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Hey there, fam! Charlotte Dobre back on the channel with some seriously wild stories that'll have you questioning humanity's audacity level. Buckle up, because we're diving into the world of exes who took 'audacious' to a whole new level!
We've all been there, right? You think you know someone, you invest time, love, maybe even a bit of your sanity, only for them to pull a move that leaves you staring in disbelief. Well, get ready to hear some jaw-dropping tales that'll make you wonder just what planet some people are from!
From exes who pop back into your life with the audacity to ask for favors, to those who show up uninvited to family events like they're still part of the clan, we're covering it all. And trust me, the audacity knows no bounds!
But wait, it gets even crazier! Picture this: you're happily moving on with your life, minding your own business, when out of the blue, your ex slides into your DMs with the audacity to hit you up for relationship advice. Um, excuse me? Last time I checked, that ship had sailed!
And if you thought ghosting was bad, just wait until you hear about the exes who had the audacity to ghost you, only to resurface months later with a casual "Hey, stranger" like they didn't disappear off the face of the earth without a trace. Classic move, am I right?
But fear not, fam, because with every audacious ex comes a valuable lesson in boundaries and self-respect. So grab your popcorn and get ready to cringe, laugh, and maybe shed a tear or two as we delve into the absurd world of exes with the audacity.
Alright, that's a wrap for today's video! Don't forget to hit that like button, subscribe for more juicy content, and share your own audacious ex stories in the comments below. Until next time, stay fabulous, and remember: never underestimate the audacity of an ex!
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When you said "hands up if you think he broke his glasses," my husband who "doesn't listen to your videos" raised his hand 🤣
Men like tea too. 😂
The length men go to to deny watching tea videos 😅 sush we know u love the tea scalding ☕️☕️
He may have broken them due to his own stupidity, and not on purpose, but he still broke them!
Oh my god thats so cute
Lmao 😭
That first young lady dodged a bullet for real. As a police officer, I believe if she had not ended that relationship, the next time he would have hit her.
100%. If they will raise their hand to anything, they will eventually raise a hand to you. Get out. Get out now. Before they make it so you can’t. I speak from experience.
A police officer would know 👀
@@RaviStarr7LOL
Absolutely!!!
I know you probably mean that you've dealt with DV cases before, but this comment really just reads like you're in the 40%....
For anyone questioning - the tactics used by the boyfriend with the broken glasses are CLASSIC coercion and control abuse. Period. Full stop. I work with DV survivors. What he was doing was quite literally textbook.
Listening to the first one, reminded me of my ex. What I did outta kindness and love became an expectation of his and if I didn't do it. Ended up in arguments and mind you I just had our baby. 3 years of bs. Glad I walked away.
Yup, even tho she's clearly doing everything and we know she didn't say it. But she's absolutely the one who's doing everything and was being groomed to become eventually a dv. So disgusting
His behaviour sounded like this of a narcisist. They will always gaslight you and make you believe YOU are the issue. Crazy.
Her story hit me hard I'm a DV survivor and I almost wasn't. My ex husband almost succeeded in killing me. I'm so glad she got away.
The fact that the guy in the first story is even BLAMING THE CATS over taking his own accountability for the broken glasses just SCREAMS narcissism. Also agree with the weaponised incompetence.
My wife wakes me up with a warm robe and socks in cold weather and puts a space heater for me too. It’s honestly so freaking sweet I melt every morning. I warm her blankets in the blanket warmer whenever she’s relaxing or taking her nap. I make her special drinks too and cut up fruit and cheese for her. We appreciate each other! I am so glad she left that bum!!!
That is so cute
Awww so sweet ❤ my husband and I rub each other's feet every night
You guys are literally so cute 🥹❤
@@merci.petras thank you! She’s honestly my best friend. We gossip together and always have so much fun! If you’re single, I recommend finding someone you can joke around with and someone who would clean up your throw up without hesitation. You’d be surprised how often that comes up haha my wife gets bouts of nausea often due to illness and I’ve cleaned her up many times and she always looks like such a goddess in the glow of the moonlight. I swear I can’t believe how in love I am with this woman. I hope that for everyone
@@Justaperson354 this is so wholesome honestly, it sounds like you guys have pure love for each other. Bless you both! ✨️
Omggggg the first story gave me ptsd from my past relationship. I swear the more you baby them the more they treat you like they did their mother
Truth.
Same & agreed
I would have prepared a warm baby bottle for him, leave and never look back. 😂
@@AHilly Sounds like a great idea! 😂😂❤😂😂
I love your channel but why do we need to watch these ladies put their makeup on.
I resonate with Kirsten. My ex would refuse to shower at night and take long morning showers making us incredibly late for work. And he would always wonder why we were late. I would make our breakfast, and lunch and prepare everything while he just showered with no appreciation. When I stopped doing things for him he didn't know what was going on.
So glad that the first girl got out before it got too deep. He was ABSOLUTELY using her, he did not see her as a partner but another mother.
FYI: Legally blind refers to what your BEST CORRECTED vision is. This manbaby is not legally blind. He needs full time spectacles. 1) don't sleep in contact lenses as serious sight threatening infections can occur. 2) Always have a back-up pair of spectacles, especially if you have a high prescription. However, this man seems to have much more serious issues than his vision. (P.S. I'm an eye doc in USA).
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Yes. I’m legally blind in my left eye because no amount of correction will make it see well. I am not fully legally blind because I can correct my right eye to a level of decent functionality
Wanted to comment that. He can correct his vision by using glasses or contact lenses.. That would not make him "legally blind".
What lifelong glasses wearer doesn't have their old frames and lenses as a backup?
I have a fairly weak prescription yet I have about 8 pairs of glasses 😂🤓
He knew he'd broken them but typical narcissist, can't be blamed for anything. My PTSD skyrocketed hearing this story.
💯 agree
Yep, I left my narc ex of 20 years. It sounds so familiar.
@@CreativeCreatorCreates I left mine after only 16 years. The longer I stayed the more afraid I was to leave. He kicked me out of the house ( to teach my fat, useless, dumbass a lesson) this time he let me take my kids. Never went back. More than 20 years later I still have crazy flashbacks
@@peggyrolfe7061thats legit on you for not leaving and putting up with this crap.
@@phatal4573 narcissistic abuse is no joke. I had no idea how bad it was until after the fact. I’m 11 years out from it and I’m still peeling back layers.
That last guy is in SOOOOO MUCH DRAMAA over him basically monetising his girlfriend throughout his relationship for his socials and then blast their relationship problems on tiktok when it ended. She even replied to him multiple times saying how its sad that he tells the internet how much was wrong in the relationship when he couldn't ever bother to talk to her about their problems. He is being CLOWNED ON so hard its really hilarious, I recommend you dig into it cuz there's some tea to unpack with that one
He seems pathetic and his girlfriend is pretty but guys aren’t staring at her like that - come on now she’s not a Supermodel - I mean she’s dating you.
I literally just learned about this guy a couple days ago, and after watching a few stitches that other creators did (with his “where are all the good women” TikTok video), he gives MAJORRRR *ICK* vibes. Ugh. Awful.
That is so true. Bare minimum interest from a guy does not mean he wants a relationship with you. I'm speaking from experience.
That first story, the guy is a serial abuser in the making - all the ingredients are there, just waiting for enough heat to turn him into a monster. I hope he gets help. Really glad she got out because, even though it hasn't gotten physical yet, the abuse was there - the gaslighting, the belittling, the verbal abuse, the unreasonable demands like he's the lord and she's the maid. What a piece of work.
And the wear and tear on her car. That is not a small thing.
Came here for this. He isn't a man baby he was verbally and psychologically abusing her. Whether he got physical or not it was full on abuse.
That’s exactly what I was thinking…I’m so happy she got away. What a son of a bitch. He totally broke his glasses to not do another thing for her.
Heard the fear in her voice as she was talking.
Been there. I’m lucky to be alive in a similar situation years ago.
My EX husband was involuntarily committed to Yale Psych Ward three times while we were married for similar things, and who knows what her fiance was doing while she was at work? Was he just a serial killer in the making? Or self medicating with drugs…
I’m so happy she’s away from him
The first story... She literally saved her own life. Literally! I always wished my mom didn't hold on to her ex-husband for 17 years! At least when he started to humilitate me and verbally @bused me, she decided to leave him. 20 something years later we never heard from him again.
Good for her. Some moms don’t leave even to protect their babies. To me, that should be a hard no. I suppose y’all never saw him again because he found out the prey was gonna fight back and he, like all bullies, preferred an easy target.
I feel like my brother is like this guy, trying to convince whatever future gf he will have in his life
A back up plan 😂😂
@Liz_Lizille Although it took her a long time at least she left. My mother stuck with my abusive father till the end. They both died of old age but his physical abuse stopped when the police got called on him. After that it was all verbal but at that point she did start to verbally push back. It was like some weird crazy codependency. Ugh!
I hope that you have been able to find some kind of peace in your heart about the things you had to witness and endure . I've been on both ends of that as the kid and the adult receiving the abuse.. I wish you all of the best ❤️💪
As an optometrist, im shooked with the first story of how one handle their glasses or contacts 😮
And one thing, she was nearly assaulted by her then boyfriend. So its lucky that she dodge the bullet, hopefully she is still safe.
The first guy was a classic abuser. That's how they operate, demand you do everything for them, treat you like a servant, like they own you and lastly they raise their hands to you. I am glad she got out before it was too late, because that's where it was headed. I knew my ex needed to go when he pulled a knife on me. Got his behind arrested and packed my things. Once is too many times.
...also...when your vision is that bad, mine is, you ALWAYS have multiple pairs of glasses all over the place. Even old pairs that may not be as strong, but still allow you to function are kept. Pair in the car, next to bed, desk drawer, bathroom, backpack/handbag...everywhere... because sight is vital. The fact he didn't speaks to what CD said... incompetent. The almost hitting her also speaks to his incompetence/lack of intelligence.
I only have one pair because I can not afford more than that.
Yes, this. I have glasses from 20 years ago. 🤣😂
This like did he not even have sunglasses?? (That was my backup pair for the longest time)
My ex was also almost blind and couldn't see farther than a foot without glasses. He also had multiple pairs. He kept all the old ones in case something happened with his current ones.
Same haha
I can't afford to have more than one pair made usually because my vision is very unique and they're expensive.
But I at least keep all my old pairs that'll do in a pinch!
As someone with glasses, I quickly learned that not having a backup is dooming yourself to failure.
My 13 ur old is legit legally blind with infantile amblyopia and we learned by age 4 to have back ups always
Had glasses all my life, over 30 years and have never had a back up pair
@@honestyisadyingvirtue Then you are either very lucky or very careful. All I know is that I am so clumsy that it warrants a back up pair.
My glasses are my back up for my contacts 😭
For real I went on my honeymoon with only my glasses. Went on the hulk ride at universal. There were signs that said secure your glasses so I stuck them in my pocket. They put the harness on and I hear a crunch. I had to survive three more days with busted glasses I lost a lens on the ride so couldn’t even try and glue them together. Lesson learned. Carry two pairs everywhere!
I've had glasses since I was 8 years old (currently 25), and while I never had a pair of back up glasses, until I was 23, you best believe if something happened to those glasses, the house would've been torn apart searching for them. My parents decided that I didn't need a backup pair, (we had insurance, so they could've been replaced), I needed to learn how to care for my own belongings. And I do appreciate it honestly.
The waking her ex up thing brings back so much trauma for me from my past with 2 of my physically abusive exes. Knowing my husband won’t get angry when my alarm goes off makes me feel so safe. It should be a normal thing but when u go through trauma just something that simple feels like a blessing
So true
that is what it is like dating a narcissist...at the very end you feel defeated and numb, you just go thru motions to keep the other person from becoming even worse. I am so glad she got out and found true happiness
Yep, you’re absolutely right. Been there done that
She needed to break up with him before he was going to hit her!
So many things similar to my ex in that. The look in the eye is in my mind. I knew that look and it's terrifying. And it's not just "hitting me" it could have been worse.
My ex was a narcissist and emotionally abusive anda little bit physical, I haven't been with him in a year and 5 months and I'm still suffering with it. I suffer with terrible anxiety and very guarded. I'm glad she got out.
I didn't date a narcissist only worked with him but I felt exactly like this it was a very weird work relationship. It was like I was dating him without actually dating him and only after retelling my story to friends did I realise this. Happy to say over four years narcissistic colleague free! I just blocked him on absolutely everything and never looked back
As a person who has worn glasses since 2nd grade and is also legally blind without them, I can confirm you do not break your own glasses on purpose without making sure you have a backup pair. I can also confirm that no matter how diligent you are about putting your glasses on the nightstand, you WILL leave them on your bed by accident at least once.
Or falll asleep with them on....luckily my husband will take them off me and put them somewhere safe 😊
That horrifying "crunch" when you know you done effed up your specs and have to blind-feel your way to the cupboard where your spares are 🥴
@WhitSomething, yes! My husband will always put them somewhere safe for me if I fall asleep wearing them. I also have 2 pairs though
Omg! Are you me? 😂 glasses wearer since 2nd grade, also legally blind w/o them! 🙋🏽♀️ facts facts and more faaacccts.
I was so bad about putting my glasses on the nightstand and just leaving them next to my pillow that i kinda compromised with myself. I have this stuffed tiger and i sat him right next to my pillow. I started leaving my glasses on his face. So there's thankfully no chance of me destroying my glasses and my little tiger gets to see sometimes too!
He didn't take out his contact lenses? For a whole month!?! And then surprised when His vision deteriorates dramatically ??
I lived through something similar to the first story. When my ex and I were living together, if he had to get up for work early, I had to wake him up(he would sleep through his alarmS), get his clothes for him, give him his breakfast, and take the dog out. However, when I had to get up early for work, I did all that stuff on my own. Get myself up, get my clothes, make my breakfast, take the dog out. He just kept on sleeping. This all happened even while I was pregnant.
I'm proud that woman in the first story realized her worth and got out. The things she did for her ex are things I do when I wake my son up for school.
Yes. Because narcissists act like kids. They literally are mentally on a niveau of a teenager. 😅
Stop that immediately! This is where it comes from! I don't know how old your son is, but if he's older than 7 or 8, he should be getting himself up - with no warmed up clothes. Buy him an alarm clock and teach him how to use it. For a younger kid, a clock radio makes it fun. Waking up to music is a great way to start the day. You may need to double check each day for awhile that the alarm is still set and you'll need to serve as back up. If you find he's not getting up and just turning the alarm off, you'll have to move it across the room so he has to get up.
Don't raise your son to be like this horrible person. Teach him to be strong and independent and how to be a responsible adult.
Glad the first one got away cause that sounds like a potential domestic violence situation
That first story was borderline triggering for me. My ex did that kind of shit ALL THE TIME. Narcissists always need someone to blame and can never take care of themselves, but they're also the best people in the world and aren't we so grateful they deem us worthy for them to "love". Man, I'm glad this girl got out of that situation. Took me 3 years, so I'm glad she didn't give in to the sunk cost fallacy like I did
Took me 12 years to escape mine
7 years. I left when he hit me in front of the kids.
10 years. I will never again experience that feeling of helplessness 🤞
IKR
Took me 10... But yeah I understand@@ohnonotagain8935
Wear contacts continuously for 3 months, go from legally to actually blind.
"weaponized incompetence" you gave all the words! Run from weaponized incompetence. You know it when you see it. lol!
11:34 I love that she told people to keep her accountable and so others know she might be in a dangerous situation.
Yes, absolutely! To both parts of what you said!
I'm a DV survivor and I'm so glad the 1st girl got out before it escalated 💜 Let's all be in our "act like a grown up or GTFO" eras!
I am so glad that you mentioned about people having the bare minimum interest in you. That makes so much sense. You really opened up my eyes and I will think differently from this point on. I guess you can learn something new everyday.
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This "legally blind" MAN is acting like a child. He's old enough and responsible enough to wear glasses. It sounds like he is using you. If he doesn't work, he needs to be waking himself up and doing all of this for you. If he wears glasses to correct his vision, he's NOT REALLY BLIND!!!
Right! My husband is legally blind and he still walks around without his glasses cuz hes a weirdo!
I’m in no way minimizing his disgusting abusive behavior, but both can be true. 😅
well, she chose him and chose to live with him...
Blindness really is a spectrum, you can be legally blind (which he is) but it can be corrected with lenses. Without his glasses, he is effectively blind. I’m legally blind without my glasses, I have a couple pairs because glasses sometimes randomly break (I had a pair just snap on my face while I was just walking back from class, literally nothing else happened. My best guess is the temperature change between the air-conditioned classroom and the outdoors lead to that). Without my glasses everything is a blur of color, I’m effectively blind. Not all blind people see complete darkness, some only see lights/ shadows, some have a very limited field of vision, etc. He’s an abusive asshole but he’s still blind when he doesn’t have his glasses.
My partner shoveled the walk out to my car before he left for work at 5 this morning. I felt so loved.
My partner scraped the ice off my car before he left in his. Same. 🥰
7:27 I was so invested in this video that I actually raised my hand 😂
"Hold the phone, hoold the fone" 😂😍 just came to this channel, but I love her lmao
That first story is weaponized incompetence if I've ever seen it. Like, I have a hard time waking up in the morning, but I do all the shit I need to do for MYSELF the night before and set up all kinds of shit so that I have what I need to deal with sleep inertia. I don't take it out on my wife like an abusive d-bag.
Learned incompetence and it becoming weaponised is really dangerous. It stems from the “other” person, aka me, stepping in and doing the thing they won’t or can’t do themselves. I am finally learning to step back in these situations, and they can take ownership of their learning.
Yep - abusive man-baby sociopath
Yeah even in a scenario where he actually needed the “help”, the all other behaviors were more than enough and definitely not functional to get up more efficiently
Story 1: DAMN! 😱
I’ll admit I am fully incapable of waking myself I blame my asd/adhd but I do appreciate my wife and never once get mad if she doesn’t wake me because she slept in we just laugh and I say “oh no you caught it!” And we laugh. But I do make up for it in other ways! Every night I rub her feet and back as part of our nightly ritual:)
THE ABUSE OF IT ALL
also- not even close to being blind and i have two pairs of glasses, this guy is a disaster
Same, I get extra cheap pairs from Zenni, there's no excuse. Lol
Same, I could more or less function without glasses, except for driving (wich I rarely do) and I always have at least 2pairs.
That first one sounds like a malignant narcissist. Very scary. I’m so glad Kirsten left him. I felt so bad for her.
19:15 "Just because a guy expresses interest in you does not mean he sees a future with you" 💣💣💣 💯💯
We definitely need to pay attention to their intentions!
one minute in, and I am SO ANGRY at the ex in the first story!!!! OMG girl, you dropped dead weight. Congrats!
The best kind of weight loss!
1st story, very happy she got out of that mentally abusive relationship. He used his poor eyesight and her empathy for others against her. I hope she has a restraining order against him and changed job location.
When she was describing how he raised his hand to hit her, my heart dropped and I was crying for you. So traumatizing for you I’m so sorry. So glad you left him girl.
I’m showing my young niece this and pointing out all these various mistakes and have the self esteem and love yourself. She will also taking self defense classes.
I applaud that first girl for not marrying the guy. It gets SO much more complicated after "I do" when they're already acting like that before. You go girl 🎉🎉
😂coffee girl is a butty call just face it lady😢😢😢❤❤❤❤
@@irmaromo1635 what kind of sentence is this?
First story: I relate. My ex almost slapped me several times and then joked about it. It scared tf out of me but when I told people around me (that knew him, cause I was too much of a chicken to tell the people who actually cared about me) they didn’t act as if it was such a big deal. That turned into him taking advantage of me, because I didn’t read the signs properly or know what to do, so I’m really glad she caught on immediately, even if it took a load of emotional abuse, at least she acted when she realized.
I'm so sorry, I sincerely hope you're in a better place in life right now 🩷
Before people have been in an abusive situation they can't believe you! That's why in my opinion Charlotte's videos are educational. Me, not a relation, but I had a manipulative flatmate that hated me. She didn't do anything that I could point out to people until four month of profound disconfort went by. But just her general attitude, her way not to look at me, not to speak to me beyond "good morning" her body language were some sort of hidden abuse. She eventually moved out.
@@A-db4tz Thank you, I am. I took it as a learning opportunity😂❤️
Yeah, it’s a shame she got that far but I’m so glad she was able to break the spell, y’know?
@@rebny7801 I agree! I love Charlotte's humor, but I hope the "Ex Files" becomes a recurring theme as it's so relatable to many of us who are still healing. I hope that young men and women who have not experienced this kind of relationship dynamic are learning to spot the red flags of abusive partners.
Charlotte is sharing vital, life-saving info here while still being funny, entertaining, and looking lovely as ever.
1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner, according to NCADV; the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
The CDC reports that about 41% of women and 26% of men experienced contact sexual violence, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner and reported an intimate partner violence-related impact during their lifetime. I suspect those numbers are higher in actuality, because many won't report violence from their intimate partner, especially men who face ridicule from other men who insinuate that they are "weak".
Thankful that the first girl made it out okay. Wishing her so much peace,happiness & healing. ❤️🩹
I’m so glad to see women actually standing up for their own self worth.
I do those things for my husband of 20 years in the winter. Why? Because I work construction and sit on my happy, warm butt all winter long and collect my 2.5 months of unemployment a year before its Illinois, and this is what seasonal work means. So in the summer, he gets up with me at 430 in the summer to fill my cooler. Not every day, just big buildings, but I so appreciate it, and he shows me he appreciates it all winter. My husband has never in 20 years raised his voice or hand at me.
I consider you lucky, you may have found your permanent person and I envy you.
a year before its illinois?
Shut up @@kellz6266
When a voice is raised in blame (without reason) and anger a hand will surely follow. I'm glad you've found someone who does neither and fully supports you
@@kellz6266 i think she meant to write "because". as in she gets this 2 months and a half paid even though she is not working in that time
That 1st story, so hard to watch! I'm glad wasn't so broken that she stayed for the next stage of abuse. It starts off as emotional and verbal, and escalates to physical. They have to break the mental 1st. When you see red flags, run, don't walk.
I remember when my “ex” (we weren’t technically in a relationship, he basically just pressured me into sending pics and chatting about stuff I wasn’t comfortable with) contacted my sister trying to get my info (had him blocked on everything, he was trying to find me apparently). My sister really had my back tho, she told me about it, and as soon as I told her about what happened she told him off and threatened to call the cops. I wish I had stood up for myself sooner, but I’m glad I had someone that stood up for me.
I have to put my glasses in a box every night because my cats steal my glasses and chew on them.... 🤣😂
Can we appreciate that the amazing, incredible Kirsten told us this story doing makeup....no tears. She is going to be fine, and she'll never put up with any one's elses abusive BS.
Kirsten well done❤
1st story: I can not tell you enough...TELL YOUR CO-WORKERS. I had an employee crying telling me things about her relationship. She did NOT know that they were classic signs of abusive behavior. A month or so later.(because it takes time for ppl to see it themselves) 2 of my fellow managers & our sheriff officer got her the eff out of that apartment one night in the middle of a shift. Tell the ppl you work with, you might be surprised how willing they are to help you.
God bless you for helping her!!
Off topic, but that makeup with that nail polish is so pretty 💄💅 the nails and lips matching with the bright red, but also the eyes, brows and hair. I admire the skill, legit 🔥🔥🔥
I just introduced my dad to Charlotte's channel yesterday. He seemed to truly enjoy her, and it's not common for him to like most of what i find funny.
Story 1: Straight-up abuser, gets mad when woken up too early or too late, needs his clothes warmed up, needs his alarm set by the girlfriend, gets access to a free car and is still mad at her all the time, blames her for breaking his glasses and has a tantrum😬 Save your job, and hold onto what's yours. Love yourself🥰 He won't die without you, he might move back in with his mummy but he'll live. I suspect that he broke them on purpose🤫 I'm so glad that was the last time he drove the OP to work. Right, rage, shame, terrorise and then hug it out without an apology🤮 What an entitled, rage-aholic a**hole.
My Ex started dating my Now-Ex BFF less than a month after I left him. She made him miserable and they broke up a month after we graduated highschool hahaha
Oh the Teaeaea!
I mean, she made you ex miserable, so points?
This is so satisfying to read.
I agree with you about the second story. I was married for 8 years then went through a horrid divorce. Anyone who was ‘my’ friend I expected to be on my side, which is why I dropped a couple of them who decided to continue talking to him. They even thought it was ok to tell me about what he was up to in his life, including their opinions on who he was dating etc! They couldn’t get it through their heads that I wanted a completely clean break from the narcissist who had left me in such a mess I lost my job and my home because I could no longer afford to stay in our house (that he’d secured debts on) and I had to go to the other side of the country to live with my Mum. I lost a husband and a couple of ‘so called’ friends but I’m so much happier now. I’ve been loved up with a wonderful man for 15 great years and became his wife 3 years ago, I found my calling and run my own successful business, my true friends were my rocks throughout the low times and boy have we partied and celebrated some good times together. There’s always hope ladies, you deserve people who love and respect you to be your partner and your friends.
I love love love love your attitude girl ✋😊 thank you for these videos haha makes me laugh along with you 🤞💞
This first girl was that guy’s mother, not girlfriend. What a man baby.
My 4 year old has more responsibilities then this man
That first girls fiancé was more of a baby than any of my own kids were! Goodness.
My 7 month old is more independent
Thank you for this video! ☺🌻
You dodged the biggest narcissist bullet ever. This could have turned physical in the future and it’s honestly so difficult to get out of… so glad you were able to get out!
I am SO PROUD of the 1st girl. I’m going through something similar and I absolutely felt her story. Great job!
I hope you got out too, bestie! ❤
The first girls story made me cry. I am sadly going through a similar thing right now. When me and my SO started with each other, there were not any signs at all. It's been almost 3 years with us now, it slowly started around the 2ñd year mark, but it became worse last summer. I think it got worse, because I called her what she is, a narcissist The emotional abuse is severe at times. The mental torture. The extremely sad thing is I have become so numb to it. But when she doesn't get that reaction out of me, she will explode sometimes.
You both get out of it. Do everything possible in your might to get out of it. You guys deserve love, unconditional, limitless love
Life is short, sisters! Get out and live it with those that love & respect you ❤✊🏾
Recommending you guys the TV show: Maid
The second season will come out in the latter part of 2024.
I feel like the sister @14:30 was entertaining the conversation a little bit just to see what she can get him to say, then go back to her sister to tell her everything. And she got him to say "picked the wrong sister" LOL! priceless
Ughhh I love you to bits! 🥹❤️The lashes are incredible…
You are IT girl💋
Glasses. Man baby. The holding his fist at you WOW. Good for you the way you dealt with him 🙌❤️
Ugh. That first story broke me. Abuse is such a mind fuck. And when you can remove yourself from it you can see just how messed up it is. But in the moment, even tho it hurts, it feels just like she said. Your just numb and it’s just normal at that point.
And good for her for telling people and telling them to keep her accountable to the point that she couldn’t take it back and go back to him.
That she had people in place to help her. That woman is amazing!
Coffee girl: why are you so desperate to get crumbs? That guy is crumbs, and you deserve prime rib. Don't settle.
And she's GORGEOUS.
True!
Damn
Charlotte is such a voice of confidence for us.
Love you! 😂❤
Your responses at 15:36 “yeah” got my sub. That face was priceless. Had me in stitches. I’m the same way when someone is about to spill some dirt. “Hey wanna hear something crazy?” Ummm YEAH!!!
No-one should ever have to go through this crap. First lady can do so much better for herself. She's a beautiful person
The Ex-Files: The Audacity Is Out There
😂😂😂 best comment.
Nice 😂😂
I love how much of a “girl’s girl” Charlotte is ❤
Love the hair
We need more of the Ex-flies Audacity Edition
💯 yes
We will never run out of audacious ex stories! Some of us could write a book.
I’m *here* for this!
I love the misspell
@@marinasplaylist2251 Ex “flies” 🪰🪰🪰😂
The many red flags in that first story!! 😂
You’re hilarious! So glad I found your channel.
Showing love the way you want to receive it is like giving your wife a vacuum for Christmas lmfao. Try showing love the way YOUR PARTNER wants to receive it. You'll have much better luck with that.
Yes instantly thought that they need to read the love language book!!!
Kirsten seems like a QUEEN of a good person with a big heart. I hate that she wasted so much of her time and love on such a horrible man-baby. He was clearly abusing her and somehow convincing her that she deserved it. I sure hope she surrounds herself with POSITIVE, supportive people who tell her how wonderful she is all the time. I also hope she meets someone who treats her like the QUEEN she deserves to be treated like.
I’m so glad she could see him for him. I just hate it had to go that long. Loving someone shouldn’t feel like a chore.
It's videos like this that make me feel way better about being single.
I so feel this girl. Been there done that. No respect in return. Literally used the same wording except, “I can’t do this with you anymore!”. So frustrated and disgusted just like her.
20:33 this girl!!! Her self esteem must be on the floor. As soon as the guy uttered that he was gonna talk to their ex, I would’ve bailed. And to wonder if she should block him or not….smh
Did she take the liquor back? I didn't get it...
@@4kach24no! She left it! And after waiting for his ass for over 40 minutes. She was making excuses about needing to wait around so he could reimburse her too…honey, know your worth!!! ❤
The last story - she broke up with him because he made her feel like a trophy. That would have given me the ick for sure
Sorry, just my speculation 😂
I think you hit the nail on the head.
yep!!
the whole saga came out and well, you're wrong
@@ny8117 Probably, yes, just my intial thought without doing a full blown investigation. Not really that invested in it tbh 🤷🏻♀️
As a person who the same was completely blind without glasses/ lenses, you always always always have a backup pair, even if they are a couple of prescriptions out. His fault completely
I was really hoping for a wholesome ending for that last one like "she's not my girlfriend any more............. she's now my wife and baby mama"
I was wondering what happened as well. Maybe she got tired of hearing him say that she was too pretty for him all the time or something (or maybe he kept making comments about other guys looking at her). I mean it would become grating to hear it repeatedly especially from someone you care about.
Ok i can't deal with the baby boyfriend 😂😂i just CAN'T DEAL GURLL!!!
And yes i think he broke the glasses😌🙌😂
@@dolldream7497 exactly me too🤦
My husband and I were at a huge fair in our area. Like one of the biggest in the country. I stopped at the massage booth for a 15 minute massage and gave my husband my glasses. I’m also legally blind without glasses. When the massage was over I looked up with my blurred vision and couldn’t make my husband out anywhere. Eventually he came back but the night was ruined. I never understood how vulnerable and disabled I am without my glasses until that moment. Almost blind, thousands of people all around, every single one a blur. It was terrifying. I was so angry at him for leaving me stranded that way. Ps. My husband is practically a saint but used to drink a lot at the fair. He’s been sober for over two years ❤
That sounds absolutely terrifying sorry that happened to you.
I’m glad he stopped drinking!!
🤚- I do!
✋-I do too!
🖐-I think he broke his glasses on purpose too!
Back up pair...Exactly👌
Hands all the way up. 🙌
Also had a friend who similarly married to a man baby. He got worse and worse over the years. Nothing was ever his fault and always his wife’s. He was unemployed and living off her money. The instant she lost her job durning COVID he left her. And now he’s trying to beg his way back but she’s finally realizing how much happier she is not having to take care of him all the time.
So glad for Kristen. I had a similar situation when my ex complained about the messy house with 2 toddlers (he’s a hoarder) and I was vacuuming the bathroom crying. He kept telling me to treat the vac with respect while I’d answer back why don’t you love me. He fully extended his arm above his head for what seemed like forever. The only things saving me were the door frame and the bulky vac in front of me. I couldn’t escape and the kids were in their bedrooms. If he’d struck me, my head would have been smacked into the wall. We lived in one of the most remotest places in the world and my friends all knew him as their husbands worked with him so I couldn’t tell anyone and didn’t know if he knew any cops through cycling community. What I didn’t realise that the only difference between emotional and physical abuse is the scars are on the inside. I put up with him for 32yrs. They don’t change and there is no low. I was lucky in the end to find out some of the lies that had been there from the beginning.
I’m so sorry this happened to you! It’s so hard living with someone that would treat you this way.. Sending you a lot of love ❤❤❤
@@scarlettedelacroix3299 Thank you so much. The first thing I said to myself after I found out what he’d been up to the whole marriage was to get my head together, and I did. I’ve also learnt new skills, wrote 3 design books and in the last 6 months, I’ve started a light DIY reno my home. It’s so cool to trust my own instincts when no one else thought it’s been a good idea. Take care of your heart and mind and wishing you all the best in life!
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I loooove the fact that she did NOT stay !!! Smart, clever and fast as hell !!!
The way she described the condition of his glasses makes me think that he broke them purposely.
The first story…. I do the same stuff for my 8 year old who has school early and isn’t a morning person… an EIGHT year old… and she’s always grateful… ugh he’s awful
Yeah I’m like stop comparing these awful adults to children! Lol
27 year DV survivor. I had to hide to escape. And I lost everything. But I got out.
He absolutely would have hit you the next chance he had because you would have given him permission by staying. And it would have gotten worse and worse. And harder and harder to escape.
I am so proud of you!!! And so happy. I’ll look for your other horror stories. Big hugs. And way to go.
And Charlotte, thank you for highlighting this story. The biggest problem is the isolation. And telling such stories may help those who live with an abuser, not recognizing the behavior for what it is, and give them the impetus to escape.
I love your work ❤️❤️❤️
Your Yiddish grandma voice is hilarious 😂😂
Charlotte, I absolutely adore you you goofball!