She's Talking to Other Guys and Hiding Things from You

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2023
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Komentáře • 112

  • @fresh2354
    @fresh2354 Před 11 měsíci +50

    Trust your gut fellas, intuition never lies

  • @billyberger2462
    @billyberger2462 Před 11 měsíci +50

    If she's hiding her phone then you can bet your bank account she's talking to other people. Return her energy and begin talking to other women. Actively look for her replacement...

  • @chrisclayton584
    @chrisclayton584 Před 11 měsíci +89

    This is 100% true. The phone gives it away. My ex-wife was protective of her phone and later I learned the horrible things she had done. The child she had was not mine but luckily I got out clean and no I didn't sign the birth certificate.

    • @realtalk6720
      @realtalk6720 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Smart man for not signing before DNA to confirm. Don't follow those simp. Good job 👍

    • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
      @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT Před 11 měsíci +2

      Nice Job! Never trust women or the system. Men have to be vigilant!

    • @kevindavis1281
      @kevindavis1281 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Women operate through their phones these days...
      This is their red flag!
      What do you want from them anymore?

    • @jhptsdx6275
      @jhptsdx6275 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Sorry to hear about this brother, hope you're doing all good now

    • @chrisclayton584
      @chrisclayton584 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@jhptsdx6275 thanks man, it happened 8 years ago. I'm doing fine.

  • @thecabooseattheendofthetra9260
    @thecabooseattheendofthetra9260 Před 11 měsíci +22

    I've learned to always trust my instinct above a woman's word.

  • @puertoricanprince7690
    @puertoricanprince7690 Před 11 měsíci +38

    Why is it so hard for them to be loyal. This crazy bro

    • @brandonhonaker5493
      @brandonhonaker5493 Před 11 měsíci

      Women suck

    • @franzs427
      @franzs427 Před 11 měsíci

      Cuz they get bored really easily women want new excitement always. Best thing to do is fuck women hard and after that focus again in ourselves. Always remember women are created to be fuck and that's it never fall inlove with theme.

    • @XVNRX
      @XVNRX Před 11 měsíci +8

      Illusion of options

    • @yosryhhabdellah3259
      @yosryhhabdellah3259 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Because social media give them more options and opportunities so man for her like new cars choosing the best one for her in past girls was more loyal

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore Před 10 měsíci +3

      In her evolutionary past she could feel confident in her choice when she felt she had the best man in the local tribe, then in the village, now she cannot stop until she has the best man online in the world... and even then she'll keep testing.

  • @Hamzak786
    @Hamzak786 Před 11 měsíci +16

    If she's not behaving her normal self then something ain't right. I remember my ex was messaging a guy and I questioned it. She flipped the script on me and made me feel like the bad guy. Lowkey she was speaking to him probably more than just friends..

  • @simonthepukkapieman1387
    @simonthepukkapieman1387 Před 11 měsíci +11

    Great advice and powerful point with regards to listening to our ingrained biological intuition, especially in the early dating process.

  • @omegasirius245
    @omegasirius245 Před 11 měsíci +4

    It's almost like women don't have a conscious.

  • @user-ez9eo4yj3s
    @user-ez9eo4yj3s Před 9 měsíci

    Very very true 101 percent i became a fan of yours now subscribing you..

  • @kevindavis1281
    @kevindavis1281 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Seen it over and over again lol. They really don't know what they want!

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn Před 5 měsíci

      All they know is they want the best. Whatever that is.

  • @lokey987
    @lokey987 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Move on

  • @DavidVelasquez9
    @DavidVelasquez9 Před 11 měsíci +57

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Před 11 měsíci

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Před 11 měsíci

      @@peterwilliams6361 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Před 11 měsíci

      @@DavidVelasquez9 Her name is *Victoria Lee hess*, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Před 11 měsíci

      @@peterwilliams6361 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist Před 11 měsíci +12

    Broads are generally sneakier too. They will look you in the eye and say they aren't talking to anyone when they are. If you notice her witholding sex and talking to you less and less then you know she's getting attention elsewhere lol

  • @beetleything1864
    @beetleything1864 Před 11 měsíci +11

    They will let you know. They say things like - a guy asked me this the other day or if you dont X Y Z then some other guy will. Might say joking etc. pay attention

    • @dinok.3809
      @dinok.3809 Před 11 měsíci +1

      The first comment is banal and can happen anywhere; work, store, gym, mall, wherever, so who cares.
      The second comment is basically an ultimatum, and we don't do ultimatums, right?
      At that point it depends what she is to you. If she's simply an FB or FWB then who cares. If she's more than that, you can issue corrective measures like a soft next (radio silent on her for a few days) then just resume contact without mentioning anything) She'll get the message.

  • @joesottilare609
    @joesottilare609 Před 11 měsíci +5

    It doesnt matter if your high value..women love new stick

    • @user-mi4yc7pr3x
      @user-mi4yc7pr3x Před 7 měsíci +2

      I think so. They can be turned on by a random dude with no job no money

  • @Zeosth
    @Zeosth Před 11 měsíci +3

    Good evening chris

  • @pepi1966
    @pepi1966 Před 11 měsíci +11

    I won't go out with women who use social media it's so bad

    • @user-mi4yc7pr3x
      @user-mi4yc7pr3x Před 7 měsíci

      That's one way to do it. But there are very few

  • @user-zx6xg2wr6q
    @user-zx6xg2wr6q Před 11 měsíci

    Yup Chris

  • @NitinSharma-es7sx
    @NitinSharma-es7sx Před 11 měsíci +2

    Pls make a video on long distance relationship where both r from different countries

  • @simbarashemurima3876
    @simbarashemurima3876 Před 11 měsíci

    Sad truth!

  • @hugoishier
    @hugoishier Před 11 měsíci +3

    So what are your best tips to highvalue yourself & turning chase

  • @pixel6878
    @pixel6878 Před 11 měsíci +12

    She's for the streets. Simple 😂

  • @lastbull575
    @lastbull575 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Adam22 is okay with it 😂😂

  • @raju34charan
    @raju34charan Před 11 měsíci +3

    Bro watching you from INDIA 🇮🇳

    • @chiragshetty2336
      @chiragshetty2336 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Bhai can you believe bc apne yaha ki bhi ladkiyan aise ho gaya hai

  • @easy-sy7rc
    @easy-sy7rc Před 11 měsíci

    What “muted your stories” means? Is when you are not able to see her stories because she muted your account?

  • @PassionateSpirit88
    @PassionateSpirit88 Před 11 měsíci +15

    I think their all going to do it anyways because we live in the modern world where there are too many choices.

    • @caucasianafrican1435
      @caucasianafrican1435 Před 11 měsíci

      And even (especially) when married, they're incentivized to leave.

    • @Blackmass92860
      @Blackmass92860 Před 11 měsíci +2

      There are too many betas that give them validation

  • @italiancapo7
    @italiancapo7 Před 11 měsíci

    How do you mute stories?

  • @dinok.3809
    @dinok.3809 Před 11 měsíci +28

    If you reside in Western society and your girl has any kind of social media and/or a job/career, automatically expect her to be taking applications at any given time.
    Does this mean you act like a controlling Alpha interrogating her or going through her phone? Hell no.
    You remain a stoic Alpha who has no concern whatsoever what she's doing when she's not with you.
    And when she sh1t tests you and says she's going out with friends, or flakes on a meet because something came up, it matters little to you because you have options.
    And if/when she starts to pull away, or threatens to pull away, you say Oh ok that sucks, but it is what it is 🤷‍♂️
    She won't believe your audacity, and if she truly likes you she'll be back sooner than later.

    • @robicelus
      @robicelus Před 11 měsíci +7

      if she's your girlfriend and you remain "stoic" when she does all that, you're just inviting her to cheat on you.

    • @briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206
      @briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206 Před 11 měsíci

      You are 100% Correct, the HARSH reality is if your woman is being "Sneaky" there is a 95% chance she is f**king other men behind your back.
      You believe me ... A woman can get sex anytime..anyplace and anywhere.
      How do I know this????? Because I have a "Woman on the side" we meet up for "Casual 5ex"... She is in a long-term relationship with another man...
      IF you remain a "Stoic Alpha" and have no concern when your woman is being "Sneaky" ... There is a 95% chance she IS f++king other men behind your back when she says she is with her "Female friend" or at her mother's... or staying back late at work. Or at her sister's house... Just saying!
      It is NOT your woman..It is just your turn.
      EDIT... There are some good women in "Western society" ...But they are VERY thin on the ground. More and more men are starting to "Wise up" to modern women...There are however plenty of "Beta simps" out there that are totally clueless regarding female nature.
      Kind regards Brian

    • @dinok.3809
      @dinok.3809 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@robicelus That's a mono mindset. Read it again.

    • @user-mi4yc7pr3x
      @user-mi4yc7pr3x Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@dinok.3809yeah bro but what about when you live together? It's very hard to do something else

    • @dinok.3809
      @dinok.3809 Před 7 měsíci

      @@user-mi4yc7pr3x If you're cohabitating then you've already messed up.
      Get outta there.

  • @joesottilare609
    @joesottilare609 Před 11 měsíci +1

    When you sense the secretive behaviour get rid of her fast.

  • @brian5682
    @brian5682 Před 11 měsíci +2

    3:30 truth

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 Před 11 měsíci +1

    She is cheating on you, walk away and find a next woman to be your girlfriend.

  • @rc6184
    @rc6184 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have a gut feeling my girlfriend of 3 years is messing around with another guy? She has started with the no sex, or just Star fish sex, she pushes me away while we are kissing, bruises on her body, when I ask her about the bruises, she says it was from me. She has social media accounts, however I am blocked from seeing them. I rarely hear from her throughout the day, at night she will tell me goodnight and She loves me, however I don’t really believe it. When she introduces me to people, she refers to me as a friend. We talked about getting married, however that is not going to happen. I thought it was my insecurities in the relationship, however I am going with my gut.

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  Před 6 měsíci

      Sounds like your instincts are right in this case. Don’t overlook the obvious

  • @PassionateSpirit88
    @PassionateSpirit88 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Have any of y'all ever had a girlfriend where if you made accusations about her cheating or whatever she then used that as an excuse to cheat saying "you made me do it." Or just does it in spite of you for making accusations or questioning her past? I guess for some people who are mentally weak it can cause them to do that?

    • @nielshoefsloot1760
      @nielshoefsloot1760 Před 11 měsíci

      If she says "you made me do it" you can always reply with "the lion, the witch, and the audacity of this bitch"

    • @ankurmaurya2355
      @ankurmaurya2355 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Nothing justifies cheating. That tells about the character of cheater.

    • @PassionateSpirit88
      @PassionateSpirit88 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@ankurmaurya2355 True. They should just leave.

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 Před 11 měsíci

      Yes, psychologists call it projection... It's a major red flag to seek another female... JIC.

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore Před 10 měsíci +2

      Don't give her the satisfaction and closure. Just ghost.

  • @khethasithole5539
    @khethasithole5539 Před 11 měsíci

    Mr. Canwell, I want to know if it's a nice thing to check on your phone more often, and if you do where's going to lead she won't feel like you don't trust her

    • @Loanwolf2018
      @Loanwolf2018 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I guess should but often , just do it when you notice suspicious behaviors , if you do it often the she will find another way to hide , happens to me , I noticed that suddenly she hiding bom security check and damn I was surprised what I found bruh man need to be vigilant when comes to women behavior, is easy to found out if you know the girl very well

    • @Loanwolf2018
      @Loanwolf2018 Před 11 měsíci

      Not*

    • @khethasithole5539
      @khethasithole5539 Před 11 měsíci

      Thank you, sir now I know you're telling the truth if I checked more often eventually she will find ways to hide 😊

  • @luismiguelrodrigues6151
    @luismiguelrodrigues6151 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Ask her to see her phone and give you her password. If she denies, my friend she’s being disloyal, so leave her immediately exactly at that moment end things, erase all pics all memories, just cut her off your life forever; block all social media, and go no contact. Do not answer her calls or messages; either she comes clean with you or she’s out forever!!!

  • @erlkonigschubert
    @erlkonigschubert Před 11 měsíci +1

    Yes they all are
    And u cant stop it
    She didnt owe u thing thats why just flow with the situation and dont hasty to do anything (like haste to seggs, or etc)

  • @michaelmorse3420
    @michaelmorse3420 Před 10 měsíci +1

    02:50 isn't it too much effort? Prefer to live life peacefully

  • @ianarn
    @ianarn Před 11 měsíci

    I think the difference is that paternity didn’t really matter when we operated in the small hunter gatherer groups we evolved from as everybody was dependent on everyone else for survival and it is through sperm competition rather than strength size that we passed on our genes! but in our cold individualised mega society it is a betrayal for her to have sex with other men (or women!!!) as we are pitted against each other in day to day life. Particularly if she’s getting hard on your case for liking an Instagram model lols.
    It is disrespectful and if she can’t explain herself satisfactorily you should offer if she’d like to end the relationship as it is hard for you to take her seriously.

  • @jamesrebbechi5247
    @jamesrebbechi5247 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Even the bookish highly educated quality ones will do this screw them on a medical conference and smile at your face. Sussed out mine and hit the road very next day.

    • @annacomnena217
      @annacomnena217 Před 8 měsíci

      Being educated and well-read doesn't indicate moral fibre.

  • @yosryhhabdellah3259
    @yosryhhabdellah3259 Před 11 měsíci

    Id that’s happened to you remember that you picked up the girl from the street or night club educated loyal girl never do like that her man comes first

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino Před 11 měsíci

    Sorry that sh!t don’t fly with me

  • @morohunkejiidowu1603
    @morohunkejiidowu1603 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Your energy
    Your attention
    Your focus and life should be about you❤
    You got a lot to do bro

  • @kaustavrana7482
    @kaustavrana7482 Před 11 měsíci

    My gfbackbites behind my back.what to do?

  • @westcedar
    @westcedar Před 10 měsíci

    This is the plight of every guy that has girlfriend in today's internet/social media environment. It's too easy to message any woman you want, just look her up and start the conversation. Dudes do this all the time and the hotter your gf, the more it's gonna happen. EXPECT it to happen. It means your gf is HOT so take it as a compliment. My gf is currently talking to several guys and one guy, who I'd love to strangle, comes on to her constantly. I'm pissed she's talking to him but she doesn't reciprocate his advances. He is solidly in the friend zone as are the others. Let her talk to her guy friends and get validated, you can't stop it. If you try to, you're sewered cuz you look insecure and jealous.

    • @jeffersonmoe.8595
      @jeffersonmoe.8595 Před 10 měsíci +1

      You need to set boundaries before your gf exercises on it 😂. Don’t be fooled

    • @westcedar
      @westcedar Před 10 měsíci

      What would you suggest ? Curious. @@jeffersonmoe.8595

    • @user-mi4yc7pr3x
      @user-mi4yc7pr3x Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@jeffersonmoe.8595yeah. It's not so simple. When you will fight with her she will go directly to him

    • @user-mi4yc7pr3x
      @user-mi4yc7pr3x Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@jeffersonmoe.8595yeah. It's not so simple. When you will fight with her she will go directly to him

    • @jackhunt5563
      @jackhunt5563 Před 7 měsíci

      Sorry brother ..you are setting yourself up to be a cuck!

  • @davenamakhwa3278
    @davenamakhwa3278 Před 11 měsíci +1

    But you never answered the question to what to do when you suspect she is talking to other guys because you cannot make yourself high value in one night!!!!!

    • @MrNelly
      @MrNelly Před 11 měsíci +2

      If she's talking to other guys, then walk away without any explanation, you owe her nothing

    • @gamedesigner2421
      @gamedesigner2421 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Get a dirt bike and do acro yoga. You will have fun, man up and meet more women fast

  • @treefrog1962
    @treefrog1962 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Your with a slapper, she won't change, no matter what you do, you've lost so move on.

    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 Před 7 měsíci

      I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back😊

    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 Před 7 měsíci

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    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 Před 7 měsíci

      On What'sapp

  • @TP-vu3tc
    @TP-vu3tc Před 9 měsíci +1

    Common. You guys are chatting with women too