (mundane life), 115 times; âal akhiraâ (the afterlife), 115 timesâmalaikaâ (angels), 88 times; âshayatinâ (demons), 88 timesâar rajul (man), 24 times; âal marâa (woman), 24 timesâas salihat (good deeds), 167 times; âas sayyaâatâ (wrong doings), 167 timesâqulâ (say), 332 times; âqaluâ (said), 332 timesâan nasâ (people), 50 times; âan nabiyaâ (prophets), 50 timesâal muslimatâ (Muslim women), 41 times; âal musliminâ (Muslim men), 41 times"yawma-izhin" (That day), 70 times; "qiyama" (Judgment day), 70 times"dunya" (near), 115 times; "akhira" (far), 115 times"shitaa" (winter), 1 time; "sayf" (summer), 1 time"Isa" (Yahushua), 25 times; "Adam", 25 times
Iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times and seek refuge from iblis the devil is mentioned 11 times.
Belief and disbelief 17 times
Clay (teen and sperm (nutufa
112 times (how ALLAH says he made us)
Charity (zakat and blessings (baraka same amount of times.
The words "Sea" and "Land" are used 32 and 13 times respectively in the Quran. 32 plus 13 equals 45, and the two words make up 71.1 and 28.9 percent respectively of those 45. These percentages roughly correspond to what we today know the proportion of the Earth's surface made up of water and land to be."Human being" is used 65 times: the sum of the number of references to the stages of man's creation is the same:
al-Fatihah in itself has 7 verses, 3.5 dedicated towards our praise of the Omnipotent, and the next 3.5 dedicated towards our prayers to the Omnipotent.The words âsalawatâ (prayers) and "aqimis-salah" (establish prayer) are mentioned 5 times in the Quran, the same as the number of mandatory daily prayers.The word "alwan" (colors) is written 7 times, the same as the number of colors of the rainbow.The words "samawat" + "sab" (heavens + seven) are written together 7 times, the same as the number of heavens described in the Quran.There are 365 days in a year. The word "yawm" (day in singular) is written exactly 365 times.
Muslims circumambulate around the Qibla, seven times during pilgrimage. The word âQiblaâ is used in the whole Quran exactly seven times: 2:142:8, 2:143:15, 2:144:8, 2:145:10, 2:145:14, 2:145:18, and 10:87:12"
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