He proposed before he met me, I always knew I was the ugliest woman ever | Lynn Ngugi Network

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  • čas přidán 30. 08. 2022
  • Adah was married off by her parents at 15 and had three children but that marriage was doomed from the word to go.
    She then got remarried to a man who made sure he told her how ugly she was for 14 good years.
    By the time she was done with him, she had 7 children, a broken heart, and no desire to be with a man again,
    But years later, God had different plans for her. She would meet the love of her life online, and after two weeks, he had already proposed and paid a dowry for her. Theirs was a match made in heaven. They accepted each other with arms wide open and lived happily ever after for 10 years before her husband, Walter, went to be with the Lord
    Today, she runs a safe house for young girls and hopes the world can finally change its views on early marriages and protect children.
    On this episode of LNS, she takes Lynn through her journey of pain and love, why a woman should never try to change a man, finding love in her 50s, and why giving back is her main objective.
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  Před rokem +345

    Good morning team LN:)
    What message do you have for Adah Doebele?
    Do you think it is about time women stopped staying in abusive marriages for the sake of kids?
    You can reach out to her through 0792222723
    To share your story with us, send a summary to info@Lnn.digital
    or lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital
    for consideration
    Thank you so much for watching:)

    • @megimeg8118
      @megimeg8118 Před rokem +15

      This is soo me but sijatoka bado all bcoz of my kids with no job😭😭

    • @bebbybebby655
      @bebbybebby655 Před rokem

      @@megimeg8118 I hope you do so before it's too late and you live to regret or .....

    • @carolineondigo8005
      @carolineondigo8005 Před rokem

      @@megimeg8118 my dia come out and do something, stop being a house wife look for a job, business or something.how on earth can you sit down and wait for him to do everything for you.he will frustrate you to death especially when he new you have nothing.

    • @MwaleWaGitau
      @MwaleWaGitau Před rokem +16

      Her story reminds me of Ruth & Boaz. It's a story of God's providence and redemption. A true picture of God's covenant love.

    • @rev.marysusan4130
      @rev.marysusan4130 Před rokem +3

      Thanks

  • @sonyia7521
    @sonyia7521 Před rokem +581

    This is my story, I met my husband 10 yrs ago, he accepted me with my 3 kids and he has helped me bring them up. He loves me n my kids so much and although he is 10 yrs older than me, he respect me so much. But mine ni WA huku kwetu tu😆 mkiuk ka Mimi tu. Anyway, God is faithful and singles, don't give up, your guy is out there, ask God.

    • @melisaevey6306
      @melisaevey6306 Před rokem +20

      you are not alone pia mm wangu alinichukua na wawili nimemzalia mmoja he love them so much huezi sema si wake na right now nimemwachia Niko Saudi he takes care of the so well I thank God 🙏

    • @sylviemorgan9770
      @sylviemorgan9770 Před rokem +4

      Thank you.

    • @hadijadidam4752
      @hadijadidam4752 Před rokem +16

      We still have hope God's time is the best

    • @assd1634
      @assd1634 Před rokem +15

      Me too am in that process. God wiiling he will love me and my children. And am ready for him when time comes.. By the way we have good men uku inje wee. Only needs patience and God's time 🙏🏽inshallah every thing will work out

    • @victoriaelago2842
      @victoriaelago2842 Před rokem +7

      Thank you for the encouraging words

  • @BSOG3
    @BSOG3 Před rokem +467

    This woman is beautiful inside and out. I honestly can't believe she thought she was ugly. It's 100% a myth and I don't understand what she's seeing. She's so pretty, stunning actually. Society has done a horrible disservice to Black people. They have convinced us that we're horrid. This woman is GORGEOUS!

    • @sylviemorgan9770
      @sylviemorgan9770 Před rokem +11

      My thoughts,exactly.

    • @regnatesso2621
      @regnatesso2621 Před rokem +24

      Gorgeous with a fantastic figure and beautiful legs. She’s a epitome of beauty both inside and out.
      May God continue to shower her with His blessings.

    • @myrabali2439
      @myrabali2439 Před rokem +7

      YES, SHE IS GREAT!

    • @SS-br3px
      @SS-br3px Před rokem

      The work of the devil is to steal, kill and destroy.
      The kingdom of the devil is in sons or children of disobedience. The devil simply takes over their hearts and uses them to destroy other beautiful soul's destinies. But children of the Way, we must be aware of the enemy's schemes and pray to have the devil's plans twarted in Christ Jesus.
      Every where you go, there will be evil people whom the devil will use to tell you all the negative about you, but if read the Bible and pray everyday, the Holy Spirit will help you to overcome all the evil and harm in this world. Peace be upon you :)

    • @fonjeienjong9312
      @fonjeienjong9312 Před rokem +10

      Beautiful woman

  • @ttrttt7198
    @ttrttt7198 Před rokem +36

    I thought of giving up in life because of struggling to upbring my 4 year old son alone... but the story of this lady has restored my hope... my day will come

  • @eileennafula8407
    @eileennafula8407 Před rokem +34

    I’ve met bubbly people but Adah is the most bubbly person I’ve seen. Her energy is contagious even digitally! May God bless and keep her. Truly God’s time is the best. I’m blessed this evening

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem

      Amen. Thank you Eileen for your kind words. Am encouraged and humbled. GOD bless you more

  • @livelaughlove369
    @livelaughlove369 Před rokem +427

    Wow! I'm 34 and I must say her life story sounds exactly Iike mine....the only difference is I had just one kid, but when I knew I was gonna be traveling to the US on a greencard, I had a similar conversation with God and asked Him, "if I'm meant to be married please let the first man I meet be the one ( I had layed out the qualities)I asked God to not allow me to go in and out of meaningless relationships.
    When this lady says she knows God is so real...yes He is . He answered my prayers exactly as I asked. Exactly 💯. The first & only man I met online here proposed 4 months later, we got married after 9 months and we've been together 6years now. Yes never limit God by societal standards. I always wanted to be a wife and mother . God gave me a man truly after God's heart. I quote...."find a man after God's heart ladies. Do not compromise because a man after God's heart has such a fear of God and that trickles down to how he interacts with everyone around him. I have been loved and spoilt (love wise).....very spoilt that I tell God, He answered my prayers over and beyond. I had given up on love. I had been called ugly just like her . I was told how no one can love a person like me. I thought I was ugly. Her story is my story and I have nothing negative to share about marriage so my audience is very small because I've realized most people have little to no good things to say about marriages but now I tell a different story. I now believe, it's very possible to find true love again and yes there are still good men and women left. Yes there are. I'm loving this story so far and so sorry for the loss of her husband ❤️

    • @jacklineamisi763
      @jacklineamisi763 Před rokem +5

      Amen 🙏🙌 may God bless you

    • @feisalmohamed7267
      @feisalmohamed7267 Před rokem +4

      Asc

    • @beatricechemutai1806
      @beatricechemutai1806 Před rokem +5

      Encouraging girl....

    • @NazarofGod
      @NazarofGod Před rokem +23

      ❤❤
      I just woke up with the nagging feeling of whether I will find someone who can love me with my physical imperfections. It's beautiful when people find love beyond how they look.
      Your message has touched me. That it is possible to find such love 💕

    • @amazingwondersglobaltv6117
      @amazingwondersglobaltv6117 Před rokem +7

      Wow!!! Such an encouraging testimony.... I am blessed

  • @anenaevaline9761
    @anenaevaline9761 Před rokem +124

    How can someone say this woman is ugly. Everything about her is beautiful. She has the nicest smile.

    • @joppahouseofworship4895
      @joppahouseofworship4895 Před rokem +1

      Thank you Evaline. I am encouraged

    • @sadienjee7137
      @sadienjee7137 Před rokem +2

      And her body is incredible.....wow

    • @joppahouseofworship4895
      @joppahouseofworship4895 Před rokem

      @@sadienjee7137 Thank you

    • @angelicalotsu8575
      @angelicalotsu8575 Před rokem +1

      I believe they were intimidated by her spirit

    • @joyaudrey4312
      @joyaudrey4312 Před rokem

      Actually i love her laughter... it's contagious 😂😂♥️...and she's a strong lady with God beside her...she had cried all her life but her last husband's mission on earth was to change her life and free her from frowns💯❤️...a very beautiful story🦋🦋

  • @EmpoweredUniverse
    @EmpoweredUniverse Před rokem +28

    A mum of 7 who looks this nice and is so eloquent 🙌, i think it's the first husband who planted that wrong mentality to bring her down, she looks so good

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv Před rokem +17

    OMG! Who called her ugly!? This woman is beautiful. A lot of Instagram "before" photos can't hold a candle to her.

  • @helenwaithera
    @helenwaithera Před rokem +187

    She's so eloquent and quite a storyteller. I could listen to her all day. Her story is one of what's meant for you will find you. She's so beautiful.

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much Hellen. Am blushing right now. I think that is a good thing. Barikiwa zaidi

    • @stopxenophobiamukuku924
      @stopxenophobiamukuku924 Před rokem +2

      Indeed she is a real beautiful soul. An amazing woman. I am so glad I tumbled on this. It can only be GOD

    • @pumeza_ndzobongo
      @pumeza_ndzobongo Před rokem +2

      She's articulate and eloquent.

  • @joyjoan4190
    @joyjoan4190 Před rokem +70

    I don't understand why she thought she was ugly.
    I personally find her really beautiful and falling in love with her complexion. You're strong mum..Such a great motivation.

  • @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299
    @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299 Před rokem +160

    I can relate to Adah, sad what people has turned me into. I grew up knowing I was never poor but Ugly and very dark. The children used to tell me back in primary school. Today I am married to the most handsome German man, who loves me unconditionally. My wish is for anybody to never doubt themselves.I was married in the first month I met my hubby, I am the happiest

  • @divine4043
    @divine4043 Před rokem +9

    She is not ugly at all she's a Beautiful Soul, beautiful Outward, beautiful inward.

  • @bettysalama2531
    @bettysalama2531 Před rokem +37

    I met this beautiful soul in 2018 in Cairo, surely she has a loving heart.....n a big heart as well. She said hi to me with a big smile....n she invited me to seat nxt to her while we were waiting for our flight to Nairobi....i love u mamma...n may God bless u always. 💖

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +3

      Thank you darling. I love you back. Amen to your prayer. GOD bless you more

  • @survivorthriving4455
    @survivorthriving4455 Před rokem +130

    Who else can see the beauty in this lady?

    • @tabithawaithira1202
      @tabithawaithira1202 Před rokem +7

      She is so beautiful and her figure on point too🥰👌

    • @carolafricangirl6836
      @carolafricangirl6836 Před rokem +6

      I love her laugh, she is so beautiful and has a lovely figure and those luhya legs. I don't know why she would even think she is ugly. My late mum was luhya (from Marachi, Busia married into Luoland) and Ada even feels like a relative.

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +5

      @Carol, we must be. Am from Marachi. Your mum is probably my sister

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem

      @@tabithawaithira1202 Am humbled, Tabitha. Thank you

    • @carolafricangirl6836
      @carolafricangirl6836 Před rokem

      @@AdornmentMinistries I will look for you when I'm in Busia!

  • @patcarnagie6922
    @patcarnagie6922 Před rokem +22

    This story is spellbounding...What a beautiful soul! She's eloquent,charming and beautiful....They were soulmates...May Walter's soul rest in peace.

  • @elainevanhuis8373
    @elainevanhuis8373 Před rokem +44

    listening to this gives me hope. I was married to a dutch Canadian who died recently. Because of him I don't want to live alone, he was so good.

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +2

      My heartfelt condolences to you Elaine. May God give you the desire of your heart in Jesus' Name. Amen

    • @allbyhisgrace8925
      @allbyhisgrace8925 Před rokem

      Take heart sweetie ,my sister, God is moulding him and sweeping out the chaff and when he is ready He will release him to you.

    • @MeshackTete-xo9ri
      @MeshackTete-xo9ri Před 8 měsíci

      I hope you are now ok after 1year.

  • @Livesimplyeveryday
    @Livesimplyeveryday Před rokem +139

    Her joy is infectious ....her kids are blessed to call her mother

  • @christinendoro2282
    @christinendoro2282 Před rokem +182

    Ada is so beautiful inside and out. So elegant, she looks like royalty and talks like a queen. So inspiring.

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +4

      Oh dear Christine! What a compliment! Am truly humbled and thankful. May our good LORD fulfil your words in Jesus' Mighty name. Amen. Barikiwa zaidi.

    • @sarasonga2270
      @sarasonga2270 Před rokem +4

      GOD ALWAYS HAS GOOD PLANS FOR US GLORY BE TO GOD

    • @keshywangeci2104
      @keshywangeci2104 Před rokem +1

      Beautiful ❤️.may may soul mate locate me

    • @gorettikayitesi327
      @gorettikayitesi327 Před rokem

      Oh my Goodness, God is good all the time just no loose hope, pray, this Women is very.smart and lovely , I wish you the best💗💗💗

    • @evelynnanaesinartey4957
      @evelynnanaesinartey4957 Před rokem

      Am so glad l came across this video. and so much to learn from never give up, but keep on praying and waiting for God's time...God bless you Ada for for inspiration message. 🙏 🙏

  • @meriothm2856
    @meriothm2856 Před rokem +12

    This woman is beautiful, her children are beautiful, the testimony is beautiful . What an amazing encouraging story !!

  • @musiana8806
    @musiana8806 Před rokem +25

    This woman is a great inspiration, indeed it's not over till the Lord says it's over! Love from Zambia

  • @monicahmuhuri7833
    @monicahmuhuri7833 Před rokem +256

    This is the most encouraging story ever for singles. Thanks LNS for this!

    • @tabbyheinz3995
      @tabbyheinz3995 Před rokem +6

      Don't give your self so high hopes work on it. On her story ako na nyota ya kuolea since when she was 15 yrs. She was in wrong partners but now am happy for her new husband . And she is beautiful. Tuonge singles turundi soko. You can hear she met her husband on line. Hakuka chini.

    • @janet7740
      @janet7740 Před rokem +6

      @@tabbyheinz3995 😂😂 sure let me search 🙏

    • @gladysilavuha8501
      @gladysilavuha8501 Před rokem +3

      Exactly.she has really encouraged me . most especially that part of her knowing that she is the ugliest person.me too I think am the most ugliest lady in the world

    • @exhortationsbyeva6345
      @exhortationsbyeva6345 Před rokem +3

      We are made in the image of God, therefore no one is ugly! We are wonderfully and fearfully made!

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +4

      Hallelujah!!! Run with it, dear ones. If It happened to me, it can happen to anyone.

  • @mercymumbi2510
    @mercymumbi2510 Před rokem +46

    She is ELOQUENT💛💚💕💞💓

  • @captionsofgrace
    @captionsofgrace Před rokem +4

    I am only 34 minutes into this video and you have me in tears with your story. I'm in America 🇺🇸 . I woke up at 4am writing in my journal to God. I title my writing a limitless God. I started the sentence on saying God you are limitless. I don't want to put you into a box. I'm a single mom of 2 and divorced 2x. I push people away. I'm a very prayerful person. Then I tried to be so hesitant on who God sending in my life due to the distance, etc. I know can do the impossible. Thank you for walking out your journey and sharing. It's been 6 years from my divorce. Your story was touching do much. I know this is the ministry I walkout and I help others to own there story. Thank God

  • @unitysarah1996
    @unitysarah1996 Před rokem +6

    Her black skin represents strength, he laughter represent power and courage. I just love her. We need more women like her

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 Před rokem +103

    When someone is not meant for you God will keep showing you & letting them hurt you more till you can't let it anymore... Stop staying in that situation thinking they will change, love your self more and trust God.

  • @njerikamutip8554
    @njerikamutip8554 Před rokem +42

    This beautiful woman is like a living, walking, talking, smiling, laughing Anti Depressant. I work with depression and it takes so much time to get a depressed person drop the negative thoughts and relationship. She is on the right end of the spectrum.

    • @belovedw165
      @belovedw165 Před rokem +1

      Ngai, woi the devil is a liar, first few minutes in and my first thought is this lady is beautiful!!!

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +1

      Thank you Njeri. Am humbled

    • @amandasjoy2840
      @amandasjoy2840 Před rokem +2

      True,how do you know ur depressed cz I have a feeling I'm,I'm also a single parent n I have a feeling I'm,I have never felt beautiful in my life even after trying my best to be beautiful,there is always this small voice talking to me telling me I'm not,even when i try to check myself on a mirror I see myself ugly,I have never shared my thought with anyone but i always wonder cz my two babies are cute.I know down my heart I'm not well but one day I will come out of to this situation strong may God give me a helper to come out strong 😭

    • @kamutanhosevria6455
      @kamutanhosevria6455 Před rokem

      Tell me more on droping anger

  • @chosenqueen5109
    @chosenqueen5109 Před rokem +15

    Bless you mama 🌺💞 My mother has been in a bad relationship with my father since she was 18. She is 60 now. He has had 6 kids outside of the marriage. I'm 29 & I see it affected it me. My first serious relationship was with a man who ended up telling me how ugly, unattractive & disgusting I was. It's been 6 years but the words linger. But I see it was all lies when I look at you. I will visit Kenya one day 😀 Love from Johannesburg

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +3

      Hallelujah and Amen. Would love to have you. Yes, it was a lie, you're fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of GOD. May GOD remember your Mum. she is a very strong woman

    • @muwanguziflorencenakawuki5269
      @muwanguziflorencenakawuki5269 Před rokem +1

      Amen Amen Amen glory be to God

  • @nagawaflorence2024
    @nagawaflorence2024 Před rokem +9

    Hey Lynn am a Ugandan 🇺🇬🇺🇬 but I love being part of this family...thanks for the show dear

  • @kasyokakano
    @kasyokakano Před rokem +367

    I wonder how people who don't know Lynn Ngugi survive in this life😂😂

  • @simplyeuphy6157
    @simplyeuphy6157 Před rokem +30

    A moment of silent for her clear beautiful skin .She's beautiful

  • @rosebenjamin4013
    @rosebenjamin4013 Před rokem +43

    Ada's story made my evening, so inspiring. Yes there are still God ordained men out there with the heart of gold who understands what marriage relationship is all about. When we carefully seek the face of God, He will surely give us his best. By God's grace l was opportune to have such a man in my life who loves me unconditionally even with 3 kids then, though his no more. But our being together for 20 years was love in it fullest. My advice, don't close up on yourself. God has better plans for us.

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +1

      Amen. Thank you Rose. Happy that you enjoyed true love while he walked the earth.

    • @buyiswazonke5282
      @buyiswazonke5282 Před rokem

      @@AdornmentMinistries Thank you Adar you are truely amazing,your kindness,your goodness after your painful experiences amaze me.i'm so thankful to have come across your story its so encouraging.

    • @sheilaroninson1361
      @sheilaroninson1361 Před rokem

      Amen

  • @gonelooney5698
    @gonelooney5698 Před rokem +22

    Middle child of three who felt the need to hide, two really bad relationships, seven children - four boys and three girls. I can truly relate to your story. I felt kind of like you were telling my story not your own, with a few changes, but very close. So glad that you took a chance and found someone who loved you for you. You were braver than I am. I will concentrate on loving my grandchildren. Seeing this video was almost surreal for me. For reference, I am currently 55 and live in Canada so there are some cultural differences, but females being told they are worthless by people who are supposed to love them is a global issue not restricted to any one group or place.

    • @joppahouseofworship4895
      @joppahouseofworship4895 Před rokem +2

      How sad is that! I am very sorry about your past experience. However, if I were you, I would not concentrate on one thing but would seek God to know what HIS expected destiny for me is. But that's just me, because I don't believe in coincidence and hence, you watching this interview may be the wake up call you needed. Age is just a number! Miriam danced for the LORD when she was over 90, and Sarah had a baby at 90. Go girl, only you can limit what GOD Is able to do for you.

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass Před rokem

      Middle kids need lots of hugs 🤗

    • @patriciaotieno6537
      @patriciaotieno6537 Před rokem

      ​@@VeeKayGreenerGrass

    • @stellaacolatse9269
      @stellaacolatse9269 Před rokem

      @@joppahouseofworship4895 i

    • @stellaacolatse9269
      @stellaacolatse9269 Před rokem

      @@joppahouseofworship4895 i

  • @mamawatorotalks8208
    @mamawatorotalks8208 Před rokem +185

    I got goosebumps listening to Ada’s story, when a husband is Ordained from God true love is experienced and the ministry expands. When love is real what we think are our baggage become a source of joy to our partners. May Jehovah locate every spouse meant for each other. Ada is absolutely beautiful an Earth Angel and shining star

    • @marthaontere
      @marthaontere Před rokem +1

      Amen, what an inspiring message.

    • @reneerenee1792
      @reneerenee1792 Před rokem +5

      Me and my two boys, we are still hopeful. A time is coming.

    • @NazarofGod
      @NazarofGod Před rokem

      Amen🙏🏾

    • @janenjambi4022
      @janenjambi4022 Před rokem +1

      Amen.

    • @mamawatorotalks8208
      @mamawatorotalks8208 Před rokem +3

      @@reneerenee1792 May your Boaz locate you and be a father to your two boys, may they grow to be your helper. Itafika kwa imani

  • @annahanai8409
    @annahanai8409 Před rokem +99

    I am a Namibian, widowed at the age of 33. Thank you for encouraging and inspiring us with your story. My take home, we should not limit God and God is not done with us. You are beautiful, Beautiful lies in the heart, you are wonderful made and your voice is so nice with powerful words. You have mentioned something touches my life.👏

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +3

      Hello Anna. Thank you so much for your compliment. Sure, GOD Is faithful and able to do the exceedingly abundantly above what we can think or imagine!

    • @gladyswaweru169
      @gladyswaweru169 Před rokem

      This story is so encouraging.. mama you inspire many..

    • @rhonantale4009
      @rhonantale4009 Před rokem

      Trust in God. God does wonders God has made wonders in my life .
      God will make wonders in your life too

    • @amitamaile2811
      @amitamaile2811 Před rokem

      Mama Adah you are active women I love you make me take angry away god bless you and your family

  • @rosaspanjol673
    @rosaspanjol673 Před rokem +4

    I don’t think this woman is ugly!She is such a lovely lady,plus she has such a beautiful soul 😘!

  • @mavuyi3966
    @mavuyi3966 Před rokem +16

    Thank you Lynn for this interview, I've been blessed & revived by Ada. May she continue being the beacon of hope. What a bubbly personality she has. Stay blessed 🙏🏽

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +2

      Amen. Thank you dear one.

    • @lartinewilliams2719
      @lartinewilliams2719 Před rokem

      Il like how she is honest for love his husband still and have respect for him love ur story blessed love mom

    • @melodieperkins7080
      @melodieperkins7080 Před rokem

      Amen yes I have been listening to this show for past three years

  • @margaretkiguru1562
    @margaretkiguru1562 Před rokem +53

    This is definition of my kenyan husband... I have never met somebody like him.. I always thank God for him.. Truly there are good people

    • @richauntie316
      @richauntie316 Před rokem +1

      May your joy be everlasting

    • @ruthmi6675
      @ruthmi6675 Před rokem

      True God's remnants still exists

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +1

      Hallelujah and Amen! We rejoice for you and with you, Margaret. May GOD continue to strengthen your marriage in Jesus's Mighty Name. Amen

  • @gracehephzibah7386
    @gracehephzibah7386 Před rokem +162

    Keeping Hope alive. It is not over until God say so. I'm encouraged. May God remember all the Singles mothers and meet them at the point of their needs and supply. Psalm 23.

  • @skyesilvery4063
    @skyesilvery4063 Před rokem +2

    This photo is of one of my children, I am a mother of 8 and pregnant and single. Two different fathers to my children that I shared a life with and I wonder alot will I have a true mate. I just made 39 I'm still young. This warms my spirit

  • @FragranceofaFlower
    @FragranceofaFlower Před rokem +29

    This is such a beautiful, encouraging testimony! It is not over until the grave, hallelujah 🙌🏿

  • @peninnahwangui6309
    @peninnahwangui6309 Před rokem +60

    from her story, i can say I have learned that when you are loved well you discover a lot of good things in yourself. Love comes with beauty, courage acceptance, happiness, and high self-esteem. Love makes you discover your inner beauty

    • @ladysafari01
      @ladysafari01 Před rokem +1

      💯 Why God tells husbands to love their wives....women bloom when loved.

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem

      Hallelujah! You can say that again, Peninnah

  • @lyn254
    @lyn254 Před rokem +107

    When God says yes nobody can say no.let me enjoy the story.her English is on point 👌

    • @sarahnyawira3855
      @sarahnyawira3855 Před rokem +1

      So encouraging dear, may the Lord enable you to fulfill the your dreams

    • @lyn254
      @lyn254 Před rokem

      @@sarahnyawira3855 Amen you too

    • @strongmummy580
      @strongmummy580 Před rokem +1

      Roman 8 v31
      When God in our side who can be against us.???

    • @lyn254
      @lyn254 Před rokem

      @@strongmummy580 no one can be against us

    • @chiomafaustina8259
      @chiomafaustina8259 Před rokem +1

      Yes oooo

  • @patriciajohnson4393
    @patriciajohnson4393 Před rokem +5

    Very beautiful conversation. Great days ahead for this caring woman. May those who pass her way be conduits of change for society. So happy to see what the Lord did and is doing in her life.

  • @YIMGDE
    @YIMGDE Před rokem +3

    I just see Christ in Adah, we need more beautiful people like this in our continent. Thank you for showing us Africans people are not defined by their race but by their love for each other. Adah you inspire me and Lynn keep on keeping on. You will always be in my prayers God bless in Jesus name.

  • @johnnybegood92
    @johnnybegood92 Před rokem +56

    😭😭🤩 What a beautiful tribute to WALTER 🙏 RIP.
    Beautiful Love story 😍

  • @florenceojuka
    @florenceojuka Před rokem +43

    I will never give up in life, Adah you are a true definition of heroism bravo 👏

  • @letstalkcorrectionswithker8351

    My life is transformed from this video. A almost did not watch because the video was long but the radiance from Adah Dobele and the genuine way she shared made me stay to the end wishing for more. I hope before I die can meet up with her. I could listen to her wisdom for hours! Thank you so much Lynn for this episode!

  • @brendadaylight8962
    @brendadaylight8962 Před rokem +3

    She is amazing. She will live long in that beautiful heart and smile🙏🙏🙏

  • @sonniesantana9002
    @sonniesantana9002 Před rokem +87

    This message is meant for me,, won't give up .thanks Lyn for the good work you doing 💕

  • @beuller8503
    @beuller8503 Před rokem +24

    At 36 with 7 kids ad yet u still got true love yet us with 1kid at early 30s we almost gave up on love thank you for sharing ad encouraging us we are not the same as we come to the end of the show kindly we need more of this Lynn

    • @naomikago9323
      @naomikago9323 Před rokem +4

      She has spoke hope to us....may our true loves come soonest 🙏

    • @esthermoraa8729
      @esthermoraa8729 Před rokem +2

      For sure i have one kid i had almost gived up on love but now i hope

    • @teresiamaina9573
      @teresiamaina9573 Před rokem +1

      Some of us no kid at 30 ... but we gave up on love by 28 🤔 let's see what's God has instore for us😂

    • @sheilaroninson1361
      @sheilaroninson1361 Před rokem

      @@naomikago9323 amen❤

  • @elizabethngendo8783
    @elizabethngendo8783 Před rokem +3

    This made me not to lose hope in life there is always someone for everyone. The most amazing thing never thought online relationship works this beautiful

  • @irenesylvester6434
    @irenesylvester6434 Před rokem +8

    For me, this is the most beautiful story I've ever heard, I love you mum Adah and I pray to God that one day I may reach at your place, I would love to be there, meditate on God's word and listening to you over and over again, I believe I have so much to learn because so many times I have come back again in this same story (interview) to pick up something that helps me to be a better person and understand life, bless you Lynn and mum Adah for this interview, we glorify the Lord for you people!

    • @joppahouseofworship4895
      @joppahouseofworship4895 Před rokem

      Hallelujah and Amen! I would love to have you at the Sanctuary that you may experience GOD's presence. God bless you more. Truly humbled by your prayer and compliment

  • @hannahkariuki5620
    @hannahkariuki5620 Před rokem +20

    Only wazungu they understand the meaning of marriage especially dealing with a broken one.... Patana na hawa magaidi wetu they will do anything to u in the name of nilikuoa na watoto so vumilia 🤔🤔.. Be blessed Mama for giving us hope again

  • @belahbyanca7567
    @belahbyanca7567 Před rokem +24

    When God say yes nobody can say no...am a mother of Six and am hoping one day I will get married

    • @josephinemulama6338
      @josephinemulama6338 Před rokem +3

      Itabidi tumeingia Afro introduction

    • @lilianonganyi6040
      @lilianonganyi6040 Před rokem

      ​@@josephinemulama6338 😂 are you sure it's working..my Boyfriend abondon me because I gave birth to twins..they believe twins is bad omen to the family..I believe one day I will meet true love and settle down God willing

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +1

      Ame. God Is faithful and able

    • @naomikangogo2797
      @naomikangogo2797 Před rokem +1

      from your mouth to Gods ears.lets keep hope

  • @shelley6746
    @shelley6746 Před rokem +2

    She’s absolutely beautiful & I’m glad her and her children are in a safe & happy life ❤❤❤

  • @olasojibolaji5971
    @olasojibolaji5971 Před rokem +2

    Adah's story gives me so much hope and renews my understanding and faith in God my creator that love can find a widow again.
    I lost my dear, caring husband 7 years ago.

  • @damarismugambi5780
    @damarismugambi5780 Před rokem +71

    Am proud of myself now.having four kids at my age and being a single mother will never make me feel less of a human again.thank u Lynn and Ada. Am staying strong for my precious kids.i know God will never let me down.

    • @tebogomangena7381
      @tebogomangena7381 Před rokem +1

      God is bringing the your package of Miracle

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem

      Thats the attitude. You are God's, created in His image

    • @shikuhadassah6550
      @shikuhadassah6550 Před rokem +1

      Let us keep hope alive. A mother of two beautiful babies. I will keep strong till........................😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @anitawilson5113
    @anitawilson5113 Před rokem +86

    Your story brought tears from my eyes. So inspiring. In my 50ties and not married. I have been seeing myself as the most unlucky person on earth. It hurts but I know God has not forgotten me.

    • @kabererekyalo6412
      @kabererekyalo6412 Před rokem +7

      He has you in His mind and He will soon suprise you with the best that He has been keeping for you all this while. The Bible calls Him "A Restorer..." Pls hold on there dear, God is coming.. Hugs

    • @christinemugeni414
      @christinemugeni414 Před rokem +13

      Amen 🙌 am 47single it hurts but God knows the best.

    • @jacklineaminga903
      @jacklineaminga903 Před rokem +7

      What happened to loving self as God loves us? Marriage is not the ultimate prize in life. If ur happens fine and if doesn’t for God’s sake live. Don’t waste life mopping about the lack of a partner / husband . It s great to love and be loved but if you can’t be content in your single hood you would never be content with anyone - you are single and complete . A partner is to complément not complete you.

    • @maryngugi6900
      @maryngugi6900 Před rokem +1

      @@jacklineaminga903 Best comment 👌 ❤

    • @brendanyongesa7014
      @brendanyongesa7014 Před rokem

      Hugs

  • @wanjikuwambu7156
    @wanjikuwambu7156 Před rokem +4

    My current situation 😭😭raising two kids without a job is not a joke and also having kids at an early age yes I went back to school did journalism buh then life is unfair 😭this motivated me even though I trust in God and I know I am gonna be okay ,,,the God who gave me kids will provide the job and also have a husband as well,,,Lynn I love this channel ❤️❤️

    • @user-zr5to8xs5z
      @user-zr5to8xs5z Před 4 měsíci

      Ask God en when the tume is Wright the lord wil make it happen

  • @Gemhaul1911
    @Gemhaul1911 Před rokem +10

    Oh wow.. one kind of a story of its own. I love how Adah reffers to Walter even though he’s no more. Such a sad love and relationship background of her, but a beautiful experience that manifested itself afterwards 💚💚Happy for you Adah.. that you found love and most importantly got to experience that side of a healthy relationship and love, even though it was short lived it obviously was worth every minute and a lifetime memory of joy.
    May Walter’s soul Rest In Peace
    Oh.. I also subscribed to your CZcams channel to support you because I am also a CZcamsr.. just started my own channel and I know how important the subscriber numbers are.. looking forward to watching your videos💚

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +1

      Hello Jemima! Thank you so much for your insight on my story, most appreciated. Thank you for your subscription, am humbled. Barikiwa zaidi. Will check on you channel

    • @lucykabuitu7085
      @lucykabuitu7085 Před rokem

      Be blessed pretty lady you have inspired me I thought I had expired

  • @quin_iss.a
    @quin_iss.a Před rokem +20

    That is my mother Adah❤️❤️❤️she is really the best i swear ,

    • @faithkimathi4068
      @faithkimathi4068 Před rokem +1

      Its's Adera Style. I am proud of your mum. I know what it feels like to be called ugly.

    • @Nyamata1
      @Nyamata1 Před rokem

      ❤❤

  • @belindaokello2985
    @belindaokello2985 Před rokem +83

    I can only say this, "Anything and everything is possible in this life."
    What an encouraging story from our beautiful Ada. God above all.

  • @motlalepulemathuloe9733
    @motlalepulemathuloe9733 Před rokem +2

    Sis you've made my day.Waiting upon the Lord even with our weaknesses that's where His strength is Praise be to God 🙏🙏🙏

  • @VG61
    @VG61 Před rokem +1

    You are not UGLY, you are very beautiful outside and inside.... Please keep your self worth and enjoy a beautiful bliss with you the man that proposed to you..

  • @laurynnebs6036
    @laurynnebs6036 Před rokem +68

    We live in a narcissistic world, where people lash out hurtful words to humiliate/devalue others. I believe, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
    The husband valued and esteemed her highly, unlike the other two guys that she had, earlier in her life, yet she's the same person. I like how bold she seems and also how articulate she is.
    Keep shining Adah.
    I enjoyed listening to you.
    Thanks for sharing your inspiring story.
    May God bless you 🙏

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much, Laurynn. Thats my plan, to shine even brighter!

  • @getinspiredfeelmotivated
    @getinspiredfeelmotivated Před rokem +11

    He started getting serious on 24th December, they met on 24th March he died on 24th.... 24th is of significant to Adah

  • @aselinamwenda4938
    @aselinamwenda4938 Před rokem +3

    It's so inspiring, thank you Lynn for sharing

  • @patienceprossy5682
    @patienceprossy5682 Před rokem +3

    Thanks a lot dear the narrator and the presentor!!!!!!! You have opened my mind. Staying in marriage because of children is totally wrong.
    .

  • @millionbill7587
    @millionbill7587 Před rokem +26

    God everytime I watch Lynn am inspired. Let's protect her at all time. She's a national treasure 🪙

  • @Thekingsdota
    @Thekingsdota Před rokem +50

    "Because of desperation "she didn't mince her answers. Wonderful interview 👏

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Před rokem +4

      Such an honest soul:)

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Před rokem +3

      @@LynnNgugi indeed...thank God she got a happy ending even though he is late..she experienced true love ❤️ Thanks for this great show Lynn

    • @Thekingsdota
      @Thekingsdota Před rokem +3

      Lynn does she have a whatsapp contact ?

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem

      Thank you Grace. Am humbled

    • @marthawangui7237
      @marthawangui7237 Před rokem

      @@AdornmentMinistries 💓💓

  • @anirwothscovia3653
    @anirwothscovia3653 Před rokem +6

    I love this woman her story made me cried at the same time felt happy and had courage,may God continue to shine in you mama you are an angle may your hubby RIP🙏

  • @MariahG959
    @MariahG959 Před rokem +7

    Such an encouraging story full of hopes that when God is at the center ,every other thing flows smoothly ..Lynn thank you

  • @wambui9036
    @wambui9036 Před rokem +50

    This interview renewed my hope ,there is God of another chance 🙏, Thank you Lynn Ngugi💕❤

  • @Kemmy_Barongo
    @Kemmy_Barongo Před rokem +71

    There are people who will make us look most miserable.....they will always make us feel less of a human being but at the end with the right God sent people we turn out to be victorious and God's favourite....am relating so well with this story.Thanks Lynn.

    • @gladysmoraa4818
      @gladysmoraa4818 Před rokem

      Very true

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 Před rokem

      Amazing dear

    • @catherine4043
      @catherine4043 Před rokem

      Truth

    • @magdelineohen4894
      @magdelineohen4894 Před rokem +1

      That's so true and this woman is not even ugly the way she's saying she is, I see a beautiful woman am sure she was more than this a few years back for her to look this lovely now. Some men r wicked yhoooo🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🇿🇦🇿🇦

    • @Kemmy_Barongo
      @Kemmy_Barongo Před rokem

      @@magdelineohen4894 exactly

  • @aleciakilandi2797
    @aleciakilandi2797 Před rokem +2

    Thank you Lynn for allowing Adah to share her testimony. I appreciate your transparency. I am one that got divorced and has four kids. My ex told me no one would want me with four kids, and for the last 8yrs, I began thinking it was true and thought it had been confirmed as the male I met would ask me. So how many kids do you repeatedly have as if they would go away? I vow that I would live with my kids until they're grown, and then at that time, I may begin dating again, but you just gave me hope. I will continue to trust god, who will provide for my children and me and send us his son. Thank you. I love your journey and your story. Many blessings to you and your children, my beautiful sister. 🙏❤😇

  • @sandofreeman4489
    @sandofreeman4489 Před rokem +1

    What a BLESSING and inspiration she is. What a lovely story. God has a planned for all of his children.❤

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau Před rokem +11

    Yaay! 💃💃💃 bale yetu imefikiwa. Lord I have come to my end. Make him find me 🙏

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Před rokem +1

      Kujeni hapa nyuma ya tent my people🤣🤣

  • @ruthpearl2439
    @ruthpearl2439 Před rokem +68

    I love the way Lynn makes people love themselves even when they don't see and feel it themselves. She will motivate you do what might not even make sense and let it raise your self confidence. She is an angel

    • @janethiga6183
      @janethiga6183 Před rokem +1

      Lynn me am tild to be a single mother please i need someone on my said i want to hear someone said i Love 💕

  • @motlalepulemathuloe9733
    @motlalepulemathuloe9733 Před rokem +12

    I feel like flying to come n hug Ada. Her soul 💕

    • @naominyash2342
      @naominyash2342 Před 7 měsíci

      She so amazing 🤩

    • @CatherineN-yc8oq
      @CatherineN-yc8oq Před měsícem

      There's still hope. It's well don't worry, those children are a great blessing too

  • @peterkebwaro4635
    @peterkebwaro4635 Před rokem +3

    Amazing story full of inspiration and hope that nothing is impossible with God. Love is everywhere we just need to be patient with ourselves to find it. Big up Lynn and crew for great shows.

  • @Sunshine_Amy
    @Sunshine_Amy Před rokem +150

    It's soo touching, inspiring, educative and the list is endless.... When sometimes I pity myself of having four kids all alone... But when I call upon God,,, I realize am strong enough... to push on... Lynn you have added a hope in my life..as for Adah.... May God continue blessing you more...

  • @barbrachihinga3089
    @barbrachihinga3089 Před rokem +48

    This story is all together BEAUTIFUL. A master piece of How God Almighty works.

  • @CatherineN-yc8oq
    @CatherineN-yc8oq Před měsícem

    Thank you Lynn! God bless you much more and you family am so humbled to keep seeing and watching your show. I believe one day will meet

  • @deborahbrathwaite6998
    @deborahbrathwaite6998 Před rokem +6

    This was the most fantastic interview I've ever heard. Two beautiful women.

  • @julielouis9664
    @julielouis9664 Před rokem +13

    watching from Uganda, the truth is I'm addicted to this channel ,Lynn you're my role model on this planet earth may God protect you.

  • @cathybt
    @cathybt Před rokem +154

    She's such a good story teller and I'm happy I finally get to understand everything in a conversation (English 💯 since I'm Ugandan).
    God's timing is perfect and His ways are beyond our wildest imaginations

    • @theugandanvillagewife6647
      @theugandanvillagewife6647 Před rokem +7

      The feeling is mutual, kajambo nyabo

    • @kristodea8067
      @kristodea8067 Před rokem +8

      You can say that again, it's nice for us non-kenyans to understand. 😅❤️

    • @wakonyocee
      @wakonyocee Před rokem +8

      In future if you need translation, click on the video and click on cc.

    • @junic2794
      @junic2794 Před rokem +1

      Kitufu

    • @junic2794
      @junic2794 Před rokem +2

      @@theugandanvillagewife6647 nawe kajambo nyabo

  • @achiejowiti4945
    @achiejowiti4945 Před rokem +16

    She keeps referring to her husband like he is still here. Shows just how much she loved him. What a story of hope.

  • @aliciayancy5970
    @aliciayancy5970 Před rokem +1

    Lovely Lynn. Thank You both !

  • @OFFICIAL_12343
    @OFFICIAL_12343 Před rokem +16

    She is so fluent in English

  • @SheStoicForLife77
    @SheStoicForLife77 Před rokem +65

    Adah Döbele you’re a breath of fresh air. Was sleeping off my night shift and woke up to your story. My fellow women out there who are in abusive relationships, you don’t have to stick around “for your kids”. That man you have there who’s not treating you right as a worthy woman is someone else’s husband. Everyone has a suitor that when you finally meet them, you’re gonna know and experience what true love really is. Love don’t hurt. There’s someone out there who’s the one for you and will accept you and everything you’ve acquired as you experience your life. Single mothers of one kid already feel like no man wants you cos you’ve a “baggage”. Adah had 7! But her husband who embraced her and her babies, not “baggage”, was somewhere out there.

    • @indriadrayton1132
      @indriadrayton1132 Před rokem +1

      Patience Tich I saw this during the night shift, too!!

    • @stellahmarriswambuwah9919
      @stellahmarriswambuwah9919 Před rokem +1

      AMEN HALLELUJAH

    • @InChrist2024
      @InChrist2024 Před rokem +1

      Coincidence, me too.

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries Před rokem +2

      Hallelujah and Amen! Thank you so much, Patience, for summarizing it so well. The TRUTH

    • @doreenmbaabu5610
      @doreenmbaabu5610 Před rokem +2

      I'm married bt feeling single. He doesn't call or txt n lives separate..he switches off his fons at night..or maybe put flight mode...in the name of job..got a big house allocated by gvt. 10 bedrooms..posh estate..own compound..Tht he calls office..n I n my 5 kids r not allowed any inch there..bt works with women in that house..in the name of colleagues..he has packed out all his property docs n most important clothes....my gut tells me he got someone living with him..never compliments me..instead calls me useless etc..I'm very cute natural beauty..bt this man has made me almost..loose myself esteem...I think he is not my Gods intended huby..I alws think of divorcing hm nfinding true love..bt kids love their dad too much..confused..bt gotta get out of here someday. Thx 4 ths interview...I now blv I can find true love...from God.

  • @allbyhisgrace8925
    @allbyhisgrace8925 Před rokem +6

    I love this woman's spirit, I can relate to some of what she went through as a fellow nilote ,dark ,slim and tall and the men then went for my cousins yellow boned, curves and thick legs and long story short I also met my husband 2006 to date ,2 kids now today 2022- one pre teen and a 9yr old,he is from Germany aswell, Thank God.beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.what one sees as ugly another sees pure beauty though ,it must start from within us ,regardless how we look, we are all beautiful in our own way and unique and should embrace.Wonderful ,warm hearted woman.

  • @asingurajoyce8970
    @asingurajoyce8970 Před rokem +6

    This story touched my heart....and I just found it on my page and something in me was pushing me to watch it.... watching all the way from Uganda ❤️......thank you Lynn for the amazing work and I would love to meet her sometime.
    You should come to Uganda....some great people to talk to over here too.....thank you once again Lynn and God bless your works and her works too

  • @tebogomangena7381
    @tebogomangena7381 Před rokem +10

    After I gave up on love,God brought the most loving husband who married me with 3 kids.I don't want to lie to people it still look like never but believe me God does his things in mysterious ways. Our children are more closer to him than me.Thank you mom for confirming to me that I am blessed beyond measures.

  • @habibasalim3092
    @habibasalim3092 Před rokem +1

    I'm a muslim, I mate my ex husband in 2018 November and we got married in 2019 January 11th through the Afro introduction

  • @veraotieno6570
    @veraotieno6570 Před rokem +2

    thank you LNS team for the positivity and hope you fill my heart with😀

  • @elizabethndara2172
    @elizabethndara2172 Před rokem +24

    Can we please just appreciate how beautiful her home is ❤️❤️

  • @lucyvibesgermany
    @lucyvibesgermany Před rokem +39

    There are genuine people outside there..YES .NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.❣

  • @junevess7666
    @junevess7666 Před rokem +5

    She's speaking to me right now. May God come through for us

  • @carolinemakezi5926
    @carolinemakezi5926 Před rokem

    I am so encouraged by this. Love people, be kind to them. She has voiced my heart's desire, to see Jesus' face when I am still down here