My husband did not have an affair with the Househelp and I did not take her life | LNN
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- čas přidán 11. 01. 2023
- Imagine losing your househelp of 8 years then having people blame of you saying you took her life simply because your husband had an affair with her?
What does this do to your family, reputation and mind?
Here is Lydia’s tell it all on this episode of Tales of Wanjiku
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Encourage yourself in the Lord Lydia, may God encourage Njoki's family, may the one who killed this girl never ever see peace
LYNN I was thinking of the church.....the people she last parted ways with,the telephone conversation with the mother and finally........INTERVIEW THE HUSBAND.
Interview Njokis family too
God had called her home rest in peace Njoki
Lynn I know deep down this story ilikuchanganya....
I had one housegirl for 7 years, I helped her fill greencard, she won, now she is a US citizen, imagine that?
WAAAAOH 🥰 THKYU FOR TRCHNG A SOUL MAY LORD BLESS U AND YOUR FAMILY.UR A NYC PRSN
God bless you l
May God expand your territories ❤️
May God bless you.Betty Mbeche
And you? Still in Kenya ama you've never wanted to move to the USA. No offense. I'm asking coz Kenyans are obsessed with greencards
@LynnNgugi, please bring us Njoki's mum or aunt as well. We need to hear their side of the story as well. Hugs to them all
Yes my thoughts too
@100%
Correct
As someone who is going through a murder case I can tell you there is nothing someone will not say or do to prove their innocence. Hapa Kuna shida. Please also interview Njoki's family
Big up to all my fellow house managers 🙌 in kenya and here in gulf,we really work hard 👏 💪
Big up
Yes you do and may our good Lord continue to bless you and keep you safe
Big up💪
Big up girl mungu atuonekanie si rahisi
So sad mwenye mliuwa Njoki msikawai pata amani antill justice for her.....
If someone has ever accused u of doing something u never did u knows how this mom is feeling......it hurts alot
Yeah it really hurts
I know the pain I've been there once
It huts alot, aki watu wanaeza fanya utoke wazimu
🥺🥺🥺 was accused of stealing at my work place. Up to date Mimi na ulcers hatujawai achana. When I remember that day , but one day they will pay.
The pain is excruciating, and so damaging
Njoki can never RIP , this’s the reason the story has resurfaced. Her soul is still crying for justice, there’s definitely no peace for the wicked. #JUSTICEFORNJOKI
#JUSTICEFORNJOKI...… don't want to point fingers but there so many things left out....why did she cut off Njoki's family? Lynn please bring the mother/any relative of Njoki.
Not unless repentance takes place .
Why is she being haunted by Njoki ? Let’s start there!! Secondly, why did she shut down everything to do with Njoki? “By the Mention of her name”!! She’s trying so much to vindicate herself ,sorry but not sorry! Lyn please we need to hear from Njoki’s mother. “Only the truth shall set you free!”
Whenever my house manager used to go for her day off and she doesn't show up jioni that's what my husband used to say. So hiyo comment ni kawaida .
Let's not judge please.
Truth will be known sooner or later.
@@jayden4840 true, we need both sides of the story,Lydia looks so innocent,but am wondering why would the DCI consider her as a prime suspect, could be like Obado and Sharons case...Then again never be too fast to say, my husband can't have a relationship with the househelp....Gal, please. I feel the husband knows more than Lydia thinks he does....Why did the case disappeared? Money exchanged hands..I guess
Njoki was murdered by someone who knew her closely...Investigate the husband...This lady trusted Njoki too much and it could be True she had an affair with the husband.
Peace be with you Lydia.. sorry for the loss of your dear house manager,I never thought of such an experience..it must have been difficult for you and especially the kids..may God heal our community because it's very cruel inhuman to judge someone..
Lynn kindly bring Njoki's mother to the show and get to interview her,, please🙏 please🙏, please,🙏 please🙏,,, we as online DCI's will get to connect up some dotes,,,, my suggestion though
I second u
My thoughts too
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Why isn't anyone talking about the husband? I think he know more than Lydia thinks ...She may be so surprised..These men surprise us everyday irregardless of whether he was oversees or not .
You're with me my sister this man she's defending might know something that we don't know,, Bcoz these our men.....!mmmmmmmh.
That's true
,im not pointing a finger to anyone but its very rare for somebody to kill you if their is no connections.
When it comes to relationship only your husband knows the truth you cant speak on his behalf
If she knew something fishy btn her husband n the ldy, she hd to.......
This story is tricky...da maid was a church going gal...who I think can't date a married man...then wen u think ov da rship she had with da family....oooh God wat really happened?
@@kirabogloria2187 kwani what does going to church mean these days? Huko watu wanakulana ka nonsense. Ata pastors are having affairs with congregation
Very true ....many people live a double life ...we cannot be sure that there was no truth in the rumours .
Lynn please look for Njoki's mum..I feel a lot of overcompensating in this version.
For some reason I want to hear her family's side of the story
Defamation of character is a very serious crime , hug mama , blood is no longer what keep us together
I thank my mother who taught me to only speak what my eyes saw,,,imagine condemning this beautiful sweet soul..rest in peace njoki and may your killers one day be found..if police denied u justice,God will prevail it for u darling
For a househelp to work 8 years in one house shows the employer and employee were getting on well. 8 years is no small feat, even working in an office for 8 years would be a record. As for the rumours about her engagement or going to Naivasha, why was no one talking while she was alive? Where were the nosy neighbours to tell the employer about her escapades while Njoki was alive? Why talk after she's dead and cannot defend herself? Smh
When you're accused of something that you never did it really hurts ,
My sister it's true....aske me
Very true I have gone through a false accusation and I'm still depressed from the year 2018
True.😟😟
I know the feeling sorry Lydia
True 😢
Why do i see many red flags in this story🤔🤔🤔.. RIP Njoki. God knows the truth and the truth must prevail someday.
Lucy was such a wonderful servant of God. We worked with her in church and she was so humble. I remember Njoki we used to meet during youth camps and this lady would pray for hours. She used to serve pastors and all of us loved her. We lost such a powerful girl after God's own heart. We used to call her Kinjo I really understand what this woman is talking about. Those killers will never find peace.
Death is so painful , I remember people accusing as of killing our own mother,,, and it's something that can traumatize you,,, please society be careful with what you say
Wee..the society is a little bit harsh ...who does that
Is it possible tumezoea toxicity until when this lady talks good about the late we want to assert that she is pretending to portray her innocence? Where does that leave us? Mtu akiwa mzuri tuseme ni mbaya? The society crucifies the good and vindicates the wicked. Ask Jesus and Barnabas.... and this still happens to date....people for their own interest will always crucify the innocent....to validate their story....and interest...I do not know want transpired but I salute this lady for acknowledging she had a good girl ...Until you know somebody's heart do not judge.....May God's vindication and judgement stand...
This is so sad. To be blamed for the killing of someone you love is too painful. May the Lord give this lady peace and grant Njoki’s soul eternal rest.
I dont know this woman,but she doesnt sound like she had any grudges towards her househelp.she is full of praises for her and she sounds genuine.just my observations.
Sure, men should just learn to tame themsleves
Plot twist, the more you love someone and invest with them, the deeper betrayal would hit.
I personally know her, just a nice story.
@Agnes Ndumia so all this she shared was nothing but just a story?
@@agnesndumia1713 meaning?
Today I'm number One to comment wapi like za Lynn of doing a good job
Am so sorry for the loss & i hope justice will prevail.This story has so many gaps & questions.all parties should be interviewed(njoki's mum & Lydia's husband) Its not uncommon for powerful people to always hinder investigations.
In life,you may take a thousand years to bring out your innocence but who is a human being,we will always judge,stand with your truth ,I would wish Lynn you interview the husband and njoki's family member too
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So sorry to Lydia and Njoki's family. She was really a gem to Lydia's family. Keep her memories alive.
My ♥ goes out to this lady her n her family..the families of the young lady who has met an untimely death...please continue to pray n keep your faith high...the truth will come to light in due 🙏 🙏 unceasingly God will not keep silent.
Rumours come with false accusations. But God will never be deceived. Stay strong sister and know God is for the truth.
Lucy njoki was my classmate back at mathari primary school. She was a fast runner. We had nicknamed her "kagunyo"
Its sad wha happened to her. Murders in the coffee plantations in nyeri are very likely. Am sure the ones who killed her aren't at peace mahali wako. Lydia take heart. God will vindicate you.
God knows your heart Lydia and He is your vindicator. May His peace be your portion! ❤️🙏🏾
This is really sad...house managers got their life too and when they take day offs we never get to follow and know exactly what they tell us they did during the day off is true... anyone with a house help can find themselves in such a mess so easily....a tricky situation it is.
True
Me feeling bad for not getting a chance to meet you @ Lynn even after coming to Nyeri. To Lydia, may the Lord strengthen you and the truth will always stand out
Lynn being your biggest fan, I have never commented on your show but this one I have, and for sure am absolutely have nothing to say until I hear from Njoki's mother, thankyou🙌👏👏 Good job
She was the last person she spoke to
my Nanny came with us to Canada and how she is a Canadian citizen and working as nurse. she is part of our family.
🥺life is so unfair sometimes 😒 it's not easy to forget a kind person😭 May her soul rest in perfect peace 🕊️
May God heal you Lydia,,, God speak for you,,he says he knows us better than we...I really feel for you mama
I know Lydia, she's a great woman
May God heal her n her family
The tongue is strong enough to break a heart. Only God knows the truth. Don't let pple pull u down or try to justify urself. God is the Judge. May u have closure & may ur house help R.I.P 🙏🍀
Well till you are the one accused.
According to the story....Lydia seems and sounds innocent...its written all over her face that she has not yet healed from the loss because she has not yet found closure of what happened to Njoki...its very sad and devastating 😢....hopefully the truth will be out some day so that you can have peace in your heart...i believe you know your husband well and you are doing your best to defend him according to the way you know him....but i would request Lynn to have an interview with the husband alone because of the comment he made' something like maybe Njoki amepata bwana'....and also with Njoki's Mum alone....may be Njoki could have shared some personal problems with her mum....may God of justice prevail in this case.
If she wanted closure I think she would have atleast wanted to know the final autopsy report, she would not av cut ties with the family, n just as she had committed herself to burial expenses I think she'd av followed for her justice to push the DCI on the case.......but really?? I feel she is here only to cleanse her name n husband's.........
@@getinspiredfeelmotivated very true.... Lynn should reach for njokis mam a hear from her
Usually some househelps leave their employer secretly and gets married.From that point the husband had to think may be Njoki has followed suit!
@@getinspiredfeelmotivated im with you
@@getinspiredfeelmotivated I feel that as well. Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned, she’s just sanitizing herself but there’s a God of vengeance
Truth will come out one day for God is not mocked... people should stop judging and wait for God's time to unveil everything
the truth can come out even after 20year , with God nothing will left unturned. One day someone will come and say you remember that girl so and so then the truth will be out 🤞🏽
The way she describes the house help as her madam is very noble. So sorry for the loss
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Having stayed with a house help for 8 years says a lot what kind of a person Lydia is. May you find healing and peace ✌️ 🙏
Sorry 4 my fellow workers I have been working 4 more than 2 years and is not easy
This lady needs therapy too. Much as the house help was not an immediate family member, she impacted the children in a very special way. As a result, this family is also going through loss and grief. The children are definitely hardly hit and they should go through therapy; otherwise this loss will affect them for a very long time. May they find peace at this trying moment and may the departed soul rest in peace.
God's grace is always sufficient 🙏
May the Lord continue giving you peace Lydiah....the smartest nurse i know with very lovely and nice kept dreads
I never heard of this story it's my first time and I can tell this lady is innocent
So sad what the society has become “think before u talk or type “don’t judge without knowing the truth , thank u for sharing story .
people are not zombies to not think idiot.
I had a house girl like that in Rwanda. She had a baby and we stayed with the baby as our own. After she left our home, it became hard to employ a house gal again..
Am not judging anyone but i think someone from Njoki family should come out and cry for justice.
Yeah true
For sure bana kifo ni uchungu.
Am so sorry for you Lydia, we schooled in the same college at Consolata nursing school Nyeri n i knew you as good lady, may the Lord see you through this painful experience.
Expecially who talked with her the last time, should say what the talk was about, whether her sister or mother,they were supposed to say the truth
It's looks to me that the aunt should say more
So sorry for you Lydiah, I feel your pain coz I know this is nothing hurts like being accused falsely May you find peace and her soul rest in peace🙏
I was accused falsely by blood siblings for killing my beloved mom 😢.
A mother whom I took great care of until her last breath.If I never ran mad or had suicidal thoughts in that yr then nothing can shake me in this world nothing.
I forgave all but access to my life never ever again that trust was so broken when I was sooo vulnerable and mourning.
We will meet in heaven 🙌🏿.#Blood is no longer thicker than water.
Hugs darling...
May the blood of Jesus cleanse your heart and quicken your healing. you have to understand that you have something that they don't have that's why they hated on you. Just forget about it, forgive them and our Lord Jesus will reward you big time.
I will repeat that once again blood is no longer thick than water,I went exactly the same as you 2014 when my sister died on road accident I was accused falsely by close family members including my siblings 😢 💔 it hurts to the core,it took me years to forgive them and to let them out of my heart but since that day things are never the same again,I finally forgave them.
I know that feeling. Was accused of killing my dad and my mum by my two sisters. How? I have never understood. I just forgave them but chose to keep to myself.
I just wish I could give you a big hug. I agree with you 💯. Blood is no longer thicker than water. Nevertheless continue doing good. Im glad you've found peace.
This too deep..May justice for Njoki prevail
Only God knows the animals who took innocent life may God continue healing this mama and her family plus Njoki’s family and friends
I have gone back to listen to this story again,coz no no no no...she knows what happened to Njoki.her facial expressions aii nooo she knows what transpired..she has even contradicted herself by saying that day Njoki had carried the bag she had bought for her in the UK.alafu tena apo mbele akasema she wasn't feeling well even when Njoki left to go to church hawakuonana.woman,if you didn't see her that morning then how did you know she had carried the bag?wewe wacha kutubeba ivo.
This woman is a no go zone ooo
She said before she left Njoki called her n thy talked....listen in again
True 💗
@@zipporahmumbi9417 yes she called,but not seeing what she has carried
Maybe she found the handbag at the crime scene
Stay strong always people might talk bad about you but never give up mama
Lynn you have started with the best gym exercise of offloading the mind then body and soul will be aligned with God's will. I am happy she is clearing the doubtful minds of the narrative of home wrecking house managers. God bless you for freeing her soul from the accusations of the masses. Sudden death do occur. May her soul rest in peace eternal. Blessings 💓💓🙌🏽💪🏾🙋🏽🙏🏾
Very true
The people saying that the husband's statement is questionable have never had a househelp. Most househelps go to see their boyfriends during off days and that's a very common behavior. If I was in their shoes, I would think so too..
Hugs Mummy. Justice in Kenya is a joke. We need more private investigators to work on such cases and many more unresolved.
I'm really addicted to your channel lynn...hope to meet you in person someday 🥰💕
Lynn, our gal, you look beautiful.... And our guest is as beautiful. ❤️❤️
Waaaah so sad story 😭😭
God is faithful and merciful God🙏 you sound like a very good lady and kind boss🤩 you're very beautiful mamma too🌹 may God bless you mummy 🤗😘
Blessings to you Lynn
Minute 12 is Mostly Repeated, mara hakujua akitoka, mara alimwita wakaongea...which is which??
We need Njokis mum for part 2.
Alisema hakujua akitoka bt njoki called her wakaongea.called
Lynn this story has so many missing links.Anga in the morning she was sick,in the evening meeting...2020 kid missing a housegal who died in 2014... Cutting off her family members....
The 2020 kid missing the housegal I thought I got it wrong kumbe si mimi pekee,
Yeah some stuff not adding up too.. her composure too. Why did she cut ties with her family? She had an alibi with the hubby but pple do hire murderers. Every rumor has some elements of truth. Ya'll this one is not sitting well. Why did she say people were looking at her suspiciously? Was she guilty already? Why did she need to revisit the spot where she was found dead... she is not a forensic investigator. Who does that?
I love,respect, kindness for those one i work for,13yrs down
Very sorry you went through this and it's still at the back of your mind since the authorities haven't come up with the closure to this difficulty case.
VERY COMPLICATED!!!!!!! NO COMMENT!!!!!!
False accusations hurts alot it's painful I have been a victim
Woi soo many people go these through, it’s very unfair. My fmly was also a victim but in a different story, being mopped frm the whole home village. Nightmares haki…
Lydia, I pray for strength as you heal from raising trauma.
May Njoki continue to rest peacefully.
God bless you Lynn for the listening ear.
Lynne, please interview Njoki’s mom and Lydia’s husband too. That woman is the one that lost a daughter. May Njoki never rest until her murder is found. @Lydia you loved Njoki and Njoki loved you and your family. We never really get closure when we lose close to us through death. Though we learn to live with the pain. I believe you are not responsible for her death though please don’t talk for any other human being.er your husband clear his name by himself. Men will always find away to embarrass us!
I cannot imagine the pain Jaque's parents must be feeling. I hope this lady and her children can find it in their hearts to extend a hand of friendship to that family for Jaque's sake.
Lydia has a good heart. She talks well of people around her....she speaks highly of Njoki ,her neighbours and even her hubby.
The husband however.......wacha niende havi nakuja.
Pale mzee alisema mtu ameolewa and had only been missing for a few hours na umeishi nae for 8 years ndio ili ni put off na hii story. I'm totally cognizant of false accusations but hii sijaielewa kidogo. @lynn you should get the late family's side of the story.
And wakienda to place of scene alikua anaprepare polepole
Why was the guy slow to go to the scene as if he knew what they were to meet there ...weee this life mmmmh
That's how house helps get married, they just disappear,,,,I would also dismiss with the same words
I agree joan thats how some get married
You are overthinking. House helps are known to just up and go, and the next thing you know they have found a husband. It is not a surprise that he would half-joke about such a thing. I understand perfectly why he said this, and the context in which it was said.
Wow an emotional story I wanted to cry during this episode but unfortunately I failed to find the tears , may Jocky rest in peace, poor girl. 💔💔💔💔😓
Njoki sounds like the Perfect housewife!
Can we get to hear the other parties? To have one party defend herself is unfair. And "a rumour remains to be lie untill its denied " .
The lawyer in me refuses to take this ,that househelp deserves justice. I find some lacunas in the story .
1. Why did they sleep comfortably when she was missing
2. Husbands side of story.
3.why were they not willing to follow up with police before burying her
4.why did njokis family do little during her burial ? Were they smelling a rat?
5. Above all the body language as she narrates is queer.
I may be wrong but lets hear all sides including njokis family.
If you have ever employed a house girl you would know that it's normal for them not to return after a day off so your point number is invalidated
On this one I agree with you
So many gaps on her narration.
Lydia have peace God knows you are innocent.May Njokis family have peace.Njoki RIP.
Always remember when you are doing well with your house manager there are haters dying with jealousy..watch out..again girls and women should watch out..those who did this are still at large..looking for the next victim.
Please Lynn bring us njoki' s mum/aunt
The husband if possible because he's been alleged to have had a relationship with her. (May her soul rest in eternal peace).
As an online DCI would love to hear more from both parties.
Very true the husband must come also to speak his part also the whole family of njoki there we will judge ourselves please do this for us also njoki must have that true friend who knows her please bring her
@@bintibaibe1958 me too I feel I need to hear more testimonies to make judgement
Lynn my dear I thank God for Lydia now that she is healed from all the trauma n for Njoki may u continue to Rest In Peace n whoever was responsible for ur death is not at peace n will never find peace In Jesus name but Lynn u forgot without further ado the way it motivates me
So sad we're living in a society where people judge others or something even when they know nothing about them
When murder knocks everybody is a suspect
What a touching story, i pray that they may all find peace and closure. The young lady was clearly loved by her employer and the family at large.
Lydia Thanks for sharing your story. We pray for healing. Pole for loosing someone who lived withyoufor8years. Pole sana.
@Lynn,can we please get mama Njoki's side of the story,like what she talked about with Njoki that day on phone🤔
I support this 👆
My thoughts too alete the other side of mama njoki
@lynn aki please
Yes please
True it's good we hear from her mom
Hello Lynn and family this is heartbreaking
Such an amazing boss may the Lord God continue to bless you aki ,if all bosses were to be like that then everything could have been cool,I know I had hatred against kikuyu bosses but you've made me understand that God has just given each and everyone of just a gift on how to handle an empoyee
From my understanding it seems... her walking at night alone in the coffee plantation,she met with thugs or goons and that's where she met her fate.
My exact sentiments..... Iam so sick of all this judgemental comments.
High possibility
True. High possibility.
Exactly. I thought so too.. it doesn't really have to have a motive.
I agree
Aii Lyn haujasema without further ado 😉
Hugs mom, it's well with you ❤️
Oh my goodness!! I know this lady,she has a good heart. Am shocked she went through this haki. Lydia,may God give you peace that surpasses human understanding.
It is a very sad story. Lynn, may God bless you with your gift of listening and also comforing others and bringing this stories into light.
So sorry for your loss, hugs. You loved Njoki as one of your own I can feel the pain, as you talk... the bond you had with her, your family.. It really sad to be accused of such thing.. It pains keeping in mind she had become part of you. May you find peace in the Lord and may the killers of such innocent soul never experience peace ever. May Njoki soul RIP 🙏
I don't mean to be negative but here is a hard truth. After watching so many sanitization videos by Kenyans, it's hard for anyone to be sure that a husband is not cheating with a house help... Only God knows the truth.
My thoughts too
True mpaka pastors
May God heal and comfort joki's family, Lydia, her husband and children, the friends and all those that have been affected and traumatized by this dramatic demise.
Rip in peace njoki.
Lydia have the peace of God.
I believe you Lydiah. The justice that I so desire and seek for now is that you find rest in knowing that you gave her your best and God knows it. Period!!! The Lord who sees in secret will reward you openly and He will vindicate you.
This takes me back to 2020/2021 when I lost my elder brother... After the autopsy 'nothing ' was seen... The case wasn't even followed
In Kenya justice is the hardest to find.. May her family heal.
Am watching this woman's body language, and it says a lot. Police needs to do more.
Hata Mimi simwamini kabisa
@@benardmungasia6909 same here anajitetea sana
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Very sad..that we just judge people by looking at them. What would we feel if we were told we did something that we never did. It is better to be neutral
So painful. Take heart Lydia. May God expose those killers
May her soul rest in peace and justice will prevail