10 Steps To Marriage for Single Muslims
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- 10 Steps To Marriage for Single Muslims
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1. Know what you are looking for (3:00)
2. Know that men and women are different (5:12)
3. Start your search early (7:45)
4. Don't treat marriage like dating (12:58)
5. Don't try to force things (16:21)
6. Marry for the deen (religion) (17:43)
7. Following Islamic gender rules will preserve your marriage (20:46)
8. Explore other avenues (23:40)
9. Work on improving yourself (28:33)
10. Make du'a (30:41)
Jazakallah khair.
10 steps to Rizkh InShaAllah
@@kingkatiin2658 Is that a picture of Stephan A smith? LOOL
Jazakallah Khair
نفع الله بك
I guess, when you're looking for a potential spouse, then look for the one who is not too friendly with the opposite gender, the one who has hayaa.
Very important
This is so true
It’s relevant to me cos I am still single, Jaza Kallah kheir.
same here brother, same here
@@OmarMohamed-qx1vq u guys still single
it is so difficult to find potential spouses with good character, conduct, deen, and emaan. Someone you could be attracted to and who could financially support you.
May Allah make it easy for those of us who are want to do things the halal way and get married. ameen
Jazakallah khair brothers, I pray Allah rewards you both immensely for the advice put forward. Many don't receive this advice from their immediate surroundings (other than receiving the very pressure to get married!). So insha'Allah many of those seeking a spouse get to see this so they know the mindset to hold and the steps to take in their search.
Perhaps a natural video to follow would be advice and guidance after marriage, especially for newly weds.
I am still single and I am scared to be married..we have alot of abusive relationships in the world especially in our community.
Don't be scared sister. If you consider someone look into their eyes and see if you see kindness or harshness.
shireen Ibdah have tawakul and make duaa to Allah - he will grant you what you need
I'm converted from Christian Alhamdulillah
Read the holy Quran and follow it, don't be scared sister, I'm not married as well
Then Don't get married. Its ok in Islam
Maybe it is in you country society , not mine, actually some country make marriage too difficult because of tradition that not part of islam , and I was choked to know that in some Muslim country wife is becoming as a made and that's not part of islam and I will say this kind of tradition go against Islam because the wife is with the brothers of his husband alone and this is fitna, in my country you won't find this weird tradition , but the problem in my country with mariage is some of celebration of marriage is just expensive.
Great love to see this. Hope to see more of these knowledge based discussions.
4:32 Facts. We have to make sure we keep our beliefs, and our deen authentic so we dont fall into traps apparent or hidden contrary to our deen
جزاكم الله That's great video ..i
Greeting from INDONESIA 🇮🇩...
BarakAllahu Feek akhi. Very beneficial and much needed topic for our brothers and sisters in islam.
Parents are the biggest hurdle in marriages.... May Allah guide them.
Started to look at getting married at 18 I’m 26 I’m beginning to lose hope to be honest. May Allah make it easy for us.
If you are a sister can you tell me why you started to lose hope? Tell me about your experience and struggles ? I might be able to help you inshaAllah!
lower your standards
Jazakom Allah Khair, this video is much needed
These top 10 videos are great!
to anyone who reads this, please pray for me so that Allah will give me the best and a pious wife. One of these days I'm so scared of falling into haraam relationships 😔 May Allah preserve and protect us all.
Assalamu Alaikum dear bro,
Happy to heard from you..!
Stay bless.much love from SG✌
1# Fear Allah and look for the religious one.
i dont think a religious girl would marry you Jason. lol
@@OmarMohamed-qx1vq jazakallahuKhairan...
@@OmarMohamed-qx1vq fear Allah, he clearly seems to be a revert like many of us, don’t forget the Sahabah were reverts. Barakallahu feekum
@@a_star965 I think Omar was joking. Maybe because the brother here has Jason Voorhees as his CZcams name. Jason Voorhees is the villain in the movie Friday The 13th. A masked serial killer who randomly kills people. Maybe that’s why brother Omar was saying “no religious girl would want to marry him”.
Some good and beneficial points , May Allah accept you efforts and reward you both abundantly here and akhira.
Masha'Allah very helpful. Je'zak Allahu Khair
جزاكم الله خير!!!!
I wished that you talked about the right intention of getting married so the person gets rewarded from marrying.
Jazakumullahu khair
Asalam alaikum Good video that will help many brothers and sisters.
its very important beneficial needed topic. jazakum Allah khyr
Masha Allah Excellent advice🙏🙏
Salam to you both brothers.
Jazakallah khyra
What if your culture looks down upon women who actually seek out a potential spouse and have to wait for her guardians to choose for her but the only people they choose is from their background and she’s not interested in their background because generally speaking they have similar attitudes and viewpoints that she doesn’t align with because she grew up in a whole different continent?
That’s a tough one
Sadly there’s a great deal of ignorance within Muslims
JazakAllahu khayran to you both, I would just like to point out I dont recall you touching on a vital point about involving the Wali/Guardian in the process. The reality is that men can read men and pick up on things the sister can not see. So with sincerity, knowledge, and a holistic awareness of the type of life and person the sister is seeking inshaa'a Allah people can feel comfortable in reaching their goal whilst still pleasing Allah.
Thx for advices sheikhs I know this is not the right time for me to think about marriage , but i know i should know some information so i can analyse it to help be decide when time comes 🤭✨
The problem we have in Bangladeshi society, for example is that the parents let boys and girls hang out or they will know they are dating but they won't let them get married until they are "ready". It actually kind of makes me angry being a Muslim majority society.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Brother saajid I love you for the sake of Allah
Jazaakumullaahu kheyran both of you brothers❣️
Allah Kareem, we’re tired of waiting, but not tired of waiting Allah’s blessings ✌️ We thank Allah in all times and situations.
Can you send the video of istagfira
I wished if you began with making doa because tawakul always comes first.
I'm seriously thinking about marriage
Dont delay it, if you can find a good sister. Put your trust in Allah and go for it. We have a saying in somali, "marriage is one thing you are never at loss". Meaning you will benefit from marriage either way, gain experience, learn about your self and the opposite gender or even get a child. Even if you separate or it doesn't work out. Remember you will need alot of patience.
@@zakicabdullah8421 I mean I was thinking and this video came up on my feed
Me too I been thinking about it for 35 years loll
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
May Alloh bless you
I keep telling myself that my future husband will find me but it doesn't seem to be working lol. Any useful tips for sisters out there who want to commence their search?
Ask your parents, they will maybe find the one for you inshallah
@@fluffytoast8713 I am a revert and in the US all by myself.
@@NM-zw7qu, try to go to muslim community in your area.. or you nearby area.
Or call these brothers they might have candidates..
I don’t normally comment but I felt from listening to this reminder/advice I found it hard to learn from one of the speakers. I don’t mean to be a negative nanci but the brother kept hmming/aaing/stuttering/repeating sentences and the same words which were unnecessary. Where as Sajid speaks clearly, better prepared and seemed more sure about what he wanted to convey - Allahumma barik lahu
With a persons attention span being very limited .. it doesn’t help when a speaker can’t speak in clear concise sentences - may Allah guide us to become better Muslims and speakers :)
Du’a of Musa (as) comes to mind
“رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي. وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي. وَاحْلُلْ عُقْدَةً مِّن لِّسَانِي . يَفْقَهُوا قَوْلِي”
“Rabbish rahli sadri, wa yassirli amri, wah lul uqdatan min lisaani, yaf kahu kauli”
“My Lord, put my heart at peace for me and make my task easy for me and remove the knot from my tongue, that they may understand my speech.
This is so cute.
I really don't see any solution in this half hour video...
Is brothersaajid married?
Don't you think step number 6 is supposed to be step number 1?
Got it akhi.
Where’s my pen!!!
10 steppssss??? 😭😭😭😭
Everything is imposible with Alloh helps, these are what İ wants basically, but in fact İ must face some guys who really doesn't know Islam is, Even he confess a muslim.
10 steps to marriage for married Muslims?
Where do you go and look for a wife though? The masjid? Marriage websites?
Nathaniel sunnahmatch
Muslim women are not allowed to marry non Muslims!
Marriage Is Man and wife,
some brothers believe In poly marriage,
A lot of Islam laws have Torah Laws,
Polygamy is allowed in Islam but only to 4 wives. Torah, Gospel, Quran came originally from Allah thats why there things in common.
Allah The Glorified and Exalted says in the Qur'an in Surah An-Nisa verse 3 : "And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]."
@@abdulhaqq4362 Exactly
All muslims believe in polygyny. If they think it is not good then they are not muslims.
There is just one step, "Get Rich" there are thousands of girls for you out there ! If you are rich and not getting married then the problem is with you
this is horrible advice. Its as if you didn't even watch the video
@@deechonada do you have a better plan ?
@@atifrehmanfarooqui3862 Yeah, its called watching the video
@@deechonada if you get rich, you just need to approach a family. You dont need to make things complicated.
@@atifrehmanfarooqui3862 Are you Muslim?
What's the point in getting married nowadays when all that happens is financial problems,fights,kids growing up joining gangs and not listening. Tbf whenever I think of these stuff I just say ahh what's the point dude might aswell stay single I was born alone gonna die alone bruh id rather have hoor al ayn
Salaam, brother. The point of getting married has been the same since the beginning of our deen. The only thing that has truly changed is this dunya. May Alllah SWT guide us all.
AX gamer 0121 If you're capable to get married and start a family but you don't do it, you might fall in major sins brother. We were created with a desire for the opposite sex. So if you don't channel your needs in the halal way that Allah swt has decreed for us, then other evil avenues might be taken
Hamza Ait Si Lahcen ofcourse that’s true but not always the case, there might be a brother who is a Hardcore Student of knowledge who doesn’t have time to get married. Look at Sheikh ul Islam Ibn Taymiyyah he wasn’t married, look at Al Imam An Nawawi he didn’t get married , matter of fact when he was asked why didn’t he get married he said he forgot to get married.
@@ajsmoth3509 That's very true. Thanks for the info, brother.
@@ajsmoth3509 Most of us do not have that level of faith brother haha.
I have a major deficiency in that i dont take the steps to seek marriage.