She Pulled Away After You Told Her Your Feelings

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  • čas přidán 3. 09. 2023
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Komentáře • 75

  • @benjaminholt6640
    @benjaminholt6640 Před 8 měsíci +11

    I set a rule for myself with the girl I'm currently dating. I told myself I basically wouldn't tell her about how I feel about anything. I like the girl and at certain points I really wanted to say something but I held my tongue. After about 5 months she finally blurted out that she loved me and wanted to be my girlfriend. I still held my tongue. She asked me if I feel the same way I said "actions speak louder than words". She told me she could feel me through my behavior. I never told her I loved her back until a month later and it was only in response to her I never bring it up. She's head over heels and this is much more rewarding than blurting out my emotions after the first month.

  • @tomatoisred6966
    @tomatoisred6966 Před 11 měsíci +42

    I am experiencing this exact thing right now. She pulled away like she's on a quarter mile.

    • @JimReed-se3ic
      @JimReed-se3ic Před 11 měsíci +3

      It's your description for me😂

    • @JosePena-lk1gq
      @JosePena-lk1gq Před 11 měsíci +7

      Leave her alone Sr.Let her come to you ,if she decides so, and apply the 'No contact rule' at all cost.

    • @12Messenger
      @12Messenger Před 11 měsíci +2

      She belongs to the streets brother please believe me. Women who want to casually hookup and see other guys dont want to be committed because you interrupt her privacy of being a whore in private and she knows in a relationship she would be watched. If you do ANYTHING that insinuates you want to be in a committed relationship (with women who belong to the streets) she will pull away.
      You think she would've pulled away from Justin Bieber? What about Michael Jordan? Or what about Harry styles? No. In fact HELL no.
      She's going through her hoe phase. I'd say leave the girl alone completely and move on but 98% of guys dont have the balls to.

    • @nas8027
      @nas8027 Před 10 měsíci +1

      "for those ten seconds or less. I'm free". 😂😂😂😂

  • @jameslajambe
    @jameslajambe Před 11 měsíci +13

    He is soooo right.. married 27 years and still have to pull away attention from time to time and she will come right back.. you can't express your feelings to her all the time.. you have to let her wonder It's what will draw her back to you...

  • @da835t
    @da835t Před 11 měsíci +19

    Women want to feel the entire duration of the chase they go through and not be spoiled. They have to go through the process and enjoy every second of it

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist Před 11 měsíci +16

    You telling her how you feel ultimately comes down to a lack of options in her eyes. She will instantly lose attraction the moment you try to lock her up lol

  • @maxtechmax
    @maxtechmax Před 11 měsíci +9

    There was a girl that kept bugging me after our first date. Extremely clingy. Instead of ghosting her, I kept messaging her and saying “I love you” right off the bat. That helped her back off.

  • @williemurphy2421
    @williemurphy2421 Před 11 měsíci +11

    THAT SHOWS YOU HOW TWISTED A WOMAN IS IN HER THINKING AND HER NATURE. SAD.

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer Před 10 měsíci

      Yup , A Covert Narcissists , rationalize IRRATIONAL behaviour

  • @cliffchampion5501
    @cliffchampion5501 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I find this principle also applies in a general sense when dealing with females even if she’s your boss at work, they will often ask a man to share his personal feelings about a matter going on in his life…..Don’t do it!

  • @AdagioPhoenix
    @AdagioPhoenix Před 11 měsíci +25

    I'd like to say I'm happy for you that you're being consistent with putting out content more often. Keep it up!

    • @malikid1000
      @malikid1000 Před 11 měsíci

      His videos are short though

    • @AdagioPhoenix
      @AdagioPhoenix Před 11 měsíci +6

      @@malikid1000 as long as it's to the point.

    • @jblasutavario9549
      @jblasutavario9549 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@malikid1000 promo for the book. Go, buy it. It's good 👍

    • @8d_rw
      @8d_rw Před 10 měsíci

      we like it

  • @mitchellnelson6249
    @mitchellnelson6249 Před 11 měsíci +26

    Very true just focus on being masculine (working, getting shit done, making money & moves) and she will not just move forward with the relationship, she will shove it forward 😂
    just be about getting that money so it ain’t nothing to your wallet when you tell her “I got this”. That’ll make you feel/seem very masculine to a woman.
    Money ain’t everything and you gotta watch out for gold diggers but the most high quality feminine women do love it when a man has is on business & has everything “handled”

  • @minimalism-freedom
    @minimalism-freedom Před 11 měsíci +1

    I also read the book: this is perhaps the most important video on the subject!

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Facts, you talking facts Chris I love it🔥🔥🔥.

  • @markpack1111
    @markpack1111 Před 2 měsíci

    just remine neutral.. take it or leave it..
    There is no feature in woman .. just pure entrainment 🎉

  • @user-kt6bk9cb8w
    @user-kt6bk9cb8w Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks Chris

  • @markpack1111
    @markpack1111 Před 2 měsíci +1

    So basically you need a phycologist's degree to date today's wmn..

  • @carlospita6442
    @carlospita6442 Před 11 měsíci +12

    What do women bring to the table??

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 Před 10 měsíci

    Facts💯

  • @kylez5921
    @kylez5921 Před 5 měsíci

    You know, I actually agree with this. Being relationship-focused as a man is totally ok, but expressing it outright seems to make women lose attraction. She has to be the one that feels anxious about putting a title to your guys’ relationship.

  • @krymesuspectent9223
    @krymesuspectent9223 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Fully 6ix 🇯🇲

  • @julienchannel
    @julienchannel Před 11 měsíci +1

    if you are a high value man that wants to develop further, plan a call with him.
    Greetings Juliën

  • @Sonu-nv1gd
    @Sonu-nv1gd Před 11 měsíci

    Should a man stop having casual relationships with other women after he gets married and settle with only one person as we are working very hard to increase musculinity just to settle with one person ? Are all these knowledge only for single people and should we forget all our dating skills after we get married as it's of no use ?

    • @tomatoisred6966
      @tomatoisred6966 Před 11 měsíci +3

      You never stop dating in a relationship. You never "settle" or become complacent. If you don't date your woman, other men will. You're asking if all of this is just for one woman... well, what if she thought that way? Assuming you're a monogamous person, why should she save her vagina for just one guy? Are you even worth it?

    • @Sonu-nv1gd
      @Sonu-nv1gd Před 11 měsíci

      @@tomatoisred6966 according to whatever we are listening from him our beauty doesn't matter for her only status, money , power do, and the point you loose all thess you become unattractive to her , and she starts finding other option , so there is no such things like love only mutual interests. Now i come to your point that it will be cheating , tell me you dont see other woman on social media and on roads while walking ? You have fantasies too , and you stop yourself because you are married now , then what is the use of gaining these knowledge when there is no unconditional love for us and if there is no one to love us unconditionally why shouldn't we enjoy our life to give treat to ourself for the struggles and bad phase we went through to become the provider.

  • @brianjamescunanan9820
    @brianjamescunanan9820 Před 11 měsíci

    Guys. Little help, please. I initiated the no contact rule to this girl I really like. We had sex and then somehow she became distant. So I initiated the NC RULE.. After 2 days she showed at work to say how am I doing. I think she just checking up on me and then at night she called me but I was unabled to answer. Until now we have no communication. Her birthday is coming. Should I make move or what?

    • @sentongoashraf5539
      @sentongoashraf5539 Před 11 měsíci +2

      For her birthday, do so and then re initiate the rule.

    • @Mordal1222
      @Mordal1222 Před 11 měsíci +4

      You shouldn't do anything special for her birthday if you don't think she considers you as a boyfriend.

    • @brianjamescunanan9820
      @brianjamescunanan9820 Před 10 měsíci

      @unlimitedhorizon2459 bro. I ended up giving flowers on her birthday. And she went to my room and slept with me. I guess NC rule works

    • @blkghostxx
      @blkghostxx Před 10 měsíci

      Sex was probably bad! Talk to other girls to get her attention and to raised her interest level up

  • @aelfredrex8354
    @aelfredrex8354 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You never take marriage on the first date. You take sex.

  • @kelvinoke6414
    @kelvinoke6414 Před 11 měsíci

    Then how should someone tell a woman he likes her

    • @tomatoisred6966
      @tomatoisred6966 Před 11 měsíci +6

      I guess the fact that you're spending time with her is supposed to talk for you.

    • @kelvinoke6414
      @kelvinoke6414 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@tomatoisred6966well, how will she tell if u are being nice or being romantic some can't tell... although from personal experience using the line "I like you" is a turnoff.... but at the end of the day there should be other ways to tell her, right?

    • @RealAliAbbas
      @RealAliAbbas Před 11 měsíci +3

      ​@@kelvinoke6414 As you already know saying "I like you" is a turn off, make sure you stay focused on your purpose and also be interesting and kind to her. When she'll feel secure enough to be around you and share every little detail of her life, she'll say "I like you" herself, and she'll know that you like her as well

    • @kelvinoke6414
      @kelvinoke6414 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@RealAliAbbas noted💯

    • @Sean-nl5ge
      @Sean-nl5ge Před 11 měsíci +3

      Lead with your actions

  • @tomatoisred6966
    @tomatoisred6966 Před 11 měsíci +6

    The question is.... will she be back after she pulled away if you did this?

    • @tomatoisred6966
      @tomatoisred6966 Před 11 měsíci +7

      ​@@leekeys2302 That doesn't answer the question, though. Caring or not caring won't make any difference. I liked her... I didn't chase. Won't ever... I'm just wondering if she'll be back... I guess that would depend on her level of interest in the first place.

    • @jclau77
      @jclau77 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@leekeys2302red pill stoic answer

    • @luciiza_2116
      @luciiza_2116 Před 11 měsíci +5

      @@tomatoisred6966 You've clearly missed the point, so no, she won't be back

    • @silvermine2033
      @silvermine2033 Před 11 měsíci +5

      @@tomatoisred6966 Women don't care how much we like them. There's absolutely no way of knowing if she will be back.

    • @tomatoisred6966
      @tomatoisred6966 Před 11 měsíci

      @@silvermine2033 Why don't they care? That's so weird. All they do is care about their appearances and their social status....so why won't they care?

  • @rubeshkumar748
    @rubeshkumar748 Před 11 měsíci

    First comment