My husband did not have an affair with the Househelp and I did not take her life | LNN

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  • Imagine losing your househelp of 8 years then having people blame of you saying you took her life simply because your husband had an affair with her?
    What does this do to your family, reputation and mind?
    Here is Lydia’s tell it all on this episode of Tales of Wanjiku
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  Před rokem +109

    Hello team LNN,
    Sorry we were an hour late uploading today’s episode🙏
    What message do you have for Lydia? You can reach her on 0720 360 163
    To share your story with us, please send a summary to Info@Lnn.digital for consideration
    May Njoki’s soul continue resting in peace.
    Thank you for watching

    • @kateleenwanjiko3188
      @kateleenwanjiko3188 Před rokem +3

      Encourage yourself in the Lord Lydia, may God encourage Njoki's family, may the one who killed this girl never ever see peace

    • @dorcusliech6953
      @dorcusliech6953 Před rokem +6

      LYNN I was thinking of the church.....the people she last parted ways with,the telephone conversation with the mother and finally........INTERVIEW THE HUSBAND.

    • @lynettecaffaso1862
      @lynettecaffaso1862 Před rokem +4

      Interview Njokis family too

    • @bigbellytv.3610
      @bigbellytv.3610 Před rokem

      God had called her home rest in peace Njoki

    • @irenenjoki4082
      @irenenjoki4082 Před rokem +8

      Lynn I know deep down this story ilikuchanganya....

  • @waithiragituru8120
    @waithiragituru8120 Před rokem +647

    I had one housegirl for 7 years, I helped her fill greencard, she won, now she is a US citizen, imagine that?

    • @janenjeri427
      @janenjeri427 Před rokem +9

      WAAAAOH 🥰 THKYU FOR TRCHNG A SOUL MAY LORD BLESS U AND YOUR FAMILY.UR A NYC PRSN

    • @christinemugeni414
      @christinemugeni414 Před rokem +3

      God bless you l

    • @millicentmuriuki3564
      @millicentmuriuki3564 Před rokem +10

      May God expand your territories ❤️

    • @richardmbeche8026
      @richardmbeche8026 Před rokem +6

      May God bless you.Betty Mbeche

    • @Habibtay
      @Habibtay Před rokem +17

      And you? Still in Kenya ama you've never wanted to move to the USA. No offense. I'm asking coz Kenyans are obsessed with greencards

  • @mercykamonde413
    @mercykamonde413 Před rokem +140

    @LynnNgugi, please bring us Njoki's mum or aunt as well. We need to hear their side of the story as well. Hugs to them all

  • @emilywangui
    @emilywangui Před rokem +252

    Big up to all my fellow house managers 🙌 in kenya and here in gulf,we really work hard 👏 💪

  • @taabu23
    @taabu23 Před rokem +78

    As someone who is going through a murder case I can tell you there is nothing someone will not say or do to prove their innocence. Hapa Kuna shida. Please also interview Njoki's family

  • @priscillandungi3958
    @priscillandungi3958 Před rokem +78

    Lynn kindly bring Njoki's mother to the show and get to interview her,, please🙏 please🙏, please,🙏 please🙏,,, we as online DCI's will get to connect up some dotes,,,, my suggestion though

  • @mamaBright3
    @mamaBright3 Před rokem +273

    If someone has ever accused u of doing something u never did u knows how this mom is feeling......it hurts alot

    • @cuteangel9355
      @cuteangel9355 Před rokem +1

      Yeah it really hurts

    • @lilianwanjira
      @lilianwanjira Před rokem +5

      I know the pain I've been there once

    • @gracewanja1297
      @gracewanja1297 Před rokem +3

      It huts alot, aki watu wanaeza fanya utoke wazimu

    • @musabidismas6757
      @musabidismas6757 Před rokem +8

      🥺🥺🥺 was accused of stealing at my work place. Up to date Mimi na ulcers hatujawai achana. When I remember that day , but one day they will pay.

    • @elonnathan1057
      @elonnathan1057 Před rokem +3

      The pain is excruciating, and so damaging

  • @jayden4840
    @jayden4840 Před rokem +156

    Njoki can never RIP , this’s the reason the story has resurfaced. Her soul is still crying for justice, there’s definitely no peace for the wicked. #JUSTICEFORNJOKI

    • @sherrysherry9328
      @sherrysherry9328 Před rokem +33

      #JUSTICEFORNJOKI...… don't want to point fingers but there so many things left out....why did she cut off Njoki's family? Lynn please bring the mother/any relative of Njoki.

    • @mwikalijosephine5178
      @mwikalijosephine5178 Před rokem +4

      Not unless repentance takes place .

    • @jayden4840
      @jayden4840 Před rokem +35

      Why is she being haunted by Njoki ? Let’s start there!! Secondly, why did she shut down everything to do with Njoki? “By the Mention of her name”!! She’s trying so much to vindicate herself ,sorry but not sorry! Lyn please we need to hear from Njoki’s mother. “Only the truth shall set you free!”

    • @nyamburathuku5624
      @nyamburathuku5624 Před rokem +15

      Whenever my house manager used to go for her day off and she doesn't show up jioni that's what my husband used to say. So hiyo comment ni kawaida .
      Let's not judge please.
      Truth will be known sooner or later.

    • @owuorherine5248
      @owuorherine5248 Před rokem +16

      @@jayden4840 true, we need both sides of the story,Lydia looks so innocent,but am wondering why would the DCI consider her as a prime suspect, could be like Obado and Sharons case...Then again never be too fast to say, my husband can't have a relationship with the househelp....Gal, please. I feel the husband knows more than Lydia thinks he does....Why did the case disappeared? Money exchanged hands..I guess

  • @MaryMackori
    @MaryMackori Před rokem +13

    Njoki was murdered by someone who knew her closely...Investigate the husband...This lady trusted Njoki too much and it could be True she had an affair with the husband.

  • @nellyrichy
    @nellyrichy Před rokem +109

    When you're accused of something that you never did it really hurts ,

  • @victoriaadhiambo1021
    @victoriaadhiambo1021 Před rokem +53

    I dont know this woman,but she doesnt sound like she had any grudges towards her househelp.she is full of praises for her and she sounds genuine.just my observations.

    • @merianamichaels4768
      @merianamichaels4768 Před rokem +1

      Sure, men should just learn to tame themsleves

    • @reenmimmo4809
      @reenmimmo4809 Před rokem +14

      Plot twist, the more you love someone and invest with them, the deeper betrayal would hit.

    • @agnesndumia1713
      @agnesndumia1713 Před rokem +6

      I personally know her, just a nice story.

    • @adandarwed8218
      @adandarwed8218 Před rokem

      @Agnes Ndumia so all this she shared was nothing but just a story?

    • @trizam1159
      @trizam1159 Před rokem

      @@agnesndumia1713 meaning?

  • @owuorherine5248
    @owuorherine5248 Před rokem +52

    Why isn't anyone talking about the husband? I think he know more than Lydia thinks ...She may be so surprised..These men surprise us everyday irregardless of whether he was oversees or not .

    • @agwalubifaridah7079
      @agwalubifaridah7079 Před rokem +2

      You're with me my sister this man she's defending might know something that we don't know,, Bcoz these our men.....!mmmmmmmh.

    • @blackqueen7710
      @blackqueen7710 Před rokem

      That's true

    • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
      @user-wr9fn4ny4i Před rokem

      ​,im not pointing a finger to anyone but its very rare for somebody to kill you if their is no connections.

  • @leilazulpha3205
    @leilazulpha3205 Před rokem +45

    Today I'm number One to comment wapi like za Lynn of doing a good job

  • @cideekhaseke9653
    @cideekhaseke9653 Před rokem +14

    Is it possible tumezoea toxicity until when this lady talks good about the late we want to assert that she is pretending to portray her innocence? Where does that leave us? Mtu akiwa mzuri tuseme ni mbaya? The society crucifies the good and vindicates the wicked. Ask Jesus and Barnabas.... and this still happens to date....people for their own interest will always crucify the innocent....to validate their story....and interest...I do not know want transpired but I salute this lady for acknowledging she had a good girl ...Until you know somebody's heart do not judge.....May God's vindication and judgement stand...

  • @foodmistrexxvivian114
    @foodmistrexxvivian114 Před rokem +16

    Why do i see many red flags in this story🤔🤔🤔.. RIP Njoki. God knows the truth and the truth must prevail someday.

  • @Oshanamiisicooks
    @Oshanamiisicooks Před rokem +19

    I thank my mother who taught me to only speak what my eyes saw,,,imagine condemning this beautiful sweet soul..rest in peace njoki and may your killers one day be found..if police denied u justice,God will prevail it for u darling

  • @faithmaina2784
    @faithmaina2784 Před rokem +31

    Defamation of character is a very serious crime , hug mama , blood is no longer what keep us together

  • @ev.jasonkinyua
    @ev.jasonkinyua Před rokem +15

    Lucy was such a wonderful servant of God. We worked with her in church and she was so humble. I remember Njoki we used to meet during youth camps and this lady would pray for hours. She used to serve pastors and all of us loved her. We lost such a powerful girl after God's own heart. We used to call her Kinjo I really understand what this woman is talking about. Those killers will never find peace.

  • @bradinjuma227
    @bradinjuma227 Před rokem +19

    Death is so painful , I remember people accusing as of killing our own mother,,, and it's something that can traumatize you,,, please society be careful with what you say

  • @agnesnjeri8402
    @agnesnjeri8402 Před rokem +48

    Peace be with you Lydia.. sorry for the loss of your dear house manager,I never thought of such an experience..it must have been difficult for you and especially the kids..may God heal our community because it's very cruel inhuman to judge someone..

  • @phyllybinerngaywa6829
    @phyllybinerngaywa6829 Před rokem +94

    When it comes to relationship only your husband knows the truth you cant speak on his behalf

    • @Rutawaguka
      @Rutawaguka Před rokem +3

      If she knew something fishy btn her husband n the ldy, she hd to.......

    • @kirabogloria2187
      @kirabogloria2187 Před rokem +2

      This story is tricky...da maid was a church going gal...who I think can't date a married man...then wen u think ov da rship she had with da family....oooh God wat really happened?

    • @kinara5365
      @kinara5365 Před rokem +18

      @@kirabogloria2187 kwani what does going to church mean these days? Huko watu wanakulana ka nonsense. Ata pastors are having affairs with congregation

    • @mimid.6675
      @mimid.6675 Před rokem +1

      Very true ....many people live a double life ...we cannot be sure that there was no truth in the rumours .

  • @chebi5704
    @chebi5704 Před rokem +43

    In life,you may take a thousand years to bring out your innocence but who is a human being,we will always judge,stand with your truth ,I would wish Lynn you interview the husband and njoki's family member too

  • @leonalee392
    @leonalee392 Před rokem +83

    According to the story....Lydia seems and sounds innocent...its written all over her face that she has not yet healed from the loss because she has not yet found closure of what happened to Njoki...its very sad and devastating 😢....hopefully the truth will be out some day so that you can have peace in your heart...i believe you know your husband well and you are doing your best to defend him according to the way you know him....but i would request Lynn to have an interview with the husband alone because of the comment he made' something like maybe Njoki amepata bwana'....and also with Njoki's Mum alone....may be Njoki could have shared some personal problems with her mum....may God of justice prevail in this case.

    • @getinspiredfeelmotivated
      @getinspiredfeelmotivated Před rokem +22

      If she wanted closure I think she would have atleast wanted to know the final autopsy report, she would not av cut ties with the family, n just as she had committed herself to burial expenses I think she'd av followed for her justice to push the DCI on the case.......but really?? I feel she is here only to cleanse her name n husband's.........

    • @jecintawachuka2419
      @jecintawachuka2419 Před rokem +8

      @@getinspiredfeelmotivated very true.... Lynn should reach for njokis mam a hear from her

    • @eunicenjeru215
      @eunicenjeru215 Před rokem +14

      Usually some househelps leave their employer secretly and gets married.From that point the husband had to think may be Njoki has followed suit!

    • @sithandweyinkosimoyo9154
      @sithandweyinkosimoyo9154 Před rokem

      @@getinspiredfeelmotivated im with you

    • @karenm605
      @karenm605 Před rokem +1

      @@getinspiredfeelmotivated I feel that as well. Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned, she’s just sanitizing herself but there’s a God of vengeance

  • @annesmith5633
    @annesmith5633 Před rokem +5

    my Nanny came with us to Canada and how she is a Canadian citizen and working as nurse. she is part of our family.

  • @florenceojowa7706
    @florenceojowa7706 Před rokem +60

    This is so sad. To be blamed for the killing of someone you love is too painful. May the Lord give this lady peace and grant Njoki’s soul eternal rest.

  • @paulinekamau9633
    @paulinekamau9633 Před rokem +111

    The way she describes the house help as her madam is very noble. So sorry for the loss

  • @serahndiritu3466
    @serahndiritu3466 Před rokem +19

    Lynn please look for Njoki's mum..I feel a lot of overcompensating in this version.
    For some reason I want to hear her family's side of the story

  • @carolwanjirakinyua7967
    @carolwanjirakinyua7967 Před rokem +36

    This is really sad...house managers got their life too and when they take day offs we never get to follow and know exactly what they tell us they did during the day off is true... anyone with a house help can find themselves in such a mess so easily....a tricky situation it is.

  • @florencewanjikuo5445
    @florencewanjikuo5445 Před rokem +41

    Truth will come out one day for God is not mocked... people should stop judging and wait for God's time to unveil everything

  • @juddykananu1630
    @juddykananu1630 Před rokem +65

    Am not judging anyone but i think someone from Njoki family should come out and cry for justice.

    • @chefbrendagalay
      @chefbrendagalay Před rokem +1

      Yeah true

    • @elizabethlukale4474
      @elizabethlukale4474 Před rokem +3

      For sure bana kifo ni uchungu.

    • @SusanWMaina-zj1tx
      @SusanWMaina-zj1tx Před rokem +2

      Am so sorry for you Lydia, we schooled in the same college at Consolata nursing school Nyeri n i knew you as good lady, may the Lord see you through this painful experience.

    • @irinemugambi2048
      @irinemugambi2048 Před rokem

      Expecially who talked with her the last time, should say what the talk was about, whether her sister or mother,they were supposed to say the truth

    • @ivymarani
      @ivymarani Před rokem

      It's looks to me that the aunt should say more

  • @Kezia-rashford
    @Kezia-rashford Před rokem +27

    I never heard of this story it's my first time and I can tell this lady is innocent

  • @rahabmuthoni9565
    @rahabmuthoni9565 Před rokem +29

    Lynn being your biggest fan, I have never commented on your show but this one I have, and for sure am absolutely have nothing to say until I hear from Njoki's mother, thankyou🙌👏👏 Good job

  • @luciawambui1500
    @luciawambui1500 Před rokem +22

    I have gone back to listen to this story again,coz no no no no...she knows what happened to Njoki.her facial expressions aii nooo she knows what transpired..she has even contradicted herself by saying that day Njoki had carried the bag she had bought for her in the UK.alafu tena apo mbele akasema she wasn't feeling well even when Njoki left to go to church hawakuonana.woman,if you didn't see her that morning then how did you know she had carried the bag?wewe wacha kutubeba ivo.

  • @9094321
    @9094321 Před rokem +10

    Am watching this woman's body language, and it says a lot. Police needs to do more.

    • @benardmungasia6909
      @benardmungasia6909 Před rokem +2

      Hata Mimi simwamini kabisa

    • @agnesmwende7874
      @agnesmwende7874 Před rokem

      @@benardmungasia6909 same here anajitetea sana

    • @beatriceatieno876
      @beatriceatieno876 Před 8 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂haki

    • @gatoshup
      @gatoshup Před 5 měsíci

      Very sad..that we just judge people by looking at them. What would we feel if we were told we did something that we never did. It is better to be neutral

  • @milcahgathoni5961
    @milcahgathoni5961 Před rokem +28

    So sorry to Lydia and Njoki's family. She was really a gem to Lydia's family. Keep her memories alive.

  • @Moraa-b8s
    @Moraa-b8s Před rokem +8

    Lynn this story has so many missing links.Anga in the morning she was sick,in the evening meeting...2020 kid missing a housegal who died in 2014... Cutting off her family members....

    • @viviannyagaka9968
      @viviannyagaka9968 Před rokem +1

      The 2020 kid missing the housegal I thought I got it wrong kumbe si mimi pekee,

    • @carolyngateri5118
      @carolyngateri5118 Před rokem

      Yeah some stuff not adding up too.. her composure too. Why did she cut ties with her family? She had an alibi with the hubby but pple do hire murderers. Every rumor has some elements of truth. Ya'll this one is not sitting well. Why did she say people were looking at her suspiciously? Was she guilty already? Why did she need to revisit the spot where she was found dead... she is not a forensic investigator. Who does that?

  • @MissT292
    @MissT292 Před rokem +14

    I know Lydia, she's a great woman
    May God heal her n her family

  • @vivianemakini3971
    @vivianemakini3971 Před rokem +37

    Please Lynn bring us njoki' s mum/aunt
    The husband if possible because he's been alleged to have had a relationship with her. (May her soul rest in eternal peace).
    As an online DCI would love to hear more from both parties.

    • @josephinemwikali7192
      @josephinemwikali7192 Před rokem

      @@bintibaibe1958 me too I feel I need to hear more testimonies to make judgement

  • @nazarenewangari
    @nazarenewangari Před rokem +18

    Lucy njoki was my classmate back at mathari primary school. She was a fast runner. We had nicknamed her "kagunyo"
    Its sad wha happened to her. Murders in the coffee plantations in nyeri are very likely. Am sure the ones who killed her aren't at peace mahali wako. Lydia take heart. God will vindicate you.

  • @fleviannaomi4888
    @fleviannaomi4888 Před rokem +6

    Minute 12 is Mostly Repeated, mara hakujua akitoka, mara alimwita wakaongea...which is which??
    We need Njokis mum for part 2.

    • @alicewanjiru6278
      @alicewanjiru6278 Před rokem

      Alisema hakujua akitoka bt njoki called her wakaongea.called

  • @Sabrina1977-y
    @Sabrina1977-y Před rokem +18

    VERY COMPLICATED!!!!!!! NO COMMENT!!!!!!

  • @leahkariuki5656
    @leahkariuki5656 Před rokem +15

    Am so sorry for the loss & i hope justice will prevail.This story has so many gaps & questions.all parties should be interviewed(njoki's mum & Lydia's husband) Its not uncommon for powerful people to always hinder investigations.

  • @agneskimotho8047
    @agneskimotho8047 Před rokem +16

    Rumours come with false accusations. But God will never be deceived. Stay strong sister and know God is for the truth.

  • @nancywachira6156
    @nancywachira6156 Před rokem +44

    Having stayed with a house help for 8 years says a lot what kind of a person Lydia is. May you find healing and peace ✌️ 🙏

    • @faithwambui8505
      @faithwambui8505 Před rokem +1

      Sorry 4 my fellow workers I have been working 4 more than 2 years and is not easy

  • @MissJacqee
    @MissJacqee Před rokem +23

    For a househelp to work 8 years in one house shows the employer and employee were getting on well. 8 years is no small feat, even working in an office for 8 years would be a record. As for the rumours about her engagement or going to Naivasha, why was no one talking while she was alive? Where were the nosy neighbours to tell the employer about her escapades while Njoki was alive? Why talk after she's dead and cannot defend herself? Smh

  • @mawama6719
    @mawama6719 Před rokem +17

    Njoki sounds like the Perfect housewife!

  • @florenceojowa7706
    @florenceojowa7706 Před rokem +11

    This lady needs therapy too. Much as the house help was not an immediate family member, she impacted the children in a very special way. As a result, this family is also going through loss and grief. The children are definitely hardly hit and they should go through therapy; otherwise this loss will affect them for a very long time. May they find peace at this trying moment and may the departed soul rest in peace.

  • @IANA2030
    @IANA2030 Před rokem +117

    I was accused falsely by blood siblings for killing my beloved mom 😢.
    A mother whom I took great care of until her last breath.If I never ran mad or had suicidal thoughts in that yr then nothing can shake me in this world nothing.
    I forgave all but access to my life never ever again that trust was so broken when I was sooo vulnerable and mourning.
    We will meet in heaven 🙌🏿.#Blood is no longer thicker than water.

    • @lilymnyash
      @lilymnyash Před rokem

      Hugs darling...

    • @theadentofamily8234
      @theadentofamily8234 Před rokem +5

      May the blood of Jesus cleanse your heart and quicken your healing. you have to understand that you have something that they don't have that's why they hated on you. Just forget about it, forgive them and our Lord Jesus will reward you big time.

    • @jennifermuli9148
      @jennifermuli9148 Před rokem +10

      I will repeat that once again blood is no longer thick than water,I went exactly the same as you 2014 when my sister died on road accident I was accused falsely by close family members including my siblings 😢 💔 it hurts to the core,it took me years to forgive them and to let them out of my heart but since that day things are never the same again,I finally forgave them.

    • @loiseprince
      @loiseprince Před rokem +6

      I know that feeling. Was accused of killing my dad and my mum by my two sisters. How? I have never understood. I just forgave them but chose to keep to myself.

    • @BEST_LYRIC
      @BEST_LYRIC Před rokem +5

      I just wish I could give you a big hug. I agree with you 💯. Blood is no longer thicker than water. Nevertheless continue doing good. Im glad you've found peace.

  • @KuiWaKamau
    @KuiWaKamau Před rokem +17

    The tongue is strong enough to break a heart. Only God knows the truth. Don't let pple pull u down or try to justify urself. God is the Judge. May u have closure & may ur house help R.I.P 🙏🍀

    • @wambui3862
      @wambui3862 Před rokem +1

      Well till you are the one accused.

  • @sarahwambui5287
    @sarahwambui5287 Před rokem +35

    False accusations hurts alot it's painful I have been a victim

    • @Bsp579
      @Bsp579 Před rokem

      Woi soo many people go these through, it’s very unfair. My fmly was also a victim but in a different story, being mopped frm the whole home village. Nightmares haki…

  • @karrymaish3914
    @karrymaish3914 Před rokem +15

    She describes njoki as a good person but how she was used to Njoki not replying her messages issa red flag for me!

    • @beatricewanjiku4423
      @beatricewanjiku4423 Před rokem +3

      I had one who could not reply my messages so its possible.

    • @cw-tp4qx
      @cw-tp4qx Před rokem +1

      And also the day njoki left on that fateful morning she never got to see her, doesn't add up and you are in the same house?

    • @annmbugua30
      @annmbugua30 Před rokem +1

      Am one I don't reply all the time

    • @marynjoki5673
      @marynjoki5673 Před rokem

      I don't reply my boss message infact she had to buy a house phone coz is very rare I reply on tyme

    • @chelseasecurityservisesltd4013
      @chelseasecurityservisesltd4013 Před rokem +2

      I have a house gal for 9 years we understand each other very well but she never reply my sms..but she always do as i order her to fo

  • @lynnetyalbert4008
    @lynnetyalbert4008 Před rokem +58

    It's only God and Njoki who really know the truth

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu Před rokem +9

    the truth can come out even after 20year , with God nothing will left unturned. One day someone will come and say you remember that girl so and so then the truth will be out 🤞🏽

  • @callmeGloria1821
    @callmeGloria1821 Před rokem +36

    From my understanding it seems... her walking at night alone in the coffee plantation,she met with thugs or goons and that's where she met her fate.

  • @FaithChepkemoi-wz9xn
    @FaithChepkemoi-wz9xn Před rokem +12

    Me feeling bad for not getting a chance to meet you @ Lynn even after coming to Nyeri. To Lydia, may the Lord strengthen you and the truth will always stand out

  • @tausikoko8671
    @tausikoko8671 Před rokem +7

    Lynne, please interview Njoki’s mom and Lydia’s husband too. That woman is the one that lost a daughter. May Njoki never rest until her murder is found. @Lydia you loved Njoki and Njoki loved you and your family. We never really get closure when we lose close to us through death. Though we learn to live with the pain. I believe you are not responsible for her death though please don’t talk for any other human being.er your husband clear his name by himself. Men will always find away to embarrass us!

  • @ruthkamau7944
    @ruthkamau7944 Před rokem +5

    Lydia has a good heart. She talks well of people around her....she speaks highly of Njoki ,her neighbours and even her hubby.
    The husband however.......wacha niende havi nakuja.

  • @theRoyalPriesthood2024
    @theRoyalPriesthood2024 Před rokem +9

    I had a house girl like that in Rwanda. She had a baby and we stayed with the baby as our own. After she left our home, it became hard to employ a house gal again..

  • @irenemutie36
    @irenemutie36 Před rokem +105

    I'm I the only one who likes first even before lynn aanze kuongea

  • @mawama6719
    @mawama6719 Před rokem +14

    some people would be jealous if "another woman" took "over" their house and children.

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Před rokem +1

      How did she take over her house and children? All she had to do was fire her if she felt threatened!

    • @mawama6719
      @mawama6719 Před rokem

      @@bellaolum9768 who said she took over??

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Před rokem

      @@mawama6719 I deduced that from your comment

    • @esthersbucketlist
      @esthersbucketlist Před 10 měsíci

      @@bellaolum9768exactly

  • @Dorismteuledestiny
    @Dorismteuledestiny Před rokem +83

    The lady has spoken her part , what of the husband 🙄🙄, you never know he was the one responsible for all that. Continue resting in peace ✌️ Njoki my love 💕,I was almost killed by my male boss for threatening to expose him to his wife that he slept with me

    • @bredawakio5381
      @bredawakio5381 Před rokem

      Aish I knew a rotten potato with be there...stupid f**l the wife came on behalf of her family husband included...acha kutafuta mAneno mbwa w"*

    • @naomabenga5902
      @naomabenga5902 Před rokem +5

      True

    • @babradomenic7564
      @babradomenic7564 Před rokem +6

      My thoughts Exactly 🤔🤔

    • @thelookout5802
      @thelookout5802 Před rokem

      So basically after sleeping with someone's husband freely, unless you were raped, you were going to open your mouth and tell the wife why? When you began, did you tell her? We're you blackmailing him by any chance? That one will get you killed if you joke...

    • @josephinemulama6338
      @josephinemulama6338 Před rokem +1

      Why are you saying you threatened him, meaning your deal of sleeping with him had gone sour,if he didn't rape you why didn't you come out when he began his sexual advances to you

  • @Naghea
    @Naghea Před rokem +6

    If I were this woman, I wouldn't even come to do a sit down like this because from this you open new doors some might be very negative because people like twisting things. Have the closure you need for yourself and your family only.

  • @dianawanjirumumbi9002
    @dianawanjirumumbi9002 Před rokem +14

    Please Lynn bring Njoki's family and the husband,we need to hear their side of the story,then we can be able to know what transpired,May she RIP

    • @fridahinganga8561
      @fridahinganga8561 Před rokem +6

      Social media DCI need to analyze and come to conclusion 😂not a laughing Matter though

  • @murugithecook
    @murugithecook Před rokem +10

    Hugs Mummy. Justice in Kenya is a joke. We need more private investigators to work on such cases and many more unresolved.

  • @lucywambui6977
    @lucywambui6977 Před rokem +50

    @Lynn,can we please get mama Njoki's side of the story,like what she talked about with Njoki that day on phone🤔

  • @Naghea
    @Naghea Před rokem +15

    The people saying that the husband's statement is questionable have never had a househelp. Most househelps go to see their boyfriends during off days and that's a very common behavior. If I was in their shoes, I would think so too..

  • @marymaina9090
    @marymaina9090 Před rokem +7

    I remember this story and how her body was found uko kamwenja kwa coffee n the rumours that went through n how we looked at this woman during the burial ....me i just admired this woman

    • @beatricewanjiku4423
      @beatricewanjiku4423 Před rokem

      When did it happen?

    • @marymaina9090
      @marymaina9090 Před rokem +6

      @@beatricewanjiku4423 back 2014 I remember that story and saw her lifeless body it was said alikua ametoka fellowship kihuyo at that time kulikua na ukora mingi sana hio barabara coz it passes through a coffee plantation

  • @nonkosingumbela5140
    @nonkosingumbela5140 Před rokem +23

    I cannot imagine the pain Jaque's parents must be feeling. I hope this lady and her children can find it in their hearts to extend a hand of friendship to that family for Jaque's sake.

  • @elizabethwacira2561
    @elizabethwacira2561 Před rokem +7

    Always remember when you are doing well with your house manager there are haters dying with jealousy..watch out..again girls and women should watch out..those who did this are still at large..looking for the next victim.

  • @anenaevaline9761
    @anenaevaline9761 Před rokem +34

    Listening to her story, she was so attached to the girl. Leave it to God to expose the real culprit. People will always talk. Thanks Lynn for what you are doing 👏👏👏.

    • @yasminoluoch169
      @yasminoluoch169 Před rokem +1

      The coment I was looking 4..your very true

    • @georginaopati9587
      @georginaopati9587 Před rokem +1

      Verry true and if she was bad to njoki... njoki hangefanyq job hizo miaka zote coz akona off on sunday anaeza enda na asirudi ...Kenya sio saudia.

  • @lilymnyash
    @lilymnyash Před rokem +16

    Aii Lyn haujasema without further ado 😉

  • @jacquelinegolding4608
    @jacquelinegolding4608 Před rokem +6

    My ♥ goes out to this lady her n her family..the families of the young lady who has met an untimely death...please continue to pray n keep your faith high...the truth will come to light in due 🙏 🙏 unceasingly God will not keep silent.

  • @vannessanaomi
    @vannessanaomi Před rokem +41

    I know how this lady is feeling .I was accused to kill my best and best of all my real dad.who was the only parent left..I know its not easy I passed all those process of DCI. BUT GOD is God after postmurtem. He was discovers died of stroke 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @elizabethkaleli5222
    @elizabethkaleli5222 Před rokem +12

    Hii story reminds me of my former househelp called Mary ,but she is alive but when she left my house I tried to look for girl like her but sijawahi pata,yes there are good house helps.Njoki RIP.

    • @maggienjengah4812
      @maggienjengah4812 Před rokem

      I have a house mama called Mary this is her 10th yr in my house. I even left her in my house and I came to work abroad

    • @margaretsyomiti4688
      @margaretsyomiti4688 Před rokem

      Mine was called Mariam.. i stayed with her for 5 years.... i can get a replacement!

  • @wk4193
    @wk4193 Před rokem +5

    People are so insensitive. Why judge this lady so harshly?

  • @lauraseurei
    @lauraseurei Před rokem +15

    Can we get to hear the other parties? To have one party defend herself is unfair. And "a rumour remains to be lie untill its denied " .
    The lawyer in me refuses to take this ,that househelp deserves justice. I find some lacunas in the story .
    1. Why did they sleep comfortably when she was missing
    2. Husbands side of story.
    3.why were they not willing to follow up with police before burying her
    4.why did njokis family do little during her burial ? Were they smelling a rat?
    5. Above all the body language as she narrates is queer.
    I may be wrong but lets hear all sides including njokis family.

    • @kishngatia
      @kishngatia Před rokem +1

      If you have ever employed a house girl you would know that it's normal for them not to return after a day off so your point number is invalidated

    • @siscoke7536
      @siscoke7536 Před 8 měsíci

      On this one I agree with you
      So many gaps on her narration.

  • @liznjoki5958
    @liznjoki5958 Před rokem +16

    Maybe someone wanted her and she never wanted anything to do with that person akaamua kumuua or maybe akipita in that tea plantation someone akamtokea tu I remember one time a friend of mine was walking in Nakuru streets and someone just comes out na akaanza kumnyonga na akimuuliza anataka Nini that person was telling her anataka uhai wake🙆aki alimnyonga adi huwa anaumwa na shingo till now,if not for boda guys walitokea she would have died,na Bado huyo mtu alikuwa anawaambi ati huyo ni mke wake hawafai kuingilia weeh🙆🙆🤦

  • @kezzybett1142
    @kezzybett1142 Před rokem +15

    Why did she want to cut communication completely? Why was she worried about her security ?.why was she seing Njoki's image in the window ???? 🤔

    • @mukuhinjenga9489
      @mukuhinjenga9489 Před rokem +8

      @Kezzy Bett This is a red flag. Listen to the way she's meandering her story of good friends who stood with her when the question of whether she kept in touch with Njoki's family. Crocodile tears, rolling up her eyes to avoid the attention of the audience. All those accolades poured for Njoki are a strategy to demonstrate how well she related to Njoki. Lydia's husband comment that Njoki has found a husband tells it all. If the DCI was compromised KARMA is a bitch and it knows the address

    • @katenyayieka3527
      @katenyayieka3527 Před rokem +1

      @@mukuhinjenga9489 I also wondered how perfect was this Njoki? Not even one incident that made her mad in 8 years?

    • @wambuikarigi121
      @wambuikarigi121 Před rokem +1

      It's Normal when you are grieving and there is so much going round so she acted just like anyone else

    • @elizabethgithatu9863
      @elizabethgithatu9863 Před rokem +1

      Because she saw njoki in that state: gruesomely killed. It's traumatizing

    • @kezzybett1142
      @kezzybett1142 Před rokem

      @@elizabethgithatu9863 no when one sees the ghost of a dead person...... it means something deep my dear
      Theres a difference between seeing the ghost live, and dreaming about our loved ones who are deceased
      Kindly do a good research

  • @monikam9896
    @monikam9896 Před rokem +6

    Nothing nothing totally nothing is adding up ...may the killer of innocent girl be swept away too

  • @faithguantai7321
    @faithguantai7321 Před rokem +2

    I told women the housegals, that are so good in your house and stay for years without minding taking life steps in their lives,is quetionable,they coukd be your co -wives, it reserched and proven.

  • @paulamunlo5699
    @paulamunlo5699 Před rokem +17

    She said her and her husband weren’t living together but her husband said she left because she found a husband? How did the husband know Njoki well enough to assume such a thing?

    • @nyamburarachel8184
      @nyamburarachel8184 Před rokem +1

      Alafu someone you've stayed with 8yrs,you know everything about them

    • @verralisambe5476
      @verralisambe5476 Před rokem +9

      That was a joke

    • @wambuikarigi121
      @wambuikarigi121 Před rokem +2

      It's because of work they weren't staying with husband not because they had separated

    • @annmaina1277
      @annmaina1277 Před rokem +4

      But it happens all the time .They get married on sunday over christnas or during off days

    • @jedidahakinyi9681
      @jedidahakinyi9681 Před rokem +1

      I think he said it as a joke

  • @thomasm5796
    @thomasm5796 Před rokem +26

    Pale mzee alisema mtu ameolewa and had only been missing for a few hours na umeishi nae for 8 years ndio ili ni put off na hii story. I'm totally cognizant of false accusations but hii sijaielewa kidogo. @lynn you should get the late family's side of the story.

    • @joycenjeri3535
      @joycenjeri3535 Před rokem +4

      And wakienda to place of scene alikua anaprepare polepole

    • @josephinejepkoech485
      @josephinejepkoech485 Před rokem +1

      Why was the guy slow to go to the scene as if he knew what they were to meet there ...weee this life mmmmh

    • @joshcool2022
      @joshcool2022 Před rokem +15

      That's how house helps get married, they just disappear,,,,I would also dismiss with the same words

    • @winniemutuku8346
      @winniemutuku8346 Před rokem +4

      I agree joan thats how some get married

    • @wambuikingatua3820
      @wambuikingatua3820 Před rokem +2

      You are overthinking. House helps are known to just up and go, and the next thing you know they have found a husband. It is not a surprise that he would half-joke about such a thing. I understand perfectly why he said this, and the context in which it was said.

  • @soniamagambo6809
    @soniamagambo6809 Před rokem +7

    God knows your heart Lydia and He is your vindicator. May His peace be your portion! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @margaretnjoki
    @margaretnjoki Před rokem +8

    🥺life is so unfair sometimes 😒 it's not easy to forget a kind person😭 May her soul rest in perfect peace 🕊️

  • @pamelamugo9627
    @pamelamugo9627 Před rokem +17

    God's grace is always sufficient 🙏

  • @evangacha6936
    @evangacha6936 Před rokem +5

    This kind of story maybe could have an outside thing. A relationship gone sour or something like jealousy someone had from the heart.

  • @kimmie_kez290
    @kimmie_kez290 Před rokem +29

    So sad about Njoki's demise and at the same she was an amazing girl. I also think that Lydia is an employer from heaven... Thanks Lynn for hosting her

    • @margaretwachoro7532
      @margaretwachoro7532 Před rokem +2

      Lydia may peace be with you this lady is a family friend I grew up her being like my sister they have been there with my mum I remember we used to luck food and my mother would write ✍️ for me a letter and take it to Lydia or her mother so that they can give us something to eat....God bless you Lydia and your family 👪 you are one of a kind sweetheart am sorry for everything

  • @evankya1955
    @evankya1955 Před rokem +2

    my current househelp is somewhere near Njokii. i have stayed with her only 2yrs but woooh, she's so good. May God protect her for me

  • @marymbugua7452
    @marymbugua7452 Před rokem +6

    Only God knows the animals who took innocent life may God continue healing this mama and her family plus Njoki’s family and friends

  • @marykay2829
    @marykay2829 Před rokem +8

    This too deep..May justice for Njoki prevail

  • @mummum3184
    @mummum3184 Před rokem +56

    Lynn kindly look for Njokis mum to get her story on this.

  • @jasminewest6826
    @jasminewest6826 Před rokem +6

    The husband, Njoki's family and this lady need to sit down for an interview. Did they do pregnancy test? you just never know maybe the lady was pregnant and the husband had someone get rid off her. The lady has talked so intimately on how she was best pals with the house help. Will the house lady say those intimate stories if given a chance? One can live with a house help for years and shit can be happening behind their noses. Kenya money talks when it comes to evidence! We have seen people kill then go on cameras and pretend to ask for help or talk to those they know very well what happened to them. We have made this world evil.

  • @loicenelima1038
    @loicenelima1038 Před rokem +5

    Is a boss from heaven may Njoki rip.but Lynn,bring Njoki's family too,what about Lydia's husband?....let's listen both sides...Lydia,it is well

  • @chillboo-4328
    @chillboo-4328 Před rokem +8

    There is something I can't put my finger on ...rest in peace Njoki

  • @charlesmaina4194
    @charlesmaina4194 Před rokem +6

    The Worst part in this story is that they never, followed the post mortem....DNA...e.t.c... even when they were implicated... They now have to live with the rumours, and cutting ties with Njokis mother makes it worse.

  • @gladwelltailor
    @gladwelltailor Před rokem +9

    Lynn you have started with the best gym exercise of offloading the mind then body and soul will be aligned with God's will. I am happy she is clearing the doubtful minds of the narrative of home wrecking house managers. God bless you for freeing her soul from the accusations of the masses. Sudden death do occur. May her soul rest in peace eternal. Blessings 💓💓🙌🏽💪🏾🙋🏽🙏🏾

  • @yvonnemakori9869
    @yvonnemakori9869 Před rokem +5

    Moral lesson...keep off people's husbands not everyone takes cheating lying down

  • @xavierowino
    @xavierowino Před rokem +37

    I don't mean to be negative but here is a hard truth. After watching so many sanitization videos by Kenyans, it's hard for anyone to be sure that a husband is not cheating with a house help... Only God knows the truth.

  • @makenashayne4127
    @makenashayne4127 Před rokem +10

    Since my dad got red handed trying to kill me by neighbors na stori ikaishia kwa chief 😔😔ogopa this nice people.Justice for Njoki.

  • @sleeprelaxation8431
    @sleeprelaxation8431 Před rokem +2

    The last person to see a victim or be with a victim spoke with the victim are the first "interest people."