Girlfriend Losing Interest and Pulling Away
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- čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
- When your girlfriend loses interest and pulls away from you then you need to know how to deal with this the right way.
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I say let her pull away. She will save you a ton of cash.
George Kolotouros , you are damn right...LOL..!
Oh yes! Great way to look at it.
It’s funny you say that. My GF pulled away, the first thing I thought was I’m saving cash.
And time bro
lolol
If she loves you she’ll come back If she doesn’t don’t waste your time just move on
But long should we wait?
@@saamin_syj8791 try atleast 60 days...if nth changes...move on bro
If she loves you shed never pull away in the first place
Everyone who wants, or has a girlfriend should watch this.
ActionIsGo1 just happened to me man ..
XxRNG ClipXx same man
DaddyBraiBrai bro you will feel the pain but i promise you just cry as much as you need and give it time you will feel better i went through a lot of hurt and last week i started to get back on my feet and i'm feeling great . i hope everything turns out good for you man .
Mu girl friend she is puling away from me what should I do should I text her first that it's over
@@veihamisakuseuena7755 just don't react. If she messages you saying she wants to end it just say you were feeling the same leave it there.
If she really loves u she will run the whole mile with u.. All these other girls who lose interest didn't truely love u to begin with.
True words!
I agree
Haha false cz u ain't a true lover
I agree
Brother, i respect your thoughts, but do such girls exist?
Thank you for admitting, that if your GF leaves you, you are going to be upset. Because it's impossible to act like nothing happened, we are not a robot.
I need to watch this 100 times.
101
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@@bijaygurung1909 Haha! Nepali po raicha
Bro malai DM gara fb ma.. I'm also in a similar situation
Garoo cha Keta harlai😂
good god, after hearing this I think i'll stay single
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
No pootang for you...lol
Dude just work on you worry about you and a relationship will come. But don't lose your purpose when you get a girl and you will be fine
But really? Is pootang really worth this shit storm that comes with it? I think I will stay happy and keep my “
I don’t give one flying fu$& if she falls off the face of the earth” mentally 😆
Lol
We're up against social media.
We're up against back up guy's.
We're up against her phone.
We're up against Facebook.
We're up against her ego.
We're up against the courts.
Were up against HER..
No thanks!!!!
THIS MAN DESERVES A BILLION SUBSCRIBERS I DONT KNOW HOW HE HASNT GOTTEN IT THERE ALREADY :)
Agree with you.
He has, whats he deserves
He really knows women! 👌🏼
"It's how you react determines the way to get her back."
- Chris Canwell
I am so much happier when im single. The only thing i miss sometimes is intimacy but overall dating screws with my mental health a lot. I am not going to date until i work on my neediness and insecurities.
And don't forget the most important aspect, the courtship never ends. Take her out somewhere every now and then, suprise her, break up the routine
THIS 100% !!!!
With a good wallet and a resort in the south maybe she will keep interest.
All good things come to an end
Don't drag it
My God it's like having another job.
I agree. Any updates?
😂 IKR?
Best comment 😂😂
When Youve been in long term relationships and all the ups and downs that come with it, everything He says makes complete sense. I can look back and see where i went wrong so many times
Where did you go wrong? (If you mind sharing with us)
@@TheP4U111 it goes wrong went you go crazy after sll their ups and down.
If only I've just realized this earlier...
When shes fed up its a wrap
My dad told before he passed away, as long you have money... u can always start a new in every hurtful break ups. money is not just for bragging but for saving you in down times like. GO TRAVEL. GO SHOP FOR NEW CLOTHES. GET NEW LOOKS. GO TREAT YOURSELF IN NICE PLACES AND RESTAURANTS. GO BUY A TICKET AND GO TO A PLACE WHERE U NEVER BEEN. SO MANY THINGS TO DO AS LONG AS YOU HAVE MONEY IN THE END. in this world, they say MONEY CAN'T BUY EVERYTHING YES, but MONEY CAN BUY SOME HAPPINESS.
Uuuuugh fuck!! This makes so much sense!!!
Money buys access
Can't take money with us when we die but 90% of us die with not enough money.
Focus on YOUrself 🏆😒
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This guy talks total sense so I’m following his advice
will she come back Chris ?
Maan I was with this girl for 4 years, and I always pull away from her every now and then cause I wasn’t sure if she was right for me, when I finally decide that she was the right girl for me she left me
Facts
🤣🤣
Always keep a broad in a state of uncertainty.
Lol... when they get what they want it's over man
We are sailing in the same boat bro . Every time. I do this I lose a girl
She's not even my girldfirend, but we clicked so well. Now she's pulling away, and quite frankly I feel shattered (never happy and no motivation). It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. If I don't have contact with her I'm miserable, if I do try to reach out more, I know I'm distancing her all the more. I hate this..
David Barna Damn man :( sigh... How's things now?
I feel you man i feel you. Hope your ok
David Barna keep her off your mind get busy with your own issues don't over show care
David Barna I remember my first love did the same thing to me and I panicked and started reaching out to her even more.... Now I choose to try my best to fight that urge and instead focus more on myself and the right girl will support that.
kinda exactly what I have yeah :(
Learn to walk away.
Value self respect over the relationship, see yourself as a winner and she will too.
if she pulls away dont take her back throw a party lol
Schools should teach us about relationships n health
yeah but with 90 % female teachers in school, this would make the problem for men only worse
Create strong emotion. Better to have her anxious and uncertain than bored and numb - the former state can be easily transmuted into passion and lust, the latter just results in distance and resentment.
Match her responses, when you start to see the msgs get shorter and shorter, it's more than likely a sign she's about to pull back,or testing to see if you're gonna act desperate.
LOVE IS A SERIOUS MENTAL DISEASE. 😏🤨
Love is a poison that kills more than any disease.
That’s EXACTLY what it is !
yes, many people kill themselves because of love
Feel better after watching this channel every time
mate ive seen alot of videos about these subjects but so far you have been the most educated on it.well done n thanks
Thanks for making your videos short and straight to the point!
You just earned yourself another follower. You explained in such poise, straight to the point, and it made me feel lifted once again. Thank you.
This is exactly what I needed! I feel my anxiety going away
Stay strong
The truth is women don't pull away from men they truly want to be with. If she does pull away, take the hint, do yourself a favor, and just move on. Don't call her, don't text her, and don't return any of her calls or texts.
Yes my 1st girl I was indifferent all through. It was my longest relationship 4years here.
Some of the best advice! Thank you!
Bro I don't know how much to thank you, I did exactly what you said and my gf loves me more than ever if any other guy loves his girl and see these signs of her acting weird just do what he says trust me.
Great video. Great content. Extremely specific and to the point! All single, engaged, married, non-married and to be married men have these problems on a daily basis! Thank you,
Bro this man is a legend it works
People don’t know how important this vid is 💯
Massive " Truth bombs" Chris Thank you mate.
As a female, I do think you give great advice. HOWEVER, don't give all guys hope that she'll come around back in all cases.
Because sometimes the girl is just not into you... and they may be cowards who don't dare to have "the talk" where they break things off.
My gf was my best friend for 1 year and a half ,she told me that she had feeling for me and now we are a couple.Everything was good,but she moved on to france for 3 months. 4 days ago,we were planning to settle in france.Then suddenly, she went visiting paris and I was acting strange,it was probably jealousy and I kept telling her that she got another man etc (insecurities). and yesterday she told me that she is losing interest and she dont know where she is with her feelings and I told her if she want to break up ,she told me no. she keep calling me but its not the same as before.I dont even know what to tell her. please help.
My Biz yeah and she’s a asshole for getting into that relationship to begin with
Shane Racheea move on brother if she was the one you wouldn’t feel this way
My biz. when you contact 5 or 6 in the same time do not forget to take note other way you can mixe one to a another fellow....
Man, congratulations for the great job!
Another great video cause your video's talk about the reality of things and I was just telling a friend of mine that our brain can only put out so much focused energy on something for so long. This is why we see athletes, actors, singers go so long in careers until they reach a burn out phase and they have to step away, Authors are the same way, they only have so much creative energy for so long and we are the same way in relationships, so once again, great video Chris.
Agree. Burnout is a huge problem for most people and it's almost impossible to sustain anything forever. A lot of successful long-term athletes also have a degree of autism which allows them to repeat the same tasks over and over again without boredom. Something most people can never do.
Chris Canwell
Thanks Chris and as far as the ex girlfriend thing, I have never chased an ex and I let them go and didn't even think of them on their very Birthdays and yet, that didn't stop them from either coming back to me or contacting me at some point, so I totally agree on that as well. A strong, higher status man never has to pursue any woman, he knows his value and thus that alone is attractive to women, thanks again Chris.
this guy saved my life, thank you
Seriously.... You lift my mood up and become more strong.... I was just about to be impulsive.... Thanks for reminding that I need to work on actually myself instead of spending my energy to get validation from my girl.... i need to be more confident and have a good self esteem and love for who I am.... Thank You ❤❤❤❤
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hello it works I can believe am with my love again after so many years of break,up
In others words, it’s best to have more than one woman, so when your main one pulls away.. u won’t be hurting because u other women as back up. No point in getting into relationship if u gotta like that, if u always gotta brace yourself for up & down emotions, and us men getting hurt, better off just having women on the side from the beginning
Yeah I have back up women in my contacts bro but I'm giving this lil girl a chance she screwing up by being cold and distant.... . I'm giving her til Friday to open up if not I'm MOVING ON!!!!!!!!!!!!*
If you're an alpha better pick your self as the best option always keep the "Abundance Mindset" go focus on yourself that easy
@@EJayyDreadHead how’d it go
@Zack Jackson how’s it going my guy
@@EJayyDreadHead Yo how'd it go?
I really needed you.❤️
Thank you very much for your videos.
You changed my mindset.😀
The best video I watch. I think twice if I want to be in a relationship. I saved lot of stress and money.
This is really helpful sir,thank you
Aaah yes, the indifferent state is indeed powerful. Although not always easy to maintain, and also in some sense less fun -- as in, becoming infatuated with someone allows for deeper love, but indifference sortl blunts that, but also protects you from having your heart broken. Is it possible to have both? This is my major problem. I'll get girls super attracted to me, typically because I maintain that indifference, but I dont know how to transition to actually expressing and having intense, deep feelings, because as soon as I do, they often seem to pull away.
Man thank you, you're a blessing.
Really every time a fight happens i directly find this video which made me strong when she is pulling me away
The best video of all the time from Chris
Chris is the best in the biz.
I needed to hear this, thank you
Great Advice
Thank You Chris
Thank you
Bro
That was very helpful
Best dating coach on CZcams! I bought his book.
Propably u have just saved my life with this vid!
JUST SUBSCRIBED, LUV THE CONTENTS YOU PUT OUT, MUCH RESPECT.
thank you so much sir ive learned so much
Chris you have a special gift, as far as being a relationship advisor. I have no interest in looking for another mentor, your demeanor and calm aura and just how you put things into perspective so simplistically, I need no other mentor. You are a true gift for those who grew up without a big brother/ father, you are the ONE. Wish I came to your videos, sooner. I should have learned from my first breakup, but the 2nd breakup, I almost felt like I was gonna make it.... Thanks, Chris.
Thanks man!, I will always be indebted to you..my girl is doing exactly the same thing...and i will do these things!
I needed to hear this
This is gold
This is way easier said then done. Especially if you have caught feelings.
Wow I needed this badly, thank you
Well said bro 💪
woow! you're awesome, this is what every man exactly need. thanks for every single video you share with us
Opened my eyes. Back when we didn't live together and she became distant I was indifferent and ignored her for days and after it she'd message me back once she wanted to talk again. Nowadays living together and being indoor all the time it's harder as she's literally there with me lol I don't go out much and barely have outside hobbies or even hang out with people. Guess I need to find s way to go out to do anything even if she could potentially lock me out and leave me outside for the day if she isn't at work.
thanks heaps, kinda knew this already but this was way more info
spot on mate!!!
Sir I hate to say but you are a legend.
You really spoke to me your advice will save my relationship. Everything you said I did I was obsessive always wanted to be around her basically suffocating her. Then she lost feelings and interest and I panicked like big time. Right now my relationship is hanging by a thread. But with your advice I know i can make it right. Thank you . I will comment again in a few months with an update.
Road2MLG any news?
Any luck bro? Any updates?
RIP
update?
@@Lights____ probably became a toxic fuck boy, W for mans hopefully if so
Thank you bro honestly you’ve helped me so much. I have female options but I am looking for one quality women. The reality is that women are all wired in the same way
not the ones that 'aren't wired up right' or a have a screw or three loose!
No, you don’t have to expect and tolerate this behavior. If a woman “pulls away” your relationship is over. Ghost her ass and find a better woman. If you attracted her to begin with you can also attract a better, more stable woman.
I'm bad luck to see this video now I should see it since what I learn from here had I know this before she will never left me for travelling
Thank you for this ...
HorrorFactoryInc did this help ?
Thank God I found this brilliant channel... And bought the book Atomic Attraction... Wonderful stuff... THANKS CHRIS.
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Great video
Chris, you should also mention:
1) When a girl pulls away, 99% of the time she has met another guy. FACT.
2) When you are overtly indifferent to a girl, she will resent you and use this as an excuse to exercise her open hypergamy and sleep with another guy behind your back. When you catch her and call her out on it she will say “You didn’t seem to care!”
I learned these things from experience.
So true. Even if you gave her plenty of attention she would say “I needed space!” Both are an excuse to do what she would have done either way 🤣
This is a powerful strategy that applies to both men and women. I have used it on men and it works. However, there is something that a newbie might not understand using this strategy. That indifference works only on an emotional level. Sometimes, there are important issues that couples have to work through and that actually takes acknowledgement from both parties. If he acts indifferent to resolving those issues, no matter how much she loves him, she will eventually leave him. It's not always 100 percent emotions, we are human beings and we do use our logics. Indifference will eventually backfire as it leads to resentment due to unresolved issues.
internetgirl100 exactly what I was thinking in my head
thank you sir!
This made my day..
Correct point of awareness of relationship.....
You are a legend :p
I needed this today. My gf seems to have 2 monthly cycles where she seems to withdraw and have less interest. But each and every time we've had distance, she's been desperate to have me back. I don't know why it bothers me so much when she pulls away 🙏
Virgil once said, "Irrestorable, time flies".
Changes come, that's how life works. you are good either way.
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I search all videos about relationships
But your videos are amazing
My allah bless you
His videos are by the best ones out there. Pardon the ignorance of the other commenters.
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GREAT video
Thank you so much, you saved me❤️
Giving your girl freedom is the main thing
This relationship business...gave my best, wanted to give her more of my best but instead now we broken up, she seems like she is living the life, doing her own thing and now I'm left with VOKOL.
This guy is a genius
thank you very much, man!
Thank you so much
Amazing video! Thank you so much!
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hello it works I can believe am with my love again after so many years of break,up
Very intelligent and logical consultant. He’s got his own style of explaining and the slight natural British accent doesn’t hurt the learning process.
Thank you sir 💞.
Amazing video, lots of useful information about relationships. You're doing God's work