This lawyer left an abusive relationship and found herself a great man online | Lynn Ngugi Network
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- When Antoninah left her abusive relationship of seven years, she had one goal in mind. To get to know who she really is and find herself a God fearing man after.
So, after sometime, she put the pieces of her heart back together, went online and found her the love of her life
On today’s episode of LNS, she walks us through her journey in the hands of a man who would call her fat and other demeaning words , why she left and why everyone deserves someone who will treat them with utter respect
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Hi Lynn Ngugi please there is a TV known as eastern TV there is a narcissistic man destroying women's lives . please help those women 🙏
when creating an account it doesnt have the kenyan code
If you love yourself enough, you’re not going to allow anyone to abuse you. Self love is very important . Know your worth.
@Lynn you have to come to America this time my love 😍
@@Cate861 Cupid 💘 has always been available in the US
These days if a man tells me jokingly or not ' why don't you look like her, why don't you work out so you look like her, why don't you buy heels and dress like her?' I tell him, go be with and date her. Not me. Do not compare me to another woman. Jokingly or not I don't care, I will end it. I don't have time for pain and games.
Good one straight to the point,time saving
So true
Right
How many are you going to end because of such joke.. Relax life is not that serious. Sisi ndio tuko
@@muemakiio3466 red flag seen like a funny joke being in such r/ship time will tell one bcomes unhappy,we shld run away laughing from this toxic jokes,emotional abuse is real.
She is such a beautiful soul. She speaks soo nicely too .I found mine online and we are happy together. But i stayed in the sites for 5 yrs and never gave up. Lastly i found one who was nice..He met me and told me he just wants to make me happy. He is always Taking me on holidays as i love travelling. Wee acha tu. I always told him i would love to go to Switzerland. He took me there and we got engaged there. On my 30 th birthday he gave me a fully paid car in Kenya.. We live now in the Netherlands
Love is so beautiful 😍
Manifestating too.
Pls, which are the sites?
Yes and you need to pray, manifest, know what you want, set your standards and so . They met on the okcupid
🎉 congratulations
She's so soft-spoken and seems to have a gentle spirit. I am happy that she met her soulmate ❤
Kwanza vile anaitika mmmmh... Weeeh she's so calm the other guy is a looser!
@@glorywangure3278 aki he lost a good lady, wife material kabisa 😅😅😅
@@bellaolum9768wife material metre ka zote
This is what stood out for me😊
I totally agree with her it doesn't have to take a 100 years to know he is the one❤️❤️❤️I met my husband around August and the following year around April we had settled,I have never regreted my decision, glory to God
Happy for you sister, sending lots of love to you from Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲. God bless your union.
Congratulations
My hubby & I got married 3 months after our 1st date. Best decision ever!
Very true. We dated for less than a year, and here we are 13 years later, so far so good
Same here we are in 4th year
The spirit in people believing an abuser will always change is in another level ... Change is an internal decision not a push❤
Wow😍 change is an internal decision not a push♥♥👌
true
Very true
True. But many battle the delusion of who they met and who they are currently with once the mask falls off. That what makes it all confusing an abuser isn’t abusive everyday but as the years progress it get worse. It’s like a trap 🪤 and on a hamster wheel. It’s people who you never think 💭 would be in abusive marriage. It’s normally women or man who are brilliant, intelligent, beautiful, caring, empathetic people, career driven, educated, respected in society. An abuser will prey one people who got what they wish they had and they make it their duty to break you down to the bottom 😢because you’re not supposed to be better than them. Narcissist abuse, abuse, domestic violence all the cycles are similar
@@Queening948 I agree
The world is full of unmarried men. Come on Kenyan ladies. You deserve respect.
Amen 🙏
,it's a story of hope. Seven years wasted is a lot for a girl but she didn't give up. All the best. Love is all over the world. True love is still possible. All the best
Shape up those who abuse others. If you notice signs, get out. You deserve better
Amen
@@lizzymemoh153 hi lizzy
I met my husband on Facebook 😂😂😂😂😂,and we got married after a year,he is the best thing that ever happened to my life.
You have to thank God
Thanks for your encouragement lady had lost hope but now I will move on
This is the first story of someone I know.Congratulations learned friend Antoninah Abisaki for sharing your story and encouraging others❤
Hee hata mimi niwekwe kwa prayers,A single mum of for seven good years now... God give me a testimony like this oooo....☝
It hurts more when you're being body shamed by the person you love... Some men though 🥺😏😏
This lady has a very sweet spirit. This story gave me hope and confidence. I could feel peace around her. I slept like a baby after this story.
Knowing Antoninah from highschool... Girl you deserve the very best and congratulations dear
She truly does.❤
Him not being interested in knowing where you stay was a blessing in disguise. Our parents always share wisdom and more often than not, we tend to ignore them.
I actually admired their relationship, didn't know she was going through this. I am proud she walked out
LYNN is Oprah Winfrey in the making.
Punguza moshiii utaipasua 😂😂😂😂
No she's NOT! She's Lynn Ngugi. If you know you know! 😉
Lynn thank you so much for this program it's very touching. I have been following you for a while now. Thank you, watching from Liberia, West Africa. Love
She is the Lynn Ngugi of Kenya🔥
I wish her all the happiness in the world. When a Mzungu loves you, he'll totally love you. They don't joke. I've lived in America for over 20 years and this is a fact
You guys just worship these people and it's a sheer show of inferiority complex!
True and when they fall out of love they tell you on the face as well which is better than infidelity.
@@janehughes6927 Very true 👍
Unfortunately this is what is eating alot of African😅😅😅. Lack of knowledge. That is the most fallacious statement I have read today 😅😅😅
Really
Getting out from an abusive marriage can be so hard,because we normally think about the years we've wasted with this person, but once you get out of it, at the end you'll look back and realize that was the most best decision you've ever made
Very true left last year Dec after 11 years
@@susankonditi1668 kudos for gaining the strength
Toxic relationships are additive..
@@felisterwanja2561 Kabisa
very true, I left mine after 8 years
It does not take a 100yrs for a man/woman to realise that this is a good thing🥰🥰🥰✌my take home.thanks team LNN for this episode 🙏
Wow what an awesome story of restoration. Weeping may endure for the night but Joy will come in the morning. So happy for her. Every woman deserves to be happy!
I am 24yrs and I was in a relationship for 4 yrs, it was emotionally abusive, I used to talk to him about it, said he will change, two or three and it's done. I was able to walk out last year and it's the most peaceful and comfortable thing I have now, it wasn't easy but I did. Don't talk about my age
Emotional abuse is one tough thing to go through..if you undergo it you are slowly dying inside.. this story has made me confirm my thoughts.thanks Lynn
Very true... it breaks u bit by bit and lower one's self esteem
Kabisa you hate yourself ,low selfesteem you see things on the opposite or left nothing counting oh my God if not gone through this may you never see this
@@floramukiri1742 it's hard I've been there
@@fridahkimani3966 so sorry praying for the best God ll heal you trust the process
Emotional abuse can kill you from the inside very slowly and destroy your mental health.
Men and women, let's take any form of abuse very seriously.
I also met my husband online..i encourage ladies to put themselves out there..marriage is beautiful.. beautiful story
Same story here
I did too!
@@estheranne8947online wapi huko. Si mlete full details yawa!
@@nje9818which specific app
Please share the apps
I love her composure and I pray U.S.A embraces her.We learn from each other how to live well and cope from things that we are frail from and suffered from or suffering with.I pray for her to be emotionally supported and virsa versa.❤
There's a scripture that talks about not throwing your pearls to the pigs cos they'll staple on it and even eat you. This gal is a real Gem and I Wish her and Joel all the very best.
I feel the same when i look at Eddy Nderitu. Really young woman, only 30 years or so, suffering in the hands of the boy who made her a mama at a tender age, just because he found a kimamaaaa!!
I want her marriage to stand, but on the other hand, she should not waste her time with a pig who fails to recognize her value....very cute, young girl. Most women get married at her age now....
Ladies, when guys met us, they are like many steps ahead of us. They know exactly what they want. Either they have want to fun with you, one night stand or starting a family. They know from day one. Tuchanuke my sisters.
So tu du
@maryvanderheer6680 very true 🎉
This girl is beautiful, so calm and with self-respect. Thank God you found your soulmate ❤❤❤
She’s a true lawyer lol. She said “a person from another jurisdiction”😅😂😂😂😂
I know, right? 😅
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Thank you so much Antonina
I was at the proposal I'm really happy for you
Alafu pls give us the therapist contacts
Waaaah l was almost giving up on love until I saw this.......... please God bless me with this kind of man ..... can't imagine at the age of 28 l'm still single
Don’t worry about your age! When you focus on age, that’s when you end up settling.
My friend met her husband in her 30’s, and tells me he’s a good hubby who provides. They met on Islamic marital site.
Many guys toyed with her from her teen and even her marriage to a mamas boy never worked out.
Due to family pressure and biological clock ticking, she decided to settle for someone who never married her!
Now she’s happily married they are putting pressure on her to get pregnant . Yet she only just got married end of last year 😅
Don’t allow family, the society etc to dictate when you marry or have kids… whatever you do it will never be enough to humans! .
Focus on pleasing God and pray for a good hubby.
You are still young and wish you all the best!
Its well honey
Yeeei another OkCupid success story. Sisi watu wa OkCupid should have a get together😁 wishing her all the best in her relationship and also the K1 visa process. We are still here waiting for America to reunite these beautiful families.
Hi marie😊 ....the link please
Nikujieni😢😢😢
So I shouldn't give up 😢lemmi keep swiping 😂
Hi Marie still praying for you visa process gal and pray for me to get my best half too ..I'm in OkCupid since your interview
@@mariamwaceke7556 no giving up is not an option
And how comes she resembles her fiancee joel in so many ways? Is it divine connection; ir am seeing my own things; congrats gal🎉 u r beautiful;
Shout out to Lynn for consistency in uploading content. We see you !! ❤
Very softspoken,talk of maturity in this lady.I already love her.
I loved your story schooly!! Thank you for sharing it and enlightening us! Mimi hiyo abuse I experienced inside a marriage with a narc, despicable stuff. Thank God that chapter closed TUKO a new one! Cheers to new chapters! Cheers, and all the best on your new chapter Anto!
Good morning LNN family.... it's yet another of learning and getting inspired.... thanks Lynn for your good work ❤
Am glad she found love,Love has no boundaries and is beautiful with the right person and when you commit it to God.
My ex told me her sister said I'm ugly ni shape tu ndo niko nayo. Again we stayed for 8 years without any marriage. I left recently
Such a pretty lady, meeting and another pretty lady.Bring us just what we want to hear.Thank you Lyn.
there's no romance without finance...but wazungus are blessed in that field..the proposal was amazing
I feel good when I hear “ it’s oky to move on” it makes me feel I did the best thing to move on and I can’t regret.
I spent 8years with a man who never valued me, but I chose once and moved away. Am now better with my soulmate. Thx Lynnn
wow , am so encouraged, do not settle anywhere you feel useless
OMG...fairy tales do exist and you lady, are one of the very few most favored to encounter them...your story is amaaaazing!!! Thanks for sharing! God bless!
I was introduced to her by my siz after almost giving up in love,I believe too my testimony is coming too..such a sweet story...congratulations Antoninah
What a story! She's so well spoken
I love, love stories and this one has definitely warmed my heart. I wish Antonina and Joel all the best in their future together. May your love last a lifetime.
Love works😍, I love how composed she is and above all she is beautiful 🥰
Thank you, Lynn, for the open conversations you bring to us. Seeing other women go through the things most of us are going through silently is a big encouragement that it can and it will get better. Emotional abuse is real.
God has a way of paying people back, this is to both men and ladies. There is hope for both men and ladies. Some men and even ladies have abused their vulnerable partners. Recently I watched another young lady play their partner horribly. Anyway, a 2nd chance is a gift from heaven...Thank you Jesus. Happy for Wakili. ❤
Such a brilliant beautiful lady❤❤❤no matter what you going through there will always be light at the end of the tunnel.
Who else cried at that proposal thing 🥺😅
😂😂😂😂😂its funnie n it got me emotional as if I was the one.
Me I cried. I am Joel's mama
@@christinebarnes8340 do you have another son I want you to cry for me too
@@christinebarnes8340 oh u have a great daughter now,am a proud Kenyan 🇰🇪, your son got something good from our Land👍.
@gladysgitau7458 We will treasure her for the Queen she is. Always.
It doesn't take a 100yrs for a man to realize this is the good thing or the one.... wow congratulations Pray for all the best to be your portion Babe Gal 💋
It takes a lot of courage to leave an abusive relationship. But when you finally get the courage to leave, good things happen. So happy for her and her fiancé. Thank you for encouraging us that we should never settle!
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Very true
Someone please come for and make me your queen 👑
what a testimony, when am just having a bad moment after realising someone has wasted good time. Am hopeful to rise again and testify
One day I will sit with you and tell my story. Watching from Seattle WA
that book "the secret" changed my life. the list works, that's how i met my husband.
You met him on the app?ama
Share with me the app
She is so soft spoken she can be a great counselor.....i tap the blessings of love
Great message to women.Thanks Lynn,you are a gem ❤.
❤❤❤Lynn ur so good in what u do. U always know what ur audience want and questions we r thinking of . Weldone Lynn , keep up . U will go far and far of them all is in heaven , cz ur such a pure soul as well ❤❤
She has spoken the whole truth, emotional abuse is the worst.
This story is simple, straightforward and very encouraging. May God bless your union wakili
This is very inspiring.... Red flags are real...This is a story of restoration n hope. Congratulations Girl, you deserve all the happiness....🎉🎉🎉
Hey Lynn...am watching right here in Eldoret and I feel so good since I really saw that proposal and the happiness the lady had was wueeeh...this is so amazing 😘😘😘
Another day of great learnings, thanks Lynn
Look at how happy she's now after leaving an abusive relationship just like Nyokabi who was in an abusive relationship and a good Samaritan decided to bring back her happiness 😊😊😊
Thanks Lynn for always bringing such topics in lime light ❤❤
Hi Sarah,,hii ya Nyokabi nigani I would like to watch it.
So so Inspirational, Welldone awesome thanyou Lyn and your guest this will inspire a lot of young people looking for Love.
Don't be so desperate to take anything that comes.....this awoke me today
I did wait for the interview to end vile ametaja hiyo app nimekimbia nikadownload, anyway thanks for giving me hope and ask Joel kama ako na brother single😊
Which app is that?
Tina which app is that plz?
Okcupid
Always giving us amazing content.quiet inspiring and educative content.good job lynn
A great story very encouraging, looking beautiful Lynn and Anto.
This lady needs to have a sit down conversation with that other lady that wasted 17 yrs. On a dead end relationship. When a man meets his person their is no hesitation in playing for keeps.
I like the fact that her mother was soft on her when she went back home so broken......
Some of us do not have a mother to hug us at our lowest moments 💔. We move out to the cruel world, we get judged, we're laughed at, we're called names, we stand alone! Sometimes the strength to stand is no longer there, but the desire to prove them wrong keeps us alive. Thank you for this episode
True😢😢😢
Antoninah is telling it as it is. when you build yourself financially you go out looking for a soul mate not a funder.
I know her...I admired her during my internship..you deserve happiness girl !!♥️♥️
She is so calm and collected, glad she found love, wish you a happy love life Antonina
I feel my self in her story and again am sitting to rethink every step I stepped and have this whole story to restart
She a vibe very beautiful indeed talking calmly i loved that ❤
I wish her all the best in her marriage
Lynn you’re always the best gal I love to see n to listen because you give it all ❤❤❤
Thanks and God bless you for bringing such stories so that people like me can wipe the painful tears/road and smile knowing the best and appreciative is yet to come
Beautiful gals has made the show much better ❤❤
God is always faithful,cry might be there but God's plans still will come at the right time.
Thank you Lynn you know this episode have opened my eyes l was once in an abusive relationship but you know by that time you don't even know that this person is abusing me
Waooo am so much encouraged ❤ Lynn you teach us so much you give me hope...
I was in a toxic marriage for nine years until last year when I decided to move out....
Pole dear
Bravo dear. You did the best for you. The tunel will be brighter at the end.
That was a bold decision
I'm happy for you.
Good for you 🎉
It's has given me hope ,I had given up and thought of staying as single but now am going for it ,we all deserve to be happy
Beautiful lady; wish you God's blessings and guidance in your marriage. Thanks for sharing such hope for those of us who are single.
Oh wow.. Antonina is gorgeous. She's calm and composed. Thanks Lynn for hosting her.
I just wish to meet Lynn Ngugi and give her a hug 🤗
Beauty with brain, she’s so humble ❤
Most narcissistic people affects someone's self esteem and abuse you emotionally
Congratulations 🎊 🎉
And all the best to your marriage
The proposal was beautiful ❤
Wow have been inspired by this story😊 and have learnt and noted so much... ❤
This is a story of hope, i have gone through an abusive marriage for over 26 years..one can literally lose themselves.Its never easy but taking refuge in God helps alot..fast forward my hubby has changed but it took me walking away for him to change.A win for Antoninah is a win for everyone losing hope to know there is better for everyone...all we need is courage to walk away.
Am happy for you dear Antonina 💝 congratulations 🎉 you give us hope to never give up on L.O.V.E ♥️♥️♥️ thank you Lynn my dear keep on shinning girl ♥️
Wait a minute...this lady is so so beautiful kabisaaa....hello fellow lawyer...your story has made me she'd tears of joy on your behalf
❤❤❤❤ amazing woman.. soft spoken and loving 😍😍
There is beauty in transformation! Even a caterpillar transforms into this very beautiful butterfly, so gather courage and get out of an abusive marriage my friends!
This flower part want to make me cry tears of joy congratulations dear🎉
What a beautiful story!
This was a cool conversation. Thank you Lynn. I am inspired. To Antonina, I wish you lots of God's blessings. Peace of mind and heart. May your love flourish
Exactly what I needed to here this early morning.😊once again thanks team lyn
Me too♥️♥️♥️♥️
You are so brilliant! Emotional abandonment is the worst
I love this loved again episodes.They give me hope that true love still exists.I remain hopeful🙏.❤Good job Lynn and our guest❤.
To all ladies,you deserve that perfect love. Congratulations team Lynn
True
How do u not genuinely love this girl? She is beautiful inside and out. Thanks for encouraging others Anto with your story