You Must NEVER Chase a Woman After You've Slept with Her
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- čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
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You must NEVER chase a woman, especially after you have already had sex with her. She must come to you, regardless of whether she likes it or not-it has to be that way for her to see you as the higher value person in the relationship who is more masculine.
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Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, I don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
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My brother, the marriage was not beautiful....otherwise it would have lasted for ever...that's the harsh truth. I know it hurts we all have been there...That's the bad part...
The good part is, if you follow the right steps, you could a) reattract her and/or b) better yourself and attract a BETTER woman....
Trust the process....I'm not lying...I have achieved a) and b)
Take care
Man up it’s over
So so true. Just learned this the hard way
Made the same error late last year ( and everything went south) but did the complete opposite which Chris spoke about in this video just the other day with someone else and suprsingly the results are mind blowing. Chris knows his stuff.
If you slept with them and don’t want it anymore chase her so she think it her idea to end it
Great idea
Solid as always
Beautiful, Chris! 🔥
Can you make a video on how woman fall in love differently than men do?
Thank you as always Sifu
Coach, many men will misunderstand your words,, I think it's better to make it clear that after sex you can still check up on her the next day and show her a sign of that you care about her .. let her come to you but don't pull back after sex cause if you pull back the next day after sex she will feel like you only used her body and that's all what you wanted and all chasing you did was only for one ride and that will be a turn off for her
The point is not to chase after sex. Messaging is not chasing.
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@@DevelopAttractionwhat’s defined as chasing, can you clarify by any chance?
@@IamEmmettcommon sense, check in after a significant event like sex to maintain the connection but then wait for her to text and also wait to text her back when she does. Classic push pull. A lot of guys think merely approaching is chasing but they are coping or just not getting it.
If you text her after seх she will always be waiting you to text her . I Did this mistake better don't text her let her go . if she really into you she will text you trust me
Wow! This never even occurred to me. Thank you.
Very true.
Thanks a lot.
Hii Christopher I just love your book atomic attraction can you recommend a few more books just like yours thanks ❤
Love this video... from Ghana Africa
Pulluppp, great video 🔥🔥
Now I know, after the break up. Will remember next time
Give the woman space to chase by going ghost on her for time after spending time with her, she will wonder where is this man? he doesn't answer my messages doesn't answer my calls, she'll become anxious and before you know it she's infactuated
Same here !!!
Great video. You should make a video like this for the married men that may be going through the same issues.. keep up the great work. God bless 🙌 🙏
Hey man, how does one recover from this mistake? 😊 Thank you for tage video
no contact
All these girls say the same story when they go out with you and sex happen at first night 😂. They send you a bible saying that she does not do this with everyone.
Need a damn strategy for everything! No one is genuine💯
And what if I slept with her on the first date and now she feels it was "bad" and despite I tried to calm the situation, still a bit weird? Just walk away?
I have watched almost all of your videos related to no-contact. But I had one question. What if she left me because I took her for granted. Broke her trust ? Should I continue no-contact ? Or should I contact her sometime and checkup on her to make her feel like I can work things out and am a changed man. ?
Do no contact
Do no contact forever
Bro, they don't actually leave because you take them for granted. If anything, she's trying to get you to chase either as a test or to re-gain leverage in the relationship. If you chase or check in, you failed. Do not listen to your gut.
Developing attraction, DAWKOM!
How do you keep a relationship ?
You don't. That's her job. You make her earn it. If you're focused on the relationship, you've lost.
Got the book. What happens if she's annoyed she says she making more effort and being the one chasing. Guess you can say "I understand that" then keep focusing more on the mission.
What if u haven’t slept with the girl can u do no contact
You can but it's nowhere near as effective. However, if she's rebuffed your push for intimacy more than a couple of times, you need to go no contact and move on unless she reaches out first.
Hey Chris what should I do because I have a crush on someone and she really likes and we are holding hands so should I ask my crush out
Just ask her out what are you waiting for?
@@mystykalmn4434 but do you think she will say yes
@@user-zx6xg2wr6qit doesn't matter. Take your chances.
If she says yes then good for you
If she says no then also its good for you. Move on to the next one or get a hobby for yourself
@@user-zx6xg2wr6q don't expect her to say yes but if she say yes it's okay and if she says no it's a loss keep it moving
@@amanqz901 yup
Lol I made the same mistake 😂,damn
Hey she reached out me after 2 months no contact and her missed call was 6 seconds should I contact her back?
No she will say it was a wrong call, and you will look desperate.
Dont
she won't ever respect a fall back guy don't waste your time
Focus on yourself purpose not women
Long distance relationship guidance..if you can
screw LDR .. don't waste your time bro. get out of you emotions suite and get back to real life .. go date girls in real life and enjoy
got this married women who give criticism & negative feedback behind my back with my HR boss. she keep complaining how i behave in work, while its totally normal to me since i dont hurt anyone. why is it she take things too personal with me? what does it mean? does she want something for me or does she expecting smtg for me ?
I don't even chase them before we slept
The philosophy is not to heavly rely on relationship, laying the paste first then negate the contact. I'm learning this as to not pursue the relationship through insecurties.
In REBT we say 'I'd stronly prefer to have someone in my life but I don't have to'- a desire not a demand is the winning formula.
I did different mistake, didn't escalate, it looked like i was hesitiating and she said we are going back and i didn't stop her but i think she wanted to push me into escalation but because she started giving so much ressistance and being bitchy that i lost my chance and after that she ignored me for a long time and lost respect, after me pulling away from her at the same time and working on myself hard she regained respect and attraction to a high degree but i just can't bring myself to chase her again.
You're not suppose to chase, thats her job if she likes you, bruh
If she's reaching out to you, tell her to come over to your house. Don't meet her out anywhere and don't give a shit if she turns you down. Just 2 - 3 short texts. Don't invest too much time chatting to her on the phone. Eventually she will cave and you'll have your chance to redeem yourself, with hardly any effort on your part. If she turns you down, who cares. You already have other options lined up.
@@ritwit80 Thank you, i do have other options but i didn't want to be a dick to her which honestly was a mistake i should've went with other girls but i won't make the same mistake twice, once we met she was acting weird though, she took my words out of context like i was hitting on her and she "was turning me down" but i saw visible signs of attraction, i think she is trying to get me to pursue her again, i was just friendly though so she probably is confused a bit do i still like her.
@@oscargonza2748 She was chasing me but after that failed escalation attempt she stopped and she was avoiding me and i saw visible signs of lost respect but she still was chasing away other girls from me and was trying to make me jelous.
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none has to chase anyone ,,this is my opinion
I slept with a girl one night stand we exchanged numbers. One day later I texted her saying I want to continue seeing her and she agreed and we set up date for the next week. You do have to be a bit aggressive in the beginning in my opinion. You’re the man, one time sex is not enough for her to chase you, maybe 2 to 4 times.
Yeah, I slept with a girl January 2022, we didn’t stay in touch. Back in her area recently I hit her up . She replies instantly, saying I can come over whenever I want.
I think it's good to shoot a message off saying it was a nice night and you'd like to see her again, shows interest but then you could leave it up to her to say when and if she is free.
i wanna add something to your words ,, some girls the next day if you don't text her or check up on her or care about her ,, they will feel like you just used them for sex and that's all what you want .. that will be a turn off for them
at the end of the day it depends on the society in western society it's okay but in asian and middle eastern if you have sex with a girl and the next day you pull back she will feel ashamed because she slept with you and that will piss her off too much
@@abdallahelhajj9527 agreed
ye but if she even sent you text like it was fun and you reply ye was we could do it again and she ghosts you should too
How about we respect God and each other and not have sex before marriage? Seek God first, then the rest, God's will for our lives, will unfold. I understand and appreciate your advice, but I believe all of it will eventually unravel without a solid Biblical framework.
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A man must hunt a woman, not chase. After getting her, she must hunt him. She must pursue the man and she must lead the idea of a relationship.
Agreed, she will do most of investing if she finds you worthy of chasing