How Long Do Women Test For? | Do Women Consciously Test Men?

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  • čas přidán 17. 06. 2023
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    1) 3 to 7 days: the short pull away. Usually a test, or the woman is feeling the need for space and distance. Nothing serious here. Nothing to worry about.
    2) 2 to 3 weeks: the medium pull away. This usually happens when the man has become too needy, or made some small, but frequent mistakes such as being too relationship focused, caused stress, or pushed too hard for commitment.
    3) 6 weeks: the long pull away. It does happen. Usually, when there’s been some severe damage in the relationship. The man has become emotionally unstable and volatile and caused immense stress for the woman.
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Komentáře • 125

  • @dinok.3809
    @dinok.3809 Před rokem +39

    The core foundations for limiting the severity of tests is:
    1) No cohabitation
    2) See her once a week (could mean one day, or a few days straight i.e a weekend)
    She'll still do it at times (subconsciously) but moments of consciously testing, she'll be significantly more careful of it because she knows her time with you is limited, therefore more valuable to her.
    If you spend more and more time with her, you'll instantly recognize a spike in tests and challenges by her.

    • @sunnymike4251
      @sunnymike4251 Před rokem

      No cohabitation? Do you mean seperate domains! 😁

  • @factsunknown8275
    @factsunknown8275 Před rokem +40

    This man has the greatest knowledge in the world ❤

  • @isaacmirigo
    @isaacmirigo Před rokem +10

    Hi Chris I just wanted to say thank you, you just saved my relationship I was on the brink of a break up I was needy, clingy and desperate as soon as I sensed her pulling away I came across your video I used all the techniques you taught like no contact after 4 weeks she reached out and she's soo sweet I just can't believe everything you teach came to be, God bless you with your profound knowledge

    • @jn1baller
      @jn1baller Před měsícem

      That’s great to hear they always test to see if you will get emotional and if you need reassurance and see how you react you have to remain in different and aloof, which is really hard you can’t react. Just do nothing test and pull away to see your emotional strength and how much they can get away withto see on where you stand with your emotional and masculine strength

  • @cheezinhoweree
    @cheezinhoweree Před rokem +27

    Start testing her too.if she's got to much masculine energy she's for the streets

    • @eppsislike
      @eppsislike Před 9 měsíci

      Not really bro. If you're centered, even the most masculine dyke will fall hea dover heels for you.

  • @user-er9hv4pl2u
    @user-er9hv4pl2u Před rokem +108

    Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro Před rokem

      amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

    • @user-er9hv4pl2u
      @user-er9hv4pl2u Před rokem

      @@GregMunro well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro Před rokem

      @@user-er9hv4pl2u please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

    • @user-er9hv4pl2u
      @user-er9hv4pl2u Před rokem

      @@GregMunro her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

    • @user-er9hv4pl2u
      @user-er9hv4pl2u Před rokem

      you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

  • @danialmr5960
    @danialmr5960 Před rokem +4

    Love your content

  • @stephenciotti2127
    @stephenciotti2127 Před rokem +2

    Good morning coach!

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 Před rokem +1

    Great video 🔥🔥🔥

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 Před rokem +1

    Thank you teacher , I love this video👍👍, I need this video

  • @RememberTrueStyle
    @RememberTrueStyle Před rokem

    Thanks for sharing

  • @elmo319
    @elmo319 Před 4 měsíci

    It’s great advice. I found that ‘hearing’ women is a good thing, let them talk. Actually listening to what they say is a mistake, they will always change their mind irrespective of what they say.
    Listen to yourself, be strong in your own mindset and let them follow you. Easier said than done sometimes but it’s the only way.

  • @AdventureAwaits972
    @AdventureAwaits972 Před rokem

    Great vid. Fyi ... You misspelled "Woment" in the title-subject line

  • @harrysboard7948
    @harrysboard7948 Před rokem

    Chris you know you say to pull away and mirror emotions etc, do you do that after you’ve slept with the girl or do you still do that in the dating stage or right at the beginning?

  • @wyswygsommer2769
    @wyswygsommer2769 Před rokem +8

    If a girl is being disrespectful in public such as starting a silly argument, rude, etc., what should he do? If he reacts too strong, people would think he is assulting her but if he lets her get away with it, she will be more disrespectful. Any advice?

    • @HeavyMedal
      @HeavyMedal Před rokem +4

      First ask her if there is any problem that you can help and if you can not help or there is not even any problem then send her home and tell her not to call you until she is willing to act cool around you.

    • @dylanmatipa136
      @dylanmatipa136 Před rokem +12

      Walk away and never speak to her again. Even if she’s your gf. You’re now single.

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 Před rokem +2

      Just stay calm and tell her that she's making a complete fool of herself in public, then giver her a stern warning, that if she continues with her disruptive behaviour, you're walking away forever cause i don't tolerate disrespect from you or anyone else, now, get yourself together or we're through, you got that?

    • @celf1331
      @celf1331 Před rokem +2

      Make sure you have the keys to the car. Breath in, Breath out. Stay calm the leave her. thats it

    • @hummustahina5429
      @hummustahina5429 Před rokem +2

      Leave her
      She is tesring you donk

  • @urbanproductions4852
    @urbanproductions4852 Před rokem +14

    never be reactive to women...its what they want

  • @PassionateSpirit88
    @PassionateSpirit88 Před rokem +6

    Problem is in this world there are too many ways and options for women to test men.

    • @Luigi-xg7hx
      @Luigi-xg7hx Před rokem +4

      In a summay, testing is just the way for a women to confirm if you are congruent about who you say you are. So, if you are congruent with your personality, trust me, testings is nothing. Greetings.

    • @ExoecistBlue
      @ExoecistBlue Před 7 měsíci

      @@Luigi-xg7hx kudos

    • @stevenkrupka3670
      @stevenkrupka3670 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Luigi-xg7hx congruent? wow

  • @patrickgallegos1435
    @patrickgallegos1435 Před rokem

    Only thing I have noticed is she will sometimes wait hours to text me back. I use that I text once let her respond. But at the same time I am always busy so it's not a big deal. Really not seeing test maybe I have grown to the point I am doing things right!

  • @umair111
    @umair111 Před rokem +6

    I thought being a bit unpredictable was a good thing

  • @CityBoy5705
    @CityBoy5705 Před rokem +8

    Good Video. Single Life Happy Life Always 🎯

  • @kisamasama9039
    @kisamasama9039 Před rokem +4

    Yeah sure you can pass her tests for a while,but since they NEVER stop doing it you get tired man,that's no way of living,i rather be alone

    • @Waldi.Explores
      @Waldi.Explores Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yeah. In my case I feel exhausted at times. Feels - get the f**k out of here. Because it is tiring - a man isn’t a machine or a robot. We have things going on in our lives. We go through our own ups and downs of life and then these never ending tests…u fail some of them and then the clutter grows even further. Just don’t get this rules of nature, I just don’t get it.

    • @PyroShields
      @PyroShields Před 3 měsíci

      @@Waldi.Explores I agree to this. We have limits, forever testing is being forever miserable.

  • @papitrapstar1575
    @papitrapstar1575 Před rokem +11

    Most chicks Belong 2da Streeets myGz🤘🏽❄️

  • @caucasianafrican1435
    @caucasianafrican1435 Před rokem +3

    Now that I know women do this, it's entertaining. It's outright funny how directly women test men with a strait face. It can be fun, when you know what they're doing.

  • @alexandertye3244
    @alexandertye3244 Před rokem +4

    Just flip the script and you test her

  • @da835t
    @da835t Před rokem +1

    Im at the point that if women test me, i just leave completely and go to the next one. If she is interested, she will reach out.

  • @Waldi.Explores
    @Waldi.Explores Před 11 měsíci

    I am seeing a girl and have failed a test: she was using the phone a lot in the mall. I tried to counter that a bit but she acted rude. I silently walked away…but she created a huge drama later on. How to recover from this mess any advice gentlemen?

  • @user-wz4no9sr3g
    @user-wz4no9sr3g Před rokem +5

    Hey my girlfriend broke up with me I don’t know why my girlfriend broke up with me so what should I do go after my ex girlfriend or go after my crush

    • @15.sujalrewadikar48
      @15.sujalrewadikar48 Před rokem +8

      Bro never go back to girl

    • @user-wz4no9sr3g
      @user-wz4no9sr3g Před rokem

      @@15.sujalrewadikar48why

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 Před rokem +7

      Because her interest in you is nonexistant, get a new girl, bruh

    • @dontassumemyfender9866
      @dontassumemyfender9866 Před rokem +10

      Women who are in love will never breakup with their partner. My bet is you stopped courting her correctly and became complacent.
      Maybe you displayed to much feminine energy and turned her off completely.
      Never beg, cry or chase. As she is the one that ended it it is her job to fix it.
      DO NOT CONTACT HER FOR ANY REASON.
      Go into no contact. Focus on yourself.
      If she reaches out to you assume it's because she wants to see you and invite her over to make dinner together.
      If she declines, say great to hear from you and get off the phone.

    • @user-wz4no9sr3g
      @user-wz4no9sr3g Před rokem +2

      @@oscargonza2748so are you saying go after my crush because my crush said that she really likes me

  • @papitrapstar1575
    @papitrapstar1575 Před rokem +2

    1st👑❄️

  • @LongStrokey
    @LongStrokey Před 5 měsíci

    The answer is forever

  • @nabzy28
    @nabzy28 Před rokem +5

    Who cares? If she 'tests' once, she's thrown back into the streets.

  • @luker1hutcher315
    @luker1hutcher315 Před rokem +2

    Oooops.....he said it contains 30 Real-Life Case Studies........It's 40.......I know coz I've read it cover-to-cover 3 times! Highly Recommended Book. And yes ALL women test forever and a day!

  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 Před rokem

    Women will always text Men till eternity just have to be Strong inside. Stay Strong and Stoic guys

  • @greeneyesfromohio4103
    @greeneyesfromohio4103 Před rokem +27

    I’ll be honest, after watching a lot of videos about attracting women and being successful with them etc etc….and being in the real world. The best advice I can give is just be yourself and nothing more. Women do the choosing, that’s just how it is. If she likes you, she’ll let you know it…if not then that sucks but you weren’t her type and move on. Don’t try these tips and tricks. Just be you.

    • @Luigi-xg7hx
      @Luigi-xg7hx Před rokem +4

      Wow !!! You know bro, I feel identified with you, because I have many years, like you, watching videos about dating, about different youtube channels and I got to the same conclusion, its jus "be yourself". The problem is that, again those youtube channels, specially those wants whick want suscribers use the idea of "being yourself" in a wrong way related with self development, so they all the time using "Its BAD TO BE YOURSELF" you need to change, but the real meaning of "being yourself" reffers not to be afraid of show who you really are, to argue, to learn to put limits, not to be afraid of making her upset, and more. I think the guys like you and me, who has passed for many "videos, books, theory and practice" we have realized the real point of seduction and now we are on the top of this. Greeting.

    • @AndyKirtland11
      @AndyKirtland11 Před rokem +5

      Yes just keep focusing on your own ambition, purpose and vision in life. Be goal oriented not relationship oriented, that way you couldn’t careless if a woman doesn’t make the effort because you’ve basically rejected her at the same time because you haven’t tried to force anything or tried to impress her. Eventually one woman will like you for you and you will noticed how effortless it feels because women will make it obvious whether that be through her body language, sends you a text or calls you out the blue. She won’t tell you she likes you because she expects you to pickup on such things and you just make a date on the spot and that shows confidence.

    • @stevenkrupka3670
      @stevenkrupka3670 Před 3 měsíci

      Get lost! How about that

  • @DG38594
    @DG38594 Před rokem +2

    So in other words if they are breathing, they are striving to irritate the living hell out of us.

  • @zazaviboy
    @zazaviboy Před rokem +1

    this girl i talk before made new ig. she didnt accept my friend request on ig, does it mean she doesnt like me anymore?

  • @Emotionlessxartist
    @Emotionlessxartist Před rokem

    If she ask for an apology do I not give it to her?

  • @connorapple006
    @connorapple006 Před rokem

    Help and advice please
    This girl
    I went out to this workshop for an evening and then I asked her if she’d like to have dinner with me after
    She agreed
    And then she paid the bill in full
    I asked her to split at least and she was like “no it’s okay”
    Did I offend her
    Because at one point I mentioned a conversation about conservative women
    Did she pay the entire bill by herself to show that she can pay on her own to mock me how independent she is

    • @DiscipleProfit
      @DiscipleProfit Před rokem

      It’s a good sign she was willing to pay, however because it’s the first date you shouldnt have let her. A few dates down the line yes. I say that because you’re the man and the first date is for you to set the tone and show your leadership. Also you invited her out so you definitely should’ve. I hope this helps. No pressure but update us if you can.

    • @connorapple006
      @connorapple006 Před rokem +1

      @@DiscipleProfit here's the update.
      that was the only time and that's it. she didn't contact me after that.
      and yes, she did give me her phone number also after dinner but when I tried contacting her, she ghosted me
      great!!

    • @DiscipleProfit
      @DiscipleProfit Před rokem

      @@connorapple006 Her loss! On to the next!

    • @DiscipleProfit
      @DiscipleProfit Před rokem

      @@connorapple006 you got this!

  • @djmistatsoez750
    @djmistatsoez750 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Walk away

  • @harrysboard7948
    @harrysboard7948 Před rokem +2

    Chris how do you control your emotions? Tips

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 Před rokem +4

      Stoic!

    • @harrysboard7948
      @harrysboard7948 Před rokem +2

      @@blair5475 I know the fundamentals bro I just want Chris’ opinion on it, he’s low-key ahead of the curve on topics

    • @zombiedeutsch
      @zombiedeutsch Před rokem

      ​@@harrysboard7948finger your bitthole twice a day and your emotions will be controlled and strong

    • @adrianshaw4639
      @adrianshaw4639 Před rokem

      You control your heart

    • @Mr1337sheep
      @Mr1337sheep Před rokem +1

      you identify the deeper causes for why you're feeling so reactive and then reframe the issue. a lot of people fear abandonment, so they get clingy, but reframe the issue and see it as like by walking away you're putting the ball in their court to prove they actually want you. And if they don't chase then you protected yourself from worse heartbreak

  • @3SRtales
    @3SRtales Před rokem

    Act like nothing can phase you and test back twice as hard on the next occasion.

  • @aasiyakhaneshoo7072
    @aasiyakhaneshoo7072 Před rokem

    1st viewer

  • @Tartar78658
    @Tartar78658 Před 10 měsíci

    Wrong spelling in your video ’woment’ if you want to correct it

  • @dcikaruga
    @dcikaruga Před 2 měsíci

    And that also means you'll get non-stop stress if you don't know how to handle it. 😁

  • @Indo432
    @Indo432 Před rokem

    Can you do a video on how men can test and probe women.

  • @jamesm1579
    @jamesm1579 Před 15 dny

    Some of the behaviour you've described only relates to emotionally damaged women though. If she's emotionally healthy she won't test you forever.

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  Před 15 dny

      @@jamesm1579 Women test forever, even when you don’t realize it

  • @daycrow8651
    @daycrow8651 Před rokem +3

    exactly why marriages hardly last a decade

  • @HassanPoyo
    @HassanPoyo Před rokem

    Lifelong

  • @carlospita6442
    @carlospita6442 Před rokem +1

    What do women offer?

    • @andrewwoodward8563
      @andrewwoodward8563 Před rokem

      They make children. They offer the chance to pass on your genetic lineage.

    • @muskduh
      @muskduh Před 2 měsíci

      heartache and pain

  • @godwinoladele2347
    @godwinoladele2347 Před rokem +4

    Can't blame them. They're women. Helpless creatures. Manipulation is the only defence mechanism they have.
    We, men, can just hold frame and its labelled "intimidating"

  • @alwaysmotivate7378
    @alwaysmotivate7378 Před rokem

    1st

  • @Sonu-nv1gd
    @Sonu-nv1gd Před rokem

    How to deal with gf's best male friend ? I cant say no to meet with him because she tells everyone that i am an open minded person and trust her a lot and i do trust her but that motherfucker is unnecessarily very helping and cute to everyone. But i know guys thing..having faith on her doesn't mean i cant have insecurities ..help me Christopher

    • @papitrapstar1575
      @papitrapstar1575 Před rokem +2

      Streets myBro.. send her der🤘🏾❄️

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 Před rokem

      Don't give a shit, meet the guy. If he ends up fcking ur girl then it is what is man

    • @RD-DUBBING
      @RD-DUBBING Před rokem +5

      bro.. she is manipulating you by telling everyone that you are open minded person, so you would never say anything to her.. if you don't like her best friend tell her straight if she doesn't listen to you.. leave

    • @Sonu-nv1gd
      @Sonu-nv1gd Před rokem

      @@RD-DUBBING i am in relationship for 10 years. We have marriage this year.

    • @adrianshaw4639
      @adrianshaw4639 Před rokem +1

      ​@@Sonu-nv1gdShe will manipulate you in the marriage also.

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm24568 Před rokem

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    @jaythenihilist4689 Před rokem

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