She's Talking to Other Guys | How to Stand Out From Other Men | Are You a Disney Fantasist?
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This video explains what the best thing to do is if the girl you're seeing is talking to other guys. It also explains how you can use the situation to your advantage to raise your attraction level and become even more desirable in her eyes.
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Trust yourself and trust the process,
Chris Canwell - Jak na to + styl
Stand out from other men by not chasing her
damn true!!
I lose interest in men with low effort
@Not Convinced lol
@@amandasmith7043 but you think about him every time lol.
@@amandasmith7043 yea if they’re ugly
Stand out from other men by talking to other women. Let her own reflection teach her a lesson.
I strongly agree with this
If she asks, "who was that?" Quality backup! "Doc Love."
OKAY GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST
If you are in a relationship it's better to set boundaries.
If she breaks one, leave her.
But if you are dating someone
Then the chances are high that she will look for better options.
I was dating someone from tinder
And we met twice, every time we had dinner she used to turn off her data.
But as soon as she left and she booked an uber for herself and her phone literally hung because of the amount of messages she was getting from her phone. (Tinder/bumble)
It was a mind-opening scene for me.
She literally requested me to book an Uber for her.
At that time I realized that girls have more options than you think and if you are dating someone from tinder or bumble and you got into relationship with her, chances are high that she gonna use bumble and tinder again behind your back when your relationship gets boring.
So true
Keep dating, you’ll find something worth your time after awhile
I never knew the concept of mirroring every minute detail. The book changed my life for good. I Voluntarily remain mysterious nowadays and it works wonders.
how?
@@donpablo2194 read the book
Which book?
Very useful content. When beta tendencies sneak in i always watch some of your content to clear my mind and help me to fight them back. Great job and great reminder for men of all ages. You are an excellent strategist. Hehe
USEFUL CONTENT: GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST
The Beta is *STRONG* in us! He will not die, i need these videos daily to rewire my brain.
bro literally this morning my ex texted me after three weeks no contact, thought it’d take longer 😂
If you've been dating this person and investing in her, and she's still seeing other dudes, it's time to let her go. She's not respecting your value. Find someone who will.
From experience, the temporary pleasures we get from women are just a huge waste of energy and time. Focus on yourselves and what makes you happy fellas. Imagine how you would live your life if you honestly did not care about females. You'd be so driven.
You can’t. You’re born to procreate and ensure continuation of your genetic pool. You will be attracted to them. Thing is not to avoid them, but simply not have them become your focus.
Well said .
Don't commit to girls who are chatting to other men and exes
ALL girls/women chat with other men, as Christ just said. Men who think no women does that is living in a Disney fairy tale.
This is a fact
Women are hypergamous and are always looking for the best option. So one has to be the best option by increasing one’s value. Hint: there are generic values (financial,) and higher level (emotional control). Opt for the higher level to standout
@@barchetta575mstill valid, you don't commit
she can finally try, then you can tell her you may commit to a girl who A, B and C, never to a girl who X, Y and Z
Whenever I get nervous and suffer from anxiety...i watch our bro's video...it really helps to overcome my gf problems...she is very much cold on me...never msg by her own..and when i msg then gives reply after 4-5 hours..
Don't text her again first, even if it takes a month, you deserve better.
Leave her
Let a woman chase you 💯🤔💪
Chase your goals, purpose, hobbies, etc. I've been with my partner gf for 5 years minus 2. I had to walk away for 2 years to learn my lessons.
I let her do 90% of the text, calling and managing our relationship. If she stays or leaves that's her decision.
I'm focused on excellence in Fitness, Finance, Family 🎯
wMGTOW
Building a strong attachment and her liking you makes you standout and she makes it easier for you to get her and there's no jumping through hoops to win her over.Not chasing could work but it's not a guarantee.
Man! Your advice is always top notch! I’m glad I got your audio book! You have no idea how much you have helped men in relationships and marriage! I wish my dad would have heard you too, but he’s long gone sadly. He went to the grave never understanding my mom. Now I know how women think, thank you brother !
Is tough to love another human being, so is better we understand human nature first
Perfect timing, thank you Chris. Love your videos it changed the way I look completely keep it up bro 🙌😎
You videos have helped me a lot. I feel a difference within. I can observe the mistake I used to do earlier in other guys today. In one instance my good friend was complaining about her boyfriend and I realised that all your suggestion and comments were standing like a practical reality. And she was amazed by my suggestions, asked that from where have i got all these changes. But its our secret. Cannot risk disclosing it to girls
Thanks a lot for guiding Men to be more standalone .
Watching this video and I just finished watching your other video about relationship talk. Really set me straight thank you always love your videos
Hi Chris, i would like to say thank you because of your book, u change my dating life.
That guy is hooking up and casually seeing two girls at a time and also doesn't want those girls to talk to other guys and take him seriously. Heights of double standards!
Great advice as always, Chris. Remember your videos 5 years ago. You look better today bro. And more calm and composed.
One of the best Datting advice OMG your a ultra legend bro 😍
When you have this knowledge and let it really sink in, you will be the stand out guy. I adopted a new mind set after my divorce and it is paying off massively.
😂😂😂you make me happy Chris that's why I can't stop watching your videos
From Mombasa Kenya
This video hits different!!
Best Video of Month..
2:15 dead😂😂😂😂
Ahahahah had water in my mouth, screen eliminated
ikr
@@cratusg 🤣
I just love this channel
He is hooking up with two women at the same time and complaining about them talking to other men? What?
Great observation...smart one Bro...👌
So what? We men can afford to do that... doesn't matter if you are an alpha beta or sigma. At the end a MAN ALWAYS WINS IF ONLY HE CAN BE A MAN!
I think he might be paranoid. How does he know it's other guys? Maybe it's her mom.
I needed this today
Hi Chris love your content been follow you for the last 4 years bro
Great Video!!
Timely...Came across you by a chance...no mistake worth it.
Right video right time
Perfect timeing my man!
Remember orbiting beta males are not ur competition
This is dating in this day's we need to accept it's reality
Great video
I used to be a fantasist. Wasted 15 years of my life.
Lots of us were. Better to learn the lesson late than never. I know guys who just won't see reality.
Excellence response. Excellence advice💯
Time machine to 1920s😭😭😂😂
Thanx Chris I am facing a same problem with my gf I had a fight now she is talking to another Man on the phone now I will follow u said hope she will be back..
Thank you
Disney fantasist haha...love you brother
from my experience yes if a girl is dating other guys not a problem just know that she is already conditioning talking to other guys while talking to you at the same time. Meaning that even if you date her in a LTR just be ready that when stuff hits the fan she will A. Have a line of dudes already. She will still have those same guys in her contacts when dating you even if she stopped engaging with them she will re-engage and they will be waiting. or B. Have the ability to move on super fast and be less willing to work things out. C. She will be keen to still flirting with men but not pursuing. She might then call them a "friend" add them to social media but doesnt go past that. Hes a back up. I have seen this personally when i got into a LTR with women like this. The best type is a woman who may know multiple guys but only dates one at a time then weeds them out if shes not feeling it and moves onto the next. These woman are usually loyal af
Hey Sir, So my girl and I had fight, then we settled out we had great conversation yesterday but today after she called me, she is coming back from college, she is acting very cold, no message or call, seen my messages but no reply, would love to know your suggestions
HEY BUD. I NEED YOUR HELP AND ADVICE. I FEEL HOPELESS TO BE HONEST. CAN YOU HELP? If so how do i get in contact with you
Chris! You're looking kinda swole my dude! Looking great
At 2:17, I had to replay that multiple times. You are seriously the best. If you're ever out in So Cal, let me know. Happy to take you out man!!!
What is difference being in alpha and Sigma? Which is good?
The way you said blowing up her phone eh eh eh eh😂😂😂
Hello
U are the best
Yeah sometimes, the other guy who she is talking to her is male enough and dont Chase her. So what you have to do, its become better, its the only way, you need to be better in all the ways possible, and thats it.
So whoever comunicates the least wins the girl? I fucking hate modern times
Text ,Talk and call other girls right in front of her.... if she leaves you, GOOD!!!!
Yes but say she enjoys the guy blowing her phone up because she is use to you as a boyfriend so what if he is more exciting to talk to because you and your girlfriends texts are just basic now how do you change this if so ???
His talking to other girls at the same time? So what’s the problem? They are not in a serious relationship
Mine is talking to other guy in tiktok for youtube video content they are live while talking its like a PRANK CALL... is it okay or should i stop her from doing that? Hope someone answer... appreciate alot im really need advice for this one
It's alright but if she's doing it all day ignoring u then u have to be that alpha.
What if every guy she talks to sees this video? Then what
Is it a good idea to scold my Girlfriend for her mistake so that she can realise it....
I'm..neither 🙌
alpha won't deal with it ... he'll say clearly that this behavior bothers him and he'll end it. Is that clear ?? It will be overlooked by the weak
@Nina Thank you for that honesty
He wont be bothered by it cause he got 40 other women.
Just be single
😂
Pump n Dump
How will this work if you and your ex are just rekindling. I’ve caused a lot of pain in my relationship. To the point that I pushed her away. I made her so tough and angry towards me with lots of walls. She really loved me at point she was head over hills. I almost lost her and that made me straighten up in the relationship because I realized how much I cared. But now it’s like she doesn’t care she says it’s hard for her to commit to me even tho we still do couple like things and activities she says she needs to see this side of me on a more consistent basis. All while talking to other Guys and keeping her options open. I’m in a scenario. How do I deal with this ?
You know what a woman says she wants and what she needs are two different things right? If you act like she wants you to act, she will lose respect for you and thus attraction. If she’s threatening to leave, agree with her and amplify. Walk away, focus on yourself and she will come back with more respect and attraction.
i’m in this exact situation now, hope you’ve made some progress brother
2:17 😂
💯
2:17 as chris said...dont blow up the phone control ur emotions.. uninstall that messaging app ...
Lol. " Both my girlfriends are seeing other guys too idk why "
Every girl is like that
We talk to other guys because most men on dating apps aren’t looking for a real relationship, we ARE. So we are looking for a guy that actually wants her and only her, it’s how we weed the bad ones by dating other men and picking the one who is fully committed. If you want a woman to only date you then tell her you want to commit not hard 🙄
How do you expect a decent man to commit to you if you’re playing the field 👾
@@DevelopAttraction easy if he says I’m looking for a LT relationship commitment and only dating you then I only date him but the reality is that’s not the case 🙂, many many do not want LT or a commitment or a relationship and I’m a sweet girl next door type of gal and educated with stable career. It’s just many guys are into hook up culture you see it in their profiles. Sad times
@@nataliev.149holy shit I found you..a unicorn
U give good advice but change your shirt
Should I text her often? we never meet
No
👍🏻💯
Chris, when you start dating someone and she stops replying, do you pull away too or write her again in a few days/weeks?
She could be busy or has lost interrest
pull away and let her come back to you
If she really loves you she will always find time for you bro
Follow Abundance Mindset
His also seeing other girls so she can also see other guys..
Ain't nothing wrong with that if she is talking to other guys
Hey Chris! Does no contact work on best friend. She liked me but when I proposed her she said she was not ready. I begged and pleaded but I'm in no contact from past 2 months.
Move on and work on yourself
If she was really into you she would have said yes regardless of what is going on in her life with no excuses. You said you begged and pleaded, BIG MISTAKE. Talk to other girls, increase your smv mate.
@@TheHustler47 See, the problem is she was very much interested in me. We have shared many things together. She was chasing me. I miss my best friend honestly.
About me, I would say I do have good physique, I am a musician and also work in a good company with good earnings. I really work hard. I would say I have everything but her and I can get other girls easily but not her. I specifically need her brother. Please try to understand. Thanks for your advice :) but I simply don't wanna move on and I don't wanna contact her too. I'm just waiting for her to reach out. Sorry, if I sounded rude.
@@kartikflute she WAS interested in you. Move on.
@@kartikflute listen buddy.. the best way to get a girl is moving on and Don't look back.
If she really cares about you and your feelings then in first place never done this like i am not ready bla bla.
I know it's very difficult thing for a guy who fall for a girl to stop talking to her and even focusing on work get harder in these days.
Bro listen it's a win win situation.
If she really cares about you you'll get her today or tomorrow if she's is not into you that much you'll get what you deserve mean a girl worth your time and efforts.
Just work on yourself and get some hobbies. Take photos , travel and try to double your earning figs.
Bro is getting jacked lately
U r god
i will tell you how to stand out from other men. ready?
Leaveeeeee, cut her off
go away let them have her.
don’t compete with no one ☝️ don’t try and double down simpin even harder.
dump her to the streets, have some damn self respect.
I did this, I know women talk to other men but still, when she said that she was, it still cut me a bit. I have never had that experience so even though my head knew, my heart still wasn’t ready for it.
But anyways, when she said it I asked “then we’re do we stand” and then she said I’m unsure about you and I see you more as a friend. Then I just said “I’m not looking for friendship and I’m cutting you out because there’s no point having you around”
Removed ber from all social media and blocked her too. I knew she was trying to keep me in her orbit. I did message a few days later, not to chase but to clarify something she said that night. After she answered I just said thanks bye moreorless
@@WYJAFAK2 are u on insta? If yes please share me ur id
Beat the crap out of em.
Same horseshit everyone is told. She wants attention. If you ignore her, she will forget you.
Wayda go coach!
Meanwhile he's dating 2 women at once.😂
If she's talking to other men....get rid. Simple.
This video talks about a fictitious desperate man…….poor him.
Talk to other women: ....European is best ...
Or un) Americanized Spanish girl's.....
In closure " if your girlfriend/wife is texting outhr men/ simps.. dump her now!!!
Stop wasting time...
Hypocrisy. Ok for dude to juggle two women and expect them to focus only on him. Hilarious double standard
nothing works. no one can teach you actually 😂😂
there is only one chance in your life with one girl. if u are wise enough to realise, the girl is urs
Enlight us please
@@tomgecko7727 I mean there comes a time in friendship or relationship where you should realise and take a solid stand or decision with her. If you fail to identify that chance or do any mistake then you will loose girl
If she talks with other men? N E X T
As long she doesnt earn income with SM, Delete it.
No Time for Bull-$h!!t