I bought my own ring, financed our wedding and the marriage is over after 120 days | Lynn Ngugi Show
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- Imagine buying your own engagement ring, wedding rings, financing everything, and covering your man up so people think he was the one doing it only to have the marriage last for 120 days.
Here is June's story on today's episode of the Lynn Ngugi Show
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Jane you don't gave up you look good
Always stay strong mama
@@mercywamucii1786 you o
Thank you for owning up June🥰
June that was a powerful testimony and by releasing it from within, that allows fast healing. I affirm you and wish you the best with your innocent daughter. Stay off men for a while. It is hard but doable.
I love people who own up their mistakes. This lady is a real gem
True she is very transparent. Happy to hear that she has given her life to Christ, just stay connected to the source of life Jesus. Wish you all the best June
Honestly, she is a rare gem 💎
yes.....
Thank you June..I have really learnt.
June you are such a beautiful soul, very brave and transparent. God bless you and your daughter and I wish the best for your future❤️🌹
Ladies, ladies, a man who confidently takes money from, or he's comfortable with being provided for by his woman, sees nothing wrong sleeping under a roof that he does not pay rent for, insecure characteristics is a no go zone... Know your worth , God isn't the author of confusion. I will fix him attitude has killed many women..
I fully agree with. A relation of my mine did the same. She was killed in the marriage.
Amen.
Well said
Very true
Volume please
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Story of my life.
These are lessons we cnt learn any other way.
Greatful for my past experiences that trained my muscles and taught me to love and be loved better.
❤️
Sometimes we learn well in pain. Pain can really transform somebody
I remember you said you paid your dowry! Trying to protect the guy.😔
you are a strong lady... Am happy for you
Best female in the world kansiime
The fact the she's sharing her story,its evidently that's she's at peace and she's begun healing...Am proud of you
Thank you
Truth liberates ❤️
@@thejunekateireevesshow Hey baby ,I know God will get you through and put a better story in your life
Marriage doesn't complete a person, you must be completed before marriage. Never force yourself on anyone. Love comes naturally....
Say that again please..🙌🙌
True
Well spoken
Thanks for this
@@appolinemalaika4157 you are welcome.
This is why Benjamin Zulu is advocating for young ladies to know themselves before marriage 👋👋👋👋👋
Exactly, knowing your worth and purpose in life😊😊
Know yourself first and define yourself without saying am Mrs bla bla bla.... LMAO ooooooooo
the guy has some solid points those with ears should listen
Very true I was to fall under the same trap but @Zulu rescued me am happily single till my 30s😘
If you dunno yourself / self discovered ~identity how the heck are you going to know what you’re doing in marriage 👰♀️💍🤵♂️
I kept resonating with every bit of June's story, she's so brave and strong.
To all ladies, please find a man who is ready to be a leader of his household.
I love that you started the story from your childhood. Its all connected. This was a class not a story. Thanks for sharing.
Not just someone who talks the talk, but someone who actually does what is required. It's easy to "pretend" and think in Your brain that "you're the man", when actually you're a pathetic version of what a is. A provider, a man who has earned respect and has an understanding of what being a man entails.
It would be very nice but they aren't available. People prepare girls for marriage but not boys
Amen
Great advice!
I thought I was the only one! Only difference is I didn't go ahead with the wedding. A last minute clarity of mind saved me from a disastrous life. I bought my own ring, he almost made me pay for his ring and I was to fully finance the wedding despite him having worked way longer than I had. He said he had no money and yet insisted on inviting many people to the wedding. The guest list was 80% his friends and family and he kept adding more and more names. Bullet dodged.
Yoooh that was we quite something
This must have been heavy on you
Wooow. God saved you 🙏
I did the same too and we went different ways after a year of tying the knot
Damn!!
MARRY YOUR CALIBER........By this I mean, marry someone who is exposed like you in terms of work, emotions and everything in life aspects........and never ignore Red Flags
Very true
Thank you.
Very true.
Word 👍🏽
Well said,this is what many people don't know.
Am a father and am teaching my daughter to know that marriage as defined by society is not the sole definition of a woman. You dont have to be married to be complete and this goes to boychild too.
Society has overated marriage such that if one is in a family gathering, unaulizwa,"itedo Kanye?"....annoying, and they look down /you are looked at like a leper...
@@carolineabongo7039 i agree my dad used to ask me if am okay "down there" because at 35 i was not married and with no kids. The pressure from the society is real.
@@carolineabongo7039 My sister, I refused to give birth with a Fool or get married to one. I'm here still waiting. If it happens I'm good, if not, fine by me. Joma dwaro tedo odhio Ted.!!!!
Thank you
@@scovyaporsha777 kabisa dear
I separated last year after 26 yrs. The last 6 yrs was a mess. I'm now free and happy. This thing of endurance is terrible. I'm on the path to divorce now, I filed it. Also did divorce classes. I'm completely healed and free and happy.
Good for you!!💕
A wedding is not a solution to the challenges you face in your relationships! These and many more lessons from this episode. I hope to not only hear but practically live the many lessons shared here! Thankyou Ladies💯❤️
✍Don't get married early
✍Know myself
✍God loves me
✍Be an intentional parent
When she said God was speaking and she wasn't listening. That has resonated so well with me.
In every situation in life we have to listen to God first.
Yeah,we ignore God so many times in life..
how do you know God is speaking to you?
There are many ways God can speak to you.. eg. Through His Word, through the Holy Spirit, dreams,visions, having peace about an issue( or lack of peace),
You ignore you suffer big time...I know it first hand.
True
Don't be desperate for marriage it's not an achievement
Her childhood traumas was pushing her to seek love in that rship. So she was really not to blame. Girl you are 💪
This is what I wanted to hear today I walked out of my toxic relationship 3 days ago thanks so much June and lynn
Hugs to you Mami. It shall be well. Take one day at a time. Breathe. You'll be ok.
@@ruthvulimu6559 thanks 😊
Hugs and never look back 🤗
Glad u got the guts
Hugs dear....it shall be well ...I left too...almost clocking 2yrs since I left ....
This interview made me rethink about my life! Every young woman should watch this!!! Marrying wrong and having a child can keep you in poverty! It will cost you your sanity! Utakimbia nje usiku bila nguo ukiokota makaratasi hautaamini babygirl!! It can kill you! Yes it's always about financial security!Marry a man who is as ambitious as you are...One who is willing to sacrifice as much as you do! Love is a very small factor in making that decision. WHO YOU MARRY AND WHO YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH IS THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION A WOMAN WILL EVER MAKE IN LIFE!! Don't make that mistake Sis! Thank you Lynn Ngugi for this platform and for the beautiful guest June for sharing her story with us!!
So you prove what manosphere has been saying all along. They don't marry for love rather for finance and status.
Ngugi. Wow!! This interview made me interview myself about my life.... Being through the same thing.... I can say be careful before getting married.
you are very right gai! ask me am the best example,am stuck in a marriage i hate with all my heart
I find it hard to accept the notion regarding 'Marrying Wrong' since no one is perfect. Again, you don't marry someone in a day after meeting then but trust me a marriage can easily last a day. Everything in life happens for a reason if you are keen enough to examine the series of events leading up to the main event. Matters of the heart are no exception, they hurt the most.
God's way is always perfect 👍
I remember few years ago Solomon's son asking me "babe utanisaidia kukulipia dowry " i laughed so hard and i immediately knew we were heading no where
Solomon's son? 😂😂
@@vickymor3963 yess ohhh !
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@claireellenor9197 why laugh now 😆
I was married for one year but I don't even remember a single day of happiness. I tried so hard to make it work until I couldn't pretend anymore. Things are hard
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O.m.g,was scrolling through the comments stoped on yours cause of the Jin profile.hope you are ok.
@@carolscarols6519 I'm ok dear, thanks
Never give excuses for a man who does not step up to their responsibilities. It's only gonna get worse!!!!
👌Thank you.
Right
I love this
Yep!
Men who don't do his responsibilities as men, to cherish, provide and be good leaders to their wives are NOT Masculine men!
Likes for Lynn's new hair..its superb😍
This girl is so honest! May she find all the happiness!
hope she will go Back to the Her Husband again.
@herbertnathan7160 to do what? Are you not listening to her story? Ama you're the men living off of women?
I love this woman’s TRANSPARENCY and SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY especially her mode of COMMUNICATION without CONDEMNATION of her ex or painting him totally evil. God bless and strengthen you Sis
True👏👏
This is great.
Yes. She said she was wrong,acted desperate. Hajasema ni ex wake.
Almost my story from a single mom to early pregnancy to a miserable marriage . Wedding can't solve problems in relationship. Love from uganda 🇺🇬
Soo sorry ,but i hope you get better
Love you. Wisdom and knowledge is so key in life. Choose your struggles wisely.
Love you. Wisdom and knowledge is so key in life. Choose your struggles wisely.
Look at it as a lesson my friend. Peace and love to you💕💕💕💕💕💕
Wow
All I see is two intelligent women, giving lessons on how to better themselves and our generation of women 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️ love this !!! ❤️❤️
Exactly!!! Both beatifull inside and out also mature
Lynn Ngugi. I'm a Zambian woman. So impressed and slightly obsessed with you and Kenya. ( I've been to Kenya..Love it and the people) Much love. You have more than encouraged me babes
When I broke up with the father of my 2 kids, I ran to God/church. I thank God for allowing me into His Kingdom. I had my own plans and desires, But the Lord wanted me to serve Him. I am now happily married, to a God fearing man, and our marriage is meant to glorify and serve our Creator. It is way more than just loving , cuddling and having great time together, although we do have some fun, but God first. Im 34 years old and would advise my younger brothers and sisters to seek God first before they commit to a marriage or anything else in life. Matthew 6:33.
When one receives Jesus as Lord and personal saviour one is taught to marry a saved person.
You are great June,your strong lady.at tct🙏🙏
"I had given my life to Christ"! This is the best statement ever!
Yesssss. Jesus loves everyone can you imagine that! Even if a devil worshipper gave their lives to Christ now He would still love them. Such a wonderful lesson
Yeees👏👏
Ladies marry someone who will help you to achieve your goals ..but not one who will pull your dreams down
Very true
I love Kenyan women, I my next life I wanna be born in Kenya. I wish one day I can set my foot in Kenyan land in this life. 🇿🇦 🇨🇦
You are welcome 😁
You are very welcome sis. Unjane. We will welcome you
Karibu! Let Lynn know. We shall help you raise the fare for your ticket and accommodation! That's what Kenyans do!
June is so authentic and accountable for her actions. Thank you for being vulnerable in this story. I wish you well!
Lynn's hairstyle today Is dope😍.I love it
I agree
Ikr?
Ladies in the house never forces your self in a man
True....love must be mutual...
Aty sasa huyu naye ni nini...never mother a man....June wanted a father figure from her husband....naye husband wanted a mother In June...makosa...the two were told ready for marriage....they were just forcing issues
And vice verser
Desperation can make you do crazy things in the name of love🤭
@@rachellarry5803 aki......hahahah...then you wake up and realize you deserve better.
@@meggykarimi9982 It's good for one do love and know themselves before this love shenanigans 😅
I love this so much. I grew up with no father, a very strict, emotionally unavailable mother... and it manifested in my current and past relationships and adulthood in toxic ways... people pleasing, promiscuousity, lack of boundaries, anger outbursts, fear and anxiety, very low self esteem and self worth, I can go on and on... I was broken until I started therapy in September and didn't realise how much I needed to unpack and love myself and how much I was looking, desperately for love in men and relationships... and hating myself. I'm in a season of waiting, just turned 32 and often find myself daydreaming about marriage and having a child... because I believe that's where unconditional love is. I struggle with anxiety of abandonment in my current relationship... struggle with not being liked and accepted and him falling out of love and abandoning me.... i need to know myself...HEH! I'm a whole mess... but a beautiful mess... practicing self love and wholeness... it took me 32 years to get here.. but I'm loving my journey. I am intentional with being kind with myself, putting myself first and I know... no matter how long it takes, will enjoy and be intentional with my journey to practicing daily wholesome living! Thank you June
I discovered myself this year at 33 so you are doing fine Gathoni. We continue loving ourselves one day at a time ❤️❤️❤️
@@thejunekateireevesshow
Your marriage failed at spiritual level.
@Gathoni Kimani, check out a guy called RC Blakes on youtube, incase. He's such a father figure to many.
@Megapower. Yes it did
@Gathoni kimani, way to go gal.
Am on my learning journey too at 31....and loving it. God's Grace and one day at a time. One step at a time💪💪💪
She’s one of the most honest African women I’ve seen. Your story will help change many women who will listen to your story.
She is completely healed, that's why she can speak up purely no emotions❣️
I agree, if you can speak about it without tears... know you are healed.
Lynn Ngugi, this is the only channel I have ever subscribed to fully... Kindly bring Benjamin Zulu to drill some sense to our generation aki...Pole to the guest
I second this
I second this too
Yes, he tells it as it is👍🏽
Leta huyu jamaa asaidiye under 24 i say...
As a man, it hurts when such good women get to fall in love with the bad guys!😑😔
Nothing like "fall in love", it was a choice. Love is a choice, and she owned up to her mistake, bad choice.
They go for bad boys are full of mistries unlike nice guys that they fill are boring
@@kennethombuor9971 true
The old fashioned ways are best. He is single, asks for permission from her father or male protector to date her, has a proper job and pays for everything. She is chaperoned and doesn’t have sex with him and behaves as a lady should. This all means he is husband material and she is protected if it doesn’t work out. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
While the bride's family does their private investigation about the man's background and family
100% agree
💯truth
God hates divorce yes but he doesn't hate the divorcée ☺️☺️
It's her confidence for me.. ladies let's normalize dating people with the same IQ levels..
Exactly
If u run with that mentality you will be seated in that chair...don't convince yourself based on illogical truths
True
One who is committed, appreciates family/marriage, responsible n ready to the same. Shalom
Or higher
Write a book, do a book tour and be a counselor. You have lived it all. Great story for a lesson.
Yes @lynnngugi please take this idea up
I enjoyed watching this topic. I’m Nigerian and wish I understood everything spoken as the video was bilingual; however the message was not lost. June, you are always a winner and your outspoken strength will bring realization to many confused women who think that their identity is lost outside of a marriage even though it’s a marriage that depletes their human potentials. I’ve been told I’m strong because I took a similar stance as you 11 years ago. I’ve singly mothered my kids in all this time and for me too, many blessings came flooding in. I single-handedly relocated myself and my kids to Canada where I knew no one at all. I get told I’m strong but life has thought me that we all have innate strength; otherwise, I would have underestimated myself. Thanks for being vulnerable and sacrificial enough to share your story.
Thank you Ada ❤️❤️
@@thejunekateireevesshow you are really strong like myself. I found myself in your shoes and I walked away and now doing well. Kudos to us dear.
If you are watching via CZcams use the cc caption on the top corner.
@@ellentutie2106 thank you 🙂
@@ellentutie2106 oh thanks for the tip
My heart goes out to every broke dude trying to love a woman. May all your broken wounds be healed and you spring up to be a complete man. God loves you bro
Ladles see when you are empowered you can never settle for less ...you will differentiate being loved and being taken for granted
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Sema tena for the people at the back yo hear you.
Facts!!
As a foreign man I will say that it doesn't matter how nice Kenya woman is ,stay away from them.
What I know is there is no man who can leave his child and wife. There must be something wrong with the woman . I would like to hear the husband side of story.
you know your are healed when you can laugh openly at your mistakes......i love this lady....
When a man loves you ,you will never have to question whether he does or not..
Its Lynn's legs for me..❤❤
Thank you:)
Me too
Pia june's legz
Me too 🙈🙈🙈🙈
God hates divorce. The foundation also matters. Many times we bring God in our own messes while we didn’t seek His will when started something
Yes for lack of knowledge, youth blunders
Amen, true
Yes thats true but lisilo bidi hubidi ... never die in the name of it is written and you can see red flags🥺
Hapo kwa lisilo bidi hubidi
This lady was very right. The guy will come to regret one fine day. He could have dropped his ego, pride and pick up pieces and make his marriage work. This lady is a true wife material.
And if she get a right man, they will go far.
@Lyn, a woman can support a man for a period of time, when he needs to get up.
Thanks June and Lyn.
Moses I agree with you. This Lady will go far
I agree with you. Two people with equal ego can never stay together. One must sacrifice their ego for the other. In this case the man could have sacrificed his ego and they could have gone far.
Thank you for being able to share so openly that on its own is therapeutic.
Ladies, some of these things happen because we don't love and appreciate ourselves enough first. Then that causes desperation.
You don't need a man to validate you. You don't need a man to make you complete. If you already feel incomplete, you're going into marriage with all those inferiority vibes.
Which means, that as it is, you're already carrying baggage with you into a new marriage.
Remember, Christian or no Christian, the laws of life will handle you because they are universal.
A desperate and insecure person also attracts the same type of partner.
Believe in yourself,and believe that you deserve the best.
A person who loves and respects herself will also attract a similar partner. Desperation breeds contempt which leads to death. Wearing a ring means totally nothing if there's no love in the marriage.
God is God of a second chance, so we also learn to forgive ourselves when we make mistakes and let go of the past so that we're able to move on without 'extra baggage'
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Eti "we are not judging "😅
Sometimes being naive leads many people to so much regrets in life.... We learn through our own mistakes....salute to her for her boldness 👌
This lady has my life in the whole story I thank God I discovered myself before it's was too late...ii social media should be paid for we still learning 🙏🙌
True
They make lots of money from u watching
I love how she acknowledges her mistakes. That is very bold. So many lessons to learn from this. Thank you.
Really
Thanks June for sharing and even acknowledging your part in the story
I love the fact that people can share their pain and experiences.. Absolutely amazing
Unfortunately I got my story here😭😭and that’s why am in Saudi Arabia trying to forget everything,, I wish to tell my story one day waaah!
When something or someone is not right for you. God will make that person hurt you so hard, that the only option you have is letting go. Men and women don't ignore the signs.
That was too desperate. When you value yourself based on getting married by any means necessary, it makes you an easy target. Be loving and supportive but do not give too much expecting to keep a man. Most often, they are not even worth the sacrifice.
Thank you June for sharing your story, and Lynn for bringing this to us. I pray that a young woman and man listens to this and makes a change in their lives for the better. Intentional adulting!
An Abuse that is always not seen as abuse is emotional abuse!! Sometimes it's the worst🙌
I agree
Omg yes Emotional abuse is the worst out of all!
The most damaging.
June has a ministry of restoration of the broken hearted people. Blessings ❤️❤️
I think she should have a CZcams channel
So true.
True👏👏
Very . From South Africa
I’m getting into marriage with an extra piece of wisdom,thank you June and Lynn
Very lovely lady. She is honest with herself. She is intelligent, she is so understanding. The way she dealt with her past and the way she was understanding with the issues her mum had in the past.
Better don't marry if you won't respect your husband; cheating also is the main home breaker
AMEN.Me too....
Wish you all the best.
I really admire how positive she was telling her story.Such a light deep felt laughter. Bless her soul.
Thank you so much Lynn for bringing June on🙏🏾❤️🤩 Please may I “borrow” her off of ya show! I need her to share her story and wisdom and deliver some singles on my series: The Joys & Woes of Singlehood 🔥🔥🔥
How come Lynn dsn't have 1M followers? This show is just the best
That's my question too.i wish I can subscribe that million times aky
Soon God's timing is the best
They should insist on speaking completely in English,watching from Jamaica,love it but I do not understand their native language.
Viewers are not into wholesome channels like these. They prefer mix up and negative channels. I do a lifestyle channel that deals with positivity and simple life and I just do it for fun not worrying about subscribers. So here she is getting real people who wants to hear this and be inspired. So don’t worry 😉 about subscribers. In time viewers will come and if they don’t that’s ok 👍
I did almost the same thing , I financed my own Rurachio, and anything that was eaten on that day it was from my own pocket, told I'm on my own, those men who can't finance a wedding or Rurachio girls , run for your life.
Mine had gracious parents who financed everything. Big mistake also
True
There is life after divorce ! A very inspiring story like Sarah Jakes Roberts!
The fact that she owns up is my take home .No blame games
So the biggest lesson for me and also from my own past experience after breaking up my ex-fiance, is that whenever you are trying to get/ start a relationship with someone, GET TO THE ROUTE OF THEIR CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES. Because they get amplified later in life especially in marriage. If their was any trauma, the healing process should begin. Marriage is not the solution, however salvation should be the beginning of the healing process as well emotional and psychological healing. We need an interview for the men growing up so that we can see how their upbringing/ childhood trauma affects their decision making in life/ marriage/relationship, and how generally they deal with it. God bless you all. Lyn you are really hitting the nails on the head with such great life changing stories
Very true. If they saw any type of abuse between their parents unconsciously they pick up such traits as normal.
Wow! What a story. Thank you Lord that even when we make mistakes out of our shortsightedness, YOU STILL LOVE US!
I love the fact that June knows a Father who is always there for her, who is always willing to listen 24/7. I bless the Lord God Almighty.
June, You are a beautiful, hardworking and independent woman. I like how you became honest to yourself. A woman who wants nothing deserves the whole world. May love locate you in abundance.
Married for 4 months only and divorced? And I'm here ashamed of telling people my 3 years marriage has end 😅🙆♀️ Tuachane na watoto ya watu tutafute pesa pole sis
Gal don't be ashamed maybe u deserve better.. Be strong
Sending you love❤ You are enough❤
@@LynnNgugi Thanks 😊 🙏
My situation right now 😭
Same here.. Wedded in 2018 separated 2021 March... Sijapata nguvu ya kuambia watu😂
This is soo touching and helpful to me as a man who is divorced. This is so informative. Glad i stumbled into this story/testimony.
Unfortunately, I know EXACTLY what she experienced....because the same thing happened to me. Except it happened in the US with an African American man and it only lasted 1 yr!
Her step dad was a Liberian.....wonderful! I'm a Liberian too.
I thought he was white with that name, I like the history of Liberia, very interesting
I worked with him a very cool guy.
Welcome to the tales of wanjiku.
She’s a real one that fell into the wrong hands and relationship. Very rare girl. It’s also the owning up for me!
This story is very relatable to me. I thank God for snatching me out of a relationship that would have turned out like this before I committed.
Few women have confessed to this despite it being very common. Financing own stuff. I am so amazed at this lady’s bravery and standing strong to walk away from what she felt will not work. Thanks for inspiring other women. Walk away from unhealthy relationships, it is OKAY, it is NORMAL.
True👏👏👏
Most of the times when a lady finance for a wedding, it hardly do last
Oh this is a real life story, but you went to a marriage empty wanting a man to love you while you actually didn't have love to give yourself.
I love how she isn't playing victim, so sweet
This reminds me of someone I know! Women do strange things in search of love and acceptance. At the time of doing it it seems normal, but looking back you wonder what you were thinking. Thanks for sharing your story.
Feel like June's twin... can relate with this story 100%. Thanks for your courage to share this with the world, June. Great job, Lynn!
Even me 100% I'm gone through this but from June this year I decided to leave
Wonderful conversations! Thank you for sharing June! Lynn thanks for this platform! Wueh! This is the situation with many ladies unfortunately!
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This girl is exceptionally cute like you Lynn in your natural forms and the manner in which you carry yourselves. Big up.
Your guest's story mirrors what many go through in society. The only good thing is that she has taken a bold step to lay it bare for many in the same situation to learn and resonate with. I affirm her and the fact that she is in for therapy is even better and encouraging. As always, I am challenging us to reflect, review and process our own values. Who are we as an individual and how much is what we do now will impact on us tomorrow. The decisions we make today has a lot to do with the person we will find ourselves tomorrow. So before you engage in anything can you learn from others in forums like this Lynn's show?
This lady made her mistakes and she has owned up courageously and here today she is teaching you something without charging you a penny. She is our daughter, sister, role model and see how beautiful and brainy she is but still went through all such. This tells you that any one of us regardless of wealth, looks, status or background you are not indispensable. Mental health is live just as domestic violence has become a norm rather than exception. You guys especially ladies not yet married, stop, think, reevaluate and take time before you settle with a man. Seek all manner of advise, premarital counselling and life coaching before you settle with anyone. Many a times love is not enough if you must know.
If you organize yourselves in a forum as ready but not yet married ladies and gentlemen we as coaches can come in as guest speakers to give you moving stories on what goes on in society and best tips to guide you to happiness ever after. It's doable ladies. Never wish away these type of stories you listen on social media. It's a privilege that victims like June can come out courageously to share their personal stories bare and deep to the element of cheating both her man and herself. I applaud and affirm her fully.
June trust me, when with God, whatever you go through either negative or positive, its purposed. Don't let off His hand. In terms of divorce, as much as God hates divorce, never stay in an abusive or failed relationship to please or remain relevant.
Tips.
1. June as I affirm you, you don't need condemnation or judging. Next time walk with caution and stick to your values.
2. Never finance a full grown man. The responsibility of a man is to provide, protect and love you. Your money is yours and can contribute to anything that is going to support a family development cause.
3. Marriage before 23yrs at worst may cause challenges a head. Take time to know each other.
4. Never seek validation from anyone. Your life is yours, happiness and peace is yours. Be purposeful.
5. June, God's grace is sufficient for you and many other ladies out there who could be in the same situation as you.
6. June a man who knows God is not good enough because that has been faked many times by guys but sooner than later the sheep shades off the wool and the wolf image manifests.
7. This June experience is speaking direct to our minds. Do not shudder, sympathise and empathise only, interrogate your conscience while looking at the mirror.
8. June, a rebound happens and it can be uglier. From your story and beauty many guys will come in sounding angelic with all manner of promises or flashy looks to lure you, but know what? Refuse to be manipulated in your current vulnerable moment. Take sabbatical leave from love matters as you process. Take your daughters welfare and protection first before anyone else. Love and or bed matters are not enough. That innocent child's welfare takes precedence. Even at any given point in your life, should you start dating after fully healing, your daughter comes first, your self happiness and affirmation second then love that. Anything outside this order, my young daughter the end result can be worse than what you have already experienced. Stick to God purposely so that He can arrange and manage your life's journey to your destiny. Be coming to Lynn's show to tell us your transformation and trajectory God is taking you through. You are a nice woman. We wish you the best going forward as you heal. Shalom
@marriage and lie I am interested in your page n contacts ..kindly where can one find you??
I appreciate the gems that you always put out here.
@@ttj6063 😆😆😆 I didn't know I have germs but thanks for your compliment either way positive or negative!
Yes I also thought of the pattern , .. pray against the generation curse dear June..
@@balancedviewpoint7418 u do a beautiful job thanks
I ran away from this shit the moment I realized this man was ok taking money from me 🌝
This is a replica of my story.I thank God I have healed.You are doing a great job Lynn!
I was almost doing the same thing 2 months ago, I was rescued by God. Thanks for sharing this June
Hallelujahs, same to me
Nasambu wele oyuuu omulai🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@benadatemumelo8884 omulayi namwe omulayi yaya
Av made lots of mistake relationship wise plus av learn a lot from this online streets... I hope that will guide my steps and decisions in future... Help me God
In a marriage if the man has not burdened himself in doing what it means until the two are in marriage ,he will never feel that pain of loosing the wife and so ladies if a man loves you and wants you in marriage let him burden himself and account that cost .
SAY ITTTT LOUD BABY!!!!!!
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Not really, reciprocate the energy
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Many people are suffering, they are reaping the fruits planted by their ancestors. Nothing is new under the ☀️. God says we His children are perishing for lack of knowledge.
Great interview. Love June's story. Greatly educative. You're doing a great work, Daisy.
Representing Zambia. This woman is brave for sharing her story
I almost got myself into this, my ex was stingy, he would let me handle everything. He kept saying he wanted to marry me,but I was hesitant because I saw myself catering for the family introduction and wedding. His money was his, I one time asked him to pay 500 /= for my hair , he almost fought me, but he gave me silent treatment for 3 weeks. I opened business for us, he was to manage but used all the money for personal use. Eventually we broke up, and the day I was leaving,he almosted killed me by strangling me. I'm out.
That was a narcissist dear. You were abused emotionally, financially and physically. Seek therapy if need be.
@@jinnybikini Thank you, I did therapy, already, now I am dealing with the smear campaign but the good thing, it doesn't bother me about all him and his family are saying about me as I know myself better.
Hi how are you
@@juchu7507 doing good, I went for therapy and I have stayed NO contact for more than one year now.
I know exactly the type
The reasons I find myself hard to sponsor a man maybe kubuy food I can ie if am capable the rest afanye akishindwa atembeze kiatu
June's strength and the way of telling it all. May God continue being your pillar in all you do and may He give you your rib at His own time.
Her story really resonates so much with my life.and because of that,I now know what to do in terms of healing.thanks June for sharing.
You'll be well Kez
June, the fact that you own up to your mistakes and say sorry when you are about to say something private about someone says a lot about you. You are a agood woman. God bless you and baby
Your guest is very self aware of herself and able to self reflect on herself and takes responsibility for her actions. I try to do the same, i hope i can find a man with the same qualities..
God we bless you with your soul mate
Ladies, and mostly those who call themselves independant women, as I used to call myself. Paying for your ring and paying for your wedding is an indicator of your man character. So let him pay for it!!
Both should put resources together. Men respect men who bring something to the table. She shouldn't do all but she should contribute something.