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  • čas přidán 27. 04. 2022
  • For the very first time, Njeri wa Migwi is letting the world in on her most kept secrets. Her marriage at a very young age, her most trying moments, faking a smile for the public, walking away, getting married again, walking away once again and deciding to finally put herself and her beautiful children first
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  Před 2 lety +666

    Dear Team LN,
    I have to admit, having partnered with Njeri wa Migwi on several shows, I never knew she had gone through so much.
    How can a woman who rescues so many peolpe be so selfless knowing very much she was facing her own demons.
    To me Njeri has become a sister, a friend and someone whose work I truly admire.
    As we get to listen to her story, please see how best we can also support her initiative, Usikimye, a safe safe for victims of Sexual and Gender Based Violence through
    Paybill : 891300 Ac 52916
    Account Usikimye
    Mpesa Line: 0718158400 (Arleen Njeri)
    Help line : 0800000999
    Thank you so much for watching❤️

    • @mercyedith1383
      @mercyedith1383 Před 2 lety +14

      Hi Lynn,how can someone reach Her for counselling?not for me,but for my son

    • @KuiWaKamau
      @KuiWaKamau Před 2 lety +15

      Njeri Wa Migwi's story is so incredibly sad 💔😥 I am glad that she was able to get out of that Toxic Marriage, strong enough to save so many victims through #Usikimye
      Let's come together & hold her up by supporting her initiative. God bless You Njeri Wa Migwi. Thank You Lynn for this show. 🙌💕🌻

    • @sarahnthenya9260
      @sarahnthenya9260 Před 2 lety +10

      Njeri is so beautiful ..veeeeerry
      Physically and at heart

    • @tcuguh
      @tcuguh Před 2 lety +6

      Lynn pia kuna their M-changa i use it often & its handy for diaspora ❤🎉

    • @janetwanga1242
      @janetwanga1242 Před 2 lety +6

      Hey lynn nakupenda bure

  • @prisswangu4562
    @prisswangu4562 Před 2 lety +851

    I have looked at this lady the whole interview, her smile, her composure... Everything about her is absolutely beautiful. I wish she would smile at the mirror and see how beautiful it is. She's incredibly strong and am happy she's found her peace. 👏👏👏👏

    • @georgewanjohi70
      @georgewanjohi70 Před 2 lety +33

      Honestly yes. Infact if Njeri is ugly, what does beautiful look like?

    • @carolynn8359
      @carolynn8359 Před 2 lety +26

      Her eyes are cuuuute....her face in general is pretty 😍 she is gorgeous

    • @degrahomambia1599
      @degrahomambia1599 Před 2 lety +10

      She is beutiful and lovely and amezing

    • @catherinewanjiku4754
      @catherinewanjiku4754 Před 2 lety +3

      @@degrahomambia1599 amazing and she is the best

    • @prayerlover7672
      @prayerlover7672 Před 2 lety +8

      I was thinking the same. She has a SMILE that lights up a room. She is just BEAUTIFUL

  • @jacdez3520
    @jacdez3520 Před 2 lety +63

    The husband called her ugly because she was pretty. He’s a insecure abuser.

    • @sheilamarangu
      @sheilamarangu Před 2 lety +5

      You boosted ur husband ego by not leaving. That's what narcissists feed on

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Před 2 lety +1

      Absolutely

  • @Stwairimu
    @Stwairimu Před 2 lety +299

    Lynn, this lady Arlene, that's what I call her...took me in with my 3 kids when I was struggling in ministry. She took very good care of us. feeding us, clothing us. I remember there's a term she paid my kids fees. She loved us through that difficult time. She went out of her way by helping me get my own house. Njeri has a very big heart, all this she did for me while struggling with the abuse of her x husband. Am so happy for you Arlene. That you can now talk about it, means you are finally free to reach out to many more Njeris. May God continue lifting and using you..Shine on gal👏👏👏💪💪💪

  • @peninnahmwalili8518
    @peninnahmwalili8518 Před 2 lety +38

    The dad wears the crown for me! He stood by the daughter through the biggest storm of her life. And happy the she finally be herself.

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461
    @phillipsidhojapap1461 Před 2 lety +212

    Your dad is the best.. he never badmouthed your mother to you guys and, instead, focused on nurturing you the best way he could. Salute to him and other single fathers who make the difficult choices to be with their children

  • @martynkalasya9749
    @martynkalasya9749 Před 2 lety +166

    I hv nvr come across a woman praising her dad 4 bringing her up single handedly like this woman, thats a plus + 4me.kudos

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Před 2 lety +10

      Most men don’t do that but I am sure those brought up by single dads appreciate that more than ever because it’s not the norm in our African society

    • @judykihuria6075
      @judykihuria6075 Před 2 lety +11

      There is a time my mum left for 2 years and dad ( may his soul rest in peace) took good care of us. Had the best dad in the world.

    • @bettya4601
      @bettya4601 Před 2 lety +2

      I always do! Always and may he rest in perfect peace

    • @blaquecinderella3560
      @blaquecinderella3560 Před 2 lety +5

      @@Canadianlove they do it just that they don't mehemehe about it like women. You will be surprised

    • @phyllisplays3811
      @phyllisplays3811 Před 2 lety +9

      Me and my other siblings were brought up by my dad after my mum die for 10years before he remarried,so there are wonderful men doing great job out there..

  • @janetkumwenda7996
    @janetkumwenda7996 Před 2 lety +99

    I think Njeri's first husband should be sued for attempted murder and abuse. He deserves to face the law. Njeri is also entitled to 50% of the wealth they acquired together. I don't know about the law in Kenya but this story is very upsetting that he got away with everything. Well done Njeri your future is in the hands of God. God loves you. Keep up the good work.

    • @dottynight
      @dottynight Před 2 lety +9

      Kenyan courts are very very slow and corrupt . Assuming she gets her day in court- which is a very expensive process, her ex will claim he provided solely for the children. Since the law in Kenya needs both parents to provide, it will be assumed that he covered her part. Therefore he owes her nothing. It's sad. But I tell every woman in Kenya, to ask and know the legal aspects of marriage and divorce BEFORE the marriage

    • @BRiGHT-CHilD
      @BRiGHT-CHilD Před 2 lety +16

      It might seem he has gotten away with everything but I assure you, he will pay for everything. Vengeance is the Lord's.

    • @janetkumwenda7996
      @janetkumwenda7996 Před 2 lety +3

      @@dottynight Thanks for the update. I am writing from South Africa and did not know the law is different in Kenya. Very sad indeed. The system needs to be revised. The story leaves those who aspire to get married worried about the future.

    • @janetkumwenda7996
      @janetkumwenda7996 Před 2 lety +4

      @@BRiGHT-CHilD Yes, I have seen it happen over and over again. Indeed vengeance is the Lord's.

    • @lucyinglis7463
      @lucyinglis7463 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes the beautiful woman he got married to...is most likely the one who will send him to his grave. He keep thinking all women will be dominated like his first wife, but he will be very wrong.
      Or God might make him eat grass like the king in the Holy Bible.

  • @emmaculatemenzeiwa
    @emmaculatemenzeiwa Před 20 dny +10

    OH MY GOD, SHE WAS MARRIED TO A NARCISSIST. THANK GOD SHE IS FREE

  • @angelinambithe7302
    @angelinambithe7302 Před 2 lety +67

    That part "mummy where is the rest of the house?" Killed me 😃
    Wah aky life

  • @angellakoki8954
    @angellakoki8954 Před 2 lety +276

    I wish one day I'll get the strength to tell my story because seeing this takes me back to it (same script different casts) so many women are six feet under because they didn't walk away and I almost became part of that statistic...I hope women love themselves enough to walk away from abuse.

    • @jobmary2140
      @jobmary2140 Před 2 lety +11

      Men go through the same too. I know a lot with similar story.

    • @NjeriMariiyu
      @NjeriMariiyu Před 2 lety +6

      May God give you the grace and strength 💓.

    • @bettyndungu5187
      @bettyndungu5187 Před 2 lety +3

      What an incredible human being🤭🙄
      Njeri,you are beautiful inside out.Push forward and never never go back to abusers.
      Make yourself comfortable with yourself and your children🙏🏿

    • @Afr1canQueen
      @Afr1canQueen Před 2 lety +3

      You got out and that was a brave move. One needs more than strength to do what you did.

    • @nyamburanjengah5797
      @nyamburanjengah5797 Před 2 lety +6

      @@jobmary2140 get a forum and share the story too. No one shud suffer in silence

  • @winycynthia1094
    @winycynthia1094 Před 2 lety +131

    How can anyone not love this woman.... She is phenomenal and an entire powerhouse

  • @caroakosa9221
    @caroakosa9221 Před 2 lety +13

    It's sad am watching this a week after we buried a 33 year old in our village who committed suicide coz she was tired of her husband's emotional/ verbal abuse. She kept telling her friends, NIMECHOKA NA MATUSI.
    She didn't have to die. If it's not working, PLEASE LEAVE.

  • @bossb8989
    @bossb8989 Před 2 lety +259

    “Just because I come from brokenness doesn’t mean I can’t hold a home together.” Those words… only one who comes from a background of brokenness would know how true & loud they ring to the ear.

  • @nancykimani8427
    @nancykimani8427 Před 2 lety +186

    I know Njeri personally, we met in our 20s in church and had no idea she's gone through so much. Only knew about her baby girl's premature birth and miracle healing. I'm glad that you've come out strong and are still bubbly and have not lost your sense of humour. My dear Njeri, you're beautiful inside and out. Thank you for speaking out and for what you are doing to help others. Kudos 👍👏👏👏

  • @fancylangat7994
    @fancylangat7994 Před 2 lety +32

    This mama doesn't know how beautiful she is,inner and outer beauty. God bless you Njeri.

  • @janendungu1663
    @janendungu1663 Před 2 lety +205

    Nothing hurts a person's more than verbal and emotional abuse. It lowers one self esteem and value on oneself. Thanks Njeri for standing in the gap for all those going through any form of abuse.
    Your story has triggered so many emotions but one day I shall live to tell my story.

    • @lilianmoraa9621
      @lilianmoraa9621 Před 2 lety +1

      This one breaks you like shiet

    • @debratyrell9616
      @debratyrell9616 Před 2 lety

      Thank you..it almost sent me crazy

    • @estherwangui9164
      @estherwangui9164 Před 2 lety +3

      I can testify,I contemplated suicide so many times,I hated myself,I hated life 😔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.I thank God for the grace of courage to leave 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      The journey to healing is not easy,a day at a time

    • @keziahosuala8372
      @keziahosuala8372 Před 2 lety

      Exactly

    • @mjimgaamwingine1672
      @mjimgaamwingine1672 Před 2 lety

      Money buy everything

  • @HardlyTalk
    @HardlyTalk Před 2 lety +101

    Can we appreciate Mr. Migwi for his consistency as a parent, solid as a rock. This story is so powerful and am glad she told it. She is light despite experiencing darkness. More power to you Njeri Migwi

  • @rebeccahmbote2135
    @rebeccahmbote2135 Před 2 lety +20

    Who feels that the lady's name should be JOVIAL.she is such a darling 💕

  • @bcaiqs
    @bcaiqs Před 2 lety +12

    “Leave tables where love is not served“ powerful words !!!
    Njeri you are beautiful inside and out !! God bless you and continue to direct your path . 🙏🏿

  • @unclesamthepreacher
    @unclesamthepreacher Před 2 lety +7

    Njeri we were inn the same church. You really supported my wedding and your daughter coloured the Day. And all along never knew you going through all that. I am convinced you are destined for greatness. Hold your Head up high. You transforming lives and I celebrate you

  • @tubtarax7757
    @tubtarax7757 Před 2 lety +86

    Thank you Njeri, from today I’ll try my best not to hurt any woman. It’s so sad that some people develop trauma bonding, instead of leaving the abuser.

  • @AmayaRue2360
    @AmayaRue2360 Před 2 lety +92

    Reminds me of my ex. He would describe my ugly nose, pimples etc especially when l was pregnant. 😤 I am so happy to be free of that emotional abuser

    • @life-tech-talks
      @life-tech-talks Před 2 lety +5

      Hugs

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Před 2 lety +7

      Narcissist are worst creatures if someone hasn't met one ..they know nothing of different abuse.let me salute myself I rescued myself from one who keeps coming back to me.

    • @jacklinekabali9623
      @jacklinekabali9623 Před 2 lety +6

      Even me the father of my first born used to abuse that he helped me to marry me but am not his class,am very urgly with big chics

    • @barbaraolesi1079
      @barbaraolesi1079 Před 2 lety +3

      I am so sorry that you had to go through that and I pray that you have since healed.

    • @AmayaRue2360
      @AmayaRue2360 Před 2 lety +3

      @@jacklinekabali9623 hugs sis 🫂

  • @archie2555
    @archie2555 Před 2 lety +20

    Omg this woman, i saw her at some poetry event.and i loved her!!her personality, confidence wow.cant believe a man tried breaking her confidence and she still came out on top

    • @cynthiaherah7510
      @cynthiaherah7510 Před 2 lety +1

      Excellent interview ..she's beautiful indeed. My thing is if you are not allowed to speak up for yourself in a marriage...then run

  • @winniem8115
    @winniem8115 Před 2 lety +41

    ' Let me stay for my kids. '.....This statement is the downfall of many mothers in abusive marriages. So sad

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Před 2 lety +43

    Njeri wa Migwi is an amazing woman! Your husband was insecure about himself & that's why the belittling 💔God put a great ministry in you and we stan you Queen❤️👑

  • @nomkhosizondo5548
    @nomkhosizondo5548 Před 2 lety +23

    This woman is beautiful the man she got married to had his own insecurities...toxic people can infect you with negativity

  • @janealala1332
    @janealala1332 Před 2 lety +24

    Why did that man tell Njeri wa Migwi that she is ugly? She is beautiful. I loved every minute of this show. What an amazing lady, mother and mother of 4 cats. Initially I got to know her because of our love for cats, then I discovered her organization and the great work that she does. Amazing woman she is.

    • @simplicityseeu
      @simplicityseeu Před rokem +1

      Because he is a monster and was insecure. That’s what controlling abusers do. They try to lower your self esteem and then they isolate you from friends and family.

    • @lucygikonyo2437
      @lucygikonyo2437 Před 4 měsíci

      True she's beautiful

  • @rebeccawandia6240
    @rebeccawandia6240 Před rokem +14

    The fact that this incredible woman can narrate all this with a lot of confidence and smiling means a lot.She has healed,she is over it,,you are blessed mama

  • @lucynjuguna9653
    @lucynjuguna9653 Před 2 lety +83

    There is always pain behind 99% of smiles.The rejection she faced while young is her greatest undoing

  • @danydanie1098
    @danydanie1098 Před 2 lety +27

    I’m not even Kenyan…so I couldn’t understand Swahili. I finished the whole video…I laughed, cried and I learned. She’s deeply courageous and she’s a true gem 👏👏👏👏👏.Njeri you are beautiful❤️👏👏👏👏👏.

    • @ladysafari01
      @ladysafari01 Před 2 lety +2

      I thought this is in English except for only a few phrases here and there

    • @danydanie1098
      @danydanie1098 Před 2 lety

      @@ladysafari01 oh yes. It's English...I should've been specific of course in my comment. Also I think I was also thinking about the other videos I watched that same day that had a lil more Swahili in it. But anyone can understand the progression of the story when they switch back to English later on. I understood and enjoyed them all at the end. And I noticed some also have translations so it helps. Have a good day.

  • @nettiemafunga9400
    @nettiemafunga9400 Před 2 lety +14

    I agree 100% that if a man is abusing his wife he tries by all means to be good to her relatives so that they will have difficulty believing the woman who is being abused. Wicked thing to do.

  • @JENNIFERAOKECH
    @JENNIFERAOKECH Před 2 lety +19

    "LEAVE TABLES WHERE LOVE IS NO LONGER BEING SERVED." Thank you again Njeri, for sharing your story and reaching out to those struggling with effects of GBV. You are a great person, you deserve the best, beautiful, brilliant lady.

  • @diahannrosai6950
    @diahannrosai6950 Před 2 lety +88

    That cousin is yet another reminder for myself not to trust my own family members.
    🐍 🐍 🐍

  • @liliannyapolo8850
    @liliannyapolo8850 Před 2 lety +207

    Everyone has a story that we don't know; let's be kind to one another!

  • @lynekyampire7843
    @lynekyampire7843 Před 2 lety +14

    This reminds me of how my mother in-law said am small and short thus i can't fit to be his sons wife...she made sure i can't move on with his son yet i was already pregnant for his son ,,his son woke up one day and told me leave i no longer need you in my life ..
    5 years now of being a single mother ,,but that statement still tortures my mind ,,i have never believed am beautiful no matter how ppl tell me that am more beautiful ...it still hurts me

    • @mercymumbi958
      @mercymumbi958 Před 2 lety +1

      I pray for your healing in Jesus Name Lyne. You are beautiful. Please say to yourself how beautiful you are every day. Words have power. You are beautiful ❤️ ❤️❤️

    • @lynekyampire7843
      @lynekyampire7843 Před 2 lety

      @@mercymumbi958 thank you so much Mercy

    • @zippyk.6277
      @zippyk.6277 Před 21 hodinou

      Find out what your creator says about you, dear, not what some random evil woman said about you. Find your identity in Christ.

  • @karenmutune1178
    @karenmutune1178 Před 2 lety +11

    Leave tables where love is nolonger served.... I'm leaving tomorrow
    Thank you Njeri
    ❤️

  • @maphuthakhosa3510
    @maphuthakhosa3510 Před 2 lety +66

    Your dad is an ANGEL! A destiny Helper, encourager, protector, etc. This love is too oooo much.

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 Před 2 lety +56

    If you're out there watching this video & going through similar situations, you deserve better. I pray you get out safely🙏🙏🙏

  • @nyamburaadventures_ke
    @nyamburaadventures_ke Před 2 lety +20

    This is soo touching.A clear evidence that material possessions do not really equate to a good life in some circumstances.

  • @anenaevaline9761
    @anenaevaline9761 Před 2 lety +10

    This woman is super beautiful. I can't believe someone would say she's ugly. Her smile is breathtaking.

  • @yvonnemungai4463
    @yvonnemungai4463 Před 2 lety +29

    She was destined for greatness.... and i have noticed when you are great the devil brings a crazy spouse with soul ties,bondages...

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 Před 2 lety +15

    So this man calls her ugly but also sends people to watch her every move??kwani vitu ugly kuna mtu ako na haja nazo
    That was a sick man

  • @laniaquaccoo1214
    @laniaquaccoo1214 Před rokem +5

    I am honestly looking at this woman and said what a beautiful smile…. How in this world anyone can call her ugly…

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV Před 2 lety +14

    First of all this woman has a sense of humour. She's also a good story teller. It's a pity but so many women have gone through it and very many still going through it. Thanks for sharing.

  • @gracemugare2936
    @gracemugare2936 Před 2 lety +26

    We used to be together at JCC and listening to you now I understand you. I thought you were a snob. I came to see your child at Marter hospital. You served God diligently. Nice to see you Njeri

  • @sheerow371
    @sheerow371 Před 2 lety +182

    Those people out there calling single mothers names without even knowing how difficult it is to walk out of their marriage should now relate to this story. Before a woman walks out of her marriage she has seen it all, think twice before you call that single mother names..

    • @dancynancy8854
      @dancynancy8854 Před 2 lety +3

      Break up is not an easy thing but my dear happiness is a choice....if you are in a relationship to pliz the other one and in your side you are not happy it's good you quit....

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Před 2 lety +7

      Exactly.Most people insult and abuse single mothers not knowing exactly what these women go through.I wish people would learn to be kind to single mothers instead of being abusive

    • @sheerow371
      @sheerow371 Před 2 lety +9

      @@dancynancy8854 my point is single mothers should be respected not call them names, they have already gone through a lot , they leave to look for peace..

    • @Jojo-pv3uf
      @Jojo-pv3uf Před 2 lety +3

      In her case, she was a single mother from the start. She never legally married the man. She ran away from home and stayed there, even parents didn’t bless this marriage (from her own admissions). Once again; when you do things out of the will of God, bad things happen. When you disobey your parents like she did, bad things happen. If she had taken her time to grow up, she won’t have chosen this man. But the choice was hers and she made it, and it led to some horrible consequences.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 Před 2 lety +22

      @@Jojo-pv3uf you’re so silly

  • @Probity100
    @Probity100 Před rokem +9

    Lynn asking her “you are working towards what?” As a survivor of horrendous domestic abuse… It is very hard to think of self love or being beautiful…. Particularly when you have been told you are ugly & no one will ever love you.
    Unless you have walked in those painful DV shoes, you can never truly understand…
    What an amazing, resilient woman Njeri is! God bless her & her children.

  • @vivienbentley3540
    @vivienbentley3540 Před 2 lety +4

    It is such a good thing to see a guy like Benjamin Zulu always warning and teaching pee 25s. This woman is so beautiful and strong, sending lots of love ❤❤her story is so inspiring

  • @Krizadh
    @Krizadh Před 2 lety +75

    I loved her narration: she is no longer bitter.. I can feel it in her voice

  • @pollynjonge2087
    @pollynjonge2087 Před 2 lety +25

    It may take years to walk out of marriage. It is the hardest thing to do.But that feeling of peace means everything.

  • @theprayingcitizen7441
    @theprayingcitizen7441 Před 2 lety +15

    This has taught me to respect ,treat kindly,pray quietly for even people I do not know what hell they are going through in life.

  • @wakiomwangi5462
    @wakiomwangi5462 Před 2 lety +8

    But she is so beautiful...her smile ,her eyes...she is amazing with a heart bigger than any one else I have met

  • @patricianabende7674
    @patricianabende7674 Před 2 lety +78

    I remember this lady. She was so bubbly and told me the story of her daughter and that story stayed with me. This story has really touched me. Your dad is an angel

  • @rachealkinuthia4781
    @rachealkinuthia4781 Před 2 lety +59

    she's really gorgeous! 😊 I'm not even saying this to make her feel better. she's veryyyyy beautiful!!!!

  • @jonyawira
    @jonyawira Před 2 lety +8

    Dear Team LYN,
    it takes courage to actually say her story. It's so touching. I have never been married but I don't know what it is that I felt in love in guys . I can't explain the way I feel.. I have come to hate men...

  • @lilacjoseph9509
    @lilacjoseph9509 Před 2 lety +6

    This woman is the most beautiful human being have ever seen.......inside and outside she is beautiful

  • @murungaruchris245
    @murungaruchris245 Před 2 lety +12

    The only reason I had to watch the whole program is the fact the girl is still fighting at 16 and with all she has gone through she took home a B+😭😭😭 there's hope and I'll serve this God to my last breathe

  • @annekaranja101
    @annekaranja101 Před 2 lety +10

    I thought I had a story that will shock ppl kumbe Kuna ule Ako na story serious kuliko yangu .😭 Abusive marriages are real

  • @lethiwevinjwa7247
    @lethiwevinjwa7247 Před rokem +9

    I love how this woman narrates her story.. Her composure is empaccable

  • @lynnetgathoni2940
    @lynnetgathoni2940 Před 2 lety +8

    Sometimes is better to be poor and be in a happy relationship that being rich and be in a domestic relationship 😔..win win Njeri migwi 🥳

  • @africanawang2674
    @africanawang2674 Před 2 lety +29

    Ugly wapi. Girl toto is eye candy. camera friendly and above all, good heart exuding inner beauty

  • @virginianganga5725
    @virginianganga5725 Před 2 lety +32

    I walked away from my baby Daddy because of my son..I didn’t want him to grow up in an Abusive family.I cried so many times

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Před 2 lety +4

      You did great

    • @marilynmckund4197
      @marilynmckund4197 Před 2 lety +3

      Your son will always be proud of you for you are a selfless and brave mom. May our good God bless you always.

  • @seerajovitah247
    @seerajovitah247 Před 2 lety +11

    Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder this woman is beautiful to me I love her eyes

  • @annnjoki5868
    @annnjoki5868 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Coming from a broken family too as a child, acceptance and trying to prove that it can work out is something you struggle with..

  • @mwendevibes
    @mwendevibes Před 2 lety +88

    I love what Njeri is doing, she deserves everything good in this life.

  • @rosenangila1125
    @rosenangila1125 Před 2 lety +12

    Her English 👌👌,, I love her, so bubbly 😍 a contagious smile .... Eish beauriful Njeri

  • @eljay8308
    @eljay8308 Před 2 lety +5

    No flattering,this lady is very beautiful.That smile 🥰

  • @naomimaina1186
    @naomimaina1186 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Who else feels this story is not complete without justice for Njeri? I mean,she quit her job to work with her husband,she managed his businesses and wasn't getting paid for that? Meaning she was more than a slave in that man's life for more than 14 years and to add to that he abused her physically, verbally and emotionally? No! It shouldn't be the case and even if Njeri isn't interested in his money, she deserved a share of his property because they made the wealth together. Don't forget he impregnated her while she was still a minor.
    #justicefirnjeri.

  • @patriciachakawatah2787
    @patriciachakawatah2787 Před 2 lety +22

    Congratulations Lynn Ngungi on your first live show ... You're the next Oprah Winfrey 👏👏👏

    • @nightallen4704
      @nightallen4704 Před 3 měsíci

      She doesn't need to be Oprah! She's better

  • @mercydaniel8879
    @mercydaniel8879 Před 2 lety +11

    Wah! I knew Arleene From church, back when she drove the Range and BMW. She was rich and looked so put together, no one would have ever thought she's was going through all this. She also changiad alot in my wedding......
    It's hard to relate this story to the person I saw back then..... Wah!

  • @sheila1391
    @sheila1391 Před 2 lety +9

    This woman right here is force to reckon with. We are inspired by all you do to help those who haven't mastered their courage yet ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rispathequeen
    @rispathequeen Před 2 lety +2

    I went through same journey, am scared to go back, God show me the am tired of being slave for good 18years 😭😭😭😭😭l abandoned my children 💔 😢 ad run away 💔 am strong to share my story God guide me.

  • @nekesamapesa
    @nekesamapesa Před 2 lety +18

    I have been on a similar rough journey and sometimes I feel ashamed that I am 35 and have nothings to show for it but I trust that God will send me my destiny connector soon. Relationships can steal years from you but God is a restorer.

    • @sharleenjj8548
      @sharleenjj8548 Před 2 lety +2

      Your young and beatifull,God will bless u.

    • @nekesamapesa
      @nekesamapesa Před 2 lety +1

      @@sharleenjj8548 Amen

    • @furahahappiness110
      @furahahappiness110 Před 2 lety +4

      Your not alone sis I'm 35 with nothing living with my mom starting from scratch 😭

    • @nekesamapesa
      @nekesamapesa Před 2 lety

      @@furahahappiness110 I have been living with my mom until just last week when I got a job and had to leave my daughter with mom. But you know what, God has a plan even in all these chaos. I believe there is a lesson in it. And now that I have gone through a terrible relationship I know better than to rush into another. 5 years single and my relationship with God has never been this good. He gives us trials so that we can get closer to him and depend on him completely. Trust in him and his plan.

    • @tumaamir2904
      @tumaamir2904 Před 2 lety +1

      I have also stared from scratch. I lost so many years in a bad relationship but i thank God he is a God of second chances.Returned back home my dad helped me start a business and its thriving. Let me be single till God feels its the right time.After healing and bonding with God

  • @violetkwamboka1195
    @violetkwamboka1195 Před 2 lety +126

    lynn she is so beautiful let her know that . she does not need anyone's opinion to tell her beautiful

    • @donahchemtai4158
      @donahchemtai4158 Před 2 lety +3

      For sure she is pretty

    • @Kaswity2000
      @Kaswity2000 Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly she's so beautiful n a beautiful heart also❤️❤️💃

    • @violetkwamboka1195
      @violetkwamboka1195 Před 2 lety

      @@Kaswity2000 very much i love her

    • @thandiwemseteka3963
      @thandiwemseteka3963 Před 2 lety +1

      Njeri you are indeed very beautiful. Your first husband must have been too blind to see your beauty.

  • @brijjorinje7834
    @brijjorinje7834 Před 2 lety +5

    She’s so real
    Like for real, for real
    So many women out here pretending all is well & it is not.
    Can we be ok with not being ok, be ok with being honest with who we really are & where we are in life
    Thank you Njeri 💝💕💝

  • @kellen.g1158
    @kellen.g1158 Před 2 lety +8

    This woman is brave...so..beautiful...eyes n smile,

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Před 2 lety +148

    Was eagerly waiting for this segment 😍If things don't work out my kids are always welcome home❤️Big up to her Dad

  • @Karol_Lynne
    @Karol_Lynne Před 2 lety +39

    A woman i admire so much for the incredible work she does..I always wondered where she got her strength from but never imagined that she went through hell herself

  • @yourmajesty8742
    @yourmajesty8742 Před 2 lety +12

    I love this lady 😻. You are gorgeous and perfect. You are winning. Edit .. Dad if you read this thank you for being a wonderful father to her.

  • @alicenjoroge4021
    @alicenjoroge4021 Před 2 lety +22

    She's beautiful inside-out and I was privileged to be in the audience to listen to this story ❤️

  • @murugithecook
    @murugithecook Před 2 lety +276

    I just want an hour with these two amazing ladies. To cry uninterrupted, tap from their wisdom, refocus and get my life back together. Until you're abused this never makes sense. I mean this gives me chills down the spine. I wasn't physically abused but all the emotional abuse, mental abuse reflects on your body.. how ended up on anxiety pills till now will remain a story.

    • @bilhacherop2315
      @bilhacherop2315 Před 2 lety +7

      Hopefully your wish will be granted🙏

    • @kawira444
      @kawira444 Před 2 lety +5

      njere your very beautiful🎉,God bless you for all that your doing

    • @bethruga2556
      @bethruga2556 Před 2 lety +4

      Lynn Ngugi, Njeri Wa Migwi

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Před 2 lety +21

      Hello Murugi,
      Kindly send me an email, lynnngugi4@gmail.com

    • @gracenyaboke8483
      @gracenyaboke8483 Před 2 lety +7

      Hugs Murugi

  • @Prisca.W
    @Prisca.W Před 2 lety +101

    Just here to remind y’all that whenever a person tells you you’re not beautiful/handsome, the authority belongs to you,you only get to decide that.I love these two phenomenal ladies so much.

  • @joycekarimi2787
    @joycekarimi2787 Před 2 lety +18

    Her smile is beautiful....it's easy to believe something when it's constantly said to you even when it's not true and one thing she believed is that she's not beautiful and that for sure is a lie. She's one beautiful woman both physically and heart wise. Am so glad she finally decided to let all the hiden pain out...speaking up to all that she's carried all this time was a goo dc decision...Am proud of her

  • @franciscaotieno429
    @franciscaotieno429 Před 2 lety +5

    What an inspiration Lynn,this lady is amazing and for sure those who cling to abusive relationships to learn from this.LONG LIVE MIGWI.God bless you

  • @CoachVioletRibu
    @CoachVioletRibu Před 2 lety +42

    That last minute move......everyone telling Njeri she's beautiful moved me to tears😭😭. I'm grateful for spaces being created by daring people like you Lynn and Njeri. I even wish I was younger to enjoy all these beautiful conversations that we never had.
    You two ladies, are leaving a great mark like Beyonce sings in her UN song, " I was here, I lived, I loved.....I will leave a mark, so everyone will know I was here"..We honor and celebrate you. Yaani I've never felt so proud to be woman ♥️♥️♥️.

    • @clarahkimeli8316
      @clarahkimeli8316 Před 2 lety

      Lynn you are going places, you are the Oprah of Wanjiku

  • @joymaggy3295
    @joymaggy3295 Před 2 lety +30

    what a story ,she is a good orator not a dull moment listening to her story ,a beautiful and strong woman ,hugs Njeri.

  • @joanngoizi3224
    @joanngoizi3224 Před 5 měsíci +16

    After hearing her narrative, I've concluded that
    grappling with a wealthy narcissist is one of life's most terrible experiences.
    It underscores the significance
    of instilling self-love and confidence in children from an early age.
    Mastering the skill of being comfortable alone ensures that external opinions or actions won't easily affect you.
    I am glad she left and didn't feel bad that the first husband was getting married because chances are the second wife will have it rougher.😮

  • @annrita2492
    @annrita2492 Před 2 lety +12

    Have watched this till the end holding back my tears. I was in an abusive marriage thought i would die. Till one day he decided to burn my car that had bought throught frustration and when almost everything was catching fire it attracted neighbours and police. That was the turning point and thats how that abusive marriage ended. Gods will was done. Am now soo happy. Picked up well. Taking care of my kids alone. We have finally healed. God never left our side. Thanks Njeri for that story. We can never be defeated. God bless u as you do good to others it wl come back 100 fold. You are soo beautiful inside out. You will go far.

  • @teejayangel6638
    @teejayangel6638 Před 2 lety +11

    Some men are demons in human skin. Women, always research on any man that wants to marry you, guard your heart! Never, ever make excuses, what you see is what it is. Don't be desperate to get married just to show society that you can get married. Don't!
    Njeri Migwi you're an amazing gorgeous girl! You're a warrior, and a knight in shining armour for many, may God continue blessing you and your children....and kitties 😁

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 Před 2 lety +50

    Only if all dads could be like Njeri's🙏 what a powerful and loving father he's.

    • @blessedwachera7133
      @blessedwachera7133 Před 2 lety +3

      But I question his decision to raise her without her mother. That must have been really difficult for a girl. There are so many things that a girl can only share with a mother.

    • @rosemarykamau7074
      @rosemarykamau7074 Před 2 lety +4

      @@blessedwachera7133 it depends how your relation with your dad is..

    • @blessedwachera7133
      @blessedwachera7133 Před 2 lety +1

      @@rosemarykamau7074 You are right. I belong to an older generation, when we did’t interact too freely with our fathers. I can’t imagine telling him anything, except my school grades and the fees needed. 🤔

  • @josephinewanjiku7406
    @josephinewanjiku7406 Před 2 lety +15

    You are incredibly amazing Njeri. I love that you haven't wasted your pain but by the grace of God have turned it into a mission for saving others in related circumstances. Working with women in addressing ACES and trauma has taught me that, trauma bond is the real glue that sticks a victim to the abuser and it's the hardest to break in domes abuse and violence. I wish you the best as you continue to heal. I can totally relate. I am walking on this path too for self and with fellow women. Keep at it as long as it takes. I thank God every time I see someone get to rise above their story!❤️. Keep up the good work
    Thanks Lynn for having Njeri. Keep up the good work too.

  • @rachelnasasira9482
    @rachelnasasira9482 Před 3 měsíci +1

    imagine she even carries no bitterness for this man that ruined her life. she is a very pure soul. God reward you with a man that will love you to death.

  • @seraeunivia8392
    @seraeunivia8392 Před 2 lety +28

    Wow our Kenyan Oprah Winfrey (Lynn Ngugi) the whole world will recognize you in Jesus name for your wonderful impacting job you are doing... keep going Lynn

    • @lindsieodhiambo4669
      @lindsieodhiambo4669 Před 2 lety +7

      She's our own Lyn Ngugi she won't be compared or limited to Oprahs achievements.

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Před 2 lety +1

      She is Lynn Ngugi much better than Oprah Winfrey.Let’s not
      Compare the two .

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Před 2 lety +1

      @@lindsieodhiambo4669 exactly Kenyans need to stop this comparisons they are not cool

  • @taniatanita7470
    @taniatanita7470 Před 2 lety +16

    but she's beautiful naturally she need to accept that
    men who are abusive and sadistic can call you ugly if they want to kill you slowly....she better accept reality that she's indeed beautiful and step like she owns the world

  • @carolyneluttah1903
    @carolyneluttah1903 Před 2 lety +49

    I have had a nasty narcissistic experience this year and this is such an eye opener. It is super hard to leave an abusive person because of the bond. They hurt you with their words and only they can heal you with their words. It's messed up its hard to believe that such things happen. Sorry Njeri. Glad you can talk about it.

    • @mercyomolewa220
      @mercyomolewa220 Před 2 lety +4

      True

    • @zippyk.6277
      @zippyk.6277 Před 21 hodinou +1

      No. Only God can heal you with His word. You don't give those people that much power.

  • @annmimo37
    @annmimo37 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Isn't it beautiful to watch one shake off the dust of a past storm with such undefeated demeanor and a beautiful smile 😊?such an incredible inspiration ❤

  • @wisdomlife
    @wisdomlife Před 2 lety +26

    This girl, even after her pain, she can still smile... Quite an encouragement

    • @mhunja
      @mhunja Před 2 lety

      You would never have known what she was going through. That smile was constant, she was always radiant. I know her as a strong and admirable person, always pushing forward.

  • @lornabaricho9243
    @lornabaricho9243 Před 2 lety +14

    Woyee.... I can't stop crying when I remember what my mother went through while we were young 😭😭😭😭may God intervene in our families. Sometimes am scared am not even ready to get married. Njeri you're so beautiful mamaaa

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Před 2 lety +1

      Pray for a good husband.God will bless you with one.My daughters are scared too

  • @thabelomtimkulu1900
    @thabelomtimkulu1900 Před 2 lety +24

    Please can you activate English subtitles on this episode. I thoroughly enjoyed it, and would like to repeat it and have a full understanding on things spoken in your native language.