13 SUBTLE SIGNS SHE’S WAITING FOR YOU TO MAKE A MOVE 😍 (HOW TO KNOW IF SHE LIKES YOU FAST!)

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  • 13 SUBTLE SIGNS SHE’S WAITING FOR YOU TO MAKE A MOVE 😍 (HOW TO KNOW IF SHE LIKES YOU FAST!) // If you know the body language signs she likes you then you will be able to know when to make a move. One of the biggest secrets of how to talk to girls and how to approach girls is to understand how to know if she likes you and the signs she wants you to make a move. Not only will you learn signs a girl likes you but you’ll also learn how to make a move successfully instead of awkwardly. This is huge if you want to keep her attracted to you, right? Let’s get started with 13 Subtle Signs She’s Waiting For You To Make A Move (How To Know If She Likes You Fast)!
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  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +174

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    • @supermichaelssecondchannel4342
      @supermichaelssecondchannel4342 Před 3 lety +8

      What if she’s already in a relationship?

    • @wayneclifford8641
      @wayneclifford8641 Před 3 lety +3

      Signs she likes you

    • @wayneclifford8641
      @wayneclifford8641 Před 3 lety +9

      I think it's okay for women to be bold and just grab the guy and say come on

    • @wayneclifford8641
      @wayneclifford8641 Před 3 lety +7

      It would be wonderful if more women would just look at the guy that they want to say hey you're the one I want then they can talk

    • @wayneclifford8641
      @wayneclifford8641 Před 3 lety +3

      Well how do you get the phone numbers and stuff if you don't have any way to contact somebody

  • @RandomVideos-kn3pf
    @RandomVideos-kn3pf Před 2 lety +2109

    Stop asking yourself questions like " do I deserve her?" ask yourself questions like "does she deserve me?"

    • @knightlerk6042
      @knightlerk6042 Před 2 lety +28

      I do deserve her we started as pen pals ty I needed that

    • @FF-bj4nq
      @FF-bj4nq Před 2 lety +80

      No, you shouldn't ask either of these questions. Let me show you why
      Does she deserve me? No. Then don't chase her. In fact don't waste time interact with her at all.
      Does she deserve me? Yes. I'm the angel here to save her from her pathetic life, I will show her why she deserves me. Wait, why did she just say I'm creepy?
      See, this won't get you anywhere. You will end up getting a girl you don't like, or single forever

    • @mcfly9188
      @mcfly9188 Před 2 lety +3

      OOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! 🔥

    • @charles2241
      @charles2241 Před 2 lety +30

      That's just some form of humility, replaced with arrogance.

    • @luthermcgee3767
      @luthermcgee3767 Před 2 lety +4

      AGREED.

  • @joee7626
    @joee7626 Před rokem +204

    Best sign ever... she tells you and doesn't play coy little games.

    • @chrisbee9643
      @chrisbee9643 Před rokem

      EXACTLY!!! Women who play those kind of games are always skanks or whores...

    • @chrisbee9643
      @chrisbee9643 Před rokem

      @@piotrwaniek that is no problem. Other than women in your life. :)
      Just stop simping hoes. :)

    • @chrisbee9643
      @chrisbee9643 Před rokem

      @@piotrwaniek sure I will. I am done with this crap, that are relationships... 50 bucks, no drama, no kids, no money gone, no lies, no fake living. Plus the only job I know, they are really good at.
      There sure will never ever be another woman, who will enter my private life. Those 5 I had, were a lesson. And what an expensive one. Not only moneywise.
      I dont take part in this game anymore. :)
      Have a heart for hookers. :)

    • @jakemandude7974
      @jakemandude7974 Před rokem +2

      Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!

    • @sixstringhans-tone5574
      @sixstringhans-tone5574 Před rokem +3

      @@jakemandude7974 what? The video is talkin about men an women wanting to be together. An the first thing you comment is, Jesus loves you Matthew? An that to me is a totally different kinda love. Unless I’m missing something? Or that’s your interpretation of what’s being said in the Bible? Or it’s on purpose? Or you just happened for some crazy reason, you just mistakenly made the wrong comment on the wrong video…..😮😂

  • @nguyenhuy6735
    @nguyenhuy6735 Před rokem +193

    1.her feet pointed at you
    2.she mentions she have free time
    3.she drop hint about what she enjoys doing
    4.she fixes clothes or jewelry around you
    5.she will find a way to touch you
    6.she finds a way to talk with you
    7. She plays with her jewelry
    8. She sit close to you
    9. She points her feet toward you
    10. She looks at you, she smile and look down

    • @michaelmcknight3639
      @michaelmcknight3639 Před rokem +15

      thanks for this, saves me watching the video... obviously the most effective of these strategies is pointing her feet at you

    • @terryslay1
      @terryslay1 Před rokem +3

      Everybody loves Cliff Notes!!!

    • @M_Ladd
      @M_Ladd Před rokem

      Yes, it means she want you to lick her toes.

    • @TheRogueSquid
      @TheRogueSquid Před rokem

      @@terryslay1 is he a singer?

    • @yroc2553
      @yroc2553 Před rokem +6

      11. Her feet are pointed your direction

  • @TheBanana93
    @TheBanana93 Před 2 lety +36

    The whole "Pursue her or she will feel bad" thing is what really annoys me. If you are flirting for ages and the guy doesn't make a move why don't you do it? Why does it have to fall onto men to do it? A lot of us don't want to be accused of harassment or face the embarrassment of being wrong about signs..

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety +2

      If you know how to read the signs you won't be wrong. These videos will help. czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html

    • @nigeldonaldson1647
      @nigeldonaldson1647 Před 4 měsíci

      Exactly right, AND apparently your a woman

    • @thomasshannon9662
      @thomasshannon9662 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I totally agree. I had a married woman at the gym give all the signs and reject me for a simple lunch. I'm 53 and still confused.

    • @nigeldonaldson1647
      @nigeldonaldson1647 Před 4 měsíci

      I think youve replied to the wrong commentator@@thomasshannon9662

    • @kimmorrison9169
      @kimmorrison9169 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@thomasshannon9662
      maybe bc shes married? I’d say she MAY have been giving you the signs of interest just to see if she could hook you into approaching her. ATTENTION & VALIDATION is a huge deal for women.

  • @staypositive1010
    @staypositive1010 Před 2 lety +1289

    No.. the fear in making a move comes from the fact a lot of women take PLEASURE in rejecting men. They gain power from it. It's easy for women to say we want to be pursued because some don't understand the feeling of being DIRECTLY rejected. Most women don't recover from that.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety +222

      I'm so sorry to hear that's happened to you! It sounds like there have been a lot of toxic women in your life. Here are some videos that will help you identify that they are toxic sooner so you can avoid them czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Remember that toxic women use good guys while classy women love and respect good guys. The key is to know how to attract the classy women instead.

    • @staypositive1010
      @staypositive1010 Před 2 lety +122

      @@CoachMelannie somehow I truly believe you are genuine in your response. I appreciate you.

    • @sergioalmasy8722
      @sergioalmasy8722 Před 2 lety +73

      Would you want those sort of women around you?? I wouldn't. You dodged the bullet, mate.

    • @itsmetheman_7790
      @itsmetheman_7790 Před 2 lety +36

      @@sergioalmasy8722 you are correct!, this mate indeed dodged a missile. He needs to flip that feeling into joy for his second chance

    • @jacobgalvan3628
      @jacobgalvan3628 Před 2 lety +17

      I was going to post this exact statement bro! I'm here because this just happened after building the courage to approach. I felt the power shift when I got her number. She looked at me like "chase over".

  • @eloylopezcuriel
    @eloylopezcuriel Před 2 lety +258

    I read the title as she wants you to make a movie. I was thinking man that’s a lot of pressure.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety +19

      LOL! That would be a lot of pressure! Thanks for watching. 🙏

    • @paulokello5981
      @paulokello5981 Před 2 lety +4

      🤣

    • @skyejacques
      @skyejacques Před 2 lety +4

      Hahahaha 😂 but it could be fun if you're into documentaries!

    • @JohnScottMatheny
      @JohnScottMatheny Před 2 lety +4

      I DID TO LOL!!!!!

    • @jameswilliams7059
      @jameswilliams7059 Před 2 lety +6

      That's why every guy should just make a movie right after high school. Kind of like a thesis statement. If a woman ever wants you to make a movie, you'll already have your demo ready for her decide wether she really wants to invest 6 million dollars into your "Lord of the Rings 4" idea

  • @jaysonbarry4284
    @jaysonbarry4284 Před rokem +28

    "The signs are very subtle"..... "What are you doing this weekend? Wanna go to Chipotle with me??" If any guy misses this, he has bigger problems than trying to find a date. Also, this never happens.

    • @revenant4407
      @revenant4407 Před rokem

      If you eat chipotle then something is obviously wrong with you also.

  • @aaronparker8029
    @aaronparker8029 Před 2 lety +91

    She asked y its so hard to make a move. Well in this dating market there is a chance of not only getting rejected but some girls will make an event out of it by either trying to humiliate you or claim harassment when that isn't the case. It's to the point where we need to debate our safety if we decide we want to approach.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety +13

      Sadly some toxic women will do this. It's best to know how to attract high quality women!

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 Před rokem

      Totally agree with you 💯

    • @prof3ssor178
      @prof3ssor178 Před rokem +18

      @@CoachMelannie that's 95% of women these days... Toxic

    • @deuteroszephyer7059
      @deuteroszephyer7059 Před rokem +20

      Yeah, the first girl I ever tried to approach gave me obvious signals, then did the whole "HAHAHA like you ever had a chance" loudly humiliating me , then going back to her group of girlfriends and laughing it up.
      I was 20. fortunately a women asked me out a few years later or I doubt I would have ever tried again after that. at 30 I just gave it up, to many horrible women out playing games , games that hurt .

    • @chrisbee9643
      @chrisbee9643 Před rokem +2

      just dont approach anymore. :)

  • @cantstockrock
    @cantstockrock Před 3 lety +560

    The amount of missed opportunities that just jumped in my head 😭 Thank you for changing my future

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +34

      My pleasure! Thank you for watching. 🙏

    • @erikgification
      @erikgification Před 2 lety +5

      If someone else is interested in you and too cowardly to make a move that is not a missed opportunity. This isn't the 1950s. Well, maybe you missed the opportunity to watch re-runs of friends, babysit someone's cat, listen to them whine about their studies or day at work and meet their lovely family.

    • @chrisorr3919
      @chrisorr3919 Před 2 lety +20

      Its weird how its 2021 and girls will still rarely make a move.

    • @rflp7744
      @rflp7744 Před 2 lety +2

      Ik I missed Soo many opportunities that isn't making me sad.

    • @adipsous
      @adipsous Před 2 lety +4

      One just came to mind where she totally suggested this adult night at the Exploratorium (a science museum in San Francisco) as a neat thing to do. She was nervous and giggly around me. Even fussed with her hair. She was absolutely gorgeous, petite, perfect. But young. I was probably twenty-five years older than her. I felt it would be creepy to ask if she wanted to go together. She even came to my work when she was leaving her job near where I worked to say bye. I'm such an idiot. So many of these I just have to laugh instead of cry.

  • @Privacy098
    @Privacy098 Před 3 lety +688

    If a girl text you first, I am 100℅ sure she is into you😂

    • @kg_1720
      @kg_1720 Před 3 lety +106

      They always do, business proposals 😂

    • @Privacy098
      @Privacy098 Před 3 lety +14

      @@beaubrashier7284 I'm not a fortuneteller, I can't say anything😂

    • @michaelrichards5340
      @michaelrichards5340 Před 3 lety +12

      Well... What do I do with one that asked me for my number

    • @Privacy098
      @Privacy098 Před 3 lety +20

      @@michaelrichards5340 Give her your number and you can always start a chitchat

    • @thequipseeker
      @thequipseeker Před 3 lety +110

      2 of them did that. Both of them tried to sell me Herbalife products and insurance.

  • @tydurden484
    @tydurden484 Před rokem +66

    I've been studying social dynamics for over 15 years and I'd say most, if not all of what she is saying is on point. I want to add something about the eye-contact thing. If a woman looks at you and then looks down, it is a sign of submission. If you see this, she's likely attracted to you. It's then your job as a man to figure out on a scale of one to 10 what level of attraction she's feeling and then calibrate your approach/interaction accordingly. If she looks to the side after making eye contact, that is a sign she is unsure about you. This puts her attraction for you in the 1-5 range. Again socially calibrate accordingly. If she looks up after making eye contact with you, she's not interested. She sees herself as above/better than you. Remember, women want to be with a man they perceive as better than them. This creator is generating some valuable material, but know that these are the very, very basics she's teaching. The rabbit hole goes much, much deeper.

    • @cherryfressh6188
      @cherryfressh6188 Před rokem

      O dear. Thing is that their social skills are often not really existent. Think little girl level.
      So your acting like a man as you put it could go nowhere.

    • @mohitsoni4938
      @mohitsoni4938 Před rokem

      Hope it will help me. Thank you.

    • @jakemandude7974
      @jakemandude7974 Před rokem +5

      Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!

    • @paolobenmore3504
      @paolobenmore3504 Před 10 měsíci +2

      To be frank, I think todays women are a different breed of head ache. I think i'll leave well alone. I do believe your right in what you state. Also all that good advice is good advice in the days of pre dating apps, dating apps have really done damage and made relationships disposable.

    • @paolobenmore3504
      @paolobenmore3504 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I had this a few times until I realised I dropped my wallet.

  • @stevenprice661
    @stevenprice661 Před 2 lety +3

    Bad thing is I only meet women where I work... I'm a manager at a fast food restaurant, yes I see 90% of these signs, all at once most of the time... but anytime I try to make a move it seems that I've misconstrued it all, or they just seem to want me to chase harder

  • @polskikret1777
    @polskikret1777 Před 2 lety +92

    Girl subtle signs
    Tell that she had a free time/laughs a lot/drops hints what she like to do
    My subtle signs
    Get drunk and confess to her by phone

  • @jrsands
    @jrsands Před 3 lety +144

    I was a repair tech & the way my girlfriend let me know she was interested when as I was working on her workstation she went to the water cooler, bent at the waist & looked back at me with a smile.

    • @clevelandwilliams5922
      @clevelandwilliams5922 Před 3 lety +13

      That’s how you do it

    • @pdswrld5200
      @pdswrld5200 Před 3 lety +2

      What should I do if she's touchy while talking to her & laughs at the same time

    • @clevelandwilliams5922
      @clevelandwilliams5922 Před 3 lety +6

      @@pdswrld5200 means she is nervous. Ask her out for drinks which will lead to dinner as conversation progresses

    • @roninhubbard9059
      @roninhubbard9059 Před 3 lety

      Mbn

    • @Saixjacket
      @Saixjacket Před 2 lety

      @@Kamadev888 I could see a lot of people having an issue with how you’re framing what you’re saying, but in essence when a woman is laughing at something that you’re saying, you could literally be saying some of the most disgusting things in the world and they will still find it charming in the moment.

  • @joegrande4848
    @joegrande4848 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Some women are just generally flirty. Flirting isnt always a way of interest. The other signs probably more fitting if she doesnt engadge with others the other signs.

  • @junivanofdragonia
    @junivanofdragonia Před 2 lety +8

    3:46 another part to this:
    *“She Mentions She Has Free Time.”*
    Even if she doesn’t have free time. If she mentions *“she doesn’t have free time,”* but *“she invites you to tag along,”* means she honestly doesn’t have free time, but she wants you to come along.
    If you reject it; then she will think you’re not interested.

  • @RetroCaptain
    @RetroCaptain Před 3 lety +135

    I learned over time, some girls give out barely any signs!

    • @pdswrld5200
      @pdswrld5200 Před 3 lety +1

      Those barely signs are enough

    • @Nyz1ro
      @Nyz1ro Před 3 lety +16

      Or maybe they don't give signs to you?

  • @rudyfranco1009
    @rudyfranco1009 Před 3 lety +84

    Still having butterflies after so many videos is a good thing. That is what gives you that spark and charisma! Just keep being you😍

  • @crazymothertrucker8193
    @crazymothertrucker8193 Před 2 lety +28

    Hey coach, if you want to know the signs for when a guy is interested in a girl since you said it was hard to know. I know.....if a guy looks and checks you out or approaches and engages with you no matter how confident or shy he may act means he's definitely interested. If he looks but doesn't walk up he could be very shy or think you are out of his league. So if he tries to say something to you at all, he's interested. That's it. You're welcome

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 Před rokem +1

      Defiantly bro

    • @tommac21
      @tommac21 Před rokem

      Please tell me you didn't call this man destroyer coach. I dont see a whistle around her neck. She so wrong in every matter on this subject

  • @dannysheain7968
    @dannysheain7968 Před 2 lety +1

    I feel like these are things I needed a long time ago. Now I'm watching this for the first time and already have my dream girl.

  • @leoonwuzu4522
    @leoonwuzu4522 Před 2 lety +35

    I like the way you smile, shake your body blinking your eyes and laughing always while making your points such women like you are always happy and hardly get annoyed.

  • @slayergaming8298
    @slayergaming8298 Před 3 lety +232

    Didn’t make a move the first night...but didn’t wanna come on tooo strong. She enjoys being around me and wants to chill again so I’ll definitely make the move next week! 😊

  • @Ninetails6o
    @Ninetails6o Před rokem +51

    I started falling for this one girl that I didn’t think I would end up liking till I started hanging around her with people and seeing how nice she is towards people.

    • @13ash_
      @13ash_ Před rokem +2

      So like what if the shoe was on the other foot

    • @franksangma5664
      @franksangma5664 Před rokem +1

      Same bro. We in the same page. Asked her out already?

    • @jakemandude7974
      @jakemandude7974 Před rokem

      Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!

    • @airtiger4577
      @airtiger4577 Před rokem +1

      Same goes for me. But, I think I fell for my crush the more time we spent together. After at least 4 weeks of hanging out with her, I got the courage to confess my feelings for her and she said she feels the same way. I then asked her out like 15 mins later after some awkward silence and she said "sure"

  • @robertallenmcdowell
    @robertallenmcdowell Před rokem

    I just found your channel and you have a voice that any man would want to make a move on. Please keep doing what you're doing and I'm listening.

  • @philipmurray4753
    @philipmurray4753 Před 3 lety +176

    Signs she likes you, I struggle to understand the difference between teasing or her being genuine.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +12

      That can be a bit tricky. Here are some videos that will help you. czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html God bless 🙏

    • @viharsarok
      @viharsarok Před 2 lety +8

      Simple: if you feel the need to ask this question she's either just teasing you or you wish she were.

    • @sugarnads
      @sugarnads Před 2 lety +13

      Shes flirting until you respond in kind then she was just having fun.
      They just like to fuq around with guys they arent interested in.
      When chad rolls up they aint flirting they just grab n go.

    • @bujindork
      @bujindork Před 2 lety +1

      This is true. In my experience if i had a girl into me she made it known, there was no flirting. Flirty girls just like to tease guys theyre not into because theyre not into them.

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 Před rokem

      So do i

  • @mr.yuk4858
    @mr.yuk4858 Před 3 lety +198

    I always figured that if I had to chase after a woman, she wasn't interested enough to begin with. Even when the women would flirt, they were just trying to manipulate me. Nowadays I just ignore them (flirting or not). They might not like it but tough crap. I realize now I'm much better off without them anyway.

    • @liamoreilly845
      @liamoreilly845 Před 3 lety +31

      Who hurt u

    • @jamesalexander6417
      @jamesalexander6417 Před 3 lety +7

      Truth!

    • @paulcolin9071
      @paulcolin9071 Před 2 lety +4

      She isn't interested enough to be worth it in those scenarios for me

    • @ddgryful
      @ddgryful Před 2 lety +49

      If she looks at you, then touches her hair, then stands on her toes and goes "whoop whoop whoop" while waving her arms in a counter clockwise motion...maybe she likes you. And she expects you to completely understand what she wants. If you don't "respond appropriately" she will think you hate her grandparents, and feel self conscious about her dog.

    • @mr.yuk4858
      @mr.yuk4858 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ddgryful 😂😂😂

  • @Malitubee
    @Malitubee Před 10 měsíci

    One thing I really like about you, is that you just seem so genuine ! I

  • @batty2259
    @batty2259 Před 2 lety +15

    All makes sense. I knew a lot of the basic and main things but there were a few new ones in this one.

  • @marksafe5463
    @marksafe5463 Před 2 lety +365

    Having a girl feel comfortable with you is key! Nobody talks about this enough for most guys to understand. You have to be a woman to understand instinctually. Most men don’t realize this because they don’t know what it’s like to be a woman.

    • @hanifaperez4062
      @hanifaperez4062 Před 2 lety +134

      bro of course we dont know what it's like to be a women 💀

    • @greasegreaze3279
      @greasegreaze3279 Před 2 lety +11

      Haha, Simp alert!

    • @frankcrawford416
      @frankcrawford416 Před 2 lety +63

      I think it would be insanity for a man to actually think like a woman. We can still know about them, but a man needs to think like a man, not a woman. If we thought like women, then there is no man left. We have to love ourselves as God intended.

    • @austinbdn11
      @austinbdn11 Před 2 lety +23

      Thats how I ended up in the friend zone

    • @shadowmoon3062
      @shadowmoon3062 Před 2 lety +2

      @@hanifaperez4062 lol

  • @Tobenatorr
    @Tobenatorr Před 2 lety +25

    The amount of opportunities that came to mind make me feel embarrassed that I missed them, with someone I have my eye on too. Dang it

  • @johnlarue2248
    @johnlarue2248 Před 2 lety +31

    Melannie, this is without a doubt the best post I've seen. Well explained, excellent description and several things we men have little to no clue about....that being asking for directions! Lady, I swear you are the GPS of "subtle signs" travel guide! Very well done!

  • @markrossi5721
    @markrossi5721 Před 2 lety

    Yes! More subtle signs she wants to explore a relationship with you videos please!

  • @michaelrichards5340
    @michaelrichards5340 Před 3 lety +39

    Lol I scored the laughs at everything I say and the last one, the stare and look away

  • @davidgoggins4213
    @davidgoggins4213 Před 3 lety +7

    Signs she likes you. I’ve enjoyed this video, thanks.

  • @stephenurrutia2367
    @stephenurrutia2367 Před 2 lety +4

    Yes, I need more signs!

  • @arnoldjohnson3317
    @arnoldjohnson3317 Před rokem +1

    You describe women’s actions as if they are children. You make them out to be irrational. Your description of women’s behavior is telling men to consider them as teenagers. It’s great advice, seriously.

  • @rayedwards942
    @rayedwards942 Před 3 lety +18

    Brilliant advice!

  • @ashyzad6237
    @ashyzad6237 Před 3 lety +28

    brilliant as always, thank you and God bless.

  • @pavelonline3913
    @pavelonline3913 Před rokem

    Signs she likes you.
    Wow nice video! Id like to see next part!

  • @Jbutler63
    @Jbutler63 Před 10 dny

    Your content is super good,been out of the dating seen a several years but trying to build my confidence level up.Please continue more content on this topic.😅😅

  • @CarlosCruz-mw4hp
    @CarlosCruz-mw4hp Před 3 lety +19

    Great video. Where was this when I was in college? So many chances missed. Now I know why I didn’t get a particular girl. Thanks for the video.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks for your kind words! There is still lots of time! You can do this! Have a fantastic day! 😊

  • @josephstalin307
    @josephstalin307 Před 2 lety +11

    This creature softened my heart of stone. She died and with her died my last warm feelings for humanity

  • @rsobrevinas
    @rsobrevinas Před rokem

    I gave this to my son with the highest recommendation. Also to check out your other clips. Just such an amaing set of insights that on reflection just make impeccable sense. You are the star of your genre. Thanks.

  • @longsnapper5381
    @longsnapper5381 Před rokem

    You are really good at this ,Melanie. Those signs are spot on....

  • @ryanreagan6073
    @ryanreagan6073 Před 2 lety +18

    I used to be afraid of rejection now having the guts to ask a girl out it just makes me stronger if I get shot down oh well doesn't matter missed out on too much not willing to take a chance

  • @bigmike9486
    @bigmike9486 Před 3 lety +9

    I could get all these signs only to make a move and "oh I have a boyfriend" or "oh I just like you as a friend"

    • @DaveRod76
      @DaveRod76 Před 3 lety +4

      Xactly! I think men like us must generate some kind of vibe that makes us easy targets for narcissistic women. I haven’t quite put my finger on it yet.

  • @jimmyv1753
    @jimmyv1753 Před rokem

    Very impressive info. I’ve seen a few videos that are so ridiculous but this stuff seems more honest and accurate

  • @TravelWalesWithPaul
    @TravelWalesWithPaul Před 2 lety

    This video makes so much sense to me. Can't believe how many of these I missed whilst chatting to women. Hopefully I will have more success from now on????

  • @danielbenson356
    @danielbenson356 Před 3 lety +18

    Hello Melannie. I love learning about body language. Thank you for these videos.

  • @turqueo
    @turqueo Před rokem +5

    This video is actually 100% perfect for my situation, thanks so much :)

  • @thenicklas615
    @thenicklas615 Před 2 lety +3

    It's a pleasure watching you Melanie. You are a ray of sunshine xo.

  • @jakehoule2353
    @jakehoule2353 Před 2 lety +4

    Great tips. Very helpful. And effective.
    Your video is very informative and thanks for sharing

  • @vicksaction5003
    @vicksaction5003 Před 2 lety +15

    If I feel she is playing mind games and wasting my valuable time, then the only move I make is to run away as far as I can and as fast as I can.

  • @jeffreybrugos2228
    @jeffreybrugos2228 Před rokem +8

    Melannie, this video true is helpful, a girl has actually done a few of things with me already. So it’s good to know what they mean! 👍🏻

  • @Boxofdonuts
    @Boxofdonuts Před 9 měsíci +1

    My current wife I made a move very early on and was rejected horribly. Don’t think it through too much. Even if you fail she gets the message youre a boyfriend or you’re nothing to her

  • @patrickh7368
    @patrickh7368 Před 2 lety +33

    Thank you…. Love it, could you do a series to educate women to just approach us men offering a pint of best and say “will you go out with me” that would help me out hopefully . But seriously I will try to remember all this 😊 thanks again

    • @waynepayne9875
      @waynepayne9875 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah all women need to do is say "i want you" and worst case scenario we let you down extremely easy but %99 of the time we will be down

    • @niaralosusa
      @niaralosusa Před rokem

      ...great point. Rather than trying to educate men on the 4,934 ways women "just maybe, might, kinda, sorta" be interested in you, perhaps put focus on women being a bit more direct...just a thought.

  • @keshabuchai1514
    @keshabuchai1514 Před 2 lety +4

    your speech and presentation are so amazing

  • @scottboyer8450
    @scottboyer8450 Před 2 lety +1

    Well, it's good to see I haven't missed any opportunities.

  • @jerryduncan8832
    @jerryduncan8832 Před rokem +1

    You're wonderful Melanie. thanks

  • @almark6548
    @almark6548 Před 2 lety +27

    I always have women look at me, smile, and look away.
    Fun fact: it's involuntary. It's not some contrived or premeditated tactic. And they don't stop doing it unless they're no longer interested.

  • @alexaguirre8956
    @alexaguirre8956 Před 2 lety +23

    Thank you for all of you advice and help.

  • @sreevalsancv7021
    @sreevalsancv7021 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you, just acquainted 1 year back, felt deep soul connection at first sight, after that all my activities stand still, no communication, scared how to move forward

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety

      Are you seeing signs that she wants to move forward? These videos will help. czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html

  • @Sadc0m
    @Sadc0m Před rokem

    Its like I knew all these things subconciously, but I didnt know how to articulate this knowledge to myself. Actually useful

  • @michaelhall9211
    @michaelhall9211 Před 2 lety +9

    Yes please do the more sign's she like's me video it's all great learning. Like your warm clear presentation style. Many thanks!

  • @mazzarella_child567
    @mazzarella_child567 Před 3 lety +21

    Wow this is like the best guidance I've heard in a long time. Though truthfully the extent of most of my interactions are just cordial greetings. Anyways I subscribed.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +3

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words and for subscribing! 🙏

  • @dlvox5222
    @dlvox5222 Před rokem +2

    As a confident man, I don’t need to read a woman. I either want her or I don’t. My choice not hers

  • @josephlepakiyo7559
    @josephlepakiyo7559 Před 2 lety

    wonderful Coach Melannie!!! True.

  • @jesussamurai8433
    @jesussamurai8433 Před 3 lety +22

    This is a lot harder when she's also your barber as it's hard to tell good customer service to genuine interest.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      That is so true! These videos will give you more information about this. czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html The more signs you see the better! Best of luck!👍

    • @jerseysteelfitness6927
      @jerseysteelfitness6927 Před 3 lety

      Just keep tipping, and she is already used to normal banter. Bring up better subjects, don't let her lead everything

    • @jesussamurai8433
      @jesussamurai8433 Před 3 lety

      @@jerseysteelfitness6927 Thanks for the advice I actually work a heavy customer service based job as well so I'm pretty damn near confident I can lead any conversation and talk about pretty much anything with anyone.
      I think it's more so the environment that trips me up and the fact that I see this person often. Although I can deal with rejection I kinda want to be more sure than usual that it'll swing my way. But there is also this professional environment that at least to me makes me feel like I'm not in control. Perhaps it's the fact there is other barbers around and people in the waiting area so finding that opening is tough.

  • @holmenadventurecamp
    @holmenadventurecamp Před 3 lety +21

    I found girls crossing there legs and thought this was a bad sign. To be honest grown to like it, but i have found attention plays a small role. I do believe you still have her attention, its a way of maybe dulling or fading out the background. I have found this to be a singel good sign. Thanks again Melannie!

    • @holmenadventurecamp
      @holmenadventurecamp Před 3 lety

      @Christian M. ok,

    • @holmenadventurecamp
      @holmenadventurecamp Před 3 lety

      @Christian M. ok, thank you. Are you ref. to The Matrix. Red pill, blue pill theory? Cant say I remember A black pill. Am i mistaken.

  • @aglqtpzvm8064
    @aglqtpzvm8064 Před 2 lety

    Holy moly thank for telling the last one I’m just lucky to had find this video

  • @tropicalbeach9225
    @tropicalbeach9225 Před rokem

    Hey there CM, thank you for the viable information; this will help me alot in the dating world!

  • @frankiecesar8747
    @frankiecesar8747 Před 3 lety +3

    This is so helpful!!

  • @michaelsegal3558
    @michaelsegal3558 Před 3 lety +10

    Who else wants to date Coach Melannie?

  • @HealingNews
    @HealingNews Před rokem

    Amazing info, keep up the great work!

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Před rokem +1

    I’m tired of being rejected and ghosted Coach Melannie.

  • @andrewmize823
    @andrewmize823 Před 2 lety +3

    I once chuckled at one of my female co-workers because she reached for her phone instantly--almost frantically--when I said hello to her in line at the cafeteria. I have no way of knowing what she was thinking, but I got the general idea after working with her for a while that she was uninterested in socializing with anyone, male or female, who fell beneath her personal standards. She was just kind of a mean person--so in the end I considered her not wanting anything to do with me a win.

  • @festepuck3969
    @festepuck3969 Před 3 lety +3

    Signs she is interested. Thanks!

  • @tricky2258
    @tricky2258 Před rokem

    I may a married man but these tips are very useful when l can at least try to socialize with other ladies in the workplace or anywhere in life just to engage in friendly conversation. Thank you for this video. I hope you have a lot of success in this. 👏👏

  • @johnfreeman6352
    @johnfreeman6352 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you very much Melanie.

  • @onthepath501
    @onthepath501 Před 2 lety +7

    I was in the meat aisle talking to a girl once and she said she was making chili and I said I was barbecuing. She said I like barbecues, and I said have a good day. 😩

  • @patrickmolyneux2951
    @patrickmolyneux2951 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you Melannie, some serious lightbulb moments here!

  • @karamos6228
    @karamos6228 Před rokem

    This was a very pleasant video. Thx

  • @BernardJustusMuhwezi
    @BernardJustusMuhwezi Před 11 měsíci

    Melannie, this is very good for our young boys thinking regectedly in life
    I shambled on it and enjoyed for real.

  • @isanaga2521
    @isanaga2521 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks, coach! I've learnt alot. 😁

  • @Beforethethrone
    @Beforethethrone Před rokem +6

    A response to these tips from a shy Christian girl:
    1. Yes!!
    2. Maybe? I wouldn’t want to open that door because I don’t want to be the pursuer, I want to be pursued.
    3. Yep!
    4. Maybe yeah, I usually like to keep the convo about the other person though
    5. Yes!!
    6. Yep!
    7. Ope yep
    8. Ehh maybe?
    9. Yes!
    10. Yeah
    11. Sometimes sure
    12. Very true
    13. YEP

    • @DavidsSanity
      @DavidsSanity Před rokem

      Me a Christian dude watching this 👁️ 👄 👁️

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Před rokem +1

    I would definitely make sure I have a game plan.

  • @curtismaize
    @curtismaize Před rokem +1

    Wow, you have her attention. Ground breaking information.

  • @philipbenhardb.velasco369
    @philipbenhardb.velasco369 Před 2 lety +16

    Totally blew my chance with a girl in college. Hated my guts at first, took a chance one night, dropped her guard, I was taken aback because it was so sudden. I knew I couldn't get over it. had to let her know to find happiness elsewhere. I'm glad she did. Wished I had a chance to hear her side.
    I'd also like to add that she squeezes you in a frame in her selfie. Caught her doing this multiple times. I was like yoooo, you know we can have a more decent picture yeah?

  • @TiktokFwexo
    @TiktokFwexo Před rokem +4

    Bruh I laugh all the time when I see her 😂 and she does this lil hand cover her laugh thing that honestly makes it more cute just really makes me wanna get up in the morning

  • @blairthandi7058
    @blairthandi7058 Před 10 měsíci

    The feet pointing is so accurate. She only points her body towards me, and my body too only points towards her, plus, I put my shoulders straight, and hands to my side.

  • @brianambrosemcmahon8531

    Yes please make another video abut signs she likes you 🙏🏼💙

  • @Autonomous1969
    @Autonomous1969 Před 2 lety +5

    Then you ask her out and she says, "No, I have no interest". True story.

  • @pelgervampireduck
    @pelgervampireduck Před 2 lety +4

    sometimes you are sure there are signs, you are careful, you wait to be like 500% sure, "this can't be just being friendly, this has to mean something", but when you ask her out, she says "I see you only as a friend".

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety

      I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏

  • @douglasalan5783
    @douglasalan5783 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing your valuable insights about body language and social cues. Your video is very charming and enlightening. Melannie, I much prefer your videos to the Wing Girl.

  • @johndudley5761
    @johndudley5761 Před rokem

    I was hoping for just one !

  • @Coyote-wm5op
    @Coyote-wm5op Před rokem +3

    Last girl that did these to me and approached me was there with her bf. I didn’t make a move on that. A lot of women like to just get attention even though they have no intention of being with you. The look and look away thing is stupid when they do it with a group of friends. Their friends will sabotage it.

  • @thommxiong4461
    @thommxiong4461 Před 3 lety +76

    Omg I've been getting all these signs from many women throughout my life and I've never known.

  • @samsonwaruoatemna4885
    @samsonwaruoatemna4885 Před 2 měsíci

    Now am fully equipped😊

  • @juancarlosorozco2005
    @juancarlosorozco2005 Před 2 lety +2

    I see why I missed out on dating this really nice girl recently! My inability to ask her out probably came across as rejection