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  • tiktok drama that needs an emergency exit - REACTION
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  • @keithbraham6438
    @keithbraham6438 Před 2 měsíci +5485

    The first guy dodged a Nuclear Missile. I hope he comes to realize how extremely lucky he is

    • @Catherine.Dorian.
      @Catherine.Dorian. Před 2 měsíci +326

      Oh yeah that was lucky for him cause she instantly showed she’s a nutcase

    • @ashassassin
      @ashassassin Před 2 měsíci +137

      Oh yeah, came here to say this. He is one lucky mf.

    • @robertagivens7873
      @robertagivens7873 Před 2 měsíci +155

      Agreed! She showed her true colors quickly! He’s lucky!

    • @PAGoTribe1963
      @PAGoTribe1963 Před 2 měsíci +138

      Absolutely. Chick was probably a stage 5 clinger and bunny boiler.

    • @AuLily1
      @AuLily1 Před 2 měsíci +112

      Crazy baby momma vibe, she's psycho. Dodged a major mistake.

  • @lolosugar2279
    @lolosugar2279 Před 2 měsíci +3616

    Yes exposing someone on SM for something he couldn't control... then expecting him to still come after u drag him. In this economy, we need our jobs. Especially health insurance. Poor guy

    • @infin8ee
      @infin8ee Před 2 měsíci +251

      She knew he wasn't coming but still made a video with her child saying how excited she was. He made a lucky escape.

    • @Felix_hobi
      @Felix_hobi Před 2 měsíci +129

      Yea and she left soooo much out like tf, I hope her fanbase turned

    • @joshuafielding7667
      @joshuafielding7667 Před 2 měsíci +54

      @@Felix_hobi omg she’s just all types of loose in the bolts! What a messy human being.

    • @karabiel9167
      @karabiel9167 Před 2 měsíci +30

      He showed more effort into trying to make a set date/time in showing ACTUAL GENUINE interest!!..😮... I've been married to my elementary school crush since I was 16, n we just celebrated our 23rd wedding anniversary however we've been together for 26yrs,.. n considering the fact that I've lived more of my life WITH him then WITHOUT... I can confidently say that I'd be lucky if my hubby remembered my bday, let alone being able to plan ahead for just "us" time!😮🤔😂 unfortunately I happen to fall in love with an extremely hyperactive,(child at ❤️) mentality with pretty disruptive OCD triggers/episodes, PLUS he hates going to the doctor so ive had to struggle hard with trying to keep up a strong relationship esp after all these years! Anyhoo, if I were the girl from the first story, I'd be forever embarrassed n ashamed of myself for acting out so immaturely n impulsive, yes who else can safely say the guy dodged a bullet, maybe it was the universe trying to warn him, ya know 🤷🏻‍♀️😫😵‍💫🤦🏻‍♀️🫨

    • @ginabell694
      @ginabell694 Před 2 měsíci

      There's definitely still some ppl telling her she dodge the bullet. ​@@Felix_hobi

  • @carlamarlene2927
    @carlamarlene2927 Před 2 měsíci +529

    "I'm not insecure in my relationship with my man, I'm getting suspicious of your intentions when YOU won't respect my boundaries in my relationship with my man" bring in the man and see what he says.

    • @MsCortneySoHollywood
      @MsCortneySoHollywood Před 2 měsíci +49

      Good point 👍🏽 I wonder how the bf acts w/ the friend & if the gf addressed the problem w/ him too 🤔

    • @warriorprincess1846
      @warriorprincess1846 Před měsícem

      I would of had to be held back from throwing hands at the peroxide piece of 💩

    • @captainnoname7690
      @captainnoname7690 Před měsícem +25

      As a man I would of been mad, that's my friendship your messing with... It is your insecurity that you need to deal with, if you can't deal with it, you communicate to me and we work it out or I make a choice between a friend our our relationship... This isn't the way!

    • @carlamarlene2927
      @carlamarlene2927 Před měsícem +30

      @@captainnoname7690 I admit I'm a little confused by your comment. Are you saying if your friend was messaging your girlfriend behind your back, you would pick your friend over your girlfriend? Or if you were my man you would think I was insecure with my friend and dump me bc I'm insecure?

    • @captainnoname7690
      @captainnoname7690 Před měsícem

      @@carlamarlene2927 sry, I mean I would want my gf to come to me and then together after talking about it, we make a decision about my female friendships and what we do about them together.

  • @samsgirl7821
    @samsgirl7821 Před 2 měsíci +87

    They guy who couldn't get the time off clearly dodged a bullet. He should thank his supervisor.

  • @fabiennevdk7045
    @fabiennevdk7045 Před 2 měsíci +1137

    4:17 “I picked up some shifts so I had money” So she understands needing a job to have money, yet expects him to jeopardize his job to come see her? The hypocrite.

    • @monicoff914
      @monicoff914 Před 2 měsíci +41

      Yaaassss this is what I was thinking! She literally is a hypocrite 😂

    • @Smooveandpretty
      @Smooveandpretty Před 2 měsíci +27

      His job and potential his health since he said he has some issues n he needs the health insurance from the job.

    • @maloydonedidit2903
      @maloydonedidit2903 Před měsícem

      That describes most women really

  • @t-and-p
    @t-and-p Před 2 měsíci +1262

    Regarding the girl confronting her guy's friend...
    I'm female and, being a veteran, I have a lot of male friends. One of my friends started seeing a girl and she was uncomfortable with our friendship. My friend let me know, so I arranged to meet her. I suggested we go out for lunch, just us two girls, so should could get to know me. We did and, over the course of the afternoon (we got on, so it ended up being a long lunch! 😂), I found out 2 things:
    1) She was lovely;
    2) She was insecure because her ex had cheated on her with someone he told her was his friend.
    I could've told her it was her problem and not mine, but that would have been really disrespectful to my friend and would've shown no empathy to a girl taking time out to get to know me. So, instead, I suggested we find a solution until I'd earned her trust. We set up a group chat. Within a few months, she felt more secure, we all texted normally again, and I had earned a new friend.
    Cut to last year and I was very proud to be a bridesmaid at their wedding 😎
    Moral of the story: as a friend, it's your job to do right by your friend. If their new partner is psycho and tries to oush you out of the picture, tell them and stand firm. But if your friend really likes their new partner, find a solution (not for the partner, but because you value your friendship). And, you never know, you might end up with a new awesome friend, like I did 😊

    • @chrishorniblow3431
      @chrishorniblow3431 Před 2 měsíci +65

      Awesome story.

    • @cr_96512
      @cr_96512 Před 2 měsíci +59

      That’s really sweet 😊

    • @DawnKellyPhotography
      @DawnKellyPhotography Před 2 měsíci +90

      You are very mature and this is a great story. Thanks for sharing!

    • @sharim
      @sharim Před 2 měsíci +55

      Great story, thanks for sharing. It’s a wonderful way to make sure you still maintained your original friendship as well as making a new one.

    • @BenitaBoo
      @BenitaBoo Před 2 měsíci +25

      I want a friend like you!

  • @hrafna777
    @hrafna777 Před měsícem +136

    I was a bartender for a very long time. It's completely normal for people to come in just to relax by themself or hang out with their friends and not drink alcohol.

  • @raindropsandfeathers2245
    @raindropsandfeathers2245 Před 2 měsíci +78

    The situation with the two girls talking about the girl being "insecure in the relationship" had it happen to me! She gaslit me to the extreme and called up my boyfriend. He ended up dumping me over it - best thing to happen to me, though.

    • @meganjones3427
      @meganjones3427 Před 14 dny

      Good riddance, you're better off without both of them!

    • @esmee6308
      @esmee6308 Před 8 dny +3

      Dodged a bullet... You deserve a better boyfriend and better friends. My best friend's girlfriend struggled understanding how close we are, so she invested time in our shared hobby to get to know me. I'd never want to make her feel crazy or worried, she means way too much to my bestie for that. We never ended up being friends, too little common ground, but she build a strong bond of trust with me. I'd expect my best friend to do the same for my boyfriend if that's something he needed.

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 Před 8 dny

      @@esmee6308 Absolutely agree. I now have a wonderful boyfriend and cut ties with any of those affiliated in that friend group.

    • @esmee6308
      @esmee6308 Před 8 dny

      @@raindropsandfeathers2245 Glad to hear it! Couldn't have been easy at the time.

    • @nahqiv
      @nahqiv Před dnem

      I mean, I get both sides, but someone absolutely can lack confidence to the point that they get jealous of their SO's friends.

  • @patriot-hj5vx
    @patriot-hj5vx Před 2 měsíci +1512

    Imagine feeling SO HURT that you send an army to hate the guy that hurt you unintentionally. This girl is psycho and he dodged a bullet.

    • @The.Office.Alliance.
      @The.Office.Alliance. Před 2 měsíci +107

      I'm not even sure she was that hurt, just attention seeking.

    • @lillia2479
      @lillia2479 Před 2 měsíci +40

      It was more like a nuclear missile. 😂

    • @maggieb4736
      @maggieb4736 Před 2 měsíci +48

      She'd never even met him, how hurt could she have been? Extreme reaction to what should have been just mild disappointment.

    • @braenpsy
      @braenpsy Před 2 měsíci

      I've had friends like her. Dropped them.

    • @sagrammyfour
      @sagrammyfour Před 2 měsíci +16

      She was NOT HURT.

  • @LadyGeckoFoot
    @LadyGeckoFoot Před 2 měsíci +1619

    I'd be calling and emailing the company in the internship company and reporting him for harassment. Hell no

    • @straxberry7204
      @straxberry7204 Před 2 měsíci +159

      my guess is the "company" is fake. Its not too hard to make up some company or pose as an existing one on LinkedIn. He was definitely gonna ghost her after that 1 month.

    • @Kayla-Butterfly
      @Kayla-Butterfly Před 2 měsíci +45

      This! No way would i put up with that creepy inappropriate behavior

    • @saraschneider6781
      @saraschneider6781 Před 2 měsíci +45

      There is no company.

    • @evaneaster
      @evaneaster Před 2 měsíci +45

      He was the “owner“ of the company

    • @grannym2880
      @grannym2880 Před 2 měsíci

      Either an MLM or he was a straight up se* offender.

  • @auntyvenom133
    @auntyvenom133 Před 2 měsíci +48

    As someone who has been a bartender & a server, never talk about customers with anyone other than your co workers. No matter what

  • @JosephTerterian
    @JosephTerterian Před 2 měsíci +187

    When I go to a bar I only drink water cause I don’t like drinking. When did drinking water become abnormal. What a world we live in. Thanks for supporting us water drinkers ❤❤❤❤

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 Před 2 měsíci +10

      I live in Australia and have gotten this since before I was 18 (legal drinking age) simply because no I don't want to act a fool and lose all co-ordination, dignity and respect nor deal with creeps trying to take me home, I'm just there to have a non-alcoholic drink and socialize for a few moments with some friends and go back to my family before the friends get rowdy.

    • @soude85
      @soude85 Před měsícem +18

      I don’t think it’s about the water as such, I think she was only ordering the “free tap water”… And if that’s the case, I don’t think it’s fair to the establishment-to sit there and order free water every night.
      Of course I could be wrong but otherwise it wouldn’t make any sense😅

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 Před měsícem +12

      @@soude85 That's quite odd to me, where I am we can order water any time and the bartender is usually giving a sigh of relief because it means we're not getting roaring drunk, and also is legally obliged to have water available.

    • @mandachris7146
      @mandachris7146 Před měsícem +1

      @@soude85nah that’s not true at all - a bartender

    • @brandonmesey5096
      @brandonmesey5096 Před měsícem +4

      Some people don't understand going to a bar and be sober just to meet friends.

  • @amandajettie7486
    @amandajettie7486 Před 2 měsíci +846

    The smile while arguing on the blond's face tells you all you need to know. She's LOVING the drama she's caused.

    • @sopiuzzi
      @sopiuzzi Před 2 měsíci +35

      this

    • @lun4r.h4ze
      @lun4r.h4ze Před 2 měsíci

      Bro her face is so punchable

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 Před 2 měsíci +36

      Oh so true! I knew someone like this (now ex bestie fooling around with my now ex bf) and took the smile off her face with itching powder, which how I found out she was the other chick he was seeing because she called me thinking she caught an STD and was wondering if I had caught anything. 1+1 = Gotcha!😈😈

    • @Lunar_onpawz
      @Lunar_onpawz Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@rustyhowe3907nice tactic I probably would've done a pepper condom deal but that works😂

    • @rustygribbler1380
      @rustygribbler1380 Před měsícem

      She never got her ass whipped by other girls

  • @thecraziestcrayon
    @thecraziestcrayon Před 2 měsíci +1031

    I feel like shampoo girl needs to contact Blake's company and send them all the correspondence between them. His bosses need to know what he's doing to potential employees

    • @PAGoTribe1963
      @PAGoTribe1963 Před 2 měsíci +75

      Unless the company is sus to begin with.

    • @sowi-reeikuddye5732
      @sowi-reeikuddye5732 Před 2 měsíci +124

      More likely there was no "company" to begin with.

    • @Clementine202
      @Clementine202 Před 2 měsíci +76

      Might not even be a real job application… sounds creepy and scammy

    • @christinesinclair6938
      @christinesinclair6938 Před 2 měsíci +34

      @@sowi-reeikuddye5732 Agreed. The phone call thing is a redflag.

    • @thecraziestcrayon
      @thecraziestcrayon Před 2 měsíci +61

      So true. Since it was on LinkedIn, maybe she can make a post warning other potential interns, or even contact LinkedIn that there's a scammer. Idk

  • @tonyleblanc7302
    @tonyleblanc7302 Před 2 měsíci +32

    I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again……. If a company asks you to sign a non-disclosure agreement, it’s because they have something they don’t want disclosed. It’s a red flag, do not take the job.

  • @caitmccollom9652
    @caitmccollom9652 Před měsícem +47

    My little sister married my high-school best friend. He and I's relationship changed immediately. We get along like siblings still, but my sister is the priority above all. We do not hangout or message without including her. No exception.

    • @mags2847
      @mags2847 Před měsícem

      That’s so weird to me. My best guy friend has been my friend for almost 24 years. Our moms are best friends and we’ve always acted like siblings, especially because his mom always wanted a girl and so I’ve been her surrogate daughter ever since I was a baby. He came back from college from the states with a girlfriend, which I was so excited for until I met her. We’re European, it’s super normal for a woman and a man to be platonic friends… my boyfriend has no issue with our relationship whatsoever and he also has a few female friends. This girl has had a issue with me even before I met her, she doesn’t want him texting me or calling me if she’s not there listening, she doesn’t want us to hang out, etc. This guy knows all my secrets and so I vent to him a lot, but I don’t want a random girl listening in! I’ve tried to befriend her several times and she’s so aloof. I’m not sure if it’s culture shock but I feel like Americans are very jealous in a relationship.

    • @lesliegutierrez4658
      @lesliegutierrez4658 Před měsícem +1

      Oh

  • @ShandoraTheExplorer
    @ShandoraTheExplorer Před 2 měsíci +1561

    Those dramas don't need an emergency exit, they need an ejection seat. 🤣

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo Před 2 měsíci +13

      Hahaha! I've needed one few times in my life.

    • @danic933
      @danic933 Před 2 měsíci +17

      Without the parachute lol

    • @arsondarksea
      @arsondarksea Před 2 měsíci +5

      😂God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤

    • @Mike90317
      @Mike90317 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Ejecto seato cuz!

    • @Kenzie3551
      @Kenzie3551 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Omg, so true!!!

  • @ckilbarger01
    @ckilbarger01 Před 2 měsíci +401

    First girl could have garnered the sympathy she seems to want without blasting him like that.
    Like ending it with "His work denied his time off request" would have still gotten the emotional response without burning that bridge

    • @catstreat9434
      @catstreat9434 Před 2 měsíci +59

      100% exactly this. I TOTALLY get the disappointment but her posting the video without the reason and ALONG WITH THE BLACKMAIL TEXTING TO HIM was so immature.

  • @courtneystewart8006
    @courtneystewart8006 Před měsícem +27

    The water drinking at the bar story hit home a bit. My husband is allergic to alcohol and only ever likes drinking water. He hates coffee and tea and used to drink juice or sodas but cut those out because of the excessive sugar in them. Therefore, he only drinks water. When he was dating online, he felt stuck not being able to meet people in bars or coffee shops. He felt it would seem strange to girls online to meet up with a guy who isnt drinking at all. He felt it would seem preditory and chose to meet ppl in other places. We met at dinner and it was lovely but it is sad that people feel they can't be in a bar if they aren't drinking.

  • @paulmorgan1009
    @paulmorgan1009 Před 2 měsíci +111

    Also associating being on the spectrum with even near being a murderer or that neurodivergence is just a scary thing that could mean criminal is infuriating. Yeah that bartender is the worst.

    • @idakristin4
      @idakristin4 Před měsícem +18

      I know! ones she just mentioned being on the spectrum i got really mad!
      Cuz she dont know shit! Im on the spectrum myself...!
      And when people are talking about people on the spectrum like that or use it as an insult, it really pisses me off!

    • @mamajedi745
      @mamajedi745 Před měsícem +13

      Same. But I just laugh because do you know how many autistic people have made the world a much better place? Technology? Science? Surgery? Food? Music? All of the huge advances we made were because of autistic individuals that hyperfocused on their passions and weren't distracted by the frivolous nature of human interaction. But at the same time lower functioning autism is not a joke and they are some of the sweetest most misunderstood people that these "NT" haters will never have the capacity to appreciate. I hope you'll laugh with me when you see how stupid it is for one group to hate on another group. Goes to shownhoe much awareness we.need as a people of autism and how to treat people the way we want to be treated.
      I don't mean to preach to the choir. I'm hoping to ignite something in someone that will read this later.
      Yes, I'm on the spectrum as well as are my kids and my parents and so on and so forth. And it's a beautiful world.

    • @aingaeltummers
      @aingaeltummers Před měsícem +13

      My son and I are also on the spectrum, that line got my hackles up. I'm a sober mamma because i have kidney disease. I literally can't drink.

  • @amandalorian8317
    @amandalorian8317 Před 2 měsíci +565

    Here’s the thing about the girl confronting her friend, she should never have put herself in that position. You tell the boyfriend you’re not comfortable with it and he needs to handle it, and if he doesn’t you walk away from both of them. She’s texting HIS phone. HE needs to be the one to tell her it’s not ok. Then the girlfriend doesn’t get her hands dirty at all, and isn’t subjected to any bullcrap the other girl is going to say.

    • @NicoBGC
      @NicoBGC Před 2 měsíci +90

      Exactly. He falls to him to address and correct the friend's behavior so his gf isn't left feeling uncomfortable or awkward. Some new gf's will be all "dump your friend". That happened, and I'd only gone out with the girl once. She wanted me to not even hang out with a friend I'd known for years; we called each other brother and sister. New girl never even met my friend and said I wasn't gonna remain friends with "my sis" if I was with her. I told her right off 1) one date isn't a relationship, 2) you don't get to tell me who my friends are, and 3) rest assured, there won't be a 2nd date. Take care!

    • @aymanaltaf2090
      @aymanaltaf2090 Před 2 měsíci +56

      Exactly what I was thinking... why isn't her boyfriend addressing the situation

    • @goodmiusic3584
      @goodmiusic3584 Před 2 měsíci +51

      as a girl, if that’s if that’s my close friend im going to confront both of them.. especially if she is the one being inappropriate/disrespectful. im mot going to tell him to put a stop to it and then act like theres nothing wrong towards her. especially cause then she could be like “why didn’t she tell me herself”. you are supposed to feel close enough in your friendship to be able to set boundaries w your friends

    • @lucypick7943
      @lucypick7943 Před 2 měsíci +23

      We didn't really catch the beginning of that conversation. She may have already confronted her boyfriend about it and the friend may have brought it up with her.

    • @christinaparent1
      @christinaparent1 Před 2 měsíci

      Yes. Exactly.

  • @Mechanic.Pete41
    @Mechanic.Pete41 Před 2 měsíci +571

    I'm a 41yr old Aussie Diesel mechanic here in Queensland Australia, I'm abit rough, short beard, drive a 4x4 ute, have a custom trike, usually covered in grease and oil and dirt most days, work for a big transport company here as well, have my own work shop and 3 other mechanics beside me as well... but as soon as I get a notification that a new Charlotte video has dropped its tools down, stop what ya doing, and everyone in the workshop crowds around the 70' flatscreen for abit of Charlotte time 😂😂 keep up the good work darl, love ya vids 👌

    • @bunyipdragon9499
      @bunyipdragon9499 Před 2 měsíci +30

      Hey Pete, you'll have lots of o/s visitors if your not careful 😆 From Nth East VIC 🇦🇺

    • @Mechanic.Pete41
      @Mechanic.Pete41 Před 2 měsíci +9

      @@bunyipdragon9499 I dont mind 🤷‍♂️🤣🤣

    • @bunyipdragon9499
      @bunyipdragon9499 Před 2 měsíci +7

      @@Mechanic.Pete41 didn't think so, I was being silly 😜

    • @LostmyslflovnU
      @LostmyslflovnU Před 2 měsíci +5

      Wish I lived in Australia 😅

    • @vplaza73
      @vplaza73 Před 2 měsíci +17

      I dig the visualization!❤

  • @Caitlinb87
    @Caitlinb87 Před měsícem +13

    I'm glad to see a response to that bartender's tiktoks. She's always given me the ick. There was another story recently about her toxicity too, basically encouraging people to commit credit card fraud.

  • @ktkaye24
    @ktkaye24 Před 24 dny +5

    I’m really proud for the last girl who stood up for her friend that had a nasty TikTok posted online regarding untrue, made up, and malicious rumors. I give her a lot of credit for not only admitting her past transgressions but that she’s doing much better and is a kinder person now. Kudos to you girl!

  • @claraprado5401
    @claraprado5401 Před 2 měsíci +220

    I find it so disturbing that bartender chick says she "doesnt want to make fun of someone on the spectrum", I'm autistic and I don't want fake niceness when you're dealing with me, if you're not gonna treat other people with basic respect then whats the point? This absolutely cannot be what people think we want 😂

    • @apmanda
      @apmanda Před 2 měsíci +24

      For people like her, unfortunately, it’s really not about what others want but about what she can acceptably get away with socially. It’s performative sensitivity, and it’s sadly very common.

    • @jeunese
      @jeunese Před 2 měsíci +26

      She only doesn't want to make fun of someone on the spectrum because it's not politically correct and she doesn't want to get hate. She's fine making fun of anyone else, and that would include autistic people (with the gross presumption she can tell just by looking at them) if she wasn't afraid of backlash. She just wants positive internet points. Most people have met people who are autistic and not even known. Hell, many autistic women don't know until they're diagnosed in adulthood (speaking from experience). Maybe just... don't make fun of people? Whether you think they're autistic or not.

    • @jordangann7438
      @jordangann7438 Před 2 měsíci +20

      As a high masking, late diagnosed female with autism,
      My favourite lines by ableist a holes is " but you don't look autistic" along with " my family member is autistic so you must be faking because you don't have the same look or the exact same autistic traits as my family member" it's like people's family members get diagnosed and then they immediately forget that Autism is on a spectrum.

    • @angelamfield
      @angelamfield Před 2 měsíci +10

      ​@@jordangann7438 Yes! Or when they ask 'what does he do?' & I'm like 'wut' and they say 'You know, like is he really good at math or does he play an instrument? I know someone who has it and they are really good at "_____" So I'm like 'he's really good at minding his business and being completely innocent & happy!' (They don't have to know he's 23 but really more like a nonverbal 3) It's like just cause you watched 1 movie or your family member/friend has it, they aren't all the same! It's called a spectrum for a reason!

    • @Paidamoyo-JanetAzehko
      @Paidamoyo-JanetAzehko Před měsícem

      That part. I don’t want to hate on people on the spectrum…
      • proceeds to hate on the ONE group of people that would rather you honestly rail on us than fake niceness •
      Sometimes I don’t understand NT ppl…

  • @maiingan07
    @maiingan07 Před 2 měsíci +438

    I’ve bartended for a number of years, it paid for my schooling. And in those last years I’d get tipped for my waters. It was because I’d always dress it up to look like a mixed drink, and they were thankful for it. Showing a bit of kindness goes a long ways for the most part.

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 Před 2 měsíci +30

      That bartender was insane. She's disgusting. 😂

    • @MeadowsMiniFarm
      @MeadowsMiniFarm Před 2 měsíci

      The bartender in my opinion she’s an asshole, and there’s been a lot of videos as of late that I’ve come out about her and what she’s really about and it’s not being a nice person 😂

    • @lucycarlisle9120
      @lucycarlisle9120 Před 2 měsíci +35

      Water should be tipped, though. Not exorbitant tips, but leave the bartender something, even if you aren't drinking alcohol. They are still on their feet for a long time & have to serve you & clean up after you. You don't even have to pay for the water, so it doesn't cost much to leave them a couple/few bucks before you leave. But THIS bartender is pretty whack. & the hair is straight outta '93 😅

    • @allisoncastle
      @allisoncastle Před 2 měsíci +22

      @@lucycarlisle9120 Absolutely disagree. Why should you tip for something that’s free? And ESPECIALLY tip people who are judging you 24/7 apparently???

    • @rra7490
      @rra7490 Před 2 měsíci +37

      If you are there every day ordering a water, you should tip because they are providing a service and asking if you need anything else.

  • @kristynapribylova8529
    @kristynapribylova8529 Před 2 měsíci +23

    The only time when it’s justified to text this much to your friend’s boyfriend is when you’re helping to choose a ring.

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 Před 2 měsíci +4

      I and a male friend were exceedingly sneaky with our texts simply because he wanted a woman's opinion on how to propose, I wasn't the sort to ruin the surprise by blabbing so I've had all kinds of male friends drop me texts about girly stuff including a wedding! My friend really passed my name around as a reliable go-to.🤣🤣

    • @JinsFavouriteArmy
      @JinsFavouriteArmy Před měsícem +6

      idk, we shouldn't feel threatened when boyfriends are friends with a different gender. if theres no flirting included or any sexual/romantic intendos or jokes. but in the video i agree on the girlfriend since her bestfriend send his bf some bare shoulder pics like theres no need lol

    • @themayhemofmadness7038
      @themayhemofmadness7038 Před 4 dny +1

      It isn’t the texting itself that is wrong. It is what she was texting that was out of line.
      If she was truly only being a friend, she wouldn’t be doing that crap.

  • @babigirl3161
    @babigirl3161 Před 2 měsíci +21

    “We don’t stoop! We’re queens” YEESSS CHARLOTTE

  • @TheBaumcm
    @TheBaumcm Před 2 měsíci +433

    12:00 the grin on the “friend’s” face that pops out briefly at times is duper’s delight. Narcs use it when gaslighting and they think they’re winning.

    • @kristipearce4819
      @kristipearce4819 Před 2 měsíci +47

      Yeah, that girl gave me the ick… 😖

    • @megganc1334
      @megganc1334 Před 2 měsíci +13

      I agree!!! That's what killed me

    • @EmilyRachael90
      @EmilyRachael90 Před 2 měsíci +7

      I literally JUST came to make a comment about duper's delight!

    • @thisisnotmyname4700
      @thisisnotmyname4700 Před 2 měsíci +13

      It can be nervousness if you come from abuse, etc. Clearly not with the girl in the video.... but yeah

    • @melg1058
      @melg1058 Před 2 měsíci

      Yeah, she thinks she’s the shit but she ain’t even the fart.

  • @jadamurphy8175
    @jadamurphy8175 Před 2 měsíci +991

    The woman in the first story was giving off major bunny boiler vibes. Dude is lucky that he couldn’t get off work.

    • @PAGoTribe1963
      @PAGoTribe1963 Před 2 měsíci +92

      He should thank his boss for the rejection after showing him the video.

    • @thatonewitch
      @thatonewitch Před 2 měsíci +52

      Bunny *what* vibes??!

    • @Garurugirl1
      @Garurugirl1 Před 2 měsíci +54

      the heck is a bunny boiler?

    • @LaShumbraBates
      @LaShumbraBates Před 2 měsíci +106

      They're talking about Bunny boiler vibes like the woman in the movie Fatal Attraction who boils the bunny

    • @kanditraxel
      @kanditraxel Před 2 měsíci +51

      "I will not be IGNORED, DAN!" 😅

  • @DreamBig98
    @DreamBig98 Před 2 měsíci +55

    I got two things to say about the friend's confortation/gaslighting story: 1.UNLESS the friend is her bf's sister, private messages should absolutely be minimum. 2. Talk to your bf, I don't know the story but it seems like he's entertaining the "friend", and should be confronted as well. The friend isn't the only one responsible.

    • @mercedesvelasquez8781
      @mercedesvelasquez8781 Před měsícem +7

      This feels like to be a huge problem in the normie world ahahaha because I come from the subcultures so do my friends it's a good mix from the metalhead, punk, rock n roll and goth scenes where everyone is friends with another's boyfriend without a issue because hell a lot folks wouldn't have meet their partner if it wasn't for said friend. It's a small community so hard to avoid yup definitely thinking this is a issue for those who are more normal everyday folks..

  • @HyperMooKitty18
    @HyperMooKitty18 Před 2 měsíci +5

    So I am decently good friends with my friends husband. I met them as a couple and developed a friendship with both of them.
    However
    I have, on more that one occasion, made sure that she was still comfortable with it, and I've also made sure every single thing was seen as friendly and could never be taken out of context. They are both absolutely wonderful people and I don't see that there will ever be an issue with it, but if she came to me one day and said it made her uncomfortable I would stop any communication with him that didn't involve her. It's called being a good friend.

  • @HollieAndApollo
    @HollieAndApollo Před 2 měsíci +835

    Ex bartender here and I promise we are not all like her.. Most of us appreciate the sober people who come into the bar. I’d never expect a tip for water either. I personally loved my regulars and never cared what they ordered or didn’t order. ❤

    • @belledoc6249
      @belledoc6249 Před 2 měsíci +92

      In college, the local bars gave free sodas to the designated driver. I rarely drink, but I enjoy going out with friends. I've never had an issue with bartenders or waitstaff.

    • @jessjess23brooks89
      @jessjess23brooks89 Před 2 měsíci +71

      Agreed. Her entitlement is wild. I worked at a bar attached to a bowling alley and if I cried and moaned every time I fetched a water, I would just be sobbing all day. I did bulk order bottled water for customers, but that's only because I thought the tap water was gross and felt bad serving it to kids. Not for money.

    • @danahuskey3559
      @danahuskey3559 Před 2 měsíci +49

      I appreciate how hard the bartenders & servers work. They deal with a lot. I always tip for water when it’s served to me. You take care of me; I take care of you.

    • @drakean8
      @drakean8 Před 2 měsíci +53

      Isn't the expectation that a customer purchase something? Like maybe some apps from the kitchen or a virgin cocktail or something? Cuz otherwise isn't it loitering?

    • @user-bl9hq2gf6i
      @user-bl9hq2gf6i Před 2 měsíci +18

      also don't care what they order, love regulars, dont expec ttips but appreciate them and me personally I would tip for a water as well but i work hospitality so i know the hussle

  • @RockinTheBassGuitar
    @RockinTheBassGuitar Před 2 měsíci +189

    Girl in the first story is going to be online is a month like 'I don't understand why I can't keep a relationship."

    • @s.b.sieber2007
      @s.b.sieber2007 Před 2 měsíci +23

      I'm more worried about her little boys. She seems to be including them in her dating/love life as well as posting it for everyone to see. She doesn't need to be dating right now; she needs to be staying off the internet and taking care of her kids.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 2 měsíci +3

      IKR 😂

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 2 měsíci +3

      ​@@s.b.sieber2007 I'm worried as crazy as she is that she would or does hurt them!

  • @somegingerchicktarot
    @somegingerchicktarot Před měsícem +4

    I have a brother from another mother for over 30 years. We were never romantic ever and he really is like a brother. He and his wife are good friends of mine. I honestly talk to him more than her because we grew up together and known him my whole life. Most of our conversations are about people we know and our kids. I knew him before her obviously. However; if she ever said "hey I am uncomfortable with how much you and Jason talk" or said she was uncomfortable- I would respect that immediately! Why, because I respect and love them both and I ain't about to be responsible for any discord in THEIR marriage or lives. She never has because there are boundaries that you just don't cross, even as friends.

  • @monster-enthusiast
    @monster-enthusiast Před měsícem +9

    "I ain’t got no buisness having a friendship with my friend's man." Why????? Genuinely. Like that does not make sense to me. If someone that's gonna be with my friend for the rest of their life was incapable of being friends with with me, their best friend, that's a red flag.

    • @deathvvitch
      @deathvvitch Před 19 dny +1

      She clearly said she can be cordial and “friends” but she’s not gonna be texting her man.

    • @monster-enthusiast
      @monster-enthusiast Před 19 dny +1

      @@deathvvitch Ya, and I don't get it. Unless you have no faith in ur friend and bf, I don't get what the problem is.
      I'd HOPE I got along well enough with my friends partners to be able to text them.

    • @kurokotetsuya5358
      @kurokotetsuya5358 Před dnem

      The thing is WHY you event want to text them? For what? ​@monster-enthusiast

    • @monster-enthusiast
      @monster-enthusiast Před dnem +1

      @@kurokotetsuya5358 Wdym why? If we're friends then we're friends.

  • @quartztoad
    @quartztoad Před 2 měsíci +456

    as someone who is autistic and who has family members who are autistic, I hate it when people say " I wouldn't make fun of someone if I knew they were on the spectrum/autistic" because you do not know. If you think you can somehow sense when someone is autistic, you are wrong

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler Před 2 měsíci +70

      And people need to stop using it as an insult! They all used it that way and I’m so angry about it.

    • @moonhunter9993
      @moonhunter9993 Před 2 měsíci +36

      exactly. Also, being "on the spectrum" or any other kind of neurodiverse IS not and definitely SHOULD not be an insult. It's a disability (often invisible) and it's just as disgusting to make fun of it or "speculate" about it like making fun of someone in a wheelchair or with diabetes etc.

    • @jennmac9532
      @jennmac9532 Před 2 měsíci +35

      My son is autistic and you would never know. Autism isn’t bad. It’s a different way of thinking and all the diff thinkers are the ones who go n do great things. That’s what I told him and even gave examples (when he got picked on in school) now he’s riding a scholarship to be a video game developer n designer. He’s awesome in so many ways and a very interesting n fun person.

    • @PhylloNakamura
      @PhylloNakamura Před 2 měsíci +11

      I'm in my 30s and I'm just now potentially being diagnosed with autism after going for a different diagnosis. I've lived what I thought was a normal life all my life.

    • @TayMatty13
      @TayMatty13 Před 2 měsíci +20

      As a mom who is SICK of hearing “but he doesn’t LOOK autistic”
      Like for one, educate yourself 🤦🏼‍♀️ I know they are trying to be nice, but just stahpppppppp

  • @morgannashea2987
    @morgannashea2987 Před 2 měsíci +276

    I literally just had to deal with a “friend” who was trying to slid into my HUSBANDS DMs. They like dated when they were in school. He and I have been married for 30 yrs. I find out she’s been trying really hard to get with him. Because of my health she will be a better “fit” for him. And I should step back and let her have him🙄 When she finally stopped hinting and just said it to him. He laughed at her and told her no way. The amount of gaslighting she tried with me and bringing my health into it was sickening. At the end of the day he’s my best friend and husband. And she’s out in the cold. 🥶 Some people though 😑

    • @PAGoTribe1963
      @PAGoTribe1963 Před 2 měsíci +59

      Props to your husband for his integrity and loyalty. 🫡

    • @morgannashea2987
      @morgannashea2987 Před 2 měsíci +41

      I’m very lucky. Also very proud that he stood up for me/us. I think what gets me is how long she tired. And he’s in is own world and had no clue😂. Took her laying it out for him and just saying some toxic stuff. He told her she can go back where she came from…… the past. Because I am his present and future. I’m lucky and she’s nasty. lol

    • @kenziehansen2424
      @kenziehansen2424 Před 2 měsíci +18

      I never understood why people would WANT what i have. Like you think he would feel the same about you?! Why werent yall together in the first place?!
      Some people are so lonely and jealous😅

    • @checkoutchick9023
      @checkoutchick9023 Před 2 měsíci +11

      I love how your Husband told this toxic woman to go back to the past. I have a lot of health issues but I know that my Husband would react just like yours did, I'm so happy that I found my forever. X

    • @TheBaumcm
      @TheBaumcm Před 2 měsíci +9

      Unfortunately, the charm works on some people in vulnerable spaces which is why they do it. They can also be delulu and pretend on their world that they were picking up on cues and were being misled.

  • @jenniferfoley7030
    @jenniferfoley7030 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Common courtesy dictates that if you are in a bar stool not ordering anything but water, you should leave a small tip for the staff. The reason being that you take up space where someone could be ordering more and this usually means more money is made via tips for the staff. Sober queens are all good but please respect the place you are frequent. Order a soda or a snack. No one needs to be called out from the staff online tho. Love to all ❤

  • @blacklotus714
    @blacklotus714 Před 2 měsíci +276

    That bartender being like “well she’s never ordered anything but water from ME”
    Yeah girl, she caught your vibe and said “absolutely not”

    • @paige8453
      @paige8453 Před měsícem +2

      Why go to the police though? What are they going to do? There was no personal information or anything about the person in question so what does she expect the police to do? She will just be wasting their time.

    • @kylief2975
      @kylief2975 Před 28 dny +3

      @@paige8453 because its technically cyberbullying

    • @franciscoflamenco
      @franciscoflamenco Před 25 dny +2

      But there's something I don't understand. Isn't the water free? Isn't a customer that takes a seat, orders only water and doesn't even tip just a nuisance?
      I'm genuinely confused about this one because I'm not from the US and I don't know how this works. Most places in my area either charge cover charge that includes one drink (can be soft) or require you to order at least one real drink (not water since it's free, and again, it can be a soft drink).
      I agree that the bartender is cyberbullying the poor girl but I don't understand how they're a customer if they're not paying anything.

    • @bjones2194
      @bjones2194 Před 21 dnem +1

      If it wasn't about her, she wouldn't have made the response video. She deflected saying it was about her "friend" who had never been mentioned in the first video at all, lmao. Also, she admitted she is the water girl, but she's wrong in the fact that to be a customer, you do actually need to pay for things. Since she refuses to do so, she is not a customer. At all. She's a loiterer. But go off boo

    • @bjones2194
      @bjones2194 Před 21 dnem

      ​@franciscoflamenco I'm not even sure if it's really cyberbullying because no real information was given. Water girl responded and ousted herself. Also, water is free, so she is a nuisance that just takes up space at the bar. 😂

  • @CrownedYeti
    @CrownedYeti Před 2 měsíci +150

    purposefully dragging someone on the internet before even meeting them and then using the hate train to threaten them into seeing you is one of the most entitles, delulu things I've ever heard. dude dodged a death bullet

  • @JJ-nh1wf
    @JJ-nh1wf Před 2 měsíci +46

    The girlfriend getting after the other girl for texting seems like triangulation. The boyfriend should’ve set the boundary with his girlfriend’s friend. She didn’t need to confront her. HE did!

    • @Snowshowslow
      @Snowshowslow Před měsícem +10

      Yeah I disagree with Charlotte on this one. If a friend's partner comes to ask you to back off that seems like an orange flag at least to me. It has the potential for being an isolation tactic and it's overstepping in any case. The friend should come and talk to you themselves. It's not on any partner to police the other's social relationships for them. If you don't like what's happening, talk to your partner and have them sort it out or leave.

    • @ZoeiYang
      @ZoeiYang Před měsícem

      THIS

    • @Faefair
      @Faefair Před měsícem +1

      @@Snowshowslowthat part!

  • @calliefuller7362
    @calliefuller7362 Před 28 dny +2

    Nothing to do with the video itself. However I just recently came across your channel and have been binging lol. However can I just say the fact you don't use any filters is truly refreshing. Thank you for showing true beauty instead of all the misleading, unrealistic, toxic beauty expectations. If when I was younger and saw more people like you who are beautiful and don't use filters to show you can be beautiful without them. I would not have the severe body dysmorphia and anxiety I do now. So thank you!

  • @No-sv6mu
    @No-sv6mu Před 2 měsíci +428

    Why doesnt she go visit him? When I was dating my husband if he couldnt make it out to me, I would figure out a way to get to him. Been together for 22 years, married for 15. And we still both put in effort for the other one

    • @jessjess23brooks89
      @jessjess23brooks89 Před 2 měsíci +48

      Because she's crazy.

    • @ashassassin
      @ashassassin Před 2 měsíci +31

      My guess is the kid. It's hard traveling with a child.

    • @jessjess23brooks89
      @jessjess23brooks89 Před 2 měsíci +68

      @@ashassassin Fair enough, but that should make her more understanding of his situation, since she also has situations holding her back from travel.

    • @B.Harper7
      @B.Harper7 Před 2 měsíci +15

      I genuinely think that she thought he would like all of the pr, like he would turn it into an online campaign to get more people to his band page. However I feel like she's a little too caught up in being a content creator and forgetting that those who have to sign in with a manager for a job don't get to just make whatever schedule and do whatever they damn well please throughout the day.
      She done fucked up and it's going to be a little bit until she realizes it.

    • @ahoward3503
      @ahoward3503 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Right? It goes both ways. If it were the case that she really liked this guy, they would have worked on figuring out another way, or she would have offered an alternative. Instead she reacts in the most disrespectful manner , which would be a turn off to anyone that she can't handle a difficult situation with any grace and understanding.

  • @BeBe-zq1dt
    @BeBe-zq1dt Před 2 měsíci +212

    The little pesto bottle when she said "call me crazy" I can't 😂😂😂😂

    • @dawnchesbro4189
      @dawnchesbro4189 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I SAW

    • @catzie17
      @catzie17 Před 2 měsíci +6

      The editing is on point! 😂

    • @tsumi91
      @tsumi91 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Thank you for pointing it out! I cackled 😂

  • @garjitaarumsari
    @garjitaarumsari Před 2 měsíci +4

    this episodes on the michelle vs sober queen (on why someone is not allowed to only drink a water in a public place) is a reminder why I love your vids so much .because you're so positive and having commonsense and having a great standard as a humanbeing while being still human for laughing on stuff and express what you've in mind or think. In my country, such behavior is quite common (to mock on someone for only ordering water for example). girl love you so much!

  • @lovemachinko8573
    @lovemachinko8573 Před měsícem +2

    Here is the thing about showing up every day and drinking water- what you are doing is taking up space and “real estate” that could be used by someone who is spending money. So there IS something wrong with going somewhere every day and never spending. You’re COSTING the place & servers money.

  • @pipticken
    @pipticken Před 2 měsíci +212

    As someone who's worked in retail and service for over a decade, I acknowledge that we do gossip about strange customers. But to put it online?? Especially when that person is a regular and likely to find out?? That's just taking things way too far. Plus, after seeing that, I'd be uncomfortable having her serve me, I'm sure a lot of other people feel the same, so she's screwing herself and the business she works for 🤦‍♀️

    • @Zinnia-bs8tt
      @Zinnia-bs8tt Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes! And as someone who worked in restaurants: If you go to a bar or restaurant & only order water & you stay for awhile, you should leave a tip. You're using the server's time & you're taking up a spot in their station that could be taken by a customer who will be ordering & leaving a tip. (And if you're getting a free glass of water, drink it & leave. Most places in the US will kick you out if you're not a paying customer, unless you're with someone else who is ordering.)

  • @Flutter_Aeina
    @Flutter_Aeina Před 2 měsíci +86

    12:02 as someone who has primarily male friends from highschool, I’ve NEVER had one of their partners tell me not to text them because I don’t do shady shit. It’s easy to have a friendly relationship with a dude without being weird. I’ve never sent these guys flirty shoulder pics because these men are like my brothers! I guarantee you that girl saw him romantically because it’s not hard to be platonic and not overstep bounds

    • @quantumleap1491
      @quantumleap1491 Před 2 měsíci +19

      100% agree with this, but on the flip side you can do all of this and try to make it clear that nothing shady is going on, but the girl can be extremely possessive, and can see you as problem which has happened to me before, the girl hated me no matter how much I tried to make make it clear that me and him were like siblings, anytime me and him had plans with either us by ourselves or in our friend group she would have a “problem” with something and have to back out, and we confronted her about it and she played the victim, and in the end she made him choose between her and our friend group and he choose me and our friend group because he didn’t need her drama, and even after that she played the victim but she lied consistently on us when all we did was just be nice to her and welcome her into our group, but I do agree with you, male and female can just be friends with no strings attached.

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@quantumleap1491 you are insane amd you gaslight

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 2 měsíci +4

      ​@@quantumleap1491 you cannot send flirty shit to your male friends in relationships and pretend it isn't shady smh. You must be the "friend" she was talking about

    • @quantumleap1491
      @quantumleap1491 Před 2 měsíci +12

      @@GabrielleTollerson where did I say I was flirting? Nowhere is where, when me or my other female friends tell our male friend we love him it’s a brother relationship, men can have female friends without strings attached, if me and him hang out it’s us acting like dumbass 12 year olds because we are comfortable with the opposite sex, there are women like myself who don’t care the sex of the person and can become friends with anyone I grew up around male and female friends, girls who haven’t are just awkward around guys, and I have a Bf who I love with my whole heart and I would never cheat on him he rescued me from a bad situation, and as a 27 year old I am too old to cheat and act like a teenager in high school I am dating to marry and have a family, and no my bf and best friend don’t have issues with each other because there is trust, we talk like adults and understand each other and most of the time we all hang out together, so stop using your teen girl tik tok drama ideology on adults because if adults do what you claim that’s childish.

    • @TacseraEpSekahs
      @TacseraEpSekahs Před 2 měsíci +10

      @@GabrielleTollerson Where you even got the flirting part from the message above?..

  • @utsux3
    @utsux3 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Love watching your videos while I cook dinner, my bf will turn the tv volume down from the other room so he can listen too and when the story is really juicy he’ll come and stand in the kitchen door to talk smack about the crazies 😂 we love you!

  • @Peppermint-Snaps
    @Peppermint-Snaps Před 2 měsíci +229

    Hold up, so you are telling me that she's actually excited about seeing him and when life happens, which is does, instead of rescheduling and keeping things happy and fun, she instead makes a video basically turning this guy into a monster and scaring him off and he's the bad guy? H'wat?

    • @Lemana28021989
      @Lemana28021989 Před 2 měsíci +29

      He dodged a massive bullet here

    • @geraldinelafayette1838
      @geraldinelafayette1838 Před 2 měsíci

      She even sent him a little snippet of her fake “mad face” typing furiously on the computer 🤢🤢🤢. Then she had to reenact all of those happy moments. What a phony weirdo CRAZYYY.

    • @FukaiKokoro
      @FukaiKokoro Před 2 měsíci

      She's definitely one of those manipulative emotional abuser types. They suuuuuck.

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings Před 2 měsíci +17

      The universe was looking out for him, by getting her to reveal she is the type of person who IMMEDIATELY first instinct is to manipulate and create flying monkeys. He dodged a nuclear bomb

    • @manuelapauk8352
      @manuelapauk8352 Před 2 měsíci

      😊😊😊​@@Lemana28021989

  • @kristipearce4819
    @kristipearce4819 Před 2 měsíci +175

    The “call me crazy” and then the pesto popping in on the side is SO underrated!! That is peak humor!! A little Easter egg for us viewers! Praise these editors!!❤

    • @MaeLanae
      @MaeLanae Před 2 měsíci +1

      I laughed out loud at that!!!😂😂😂

    • @katybowden9925
      @katybowden9925 Před 2 měsíci

      I died laughing when it popped up 😆

    • @luisataylor8089
      @luisataylor8089 Před 2 měsíci

      Loved this 😂

    • @OuchingTigerLimpingDragon
      @OuchingTigerLimpingDragon Před 2 měsíci

      I _immediately_ called that clip up in my brain when she said "call me crazy" 😆 The little pesto jar was the savory cherry on top!

  • @corypritchard6206
    @corypritchard6206 Před 2 měsíci +3

    The pesto popup when Charlotte says "Call me crazy" had me in stitches. Give you vid producer a bonus gift card, cuz he just nailed it!

  • @user-yf9rb7sc3j
    @user-yf9rb7sc3j Před 2 měsíci +1

    No because you honesty at the beginning is exactly why I love you so much😂

  • @charityscreams5366
    @charityscreams5366 Před 2 měsíci +98

    I'm a non drinker (I just never cared for it) so I'm everyone's favorite DD. 15- 20 years ago bartenders loved me. I always got free soda and water, they always thanked me for being that friend.
    Now (increasingly over the last 5 years or so) I get attitude and a non alcoholic drink is the most expensive thing in the bar. Crazy. (Not everywhere of course but WAY too often)

    • @Neomie92
      @Neomie92 Před 2 měsíci +19

      Yeah feel this way too, it’s shitty. I’m a young non-drinker, 24. So I drive my friends around constantly lol but I don’t mind. I love taking care of them and making sure everyone gets home safe. I take pride in being a hawk about my friends drinks & making sure they stay away from creeps at the club. I wish I got that same kind of respect from others though. My friends are lovely & know me. But sometimes they’ll bring in other people or boyfriends or we meet people out and about. And they can be so rude about me not liking alcohol. I also routinely get people who are shocked that I’m not in recovery…no I’m not a former addict. I just don’t care for alcohol! 😂

    • @meltdown6165
      @meltdown6165 Před měsícem +2

      I was in Ibiza about 10 years ago. Even back then, mineral water was 12€ in the club, gin tonic 14€...

    • @KestralKuthule
      @KestralKuthule Před měsícem

      To be fair, water and no tip in this economy is basically wasting a bartender's time.
      You aren't contributing to the bars revenue in any way yet are using the staffs time and the bars resources.
      If you come in with a group of friends that's one thing as you allow them to safely order more drinks overall. However if you alone enter, order water, then just leave you A) take up one of the limited seating spaces B) create at minimum 1glass in need of cleaning and C) at least 10 minutes of staff time based on a single glass. All without providing any income to the bar or tips to the waiter.
      If you don't buy at least one drink, alcoholic or not, then you are abusing a privilege.
      It's also why a lot of small cafes in my area (popular walking spot for tourists) only let people use the bathroom if they make a purchase. A cafe is only required to provide toilets for customers and unless you buy something you aren't a customer. Same thing with some bars in my area as well.

    • @charityscreams5366
      @charityscreams5366 Před měsícem

      @@KestralKuthule I agree with everything you just said. As a non drinker I have definitely never gone to a bar alone ever.
      Now that you bring it up I just assumed people didn't go to bars and drink water alone. That's an odd concept to me, I know the girl in this story did it, but I figured it was made into such a big deal because it's odd. Never been a bartender. Fascinating that it's actually a thing, so strange.

    • @Neomie92
      @Neomie92 Před měsícem +1

      @@KestralKuthule All of this is crazy to me because bars are not a privilege. It’s a service and people can choose not to use it. And water is a human right & need so I don’t understand why it would be mandatory for someone to order and alcoholic drink. If someone thinks their bar is a privilege, they should charge money at the door. This thought process is mind boggling.

  • @TaraTiaraBell
    @TaraTiaraBell Před 2 měsíci +63

    I worked in a pub for years and there would be the odd sober customer that would make our pub their regular. People go to pubs to offload all the time or meet up with their drinking buddies or whatever. I took that job very seriously esp my regulars they would feel very comfortable sitting at the bar chatting away knowing they could tell me anything and they wouldn’t be the talk of the town next day. And that’s why some pubs do a lot better than others it’s not because of the other customers it’s the staff.

    • @KDu400
      @KDu400 Před měsícem

      Right? Imagine someone who doesn’t drink still might crave human interaction. What an idea…🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @TaraTiaraBell
      @TaraTiaraBell Před měsícem

      @@KDu400 what??

  • @LeeAdler12
    @LeeAdler12 Před měsícem +3

    if you go into a bar or restaurant, that is a business. Taking up a seat without buying anything isn't acceptable. Doesn't matter if it's a damned soda or a burger. order something or leave. that's how i feel

  • @JoJohXD
    @JoJohXD Před 2 měsíci +4

    I'm on the spectrum.... I'll be on my basement feeding my guys😅

  • @marieonishenko
    @marieonishenko Před 2 měsíci +82

    I had a roommate once that sat me down and asked me not to touch her boyfriend who was also a roommate because it made her uncomfortable. I had one time pulled a piece of food out of his hair that he was struggling to grab after I had pointed it out. She acknowledged that she realized it was her insecurities and it was something completely innocent but asked me to respect this boundary. So because I respect other people’s boundaries I never touched him again.

    • @B.Harper7
      @B.Harper7 Před 2 měsíci +17

      On one hand, that's nice of you, on the other hand, you are helping her keep unhinged Behavior. I would be very scared to date someone who told my friends and roommates that they couldn't.... touch me. That is severe personal issues of hers that she is throwing onto everyone else's plates and expecting them to uphold. I feel very sorry for your roommate, he is going to lose lots and lots of people and his life. It's not the they can't touch him thing, it's the dating a woman who would tell your friends and roommates that they can't touch you.

    • @marieonishenko
      @marieonishenko Před 2 měsíci +27

      @@B.Harper7 she wasn’t toxic and is a really good person. She was going to therapy and acknowledged it was her issue. She needed to feel comfortable in our home and wasn’t like this with his female friends. They’re still together and very happy. I understand the concern but she worked on herself to get better and doesn’t have that insecurity anymore. If she wasn’t actively working on herself that would be a problem but she never isolated him.

  • @ifyoucantmexiCAN...9948
    @ifyoucantmexiCAN...9948 Před 2 měsíci +116

    A true friend will respect when you tell them that you are hurting them.

  • @bogomagazine
    @bogomagazine Před 7 dny +1

    First guy should thank his job for protecting him from accidentally dating a PSYCHOPATH

  • @sydneypimiskern9638
    @sydneypimiskern9638 Před měsícem +1

    Charlotte, your facial reactions throughout this video are amazing🤣 you totally add to these stories!

  • @justanotherfraghead
    @justanotherfraghead Před 2 měsíci +96

    13:11 that store bought pesto jar peeping through the screen when you say "call me crazy" - GENIUS EDITING!

  • @omiai
    @omiai Před 2 měsíci +85

    i work in a coffee shop, and sometimes we'll get people come in who maybe dont like coffee or tea, or maybe cant afford our prices (fair) and if they are with a friend, i'll always offer them some water, just so they dont feel left out and so they have a cup to drink from. just ordering water isn't a big deal.
    i'd only say it's a big deal if you are a complete ass to the staff, or if it's super busy and you're maybe taking up a table that a paying customer could be using. but if it's quiet, you do you.

    • @saraeatough202
      @saraeatough202 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I also think it's different if someone is hanging out with their friends versus just coming by themself. But yes, when it wasn't busy I often appreciated having something to do

  • @teknosbeka
    @teknosbeka Před měsícem +9

    Coming from a situation where a girlfriend comes up to me and tells me that I should stop talking to a friend I had for many years for no reason other than the fact that she is insecure, the girl is the one who is unreasonable. But feel free to stop talking to your friend and wait it out, they are goint to break up anyway and you can get your friend back. These girls always find someone/something to be concerned about.

  • @LoremLipsumz
    @LoremLipsumz Před měsícem +2

    The bar tender story. If you go to a business where they serve drinks/food you are taking up a space for a paying customer. She could’ve ordered a soda. You will get asked to leave a Starbucks or other service type business if you don’t ever order a drink/food. The tipping though, that’s not obligatory.

  • @ReiKoko
    @ReiKoko Před 2 měsíci +484

    Bartender story: bringing autism into it was ableist as hell and disgusting. Just because we are a different neurotype doesn't mean that we're weird or have a penchant for locking people up in our basements. her excuse for bringing it up was also really weak. Why would she think to bring it up "just in case" people would if she herself wasn't already thinking that it could be the underlying reason?

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler Před 2 měsíci +34

      The responder and Charlotte were worse because they took it as an insult and never corrected it. The first girl may have just been referring to her blank facial expression in the phone picture. Most likely she was being insulting, though, some to think it over… considering her other behaviors.

    • @karaleetrapp
      @karaleetrapp Před 2 měsíci +18

      ​@BeeWhistler nope. The bartender has a Bee in her bonnet over a customer only ordering water

    • @Stylestudent
      @Stylestudent Před 2 měsíci +21

      She said that she’s NOT on the spectrum… sounds like she was trying to clear up that she wasn’t making fun of someone on the spectrum… that she just thought the person was weird… not clinically diagnosed with a condition…

    • @maggieb4736
      @maggieb4736 Před 2 měsíci +35

      ​@@Stylestudent, she just shouldn't have mentioned it, period.

    • @Stylestudent
      @Stylestudent Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@maggieb4736 why?

  • @KatieB33
    @KatieB33 Před 2 měsíci +133

    As someone who has just realised in middle age that I am on the spectrum. I have always been awkward in social situations by not talking or over sharing and then beating myself up for it. The bartender has just confirmed why I beat myself up and that people do notice my behaviour. Good thing the diagnosis has given me freedom to be me and not care anymore 😊

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler Před 2 měsíci +28

      Good, because it was so disgusting that they kept using it as an insult. Even Charlotte being offended by it made me angry. People need to knock that off.

    • @maggieb4736
      @maggieb4736 Před 2 měsíci +8

      😊 Good for you! And I'll bet you're totally awesome!

    • @bunyipdragon9499
      @bunyipdragon9499 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Same, I'm 57 and spent most of my life not getting why I didn't get people and had some interesting times growing up, I finally figured it out in my 40's. It's still weird sometimes but so much better now I can just be me 💜

    • @KatieB33
      @KatieB33 Před 2 měsíci +10

      @@bunyipdragon9499 the funniest thing is I’ve worked in disability for 20 years and I was always told I was a natural with understanding and communicating using body language. It never occurred to me it was because I was neurodivergent 🤣

    • @KatieB33
      @KatieB33 Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@maggieb4736 thank you. I think I’m quirky in a funny way 😆

  • @twisted8058
    @twisted8058 Před 2 měsíci +4

    ive been best friends with my friend for nearly 20 years, he started a serious relationship 2 years ago and i hardly text/talk with him much now as i dont want to over step the boundaries. ive extended the friendship hand to her and she hasnt accepted and thats ok. hes happy so that makes me happy for him.

  • @ashleenicole71
    @ashleenicole71 Před 2 měsíci

    😂😂😂 your rant in the beginning is why I love you😂😂thankful it was included 😂

  • @XOXheartErin
    @XOXheartErin Před 2 měsíci +173

    I wouldn't have a problem with a girl being friends with my boyfriend but if they were hiding their conversations/texts like that girl was....no there's something going on and that's why she's gaslighting

    • @B.Harper7
      @B.Harper7 Před 2 měsíci +28

      I'm not judging on that until I can scour the internet and find more info.
      They both said that the friend has been friends with the boyfriend for over 10 years.
      She absolutely could be acting like a shady biatch, but I commented above that my brother's ex-girlfriend acted like this and tried to ruin every female friendship and relationship with female family members that he had.
      It's taken years to heal the shit that she caused.
      Yes, I think she should have shown her the phone, 100%, but she looks like she's trying not to cry and just laughing instead to me.
      If anything it would be manipulation, that's not gaslighting. Gaslighting is a long-term multi-step process.
      I'm thinking that if girlfriend has been acting like this over everything, and every time she sees her she says "show me your phone", at some point you're going to snap and say "no what is wrong with you I'm just friends with my friend, you're the one who happens to be dating my friend".
      I see it both ways but I'm going to go internet sleuthing LMAO now I'm invested hahaha 😆

    • @lauraread-mills4193
      @lauraread-mills4193 Před 2 měsíci +16

      ​@@B.Harper7I agree in regards to not showing msges, sometimes women are so insecure that they think everyone is trying to mess with their bf. I've had the wives of farmers I've worked with, friends partners accuse me of doing something. But men deserve to have friends they can talk to without it being spread around and may not feel comfortable talking with the gf, esp if it's been a long term friendship. I have several male friends, because I find I get along with guys more, and we have convos regularly, they tell me things they can't tell their gf because it's as far as it goes. Zero interest from me or them in regards to anything more. Just good friends. I'd be pissed if my bf demanded I stop talking with friends, red flag to me

    • @owatagusiam44
      @owatagusiam44 Před 2 měsíci +15

      @@B.Harper7I'm with you on all this. I think people who have been burned like this before are biased to automatically side with the gf who wanted to see the texts but if the other girl was friends with the bf before she became friends with the gf then probably her loyalty as a friend lies with him as it should. It was hard for me to say from that video if it looked like she was devious and up to something or if she had just had it (if this wasn't the first time she had been accused by the gf) and kinda like you said was smiling her way through it out of discomfort. Plus what if she and the bf as close friends had talked about something serious that had nothing to do with the gf? Like if the girl had talked to him about something she was going through, that isn't the gf's business. Her not wanting to show her private conversation doesn't by default mean she was up to no good.
      I think a little more benefit of the doubt could've been given for this one. Especially too bc the third friend was the one filming which means if this wasn't fake it has either happened before or gf was going on for a bit before the recording started.

    • @owatagusiam44
      @owatagusiam44 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@B.Harper7Also if you find anything during your deep dive, please share 😅 I also wonder if it really was a smirk and she sucks or if the gf has some things to work through.

    • @XOXheartErin
      @XOXheartErin Před 2 měsíci +16

      @@B.Harper7 yeah I totally agree. If the girl number 2 has been friends with the boy first, before girl number 1 and boy got together, then it is totally a red flag for a partner to want you to stop talking to their friends just because their the opposite gender.

  • @YasmineGalenornOfficial
    @YasmineGalenornOfficial Před 2 měsíci +248

    Not to mention, likening someone on the spectrum with some serial killer is absolutely unacceptable. My husband is on the spectrum and one of the sweetest men out there. I have friends--male and female--on the spectrum and they do not deserve that sort of trashy sort of connection.

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler Před 2 měsíci +28

      Yes! Pure ableism, and they all did it.

    • @cheeling794
      @cheeling794 Před 2 měsíci +3

      RIGHTTT!!!

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson Před 2 měsíci +8

      a lot of people do that and equate being on the spectrum to violence. It makes me sick!

    • @dreamysheepstudios
      @dreamysheepstudios Před 2 měsíci +13

      THIS!!!! When she followed up “serial killer” with “on the spectrum” I actually had to pause. I’m also autistic and literally feel bad if I even hurt a bug. Thinking anyone who is potentially dangerous is autistic is such a disgusting and false statement

    • @NatashaWarden
      @NatashaWarden Před 2 měsíci +6

      I have quite a few friends with autism , and they seem to be more empathic than my neuro typical friends!

  • @janenorwood1614
    @janenorwood1614 Před měsícem +1

    As a former waitress... having someone take up your table and then not tip messes up your money. But she did not have to put it online. That's something for management to address

  • @oregondrivingadventures7506
    @oregondrivingadventures7506 Před měsícem +1

    My hubs had a situation where a woman was crossing lines and his telling her to stop did no good. Sometimes we tell you to stop texting or talking to him because he is uncomfortable.

  • @mrs_maverick1121
    @mrs_maverick1121 Před 2 měsíci +103

    One of my best friends is a single guy, I'm married, have been for 7 years. Him and my husband have now become friends also. What makes our relationship ok is that we don't cross boundaries! He'll tell me about girls he's dating or whatever, and I'll talk vaguely about a disagreement my husband and I had to get his opinion as a man and as someone who knows my husband. He's NEVER tried to slide into anything, never been inappropriate etc. It is possible to have friends of the opposite sex while in a relationship, BUT everyone needs to be respectful of everyone else, PERIOD! If he wasn't, we wouldn't continue our friendship

    • @craftycaligirl2803
      @craftycaligirl2803 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Exactly.

    • @392racer
      @392racer Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yep! I had a guy best friend and people would talk (he didn't flaunt his homosexuality and that was completely his choice), but my husband knew that he had nothing to worry about and why. I was never alone with him anywat, and we rarely texted/talked and it was never anything inappropriate... BUT one chick (the wife of my husband's coworker who happened to live near to our apartment in the same complex) ASSUMED we had an open marriage (again, rumors), rarely talked to me, but had no problem flirting with my husband IN FRONT OF ME AND OUR KID. I wanted to punch her face but my husband said, "It's time for y'all to go (6 of us were playing cards at our house; my husband and I, his coworker and coworker's wife, my girl best friend and my guy best friend) because he knew I was about to tell her off (at minimum, but without telling her my guy friend was gay) and he saved her. She tried messaging me saying that I was "disgusting" 😂 (I think she was actually mad we weren't having a "good time" with her!😂) "for having such double-standards" in MY marriage. 😂 I showed my husband the message, we both blocked her, and after he had a private talk with his buddy, we never heard a peep out of her again. I'm glad I never had to worry about my friends with my man...I have great friends, and I am one, because I would NEVER make them uncomfortable with me and because it is wrong, no matter what the circumstances or rumors are!

  • @shannalindsey5540
    @shannalindsey5540 Před 2 měsíci +43

    From a server's pov... if you are asking somebody to get you something- even if it is free- and you are taking up a table that a paying customer could be sitting in, you should leave SOMEthing for that server. They still got you what u asked for, missed out on a paying customer, and still have to clean up after you. Or maybe that's just what I would do. 🤷‍♀️

  • @raulvillacis65
    @raulvillacis65 Před měsícem +1

    the first LITERALLY dodged a bullet, I hope he knows how gosh darn lucky he is

  • @kaitlynyoung8783
    @kaitlynyoung8783 Před 24 dny

    The Intern - that is so scary! Be careful friends. Trust your gut ! Glad she made the right decision to keep herself safe.

  • @pascaleelliott63
    @pascaleelliott63 Před 2 měsíci +56

    That rejection for time-off was a major blessing in disguise. It really helped him dodge a nuke there.

  • @andreaturner7207
    @andreaturner7207 Před 2 měsíci +267

    Charlotte "It has to be top tier" Charlotte, babe, you are top tier, our little turkey 🦃

  • @kittysoftpaw16
    @kittysoftpaw16 Před měsícem

    i love that i can trust my friends enough for them to have my bfs number but only text him when its needed, like asking if id like a certain gift or if they cant reach me for some reason.

  • @zenawolf6742
    @zenawolf6742 Před 23 dny

    It’s wild how the girl being confronted saying the one confronted is saying she’s insecure. Been in that situation where I told my then boyfriend that his friend whose a girl is violation boundaries and wants to sleep with him. There were all red flags her leaving her stuff all over this room, called him at like 11pm after we both left a party and tried to convince him to come back to the party instead of coming home with me and complained bc “she was there first” it was absolutely wild 😹 we aren’t together anymore but damn

  • @stephk.9618
    @stephk.9618 Před 2 měsíci +294

    The gaslighting girl .. omg.. her face just says it all. That little smirk she has 😡😡😡😡

    • @Burger_pants
      @Burger_pants Před 2 měsíci +26

      which one? the sexist who doesn't allow her boyfriend to have female friends (cus homosexuality doesn't exist right?) or the female who doesn;t want to lose her friend simply because he started dating someone. grow up, if you think your partner is not allowed to have friends because you are jealous you need to mature and grow up before worrying about dating little girl.

    • @Chocolatemilkpro
      @Chocolatemilkpro Před 2 měsíci

      found the girl who wont leave your bf alone after you ask her to stop^@@Burger_pants

    • @a.d.234
      @a.d.234 Před 2 měsíci +6

      It's still a weird way to see her mimic throughout the whole conversation.

    • @MalcolmReynoldsQuotes
      @MalcolmReynoldsQuotes Před 2 měsíci +18

      Yeah she knows what she’s doing. I’d end the friendship all together.

    • @dawnchesbro4189
      @dawnchesbro4189 Před 2 měsíci +47

      ​@Burger_pants listen, as Charlotte has pointed out in numerous videos, *we know* when something shady been goin' down. The BF likely isn't entirely innocent, but the girl on the floor is *definitely* gaslighting.

  • @ZombieQueeen
    @ZombieQueeen Před 2 měsíci +51

    Bar story: Obviously this is a very specific situation but I use to go to a bar or restaurant alone when my ex was being violent so I had people around me . But, sometimes I couldn’t get my wallet before I ran out.

  • @tinasnow3744
    @tinasnow3744 Před měsícem +2

    Rather you order a glass of water or a cocktail it’s being served. Tip for the service, while you take up the space of a paying customer.

  • @JSR-zw4gu
    @JSR-zw4gu Před 23 dny

    21:49 😂 MY 8 YEAR OLD LOVES THAT VOICE OF YOURS 🤦‍♀️ thanks for making him laugh girl ❤

  • @AliceNsWonderland
    @AliceNsWonderland Před 2 měsíci +156

    CHARLOTTE!!!
    I just want to let you know how awesome your community is!!!
    I left a comment in your last video about a friend who passed away after a MAJOR internet scam.
    I had several ppl reach out in kindness! It was very sweet!
    The community is a reflection on the content creator! Thank you for being awesome and 'collecting' awesome!

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  Před 2 měsíci +41

      I love this!!

    • @infin8ee
      @infin8ee Před 2 měsíci +8

      Hope you're doing okay❤

    • @solene2014
      @solene2014 Před 2 měsíci +1

      J'ai pas compris ton commentaire tata Alice 😊

    • @AliceNsWonderland
      @AliceNsWonderland Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@solene2014 the video Charlotte posted 2 days ago had someone talking about an overseas scam.
      One of my besties fell for one. He racked up 300k in debt. He passed away 2 weeks after telling his partner. Idk if he took his own life or if it was natural.
      Last summer I lost my kitty on a Friday, my bestie passed the next Friday and my gramma passed away the Friday after that. It was so tough but the kindness of strangers here in the Charlotte community was really sweet and uplifting! ❤
      I wanted to let Charlotte know she's got a fabulous community!😊

    • @AliceNsWonderland
      @AliceNsWonderland Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@solene2014 the wording is a little off bc CZcams has deleted my reply a cpl times so I'm hoping this wording will be 'safe'
      I left a comment in the vid she posted 2 days ago that talked about an overseas scam.
      I 'lost' my bestie 2 weeks after telling his partner about the 300k he owed to the scammer. IDK if his passing was natural or... not.
      Last August, I 'lost' my kitty on Fri, I 'lost' my bestie the next Friday and I 'lost' my gramma the following Fri.
      It was so tough! I wanted to let Charlotte know how awesome her community was as ppl reached out w nothing but kindness! ❤❤❤

  • @caro12347
    @caro12347 Před 2 měsíci +44

    i think the girlfriend doesnt have an issue with the fact that she was texting her bf, it was WHAT she was texting

  • @turrantjohnson5301
    @turrantjohnson5301 Před 2 měsíci

    I love your videos u always be keeping it real and thank u for the great content 💯 great job

  • @concaveUsurper
    @concaveUsurper Před 2 měsíci +338

    That blonde girl doing the texting in the third video is so smug. She knows she got to the girlfriend and is doing it on purpose

    • @allisonisis
      @allisonisis Před 2 měsíci +31

      She is smug because she is right. She can't control the BF so she tries to control the friend. Let them both go.

    • @Shazzie_Rose
      @Shazzie_Rose Před 2 měsíci +20

      Were they friends? Or is she the boyfriend's longtime friend?

    • @lovelife2.063
      @lovelife2.063 Před 2 měsíci +53

      @@allisonisisif u think the blonde girl is right, ur weird.

    • @lovelife2.063
      @lovelife2.063 Před 2 měsíci +38

      @@allisonisis if shes actively flirting with her boyfriend of course she needs to be confronted about the issue.

    • @suan333
      @suan333 Před 2 měsíci +10

      It was all staged.

  • @rebecca6470
    @rebecca6470 Před 2 měsíci +172

    As a non drinker I do still tip my waitress/bartender they did provide a service, especially if I'm there to see a band and she's navigating the crowd back and forth with my water.

    • @auntlynnie
      @auntlynnie Před 2 měsíci +11

      Exactly! I just commented basically the same thing.

    • @katemarr1984
      @katemarr1984 Před 2 měsíci +6

      This ^

    • @feliciafetherbay6423
      @feliciafetherbay6423 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Right! Especially if going constantly.

    • @TheBaumcm
      @TheBaumcm Před 2 měsíci +9

      The “if” implies that it is conditional, meaning not every case is the same. I used to serve and had tables stiff me on tip for a $30 bill and an hour and a half of table time. Tipping is just a way to allow businesses to pay people less than minimum wage.

    • @snicole042
      @snicole042 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Y’all expect way too much for doing nothing.

  • @rebekahrodrigue9452
    @rebekahrodrigue9452 Před 16 dny

    I have no idea how I came across this page... But that lady is freaking hilarious. I love everything about her! I'm hooked 😂

  • @mjparadero7046
    @mjparadero7046 Před 13 dny

    Why am I addicted to your videos? 😂😂😂😂 it’s almost 2 AM

  • @duchessmartinez2035
    @duchessmartinez2035 Před 2 měsíci +77

    The water drinker! My cousin always drank water when all us girls went out to the bar to go dancing, she was our DD and we greatly appreciated her for that!

    • @leslieortenzi8875
      @leslieortenzi8875 Před 2 měsíci +17

      She's awesome for that! But this is totally different since she's not even with any paying and tipping customers!

    • @lollyann7630
      @lollyann7630 Před 2 měsíci +6

      That isn't even remotely the same as this situation, not at all....glad ya'll had a DD though so you could have fun😊

    • @trinitybernhardt9944
      @trinitybernhardt9944 Před 2 měsíci +7

      ​@@leslieortenzi8875you have no idea what the situation here is. Neither did the bartender. That is the point. The bartender is the problem, not the water drinker.

    • @ZavaXavier
      @ZavaXavier Před 2 měsíci +4

      I only drink pop/soda or pineapple juice or lemon water because I don't drink. One of my best friends he drinks pineapple juice or pop/soda because he drives.

    • @darlamccracken4062
      @darlamccracken4062 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yeah, but I bet she ordered food or something, soda, tea

  • @wingv313
    @wingv313 Před 2 měsíci +40

    Who else noticed when Charlotte said “Call me crazy” the little bottle of Pesto pop-up on the left side of the screen? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m dyin over here! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣shout out to the editor👏🏼

  • @StephinTech
    @StephinTech Před 2 měsíci

    when you showed the first girls video i was like ok she never said he ghosted her, she just said he didn't come. What made her crazy was that she was texting him all that crazy mess and including his name ect. He handled it so well.

  • @LilMissLyss
    @LilMissLyss Před 21 dnem

    This is such AMAZING quality content Charlotte! I love you out here inspiring people to be their best selves, humbling them with humor~♡
    I am a huge advocate for awareness & normalizing those who are considered neurodivergent (aka those on "the spectrum")
    I have many loved ones considered to be apart of the spectrum & am well-versed on the subject.
    I can tell you all anyome wants is to be treated like a human being, spectrum or not.
    Apart of that means being able to realize that if someone considers you "apart of the spectrum" NEVER take it as an insult!
    I have had random encounters where people both insultingly & lovingly accused me of being a neurodiveregent & my best advice is to take it as the *Compliment that it should be* ^_^
    Killing the haters with kindness is where it's at y'all. Dont let words offen you because those same words can EMPOWER US!! ❤

  • @andreaturner7207
    @andreaturner7207 Před 2 měsíci +118

    Here for our thee Queen, thee Duchess, thee Empress, thee Goddess of Petty, Charlooootte Dooooobreeeee! 🥔👑

    • @Strxy_Fxrn
      @Strxy_Fxrn Před 2 měsíci +7

      How were you immediately top comment

    • @HorrorandScience
      @HorrorandScience Před 2 měsíci +8

      *plays epic music 🎶 *

    • @andreaturner7207
      @andreaturner7207 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Strxy_Fxrnno clue, is it? 🤷‍♀️

    • @preciouslyunhinged
      @preciouslyunhinged Před 2 měsíci +5

      Here hee ,here heeeeee

    • @MsRomana94
      @MsRomana94 Před 2 měsíci +6

      Was I supposed to read it in a "wrestling announcer" voice? I hope so 😂

  • @mobabyhomeslice
    @mobabyhomeslice Před 2 měsíci +27

    I have a couple close male friends. None of them live near me. I knew them before they got into relationships with their (now) wives. Never once did the gf/wife EVER feel the need to call me out for being close with her husband. One of my guy friends has always been like a brother to me. We give each other advice and provide perspective and feedback to each other on various topics. The other guy friend I was actually interested in at one point in time, but he never was. We remained friends, but when he started dating his wife, I pulled back on communicating with him a bit and ALWAYS made sure to include her in any communications I had with him because she knew our history and that I **used to** be into him, and I didn't ever want to give her the wrong impression of our relationship. It's called respect.

  • @mallevy
    @mallevy Před 2 měsíci +2

    At 1:00 is Mitch from American Dream Machine, a band that I manage! Haha i watch your videos everyday so this was a lovely surprise 😂