In today's video we will be talking about Ashley Mcguire, Charlie and more Second Channel - / @callummarkie2 My Instagram is @callummarkie / callummarkie
If its in the uk! It wouldn’t matter😂😂 thats not a thing here! Like you can get maybe £25 a month taken from their wage.. but not necessarily and you wont go jail for it😅
Maybe not, but that's the most likely scenario. If he really didn't want to be a husband or dad, there's no reason not to sign the papers, unless he has reason to believe one or both kids aren't his. Even still, a paternity test would clear that up.
@@esseaem1451yeah, but he's a Brit. Depending on his immigration status, he might face nothing more than a revocation of his Citizenship and deportation back to England.
Another thing is that she’s not going to be able to get passports and other important documents for the children that require signatures from both parents if he is on their birth certificates as their Father. To be fair to the children he should terminate full Rights if he has no intention of being a parent. I guarantee he disappeared so he wouldn’t have to pay child support/alimony. What a scumbag.
@@ghoultooth if your spouse has been gone for months walk your ass to the court house and ask for an ex parte/temporary custody order, when the judge ask why? simple that man has been gone for months, I don't know where he is and I need sole legal custody until he is found! It will be granted with minimal proof!
I agree, I've seen a lot of men do this, and if she had actually gotten a divorce lawyer she may have had this wrapped up by now. Because if a lawyer serves someone continuously with no answer, depending on what state you are in, and you have shown that you have reached out multiple times a lawyer would be able to file for a marriage dissolution on the grounds of neglect or something like that, if I'm remembering it correctly I may have things switched, and she could have had the court draw out money from his paycheck for child support by now if she went that route.
The fact he (allegedly) did all of this morally abhorrent shit and still managed to get onto an episode of Chopped and still have a major job in this industry really does show that no one does background checks ever.
Yep. Also.. My mother is ended up divorcing her husband, the day before their ten year anniversary. If they were married ten years - he could draw social security benefits, off of her.
@XOChristianaNicole wow. My ex-husband had a double bypass before our divorce was finalized, and the hospital came after me for the bill. I'm on a payment plan.
Absolutely, I had bill collections coming after me for my partner's unpaid debts, and to this day I still can't use anything AT&T because I'm not paying that.
I feel like we need to bring back the term “ con man.” Many of these stories like this one and the who the f did I marry one are just stories of con men conning their ways into lives!
@@justkiddin84 Being a grifter is different than a con man, grifters, by definition, have to be selling something. Also, I don’t think it matters if you can just exchange it for conwoman.
@jennschutz6022 they want it divested from its parent company because all your information and pictures and photos are going to China. It's a security concern, and it's a real one.
My ex-husband found a way. Turns out there are no protections for adult children in their parents' divorce proceedings, and a lot of financial and just plain hurtful things that can be done out of spite and retaliation for the other parent or resentment for.... whatever, I guess. Yep. I was married to a dick-shaped human for 32 years. (Apparently, I'm blind.)
Sorry but when the wife was talking about her deadbeat husband, and the presenter said "women do that too", I eyerolled SO HARD. Its such a cop-out to feel the need to say that when the story is literally about a deadbeat dad.
I don't have to imagine my wedding venue being closed on my wedding day because THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED TO ME. It's called The Creperie in Edmonton, Alberta, and we paid a deposit the year before and booked their private venue for 50 ppl for our wedding day. 3 weeks before our big day, my mother in law saw online that the restaurant was closed!! We had actually planned to talk with the staff that week since when I called a couple of months earlier, they had said to call 3 weeks in advance. I had to call a lawyer, and I did get my deposit back through my credit card company, but my husband and I were soooo stressed out and devastated. Luckily, we found a beautiful restaurant that took us in 1 week before our big day, stayed in our budget, and made us a beautiful cake. They even made crepes, which are not on the menu, just for us! Shoutout to Tiramisu (also in Edmonton). Their team was honestly the best, and we still can't thank them enough!
Oh my word! I cannot imagine the stress trying to secure a new wedding venue so close to the day. Glad you were able to get your deposit back and found an even better place to celebrate. I also agree that Tiramisu is a great restaurant!
That really sucks. So glad you found another place! Not sure if this happened when they had to close down and relocate (still haven't reopened) due to the building they were in being sold, but if it was that, it's kinda out of their control (obviously more communication was needed) and you should be going after the buidling owners NOT the business thats also suffering, sucks for everyone in the situation, imagine all the employees out of a job from that... I think it's been closed for almost 9 months now with recent news of finally finding a new location.
@JustAStump They closed about 2 weeks after my last conversation with them, and I know it sucks that the building was sold, but it was still the businesses responsibility to inform us it closed and to refund us. We would have completely understood and made other arrangements. (We booked in Oct 2022, they closed May 2023 and our wedding was Sept 2023) However, we weren't told and after a server on instagram apparently got ahold of the owners and said they would contact us asap to refund our money they never did. They didn't even reply to any of my messages asking. So, as much as it is a crappy situation, the owners are 100% at fault for not contacting us, following up, or even apologizing after the fact. I don't have much sympathy for them after the way we've been treated. And legally the building owners are not at fault. The reservation and deposit is a contract between the business and the client. The landlord of the building is not a third party to that contract.
@@VanillaflavoredSorawow they handled that sooo badly. I’m sorry y’all had to deal with that when all the planning and lead up must already be so stressful. So glad y’all got a new venue with clearly better management.
The giftcards: He sold giftcards to his restaurant and then closed the restaurant quickly after that and ran. Not enough time for customers to come back for a second visit. All those giftcards were then useless. Hundreds, possibly thousands of dollars of giftcards that customers paid for.
Right? We had a small restaurant in town change ownership recently and they warned people well ahead of time that after the change of ownership they would only be accepting gift cards up to a specific date specifically so they didn't screw anyone out of their money
@ashrowan2143 I remember seeing something about that, it had tiktok in quite an uproar, understandably. Wasn't the cut off date barely any time at all 😭 like a month or smth
@@christinahamilton1278yeah, but technically the new owners are under no legal obligation to honor those gift cards in the first place. The fact that they did so, for any amount of time, is actually really decent of the new owners.
So, his parents have helped him out of various situations, don’t they care that they have grandkids and that he’s a complete loser as a father. 15:2815:28
If the wealthy parents even exist. Some comments will make up anything. And it seems like he skipped out without paying anything, soo does he really have wealthy parents? That said, he isn't a good conman if he is stupid enough to be on TV when he is running from people he scammed out of a lot of money etc.
@@hawkeyescoffee6399 Lots of purely selfish people have the attention span of a gnat. They literally have zero awareness that other people have feelings or how they might be perceived by others, so they have no qualms about taking advantage of people or situations when they want something, and no problem just ditching them when things don't go the way they want.
And they are situations and people I've never heard of usually. Thankfully, I've never had to watch an actual TikTok because Markie loves us so much to sacrifice for his viewers.
In some states, you have to publish a notice in the major local newspaper every day for 30 days before you can get a divorce. Others you have to go before the judge and explain that you can’t find him.
You actually don't have to use the newspaper. The legal requirement is simply that you post notice in a public forum. Every courthouse has a community bulletin board. You can tack a printed notice to that bulletin board for 30 days, and show proof that you did so. Some states even recognize community FB pages as public forums, so a post there would legally constitute serving the other party notice.
I’m going through a divorce myself, and while I’m doing my best to minimize drama and take the high road, it’s hard when your soon-to-be ex-who cheated on you repeatedly and utterly demolished your finances-is spouting off nasty, ableist rubbish about you just to rub salt in the wound. The countless Internet posts, videos, and IRL people I have known who have gone through a divorce makes me wonder if drama-free divorces are as rare as a healthy menu item at McDonald’s. I’m now facing eviction on top of everything else. So any good thoughts/prayers y’all can send my way are appreciated.
i imagine if there was no drama, the couple involved wouldn't want a divorce... that being said, i hope you can get back on your feet soon, and with a new lease on life. and don't be afraid to reach out for help! there will always be people who DO love you and do want to support you through thick and thin
If he is posting bad stuff about you online then make sure to document it. Take pictures and stuff because it could be beneficial in your divorce proceeding
Ironically sometimes the kid benefits more from not having those people around them. Nothing worst than knowing your dad was legally forced to give a fuck about you. And these kinds of people will either abuse you or neglect you.
That exactky thing happened to me. Never met my (supposed biological) father - until my mother tracked him down, for 12 years of past child support (which, she never even out anything away, for my future, because she felt she was owed the nearly $25 grand, in full, for raising me on her own). He flew out for four days - got me to even call him “dad.” It was a manipulation tactic, in attempt to get my mother to not come down, on him, so hard. She still did. I met him in Feb. ‘99 - last time he called was Easter Sunday (April), ‘99. He ended up quitting his well-laying job, moving states, and changing his name. He was still tracked down, and forced to pay. Which, made no difference to me, in the grand scheme of things.
Yes, however he needs to relinquish his parental rights. The unfortunate reality is that right now, their mom can't get anything important done without a signature from the other parent. She can't even get passports for her kids without his signature. That's one thing if he wants to abandon his family. They're probably better off without him. But he's also holding them hostage by refusing to get a divorce or relinquish parental rights.
Every kid deserves parents but not every parent deserves a kid. He needs to bow all the way out though. Terminate those parental rights and sign the divorce papers Charles!
It’s not easy to go around the divorce, I have a client who hasn’t seen her husband since 2003 and we had to do some investigative work to find him to sign the fucking papers.
As someone who went through this almost 4 years ago, there does need to be laws in place where parental rights can be relinquished after a parent ghosts completely, and divorces can be filed and finalized without one of the people involved if they refuse or can’t be gotten ahold of. In Illinois where I live, I still was able to finalize my divorce after the police served my ex SEVEN times and he never answered the door, it took a year but bc he ignored all of our requests they gave me the divorce. It shouldn’t have to be that way though it was a traumatizing experience.
Isn’t it crazy how some people can put on a front and hide who they are? The radio presenter said she really liked the husband and thought he was devoted to Ashley, and then he just ghosts. My brother is like this… I can’t believe a word he says anymore.
Most people hide who they really are. Most people put on a front when dealing with anyone not in their circle. It's actually more concerning that so many people don't realize this.
@@SkunkApe407- Abandoning a wife and children, after pretending to be a loving husband - is nowhere near the things people tend to naturally do, for social acceptance.
My sisters ex up and vanished. Pushing through a divorce without the partners cooperation costs a lot more. Plus she had to sell their house before it got foreclosed on and she had to get an order from a judge to allow her to sign things in his name to sell their house. So lots of court fees and lawyer fees. He had also taken one of their vehicles. It was in both their names so she had to keep paying the insurance in case he got into an accident (not that he got it inspected or did any oil changes or anything on it)
A divorce without a compliant spouse can be arduous because you have to prove you served them. It differs in various countries, but even in mine, I had to wait a year to start filing, serve him, because he dodged us serve his mother, have a friend swear an affidavit she did it and then also mail a copy certified tracked mail, wait 30 days to allow him to respond, then continue the process. And we had a signed separation agreement settling all our financials and no kids! She has children, child support and who knows what else? If he has a rich daddy and possible assets, he is dodging for a REASON.
I was a notary for years and years and he is avoiding the situation to try to not pay child support and alimony. That’s all. I’ve seen so many scenarios of dudes just going missing and then coming back when they need sobering and acting like they had no clue there was even a divorce happening.
My daughter’s father tried to not tell anybody that he was having a kid. And I made him blow his spot up because like I don’t care if you don’t want to be involved, but what you’re not going to do is hide it. And I’ll take care of it! But omission of the truth is lying. Edit: he was saying he wanted to be in our lives though so that was my condition. If you want to be in my child’s life, you have to let your parents know. I wasn’t letting him take my child by himself. He was bringing her to his parents house that was the only way he was going to see my child. 2nd edit: he cheated and lied and told me so many things that were straight up lies. I could NOT trust him at that point with a very young baby. So his parents HAD TO BE involved. Skunk ape is mad cuz idfk what happened to them but he’s obviously very hurt by something that has NOTHING to do with them 😂😂😂 someone come get their family member, they need to go touch some grass and go outside and get off CZcams. I know he is NOBODY’S man so can’t say “come get your mans” 😂😂😂
My daughters father tried to do the same thing lmao. He first tried to lie to me about being sterile and gave me fake Dr office paperwork. And then when I took him to court for a paternity test and child support, he lied to his dad-who he was living with- saying that the test results came back that he's not the father. So I mailed the results straight to his dad lmao.
Honestly, what business is it of yours who he tells about his kid? What you did sounds like the act of a jilted ex or an obsessive ex, who can't come to grips with the fact that he didn't want to be with you.
@SkunkApe407 That's the child's grandfather. The grandfather should know that the kid exists and, if the mom is cool with it, he can visit. The father lying was just trying to manipulate his own family.
Getting divorce is so so expensive. If the other party drags the 'fight', your charges can even go up to $20,000 (only for your part, if they request that you pay for their attorneys charges, could be more).
I can so identify with this it took me three years to track down my ex over 35 years ago to get a divorce. Then he not only didn’t pay child support; but he never bothered with his kids again. Now they’re in the late forties and they don’t care. He also stole his best friends fiancée and married her and had two sons; whom he gave everything too. I was a single mom and worked 2+ jobs and both my kids went to college. So yeah; some real dirtbag guys out there. So sad .
Kind of sounds like a post I read where a woman started to plan a future with her boyfriend including having kids Till one day she got a message from a woman who asked if the person in her profile pic is her boyfriend She said yes The woman explained how she and many other women had been trying to find him for years but he would disappear not long after whoever he's with was pregnant and they're looking for him to get the unpaid child support The woman even sent pictures of other girls with the same guy even a couple birth certificates She immediately called the police and sent a "anonymous tip" to his location
8:30 There’s not. Unfortunately if the person is considered mentally capable of agreeing to the terms of the divorce there’s not a lot that can be done litigiously to get a signature from someone refusing to sign. My ex refused to sign our divorce papers for two years. We did have an open domestic abuse/spousal abuse case, which he was found guilty of in military law on two different occasions, but I never pressed charges. He was found guilty per military investigation but the statues had not expired and basically I said if he didn’t divorce me I would press charges with the state- which had he been found guilty in a civilian court of law he could have gone to prison. He then signed the papers.
It depends on the location but you can divorce someone due to abondoment and also have them removed as a custodial parent for that as well. basically since they are not doing their part, they have forfeit being apart of it. Also if you had a lawyer, idk why they didn't tell you to use that open case to have him sign right away. You basically wasted at least 1 year. I had a friend that went through this. His wife was a total monster, no one believed him until there were police reports filed while he was away. They basically said, sign divorce and your rights way, or do 5 to 10 in prison.
@@RaizelSX Divorce by abandonment takes a while though. And in some circumstances abandonment can be criminalized which can extend the legal process. I was working with base or military legal and they encourage reconciliation or “maintaining” the family unity. We were already on a Family Action Plan per the investigation. I think we were all hoping it wouldn’t come to that. But he told me finally, he confessed to refusing to divorcing me, so I couldn’t “go off and marry someone else.” So when I finally realized he was deliberately refusing, not because he believed we could reconcile but because he didn’t want me to move on, I reminded him our case was still open. I was granted separation from the very beginning and my legal status was “separated” the entire time. And because of this once the divorce was granted the judge went back and ruled our marriage ended on the day I filed for legal separation. So on paper it shows our marriage ending the day I left. And I will say this- separations are fairly easy to obtain in most cases. I didn’t even have to appear in court to be granted my separation status. If someone is refusing to divorce you, GET IT because in my case the judge went back and dissolved the marriage starting at the date of separation. It doesn’t change anything but it is rewarding emotionally.
The power of the internet coming together to help her out is great. Hopefully she's able to serve that ghosting con man and get whatever she needs to move on happily and healthily with her kids. The kids are the ones that lose out the most here but maybe in this case it's a good thing he left. He sounds like a terrible parental role model.
He doesn't want to officialize the divorce bc it means he'd have to pay child support. Its also why he changed his contact info, so she couldn't find him. What a wimp.
He still has to sign paperwork or she has to pay more money to get the divorce pushed through. My sister went through hell when her ex up and ran off and left her with a mortgage she couldn’t pay. It took a court order from a judge for her to be able to sign in his name to sell the house before it got foreclosed on. She paid through the nose in legal fees
@@onecatshortofcrazy12 Unfortunatelly that's the hard part, but when she gets her divorce, I hope she can see everything as a blessing, this man could cause more harm to her and her children if he decided to stay.
9:30 I wouldn't be surprised he's dodging the divorce to avoid paying child support. Assume as long as they are married there are none. Also if he's rich a divorce (though it's properly just daddy's money) could mean he has to give her a portion of his wealth in the divorce (unless she's willing to wave it which she might).
The fact, as far we know rn, that his parents didn't see anything wrong with him abandoning their literal grandchildren has me shooketh 💀How some ppl can be so apathetic to their own next of kin is crazy
That thing about lawyers not taking a case big enough to get their cut is definitely a lie. Lawyers don’t work that way. They sometimes take class action lawsuits on contingency and get a percentage of a settlement when the risk is worth it, but they don’t just take random lawsuits and they shouldn’t be ridiculed for not taking cases for free.
Thank you! The real reason the lawyer wouldn’t take the case is probably 1) The cost for suing the guy would likely be more than what the paycheck was worth 2) If the guy doesn’t have any money there isn’t a point. Even if there was a ruling in their favor, they could spend years and thousands of dollars trying to collect the money from him. The lawyer likely went “Yeah, it really isn’t worth it.” And the ex-employees went “Oh, okay.”
@@rumelasium6292 A Indiana State University student posted a disturbingly racial TikTok. This student she has no business working with the public in health care!!! It needs more coverage. Students feel unsafe & unheard, quite honestly i would too!
@@tisharea8817everyone’s said racist shit, every other student there has…. so do black and brown people … the worlds not gonna soften to help you cope, toughen up, or don’t, no one cares
I work in hospitality, I’ve been there for 17 years, ‘head chefs’ are initially treated like gods…..until they do exactly what’s been reported here…….they have an ego that their budget never fits…..
This is insane. I live 2 minutes from his (former) restaurant C Salt and l am acquainted with a lot of these people. Heard about her on Jamn 945 and the saw the Facebook posts. Wild times.
My best friends ex husband did the same thing. Ghosted his family, stole his wifes car and disappeared. Turns out he was running a fraudulent business.
I wish more people would be honest with themselves about whether or not they actually, really want kids. Like, they themselves, or if they’re just going along with it because their partner is insisting & it’s easier than having a hard discussion. Because once those kids exist, it’s too damn late. And it’s not just one, it’s two! Jfc.
Im amazed at this woman's ability to talk about this while being so in control of her own emotions. That's amazing. There's nothing wrong with being an angry crying mess about situations like this, but especially in what a relatively short timeline it's been, I can't believe she holds it together. She's gotta be so strong for her poor kids.
There is a way around it without the other signature but it takes a lot of money and a long time. My cousin had to deal with it with her first husband.
Clicked at 10 seconds, never been so early lol. Love you Markie!! You have a lovely voice and a treat to look at ;) More Bailey please, such a precious pup!
People who act like this man will keep doing it until he runs out of people to use. I have been taken by folks like this, fortunately in a much smaller scale.
Ugh this my absolute favorite channel on CZcams, the way I click so fast when Callum posts a new video. Yessss give me all the drama about people and subjects I don’t know anything about at allllll
Many years ago before myself and my ex got healthy, he threatened to take his own life because he didn't want to pay child support. And he refused to sign divorce papers simply because of child support. If I told you the amount, would shake your head. Like, willing to end his own life for literally hundreds of dollars. Things are much much different now❤
Divorce law varies depending on the state, but where I live you can either file "no contest" which requires both parties signatures and basically says no one is to blame for the split, or you have to file with an accepted reason (adultery, seperation of at least 18months, etc) for divorce and if the other party won't also state this reason then you have to go to court with with evidence of the reason. Also, the reason has to have happened within the last 5 years.
As long as she knows his general location, she can get him served. She can even put in something in the papers to notify him. The courts will work with her on the attempt to serve.
My oldest son's dad left when I was three months pregnant. I've heard from him a handful of times in the last 20+ years (mostly him fishing for me to take him back), but even when I told him that my son was having a hard time and really needed his dad, he still didn't get in touch. The last time I heard from him was about ten years ago. If anyone in the comments section is from St. Pete, FL, reply below haha
The way it works bro is that you are at their mercy and they will claim all sorts of s*** to wait it out and you just have to wait for them to sign that thing and send it back to you. And that's it.
If I was her and my “Husband“ told me to take something down because it’s a privacy/security risk, I would then respond “I’d be happy to, AFTER you give me your signature. Make this really easy: give me your signature and it’ll all go away for you. Otherwise, I’m keeping it up.”
Family law lawyer here. In most countries/jurisdictions they have something called divorce in absentia. This allows you to divorce a partner that you cant locate. Its a hard threshold to meet though and makes the divorce process more difficult. 8:30
Getting a divorce with the other person being entirely absent is just hell and adds another layer of expense. It took nearly a year for me to effect, personally, and my now adult children are still baffled and traumatized by their completely absent parent.
My ex husband dragged his feet and refused to sign ANYTHING. It DOES take a little longer, but you ABSOLUTELY CAN get divorced. My ex DID NOT EVEN SIGN THE DIVORCE DECREE 😩😂 the judge signed for him. She can get help through plenty of law students in colleges near her, or the call lines where public defenders answer questions!!
In Massachusetts, you can get divorced regardless of whether your spouse cooperates. When pursuing a divorce, you first must file your divorce petition with the court. Once you have filed your petition, you must notify your spouse of the impending legal proceedings by serving them with divorce papers. If they refuse to sign the petition after receiving the divorce papers, you will be required to file for a contested divorce. In a contested divorce, the court will resolve issues regarding child custody, child support, spousal support, property distribution, etc. Although your spouse’s refusal to signal an acknowledgment or reciting the divorce petition complicates the process, you can still get a divorce if you can prove that you make a reasonable effort to serve your spouse. This usually involves hard evidence, such as delivery receipts. It is imperative to note that you can also request a true default judgment with the court.
This was in the papers the other day, it makes me think im sure he's been in multiple articles for not paying staff and the wedding party, his dad must have made a promise and realised his son was in worse debt he thought he was and just decided to file it but he still should pay the employees if he promised to
Bruh if you don’t wanna be a parent that’s something you have to tell your partner BEFORE you have kids, even before you get engaged Edit: Damn so much more shit happened since I wrote that a minute in
That isn't how things work lol. Alot of people dont know until it's too late. Which is why we as a society have to stop assuming everyone should be a parent lol
@@whatever3145 as a child-free woman, I actually agree with this. I actively avoid talking to anyone about kids because as a woman, people love to assume that I actually want children. Far from it. And when the topic is brought up and I mention my stance, people get so disappointed and sad or worse, try to convince me to change my mind. Like, excuse me? Why do you care? Are you going to raise them for me? I don't think so.
@@fanime1I'm similar. My husband came with a bonus daughter, and I love her to bits, but I can't imagine having a full custody bio kid. For me, I do enjoy spending time with the kiddo and watching and helping her learn new things as she grows, but every week I need a nap as soon as she's back at her mother's house lol
A divorce will actually go faster if the respondent, doesn’t respond. I’ve assisted with this type of “abandonment” divorce scenario. She does need proof of service that she filed, but that’s as easy as sending it certified mail vs paying your lawyer, to pay a company to do it, fyi. She just has so mail it to his last known address. This is not advise; just sharing in the process.
And here I am trying to get to see my kid due to his mom being abusive and leaving once I pressed charges. She won’t let me see him and I will be taking her to court and putting myself on child support so I can get visitation.
I still find it insane how fast a person can be found off TikTok. Like FBI CIA get a new section for TikTok investigators because they’ll find someone in 24 hours or less. It’s also weird he doesn’t wanna divorce cause what if he meets someone and wants to marry them and He legally can’t l
He's not signing the papers or telling her where he is because of child support.
Oh absolutely!!
If its in the uk! It wouldn’t matter😂😂 thats not a thing here! Like you can get maybe £25 a month taken from their wage.. but not necessarily and you wont go jail for it😅
@@Twistedvioletsit’s in Boston, in the US. So it very much would matter.
Maybe not, but that's the most likely scenario. If he really didn't want to be a husband or dad, there's no reason not to sign the papers, unless he has reason to believe one or both kids aren't his. Even still, a paternity test would clear that up.
@@esseaem1451yeah, but he's a Brit. Depending on his immigration status, he might face nothing more than a revocation of his Citizenship and deportation back to England.
Another thing is that she’s not going to be able to get passports and other important documents for the children that require signatures from both parents if he is on their birth certificates as their Father. To be fair to the children he should terminate full Rights if he has no intention of being a parent. I guarantee he disappeared so he wouldn’t have to pay child support/alimony. What a scumbag.
A simple court order stating that she has sole legal and physical custody of the children is sufficient for the passport thing!
@@davidsmnjenothing is simple about getting court orders, unfortunately.
@@davidsmnjeAs another comment stated, it sounds simple on paper. Much different to actually achieve
@@ghoultooth if your spouse has been gone for months walk your ass to the court house and ask for an ex parte/temporary custody order, when the judge ask why? simple that man has been gone for months, I don't know where he is and I need sole legal custody until he is found!
It will be granted with minimal proof!
I agree, I've seen a lot of men do this, and if she had actually gotten a divorce lawyer she may have had this wrapped up by now. Because if a lawyer serves someone continuously with no answer, depending on what state you are in, and you have shown that you have reached out multiple times a lawyer would be able to file for a marriage dissolution on the grounds of neglect or something like that, if I'm remembering it correctly I may have things switched, and she could have had the court draw out money from his paycheck for child support by now if she went that route.
He would've gotten away with it too if it wasn't for that pesky internet
If it wasn't for that meddling internet. Always unmasking the bad guy 😂
😂😂😂
Damn meddling influencers *shakes fist*
The fact he (allegedly) did all of this morally abhorrent shit and still managed to get onto an episode of Chopped and still have a major job in this industry really does show that no one does background checks ever.
Chopped has a pretty long lead time, based on a celebrity episode I saw with someone who'd died like six months before it aired.
I saw this episode. This is crazy! 😮
If he is a white dude maybe. My job combed through everything. Everything was in order, for the record.
@@aphroditeg2712 If you're not white you don't get the benefit of not having to be absolutely perfect to be allowed to do things.
@@aphroditeg2712 What?
The wife, until they're divorced, could be held financially responsible for things that he's done.
Trust me, i found out the hard way.
Yep.
Also..
My mother is ended up divorcing her husband, the day before their ten year anniversary.
If they were married ten years - he could draw social security benefits, off of her.
@XOChristianaNicole wow.
My ex-husband had a double bypass before our divorce was finalized, and the hospital came after me for the bill. I'm on a payment plan.
I spent the last 40 years telling you guys not to sign papers
Absolutely, I had bill collections coming after me for my partner's unpaid debts, and to this day I still can't use anything AT&T because I'm not paying that.
Sadly me too. Took me years to pay off my exs bs.
I feel like we need to bring back the term “ con man.” Many of these stories like this one and the who the f did I marry one are just stories of con men conning their ways into lives!
Grifter covers all sexes, though. And it fits, as well
@@justkiddin84 Being a grifter is different than a con man, grifters, by definition, have to be selling something.
Also, I don’t think it matters if you can just exchange it for conwoman.
We stopped using conman?
@@basementdwellercosplay I rarely see anyone call them what they are, so yes!
@@basementdwellercosplayYeah, the Daily Fail has approx 1 article a week on a con men who usually con some gullible middle class woman out of £200k.
I truly love how tiktok works faster than the FBI and CIA combined
Hence why the government would like it silenced. 😂
@jennschutz6022 they want it divested from its parent company because all your information and pictures and photos are going to China. It's a security concern, and it's a real one.
The real reason the US wants it banned. They have no control over it and news travels fast.
Tik tok = New Jerry Springer show with subcategories lol 😂
Please! This is the best comment 😂😂😂
The most accurate thing I’ve seen!!!
Comment should be pinned
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There is so much truth to this comment 😂😂😂
And they are their own camera men!
"you can't just divorce your children, they're your children" is a fire line
My ex-husband found a way. Turns out there are no protections for adult children in their parents' divorce proceedings, and a lot of financial and just plain hurtful things that can be done out of spite and retaliation for the other parent or resentment for.... whatever, I guess.
Yep. I was married to a dick-shaped human for 32 years. (Apparently, I'm blind.)
Sorry but when the wife was talking about her deadbeat husband, and the presenter said "women do that too", I eyerolled SO HARD. Its such a cop-out to feel the need to say that when the story is literally about a deadbeat dad.
If the presenter didn't say that, both of them might get attacked by angry men online.
I don't have to imagine my wedding venue being closed on my wedding day because THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED TO ME. It's called The Creperie in Edmonton, Alberta, and we paid a deposit the year before and booked their private venue for 50 ppl for our wedding day. 3 weeks before our big day, my mother in law saw online that the restaurant was closed!! We had actually planned to talk with the staff that week since when I called a couple of months earlier, they had said to call 3 weeks in advance. I had to call a lawyer, and I did get my deposit back through my credit card company, but my husband and I were soooo stressed out and devastated. Luckily, we found a beautiful restaurant that took us in 1 week before our big day, stayed in our budget, and made us a beautiful cake. They even made crepes, which are not on the menu, just for us! Shoutout to Tiramisu (also in Edmonton). Their team was honestly the best, and we still can't thank them enough!
Oh my word! I cannot imagine the stress trying to secure a new wedding venue so close to the day. Glad you were able to get your deposit back and found an even better place to celebrate. I also agree that Tiramisu is a great restaurant!
That’s so dirty!! I’m glad it worked out in the end but wtf?!
That really sucks. So glad you found another place!
Not sure if this happened when they had to close down and relocate (still haven't reopened) due to the building they were in being sold, but if it was that, it's kinda out of their control (obviously more communication was needed) and you should be going after the buidling owners NOT the business thats also suffering, sucks for everyone in the situation, imagine all the employees out of a job from that... I think it's been closed for almost 9 months now with recent news of finally finding a new location.
@JustAStump They closed about 2 weeks after my last conversation with them, and I know it sucks that the building was sold, but it was still the businesses responsibility to inform us it closed and to refund us. We would have completely understood and made other arrangements. (We booked in Oct 2022, they closed May 2023 and our wedding was Sept 2023) However, we weren't told and after a server on instagram apparently got ahold of the owners and said they would contact us asap to refund our money they never did. They didn't even reply to any of my messages asking. So, as much as it is a crappy situation, the owners are 100% at fault for not contacting us, following up, or even apologizing after the fact. I don't have much sympathy for them after the way we've been treated. And legally the building owners are not at fault. The reservation and deposit is a contract between the business and the client. The landlord of the building is not a third party to that contract.
@@VanillaflavoredSorawow they handled that sooo badly. I’m sorry y’all had to deal with that when all the planning and lead up must already be so stressful.
So glad y’all got a new venue with clearly better management.
The giftcards:
He sold giftcards to his restaurant and then closed the restaurant quickly after that and ran. Not enough time for customers to come back for a second visit. All those giftcards were then useless. Hundreds, possibly thousands of dollars of giftcards that customers paid for.
Right? We had a small restaurant in town change ownership recently and they warned people well ahead of time that after the change of ownership they would only be accepting gift cards up to a specific date specifically so they didn't screw anyone out of their money
@ashrowan2143 I remember seeing something about that, it had tiktok in quite an uproar, understandably. Wasn't the cut off date barely any time at all 😭 like a month or smth
@@christinahamilton1278yeah, but technically the new owners are under no legal obligation to honor those gift cards in the first place. The fact that they did so, for any amount of time, is actually really decent of the new owners.
@SkunkApe407 yeah, nobody's obligated to be a decent person. 😮💨
That is fraud. Straight up fraud.
Omg I laughed so hard at that lady saying "EXCEPT MEEEE!" She has such a funny personality
Same!
So, his parents have helped him out of various situations, don’t they care that they have grandkids and that he’s a complete loser as a father. 15:28 15:28
Tbh he sounds like a pathological liar so we don't know what the hell he's been telling his parents. I'm sure he's lied to them too.
@@-xxMelissaxx- or perhaps him being spoilt is the reason why he is selfish and irresponsible
If the wealthy parents even exist. Some comments will make up anything. And it seems like he skipped out without paying anything, soo does he really have wealthy parents? That said, he isn't a good conman if he is stupid enough to be on TV when he is running from people he scammed out of a lot of money etc.
@@hawkeyescoffee6399 Lots of purely selfish people have the attention span of a gnat. They literally have zero awareness that other people have feelings or how they might be perceived by others, so they have no qualms about taking advantage of people or situations when they want something, and no problem just ditching them when things don't go the way they want.
I mean, he learned his behavior from somewhere...
Markie keeps me fed on a steady diet of other people's drama 😅
Right? Some days it’s good to know you aren’t the only one and/or having the worst day.✌️
Better to live it vicariously and learn, than to be the subject of it all!!! 😂
And they are situations and people I've never heard of usually. Thankfully, I've never had to watch an actual TikTok because Markie loves us so much to sacrifice for his viewers.
In some states, you have to publish a notice in the major local newspaper every day for 30 days before you can get a divorce. Others you have to go before the judge and explain that you can’t find him.
You actually don't have to use the newspaper. The legal requirement is simply that you post notice in a public forum. Every courthouse has a community bulletin board. You can tack a printed notice to that bulletin board for 30 days, and show proof that you did so. Some states even recognize community FB pages as public forums, so a post there would legally constitute serving the other party notice.
And in some it’s not that easy.
Yes, my cousin had to do this. Her ex was worse than this man believe it or not. He was violent
@@fanime1that's so fucked, and sad.wow.
@SkunkApe407 I am sure in some states you can but in my state you have to post in a new paper.
i wouldn’t take down anything till he signed divorce papers
I’m going through a divorce myself, and while I’m doing my best to minimize drama and take the high road, it’s hard when your soon-to-be ex-who cheated on you repeatedly and utterly demolished your finances-is spouting off nasty, ableist rubbish about you just to rub salt in the wound. The countless Internet posts, videos, and IRL people I have known who have gone through a divorce makes me wonder if drama-free divorces are as rare as a healthy menu item at McDonald’s.
I’m now facing eviction on top of everything else. So any good thoughts/prayers y’all can send my way are appreciated.
Prayers ❤ you are loved
You've got this! Don't give up. This is a season, it will pass like they all do. Keep your head up and DO NOT QUIT! I believe in you ❤
Thank you both! I needed those kind words today. God bless you!
i imagine if there was no drama, the couple involved wouldn't want a divorce...
that being said, i hope you can get back on your feet soon, and with a new lease on life. and don't be afraid to reach out for help! there will always be people who DO love you and do want to support you through thick and thin
If he is posting bad stuff about you online then make sure to document it. Take pictures and stuff because it could be beneficial in your divorce proceeding
Ironically sometimes the kid benefits more from not having those people around them. Nothing worst than knowing your dad was legally forced to give a fuck about you. And these kinds of people will either abuse you or neglect you.
That exactky thing happened to me.
Never met my (supposed biological) father - until my mother tracked him down, for 12 years of past child support (which, she never even out anything away, for my future, because she felt she was owed the nearly $25 grand, in full, for raising me on her own).
He flew out for four days - got me to even call him “dad.”
It was a manipulation tactic, in attempt to get my mother to not come down, on him, so hard.
She still did.
I met him in Feb. ‘99 - last time he called was Easter Sunday (April), ‘99.
He ended up quitting his well-laying job, moving states, and changing his name.
He was still tracked down, and forced to pay.
Which, made no difference to me, in the grand scheme of things.
Yes, however he needs to relinquish his parental rights. The unfortunate reality is that right now, their mom can't get anything important done without a signature from the other parent. She can't even get passports for her kids without his signature. That's one thing if he wants to abandon his family. They're probably better off without him. But he's also holding them hostage by refusing to get a divorce or relinquish parental rights.
Every kid deserves parents but not every parent deserves a kid.
He needs to bow all the way out though. Terminate those parental rights and sign the divorce papers Charles!
I relate to this! I would always try to push my mom to divorce my horrible father. 💀
It’s not easy to go around the divorce, I have a client who hasn’t seen her husband since 2003 and we had to do some investigative work to find him to sign the fucking papers.
My daughter is going through the exact same thing.
They are running because they don’t want to be made to pay child support.
Do I have TikTok? No I have Markie😊
Between this guy and Legion, women really have a whole ass war to fight in these couple streets
You have me cackling 😂
As someone who went through this almost 4 years ago, there does need to be laws in place where parental rights can be relinquished after a parent ghosts completely, and divorces can be filed and finalized without one of the people involved if they refuse or can’t be gotten ahold of.
In Illinois where I live, I still was able to finalize my divorce after the police served my ex SEVEN times and he never answered the door, it took a year but bc he ignored all of our requests they gave me the divorce. It shouldn’t have to be that way though it was a traumatizing experience.
Isn’t it crazy how some people can put on a front and hide who they are? The radio presenter said she really liked the husband and thought he was devoted to Ashley, and then he just ghosts. My brother is like this… I can’t believe a word he says anymore.
Most people hide who they really are. Most people put on a front when dealing with anyone not in their circle. It's actually more concerning that so many people don't realize this.
@@SkunkApe407 yeah no. Theres a difference between acting a particular way in a particular scenario, and scamming people and abandoning your child
@@SkunkApe407- Abandoning a wife and children, after pretending to be a loving husband - is nowhere near the things people tend to naturally do, for social acceptance.
@@XOChristianaNicole I never said they did, genius. I said people hide who they really are. Are you actually this dense, or is it an act?
@@silversmoke6 no, there really isn't. Hiding your true intentions or true self is the same, regardless of scenario. Dishonesty is dishonesty. Period.
My sisters ex up and vanished. Pushing through a divorce without the partners cooperation costs a lot more. Plus she had to sell their house before it got foreclosed on and she had to get an order from a judge to allow her to sign things in his name to sell their house. So lots of court fees and lawyer fees. He had also taken one of their vehicles. It was in both their names so she had to keep paying the insurance in case he got into an accident (not that he got it inspected or did any oil changes or anything on it)
A divorce without a compliant spouse can be arduous because you have to prove you served them. It differs in various countries, but even in mine, I had to wait a year to start filing, serve him, because he dodged us serve his mother, have a friend swear an affidavit she did it and then also mail a copy certified tracked mail, wait 30 days to allow him to respond, then continue the process. And we had a signed separation agreement settling all our financials and no kids! She has children, child support and who knows what else? If he has a rich daddy and possible assets, he is dodging for a REASON.
If he actually has a substance issue, I'm not surprised he ghosted everyone.
Right. And she could have been in real danger if some unpaid dealer showed up at their house.🫣
I was a notary for years and years and he is avoiding the situation to try to not pay child support and alimony. That’s all. I’ve seen so many scenarios of dudes just going missing and then coming back when they need sobering and acting like they had no clue there was even a divorce happening.
My daughter’s father tried to not tell anybody that he was having a kid. And I made him blow his spot up because like I don’t care if you don’t want to be involved, but what you’re not going to do is hide it.
And I’ll take care of it! But omission of the truth is lying.
Edit: he was saying he wanted to be in our lives though so that was my condition. If you want to be in my child’s life, you have to let your parents know. I wasn’t letting him take my child by himself. He was bringing her to his parents house that was the only way he was going to see my child.
2nd edit: he cheated and lied and told me so many things that were straight up lies. I could NOT trust him at that point with a very young baby. So his parents HAD TO BE involved. Skunk ape is mad cuz idfk what happened to them but he’s obviously very hurt by something that has NOTHING to do with them 😂😂😂 someone come get their family member, they need to go touch some grass and go outside and get off CZcams. I know he is NOBODY’S man so can’t say “come get your mans” 😂😂😂
My daughters father tried to do the same thing lmao. He first tried to lie to me about being sterile and gave me fake Dr office paperwork. And then when I took him to court for a paternity test and child support, he lied to his dad-who he was living with- saying that the test results came back that he's not the father. So I mailed the results straight to his dad lmao.
Honestly, what business is it of yours who he tells about his kid? What you did sounds like the act of a jilted ex or an obsessive ex, who can't come to grips with the fact that he didn't want to be with you.
@SkunkApe407 That's the child's grandfather. The grandfather should know that the kid exists and, if the mom is cool with it, he can visit. The father lying was just trying to manipulate his own family.
@@SkunkApe407 do you always need to play devils advocate?
@@SkunkApe407Back at it again with the shit takes, huh?
Getting divorce is so so expensive. If the other party drags the 'fight', your charges can even go up to $20,000 (only for your part, if they request that you pay for their attorneys charges, could be more).
My parents waited 8 and a half years for me to turn 18 so that they didn’t have to go to court 😂 it was hilarious
I can so identify with this it took me three years to track down my ex over 35 years ago to get a divorce. Then he not only didn’t pay child support; but he never bothered with his kids again. Now they’re in the late forties and they don’t care. He also stole his best friends fiancée and married her and had two sons; whom he gave everything too. I was a single mom and worked 2+ jobs and both my kids went to college. So yeah; some real dirtbag guys out there. So sad .
I didn’t realise this video had literally just been posted and was confused why there were no comments lol
lol yea I want to read the discourse of the community too
Half the experience is reading what people have to say!
Yeah sometimes I specifically leave interesting looking videos a while to build up juicy comments 😂
Kind of sounds like a post I read where a woman started to plan a future with her boyfriend including having kids
Till one day she got a message from a woman who asked if the person in her profile pic is her boyfriend
She said yes
The woman explained how she and many other women had been trying to find him for years but he would disappear not long after whoever he's with was pregnant and they're looking for him to get the unpaid child support
The woman even sent pictures of other girls with the same guy even a couple birth certificates
She immediately called the police and sent a "anonymous tip" to his location
8:30 There’s not. Unfortunately if the person is considered mentally capable of agreeing to the terms of the divorce there’s not a lot that can be done litigiously to get a signature from someone refusing to sign. My ex refused to sign our divorce papers for two years. We did have an open domestic abuse/spousal abuse case, which he was found guilty of in military law on two different occasions, but I never pressed charges. He was found guilty per military investigation but the statues had not expired and basically I said if he didn’t divorce me I would press charges with the state- which had he been found guilty in a civilian court of law he could have gone to prison. He then signed the papers.
Sad you had to do that to get divorced but at least he's finally out of your life
It depends on the location but you can divorce someone due to abondoment and also have them removed as a custodial parent for that as well.
basically since they are not doing their part, they have forfeit being apart of it.
Also if you had a lawyer, idk why they didn't tell you to use that open case to have him sign right away. You basically wasted at least 1 year.
I had a friend that went through this. His wife was a total monster, no one believed him until there were police reports filed while he was away. They basically said, sign divorce and your rights way, or do 5 to 10 in prison.
@@RaizelSX Divorce by abandonment takes a while though. And in some circumstances abandonment can be criminalized which can extend the legal process. I was working with base or military legal and they encourage reconciliation or “maintaining” the family unity. We were already on a Family Action Plan per the investigation. I think we were all hoping it wouldn’t come to that. But he told me finally, he confessed to refusing to divorcing me, so I couldn’t “go off and marry someone else.” So when I finally realized he was deliberately refusing, not because he believed we could reconcile but because he didn’t want me to move on, I reminded him our case was still open. I was granted separation from the very beginning and my legal status was “separated” the entire time. And because of this once the divorce was granted the judge went back and ruled our marriage ended on the day I filed for legal separation. So on paper it shows our marriage ending the day I left.
And I will say this- separations are fairly easy to obtain in most cases. I didn’t even have to appear in court to be granted my separation status. If someone is refusing to divorce you, GET IT because in my case the judge went back and dissolved the marriage starting at the date of separation. It doesn’t change anything but it is rewarding emotionally.
The power of the internet coming together to help her out is great. Hopefully she's able to serve that ghosting con man and get whatever she needs to move on happily and healthily with her kids. The kids are the ones that lose out the most here but maybe in this case it's a good thing he left. He sounds like a terrible parental role model.
this man couldnt even bother to hide his face for a while ?? 😩
You can push a divorce but you have to show that you tried everything to get ahold of them first
He doesn't want to officialize the divorce bc it means he'd have to pay child support. Its also why he changed his contact info, so she couldn't find him.
What a wimp.
Girl, get your divorce and run, this was pure luck for you, be grateful that he didnt want to stay.
He still has to sign paperwork or she has to pay more money to get the divorce pushed through. My sister went through hell when her ex up and ran off and left her with a mortgage she couldn’t pay. It took a court order from a judge for her to be able to sign in his name to sell the house before it got foreclosed on. She paid through the nose in legal fees
He has to sign the papers for that. And he won't because he doesn't wanna pay for child support.
That's literally what she's trying to do? 🤦🏾♀️
@@ndawn90 Yes, my love I understand that she wants the divorce, if you don't understand what I meant please keep your mouth shut
@@onecatshortofcrazy12 Unfortunatelly that's the hard part, but when she gets her divorce, I hope she can see everything as a blessing, this man could cause more harm to her and her children if he decided to stay.
9:30 I wouldn't be surprised he's dodging the divorce to avoid paying child support. Assume as long as they are married there are none. Also if he's rich a divorce (though it's properly just daddy's money) could mean he has to give her a portion of his wealth in the divorce (unless she's willing to wave it which she might).
WAIT!!!! C Salt!!??? That’s the restaurant down the street from me!!! Holy shit that’s why it closed!?!?
Why is no one shining a light on his family who aided him financially....isnt there some sort of agreement between the US and UK?
As a brit, we do not claim his as one of our own.
"EXCEPT ME!" Im dead lmao
The fact, as far we know rn, that his parents didn't see anything wrong with him abandoning their literal grandchildren has me shooketh 💀How some ppl can be so apathetic to their own next of kin is crazy
I haven't been on Tik Tok in over a month. I don't need to because Callum keeps us updated on all the Tik Tok gossip!! 😂
it’s Jam’n (9.45) 😭 and i’m still so so blown away that this happened out here in the bean (Boston)😭
That thing about lawyers not taking a case big enough to get their cut is definitely a lie. Lawyers don’t work that way. They sometimes take class action lawsuits on contingency and get a percentage of a settlement when the risk is worth it, but they don’t just take random lawsuits and they shouldn’t be ridiculed for not taking cases for free.
Thank you! The real reason the lawyer wouldn’t take the case is probably 1) The cost for suing the guy would likely be more than what the paycheck was worth 2) If the guy doesn’t have any money there isn’t a point. Even if there was a ruling in their favor, they could spend years and thousands of dollars trying to collect the money from him.
The lawyer likely went “Yeah, it really isn’t worth it.” And the ex-employees went “Oh, okay.”
More TikTok drama PLEASE cover the Indiana State University Nursing Student!!!!!? Pretty please 😮
Tell me more
@@rumelasium6292 A Indiana State University student posted a disturbingly racial TikTok. This student she has no business working with the public in health care!!! It needs more coverage. Students feel unsafe & unheard, quite honestly i would too!
@@jadedoe9966 racism should bother you. The fact it’s doesn’t is concerning.
@@tisharea8817what you guys consider “racism” these days usually isn’t, and I promise no one cares what you’re concerned about lol cancel me
@@tisharea8817everyone’s said racist shit, every other student there has…. so do black and brown people … the worlds not gonna soften to help you cope, toughen up, or don’t, no one cares
I saw this on twitter over the weekend and hoped markie would cover it! 😅
I work in hospitality, I’ve been there for 17 years, ‘head chefs’ are initially treated like gods…..until they do exactly what’s been reported here…….they have an ego that their budget never fits…..
This is insane. I live 2 minutes from his (former) restaurant C Salt and l am acquainted with a lot of these people. Heard about her on Jamn 945 and the saw the Facebook posts. Wild times.
My best friends ex husband did the same thing. Ghosted his family, stole his wifes car and disappeared. Turns out he was running a fraudulent business.
This is wild for me. He’s my son’s dad and left as soon as he found out I was pregnant 7 years ago.
I wish more people would be honest with themselves about whether or not they actually, really want kids. Like, they themselves, or if they’re just going along with it because their partner is insisting & it’s easier than having a hard discussion. Because once those kids exist, it’s too damn late. And it’s not just one, it’s two! Jfc.
They deserve a good father...not that father.
Im amazed at this woman's ability to talk about this while being so in control of her own emotions. That's amazing. There's nothing wrong with being an angry crying mess about situations like this, but especially in what a relatively short timeline it's been, I can't believe she holds it together. She's gotta be so strong for her poor kids.
There is a way around it without the other signature but it takes a lot of money and a long time. My cousin had to deal with it with her first husband.
File for abandonment girl. That way you never have to see him again.
Thanks Callum for continuing to bring us the tea. I'm 34 so I feel too old for tiktok but thanks to you I never miss a good scandal
Clicked at 10 seconds, never been so early lol. Love you Markie!! You have a lovely voice and a treat to look at ;) More Bailey please, such a precious pup!
Been waiting for this since I saw the post on twitter
I hope she gets the closure she deserves and I hope he is held accountable for his behaviour by the law
People who act like this man will keep doing it until he runs out of people to use. I have been taken by folks like this, fortunately in a much smaller scale.
Thank you for always keeping us updated! I was hoping to hear about this case
Ugh this my absolute favorite channel on CZcams, the way I click so fast when Callum posts a new video. Yessss give me all the drama about people and subjects I don’t know anything about at allllll
Many years ago before myself and my ex got healthy, he threatened to take his own life because he didn't want to pay child support. And he refused to sign divorce papers simply because of child support. If I told you the amount, would shake your head.
Like, willing to end his own life for literally hundreds of dollars. Things are much much different now❤
The way that I was WAITING for you to cover this!!!
I like watching your videos so much MARKIE, keep up the good work!
Divorce law varies depending on the state, but where I live you can either file "no contest" which requires both parties signatures and basically says no one is to blame for the split, or you have to file with an accepted reason (adultery, seperation of at least 18months, etc) for divorce and if the other party won't also state this reason then you have to go to court with with evidence of the reason. Also, the reason has to have happened within the last 5 years.
you've quickly become one of my absolute favourite channels. always click on anything you make as soon as i see it. thanks for everything you do!
Never been here this quick before 🎉😂
Love the Markie drama
As long as she knows his general location, she can get him served. She can even put in something in the papers to notify him. The courts will work with her on the attempt to serve.
My oldest son's dad left when I was three months pregnant. I've heard from him a handful of times in the last 20+ years (mostly him fishing for me to take him back), but even when I told him that my son was having a hard time and really needed his dad, he still didn't get in touch. The last time I heard from him was about ten years ago.
If anyone in the comments section is from St. Pete, FL, reply below haha
The way it works bro is that you are at their mercy and they will claim all sorts of s*** to wait it out and you just have to wait for them to sign that thing and send it back to you. And that's it.
If I was her and my “Husband“ told me to take something down because it’s a privacy/security risk, I would then respond “I’d be happy to, AFTER you give me your signature. Make this really easy: give me your signature and it’ll all go away for you. Otherwise, I’m keeping it up.”
Family law lawyer here. In most countries/jurisdictions they have something called divorce in absentia. This allows you to divorce a partner that you cant locate. Its a hard threshold to meet though and makes the divorce process more difficult. 8:30
Been catching all your videos early this is wild
I love how you find the most random dramas!!
Lots of respect for you Markie.
I always get excited to watch a Markie vid
So weird watching someone across the world talk about a situation in my home town (Boston MA) 🤣
Getting a divorce with the other person being entirely absent is just hell and adds another layer of expense. It took nearly a year for me to effect, personally, and my now adult children are still baffled and traumatized by their completely absent parent.
My ex husband dragged his feet and refused to sign ANYTHING. It DOES take a little longer, but you ABSOLUTELY CAN get divorced. My ex DID NOT EVEN SIGN THE DIVORCE DECREE 😩😂 the judge signed for him. She can get help through plenty of law students in colleges near her, or the call lines where public defenders answer questions!!
In Massachusetts, you can get divorced regardless of whether your spouse cooperates. When pursuing a divorce, you first must file your divorce petition with the court. Once you have filed your petition, you must notify your spouse of the impending legal proceedings by serving them with divorce papers. If they refuse to sign the petition after receiving the divorce papers, you will be required to file for a contested divorce. In a contested divorce, the court will resolve issues regarding child custody, child support, spousal support, property distribution, etc.
Although your spouse’s refusal to signal an acknowledgment or reciting the divorce petition complicates the process, you can still get a divorce if you can prove that you make a reasonable effort to serve your spouse. This usually involves hard evidence, such as delivery receipts. It is imperative to note that you can also request a true default judgment with the court.
Ooooo I've been waiting for this one 😂
my dad left the family in a similar manner. it sucks
There is a default possible if non petitioning spouse doesn’t respond to paperwork
This was in the papers the other day, it makes me think im sure he's been in multiple articles for not paying staff and the wedding party, his dad must have made a promise and realised his son was in worse debt he thought he was and just decided to file it but he still should pay the employees if he promised to
Bruh if you don’t wanna be a parent that’s something you have to tell your partner BEFORE you have kids, even before you get engaged
Edit: Damn so much more shit happened since I wrote that a minute in
Or put something on it!!
That isn't how things work lol. Alot of people dont know until it's too late. Which is why we as a society have to stop assuming everyone should be a parent lol
Or just divorce and then leave
@@whatever3145 as a child-free woman, I actually agree with this. I actively avoid talking to anyone about kids because as a woman, people love to assume that I actually want children. Far from it. And when the topic is brought up and I mention my stance, people get so disappointed and sad or worse, try to convince me to change my mind. Like, excuse me? Why do you care? Are you going to raise them for me? I don't think so.
@@fanime1I'm similar. My husband came with a bonus daughter, and I love her to bits, but I can't imagine having a full custody bio kid. For me, I do enjoy spending time with the kiddo and watching and helping her learn new things as she grows, but every week I need a nap as soon as she's back at her mother's house lol
This seems to happen a lot and it's really sad!! 😢
Wow… I’m so grateful for stories like this because I never used to do deep dives. And with a guy like this, I probably wouldn’t have.
Why your videos are soothing to me is a topic for my therapist but thank you lol
The Facebook post was shared in Australia. It was crazy
A divorce will actually go faster if the respondent, doesn’t respond. I’ve assisted with this type of “abandonment” divorce scenario. She does need proof of service that she filed, but that’s as easy as sending it certified mail vs paying your lawyer, to pay a company to do it, fyi. She just has so mail it to his last known address. This is not advise; just sharing in the process.
And here I am trying to get to see my kid due to his mom being abusive and leaving once I pressed charges. She won’t let me see him and I will be taking her to court and putting myself on child support so I can get visitation.
Now this is some goood drama.... just noticed my life is kinda sad that without a markie video a day i dont knonwhat to do with myself
I seen this on FB and actually wanted to see if there were any updates!
I still find it insane how fast a person can be found off TikTok. Like FBI CIA get a new section for TikTok investigators because they’ll find someone in 24 hours or less. It’s also weird he doesn’t wanna divorce cause what if he meets someone and wants to marry them and He legally can’t l