The pain of finding out my husband has another wife in America, says he married her for papers | LNN
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- When Divinah heard the words, "your husband is married to a black American and has been for a long time," she could not believe her ears. It all dawned on her that she had been living a lie and that explains why he had only come to visit their quadruplets twice in 6 years
Today, she will walk us through how this man she met on Craigslist would take her round in circles, put her in debts, leave her to care for the children alone, lie that he had a heart surgery and was unable to fly out more often to finding out that he was living a double life
When confronted about it, the husband admits to being married to the black American for papers and will soon divorce her and come back to Divinah and the children
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From the word go,I love this lady,she has been strong with very beautiful babies.her problem is she is so private,I thank God she has opened up.that is one way of healing.
That she is a strong woman more than she knows ❤️
Let her stay strong and hustle for the kids
where is pat 1
Pole sana for what happened. You don't need to ask him for child support. You can report him to USA Embassy in Kenya. He will pay every cent from the month the kids were born according to how much he earns plus interest. Social services abroad don't play when it comes to children well being. Get that child support for your kids. Sending hugs your way.
Dear ladies out there, if a man is not providing and keeps on asking for money with a lot of excuses... from day one know he is a conman and get rid of him asap
Or in the very least not responsible. Either way, not husband material
He is just a sucker most African men are
The fact that so many women relate to her story is so heartbreaking
This is pure stupidity.. so sad
So beautiful to watch, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@bartholetbay412 Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@@Margart526 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@bartholetbay412 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.
Margaret I'll advise you not to pursue this spiritual advisor. I don't know of you're a Christian. You're about to open a door on your life that will cause you much heartache with empty promises. Seek God. Remember He mends brokenhearted. Look unto Him
He cares for you even at this dire situation.
Her coming out and sharing her story is the final stage of healing
I am glad she healed, whatTttt😢
Very true, I saw another story she was saying the husband hasn't been ok and he is out of the country for medication, we live in denial when we are hurting until reality hits us so well and unless one is willing to accept the reality, they are never healed.May God keep her and he daughters
It never gets better and you don't heal normally what you do is to cope with it, what hurts her the most is not the fact that he's married it's the sacrifice.hug mummy 😍💕🥰
@@lydhiam.kiswii3012 I even prayed for him to get well
True
I think we as ladies especially us Africans must now begin to teach ourself the difference between dating, cohabitation and marriage. Sleeping with someone and end up having children or staying together does not make you the wife. So sad for what we put ourselves through 💔
Yea the court just made that clear the other day
My case my God come through for this lady maisha yetu African women wenye wamesoma na wenye hatujasoma Ngai akina shinda
But both parties should be responsible for children.
Still...whether married or not he should provide for his children.
@@clementinewanjiru1202 I totally agree with you
This lady is soooooooooooo calm despite all the trauma. May love and wealth shine upon you in reckless abandon.
Aameen Ya Rabi ❤
Under all that calm there could be a storm . She may go through her turmoil in silence in public then an outburst behind closed door.
Ave meet her in person and she is great
Calm Outside. Inside Is Stressful. Look At Her, She Looks A Little Frail
Trauma inaweza ikakukucalm, heee
What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. You are a conqueror Divinah 😍
😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😅 6:57 6:57
Divinahs brother is so selfless. May he receive favour for his kindness.
that brother is so loving. hosting your sister with a whole 5 kids is no joke
Big up brother
Jusper i have met this brother before...the way he bonds with Divinar kids shows alot of love..😍
They are twins
True
I really appreciate your brother for taking you in with the kids. Not easy but he was ready to do it for his sister
Haki.... I'm telling you these gals of Divinar will one day surprise her💪🙏😍
Very sad these men are everywhere tell u necessary lie😢
It's part of their culture to do this
Three things I have learned in life so far;
1. Whatever is meant to happen, will happen. The sooner you reconcile your mind and your reality, the more meaningful your life will be.
2. We get tested with what we judge. Be careful not to judge other people's lives
3. Your expectations for other people are yours to manage, and not for them to meet. Learn to manage your expectations for other people and you will save yourself a lot of heartache.
No. 2 is well placed
Pls let us learn to listen do not cover evil to remain relevant
Wow great,direct to the point
Loving this life lessons❤
I have taught my daughter to always put yourself first. You placed this man first ahead of yourself and your children
Whoever is reading this and is fighting his/her own battles silently, may God chip in.
Amen
Amen
AMEN
Amen 🙏
Amen
*No matter who your husband is just have your money * ...a strong message here divinah
True. My late loving Mum advised me the same.
Another thing i don't understand is people carry on having kids knowing that the married is dead. Kids won't make a man stick by you. Nowadays people start dating and within a month boom.. Baby girl is pregnant sad 😔
@@Joyful-gu5bj qQc
Charitynyutho5835 my dear you have a point
@@bellaash2510 I agree with you that some ladies get pregnant to have the man around.
Story of my life too. I can relate. I was lied to also in a long distance relationship. The guy kept on promising marriage but anytime he landed, he gave excuses. I later on discovered he is legally married in the USA with 3kids,here in kenya I was not the only girlfriend he was promising marriage either. We were many! It was a community
Wow. Ssd to hear this
Trust me wherever he is he's not happy and will never be. Fir everything you do in life you pay for it in this planet earth. Many are like him living in USA but Karma is alive. Take heart it's gonna be fine. God doesn't make mistakes.
That's why it's good for one to study men in general, when one is still single and for the longest time.....Once you've fully studied men in general, hehe you can even smell a man's nonsense from a far.... Personally I took my time enough time to study men and doing self discovery in the process it's such a good thing which can save one from troubles..... Pole.
So sorry to hear that❤
It really happened to me last month,I realised through his Facebook page that he had even paid dowry in October.....I have not yet recovered.
"Not all is lost" what a powerful statement. Love the strength in Divinah that she's even joking and laughing about this! Wow love you girl!
Anytime a male friend ask me how women are able to withstand pain, disappointment and all that, I tell them God took his time to create us. It's laughable how women send themselves flowers on valentines day and other special occasions. We buy ourselves clothes and expensive gifts and claim its from our boyfriends and husbands. We go through a lot of pain, but we are very strong and that strength is what keeps us going. Ladies, let's be supportive of each other. It's a nice feeling when others are healed and well due to our help. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭
The world needs to re evaluate how boys are raised
I don't feel like being strong anymore...not a badge of honour.
You are a real woman and my god constantly bless you as a great mother
1700hrs,God will see you through, he is watching
This is what we call strength of a woman congratulations mama for not giving up on yourself and those beautiful queens 👑👑
The entire family knew about his deception. This lady is really trusting
Yeah
Thanks to my mother inlaw for always cautioning me.
As women we should not be on comfort zone thinking all is well no matter what.
Thank you people i healed this has gone on for years only that i wanted to share when im fully healed i adore my girls.
Even if it means walking without shoes i will to give them the best.
God bless you all for the kind words.
To Lynn Long life you are sinply the best.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Hugs Divinar
May God be with you divinar,fight for you,, even me I am going through the same BT oneday I will be well like you
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Diviner so sorry to hear this because I remember you saying in another video you love your hubby he's caring loving blah blah mob so you were sugarcoating unafunukia simba pole sana, the Lord is your strength
You are a true mother. I admire your strength. Love from Trinidad & Tobago 🇹🇹
Tafadhalini leo nmefika mapema nepeeni likes
I'm a man in South Africa,I'm so ashamed by what my African brother has done to this beautiful lady but most dissappointing is what he did to his children for such a long time.I hope one day he come to his senses and do what is right for his beautiful daughters.May Gid bring sanity to him.
The Divinar I saw today is not the Divinar I saw about a year ago. I told my hubby before I clicked to watch, “eish, ang’owa motimo Divinar yawa?” Translation: My goodness, what happened to Divinar?
I remember how strong she seemed the last time. How supportive she was towards her “ex husband.” She seemed to be such a pillar. Today, she’s come almost as a shadow of herself yawa.
But, that said and done, I put her in my prayer today. She is one heck of a strong woman. To come out like this, is the beginning of her healing. Her way to a full wholesome healing. She’ll be fine! And remember, what can God not do?! He’s taking Davinar to greater heights. To a place of victory!!
Blessed and much love to her.❤
She is not telling us abt the father of her first born. She shud not be shaming her husband like that.
What? Shaming? Are you serious????😮😮😮
Aki people stigmatize single moms without knowing their stories … this man is horrible
I tell you,, being called all sorts of names without knowing the reason
@@catem3595 That’s very true but she was very naive sincerely speaking all those type of lies one can wake up and start to ask yourself questions ?that part
she even borrowed 100000 ksh I felt like I will scream
I hate this name "single mum"Single parent.whoever judge n hate the wakaskie vibaya naukoooo,
If you had babies before marriage, you deserve the stigma. This is not what we want as a society and as women we have to start raising the standard to “no ring no babies”.
@@ananciataodindo7044 love makes one do stupid things ,,I used to give my hubby money hadi I bought a plot and I changed title to his name since he's the head of family ..but I don't regret I was into marriage fully and wanted to emute my parents but hooked up with a joker..saa hii nipatane na mwanaume hata Bob siwezi mpea
Not me going to the past video she did with Lynn and the "husband" was around. He was very strategic. He never showed his face 🤣 even when he was playing with kids in bed. He made sure he used one kid to hide his face in a very strategic way. He made Divinah look like a fool 😭.
I feel her.
If I was here I could go ahead and report to the embassy and ask him to pay child support. Because there is no way he has been in the US for over 2 decades and he doesn't have papers and his sister and cousin have papers.
At this point Divinah has nothing to lose at all. Let her go ahead and file for child support and take it to the US embassy and they will follow up with him.
Her case will be given priority as it involves children. And children take the number one priority in getting justice than any other case.
Divinah take heart, you have beautiful babies and you've really done a lot raising them and you will truly hack it again and again. All the best as you take time to come up with a decision that will favor your children.
I think she will not follow you. This girl is religious. God has been providing and he will provide
But if it was me....I would have done this
I remember his face was not seen throughout the video.
Some people have stayed for longer and are without documents. That said, once they can travel in and out then they definitely have valid documents and yes, one should file with the embassy
This story is similar to mine,,i eventually left my marriage,,i really went through depression and anxiety disorders,,but i m now okay,,u will be well,,time is the key factor
Always know where you stand in someone's life.This guy was not her husband. Just someone she dated and got pregnant for. But what a heartbreaking story! May God continue to strengthen her. Ladies, always have your money like she said, it makes life easier esp. in her situation. It doesn't matter who your man is or what he does. You never know what tomorrow brings
To whoever reading this ..may the Almighty give you strength to fight hard and win the battles you tackling in silence... thanks Lynn for airing this out.
AMEN
Amen
Amen
Amen 🙏
Amen
I see myself in her story, nikama nawatch my whole life, na vyoote nilivyopitia kwenye story yake ,Ninachomshukuru Mungu my family especially my mother amenishika mkono ,I feel not abandoned
Am so glad she has shared, that's N01 stage to healing, her body language shows she needs help, she's still frustrated..may God heal her 🙏
Correct..it's final stages of healing, not first step. She's been healing.
Actually it's the final stages of healing... acceptance and talking about it.
It’s hard to heal completely after this type of betrayal and abandonment. If you haven’t been through it you couldn’t possibly understand.
Hi Divinah! Very strong and really level headed! Some of these things are hard to comprehend. You are doing a wonderful job raising those beautiful girls. He must be accountable to his children by providing child support. American Embassy can help you to force him to support the children. Lies go both ways - because I have also been lied to by a woman.
Standing ovation for the friends and the support system
Kudos divinar, you have passed the test my dear now wait for the elevation God is bringing your way girl. The grace of God multiplied. Be blessed.
Just finished the whole episode and my summary is the red flags are always there and we should not ignore them, him disappearing after kids were born was a red flag & i applaud Divina she did her background check and dusted herself up❤️keep winning Queen and your babies are gorgeous 😍
Beautiful Bundles of Joy right there. You are an amazing lady may God bless the works of your hands, May God Grant you long life to see the fruits of your efforts, May you live to witness their graduations and much more. May you be an encouragement to people in similar situations. Your calmess is so humbling. I'm a late follower of this program but I'm blessed. God bless Lynn, and all who have walked journeys with you. Hug those children for me❤❤❤
Divinar, don't blame yourself for what happened. Forgive yourself and walk the healing journey a step at a time. It will take time but give yourself grace. You will make it big time!! Thank you Lynn for offering a shoulder to cry on. Keep up the great work..
people don't cheat by chance,they cheat by choice
Exactly 💯💯
True 💗
True that. We make too many excuses for cheaters.
DEFINITELY
I agree
This is an eye opener interview. Those who think children can keep a marriage you need to think twice. This one has five and things went South
In my country many children are known to ruin a marriage
It's like children make men run away from marriages, nowadays.
But she gave birth to quadruplets
@@missk8647 kkkkk
@@missk8647 There is a difference between a man vs boy. A boy trapped in a grown man's body will run away but a real man will be responsible for his family or children and not play childish games like boys.
This host is awesome. She listened and gave sound advice. Keep the door open for love. Divinar, you are appreciated
Someone once said something like, 'When you can share your story without crying, you know you have healed'. It was glorious to see you Davinah laughing. ❤
'wanaume nyinyi mungu anawaona?' i was betrayed the same way by a man, fortunately i did my due diligence and i went to their home personally and confirmned indeed he married while we were dating and my son was a year older than the other boy, i thank God i accepted myself and moved on nowadays he is allover looking for me.Thank God i bounced back.
Indeed Lynn Ngugi show is a ministry and therapeutic,here we pour our hearts with zero judgement..kudos Lynn may the almighty God continue expanding your territories.🙏🙏🙏
Sio wote
LADIES LADIES in 254!!!🎤 🎤.. Don't fall for men from abroad,if he's not putting a RING and want you to join him,please Think twice most of them are married here,or are in complicated situationship...OKKAY..but our gals want them regardless shauri yenu...shideni huko mkituma dunes,,
Hey Lynn awesome job again. Please tell the this lady to ask her babies daddy to file papers for them in America if he has his citizenship. Also that man should tell his current wife that he has children because if they had joint account her income also can get affected should this mum decide to file for child/children support. Because the government will come for that money as long as his name is on it. Please if this lady knows someone here who can talk sense in to this man and convince him to atleast file for his children that will help the children in the long-term. Their beginning might have been tough but their later years don't have to be. Please mami, you don't a great job taking care of your girls but please you don't have a right to say you don't want child support from their father, you can not deny the girls that. Please in America laws are followed so don't feel intimidated about getting the girls what is rightfully theirs, a right to decent life free of financial struggle unless the father is dead yeah. But if he is still walking breathing;he has
a responsibility to raise support his daughters.
This story is almost like mine 10yrs ago I was left in Kenyatta wt a newborn in the NBU na even after coming out of hospital he never gave me any support (God hua TU mfaithful if u trust him he never leaves you alone u might go through a hard time lakini Mungu Yuko na wewe n ur kids (I wish one day I can get to share my story just to encourage someone)
As a person who lives in the US . Craigs List is a platform to be weary about most of the ads put up by people are not genuine and be ware. Also glad you are done because his lies will never end . Be careful also to not let him lie to the kids or give them false promises and end up not following through and causing emotional trauma to them as well .
Well said l agree
Exactly Craiglist is for crooks and scammers
The Lord is your shepherd 🙏🙏
So many people get killed through Craigslist. It's like it's a curse side and again it's more for selling, business and jobs type of site.
@serah Kimani hii mtaa uwaga very very bad walaiiii. Watu nao apa wanarushwa usiku mchana . Mambo ya love online enyewe is a no go zone KABSAAAA.
I have been following Divinar's story from way back when her quadraplets were still very young, watching her today i can tell she's soo low, i am sorry she went through all this, kudos to her close friends, all is not lost , May God see you through, you will manage and the babies will be fine
True. Even her posture tells it all. She will overcome this,
Divina you are a strong woman may God keep strengthening you umetika mbali even taking care of the babies daily is not easy
Me too have been following her for a while thinking she was happily married, but she's been off for a while. So so heartbreaking to hear this. Waaaaa!
Keep waiting on your stupid God eh
Thanks for sharing, l pray that God will protect u n ur lovely princess.
No one is talking about the great gifts and blessings in her life...the kids.They are so beautiful and perfect..God gave you everything when He gave those kids...you shall overcome...may your favour be multiple like your kids.
Divinah, indeed not all is lost. You are a great lady despite the painful journey. I love what you are doing for your children and a big appreciation for all those who have supported your course. By your story, healing steps are on your way and you are about to celebrate graciously. Just continue moving on and let your children be your daily strength.
Men will embarass you!! Youll love them whole heartedly and still treat you like you dont matter.. shame on him
You're a strong woman Div..i remember the time i was homeschooling the quads..you never treated me ill..I'll forever be grateful mama..
God bless you much for that
How can I connect with her. My daughter needs to learn swahili
Be blessed for what you did.
A very strong woman and amazing mother. May God guide her and bless her and her children ❤.
Doesn't matter what you are going through, always remember there's nothing you can't come back from.Inside you is a power that nothing can destroy, you just need to find it!It's never easy but it's worth it!
The father of my kids is in the US. Initially he neglected us. After some years he started supporting us. Now he pays for school fees for the kids, one doing a parallel program. I respect him for that. We don't have a relationship, we are not married tho our families consider us as so, but we are so disconnected but he is very connected to his kids. I don't know whether he is married in the US or what he does. But after listening to this, I salute him. Mapenzi najitafutia na maisha inasonga
Exactly my story. Father of my kids is in the US ..I don't know what and how he leads his life there, but very connected to his kids. He also neglected them few years but took up school fees. Apart from that we are very disconnected
@@princessngethe1002 that’s because when you come to the U.S, you can’t work if you don’t have a green card
yeah you can't force yourself me too moved on but hulea I salute him, he only talk to his kid's years now, God is Faithful I tell you, wish he can help his children for sure,
If a man disconnects it means he is emotionally attached to someone else. Hawezi kaa hivyo huku marekani Weah. At least he supports his kids
I really hope he supports his boy one day .we don't have any connection..aki single mums we do have alooot..but God will let us through the journey..mostly we living a lie..thinking hoping the baby daddies will reason up but too baad its the opposite..
I'm glad I've heard from her. People really gossipped about her,if only they knew what she was going through. Divinar is a strong woman, and she has proved that.
I remember that period, people were referring to her as omba-omba.
@@Z.N.T waaah very bad. Reason why I don't like judging people
@@Z.N.T yes I remember
@@tuweidorine4387 Judgement is not for us is for God , only God can judge people must learn to mind their damn business
She should go to American Embassy and report, the US don't joke with kids .He doesn't dictate child support that is why he is fighting
All countries in the west put children first in a major way, and they are right.
Thanks Divinar. So bold of you to pour you heart out. You speak for so many of us who have been used and manipulated. Finding peace is the ultimate joy for living
True we are many
From 1989 in USA and he should have saved enough to even move back to Kenya,I think he is a user.
That man even looked old aki..... what is he still doing in America with no savings he cannot even afford a flight back..
@@melankoli1225 sure he seem like he wasted all his youthful life ,with ladies or drugs,or he is a criminal that he cannot even work.
@@melankoli1225 he was using her lol
Divina is such a strong woman❤️infidelity hurts and you are never the same after you discover that💔
Kaswwwt ulieda wapi
Ooh 💔
You can say that again. It hurts in a different way.
It's never the same again, never ever.
I just follow your comments,you so real
Life in America is challenging
Divinar you are a strong lady,thanks for coming out and share your story this is now the final healing process. Please be strong for your quads and there sister and may God always protect your territories and multiply it🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m glad to listen to this … I will definitely be reaching out to you as my son gets order for Swahili classes. I currently live in the USA but my husband and I vowed to teach our son and future children our language. He 2 now.
This story reminds me of HOW important it is to KNOW the man you wed and/or decide to have babies with. It is far better to remain single than go through this kind of mental anguish and have to take children through it knowingly or unknowingly!
You can know them and they’d still cheat 😢
Gal did you hear that this guy is a pathological liar...a word from his sister🤔🤔For me it is not to late.
Nothing just happens.
Divina Hongera..Mama Children are a blessing
Men knows how to pretend you can date for several years and he will eventually cheat
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I have learnt and understood that things change
Lynn one day when I get courage I will share my story. Went through the worst betrayal ever. Healing slowly
May God give you the strength… whatever you have gone through remember you came out stronger 🤗
Hugs selline...😘
Hugs
be strong dear 😘😘
Hugs
Ooh my... I now I understand you gal. My kids and yours are schoolmates. Infact my boy is a classmate to one of the gals. On their graduation I remember meeting you in the school corridors and wanted so much to say hi but I felt you were a lil reserved, I feared to intrude. Hugs dear❤. All the best! I thank God that there are some lessons you pulled from what you went through. I also thank God for the positive attitude you have to give it all for your kids.As long as your trust is in God dear, He'll see you through. They'll never lack anything . Mob love.❤
I can relate to this story because my abuse lasted more than 10 years. I’m now over it but it can be very traumatic. For me I had to loose all I had earned single handed. He took my properties because he has guns and guards. But in all things we have to thank God. I came out strong.
Yes, we thank God for your life. Where there is life there is hope. You're more than a conqueror, me re than a victor ijn 🙏
Dating online is risky, despite some successful stories. You hardly know the person and sleeping with him should be done with precaution and protection. This case is unfortunate because now they are beautiful, innocent children involved. My sister, may God give you strength to bring up those girls into formidable young women. And you can do it!They need help psychologically, to deal with the absent father. May God bless the girls with a successful future.
Same here, I lost 2 properties,sold it and went to Africa to marry another. Left me with 4 kids
The saddest thing is betrayal comes from those we love. Healing is a process and by you speaking out means you've healed. Congratulations
This lady is blessed beyond words.. Let the guy go. These kids will surprise you someday.... Hugs all the way
Lynn, you are such a fabulous interviewer! So proud of you. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤❤❤❤❤
Mothers are wonderful, just talk and share with them and will be surprised how helpful they are.
Put up the picture of that guy here ndio ikifikia co wife of which inaezamfikia ajue the husband has babies in Kenya and maybe she can make him discharge his responsibilities and maybe learn a thing a two about the "hubby" usikufe peke yako Div this interview should have unmasked him juu anadelete and clearly he is active and knows these interviews happens he watches and maybe on social media chini ya maji 😌
Divinar is such an amazing soul, she has stood with many women more so those suffering from cancer, she stood with the lady Nancy Jagongo until her last breath, i wanna meet her next Week
Divinah you are such a strong woman. I've followed all the conversation amidst lots of tears. You have really encouraged me. Kindly be stong for those lovely girls.
This is so pathetic. I had a similar experience. I have 3 kids my husband abandoned us when my last baby was 3years old. My last baby is now fourteen and we have never heard from him.. I learned he has moved on.
We women are often so committed to our husband we just continue to hope against hope.
Wow this is me 3 kids too I have decided to come out of that trap
My dear am not so brave but I need to move out the way the father of my two gals treats me it's killing me inside, we can even take a month without intimacy no talking to each other
Bless you and the kids 🙏🏾
Her parting shot Not all is lost as long as you are still alive That's very deep ✨
Truest
@@jaynenjenga3718 yes it's absolutely true dear
This woman is strong 💯💔this story is so heartbreaking,hugs mama quads, mama Ls...
That was a powerful story I wish her all the best for her and the kids you will not only survive but you will thrive
Bravo Divinah, thank you so much the brother and friends of Divinah, may God bless you. It's not easy, unfortunately those who love genuinely and innocently suffer so much at the hands of these snipers, because they are calm, seemingly diplomatic but full of lies. The pain sinks really deep because it is always prolonged, and before you actually get to analyze the situation and accept the truth. You tend to instead want to protect your abuser, sadly! I wish people would stop telling lies in relationships, it just destroys the person so deeply, it drains, makes ill and may kill
Please be true and don't lie, if you do, please stop.
Lynn I’m in the USA and I can tell you this
1; when there is fraud the bank gives you money money and they deal with
the issue
2: when you don’t work and you’re sick you file unemployment and the govt pays you
3: when you’re in the hospital you have your right to talk to your family and for
Ladies if a man is in the USA
If he’s willing to have you in their life make sure there is commitment and also he or she can bring you in the USA through
K1 visa
Visit visa
Fiancé and many other
❤❤we love you back
I echo the above. Marriage is not marriage without a marriage certificate. We allow love & trust crowd us from not doing what is right( legalize marriage). Double life is every where. In USA and Visa versus. Others have a lawful wife in USA and still manage to have one in Kenya fully supported by his family. Ladies, marriage certificate speak louder that traditional marriage. My 2 sense.
Very true.
Correct
Am in the 🇺🇸 and i support you 100%
Oh my God, thank you for sharing my sister. Its an eye opener.
Great story. Thanks for sharing it with the world. Thank you Lynn for bringing life changing stories to us. Well done!
Please ladies Divinar doesn't require criticism but encouragement, you might even be in a worse situation but throwing insults let's spread love and support to all mothers ❤❤❤ may God continue blessing you Divinar
The process of getting Papers in 🇺🇸 is so so frustrating 😢 .. nobody wants to share it at .. Is better to deceive than to share.. may God keep you strong 💪
Totally agree
I always tell women to be very careful with men who tell them, “I love my private life, don’t post me on social media etc”…Social media has become a vetting platform, people can easily reach out and tell you, I know the guy you posted, he is married or has kids with so and so.I have seen so many women defending their hubbies on social media, oh my hubby loves privacy, that’s why I post myself and the kids!Woman wake up!
Yaani the guy sent her 50k to buy kids clothes the made her kopa 100k🤔 50k yake ikarudi na 50 ingine juu....he is indeed a strange person
My sister salute your brother for taking care of you and the children. He is one in a million. May GOD see you and the kids through.
SUCH A STRONG WOMAN. YOU ARE A MOTIVATOR. CONTINUE TO BE STRONG . YOUR KIDS ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL. GOD BLESS.
Divinah am so happy that you finally got the strength to share. This is the beginning to healing. You are indeed a strong woman.
Thanks for sharing this, you made me pull some strength and realize that after all I was not stupid after being through almost a similar situation, healing day by day
Men and their normal tricks
I suffered an exact picture and even more of your odeal some four years ago and yet to fully recover. I have had the pains 😭😭😭😭😭 of raising my son all by myself he will be four this June 2023. The deceit and trauma is a whole drama to write about. May God in His infinite mercy heal us all. Amen 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼
God saved you from that person!! Who knows what would have happened to you if you continued with such a person. i personally believe it was a blessing in disguise for him to go away. Its just sad that he is not supporting his children.
The society see us with kids and conclude that we're were the most bad ,wicked women, that's why we were abandoned by our so called baby daddies, a man can wake up one morning and decide that he is leaving and there is nothing you can do about it,go start another family and live happily forever after like you don't even exist. This lady is one strong woman, she has 5 and she is hanging on, while there is me who has one and at times my mind comes to a standstill. I can do many things for a man but one that I vowed not to do is ,"borrowing money for him" Sina huo upako.
I always salute all single parents out there especially women,and sometimes I tell myself I'd rather have a kid/s and raise them alone rather than kusumbuana na mwanaume
Tukoo wengi
Tuko wengi na tulisahau na jina ya baby Daddies tunasikilianga tu huku kwa CZcams
You said it all they decide to wake up and leave you with your child and completely forgot you exist
I wish we could talk more ...these things are real and all over...I now get it that am not alone in this....feel much stronger if divinar is still strong with 5...here I am with one and it comes a time when i feel like am loosing it...Its not easy after all...but one has to keep moving....
May I start by congratulating you Lynn??Coz mahn!!!the work you do is no joke.You are the strongest,brave, beautiful and kind-hearted human I've ever come across.I always pray for you cz I know the burden that you carry is not easy.God bless you
Such a strong woman you are,May God give you more Grace @Divinar ,we shall live to see God's Glory manifest in your life through those kids.
Thanks Lynn for bringing this story. You have great listening skills and an non-evaluative attitude l appluade you. You show so much empathy to your guests and respect.🎉🎉🎉❤❤
HalleluYah for that friend that came and got her! I know how it is to be in such despair and to have those thoughts invading your mind. That "man" will pay for every lie that passed through his lips. He will reap all the deceit he's spread. He will feel every bit of pain he has put his children and this sister through. May Yahuah continue to bless, keep, provide for and guide you and your children Divinar 🙏🏽❤
All diseases he claimed to have, they'll invade him, he'll have no place to hide.
@@alicekamau321 Every single one. The tongue is powerful and he spoke that on himself. May Yahuah have mercy on him because he's going to need it.
@@chinawomble so true
He claim heart problems so shall it be. Life and death is in the power of the tongue.
It's good to own up your story. May God guide you in your healing journey and raise Queens who will know how they should be treated by men.
I thank God for this story, and I wish I could understand you when you speak your language. This lady is so strong, and I thank God for her telling her truth.
Strength of a Woman.. Davinah your story has hit me hard but a lot Eye opening. I pray that you and your children will lack nothing onward. Blessings to your Brother, your Friends and well wishers. First time watching this program and I'm not disappointed. Thank you so much Ms Lynn Ngugi... Nuff Jamaica 🇯🇲 luv ❤️ to you.
I've listened to this story and have just realized I am a single mother of a diaspora husband
Akii you're funny.
One person you can never advise is a person in love 😢
Very true
And the person out of love too
😂😂😂 very true
This!!! Even if you climb on a tree and shout, they will never listen to you. It makes me sad because I have dealt with family members who never listened until they learnt the hard way.
DEEPLY IN LOVE..
You are a very strong woman, keep well and take care of your children ❤️