My Father treated my mother like trash for years, plucked her hair and made her bankrupt | LNS
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 19. 06. 2022
- Priscillah Zoe is only 19 but she has spent the better part of her life in a dysfunctional family watching her mother go through hell at the hands of her father.
She has memories of her father beating her mom up mercilessly, plucking her hair to destroy her beauty, making her bankrupt, and witnessing pastors tell her mother to turn the other cheek and submit to her husband
In this episode of LNS, she opens up to Lynn Ngugi about her father introducing her to weed, her fears, and how she finally felt after her mom's divorce.
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Dear Team LN,
You have all requested we bring you Catherine's story but we had to start with her daughter, Zoe, so as to understand how abuse looks like in the eyes of a 19 year old.
What message do you have for her?
Check out her work here zoearticles.art.blog/
Stay tuned for her mom's episode this Wednesday at 10am:)
Thank you so much for tuning in.
To share your story with us, send a summary of your story to lynnngugi4@gmail.com for consideration.
Thankyou Lynn for hearing us out and bringing this lady story indeed it need to be heard and the beautiful lady deserve justice may she be healed with her beautiful daughter and repay her wasted year with that beast of a man shame on him!!!!!!
She's very beautiful and wise for her age..her future is bright.
I watched it on Jeremy channel n I felt for that lady the pain she under went through may justice prevail.
Thank you Zoe for being the voice of the children raised in abusive environment. Women listen to the kids. Staying because of the kids only hurts them , we are scarring them. LEAVE FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN!!!. most kids raised by single mums adore their mums and the sacrifices made yet the ones who stayed in toxic places are traumatised for life
How humiliating to her and her Mother
All father's (Dads) gather your self here and listen reality about how shameful we are.
The worst experience this remaids me of my marriage and I don't think I will ever go back to it
Thanks for calling all the irresponsible dads
Thank you.
By her word to you have passed judgment. I wanna hear this guy's story.
This reminds me of Son's irresponsible Dad,8yrs down the line without any help.
To us who grew up hearing our mum's screams at nightđđđđMay we heal some dayâ€â€
Amen
Sure, May we heal some day....
Exactly... I hope one day I will heal
Amen
đđđđđđđđđđđđđđđIm healing guys.My heart is full of anger.Lord heal me please
Zoe at 19 expresses herself like a well accomplished orator. I love her choice of words and the fact that she listens to Benjamin Zulu. Girl is a absolutely going far. USIU needs to grant this girl a scholarship â€ïž. Iâm 29, but she and I would be friends â€ïž.Such a beauty with brains.
Yes
Touching story,but God cares
God is Great n always available in all situations
Am 19 and truthfully speaking, this story has inspired me to become a better man. Thank you
If you can't find a good man in the world be one
Angela grimes
From Barbados , girl you make tears come to my eyes , i'm 68 will be 69 the 13th of this month . I grow up in a home with mom and dad , i grow up seeing mom and dad together and marrier when i was three year old . dad was a beautiful day to the six of us , but i have friend that was the same as you and your mom and it make me angry , that i had some bad thinkings in my head , some run some stay because of the children , some stay because its a beautiful house their live in , i was living in a nice home with my daughter's father , had two son's that was't his , i leave his house when he went to work , mom and dad was telling me to come back but mom and dad home five children that seven , so we as moms stay because of the good things in that home , my child keep talking god is with you , and miss Lynn Ngugi i thank you alot you are a beautiful lady god blessed you always keep doing what you do best thats helping people i would love to see you in
BARBADOS . peace and love staysafe .
Donât judge single and divorced mothers , there is hell of story behind them.
Very true
True
I can't agree more đđ
very true
Very true.
I can't control my tears my kids and wife will never pass through this đŻđŻđŻ
God bless you đ
Thank God, lam comparing this Girl yo my daughter
She's calling tge father, tgat man
Those diaries are not good becouse they have a history of all bad things, yet you need yo discard all the Garbage in order to heal
True there amazing men out there đ for sure
No one should judge me but am here to tell this man what this amazing princess is unable to; " Whenever you are, if you are reading this, shame on you man! Shame on you!" You damaged this girl. Thank God she is a strong soul and is willing to put in the work to break this chain. You've reealy massively damaged an amazing woman, an amazing wife, a clearly kind and loving soul". Shame on you once again for that. I believe in Karma. What you give is what you get. If your turn to drain your tear buds hasn't arrived yet, just hang in there.....not for too long though! You are a disgrace to manhood and you need to put in some serious work and heal your super toxic soul." To Zoe and Mama Zoe, waaah! I don't have the words. But am sending a sea of hugs and lots of love your way. That was a looot. May God bring endless smiles and love and laughter your way. You deserve it!
He is a bafoon
Such a stupid guy. Instead of empowering her first family he is finishing them. Stupid
Wow I truly support your comments. Shame on him but God will take her and her mom far
A year later i hope he is already paying for his sins such a hopeless mammal of a man
The greatest gift a man can give his children is to love their mother.
Why men always think giving food and shelter is all children need from them....I wish Kenyan government can protect women right so strictly....
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Very true âșïž
Very true
I wish my husband can read this...On point
I would lile to contribute towards her education by end of this month, she has inspired me with her courage. As a mother of 2 girls slightly older than her, I felt the pain because I know how girls idolize their dads, I hope she will heal with time. As Team Lynn, we will ensure that she enrols to university and does her degree with all our support and prayers!
Thank you so muchđđđđ
Yes indeed we should support her to fulfill her goals
God bless you
its difficult to heal from such things,,not even difficult,,its imposible,,all she needs is strength to survive through that experince
Yes we can
Dear parents. Never "stay for the kids"
It does more damage than good.
Yes tell them,women should learn to love themselves and leave useless marriages which are not working
You can never understand why a woman did not leave...no woman is stupid to stay just for the sake..when they say for the kids...its much deeper than that...only when in that shoe will you know why.
Some women have been abused and damaged emotionally such that to leave is the hardest thing.some women are threatened and live in fear...and most women have many people saying leave leave but no one out there to support them when they leave....a woman will leave when she can do it...it's never her choice...so never judge.
And many women keep quiet and avoid talkong about their situation because all that society will say is....why don't you leave??lets support this women...lets pray for them and understand how strong they are
YES it does so much damage and kids will need therapy when they are older.
@@parrotfish1988 thank you, it could not be explained any better
i concur,the damage can never be restored,the man had no love for the mom whasoever.
I want to really thank Zoe's mother. In spite of all the ugly things she has gone through, she still managed to bring out a phenomenal 'millennial woman'. I have never met one with such sobriety and confidence. Dear Zoe, I may not be in a position to contribute to your passion to do a course I also desire to do but am praying for you with ALL my heart that God shall come through for you. You are a daughter every mother would desire to have. Thank you for walking through every journey with your mother.She is blessed.
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Yes it's very rare. I feel she was and is mom's pillar during the ordeals. Even for her to approach the dad and tell him to his face what he was doing. Which child would be that brave to ask those type of questions
But the damage inside her mind....... Some of it will never heal
Wow
One thing I like about this story is that it has come from someone who has no bitterness with men. To men who take advantage please change.
I went to school with her, she is so strong and brave. She has always been bold and her mum is a beautiful soul. Sending love and strength to her and her familyđ
ooh GOD these is too painful đą
She schooled with my daughter in rrp, this is sad.
Which school????
@@nantongosuzan5815 riara
I resonate with this. Children must be protected from parents conflicts. As an adult I have never overcome the pain I was subjected to. The man walked away. More than half of my years he has never featured. Now that I have turned to be someone he wants to come bothering. I am one very disappointed and hurting child. I wish I never existed to witness that
Lyn, please let's fund taise for Zoe to go to school. She is too intelligent to be wasted. She is an asset to our society.
Can we just recognize the power of generations of women being pillar of support for other women.. kudos to Cucu , you can see she stood by her daughter and granddaughter . I think if she wasn't there, the story of these two women would have been more tragic.. Cheers to grandmothers.. đȘđ
This girl is intelligent,eloquent ,beautiful and composed.
Her mum has raised her very well.
May she grow up to be a blessing to her Mum.
Quote of the day. " No one hurts my Mom, No one uses my Mom" ~Pricillah Zoe.
You are eloquent and intelligent.
This is so painful to watch
Zoe is such a brave young gal and her mom is such a strong woman
Amen đ
"...mum should not blame herself for dad had a choice..." That hits hard from a 19yr old.
very hard
True
She is really intelligent.
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The vocabulary of this 19 year Zoe in 2022 is awe-mazimg. I can't stop admiring her beauty Her eloquence, wow! Wow
I stayed in an abusive relationship/marriage for 18 years because of my kids and maybe due to the Stockholm syndrome đ I never believed I could survive without him. After being with him for 20 years I left with absolutely nothing except my daughter and I left my 2 sons. After watching Zoe's story I understand why my eldest son is depressed đ
My kids joined me at my Mum's a month later and 2 months respectfully.
My Mum is and has always been my strength đ
I'm so sorry Zoe and every other child who has had to go through this abuse.
Hugs Catherine for walking away
Gratitude to your Mum/Shosh for supporting you.
so so sorry mama. May God protect you
â@@shaniquepauliiiii
I simply don't have words...this is one intelligent, eloquent and special girl. The things some men put through their families!
True kepha
these issues in the family sometimes are spiritual.. No normal father can treat a daughter like this
too painful
This is a moving episode.. fellow men.. let's be protective of these queens who sacrifice alot to see our families stand.. let's not hurt them.. when we have issues let's create room for communication.. and when we're on the wrong let's own up our mistakes and mend our way... let's not raise kids who are hurt, traumatic, angry because of our actions or words..
This girl is a voice of so many others who are voiceless..
Let it start with us men.. let's have peaceful and love filled families.. thanks to our commitment and dedication.. love wins over anything that would try to tear our families apart..
Wow what a pure sobber soul and mind of a Godly man on earth God grant you more wisdom be blessed Sir
The narcissist canât do all that u r saying.i wish it was that simple.
True about narcissist, my kids are suffering even though we are seperated, he finds ways to torture us emotionally and psychologically.
I speak life, prosperity, success, wisdom and discernment to you Zoe. Relearn and rebuild yourself and continue supporting your mummy. I'm glad I took my kids out early enough
Hearing her give all those details about what she witnessed is just heartbreaking. Parents, we have a duty towards our children!!
It's so heartbreaking đđ
This girl is beyond her age. She is so intelligent. May God beautify her life.
Amen
Ohhh Nooo. It's too much they went through. So sorry.
This young lady is wise beyond her years, sadly due to her experiences. I totally understand, because I also grew up in a dysfunctional household. Healing is a constant work in progress. I wish Zoe nothing but the best and most of all, the healing of memory. Thank you Lyn.
The Government should help this genius! She's a nation builder! Too intelligent!!
We must all understand that Zoe's greatness, eloquence, smart mind and all that we admire in her today is as a result of her mother Cathrene who inspite of all she had to endure she protected prayed natured and tried the hardest she could to intill good morals to Zoe. As she said sometimes we outsiders do not understand why women do not leave abusive relationships. So for me these two are great women Zoe and her mum. May God bring you all the provision you need to get to where he intended you to be. There is greatness in you. I am just amazed by the wisdom in you at 19 Zoe (which means life in Greek). God blessđ
i had to pause when she mentioned the university she dreamt of because, my dad is an alumni of the same university! while all till this mins, i wish you were my neighbour,my friend in school or anything to be close to me so that my dad can be your dad as well, he is a dad to many, paid fees and paid medical arrears to neighbours. i was brought up by a dad any daughter or son would wish for and Zoe i want you to know that there are GREAT fathers,brothers and sons out there!!!!!! you will meet great male figures in your life and bad are everywhere even female figures can be bad Zoe.am so sorry and my sorry cant heal your wounds but dont push your healing ,it will take time.you are a great intelligent lady and you will succeed in your life.your mum is a great mum and friend of yours continue listening to her.i wish you nothing but greatness.
why don't you connect her to your dad to help her achieve her dream
She can be a great motivational speaker
It's traumatizing to hear the pain she went on with her lovely Mum
May the Lord who heeds from heaven hear your prayers and answer
@Lynn Ngugi I agree 110% the world will surely get to know this girl. She is just so bright and inspirations and she is not even 20 yet. And by the way happy 20th birthday to her in advance. It was wonderful for me as a father to learn from her story! Cant wait to listen to her mum too!
There was an episode LNS with the mother. Check it out please
Thank you so much Kepha for tuning in. They will quote her in their future booksđđ
Her mum story is on tuko. One title of her story has a title close to "dont pray and fast for your cheating husbands"
@@merryzvi oooh thanks I think I remember seeing that story on tukođ€đ€
I really like when I see men'sđđ comments in such stories. It's a touching story.
I must be a victim đ I had been growing up seeing my mother being insulted and beaten for no reason I really hope by the time I finish my degree I'll assist her get out that marriage,I think also her biggest problem is leaving now and she has nothing to feed us,Zoe you're really blessed you have spoke on behalf of a million others đ
Me too I cry to God everyday to bless me so that I can be able to help my mom, I have been struggling with anxiety disorder and panic attack since primary school because of what my mom and I was going through
My story is just the same , l have been throgh alot , l hope one day l will tell my story to inspire some alse
Oh dear children. My heart goes out to you. Keep praying and believing, God will see you through.
This is now my second episode to watch straight from the start to the end while my mind is thinking , why why and feeling like if I get that man ,I can give him one hot slap and he faint for like 5 mins, when he wake up he would realize how stupid he has been and get back his family and show them fatherly love.
This girl is just bright and have something great in her that will propel her to the far above the sky ,
In as much as am sorry for what the family has gone through but I feel that she was being prepared for greatness, as you can feel her wisdom ,choices of words ,full of maturity and her commanding tone is just amazing ,
How she DEFINE FAMILY & FRIENDS is just amazing and I felt touched and encouraged
As LYNN say she is BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT YOUNG GIRL.
My sentiments too. She was being prepared for greatness
What a wise young lady, we are blessed I see a leader in her
When a child gives you a glimpse of their parents marriage and understanding of love as a child, you'll bleed. Parents please be intentional! You are creating broken children. . .Sorry Zoe. She's strong but those wounds are painful and very present. Her blog is an avenue to pour her soul. Dang it!
Zoe, May God wipe your tears. May he grant you his peace, comfort and Love. I donât know you in person but I do feel you and love you.
She is spitting Intelligence .I love her eloquence
She has contradicted how her dad took her moms money, by forging her signature, yet the mom said she agreed to a joint account where any can sign, so he did not steal !! There is a hidden story here
Zoe, you are a beautiful girl inside and out. Thank you for standing up for your Mum in her marriage. You were never to blame yourself for what happened. I know God will one day answer your prayers in your diary and I believe great things in your life are yet to come. I believe by sharing your story many doors are going to open for you and mum. God is great. May God see you through college as far as you would want to go. My prayer for you is that you and mum find peace in life to weather every storm. But one thing for sure Zoe you are going far in life and those who hurt you and Mum will one day come to ask for forgiveness
God will fight your battles for you. For ladies and men out there never stay in abusive marriages for the sake of your children. God is your father. He knows best.
This kid is brilliant. I can never have enough of her. She will stand up for so many kids going through the same in future.
She would make a good lawyer. So smooth, keen, intelligent, bold and the list is endless.
Baba Zoe,how could you give up on such a gem?
she's pretty, eloquent, focused,determined,clever,wise, what many men would give their lives for to have a child half as good as this one.
oh how I pray for your father..for God to open his eyes so that he can see how much he has lost!
Oh how I pray that one day,he will change.
When a man violates the rights of feeble, helpless and harmless women, the Lord God doubles the grace and countless angels are sent to spread their wings around them! God will definitely make him pay for He is the strongest man in heaven and in this world!
He will show up in her ruracio.....
@@HummingBirdske abusers knows who to prey on,if there prey is one of a timid,submissive nature then it's game time for them,women who fight back they won't try it to,me,he would be chopped up long ago,I love knives and machete's.
Jinga ni jinga tu
This girl turned out so well even after going through all that trauma. God is your Heavenly father, He'll never leave you nor forsake you.
Girl, you are going far.
Amen lucy..
I am currently pursuing B.A in Psychology at USIU-Africa I can't wait for God to open the door for you so that you can also join and achieve your goal. God loves you baby girl.
Hats off Catherine. How you managed to raise such an amazing child is beyond my comprehension. Truly like you said in your interview, 'God is your how'.
I know it's never late, I'm 27 a mom to two who's trying to overcome childhood trauma (tulilelewa ushago and could spend nights kwa shamba for crying when dad was hitting mom), it's not easy trying to fix myself and raise complete kids..... Zoe, you're blessed, you're confident enough to rise above all that?at your age?..... Your mum is deserves an award for raising such an outspoken lady.....love her more....
Aki hata sisi
My dad was a narcissist and a hypocrite and unfortunately I have fallen in the same hands as this girls father ....its so toxic that depression is like a lifestyle...I thank God because I have become brave enough to realise that's not my portion and I now have the strength to leave with my son
Catherine... Same for me as well, luckily we have no kids and aren't married so it's less painful to walk away... It's hard because I seem to specifically attract these type of men and it feels like I can't unlearn traits that make me attracted to narcs or forget the trauma growing up. Dad used to leave us and come back repeatedly leaving us with a fear of abandonement and the cycle repeated in my relationships. There was emotional, verbal and physical abuse in the household as well.
My ex has an impeccable image to the outside world and I felt very invalidated because even though he never laid a hand on me, the emotional and verbal abuse was terrible. So much so to an extend I returned the same energy he gave and the reactive abuse made me publicly seem like the unstable one. Of course there were good times so I was in constant confusion. I realized I was dealing with someone on the spectrum displaying traits of covert narcissism.
I don't even want to vilify him and make myself seem innocent; he's the most selfless man I know when it comes to lending a hand...I think I suffer from bipolar disorder and that we both just need serious therapy from unhealed childhood trauma. To love ourselves better as well as others. Love for oneself is very important and I think we both lacked in that.
I know I need therapy but it's incredibly hard as I'm in a foreign country and language is a barrier. Therapy in general needs to be paid for and I'm a student so that's an expense I can't afford. Also, the therapist needs to be well equipped to deal with trauma survivors and have knowledge of narcissists and NPD otherwise it's pointless, some therapists can traumatize survivors all over again. I'm glad Zoe shared her story, her story really resonates with me.
You have your future in your hands.You can choose to stay and get more bruised emotionally and mentally or walk away when the sun shines.
@@jessieschatz9611 Hey! Sharing is the beginning of healing. Glad that you did. Now, prayer is the best form of therapy, and it's free. I call it deep intimacy. You can start by asking yourself questions about how your feeling and answer yourself in detail. Always keeping in mind what the word of God has to say. A bruised self image is usually what keeps us going back to narcs. We shall overcome this toxic cycle. More power to you Jessie
@@laceyloops Thank You so much for taking the time out to write this. It is hard to explain but everytime my ex and I would pray there was always a sense of calm between us. Peace. Things were going well.. It is when we stayed long periods without prayer that things simply just went bad beyond repair, some moments we really felt like we were under spiritual attack. You're so right, I've come to understand that prayer is everything. Will definitely start there. May God bless You abundantly đ
All women had bad father's and husbands.... no sane man fights woman without a reason.... When you poke bear expect anything.
I am in tears...this beautiful soul is going places...very intelligent...confident...and facing her trauma head on! I wish you the best baby girl.
Seeing such breaks my heart in pieces. The damage our choices can affect our children is almost undo-able, let's do better with those God has placed in our lives. Zoe and Catherine it's your time to shine and start all over again with God and Kenyans behind you.
This also helps me appreciate all good men out there who are doing their best for their children and wives. We have a very good and big crop of amazing Dads and Fathers out there makofi kwaođđđ
What really came out strong in this gorgeous young lady's story is the fact that she didn't coil back or start pitying herself. Her strength and her love for her mum is just on another level... Zoe, you should be prepared coz you have a very bright future ahead.
Very true
Wisdom is not age. This girl is a million times times wiser than the older ages. She passes for women rep.in the society of girls. Experience is the best teacher
I cried my tears away on this one..I havent resonated with anyone in life ike this,the bad dreams,struggling with going to boarding coz who are you leaving your mum with,beating up boys,talking to God in my diary about my feelings,calling my mum to check whether she is still alive every saturday while in school.You are made to mature earlier than your agemates.I thank God I am healing from the trauma
Thank you, Lynn, for this conversion that has been shadowed by the patriarchal systems within our traditional culture. Sadly, most of the decision-making processes at the governmental level are anchored on conservativism as opposed to the intellectual standards informed through research. I have several colleagues who have done a thesis on gender-based violence, and the statistics are disturbing. Yet every other system to address this sensitive issue is buried by misogynistic thinking within the institutional systems, such as families and religious groups advocating for submissive wives. Consequently, I think women's autonomy should be reevaluated in a broader social context to challenge the established patriarchy. Zoe is bold and speaks on behalf of thousands of women in Kenya who have been muted by a societal ideology embracing the second-hand citizenry of women. It's time to stay woke!
What an episode
A Mother's love is unconditional but a daughter's love is epic.
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It sure is, I call my mom my firstborn girl.
I love this expression
Lynn thank you so much for being able to interview Catherine's daughter. For the viewers who feel that Catherine took too long to leave should understand that relationship with narcissists are very different. I wish I can tell my story of how I was able to walk away after 28 years of a very toxic relationship. Narcissists take their victims through a journey of
1. verbal abuse
2. emotional abuse
3. physical abuse
4. financial abuse
The above are carried out in a very calculated manner through a cycle of
1. idealization ( love bombing)
2. devaluation
3. discard
This cycle is repeated until you hit rock bottom. Finding out about narcissism is usually a game changer to many victims. once a victim figures out that there is a name for the kind of abuse she/he has been subjected to. once they realize that there are words, definitions and tactics applied to the abuse they are subjected to everything changes. Once a VICTIM SEES he/she can never UNSEE.
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Can someone link catherines interview i cant seem to find it
Well stated, you have to have lived it to completely understand it.
This was me left this year after 26yrs
@@jess679. itâs yet to be uploaded.
I love it when she said that "all men oppress women and they suppress women." Be strong girl, for me I have never healed from what I had undergone
I also wish to heal by God's grace đ
Zoe is so eloquent and outspoken, gal you're going places, may your dreams come true.
I love the fact that Lynn's channel is a platform that accommodates all regardless of age,gender or social status or any other factor..
Thank you so much:)
@@LynnNgugi czcams.com/video/paHXOWKpYvE/video.html
I cried my eyes out watching this because I have a daughter almost your age and to imagine a child going through this hell just tore me apart.
Zoe, you are extremely brilliant it's incredible.
May God's grace be upon you Zoe.
May healing flow over you Zoe.
May God put the broken pieces of your heart together.
You are blessed and highly favored.
Yeah mum and I went through the same. It really hurts.
Ooh poor girl! Thank God she eventually managed to get to her level of education besides the man's evil shenanigans. Surely the God of Israel will see her throughout her studies successfully
Zoe you are a brilliant girl may the almighty profill your wishes
This girl is so vibrant,educative & full of wisdom,more blessings young & strong gal, you are actually destined for greatness.
I have never seen such a matured 19 year old. Her experience made her grow up earlier in life. Oh my God, when you think you have seen it all until a story like this pops upđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€ŠââïžMay God help this child.
I love the girl's understanding of parenting,love, marriage, relationships.
Yes. She says love is action. Spot on!
Very smart child. Give her time & she definitely will be at very NOBLE & high places.
The father is a criminal.
Why am I breaking đđđđthis is what I have been going through. I am married but my mum still suffers. I remember my mum saying she will leave her marriage after am done with high school. Unfortunately, she decided to stay since she was like "where am I going". I feel bad seeing my mum nursing wounds caused by dad while on the other hand I am nursing ulcers which I got while in class 6. I agree with zoe that we girls get married to men different from their dad. I thank God he gave me a God fearing man who values me and appreciate me. Sending hugs to you Zoe.
Domestic violence đđđđ
Pole Njokie, may your ulcers be healed.
I can't help crying from the moment this beautiful gal started narrating what she experienced with her mum đ it's soo heartwretching I'm soo sorry but you will overcome it's beyond what that animal of a man did,he should be in prison rotting there.My heart is bleeding for you and your mum may restoration come speedily in Jesus name.
Sheâs such a beautiful soul, so painful what she has gone through . May God bless her
I really like this gal. She is so composed and her command of language is on top. She is very respectful, clearly indicating her mum's upbringing of her.
This is not your normal 19 year old. She can really hold a meaningful conversation. So sorry she had to witness dv.Her mom has done a commendable job raising her. Wish them both healing and prosperity in their endeavours.
Zoe, I celebrate your courage. Hugs hugs. I was in a toxic marriage and my son saw it all. I am glad we are out and doing better. My son is still hurting but I cover him with love everyday. He's gonna be fine.
Shine usa đ°đȘNew Jersey
You are strong stay tight,
Zoe.hugs and all the best.
This is a mind-shattering, but eye-opening revelation. Thank you for sharing this moving story with us. As a parent I feel challenged to take my children more seriously. May God bless you đđŸ. You story will heal many đč đ
Zoe you are an inspiration. I know my daughter will watch this. Sorry on your mom's behalf. As for your dad and all the dads who have chosen to humiliate their children bcoz of having a dysfunctional marriage kindly rethink.
Our differences should not affect our relationship with our children
Lynn, what else can I say? The world says a big thank you for this interview. It is healing to many who have survived. God bless you. Gifty from Ghana đŹđ
You are a true follower of Lynn....I always spot your comments Gifty
Very true Gifty.i feel she is talking on my behalf as I come from same background of Domestic violence and life long anger on men .
I have looked at some of your articles. As a teacher, you have impressed with your level of intelligence. I can't even say that the say is the limit, girl, you will go far. The fact that you are also born again is an important part of what God is going to do for you. May your star shine brightly in Jesus name.
What a girl! She is such a ball of strength. I have nothing but admiration for this star. Sending love and light to this star.
Zoe is such a strong girl and this world is your stage, you are going to greater places. Praying for your healing gal and your mother. One man can only become too inhuman. Zoe and her mum has persevered so much that it makes me appreciate my background...I don't think I will ever complain.
The fact that Zoe has forgiven her dad just shows how gracious she is...I hope she finds healing and God blesses her with the desires of her heart đ
What a brave soul!! I am a dad of two and this is just so crashing to watch. Yet to get out of such and be so brilliant, composed and smart...wow!! Zoe, may you blossom and may your story give people a reason to never give up. You will go places girl. May your mum also blossom. Shame on that man!!
What a story,May you heal from the childhood trauma.Such a brilliant girl.May your star Shine beyond the borders.
This is a lot for a child to go through. May God give both Zoe n her mom true healing. Hugs!!
For sure our Mom's are the strongest women in this cruel world, the kind of suffering and pain that they go through for the love of their families and children.... is beyond anything. May God's favour be upon you Zoe.
You're such a brilliant, blessed young soul and highly favoured. I feel you
When she said, that incident confirmed to her that her dad is an animal", ooh myy, my heart stopped a beat...
I broke down on this
That part...đđđ
When us mothers asks for forgiveness to our children for all that they have to go through in our abusive marriages. I've been even asking for forgiveness from God for all that my children have witnessed in my abusive marriage. đȘđȘ My son is of the same age as Zoe and my daughter is 14, Zoe you really helped me understand exactly what you as children are really struggling with the abuse in marriage. So sorry đȘđȘ
"They have to go through" really?
I am so sorry for all that she went through! Oi đ
Hugs. You may consider connecting them to a therapist, she will do what you may struggle to do. I hope you have actually sought help for yourself.. There is an appropriate way through which we process inner wounds and traumatic experiences. As you pray for forgiveness, hopefully you aren't self blaming. Don't entertain such self defeating feelings. Have self compassion. You probably didn't know better and so you did your best under the circumstances. Glad you are now speaking about it as a past. Point to note, the past lives with us in our present until we deliberately settle it to where it belongs
Get out please donât stay
Co-owning a business can be dangerous. It's a great point to note. Otherwise, thanks to this young girl and her mother for sharing. These are free lessons for all of us.
Exactly
Very true
And never build or invest in inlaws land
She is wise beyond her yearsâŠmay God return to her 1000 folds what the enemy TRIED to steal from her. God bless you Zoe. May he forever keep you under his covering. We love who you are.đđŸđđŸđđŸđđ
Lynn is just phenomenal. Extremely professional. And she puts her guests at ease too. Much love Lyn
Do you people notice the most positive memories she has of her father? It's the simplest things. I really hope parents can learn from this story.
He's a worthless bastard. Treating the wife badly is one but stealing all that money and cant pay her schools fees is a disgrace
I've always thought my family is cursed but listening to this has made me cry knowing that there are people experiencing the exact thing going on at home...
I relate to Zoe 's story
In class six I used to beat up boys in school only to grow up and realise it was a reaction to what dad did to mom đđđđđ
I really hope peace will finally come to my home and all these fights will come to an end
Amen..may God restore you and your family too #Cidner Baraka
Such a strong young Zoe. May God continue to use her to bring hope and peace to other's going through similar pains.
You will make it dear. Trust in God who maketh a way where there's no way.
These fights will not end until the abused leaves.You could try watch the video with the abused parent.
Hugs Zoe. You are exactly the same age with my daughter whom I've raised single handedly. God loves you gal and the sky is the floor for you. It can only get better. I may not assist you financially but what I can promise you is that I will mention you to God every time I pray for my daughter. To your mum, she's a phenomenal woman too and God will restore all the years the locusts have stolen. Thanks for loving each other and being there for each other.
I think this is a CLEAR message to parents, that what you show your children, what you do Infront of your kids can heavily influence your children because no child absolutely no child should deserves to go through such experiences. Zoe you are a very strong woman.
Zoe is such an intelligent young gal....sad how kids suffer emotionally from the parents abusive relationships.
Thanks Lynn for this video.
This girl is so so gorgeous, brilliant. However she's gone through alot for her age. I hope she undergoing professional help and that she overcomes the pain, disappointment and frustration she witnessed.
I can relate seeing my mom being hit by my dad and trying to separate them, am over forty I can recall everything.
All these wisdom from a 19 year old, I am amazed...May God just walk ahead of you n help you n mum heal. You are simply amazing đ â€
Priscillah, I know I've said this before but I'll keep saying it; God shall restore everything that you and your mom lost. From joy to peace of mind to even wealth. There's no tear that falls that He sees and does nothing about.
I don't know if everyone is seeing how dark this conversation gets...the tunnel is deeper. The child found sexts. ..was also offered weed...and people think children are damn! My body is trembling.
God was with her.
I'm shook! đ„
True its only God protected and rescued
the little angel
Such an intelligent girl, when she gives her story i feel like am the one, unlike her i never opened up to anyone, being the first born i went through the same and now i am grown and married i regret why i kept it all to myself, i wish you and your mum healing, and your going places girl. I hope one day i will be able to heal and give my story too.
I relate to this story in every way.word for word,Oneday i will tell my story. Sending hugs and lots of love to the brilliant lady.
Girl, you were Born for a Reason. May you grow to impact lives in the world. Clever, intelligent and you'll go far
Thank you Lynn for taking on this story from another angle. She needs as much publicity as possible. Team up with Monica to get her the protection she needs!
@@HellenR70 coming on this platform is the best thing she did team Lynn and Monica even the DCI don't joke with them.
@Georgina Prucha that's why she needed to be heard here! I felt for her!
@@HellenR70 I thought so. I think it would be good if they went to an new, fresh environment. They totally need protection asap.
I cried through out this interview. I now realized and understand why my mom screamed,shout and why she encourages is to study harder. I want to apologize to her. Our parents go through a lot.
Iâm still healing, my dad is a Narc still married to my mum but she has been through hell. I have cut off communication with him for my own sanity and to heal . I donât blame her mum for not leaving sooner. My mum is still stuck with him.
May God see this girl through
This girl is so wise!!! My God! She has been commissioned to be an ambassador to speak out against the kind of stuff that has been hash hash in our society. The journey she has been through, is excruciating! Now she gets to be the Deliverer. Zoe, there's a call on your life. May God strengthen you to be His mouthpiece.
Can we agree how smart this girl is!! Unbelievable.. this one should probably be in a private university somewhere if the father didnt swindle her of her future
This is the only comment I was looking for in the comments section. She's so articulate and sounds intelligent đ§
She will in Jesus name
Very true......so inconsiderate of 'that' man!
Poor little girl she needs a lot of love & support. She should probably study family law, how can we help this brilliant girl achieve her university dreams? It's seems her dad let "Julie" & all these other mistresses squander all the family wealth & there's nothing left.
Sure
I agree
Jesus Christ
Yes we should
Can't hold my tears. I'm so sorry Zoe. I'm so sorry đąđąđą These men have no idea the level of emotional damage they cause. You look like my sister! So much like her! Your eyes and everything! Everything happened for a reason...and a good reason for that matter...with them that trust in God. And Lynn, you are such a darling!
Hellow Lynn, thankyou for bringing up. Many women whom you find that they bit their men(husband), it is because they have the pain and bitterness of seeing their mum being beaten. They carry this pain through their life. It always takes only takes God to get over it. Lynn, I know you know the horror of listening at the screem of your mum, and tears- they never go away. You always seem to hear her screem when you are away. Zoe, God loves you, and you will overcome in Jesus name.
Woman woman learn.tuwache hii story ya am staying for my kids..see this young gal knows more than she should about marriage life out of pain..the pain in her voice tells it all đ„
I'm older but still learnt a lot from this young intelligent and beautiful young lady. Her story has touched me both as a daughter to my mother and as a mother to my daughters
Thank you for your courage Zoe. You are amazing.
Therapy will greatly benefit you to help break the trauma bonds and help you stay anchored.
Thanks Lyn for always bringing amazing people