Right. I had an ex who was like that with his mom. He would let her in our place uninvited without asking me or giving me a heads up. He was so babied by her, after we moved in together he pleaded with me for us to BOTH move into her basement! I said nope. We broke up, pretty sure he was cheating on me cuz he secretly married a new girl months later, knocked her up, and they lived in the basement together. I felt bad for her tbh. I dodged a bullet.
I feel so bad for the sister-in-law. The sister is going to be mean to her forever…she’s not going to “grow up” and change. Also feel so bad for any pets she has.
Exactly. My daughter is 17 and has never "popped" our dog or cat. He's a young black lab so he's annoying but she'll just deal with him even if I can tell he's annoying her. Which is when I step in and redirect him. So yeah... not an excuse AT ALL.
It is. THAT would make me want to bounce right the hell out of that relationship. She's not only a mean girl, she's one of those entitled ones we keep seeing on the net... smh
One of my least favourite things is when people use words like “popped” to avoid saying “hit” or “slapped”, which is what it really is. They are trying to move away from the reality of being hands on with their pets/kids/partners etc
It sounds worse to me honestly. I was shocked that she used that word. It sounds like she's making light of something serious which doesn't alter the severity of it but actually makes it worse to most people. Like when someone says they popped their kid, like wtf. That isn't cute.
I have heard ab*s*ve parents (in interrogations and such) use the term "pop", like "I just popped my kid in the mouth to get them to pay attention." Or "I just popped my kid on the butt bc they weren't behaving." I feel like it's the ab*s*rs way to minimize what they really did.
@@MalloriaAnn I agree, we are saying the same thing thank you for expanding on it. It’s incredibly alarming that they use different words to pretend it’s not a big deal and just like any other day. Like “popping” your dog is normal practice or something
I used to "bop" my dog on the nose when he misbehaved. It never hurt, because it was basically a pet, and honestly it didn't even work to distract him from his mischievous behavior. So I stopped... Lol
What are you talking about? That happened yesterday she was a different person. She was so young then, and has obviously matured and grown so much since yesterday, you cant hold that against her. \s
@@TheRheverend all of our societal morals are determined by public opinion. And pretty much always have been. That's why there are different morals in different cultures
And then she's gonna come crying because her brother has cut off all contact with her and refuses to let her see her nephew which is what she damn well deserves.
At least that better happen. If this doesn’t happen, it 100% means the brother isn’t protecting his girlfriend and is just as toxic. If she doesn’t complain about it, then the most the brother is doing is telling his family “stop it” and is letting his mom, sister, and ex get away with this shit.
The nerve of her to say, "If you guys know me in real life I'm not a dog abuser." when we just saw evidence of her hitting her dog. It does not matter if its "popping." its still hitting and still abuse.
This girl is horrible. She needs to be removed from social media and have a think about her attitude and behavior towards others. I would not allow this in my family. I hope that brother does not defend his nasty sister. His baby mama deserves his support.
This is exactly why I walked away from my entire family. Nasty, mean girl attitudes like this are the norm and saying anything about it or refusing to accept it made me “too sensitive” and I was the one disrupting things. It’s cultural but it stops with me. My kid will never have mean girl behavior like this normalized in her life.
9:31 This is gaslighting: everyone saw her abuse the dog. She comes on and tells people they didn't see what they saw and implies there's something wrong with the people who think they saw it. Literally, calling people crazy for saying they saw it.
i honestly hate women like this....Mothers or Sisters who Like an EX more then the person their Child/sibling is currently dating....like.....It shows how little they truly care for the Child/Sibling
I think it depends. If the ex was a good person and the person they are with now constantly cheats on them or abuses them then it would make sense. Not saying that's that case AT ALL! But every situation is different.
@@lexyruse603 Fair but also not all parents and siblings know what goes on behind closed doors....I dont really talk to my parents about my relationships and what happens in them....and also i feel like it was BLATANTLY obvious what i meant xD which is it doesnt matter what happened in a relationship...the parent and siblings have no right to invalidate the Break Up or the new relationship as if Nether Exist...because even if the Ex or the new partner was toxic...acting like the Break Up/New Relationship Didn't/Isn't happen(ing) ...doesnt help anyone but the Parent/Sibling Keep a "Friend", it doesnt help deal with which ever person was Toxic and it doesnt help the child/sibling emotionally....because we could also point out the new relationship could be great and the ex could be toxic and trying to use the Parents/Siblings to hold on to the non existent relationship
Seriously. Sometimes I seriously wish I was born a dude because all the women on BOTH sides of my family are immature bozos and I don't want to associate with them lmao.
I was that sil, but honestly sometimes people earns the things that happen to them, my brother's ex was a really lovely girl, really polite, but the next one, we were the ones trying to be polite, she would get to the house, ask for things and leave them wherever for my mother to put them back in their place. So sorry, but sometimes people like the ex better because the ex was indeed better.
I didnt hear anywhere the brother telling his sister to knock that shit off. If my sisnt was blatantly shitting on my wife / mom of my kid I'd be pissed & let her know so.
“If ya’ll know me in real life you would know that I-“ no! We do not know you in real life! That’s literally the point. You are responsible for the image of yourself that you put out to the world BECAUSE we don’t know you irl and only have that to judge by
I teach preschool and my kids know not to drop rubbish on the ground. Granted, they will often try to give it to me rather than go to the bin themselves but if 3 year olds can get it, a grown adult has no excuse
My youngest cousin makes sure SOMEONE ANYONE is watching her throw things away so she can get a happy dance with them. I honestly don't know how I'll feel when she grows out of happy dance phase.
Right! My 7 YO had a doctor's appointment today and got a sticker. She took the back off in the car and knew enough to take that piece of paper out of the car and throw it away in the trash can at home. If my 7 YO can figure it out, someone who is 17 certainly can
Anytime someone refers to hitting a child or animal with the word “pop” or “popped” or “popping” to downplay their abuse, I immediately come to the conclusion that they think there is nothing wrong with physically abusing someone who can’t defend themselves
Sorry, off topic- are you from Finland? (If you don't mind saying) Just wondering bc of your name and description. I'm not familiar with the name, and it piqued my curiosity. I thankfully haven't had a monster-in-law
Nope I wouldn’t let her near my baby or in my home. I don’t care if she’s family. If you are negative to me you will not bring that negativity into my baby’s life period. She’s an immature mean girl it’s very clear. She clearly will do anything for attention. She takes no accountability at all it’s all just excuses. She’s the type to want to disrespect the mom but want to be all over the baby hell no she would never even hold my child.
i’m like this with my son and i always get comments “why just because so and so doesn’t like you?” like yesss they could hurt him to get me upset. it sounds crazy but it takes one second for something to happen
@@ghostlyrenaeIt’s doesn’t sound crazy at all! How many stories have we seen end up on the news because the child ended up gravely injured or even dead because the person who did it didn’t like the parent of that child. I’m sorry but she’s wouldn’t come near my child and I wouldn’t care who didn’t like it. I can’t stand women like this, I always try to be welcoming to my brothers partners even if I don’t personally like them cause it’s not for me to like them I’m not with them. I’m still friends with some of them but I wouldn’t bring them to a family event or post with them to be petty that’s insane and it’s gross.
When I was in elementary school, like 20 years ago, the worst thing you could call another kid on the playground was a "litterer". We would all let plenty of playful insults slide as just being part of the game, but not when it came to littering-- that was no joke. Accusing another kid of littering was just about the most damning thing to us. But hey maybe she was still in kindergarten when she was 20.
Narcissistic families are something else, hope the brother isn't one. I feel sorry for anyone having to raise a child with a Narcissistic parent or relatives.
Yeah the chick is out of order. I had a situation that reminds me of this. My in laws hated my husband's ex the entire time they dated. Well they hated her until I started dating my husband. All of a sudden they love her and had her over when me and my husband were staying there until our place in a different state was ready. Then she started becoming my sister's in laws babysitter. Again, they all couldn't stand her and celebrated their break up with shots. They defended it all of it and claiming they never had an issue with her lol. I heard all the stories and rants from their mouths. Thus started my husband cutting them off for years. He couldn't tolerate all the disrespect. Sorry this girl has to deal with in laws like this. A damn shame when in laws play stupid games and then are shocked and defensive when they win stupid prizes 🤷🏻♀️
I dated a girl who was like this to her brother. Would text him 24/7 (on dates, at work, at home, at school). It got to the point where it became a little creepy and I told her. She just bursted out in anger. I should have taken that as a red flag and dipped but I stayed for a few more month. From what I hear about our mutual friends is that her brothers wife is absolutely feed up with her showing up and being everywhere that her husbands at.
I had a similar bizzare one years ago with the sister of my bf at the time. I remember trying to enjoy valentines with him,had prepped us a whole meal and wine,she showed up n chose to stay the entire time/evening, encouraged him to drink more than he should of,i hoped I'd at least get time with him afterwards but she stayed so late he then passed out drunk,fun times. obvs now looking back he was just as much at fault and wish i had more self respect than to put in all that effort for someone who would do so little n just pass out drunk regularly,I shouldn't of been trying so hard when he wasn't but I was young and nieve,made excuses for it like theyve been through a lot together or maybe she's lonely (she was seeing someone at time though lol but would constantly put him down n kept trying to implie he was gay just because he was trying to be pals with her bro/my bf,threatened by anyone else getting close to him).. He had a sore back needed deep heat rubbed into lower back,he passes it to me but she then grabs it, pushes her way in-between us on sofa to do it,that one always wierded me right out,her new bf was right there aswell just as uncomfortable as I was,bizarre. Had heard years later she had started beef with other gfs who clearly took less shit than I did but it then caused things to turn nasty,so im glad i dodged that😅
I’m glad we didn’t have TikTok when I was in the thick of high school. The petty drama would be… increased and so insane. I dont even want to imagine it 😂
😅 same omg and the shit I got up too😮 I would be forever mortified if any of my teen years where out there for people to see 😢 thank the lord I'm 36 😂😂😂
Right? I have a six year old who just the other day chased down a wrapper that the wind blew out of his hand because he refuses to ever litter no matter what. There's no excuse
just fyi rinsing chicken alters the taste, so it has a purpose. it’s really not an issue unless you don’t clean the sink after, which you should be doing when cooking with raw chicken anyway shrug
If I was Melvin, my kid wouldn't have an aunt or grandmother. And my ACTUAL WIFE/FIANCÉE wouldn't have a sister-in-law or mother-in-law. His sister and mother are terrible. To me it sounds like Michelle wanted to be with her brother vicariously through the ex-girlfriend.
I feel like the sisters and the mother probably don’t like the new girlfriend because they can’t control Melvin anymore. That’s why they like the ex. They want to chose who he with. I have no evidence of this just the vibe I get from everything
What an insufferable lady. I feel so bad for her brothers girlfriend. I hope he stands up for her but wouldn’t surprise me if he “doesn’t want to get involved” in family drama 🙄
My cousin's 3-year-old daughter will clean up after herself when she's dropped a piece of litter on the ground. Literally. I've seen her drop a wrapper from a cereal bar, instantly pick it up and pass it to my cousin for her to throw it away. This woman thinking that being 20 somehow excuses her for littering because she's young is frankly ridiculous. If you're old enough to drive and vote, you're more than old enough to know to just...not throw rubbish on the ground, especially out of a car window. Just as 17 is old enough to know that you don't "pop" your dog repeatedly on the head for moving their head towards yours (assuming the description of that video is accurate to what happened). Honestly, she just seems like a kind of a vile human being all round...
I feel like these days people don't even have main character syndrome, they have only character syndrome. Everyone thinks they are the center of everything. I'm so over these types of spats. Grow up! There are far more important things in life!
She needs to be nicer to her future sister in law As there's so many people who have banned rude family members from meeting their niece/nephew/grandkids and it can really cause rifts within both sides of the family
I love how she immediately acts like a completely innocent martyr in her apology video. “I want to take accountability for you guys sending me bad messages…”
Forget about the sister in law. Doesn't matter what age you are. Unless you are a toddler. You don't "pop" abuse your dog, or litter!!! Own up!!! Excuses are like arseholes. We all have them!
I give my baby spankings but not hard (a playful spanking) when she literally doesn’t listen. But she likes the butt taps 😂. I call her a 304 for butt scratches/taps now 😭
Ok but these girls are fighting over a man named Melvin. 😬 IMO Melvin sounds like a little punk for allowing his mom and sister to behave like that. I’d like to see my daughters act like that towards anyone their brothers CHOOSE to date. I’ll side with the daughter in law.
It’s weird!!! My SIL & MIL tried to beef me too while I was pregnant! The last year was insane…. Lived in their home too. My SIL and I overcame it and we’re cool now but my MIL is still the devil 🤦♀️ I’ll never do this with my sons future woman smh
I dont know how or why, but you can just hear when someone is a mean girl in their voice. I've heard it in different accents but every mean girl has a similar tone and attitude that comes out in their voice
It cracks me up that the types of people who would probably go through years of your social media to try and find something to make you look bad are the same ones who will immediately cry “but I was soooo young” or “that was soooo long ago” when it happens to them. Geez….
It's so weird to me when family members of someone retain a really strong friendship with the ex. It's like they want to decide who their family member should be with
Why do these mean girl creators always have so many followers? I can't imagine her behavior was any different prior to the drama, so what attracts people to her and creators like her?
Ya my 5 yr old knows not to litter, so her excusw of "being young" is a privileged disgusting trait. She better change or she will get a rude awakening
This! Totally agree (& thank you for being one of the awesome parents out there teaching their kids right) 👍 My nephews each had their own set of litter pickers (ones designed for little kids, they were really cute!) when they were a similar age to your little one. Not only that, but if the youngest one saw someone not clean up after their dog at the park, he would run over, yelling at the top of his voice "(ex)cuse me! Your doggy pooped. Do you need a bag?" and would then run back and ask one of us for a bag that he could give them! He'd also insist on telling them where the nearest doggy poop bin was and how to identify one. In detail. 🤩😂 He has always been a very helpful little soul, but I used to find it hilarious, because you can't answer a toddler back - especially when they are being kind and sweet and helping you. The sheer number of people who were clearly going to walk away and leave it but, instead, picked it up and put it in the bin made that little man an utter legend to me! 😎💖
As the youngest, I was still put on higher expectations by my dad. It confused the hell outta me. Turns out my sister isn't my sister, and my dad knew it. He still raised her like his daughter, but some stuff slipped through...
If you are with a man or a woman that has a child from a previous relationship, you should be as gracious as you possibly can. Even though they're not together, that is the other parent of their child. It behooves you to be friends and or at least be cordial with the ex because they will always be family. That doesn't mean that they love you any less, it just means you have to put your big girl panties on and make sure those children have as healthy of an upbringing as possible. You signed on to be a step parent and that includes not badmouthing the mother, never putting anything on a child that they cannot comprehend, you never put a child an adult situation, and most importantly let that child feel love from everyone. Be a grown up. The childy are the only ones allowed to be a child.
You have found the perfect niche on CZcams and exceptional at it. You will never not be without content cause one thing we humans are great at is creating drama.
Super disturbing also how casually and insistently she tried to just lie her way out of stuff like the gender reveal thing blaming it on editing, why do that when you _know_ the full footage is out there and easily proves you wrong? People who act like that are downright scary
Sounds goofy as that she’s so obsessed with her brother and his well being and him having a baby but not the woman who is carrying the baby and trying to dictate who he should date too! Weird family vibes 😅 enmeshment comes to mind actually! Or just huge jealousy
Idk, I learned that littering and hitting animals is bad when I was like, 5 years old lol Hard to explain away crappy behavior when you're actually just a crappy person who's bad at hiding it.
There's an old Latin phrase "In vino vertias," or "In wine, there is truth." Her true personality and thoughts show through when she is drunk. So the video of where she is with the ex-sister-in-law and drinking are very much her true thoughts and feelings. Tbh, she really doesn't seem like a nice person, and her obsession with her brother's love life is creepy and gross. Peaked in high school, that one. Yeesh.
Pretty bad that humans have become so removed from our food that prople cant tolerate the feel of the uncooked meat. Would say first world problems but even here many of us still litterally hunt and even raise animals and butcher our own meat. Sorry not sorry is an awful triggered response
My three year old doesn’t litter , especially out the car . She did once and i acted like she committed a crime in a lightway 😂 i was just like uh-oh , let’s not make our planet any dirtier. Animals can choke on your trash and police officers can make you pay a lot of money . She now asks for a trashbag or puts in her cupholder until i clean it up !
Oh lord. I’ve always wanted to vent a few stories about my former in-laws. 😅 My husband was a wonderful man, unfortunately we were in a car accident and he passed away. I’m honestly really sad that his family just turned a 180° and went from loving me to hating me…especially at this time. It’s just straight narcissism, unfortunately. His sister was obsessed with him, she got a big, big tattoo on her abdomen with his name… this was before he died (and like I said, car accident, so it’s not like he was sick).
Everything about the sister of the brother (so not his gf) screams narcissism. Lying, claiming victim, attention hungry, gaslighting, manipulative, and doesn't take accountability. Just wanted to say about the littering, my daughter is 5yo and knows not to litter....
@@therockbottom5256huge chance to cross contaminate/spread salmonella, and it can actually introduce more germs. any bad bacteria will be killed when you cook it.
@@therockbottom5256 First of all, cross contamination which can cause food borne illnesses. Second of all, there is stuff on and in the meat that helps it when cooking. If the meat gets dropped, then rinse it. But otherwise it doesn’t need to be washed. Just the surfaces it touches and your hands after use from the uncooked meat juice. Which if it touches other food or clean cooking utensils, it could contaminate the food and whatever else is stored with it (cross contamination).
No one deserves suicide comments, but people who are very much not very nice people should have their platforms taken away. She very much does not understand how the real world works and is in her own world. People who live in their own world treating people like crap should not be influential on anyone.
I once had a neighbor who sent her daughter (who was maybe 10 or 11) to apologize for leaving a water bottle on the ground next to my car. I hadn't even noticed it! I smiled and said thank you for acknowledging that. It was very obvious her Mother had taught the lesson and I didn't want to make her feel any worse than she already did. On top of that the whole family were very sweet, kind and were lovely neighbors. I miss them. All that to say I was 20 and act like she didn't know better two adjectives come to mind: B**l Sh*** & Entitled.
It cracks me up when people say "this is the LAST time I'm talking about this" when they are in the wrong and just want everyone else to stop talking about it
She’s gonna be shocked when the sister in law doesn’t want her around the baby. I have a strict rule of if you don’t like me/are consistently rude to me you can’t be around my kids because I can’t trust what you’ll do/say around them.
I know when I do see my brother we give Each other a side hug and and a kiss on the cheek! I’ve never cared or wanted to be in his love life that’s so weird
some people do. Rinsing and patting it dry it best for making crispy chicken like fried chicken dishes. other people just rinse it for peace of mind, it varies from culture to culture and is harmless so I don't see an issue here.
It is actually not harmless. Its common in the African American community from misinformation and cause if your mom does it, you do it. Its super dangerous to rinse meat in the sink. Google it. @MinouHime
@@MinouHime Tho I aknowledge the culture variance, it's not actually harmless as you are spraying raw chicken juices and bacteria everywhere in and around your sink. In the clips she touches the sink tap handles in between as well. You will cook that chicken thoroughly and kill off most bacterias but your sink won't get cooked... Unless you are very thorough about disinfecting everything right away and without spraying it around some more, it's often causing more issues than it is solving.
As someone with 2 brothers......this "sister" is super creepy and way too involved in her bros life!!! Honestly, sisters and mothers who act like this are very disturbing!
@@Lilly_King "Food safety authorities and regulators around the world recommend you don't wash raw poultry before cooking. That's because washing chicken can splash dangerous bacteria around the kitchen. It's best just to thoroughly cook the chicken without washing it, so it is safe to eat." (From the Swinburne University of Technology)
I really hate when people use their age as excuse; what you said about not remember never not knowing when something is good or bad, I really feel that because as far as I remember, I've always known when what I've done is wrong or not, so you're 20 and that's your excuse for your trashy behavior? That's not how it works, sweetie.
Her rinsing the chicken made me not able to focus on anything she said. You spread bacteria ALL OVER your sink and kitchen by doing that, and we all know damn well she did not clean her sink afterword.
Who wants to put all this on the internet for everyone's eyes. This is what it means when people say the internet is forever. And it's actually gross that they got so much attention for their very childish behavior. Videos should have been deleted & everybody should have said this is a family issue that we will be handling privately, way before it got to this point
Girls who are this obsessed with their brothers creep me out
Right. I had an ex who was like that with his mom. He would let her in our place uninvited without asking me or giving me a heads up. He was so babied by her, after we moved in together he pleaded with me for us to BOTH move into her basement! I said nope. We broke up, pretty sure he was cheating on me cuz he secretly married a new girl months later, knocked her up, and they lived in the basement together. I felt bad for her tbh. I dodged a bullet.
And when I say secretly i mean he was so afraid of his mom's disapproval that he hid the marriage!!!! For months!!! Wtf.
Exactly! It’s like moms who do the same. Its like they act like a jealous ex
They make having a brother their personality too
@@MalloriaAnnthat is insane and so sad!
This "sister" acts more like an ex herself. She is toxic af.
I feel so bad for the sister-in-law. The sister is going to be mean to her forever…she’s not going to “grow up” and change. Also feel so bad for any pets she has.
Might be emotional inc3st.
"I was 17."...we teach toddlers not to hit dogs or pull their hair.
Exactly!!!
Exactly. My daughter is 17 and has never "popped" our dog or cat. He's a young black lab so he's annoying but she'll just deal with him even if I can tell he's annoying her. Which is when I step in and redirect him. So yeah... not an excuse AT ALL.
Her obsession with her brothers love life is weird. Also you can just tell she has a very nasty attitude.
Yeah, it gives real "forbidden love" vibes.
Yikes!
It is. THAT would make me want to bounce right the hell out of that relationship. She's not only a mean girl, she's one of those entitled ones we keep seeing on the net... smh
If that boyfriend isn't on his girlfriend side. Run girl run.
@@--Fullsun not even teleport BEND REALITY BEYOND TELEPORTATION
One of my least favourite things is when people use words like “popped” to avoid saying “hit” or “slapped”, which is what it really is. They are trying to move away from the reality of being hands on with their pets/kids/partners etc
It sounds worse to me honestly. I was shocked that she used that word. It sounds like she's making light of something serious which doesn't alter the severity of it but actually makes it worse to most people. Like when someone says they popped their kid, like wtf. That isn't cute.
I have heard ab*s*ve parents (in interrogations and such) use the term "pop", like "I just popped my kid in the mouth to get them to pay attention." Or "I just popped my kid on the butt bc they weren't behaving." I feel like it's the ab*s*rs way to minimize what they really did.
@@MalloriaAnn I agree, we are saying the same thing thank you for expanding on it. It’s incredibly alarming that they use different words to pretend it’s not a big deal and just like any other day. Like “popping” your dog is normal practice or something
I used to "bop" my dog on the nose when he misbehaved. It never hurt, because it was basically a pet, and honestly it didn't even work to distract him from his mischievous behavior. So I stopped... Lol
@@silentfriend369 At least you learned it wasn't an effective method.
So her excuse for EVERYTHING is that she was younger...smdh
I know right? It's giving Sienna Mae
She's just an awful person wow!!
What are you talking about? That happened yesterday she was a different person. She was so young then, and has obviously matured and grown so much since yesterday, you cant hold that against her. \s
It sounds like the excuses she heard growing up.
Eta: and now uses to excuse her behaviour.
Adulting be hard, yo. Not littering, don't be disrespectful to your brother's current girlfriend, don't abuse animals, ect.
It's hard, dammit!
I suddenly feel alot better about myself.
I was a more responsible adult than her at 8 years old.
And I'm not even joking!
Not stepping in and interrupting your sibling and their partner at a gender reveal when its the first one youve been to is just oh so hard
It baffles me why disgusting people get to walk around when good people don't. Life truly sucks
Because there’s no some higher power pulling strings and helping society, life is just happening and it’s ultimately not fair or predictable
Why can't good people walk around? Who/what is stopping them?
So cripple the disgusting people, understood
@@TheRheverend all of our societal morals are determined by public opinion. And pretty much always have been. That's why there are different morals in different cultures
Gotta have context, we'll always have our trash. We need it to put perspective on the good folks.
And then she's gonna come crying because her brother has cut off all contact with her and refuses to let her see her nephew which is what she damn well deserves.
At least that better happen.
If this doesn’t happen, it 100% means the brother isn’t protecting his girlfriend and is just as toxic. If she doesn’t complain about it, then the most the brother is doing is telling his family “stop it” and is letting his mom, sister, and ex get away with this shit.
why do these apologises always start wiht feel sorry for me I'm getting death threats
After what she did to poor anïmals I don’t feel bad AT ALL
Lol to be fair, death threats are wild ..
Because they’re not apologies, they’re “leave me alone”s
Manipulation
I agree. It insinuates “I’m not sorry, this is the real reason I’m apologizing, not cause I genuinely feel bad”
The nerve of her to say, "If you guys know me in real life I'm not a dog abuser." when we just saw evidence of her hitting her dog. It does not matter if its "popping." its still hitting and still abuse.
The pattern of behavior indicates she was raised this way. Theres no way youre this deep in adulthood and not able to behave.
It's her mom seeing by how her mom also loves the ex more
This girl is horrible. She needs to be removed from social media and have a think about her attitude and behavior towards others. I would not allow this in my family. I hope that brother does not defend his nasty sister. His baby mama deserves his support.
She needs to be removed from society.
This is exactly why I walked away from my entire family. Nasty, mean girl attitudes like this are the norm and saying anything about it or refusing to accept it made me “too sensitive” and I was the one disrupting things. It’s cultural but it stops with me. My kid will never have mean girl behavior like this normalized in her life.
@@torigriggs1694 good on you for doing that! /genuine like thats something to be proud of because it's usually not easy to leave like that
9:31 This is gaslighting: everyone saw her abuse the dog. She comes on and tells people they didn't see what they saw and implies there's something wrong with the people who think they saw it. Literally, calling people crazy for saying they saw it.
They are still spraying the blue smoke when she runs up, you can’t edit that without it being very obvious.
I DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE THAT YOU'RE SO RIGHT
i honestly hate women like this....Mothers or Sisters who Like an EX more then the person their Child/sibling is currently dating....like.....It shows how little they truly care for the Child/Sibling
I think it depends. If the ex was a good person and the person they are with now constantly cheats on them or abuses them then it would make sense. Not saying that's that case AT ALL! But every situation is different.
@@lexyruse603 Fair but also not all parents and siblings know what goes on behind closed doors....I dont really talk to my parents about my relationships and what happens in them....and also i feel like it was BLATANTLY obvious what i meant xD which is it doesnt matter what happened in a relationship...the parent and siblings have no right to invalidate the Break Up or the new relationship as if Nether Exist...because even if the Ex or the new partner was toxic...acting like the Break Up/New Relationship Didn't/Isn't happen(ing) ...doesnt help anyone but the Parent/Sibling Keep a "Friend", it doesnt help deal with which ever person was Toxic and it doesnt help the child/sibling emotionally....because we could also point out the new relationship could be great and the ex could be toxic and trying to use the Parents/Siblings to hold on to the non existent relationship
Seriously. Sometimes I seriously wish I was born a dude because all the women on BOTH sides of my family are immature bozos and I don't want to associate with them lmao.
I was that sil, but honestly sometimes people earns the things that happen to them, my brother's ex was a really lovely girl, really polite, but the next one, we were the ones trying to be polite, she would get to the house, ask for things and leave them wherever for my mother to put them back in their place. So sorry, but sometimes people like the ex better because the ex was indeed better.
I didnt hear anywhere the brother telling his sister to knock that shit off. If my sisnt was blatantly shitting on my wife / mom of my kid I'd be pissed & let her know so.
Yeah where is that man at??
Maybe he’s actually being an adult and not putting it online but resolving it privately
We don’t know if he is or not . He doesn’t put everything online like she does 😂
She gonna be crying if eventually she won’t be allowed around the baby if she keep it up
@@falter_ego_ true, but we know little miss "I'm young and innocent" would've put his response online
“If ya’ll know me in real life you would know that I-“ no! We do not know you in real life! That’s literally the point. You are responsible for the image of yourself that you put out to the world BECAUSE we don’t know you irl and only have that to judge by
I teach preschool and my kids know not to drop rubbish on the ground. Granted, they will often try to give it to me rather than go to the bin themselves but if 3 year olds can get it, a grown adult has no excuse
My youngest cousin makes sure SOMEONE ANYONE is watching her throw things away so she can get a happy dance with them. I honestly don't know how I'll feel when she grows out of happy dance phase.
My little will throw anything, not just trash in the bin, just trying to be helpful 😂
Right! My 7 YO had a doctor's appointment today and got a sticker. She took the back off in the car and knew enough to take that piece of paper out of the car and throw it away in the trash can at home. If my 7 YO can figure it out, someone who is 17 certainly can
Anytime someone refers to hitting a child or animal with the word “pop” or “popped” or “popping” to downplay their abuse, I immediately come to the conclusion that they think there is nothing wrong with physically abusing someone who can’t defend themselves
As a 17 or 20 year old she should know better than to litter and smack her dog. Good lord my kids knew this when they were like 4
Fr at 17 you are almost done "training" to be an adult
Abusers often don’t consider their behavior abusive
Monster in laws are one of the most infuriating beings on this planet
Sorry, off topic- are you from Finland? (If you don't mind saying) Just wondering bc of your name and description. I'm not familiar with the name, and it piqued my curiosity.
I thankfully haven't had a monster-in-law
@@JustJ-Me I am! Its wonderful 😍🇫🇮
Nope I wouldn’t let her near my baby or in my home. I don’t care if she’s family. If you are negative to me you will not bring that negativity into my baby’s life period. She’s an immature mean girl it’s very clear. She clearly will do anything for attention. She takes no accountability at all it’s all just excuses. She’s the type to want to disrespect the mom but want to be all over the baby hell no she would never even hold my child.
i’m like this with my son and i always get comments “why just because so and so doesn’t like you?” like yesss they could hurt him to get me upset. it sounds crazy but it takes one second for something to happen
@@ghostlyrenaeIt’s doesn’t sound crazy at all! How many stories have we seen end up on the news because the child ended up gravely injured or even dead because the person who did it didn’t like the parent of that child. I’m sorry but she’s wouldn’t come near my child and I wouldn’t care who didn’t like it. I can’t stand women like this, I always try to be welcoming to my brothers partners even if I don’t personally like them cause it’s not for me to like them I’m not with them. I’m still friends with some of them but I wouldn’t bring them to a family event or post with them to be petty that’s insane and it’s gross.
When I was in elementary school, like 20 years ago, the worst thing you could call another kid on the playground was a "litterer". We would all let plenty of playful insults slide as just being part of the game, but not when it came to littering-- that was no joke. Accusing another kid of littering was just about the most damning thing to us. But hey maybe she was still in kindergarten when she was 20.
Narcissistic families are something else, hope the brother isn't one. I feel sorry for anyone having to raise a child with a Narcissistic parent or relatives.
That’s so pathetic and slightly incestous to care that much about who your sibling is dating like you’re the ex 😂
Yeah the chick is out of order. I had a situation that reminds me of this. My in laws hated my husband's ex the entire time they dated. Well they hated her until I started dating my husband. All of a sudden they love her and had her over when me and my husband were staying there until our place in a different state was ready. Then she started becoming my sister's in laws babysitter. Again, they all couldn't stand her and celebrated their break up with shots. They defended it all of it and claiming they never had an issue with her lol. I heard all the stories and rants from their mouths. Thus started my husband cutting them off for years. He couldn't tolerate all the disrespect. Sorry this girl has to deal with in laws like this. A damn shame when in laws play stupid games and then are shocked and defensive when they win stupid prizes 🤷🏻♀️
She also has tweets where she used the N word over and over again. Screenshots are floating around. It’s insane.
I dated a girl who was like this to her brother. Would text him 24/7 (on dates, at work, at home, at school). It got to the point where it became a little creepy and I told her. She just bursted out in anger. I should have taken that as a red flag and dipped but I stayed for a few more month. From what I hear about our mutual friends is that her brothers wife is absolutely feed up with her showing up and being everywhere that her husbands at.
I had a similar bizzare one years ago with the sister of my bf at the time. I remember trying to enjoy valentines with him,had prepped us a whole meal and wine,she showed up n chose to stay the entire time/evening, encouraged him to drink more than he should of,i hoped I'd at least get time with him afterwards but she stayed so late he then passed out drunk,fun times. obvs now looking back he was just as much at fault and wish i had more self respect than to put in all that effort for someone who would do so little n just pass out drunk regularly,I shouldn't of been trying so hard when he wasn't but I was young and nieve,made excuses for it like theyve been through a lot together or maybe she's lonely (she was seeing someone at time though lol but would constantly put him down n kept trying to implie he was gay just because he was trying to be pals with her bro/my bf,threatened by anyone else getting close to him).. He had a sore back needed deep heat rubbed into lower back,he passes it to me but she then grabs it, pushes her way in-between us on sofa to do it,that one always wierded me right out,her new bf was right there aswell just as uncomfortable as I was,bizarre. Had heard years later she had started beef with other gfs who clearly took less shit than I did but it then caused things to turn nasty,so im glad i dodged that😅
I’m glad we didn’t have TikTok when I was in the thick of high school. The petty drama would be… increased and so insane. I dont even want to imagine it 😂
Oh lord would it ever be😂
😅 same omg and the shit I got up too😮 I would be forever mortified if any of my teen years where out there for people to see 😢 thank the lord I'm 36 😂😂😂
Saying "I'm gonna move and I hope you move on too" completely invalidates any sincerity you tried to have in your "explanation"
Apologizing while wearing a cold blooded t-shirt. Ok, whatever girl.
I’m a Preschool teacher and I taught my 5 year olds never to litter. She needs better excuses.
Right? I have a six year old who just the other day chased down a wrapper that the wind blew out of his hand because he refuses to ever litter no matter what. There's no excuse
I love how she's spreading salmonella all over her sink for no reason
Right?! I couldn't focus on anything that was being said while she was doing that🤦.
I kept staring at her long nails touching the chicken. 😵💫
Right?!
Oh thank goodness I wasn’t the only one who noticed
just fyi rinsing chicken alters the taste, so it has a purpose. it’s really not an issue unless you don’t clean the sink after, which you should be doing when cooking with raw chicken anyway shrug
If I was Melvin, my kid wouldn't have an aunt or grandmother. And my ACTUAL WIFE/FIANCÉE wouldn't have a sister-in-law or mother-in-law. His sister and mother are terrible.
To me it sounds like Michelle wanted to be with her brother vicariously through the ex-girlfriend.
I feel like the sisters and the mother probably don’t like the new girlfriend because they can’t control Melvin anymore. That’s why they like the ex. They want to chose who he with. I have no evidence of this just the vibe I get from everything
And Abigail is bringing a child into this family why exactly? 😭
I do not understand why she would be putting all this family info/drama on TikTok but I do appreciate watching it
What an insufferable lady. I feel so bad for her brothers girlfriend. I hope he stands up for her but wouldn’t surprise me if he “doesn’t want to get involved” in family drama 🙄
TikTok scares me with the desperation these nasty people will go to for views.
My cousin's 3-year-old daughter will clean up after herself when she's dropped a piece of litter on the ground. Literally. I've seen her drop a wrapper from a cereal bar, instantly pick it up and pass it to my cousin for her to throw it away. This woman thinking that being 20 somehow excuses her for littering because she's young is frankly ridiculous. If you're old enough to drive and vote, you're more than old enough to know to just...not throw rubbish on the ground, especially out of a car window. Just as 17 is old enough to know that you don't "pop" your dog repeatedly on the head for moving their head towards yours (assuming the description of that video is accurate to what happened).
Honestly, she just seems like a kind of a vile human being all round...
I feel like these days people don't even have main character syndrome, they have only character syndrome. Everyone thinks they are the center of everything. I'm so over these types of spats. Grow up! There are far more important things in life!
She needs to be nicer to her future sister in law
As there's so many people who have banned rude family members from meeting their niece/nephew/grandkids and it can really cause rifts within both sides of the family
I love how she immediately acts like a completely innocent martyr in her apology video. “I want to take accountability for you guys sending me bad messages…”
Forget about the sister in law. Doesn't matter what age you are. Unless you are a toddler. You don't "pop" abuse your dog, or litter!!! Own up!!! Excuses are like arseholes. We all have them!
Idk dude, my toddler knows better than to leave her trash outside and she’s never once been aggressive with our cat.
I give my baby spankings but not hard (a playful spanking) when she literally doesn’t listen. But she likes the butt taps 😂. I call her a 304 for butt scratches/taps now 😭
@@thatbeaatcch9884 maybe keep that to yourself
They’re like assholes; they’re full of shit
@@thatbeaatcch9884 uh... you probably should've kept that to yourself😬
If I was the brother, I'd go NO CONTACT
egg is so damaging to a cars paint job.
that poor new car owner
It always amazes me when stupid people post their stupidity online, and then get butt hurt when they get called out.
Ok but these girls are fighting over a man named Melvin. 😬 IMO Melvin sounds like a little punk for allowing his mom and sister to behave like that. I’d like to see my daughters act like that towards anyone their brothers CHOOSE to date. I’ll side with the daughter in law.
It’s weird!!! My SIL & MIL tried to beef me too while I was pregnant! The last year was insane…. Lived in their home too. My SIL and I overcame it and we’re cool now but my MIL is still the devil 🤦♀️ I’ll never do this with my sons future woman smh
it’s ironic that she’s wearing a “cold blooded” tshirt as she’s making an apology video.
gold blooded 😂
Bruh that's an easy way to get your sibling in question to not speak to you ever again 🤦🏽♀️
I dont know how or why, but you can just hear when someone is a mean girl in their voice. I've heard it in different accents but every mean girl has a similar tone and attitude that comes out in their voice
It cracks me up that the types of people who would probably go through years of your social media to try and find something to make you look bad are the same ones who will immediately cry “but I was soooo young” or “that was soooo long ago” when it happens to them. Geez….
It's so weird to me when family members of someone retain a really strong friendship with the ex. It's like they want to decide who their family member should be with
Make mistakes 😮 no you got caught, i don't care how old you are 😔 you don't hit your pets ,😢
Why do these mean girl creators always have so many followers? I can't imagine her behavior was any different prior to the drama, so what attracts people to her and creators like her?
I imagine some of them just find these women hot and dont give a damn about anything else, others probably being assholes themselves
Honestly they’re usually popular at school or whatever too. It’s not just online. I don’t get it myself but there’s something there.
Melvin needs to put a stop to this basically harassment of the mother of his child. He needs to put his sister in her place.
These people are ADULTS. They need to act like it and keep this drama private. Ffs. 😂
The Michelles of tiktok are wildin lately
Ya my 5 yr old knows not to litter, so her excusw of "being young" is a privileged disgusting trait. She better change or she will get a rude awakening
Same! Put it in your pocket or give it to me.
She already knew she was wrong or she wouldn't have replied with that to her friend who literally said nothing and just gave her a look
Thank you.
This! Totally agree (& thank you for being one of the awesome parents out there teaching their kids right) 👍
My nephews each had their own set of litter pickers (ones designed for little kids, they were really cute!) when they were a similar age to your little one. Not only that, but if the youngest one saw someone not clean up after their dog at the park, he would run over, yelling at the top of his voice "(ex)cuse me! Your doggy pooped. Do you need a bag?" and would then run back and ask one of us for a bag that he could give them! He'd also insist on telling them where the nearest doggy poop bin was and how to identify one. In detail. 🤩😂
He has always been a very helpful little soul, but I used to find it hilarious, because you can't answer a toddler back - especially when they are being kind and sweet and helping you. The sheer number of people who were clearly going to walk away and leave it but, instead, picked it up and put it in the bin made that little man an utter legend to me! 😎💖
As the youngest, I was still put on higher expectations by my dad.
It confused the hell outta me.
Turns out my sister isn't my sister, and my dad knew it. He still raised her like his daughter, but some stuff slipped through...
If you are with a man or a woman that has a child from a previous relationship, you should be as gracious as you possibly can. Even though they're not together, that is the other parent of their child. It behooves you to be friends and or at least be cordial with the ex because they will always be family. That doesn't mean that they love you any less, it just means you have to put your big girl panties on and make sure those children have as healthy of an upbringing as possible. You signed on to be a step parent and that includes not badmouthing the mother, never putting anything on a child that they cannot comprehend, you never put a child an adult situation, and most importantly let that child feel love from everyone. Be a grown up. The childy are the only ones allowed to be a child.
You have found the perfect niche on CZcams and exceptional at it. You will never not be without content cause one thing we humans are great at is creating drama.
I’ve never been more glad that my fiancé only has brothers till right now. The sisters pick me energy is insane
Nah, cause why did she WASH her chicken??? Also, why is the brother not checking his sister's behavior? If I were him, this would NOT fly. At all.
How many football jerseys do you own. It’s impressive honestly 😂
Super disturbing also how casually and insistently she tried to just lie her way out of stuff like the gender reveal thing blaming it on editing, why do that when you _know_ the full footage is out there and easily proves you wrong? People who act like that are downright scary
Sounds goofy as that she’s so obsessed with her brother and his well being and him having a baby but not the woman who is carrying the baby and trying to dictate who he should date too! Weird family vibes 😅 enmeshment comes to mind actually! Or just huge jealousy
Idk, I learned that littering and hitting animals is bad when I was like, 5 years old lol Hard to explain away crappy behavior when you're actually just a crappy person who's bad at hiding it.
There's an old Latin phrase "In vino vertias," or "In wine, there is truth." Her true personality and thoughts show through when she is drunk. So the video of where she is with the ex-sister-in-law and drinking are very much her true thoughts and feelings. Tbh, she really doesn't seem like a nice person, and her obsession with her brother's love life is creepy and gross. Peaked in high school, that one. Yeesh.
The worst thing about this video is her washing raw chicken. Stop. Just stop.
I do it. I don’t like the feeling of un rinsed raw chicken. Sorry not srry
It made me gag 🤢 unecessary and a high risk of spending salmonella around.
Agreed! Its unnecessarily spreading salmonella around and I'm willing to bet the people who do this don't bleach and scrub the sink immediately after.
@@brookeedmond8503its safer to pat it dry with paper towels if you don't like the feeling of the raw chicken.
Pretty bad that humans have become so removed from our food that prople cant tolerate the feel of the uncooked meat. Would say first world problems but even here many of us still litterally hunt and even raise animals and butcher our own meat. Sorry not sorry is an awful triggered response
Her tshirt says it all, Cold Blooded.
Her not washing her hands with that chicken has got me☠️
My kids knew to be nice to animals & not to litter as toddlers 🙄
My three year old doesn’t litter , especially out the car . She did once and i acted like she committed a crime in a lightway 😂 i was just like uh-oh , let’s not make our planet any dirtier. Animals can choke on your trash and police officers can make you pay a lot of money . She now asks for a trashbag or puts in her cupholder until i clean it up !
i always think about how the worst people end up being influencers like i would never and most people i know would never 😭
Oh lord. I’ve always wanted to vent a few stories about my former in-laws. 😅 My husband was a wonderful man, unfortunately we were in a car accident and he passed away. I’m honestly really sad that his family just turned a 180° and went from loving me to hating me…especially at this time. It’s just straight narcissism, unfortunately. His sister was obsessed with him, she got a big, big tattoo on her abdomen with his name… this was before he died (and like I said, car accident, so it’s not like he was sick).
So when exactly is she going to grow up? The “ but I’m soooo young” is old already!
Everything about the sister of the brother (so not his gf) screams narcissism. Lying, claiming victim, attention hungry, gaslighting, manipulative, and doesn't take accountability.
Just wanted to say about the littering, my daughter is 5yo and knows not to litter....
Thank you I always appreciate when you don't show animal abuse! I don't want to see it and I'm so glad when you just say and don't make us watch it.
people who wash their meat are so uninformed it hurts
Alright what’s wrong with it?
@@therockbottom5256research for yourself if you actually care 👍🏼
@@therockbottom5256because it literally spreads bacteria to your sink and all over your kitchen. Just cook the damn meat.
@@therockbottom5256huge chance to cross contaminate/spread salmonella, and it can actually introduce more germs. any bad bacteria will be killed when you cook it.
@@therockbottom5256 First of all, cross contamination which can cause food borne illnesses. Second of all, there is stuff on and in the meat that helps it when cooking. If the meat gets dropped, then rinse it. But otherwise it doesn’t need to be washed. Just the surfaces it touches and your hands after use from the uncooked meat juice. Which if it touches other food or clean cooking utensils, it could contaminate the food and whatever else is stored with it (cross contamination).
No one deserves suicide comments, but people who are very much not very nice people should have their platforms taken away. She very much does not understand how the real world works and is in her own world. People who live in their own world treating people like crap should not be influential on anyone.
I once had a neighbor who sent her daughter (who was maybe 10 or 11) to apologize for leaving a water bottle on the ground next to my car. I hadn't even noticed it! I smiled and said thank you for acknowledging that. It was very obvious her Mother had taught the lesson and I didn't want to make her feel any worse than she already did.
On top of that the whole family were very sweet, kind and were lovely neighbors. I miss them.
All that to say I was 20 and act like she didn't know better two adjectives come to mind: B**l Sh*** & Entitled.
It cracks me up when people say "this is the LAST time I'm talking about this" when they are in the wrong and just want everyone else to stop talking about it
God knows not to put me in a situation like this bc I dont care about being liked by family members.
She’s gonna be shocked when the sister in law doesn’t want her around the baby. I have a strict rule of if you don’t like me/are consistently rude to me you can’t be around my kids because I can’t trust what you’ll do/say around them.
I don’t even hug my brothers, imagine being this obsessed with their sex life 🤮🤮
I know when I do see my brother we give Each other a side hug and and a kiss on the cheek! I’ve never cared or wanted to be in his love life that’s so weird
Yet this is the person with friends and gets included instead of iced out🤦♀️
Bigger question. Did she just rinse her chicken? 😕
some people do. Rinsing and patting it dry it best for making crispy chicken like fried chicken dishes. other people just rinse it for peace of mind, it varies from culture to culture and is harmless so I don't see an issue here.
asking the important questions here!!
It is actually not harmless. Its common in the African American community from misinformation and cause if your mom does it, you do it. Its super dangerous to rinse meat in the sink. Google it. @MinouHime
You don't clean your chicken?
@@MinouHime Tho I aknowledge the culture variance, it's not actually harmless as you are spraying raw chicken juices and bacteria everywhere in and around your sink. In the clips she touches the sink tap handles in between as well. You will cook that chicken thoroughly and kill off most bacterias but your sink won't get cooked... Unless you are very thorough about disinfecting everything right away and without spraying it around some more, it's often causing more issues than it is solving.
As someone with 2 brothers......this "sister" is super creepy and way too involved in her bros life!!! Honestly, sisters and mothers who act like this are very disturbing!
Omg the claw hands make me wanna throw my phone 🦀🦞🦀🦞
Me too!!!🤬
I hate her hand gestures.
Every time people get caught they say people are messaging them to end themselves. I really don’t believe them.
4:13 please don't wash your chicken...
? Why, I think it's fine unless you use soap
@@Lilly_King "Food safety authorities and regulators around the world recommend you don't wash raw poultry before cooking. That's because washing chicken can splash dangerous bacteria around the kitchen. It's best just to thoroughly cook the chicken without washing it, so it is safe to eat." (From the Swinburne University of Technology)
I really hate when people use their age as excuse; what you said about not remember never not knowing when something is good or bad, I really feel that because as far as I remember, I've always known when what I've done is wrong or not, so you're 20 and that's your excuse for your trashy behavior? That's not how it works, sweetie.
Her rinsing the chicken made me not able to focus on anything she said. You spread bacteria ALL OVER your sink and kitchen by doing that, and we all know damn well she did not clean her sink afterword.
Nah, WASH YOUR CHICKEN with lemon and vinegar. You’re disgusting if you cook it right away without rinsing it
You can bleach the sink after rinsing it
I love how easy you make drama seem (like how simply you explain it) 😭💗
more niche (?) drama, just started the video and am anticipating what is to come lmaooo
Who wants to put all this on the internet for everyone's eyes. This is what it means when people say the internet is forever. And it's actually gross that they got so much attention for their very childish behavior. Videos should have been deleted & everybody should have said this is a family issue that we will be handling privately, way before it got to this point
THIS! I’m way more concerned with how much random strangers care about this stupid family “drama” than any thing else.
@@Janelolll THAT! ⬆️