r/Bestof I Punched a Guy in a Gorilla Suit
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0:00 Intro
0:12 Pranking
7:00 Comment
7:09 Getting away
12:12 Comment
12:28 Bully
"Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0 - Komedie
Last story: Girl really didn’t age past elementary school, she really believed in her heart that she’d never face consequences. Welcome to the real world
fuck around and find out
I don't think she really got any consequences for this. Yes, she got fired, but so what? There are tons of other grocery stores who will hire her with no questions asked.
Lol calling her a slut because she got caught.
@@undrhilshe is away from op.
@@KazeShikamaru that's great so now she can go bully someone else. Hooray!
Alex story: the updates and planning might have been too dry for rslash, but they are a TEXTBOOK example of how to safely leave an abuser. If anyone reading this needs to know step by step what to do to protect yourself physically and from legal troubles in a divorce with an abuser, read OP’s post.
I do NOT get why he thought it was wise to skip it.
@@destinedtogameI do
Yeah it's weird that he thought it was "too dry" when it's not
Not to mention the fact that he didn't mention that the reason OP couldn't get help in her town because SIL works directly with abuse victims so running away was the only option left.
Second story: R Slash missed all the creepy stuff in the middle like the secret bedroom camera and how she needed to plan her escape in the bathroom during "baths".
"Not important details" this has only left me with a dumbfounded look. How is this not relevant or boring?
Holy snickerdoodles Batman! That is definitely not boring, dry details! Poor OP is lucky she got away in one piece, hope he doesn’t track her down.
I was confounded he said that. It’s far from boring, it’s a thrilling tale of escape where one wrong move could have led to him finding out her plans and made her life exponentially worse. It’s obvious that if this abusive jerk had *any* idea she was trying to get out, he would have come home early and started beating her. Rslash should have said the truth, which is that he didn’t include the details due to video run time.
I wish he'd stop cutting things out that HE thinks are unimportant or irrelevant. The things she did could help save someone's life one day.
He should have made post 2 a seperate, one story video. He literally just did that so why not with this one?
Technically. That story had three clowns 🤡🤡🤡
*4
Story 2: “You’re overreacting, he would never hurt you, you did this to him”
…this guy’s immediate response to divorce papers was to destroy his home, get himself arrested and then push all his problems onto Op…
I get that people want to support their friend/family but…you can’t ACTUALLY think his reaction was justified…right…?
Alex friends and family:" ahhh he only broke her nose gave her a concussion busted her eyes no big deal she shouldn't have said anything she completely overreacted"...
Yeah not enough red flags in the world with her husband. Dude is definitely someone you would hear about on the news
Even odds the friends don’t know the extent of his actual reaction, and the family is downplaying it.
Also who insists on putting a tracker on their partner? It's be a wild step even if the partner had been unfaithful... but doing so just because? And his friends and family think he's just 'protective'? Well, being locked in solitary confinement is also protective doesn't mean it's a reasonable thing to do to your partner.
Either Alex lied or, his friends are just as bad as he is.
“Harmless” pranks stop being harmless when people are getting hurt and are left bleeding. That being said at least OP punched the right person in the nose. Also, ex-gf has no idea what emotional abuse actually is and I doubt she actually was abused. Probably said that to make herself the victim. Regardless, I hope she’s enjoying the weird love triangle circus she’s got going on.
Honestly it stopped being harmless once she charged 200 dollars to him with that hotline "prank"
Every one of her boyfriend was emotionally abusive she said. Chad needs to come to his senses quick no way she is hot enough for her obvious level of crazy.
Technically, to complete the triangle, Declan would then have to have a crush on Chad. But then, given his visceral panicked reaction when OP told him GF had a crush on him, and how he apparently was doing all of this for Chad for… no reason? Maybe he does actually have a crush on Chad. Declan _does_ have a ton of female friends…
That was exactly my train of thought LOL @@Tustin2121
Marinara red sauce flags
The last story; So....the bully finally found out that her actions has consequences. About bloddy time. Well done OP
I dont think she did. She probably blames OP
@@natanoj16 And a fat lot of good it'll do for the bully if she chooses to harass the wrong person who WONT take the restrained road.
@@Digitalfairy pretty much this, one day she's going to be a bitch to the wrong person and as you've stated won't handle it with restraint like OP did and said hypothetical target may choose violence or canceling her like an animated IP on MAX.
@@Digitalfairy worse yet, someone who has nothing left to lose.
If "every ex boyfriend youve ever had is emotionally abusive" then either you pick horrible people consistently and learn nothing OR you make those allegations any time you get called out on bad behavior.
Seing what we've seen here, its the latter
Sounds like a description of Lily Orchard kkkkkk (the second one, to be clear)
She keeps using that word. I don't think she knows what it means
Young people these days know the psychological lingo, but use it to manipulate and play victim.
I had an ex who said "everyone I've ever dated has cheated on me", and I was kinda baffled by that, a few months later our relationship wasn't working out and I broke up with him, like two weeks later he messaged me saying that I was cheating on him with a friend of mine...
I get a feeling this sorta thing isn't that rare.
Something something every allegation is a confession? “The lady doth protest too much, methinks”?
Last story, he could have also lost his job, most retail management positions require you to sign paperwork saying youre not allowed to have intimate relationships with your subordinates.
If OP was underage while working there the manager also could have been arrested for statutory rape
Girlfriend: **Pranks Decland with a clown statue**
Decland: **Breaks her nose**
Girlfriend: "I'll f*cking do it again."
If I were her, I would've taken this as a sign and stopped pranking altogether.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
Yet both sides laughed about it immediately afterwards. What’s the issue?
@@_.hybrids._1680 The issue is she suffers from "Battered Wife Syndrome," they're not married, they're not dating, he's scared at the idea of her liking him, but she is very down bad to an unhealthy degree.
@@_.hybrids._1680the issue being she had crush on him and tried to get with him while being in a relationship
The wife who divorced her husband dodged a nuke, not a bullet. He would have become far more abusive as time went on. He probably would have even gotten jealous of his own kids getting attention from her. If there was any doubt, that disappeared after his reaction to being served.
Exactly. Imagine if it was her handing him the papers personally, she'd probably be in the hospital.
Once they had kids together the physical abuse probably would have started because he “trapped” her.
@@AzureKyleNo, I think she wouldn't have made it to the ER, he'd have sent her to the morgue and still blamed her for it.
I'm glad she got out as soon as she saw the red flags
Even worse, considering that the ex's family and inner circle of friends are defending him and giving OP (the victim) crap over the consequences of HIS actions, at least we know who the enablers are.
rslash- please don't read a story if you plan on skipping multiple updates to the story. I get that it can be a lot, but at this point, you're skipping a lot of stuff that you may think is unnecessary, but the listeners want to know even if it's a bunch of mundane details.
Agreed. Those stories can have their own episode with all the updates
Although, not all listener would want to read/hear.
Mostly likely it would be just one video like others.
I get skipping long, dry updates but in this case, doing so left out some key details. There was some seriously effed up stuff in one of those updates.
Exactly, like OP's sister in law working at a local domestic violence shelter (ironic), which is why OP couldn't go there. This is info I definetly would want to know
I feel like maybe reading it out and then adding chapter timestamps could help. Like if he went “I found this section to be long and dry, but I’ll read it anyways. For those who don’t want to listen to it, skip to the next timestamp” or smth
Last story: The bully seems to have serious mental problems. What kind of right-thinking adult starts a new job and IMMEDIATELY makes up lies about a coworker? What kind of idiot doesn't realize the manager ain't gonna be happy about it?
Probably one of those spoiled EKs who like to hurt people "for kicks" then get butthurt when things don't go their way. I seen a few of those.
My question was, What kind of idiot would believe her? She only just started, how the fridge-y fudge would she know who the manager was sleeping with?
Probably someone who has been getting away with it for one reason or another.
I feel like some managers don't really care. There are a couple of instances where the managers where I work are supposed to do a something when a certain something happens, but they didn't do anything, and I'm too scared to say anything to HR because then everyone will know it was me who said something.
the kind of person who hasn't matured past middle school.
It's actually kind of shocking how no tolerance bullying policies in schools leads to more bullying.
Some countries don't care ...
The problem is that every school that says they have 0 tolerance on bullying is lying. What they actually do is ignore the bullying until the victim is desperate enough to defend themselves, and then they punish the victim for "bullying" in self-defense, calling that 0 tolerance. So basically the same way things have always been done.
I dont think zero tolerance works because it doesnt take circumstances into account.
Even with zero tolerance it wont work unless both victim and bully gets support, the bully on how to behaive, the victim on how to handle it and move away from it safely
@@JRKonungrinnmore to the point, the bully keeps it just under being physical and damaging so that the victim is the one who throws the first punch and then the bully goes and cries to Mommy
@JRKonungrinn That is what my school did. If you defended yourself in any way the school would threaten you with removal if you reported being attacked. Because zero tolerance for fights, so of course the victims would rarely report the abuse. School required teachers to witness the acts so students reporting bullying was never recorded. School could report no one was being bullied. Fun.
The last story reminds me of an ex-coworker I had. She made up a rumor that 2 of our coworkers were having an affair when both were married. And the guys son she made up the rumor about was also working with us. Long story short, The son believed that awful rumor and so did his wife. The wife made him quit and the son was on bad terms with the dad. The lady was harrased and embarrassed to the point where she brought it up to management. They did nothing about it even after the awful coworker admitted she lied and made the entire rumor up. Yeah management was a joke there.
one of my ex-coworkers made up the rumor she was sleeping with our boss. No one said that about her, she made it up about herself. She also slapped multiple people from behind.
Last story, don't forget the ages here, it started when they were 10-11 then 7 years later they met again. That means they were 17 or 18, so she was saying the manager may have slept with a minor. Another reason for him to be mad, doesn't want to get labeled a groomer.
Very beginning of the post she says she is 18. Yes it's possible that she was hired at 17 but there is no mention of that.
The OP said she was 18 and had gotten the job after graduation.
Story 1: If *all* of your ex-boyfriends have been "emotionally abusive and controlling," maybe, just maybe you're the problem. Or else you just have really lousy taste in partners and maybe should consider talking to someone about that.
Some people who grow up in bad homes are attracted to bad people, cuz it feels like home to them
I think its the second one honestly, the op from that story sounds like a prick
This reminds me of my ex saying everyone they've been with before cheated on them. While not impossible, if someone tells you that, consider it a possible huge red flag.
Last story: Many places can let new employees go within 3 months of being hired for literally any reason, but this girl decides right away to start crap (likely) during her probation period.
The trash all but took itself out.
Story 2: When you pair the clauses with obsessively looking for cheating behavior, yeah he was 100% hoping to get a child with OP, look for anything that convinces him OP is cheating, and then serve the prepared papers and ruin OP's life
Heck, his behavior after being served pretty much tells you everything about him, that's the kind of behavior that abusers have when they lose their grip
RSlash, please stop skipping all the updates. I love hearing them all, including the dry ones
Story 1: I've heard this one. The OP's ex was delulu. Plus, Declan never wanted her. She's gonna regret being a dumby. She screwed around, found out and won't get any cake. I hope OP finds someone who won't pull this crap again. This love triangle is more lost than those stuck in the Bermuda Triangle.
Story 2: He was isolating OP, and it seems like the parents are driving with the blinders glued on. (Also, read the updates, dammit!!!! This is why I like Mark Narrations more. He covers all the available updates) I'm glad OP managed to get away from Alex. Okay, cut the in-laws out. They'll continuously side with him.
Story 3: I hate that OP had to deal with that with that bully. I'm glad OP went to the higher ups and they didn't decide to blame the OP for a change... for once.
I had a girl that I worked with in retail, who was dating a supervisor in our department. She told a story about some intimate things, that the two of them were doing. The whole store heard the story, and she tried to blame me for it. The supervisor tried to give me a hard time about it, and I told him, "It's not me. Your girlfriend is telling the whole store, about it. The only time I have said anything, is when co-workers asked me if I had heard it, and I tell them that yes, I have heard the story from her, but I don't know if it's legit or not, and that I didn't care." He didn't believe me, until he went to each and every department, and asked them. Every single person he approached about it, told him that his girlfriend was blabbing. Needless to say, she got an earful from him, and those of us that worked with her in the department, mercilessly teased her.
The last story, I can't imagine being a literal adult and trying to mean girl someone at your work. And how tf did she think slandering two different employees wouldn't get her fired? Some people are just plain ignorant
I don't think we were ever told the twins ages, so it's very possible that the bully was still a year younger than op so possibly still not an adult. That's still not an excuse though
It's because she didn't think beyond how funny it would be to tell these awful rumors about OP. She didn't even think of what could potentially happen with her boss, she just started a common rumor to be a bitch towards OP, with no consideration or thought about the third party she was involving with her rumor.
My cynical self thinks if the bully had not be foolish enough to include her boss in the rumours, especially in a way that could lead to sexual harassment charges, the bully would, indeed, have gotten away with it.
Managers seem all too willing to allow this type of BS to happen so long as they are not personally impacted by it.
The last story: Kudos to OP for standing up for herself and getting her horrible co-worker bully fired. Tragically, just based off of the reaction the bully had to being terminated, which was to blame OP, the bully didn't learn a damn thing. Her slandering her boss and a co-worker, all because she had an ax to grind with a former classmate, tells me everything I need to know about her.
I've known people far older than her who's still behave like overgrown middle school bullies who peaked at age 12. I've known people in their forties, their 50s and older who still behave like mean-spirited, spiteful, insecure, jealous children.
Due to their extreme self-absorption, at bare minimum, they have no respect for boundaries, zero regard for the word no being a complete sentence and nothing resembling a sense of accountability. Even when they suffer major consequences for their atrocious behavior, they blame shift, deflect, project and do anything else they possibly can besides looking in the mirror or within themselves. Thus they can avoid, almost indefinitely, seeing that they're the root cause of all their problems.
Last story: Op needs to watch her back now because her bully and her brother will most likely come after her, and do everything from calling to get her fired or post yelp reviews about her being the cause, hopefully the camras caught that nasty woman saying that to op so it can be used to get a restraining order later on
Until a new would-be victim lashes out on the bully first. Remember not everyone will just tell or keep quiet.
Yeah, the manager was happily married. She told us that down in the comments. That’s how we convince her to go to the manager because she was just gonna quit her job and leave.
Last story: Once a bully, always a bully.
Rslash, the girl in the last story didn't just risk the managers potential relationship, but could have gotten him arrested if that girl was claiming the manager slept with an underage OP
OP is 18, she stated as such in the beginning of the story.
@@AzureKyle true, I just worried for manager if she was hired before turning 18 when the incident happened, but either way I'm glad that weird twin got a reality check
Story 1: What? This whole thing is stupid and I’m slightly concerned for your ex because Declan‘s reaction was not a normal one to discover she has a thing for him and not Chad. Honestly, good for OP for just getting out of the circus.
To me, it seems like he's afraid of Chad's reaction if he finds out.
Does she have a thing for him though? OP just assumed that. Just like he assumed he had a thing for her too but he was wrong about that.
@@perfectchemistry8291 Well, she basically admitted to it. Especially since she went right to him when OP broke up with her. That, and the fact he broke her nose, and she still wants to prank him and hang out with him. It's honestly kinda obvious.
@@AzureKyle Yeah that's the exact same logic he had for why he liked her and he was wrong so... turns out what you and OP *think* are "obvious" are in reality just guesses. She didn't "admit" to it in any way. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. But it is far from "obvious" considering the exact same logic turned out to be wrong for him.
Declan about to pull off the biggest prank yet. Truly the longest going prank, pre-dating all the other pranks lmao.
Pretending he doesn’t have a crush on Chad? (Seriously, tho, why go through all this ever-escalating trouble just to be a “wingman”? He punched the girl in the face! Any reasonable reaction would be to stop it there!)
Most teachers must rather ignore bullying than actually handling the situation
And that's why there are so many fights
@@warriorsorb1111 agreed
Yup, and most business/office managers* too...
That is at least until the tormented person finally has enough and shouts at or hits the bully. At which point the victim then gets in trouble for 'unacceptable behaviour in this zero-tolerance environment'.
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*yeah, the manager in this story took action against the bully but that could have been just because the bully was endangering him too. Hopefully, he would have stepped up if he had not be one of the bully's victims too, but I have my doubts.
@survivedandthriving i always hated that. Every time a victim stands up for themselves, they get a harsher punishment while the real troublemaker gets a pop on the hand and told no to do it again.
@@warriorsorb1111 I find it stupid when the victim fights back, they get in trouble
Wait...what?! A clown statue is a little too far, but costing the guy $200 on a hotline phone call wasn't Extreme?? A call that could've cost a lot more had no one noticed!
I remember reading the last story and thinking "why are you so petty? Grow the hell up"
2- “ he always threatened that if he ever find me cheating on him, he’d turn in divorce papers, the same day, he keeps a filled out copy in his desk.” GIRL WHAT!
2nd story: apologizing to him for what? For him having anger issues. And they think is op's fault for making him go to jail after he assaulted the police officer. And they got mad at her and called her dramatic for not letting her ex husband physically and emotionally abused her.
I genuinely fear what Alex and his toxic family are going to do to his next future wife. His behavior is just going to escalate and she may get not be able to escape like OP did.
Last story: you know OP maybe this is good closure for you. This girl made your life of living hell when she was a child, and you would think she eventually grown up now that she’s an adult but no, she still the same. It’s kinda hard to feel anything towards someone who peaked in elementary.
Not even a week in and she was already starting stuff for no reason other than its you and She think this is still elementary school. Where she can do whatever and the manager can’t/ won’t do anything. Even if you haven’t said anything, it’s not like that information was never going to reach him. Don’t waste anymore time thinking about her she is pathetic.
I desperately need an update to the first story. I NEED the exes reaction to realizing the guy doesn't like her at all
First story is literally a Shakespearean play... We have the Exposition, Rising Action, Climax, Falling Action and Denouement. Thats crazy
"Nobody suspected anything!"
Exactly!!! Too many see the green flags in a person's character/behaviour but are usually willing to "overlook" the blatant red flags!
I really hate when Dabney skips all the parts because he thinks they are "too dry" or "boring" to read. I recommend watching other Reddit story channels that read them all like Redditor or Jay Mick. You get all the bits in between and can decide if you want to skip it or not.
MarkNarrations too
Markee as well
Although it isn't right for saying of recommendations in here or anybody's channel. I'm sure the the other CZcamsrs would not want of saying the recommendation in videos like this with that comment
Story 1: What a circus. The ex pranks, Chad pranks, both get broken noses, Declan got the girl by accident. I doubt this is the end, and more broken noses will happen
Last Story: Of course the manager cares! That rumor could get him fired or divorced! Or hell even sued.
Absolutely. Nipping this thing in the bud was in his own self interest.
Story 1 sounds like an episode of Friends or The Office because of how ridiculous it sounded.
Also for story 2 I really thought the husband was the one cheating for his dramatic change in the relationship. And also how is Op the on in the wrong for “Letting her imagination run wild about Alex” when Alex is letting his imagination run wild with the idea of OP cheating, stealing their money, and already had divorce papers filled with the idea of kids in the future?
Story 2, she should ask if his friends would allow their significant other to require them to wear a Tracker when they go out of town and see if they think that's overreacting
Story 1: Ya no that was flirting 100%, that's not something a guy would do to a girl in a platonic relationship, that's a guy trying to "show her a good time".
Story 2: If anyone keeps signed divorce documents 'just in case', that's a field covered in a giant red flag. One that can be seen from space. Also wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating, the amount of "OvErPrOtEcTiVe" he was sounds like he was cheating, and wanted to ensure she couldn't find out.
Story 3: REPORT HER TO HR, this is workplace harassment and could get both her and the manager fired. She shouldn't have just been fired, but she should have been blacklisted from the company and banned from the store.
i’ve been watching rslash for years and have become severely upset and disappointed with how he’s been treating abuse stories lately. as someone who has been through an abusive relationship, the stuff that is “boring” (legal routes, getting your ducks in order) is EXTREMELY important. calling it “boring” takes away the importance of things. not to mention how often he says to “just leave” about abuse situations without listening or thinking about how hard and grueling it can be to leave, especially if (like in this story) a major part of your support system is gaslighting you or convincing you the abuse isn’t real.
i genuinely hope he can read comments and listen to his audience about these heavy topics, especially if he has no experience in it himself. it took me months to leave an abusive relationship that i was groomed into, and if someone afterwards said i should’ve “just left” i would be livid. it’s insensitive, rude, and putting blame on the victim for staying as long as they did. please do better, don’t spread the idea that it’s easy to leave, as i’ve heard a lot of in the past videos. do better, for your audience and any abuse victims/survivors that might be listening.
That first story is like the plot of twelfth night: someone is in love with a girl so he sends a buddy to help get in a good word but the girl falls in love with the buddy. So by Shakespeare logic, Declan and Chad end up together and the girl gets with some rando leaving OP to rest in peace LOL
Maybe if Alex didn't want to get charged, he shouldn't have done the crimes 😂
The last story - not only could the manager's relationships have problems they would almost certainly have been fired. Own major companies in the United States have very strict policies on whether or not you're allowed to have relations with a subordinate. Most companies consider this type of relationship to be too ripe for abuse to allow. It would be impossible to determine whether or not the subordinate wishes to continue the relationship ship or feels obligated to by the company or by the superior.
Yeah, if you make an effort to break someone up, it doesn't matter if you did it for yourself or someone else.
I was literally sitting refreshing until the video loading so I can listen to it as my morning routine
Me too!!
I take joy in hearing how bad takes are and how late to the game he is
@@destinedtogame Aye dude, be reasonable for a second. There's a difference between bad takes and opinions you disagree with. The only true problem with R/ is when he becomes unnecessarily judgemental.
@@destinedtogameI mean I mainly only listen to rslash because it’s been a routine since I was 14/15 and I like his voice
Story 1: those aren’t pranks, they’re crimes
That first one was wild at 6 am Holy crap.
Last story: Did an adult with a job really just call another adult with a job “tattletale?” Who the hell uses that word seriously as an adult???
From that first story, that boy had better change his name, to Kevin or something. That was the exact opposite of a "Chad move."
Heard the first 5 seconds and thought "over the garden wall?"
Omg you're right!
@@TheWolfie234 I was somehow thinking about one of those walk into a bar jokes with the first five minutes of the video
Last story: I wonder if the girl really didn't age past elementary school or if there's some weird reason why she and her brother picked OP. It doesn't have to be reasonable but after seven years, she just picks up where she left off with the girl. That seems really bizarre to me that she'd even recognize OP after seven years. Heck, half the people I knew in the fifth grade don't even remember me. Not even my bullies. (Even though one was a worse bully in high school) I also find it ironic that they got a job at the same place. She likely got the job to make OP's life worse.
honestly with the first story.. i think if they sat down and said "hey, lets not abuse our fears so no one gets hurt," then the prankin was fine. i found it hilarious, and obviously they all were having fun as no one communicated otherwise
The OP wasn’t having fun, and the roommate was trying to destroy a two year relationship because he had a crush.
Well, you know what they say, "Fake liars get royally fired."
"This story is very dry and uninteresting" What? I was hooked! Your sudden stopping made it dry and uninteresting!
And even if it was? Read the story! The community will say what they think of it not what you think of it!
Story 1: Technically, it’s not a real ‘love triangle’ unless the triangle is complete. So Chad has a crush on GF, GF has a crush on Declan, and Declan has a crush on Chad. Now, granted, given Declan’s seemingly visceral reaction to being told a girl has a crush on him, I could certainly see Declan being closeted for Chad, especially given just how far Declan went for Chad for seemingly no reason.
Edit: “Declan has a ton of female friends” okay, so yeah, Declan is gay, 100% /j
The edit 💀
Yea. A true love triangle can never be straight.
This is a love angle
I mean, it doesn't have to be 'complete' to be a love triangle. Most common love triangles are when two people have a crush on the same person, and that person may have feelings for one or both of them, but the two with the crush on the third aren't interested in each other.
@@AzureKyleThat's not a triangle but a V
@@eugenehoitt3250 It's still called a love triangle.
So OP in the first story just assaulted someone who he clearly knew wasn't a threat, but he was just annoyed at, and it gets no comment. You have a weird moral compass rslash.
Second story: No actual way homie wanted OP to wear an actual tracker. This man is straight bonkers
Story 3 - "Tattletale"? She really never grew up, huh?
That last story....she very insecure.
I'm not sure which 'she' you mean.
OP, yes, is insecure - bullying will do that to a person, especially upon meeting the bully that they never thought they would have to deal with again.
The bully? NOPE. It is an enabling myth to make out that bullies are just insecure. In fact, bullies are tremendously entitled and usually believe they are 'allowed' to bully because they are better than everyone else, and that the 'lesser beings' 'deserve' the bad treatment.
@@survivedandthriving no, the bully is insecure. I don't say that about a lot of bullies. But purposely jeopardizing someone's job and the manger....I'm sorry but that's f** up. What kind of person does that?
Op was insecure in high-school but like op said she was over it and had thought the bully changed. Witch was not true. I'm nit sure what your logic is though.
Yes, I know how being bullied is because most of my childhood to my teens years I was bullied. I did develop social anxiety and social insecurity that I got over after high-school.
But I'm talking about the bully....the bully is very insecure otherwise what is the point of spreading rumors that are not even true at all?
It's always great to hear stories about actually good managers that have their worker's backs. I always feel incredibly lucky that I have mostly great managers at my job. Also, great on OP for standing up for herself! Hopefully the girl learns a lesson that actions do have consequences. Doesn't really sound like it, but maybe there's hope...
Well in all fairness, it was in his own self interest to do the right thing here. Since the rumor was about him, he could be in some serious trouble. If the rumor had been that she was sleeping with the night janitor, would he have been as proactive? Maybe, maybe not. I'm just saying let's be careful doling out praise to people for doing the obvious and required thing for their own benefit.
Anyone else confused how op saw two friends pranking each other and went "oh my god they're totally fucking!" when the thing he should've actually been concerned about was how DANGEROUS the pranks were getting??
Please stop skipping and summarizing stories... it may be boring to you but there's a lot of context and good information you end up keeping away from your audience
A clown and a gorilla suit, reminds me of that one scene from Trading Places when Jim Belushi is dressed as a gorilla and he gets mad at the guy dressed as a clown and yells at him "Monkey, monkey? I'm a f****** gorilla you clown!"
Story 1 with the ex-girlfriend is literally "Jokes On You, I'm into that ****."
I think op in the last story should have push for a sexual harassment charge for the rumor with the manager and the rumor about her breast. She's got an entire staff of employees who can corroborate her story.
Man that gorilla suit is old AF. That nice channel covered it
anyone else get tears in their eyes when they heard the last op had that awful experience on their 11th? my heart hurt hearing that bit. proud of op
Last story: I'd advise that lying to intentionally undermine someone's reputation is a crime.
For the overprotective husband story, I immediately thought he was cheating and he was projecting his fear of being caught on her. Either that or some abrupt change in his brain chemistry, making him suspicious of everything. Glad OP got out safely.
Man, the three bozos in Story 1 absolutely deserve each other and their weird triangle of sadness 😂
The controlling hubby/divorce Story: I always wonder how it is legal to fight a divorce!! For me, the act of marriage is always a "both have to consent" kind of thing, but also a divorce should be a "one consent" kind of thing because, as soon as only one party feels uncomfortable and want's a divorce there is nothing else someone can do!! Marriage is all about consent of both! And OP doesn't want it anymore, so it's off!!
It makes me sick to think about, that OP's hubby could just fight it and say no! That's not how a partnership works!! How can it be, that you can break up an intimit (non-marriage) partnership with one veto but you need two vetos to break up a marriage? That's sick! If I ever marry I will draw up a prenup that will state that the marriage can be annuled with only one partners consent! Because if I don't have the security to always say "no, I'm out" I won't do it!
I always wondered about that too. But, a friend who knows more about legal stuff than I do (and keep in mind we are not in the US) explained that under the law a marriage contract is a contract. In the same way we cannot just say 'well, yeah I signed the contract to pay $1000 for 50 widgets, but I figured out it is a bad deal so I'm not going through with it' we cannot say 'well, yeah but the marriage is not what I thought so I'm breaking the contract'.
YES buying widgets and avoiding being abused (or even killed) by one's spouse are ENTIRELY different situations. But part of the problem is that these laws apparently go back to times when women were considered chattel rather than persons, so marriage essentially was a transaction that included 'the transfer of ownership' of the woman by her father to her husband. And, apparently, no one has really updated the statutes since. So now, butthole spouses (of any gender - at least that has been updated) can use this situation as a tool to cause additional pain to their partners who wish to divorce them.
Personally, I think it is all BS in a similar way that calling pets 'just property' is BS, but apparently that is the explanation for the BS situation of it.
@@survivedandthriving Yeah. I figuered that it has sth to do with medieval marriage practice but it's still so insane to me. I will never do that! Haha! If I marry, my "contract" will state, as soon as I say my hard-hard safewort "divorce" the contract is ended! 🤣 I will not let somone decide over my future and if they want to accept that I want to leave or not. (im not US either. And I don't really know the laws for marriage in my country because I never had the need to look them up, yet.) but you can bet, as soon as I find a partner that I consider worthy of marrying, the first thing I will do is look at the current laws in my country.
Pretty sure the first story is some Shakespeare play set in modern times
Second story "its long and boring so im gonna skip it"-rslash
Nice to know other people stories are so boring to you just read a different one unless your apple text
Story 1:Pranks are ok as long as nobody is harmed in the process
Story 1: at least OP doesn't have to feel bad for punching Chad. Seems like he unintentionally hit the right dude.
Story 1: UGH ... my gosh, that level of drama, I seriously cannot wrap my head around it. At least on the bright side, OP is away from his ex, cause it certainly sounds like she likes "bad boys", like the two pranksters who are being involved here. Although the image of someone wearing a gorilla suit getting punched is funny, this is still a toxic situation overall, and again, good that OP has distanced himself from them.
Story 2: Holy ... OP should count her lucky stars, cause her ex is a literal DV case waiting to happen. The extremely controlling behavior, the meltdown and physical damage of property when things did not go his way, forget "bullet dodged", this is a freaking nuke dodged. Plus, with the way the ex's family and inner circle of friends are ragging on OP, I can see where the ex got his narcissism from. My word of advice, OP: never look back, and if you can physically move away, do it, cause narcissists like him will never let this slight go until they get that "I win" moment, even if it will take years to make you drop your guard. Do not give him that chance.
Story 3: Some people just never really leave high school behind, and OP, I applaud you for finally taking a stand against your tormenter (one of them, at least). Most of these people still think they can push people around like they are still in power, and well ... she messed around and found out. OP, no need to fret about her last dig at you, cause that is a trait of narcissism: the need to have the final say in everything. As long as you live your life well and show she has no power over you, that is the best revenge you can get against her.
Pranks story: I think the three of them need to be checked into the psychiatric ward of the hospital. Pranks (IMO) are not something you build a relationship on.
School bully at work story: OP, I hope it's over, but don't count on it. You did the right thing by informing your manager. But I wouldn't be surprised if the store or you personally start getting some bad reviews anonymously as a way for the bully/bullies to get revenge. Be on the lookout for them and inform the manager ASAP if they appear.
Story 1: "I expected a mature response from her." cause she had proven to be such a mature person so far..... It's a pretty good thing they broke up. They weren't a good match and OP had an unrealistic, idolized fantasy about who his gf was.
Story 1: okay, i almost feel bad for Declan. Sounds like hus visceral reacton to GF liking him leads me yo wonder if he's in a abusive roommate relationship
You had me at "Clown and a man in a gorilla suit"🤣
Last story: a flipping week, and she’s ALREADY trying to foster a toxic workplace? Good lord, that’s a record.
Last story: She literally committed slander on 2 people. Like, almost textbook slander. She basically accused her boss of s**ual harassment/assault in addition to corruption. I'm surprised she was just regular fired and not fired out of a cannon.
I dont know if this is an unpopular opinion but whenever R Slash says im just gonna sum this up or just skips over parts as they are "boring" or "uninteresting" its really annoying as he misses some very important parts and it just seems like he doesn't want his videos to be so long. When we would love longer videos and we would like to know the WHOLE story not just a TLDR.
Apparently people getting safe and getting help isn't interesting and they shouldn't do that.
Imagine being over the age of twelve and trying to use tattletale as a genuine insult
Story 1: So I HALF called it. Before the final update I was absolutely certain they were getting it on together. Well, gotta love lame love-triangles cuz people are idiots and/or creepy.
Last story: Bully: F~~~ you, tattle tale!
OP: You told on me for something I didn't even do, and you're mad at me for doing almost the same thing, but with one very justifiable difference! What right do you have to complain?
S1: I remember this somewhat weren’t they cheating
Oh wait I got it it’s the guys roommate who likes OP’s gf so he got them to prank each other so he could get closer but I think OP’s gf like her pranking buddy. Heard this on mark narrations and saved it to see if it would get an update
That first story was a wild ride, lol. I was not expecting a twist ending. I hope we get an update with the GF's reaction to realizing what was actually going on. (I'm trying to not spoil what happens for anyone who reads comments before that point in the video.)
Story 2- glad OP got out of there. I do wish you would have read more of the updates, though. I feel like you skipped too much this time.
But man, story 3- as bad as what just happened was, at least she was able to get backup and stand up for herself. I'm deeply upset about what the bully and her twin put OP through as a kid. That one story and description alone paint a horrific image (and the twin brother beating her up at school??wtf???) I can only imagine what her everyday life must have been like. (Also, the bully is pathetic! Did she just not grow at all in seven years? What adult makes up dumb lies about people and then fusses about OP being a "tattletale" LOL) As others have said, OP, don't assume it's over- the twin nightmares may try to retaliate. Be careful and take good care of yourself, OP. Maybe even let the police know this happened (and that there is history of them abusing you) as a 'just in case' something else happens precaution.
Yeah, it definitely could've gone badly for that dude in the story. Last story reminds me of a couple months back at the place my brother works.
Location manager was suddenly getting a divorce because he was caught banging one of the department managers in his office (who he had promoted from the lowest rung in less than 6 months) and got fired, said department manager was put on notice and then quit, and a bunch of other middle managers were dragged into a mess for reporting them when they found out about what was going on and he tried to falsely take them down with him.
Both of them were assholes so literally no one was surprised and now they've got someone who is all business instead of 48% asshole, 52% control freak so everyone except his family won in the end. Though, maybe his newborn did also win. If he acted like that in public, it's probably best the kid not be near him constantly.
Rslash is skipping SO much incredibly important and interesting information in story 2...
Why the hell was a boy able to beat up a girl during grade school? I thought the last OP was a dude cause I was thinking, "theres no way teachers would let a boy beat up a girl!" but I really shouldn't be surprised 😮💨
Different countries don't care as much....
Depending on how long ago that story was written, teachers let boys touch girls all the time
First story: I don’t think the problem was Declan and Gf’s friendship, it was her reaction to OP bringing up his concerns. Now obviously she had a crush on Declan the whole time which is problematic, but having a friend who you like to goof off with isn’t inherently emotional cheating.
Some HS/College student should make a short film of the first story
Last story: the manager did more in one day than OP's teachers did in all of her school years