Colleague Hitting on Your Girlfriend | Dealing with Beta Male Orbiters and Handling Jealousy
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- čas přidán 5. 01. 2021
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This video will show you the best way to deal with jealousy when your girl tells you that someone else likes her, is hitting on her, or trying to make a move on her. There will always be beta male orbiters around, knowing how to deal with this situation the right way sets you apart from 99% of men out there.
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A girl at my job I was flirting and hanging out with for months turned out to have boyfriend the whole time. I immediately stopped interacting with her with anything outside of work! Many times girls hide the fact they have a boyfriend for free compliments and attention from other guys, it’s not always the guy’s fault.
@@crazymike1706 No I wasn’t buying her stuff, and I wasn’t planning to thankfully. Never buy a girl gifts, or even pay for their lunch if she’s not your gf!
free drinks?
@@crazymike1706 the problem was all the time I wasted
She used you bro. Move on . Played you for attention
Few years ago I used to be a married asses magnet without even knowing it.
I’m glad to see the man himself!
This guy lost this girl's loyalty the second she allowed herself to be put in a position to be intimately flirted with by having drinks with this guy, are you kidding me? Dump her and move on!
It's just as much her fault. Getting drinks with some guy after work... Disrespectful.
If he was doing that to his gf, she'd lose her mind.
honestly if she does that to me, i would leave her
@@luckygirl1561 and that's exactly what every guy should do in a situation like that. 👏🏻
..but she wouldn't be doing it if the guy she was with was high value. His email reeks of beta male
@@MMA-CLIPS2 stop blaming slut behaviour on men
When she said, "I can't stop thinking about him," I would say, "Well good luck with him. See ya."
She belongs to the streets!
If she’s your actual girlfriend just leave in this situation. She’s too far gone. Leaving is the only thing you can do at this point to show you have value.
Dont underdtand why what u said was not conveyed in this video ?
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If I catched her that she 'spoke very close things' to a coworker. But didn't really find evidence about sex or physical intimacy. Should I leave? She says she regrets it... But the damage Is already done
you really have to stay calm and be confident in situations like that, never get angry and upset
and wtf then?
She went out with that guy to get drinks which is pretty disrespectful . Only simps will tolerate some like that
It’s a lose lose
and what?
And then let them marry after that?
I never understand why guys hit on girls that are taken. Ain't nothing cool about that
Ever heard of monkey branching?
Its to show you they could win your girl over. I typically see this with guys who already envy or are jealous of me
Because they can. And most of the time she invites it.
Even with food and water removed indefinitely, the human female can survive on attention alone lol that's just science 😂
Because married and taken women/men are very attractive due to pre-selection. In psychology, pre-selection means social proofing. In other words, we humans are more interested in those people who other people wanted.
Because girls who are low value are single. And guy thats cute attractive nice and got it going on is not single. Its just has she found the hypergamy upgrade yet
The real concern here is that she said she can't get him out of her head. That's a no go. I wouldn't waste my time fighting for a girl who didn't know if she wanted me. Her interest is clearly low, and boyfriend is definitely beta, as is the orbiter. She for the streets. Period.
learn to live alone
abundance mindset
She's already decided to leave that relationship: she can never respect him now.
If she's telling you about the othrr guy hitting on her, you don't have to worry. She's just letting you know other guys want her and she's testing you. It's when you find out and she didn't tell you anything about the other guy, that you need to worry
I'm on the last category. Now what? She swears she only loves me. But is it too late?
A confident alpha man doesn’t need woman’s validation.If she said there is a guy want to chase or seduce her,just ignore her and flirt the other girls.Pre-selection is the best attraction to the woman.And they will fall our jealously trap finally.
Ah this handsome man posted a necessary content again. Thankful.
Im sorry, but i can only agree 😁
Bro a women who is into you will never be stolen from you .Lets fact check here no one can be stolen unless they are willing to go . This brother has to avoid showing any signs of jelousy cause it shows low confidence which is a turn off to women. He should be proud of himself whether she goes or stays . And no women is worth chasing around . IF SHE LEAVES YOU FOR ANOTHER DUDE THEN GOOD RIDDANCE YOU DONT NEED THAT NEGATIVE ENERGY IN YOUR LIFE , RATHER SELFINVEST . If a women knows she can punish you with jelousy just know that she will use it over and over again.
But how should you react when she's disrespecting you by going out for drinks with a guy who showed interest in her? You just allow her to do this, allow her to go on dates with other men while with you? It's always been a tough situation for me. Because you don't want to get jealous otherwise you're only raising the other guys value and lowering yours. But if you do nothing then you're just asking to be disrespected again. She might even try to push your buttons some more to get you to react.
@@k4ir0s Its pretty simple dump her, she already knows you are in a committed relationship with her and doing this is only causing a breach of trust
I've dealt with many women in the past who try to keep their options open and flirts with other guys, and the most important thing I learned from those experiences is not to give them any form of reaction and continue to move forward with your life without them. Do not get angry or seek revenge. Remain calm and composed.
How can any man take a woman seriously and think about falling in love or marrying her when women do shit like this?
For everyone out there, following Chris’ advice changed my life. Reading his book: Atomic attraction is one of the best things you can do. He’s one of the few people posting that knows what’s he’s talking about.
Is it possible to get a hard copy for good prices online?
@@Frebleify get the kindle bro.... If you can't get the hard copy... Invest little money.... I have read other books but his book gave examples and scientific evidence... It is the best dating book
@@johndiengdoh4332 Yes, I tried to download the pdf from web-site but it's only 20 pages? Am I missing something here
@@ifaisal2185 From his web-site. but its only for limited usage. I've bought it from amazon. it was about 15 or 20 USD
@@ifaisal2185 trust me, even the words are the same, you don't have to buy anything, but i'm not finished with the book yet, it's worth a buy, but you don't have to
If a girl is mentioning a guy constantly even in a bad way it means he's on her mind
Girls talk about me constantly behind my back because I ignore them and every other guy drools over them
They say " jared is such a jerk! I hate him!" Secretly they desire me and my attention
@@JaredDeinlein a girl in my class suddenly call me a playboy
@@greengarden7557 😂G...they call me Bad boy cuz IDGAF about them 😂💯
@@JaredDeinlein how do you know that they talk about you “constantly”?
It's funny how guys spend all this money on dating coaches and women literally spend $0 to fins out how to keep their man's interest. It's this simple: she wouldn't put herself in a situation to be hit on. I've learned 1 thing from girls who had no interest in me at all...they made sure they didn't give me any hope of getting with them one day...they made sure their feet wasn't pointed towards me...they made sure if we caught eye contact they looked away really quick...and if i was coming towards them they hurried up and started a conversation with someone near so i wouldn't approach
Damn straight. Lol seriously, I can tell when I’m in the presence of a girl who believes she has the best man for her. There is not even an ounce of indicators of interest in her.
So, what you trying to say? 😅😂🤣
True. But they can't do that to 10/10 boys. As we can't to 10 10 girls
Dude your videos made me a changed man..A stronger person..Keep doing what you're doing man, you deserve way more subs than what you got.
THE MAN IS BACK! We needed this video!!
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This is such a cool Format! Please stick to this, its much more personal
Great to see you again, Chris. You bring a lot value to men who want to better themselves.
Wise and helpful guidance like always. Keep up the awesome work Chris.
Loved this new video style of yours❤️
Quality tips as always
Face to face videos making a comeback in 2021
WOOOOOO! Happy New Year Chris! This year will be epic for you and your channel
Your posts always come when needed!
In this situation you set boundaries,you speak politely and calm that you don't like her hanging out with other men and that it is disrispectful and it can harm your relationship,she is going to throw a small tantrum on you but don't shake,9/10 times she will comply...if she doesn't just let her go.
Bingo. You remain calm and stand your ground. Don't get emotional or upset, but tell her clearly that this behaviour is not Ok, and you will simply leave if it happens again. Don't get drawn into an argument and don't compromise - there is no debate to be had. She can make whatever choice she wants to, but you will not be in a relationship with a woman who is actively procuring options with other men, end of story.
If she really values you, she WILL capitulate, but you have to mean it. You have to demonstrate that you will get up and walk to preserve your own values and dignity. If she wont play ball, then the relationship was already dead and there is nothing you could have done to save it. Cut her loose and move on - there are plenty of other women out there who are prepared to play by the rules.
Agreed. If you're dating an attractive woman she's going to get hit on. And she's going to test you sometimes to make sure you're strong. If you dump a woman every time she behaves like this then you'll never be with an attractive woman long-term. By acting jealous you only raise his value and show that you're threatened by him. By leaving her you only show that you're fragile. Setting a firm boundary the way to go, then to leave her if she continues to disrespect.
@@k4ir0snice brainstorm guys
Loving this new format!
Glad to see uploads again..
new setup
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Love the new setup chris!
Love the throwback format.
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Good to see you back chris...
Ps, Chris it's good to see you back in front the camera, the animation gets a bit much sometimes, but seeing you there gives your words a definite connection to the viewer.... Keep it up sir.
Love this style of telling the story keep it up
Best video in YEARS!
Really like this format of videos
After so long! welcome back!!
Hey, Chris! Good to see you, man
Hey what's up bro! Always liked the vids with you in them. I've been having much better luck in short term relationships. Only because that's all I want. Bro has been hitting the gym!
Looking good Chris... sharp and ready :)
Mann ..loved the new theme of the video 🔥
thanks chris you helped me a lot by last year ! hope you're fine and in great health
Lookin sharp Chris!
You are the boss man! Thank you so much for all the videos and the content. Loved youe book! Greeting from Saint Petersburg Russia (I'm Colombian tho)
Sir, thank you for your teaching. This video should be a curriculum for men's group across the world.
Amazing content keep it up
Hey Chris Happy New Year!
Such a great advice
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Lookin good chief !
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Thanks
Great video
Yes... More content please 🙌🙌🙌
That colleague is sus.
Missed this guy so much and love the Cartoon characters and articles
These face to face videos are great
happy to see the man who changed my life
I’d say the dude getting drinks with the Lady has already gotten some action.
Most likely. Chances are slim he was just hanging out with her
They were discussing the Trojan War over drinks.
This just happened to me. My girlfriend went and paid for dinner with a 'young and f..ked up' guy whom she said she was 'tempted' by. His brother had committed suicide and she felt sorry for him. Two and a half years of my life wasted. She swears nothing has happened but we all know where it's leading. Imagine if I did that to her? Completely disrespectful to me. I only discovered the dinner because I found a receipt on the floor of her house. I told her it's him or me and walked away five days ago going no contact. I hurt like hell but it has to be done.
So what happened
So what happened?
@@thegreatman3649so what happened?
u look great man!!!
Hope one day i'll have a chance to meet this guy and have a very fruitful conversation. Amazing guy!
I really love this topic. As i have a 8 year relationship with my girl, i recently feel she is attracted to one of her workmates. And keeps on telling me stories about that guys which really is a achiever. And one time i call her in phone i heard them talking to each other and even told me that i bother them. I can relate the feeling of what you are describing, Chris. BTW thanks for your book atomic attraction i still keep on learning women psychology.
did you dump her?
Yeah, she would be gone. See ya!
What happened?
What happened? Did you guys break up or she stopped talking to him?
She can’t get Him off her mind and you’re her man ... she needs to go
Right. I’ll be like. Bye bitch!
I can almost guarantee you that the dude that she “can’t get off her mind” is oofy doofy. Girls have horrible taste in men.
Lookin good!
Great question
Ayyy! Ur showing ur face again!
Yes the workmate might be a beta male for admitting his feelings but the boyfriend was just as much a beta male for begging her to stay . Spin plates , have more options, when she said she's meeting her workmate for drinks you should of said you wont except that and you done with her.
Yeah, this girl has to choose between the better of two thirsty Betas now - lucky her!
indifference is the key
Chris is fire 🔥🔥🔥
Love the Art work - who is it if you don't mind?
I would just laugh this shit off 🤣🤣and told her to go be with him..plenty of shopping carts in the ocean👍
So sad i was kind of beta orbiter (like the same girls for years) back in the college. I was friendzoned. Never again
You are a master of attraction...!
Hey Chris looking handsome !
Love this truth
Great video... I think we all succumb to jealousy & this is a great reminder to change your frame.
The other guy it’s triggering her feelings. She wants the excitement again
Go on the streets girl
Atomic attraction book is the best book..... It has examples and scientific evidence too
Please respond to the guys who can't stop commenting about how good u look 🤣 But anyway, thanks for your wonderful work. Cartoons were brilliant too, but maybe it's a matter of new season, new strategies!
Sir,thank you so much for advices.Your videos on no contact is very working and helpful.keep posting videos on the channel.
It's disrespectful for her to be dating him & going out after work with another guy. Mirror her & start dating other women. Have them blow up your phone when you're sitting on the couch or in bed with your girl. See how fast she turns her shit around, Problem solved!
If this doesn't solidify the fact that relationships aren't worth it, I don't know what will
Yeah, fall in love with a woman meanwhile she is talking to other guys at work, on social media, at the grocery store who knows!?
DAMN IT CHRIS this is coincidentally so relate to me.. i was dating girl in this 9 months more but dont wanna commitment (its kinda like fwb but she confess that she loved me).
she previously always force me to get in relatonship but i still on my principle. i was suggesting her to look for another guy if she want relationship. its all okay first, second but when the third guy i was feeling like she pulls away and F*CK suddenly i got jealous and act needy...
even 1day before she block me she still said that she dont wanna lose me tho. at least i didnt beg and plead to her..
I have had this before. Never forgot it, I knew it was her future demise and that it was.
I have sent you my question Sir! Please do check that.👍🏻
Yeay , facecam is back
@chris canwell you have the best information on the internet hands down!! And a degree to back it as well as experience!! I have bought both of your books! I hope you never stop helping men and putting these videos out! I am going to email you about some coaching as well! In a world full of misinformation from people who don’t have a degree and legit knowledge in this field, it is so priceless to have someone like you to help the majority of men who are completely lost!! so genuinely Thank you again for everything!!!
When’s the second book dropping?
Jealousy trap? Any woman that would do that to me it would be an instant turn off.
If she is setting up this kind of scenario with male colleagues then say Bye baby. Life is too short and you have too much to achieve.
HEY CHRIS, COULD YOU MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT A SITUATION WHEN YOU ARE ON A DATE WITH A GIRL, AND THEN ANOTHER GUY APPROACH HER AND START FLIRTING IN FRONT OF YOU???? How can I handle this situation. Greetings from Mexico.
If there is beta male orbitors hitting on your girl don't get mad or jealous is the wors you can do just stay calm and relax
Bro , c''mon ...I think the most beta action a man can do is to do this : go to the gym , do bussines and all other stuff just for girl who dont care about him .If she loves and care about you she will go for date with this man only once because she will think is about job , nothing else. But if she do this for real like this one in the video ... get rid of her , she doesnt deserve you and she doesnt love you , because after this man exposed his feelings she have to leave it and dont even talk with him anymore .She will know that there is her lovely man who is waiting for at home . Dudes we are not a robots we cant hide our feelings ... For me this is the most alpha action a man can do . I cant do all of this stuff just for a girl that go out with other mans . Peace!
You should have more subscribers dude
You look diffferent..in a good way
At this point, i no longer do traditional monogamy. Ive realize a long time ago, women are biological design to leave a man. When you lived with a woman for years, her brain will begin to see you as a family member. So I just do open relationships and i only see her once a week. That way, I keep attraction high and prolong the relationship.