why do ugly women attract hot men?
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- čas přidán 20. 04. 2024
- how DO ugly women attract rich, handsome, successful men? is there something that they know, that we don’t? or is it simply that these women, (though they may not be great beauties by today’s unrealistic beauty standards) are not ugly at all? and in actual fact, are extremely ATTRACTIVE in their own way? after all, beauty is subjective. what one person thinks is stunning, another may think is average at best. and what’s more - looks alone are not enough to carry a relationship. what’s more attractive than your physical appearance? humour. confidence. empathy. kindness. creativity. personality. none of these qualities have anything to do with what you look like physically, and yet they can make you very, very attractive. perhaps the reasons why ‘ugly’ women attract hot men, is because they are not ugly at all.
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Calling people ugly is the ugliest thing to do.
These men have thousands of young, inmature fans... Maybe they are tired
I agree!!
Sugarcoating the truth removes the message she is trying to convey.
Yeah that's why someone literally commented on my post saying I looked like them too for saying I didn't think any of them looked ugly lol
You are a worthy human being ❤
I hate how this is only a problem when the guy is more attractive
Exactly
and even when the guy is uglier they still go after the woman and say that she’s a gold digger 😭
i think it's basically who you rooting for. I heard for Megan fox how she doesn't have attractive bf. For Selena Gomez they said she could do better because she is dating Benny.
I’ve seen it the other way around
It happens the other way around too. E.g with Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater, or Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco. People kept saying the women deserved better and that the men look ugly.
People forget that real relationships are about connection.
And we wonder why divorce rates are so high.
@@anneshirley9560 exactly!
and also the beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
Haha you think growing up those guys looking for an equal partner only to see all them girls rather play lesser guys for the control and cheating. He might have got an idea to do the same?
Average guys aren't putting in effort and playing it safe, why wouldn't attractive guys do the same but for more?
when you forget that people get into relationships because they love each other
When a woman's beauty rises above a certain level, EVERYTHING is about how she looks. Most men don't want to deal with that.
Seeing a happy couple and thinking, “how can he find her attractive, because I don’t find her attractive?” Is seriously soft brained behavior
Aksually 🤓☝️
It's smooth brained not soft brained, all brains are soft
Just wanted to let you know
@@picklesandbanchan3245 fair enough
They like to self-insert and think that they've got a chance.
Agreed.
Ooh or the assumption that it's her soul that the guy finds attractive. Or she must be a really good person or have some really good brains or other outstanding qualities because her face and/or body can't be one of, if not the main attraction. Like the backhanded compliment of it all.
people treat a woman like she only matters when she’s pretty or when she’s a mom ,it’s sad
Mothers aren’t treated well
The saying is: you're either f*¢kable or invisible.
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@missmodern guess all of us (women) are gonna be invisible one day then... cause we all age... every last one of us will have our looks fade! Maybe the goal should be not caring so much about who we become "invisible" to! Cause seriously if our only value to men are our looks then I say fuck em' 🎉
Mothers are not treated well whatsoever. This modern society acts like it’s more admirable to never have children than it is to have them. People never value all the hard work a mother does and they act like they’re instantly unattractive because she’s just a mom. That’s a completely different story.
I'm an ugly woman soon to be married to a hot man too. I get dirty looks all the time when we're out together. But to him I'm the most beautiful/sexiest woman in the world. He helped me learn to love my face and features that I used to hate so much when I was younger. We're connected by much more than just looks.
i'm tryna get like you my girl
Wow, you are very lucky, I wish you the best
You are still unattractive no matter what your hubby may say. That is the reality.
Thats so beautiful!!! I hope you both love a happy lives together to piss those dins off even more ❤❤❤
@@vikki8699 thank you we're living our best life 🥰
Beauty goes away, personality, intelligence does not. Perhaps those men aren't shallow. Good for them.
What? Personalities can totally change over time, and intelligence can diminish with age.
@@fuzzypanda1684yeag this guy is talking balony
@@fuzzypanda1684who hurt you?
Or maybe they just have different aesthetic tastes than most of society.
Looks are like flowers, in the grand scheme of things, they last a moment.
But have you ever met someone who was super attractive, but once you got to know them, they stopped being so attractive? People who are physically attractive but are not such a good hearted person no longer are attractive to me.
Exactly, I've met people who were so good looking but the more i knew them the more their beauty died in my eyes.
Absolutely agreed.
Exactly, and when a very good looking man have no manners and isn’t the brightest light. That makes him for me less attractive.
Yeah myself
Yes, “beautiful” people tend to let their narcissism shine more than most others. “Ugly” people can be equally as narcissistic, but put forward more effort to conceal it if they don’t have physical beauty to fall back on..People tend to suck either way though.
The Aaron Taylor-Johnson one is different. People don't particularly think that Sam is ugly, it's the fact that she is 23/24 years his senior and started dating when he was 18 and she was 42. PLUS she knew him since he was like 16, so the outrage towards her is grooming rather than being ugly
Hey, I just made the same comment pretty much! I really wish she didn't add this to the video since the situation is so much more complicated then the others. And they don't fit into the general point she's trying to make since they got together because Sam groomed him.
Exactly! I think Stephanie should have either gotten into the specifics of why the situation with ATJ and his wife is suspect, or not used the example at all.
Came here to make this specific comment. Thank you for explaining so well.
I think he's smart so he's probably into all that plus they have kids
Plus she started going after him when she was his boss, on top of the age gap
For the attractive women who got cheated on, I wouldn’t say that beauty was all they had going on (they are all intelligent and talented people).
It’s more like no matter how hot, smart and great you are, there will be shitty men who won’t know what’s good 🤷♂️
Period
Ture, that is is not fault of the cheated. But intelligence and talent are not something that can really elevate relationship.
Shitty people* corrected it for you
The biggest reveal to me that someone is miserable is superficiality. When I hear people making other people’s spouses their business and kicking up dust about it, it just reads sad. I’ve never met a happy, fulfilled person who prioritizes physical attractiveness to the extent they nitpick that of strangers
People will look at a 50/60 year old couple that's been married for 20 years and be suprised that the woman isn't 20 herself or something. What the fuck is wrong with people. They should seriously get back into the real world.
Huh?
Poorly aged white ♀️
I think this is a huge part of it. They expect everyone to age like celebrities or age the same. It’s a childish and immature viewpoint to expect. Finding someone you love and who loves you back that wants to build a life with you is a blessing.
This world is full of degenerates.
Honestly is just something that society made us believe bc let’s be honest, men also look more attractive when they were younger. But I guess the weird fantasies of men about being with a younger girl and the press on women to get married that made them pick-me’s has influenced a lot the way we talk about “beauty”. I’m not even sure those users are looking for love
The first woman ... She used to have a body builder athletic body type. That's how her body looked when she met/married her husband. I believe she said health issues caused her to gain weight. But her hubby loves HER, so he doesn't really care. The double standard is ridiculous.
Oh, that makes sense
I've gained 66lbs since I've met my partner (it was over 5 years ago). He loves me and calls me beautiful every day, I believe him but I still don't like my body
Alicia Maccarvel has a binge eating disorder and gain an extreme amounth of weight because of it. And she is completely delusional about your situation openly promoting obesity in her content claming it to be healthy. She is mentally ill and in denial. She is so lucky to have such a loving. Bidge eating disorder is just as danerous as anorexia.
Thanks for explaining, because I was curious about this one. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but if you are the type to care about your image enough to exercise frequently, dress well, groom your beard, eyebrows etc as a man... you typically want a woman that does the same. So I was honestly puzzled by their coupling, but they're cute.
@@jamiew.6606Absolutely! That's why I'm not buying that bs love story of theirs. If someone's into fitness and healthy, active lifestyle, they just wouldn't tolerate a couch potato as a partner who stuffs on donuts and fries all day long. When lifestyles and priorities contradict each other there's just no way for a normal, healthy relationship to happen! And those two are CLEARLY not matching, no matter how many cheesy explanations about her "caring heart" and other bs that woman spews. Fit and obese are NOT couple material. Unless there are some underlying psychological issues, manipulation tactics, fetishes or money at play. But genuine attraction?? Nope, never gonna believe that.
Especially since you can clearly see the bias of that woman who points out all her inner qualities as a justification for having such an attractive partner. Yet she herself chose that man for his looks first and foremost. Can't nobody tell me that she ain't bragging! Would she show off her partner just as proudly if he was as fat as her?! Would she even date an unattractive man in the first place?! I highly doubt that! So, in conclusion, it's okay for her as a woman to go for the looks, but in regards to her partner he only has to value her "kind soul" and such shyt?! C'mon, who the fukk is she kidding! That story just makes no SENSE! 🙈 It's a PR relationship, PERIODT.
People actually said that haley bieber is "ugly"???? That's weird to me because i always thought she was one the prettiest people I've ever seen. I'm not saying she's a good person but i never would've considered her "ugly" in appearance. I'm thinking that Justin's fans were just angry that she wasn't selena and they were saying that to make her feel less than lol. Like how pretty people get bullied and hated for being pretty
Same. I think she's gorgeous. I didn't even know that was a criticism of her
She doesn't even look real, that's how pretty she is.
Haley Beiber being called ugly is crazy.
Yeah, like heaven forbid you have awkward teen/young adult phase.
That's weird. The users of Wikifeet consider Hailey Bieber as beautiful. She has this high rating.
@@a.munroe Haley is very pretty. Justin is feminine looking. Some face filters considered him as a girl. Why is she attracted to him? What taste does she have? My wife was never attracted to men who look like girls. She told me this many times.
@@Pseldonymov Because not everyone has the same tastes. What your wife is attracted to won't be the same for everyone else.
@@PseldonymovHaley is not ur life
I just love the relationship between Pierce Brosnan and his wife. This is what growing „old“ together means. They are both gorgeous.
Getting unhealthy shouldn’t be growing old together .. they both are unhealthy
@@Kwildcat13 oh for christs sake. Thats what all normal people do. You know you won't be healthy forever. You will even die one day!
So sick of hearing about Pierce and his fat elephant-sized wife. She was gorgeous when she was young, but she's super obese, which is not healthy. If he loved her, he'd encourage her to be healthy and lose weight.
I think they are very sweet and the fact thay they have been together for so long in a world like hollywood.
That I agree is absolutely a double standard. You could argue that Pierce hasn't aged perfectly either but no one does because he's a movie star.
Who has met an absolutely gorgeous person on the outside and absolutely ugly on inside and you're instantly turned off. Chemistry happens in multitude of ways, not just external. If you've experienced that "magic" with someone, be grateful... it's a gift.
Facts
Correct looks aren't everything
yup..
I have met several people like that
I worked with a guy who was, on first impression, an absolute Adonis. So many of the girls that I worked with just fell all over him. Not me. It was so obvious that he thought sooooo much of himself. He even approached me and asked me why I ignored him, like he could NOT fathom how any woman could resist his charms. Well, I had been observing him and he was a total jerk. Looks, alone, are not enough for me. He was like beautiful package with a turd inside😂
Honestly one of the only benefits of gaining weight for me is that my husband never treated me differently, he still loves me and is equally attracted to me!
Cillian and his wife actually have similar features. I'm fairly sure that's why he married her. But she is very striking! I don't think she's ugly at all.
Just shows how superficial the world is. Personality goes such a long way with attractiveness....
People make first impressions by how you look thats the first thing people see when they meet a new person thats just how human are and since most of the people you see on tik tok you have never met in rl you are subconsciously judging and unfortunately not everbody will keep judgements to themselves
And some people's personalities are beyond annoying, or plain ugly. I've known plenty of attractive people who are very ugly internally.
@@BrawlStars-io3fq And women have been gaslit into not acting on the first impressions while men have always been encouraged to act solely on them.
I wouldn't say that because because best believe I wouldn't be walking around single
@@TheGamer2001talking to you
The older you get the more you realize , in the long run looks only get you attention not love
The older I grow the more I become aware of the fact that (romantic) LOVE doesn't exist... 😮😢
@@rebekkagasmi9451 Sadly, you are pretty much right especially now a days
@@stephanieparido3790 😢🙏
True. This was true. I was beautiful in early 20s. Now im stressed out and fat. My beauty ended up attracting a narcissist. I ended up his trophy wife.
@@Mira-gu6weleave him
Finally. Thank you. I have been watching "It's not the outside that matters, it's the inside!" on the internet SO. MANY. TIMES. This is the first time someone has finally put it in an accurate way- beauty is very relative. Physical attraction IS important, but not how society largely perceives it.
Thank you for the video!💜
I love how beauty is subjective. There is someone for everyone (if people desire relationship).
Jealousy, hate and self-entitlement make someone appear ugly even if the face has "perfect" measurements.
Totally agree. Add vanity and self-centredness to the list.
Ugly personality makes people genuinely look ugly to me, doesn’t matter how I look at them.
Beauty truly is only skin deep and looks are merely fleeting.
So true it removes all of their positive aspects
I don't think any of these woman are ugly they aren't fake and I think that's what have people fuming lol
To a society that profits from people's insecurities, it's infuriating that there's still some that can be absolutely "normal" and love it.
Yeah you look like them too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@user-kp4jh6jo3r and if they do? they're not ugly
@@user-kp4jh6jo3rso what ...u don't love.yourself so u spread your negativity all across social media ..it's easy to tell when someone is disingenuous 😂😂😂
@@lilikaramirez1848Its not that they don't love themeselves some people love them selves so much they think they are better than others to the point if delusion the people making fun of the couple are not some insecure people who hate themselves some of them just have a high opinion of themeselves which leads to false ego
Stephanie, you just undid a 20+ year toxic pattern I've been struggling with. Thank you so much 💔😭
You're really cool Stephanie, needed to hear this today. Much love ❤
My own brain is damaged because I can't imagine a man caring about a woman's soul over her looks. I feel like the only men I encounter only care about how a woman looks, especially single men on dating apps. It's really depressing.
Same. And I've never even been in a relationship with any a man or even had any mutual connection of this kind with anybody. The observation alone made me scarred for life. 💀
You use dating apps and want to complain about men picking u based off looks ..make this make sense
@@lilikaramirez1848 Well everybody wants to try their luck sometimes even if it's a losing game. Also, would you like having a partner who admires you only based on your looks?
You're right. The majority of them are hopeless. And hypocritical because most of them aren't attractive themselves. Makes most of them fundamentally undateable.
It will probably happen, when you're least expecting. It's very possible for a soul to find a match.
People are hypocrites; they hate unrealistic beauty standards for women because they cause so many insecurities and body image issues, but when they see women with looks they dislike, look at how they treat them with so much disrespect and mockery, and they think they don't deserve to be loved.
a good woman > attractive woman
@@BassPlayer-yu7ybif you dating a women just cause shes good and your not attracted to her arnt u just doing it out if Pity then? Pity dating
@@BrawlStars-io3fq
''Hot'' chicks settle once they're in a relationship....where as a good woman become more attractive and up their game in general when they're in a relationship....they're not motivated to look good for strangers, but to look good for the man that she loves...
I seen it lots in high school...even in college I picked up a 23 year old virgin when I was 19, once we started dating she started looking hotter and hotter
plus the relationship grows, rather then start off all hot and exciting till it fizzle out
Y’all always the victim
@@BrawlStars-io3fq the point is you’re attracted to a person not because they look like a model. If you’re attracted only to instagram looks then there’s something wrong in your soul!
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you Stephanie!
Thank you for talking about this! Absolutely looks alone are boring. Also you hit the nail on the head. Men can be unattractive and the woman a stunner and society considers that cool. Good on you for placing things in their right place. 👏🏽
When I married my husband, I felt this way. He was 28 and a college professor at a top university. The amount of comments I had to listen to from other men asking him why didn’t he date the undergrads was disturbing. I was attractive too but turning 30 and felt insecure about it. Now I just turned 40. My husband is hotter than ever, and I just smile about it the situation when I think back on it. He’s got younger ladies (and probably men too) who lust after him a bit. Yet he comes home and makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world every day.
Your husband was a beta male , if he was attractive AND RICH . What were you even offering?
He should sleep outside
@@user-kp4jh6jo3r hope you enjoy the rest of your lonely life in the basement alpha king 🤪
@@brh.1892 well i would rather be single than be with a useless woman thanks
@@user-kp4jh6jo3rdo y’all have any original thoughts or are you programmed to all say the same things over and over again? 🐑🐑🐑
Cheating has nothing to do with beauty. It just the people who cheat can't commitment
Nope they're just scumbags who don't have the balls to end the relationship so they just cheat
You did good.This video is pure excellence. So much needed.❤
I needed to hear this. You are so right! ❤
Pierce and his wifey are lovely and look so happy for 22 yrs ❤
They're a cute couple and have raised their kids well.
They are both good looking and seem to live a happy life, so people are upset about it for some reason. That's the Internet I guess 😅😂
They really lool like they are. I hope to have a beautiful marriage like that❤
Those people are nuts to say she's ugly. She just gained weight.
He's been happily married twice. Twice. Most people don't even get one happy marriage, let alone a marriage period.
Hi, I'm one of those ugly women too. I'm 5'5" and weigh nearly 200lbs. My partner, lets call him Jim, is 5 years younger than me, 6ft tall, catwalk model build, beautiful face, eyes, long hair, everything. I know that his "friends" at his previous job used to convince him to leave me because I'm fat, ugly, and he could do so much better. Same with his parents, they are against our relationship, they call me a porker etc. But he always says I'm the most beautiful and sexiest woman in the world. All these people who make fun of me have no idea how we are together, how we get along, that we literally read each other's minds, and communicate without words.
I'm so sorry your in-laws are so cruel. They must be very miserable people.
Keep your chin up, you have a beautiful relationship.
And for the record, I'm 5"4, 200lbs and I frequently turn heads. It's not the weight, it's the way you carry it 😉
this is fantastic, what do you offer that "more beuatiful" women don't?
@@user-cz9dh4yy3g sometimes it's all about connections and vibes with someone which you even can't get or develop with any other person whether they are beautiful, rich , famous etc... i understand you might think that any beautiful generous women/men can offer goods to the relationship but honestly it's not always the case... Many Times the way to connect and bond with someone
Where did you meet him so my short, fat self can meet one too lol
Sending you virtual hugs 😍
Thank you for posting this. It made me feel so much better about myself!
Ladies, you are beautiful inside and out. You deserve to be here and you deserve to take up space x
You too gentlemen, we appreciate you too!
Thanks for a great video, Stephanie! x
This all makes me so uncomfortable. Human beings are flawed, diverse and thats what makes them beautiful… i couldnt imagine being treated this way😢
There are people attracted TO CARS out there. But somehow the internet finds that less surprising than a fit and conventionally attractive man being married to a woman who isn’t as fit. Wtf.
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Right?!
carfuckers?
I got flashback to that one dude being married to his car
thanks, I needed to hear that 💜
As a man who uses a dating app, I usually find the women with flaws the most beautiful
Because they have the most charisma and confidence
I'm one of those unattractive women. My husband even knows it, and he loves my looks. When he showed some photos to some of his sisters, they said he could've done so much better and I was one of the most unattractive woman they had ever seen. They think I'm demonic of sorts because I'm gothic. He cussed them out and told them that I was very beautiful to him.
And it meant the world to me that he stood up for me whenever they said that. I'm not an attractive woman by any means of society standards. And he even told his brother "I'll admit shes not a damn super model, but its her heart that really makes me love her." And that made me very emotional. He's a sweet angel and I wish he knew how wonderful he is to me. Constantly people like his siblings say he could do better cause of my looks. But he loves me for my heart and the love I give.
Many people are ugly, yet on the outside, they can look beautiful. Also what those sisters forget but your hubby seems to know very well is, that beauty fades while the goodness of the soul stays, and that goodness is what gives people a glow and makes them look stunning.
I am unattractive too. As I get older I care less about that because I value pointless things like aesthetic beauty less. I also think people who care about that sort of stuff are shallow and so their opinions matter to me less. Its really freeing to not care about that sort of stuff anymore and I hope more girIies reach this stage where they dont put anymore stock into whether or not others think they loom good. As cheesy as it sounds I care so much more now about growing intellectually and becoming more cultured
Your are blessed to have such a loving and supportive husband. I want to be just as supportive and caring as him when I have a girlfriend/fiancé/wife.
A beautiful soul trumps outward beauty every single time. You guys sound like a wonderful couple 😍
Same story here! I'm a wheelchair user . But his sisters never said something ugly about me.
This nearly made my cry
I am not ugly but I always think I don’t look good enough for men to be attracted to me and it warms my heart to see that men don’t only look after looks or not after the present beauty standard
I’m sure you’ll find someone who sees your inner and outer beauty :) I feel like most men don’t look too precisely after looks but rather appearance, confidence, personality …
My faith in men has been partially restored
Well, maybe just a few men really appreciate the inner beauty and the particular outer beauty you may have, but that's better, so you will be able to discard the trash men who only want you for your looks, and stay with the one who will truly love you.
Honey, we are never ugly. We're just broke 😂 but in all seriousness, we attract the REAL men out there, not the f bois. So be grateful for that ❤
It's self confidence/charm that keeps someone around, not looks. Looks may open the door to more possibilities but that soon wears thin as you become used to them. They hv to hv something else going on for the long haul. Some do, some don't.
Many people don't go for looks alone, I am one of them; nothing wrong with being good looking either, I am not slating them at all. I have good looking family members, one relied on it too much, one didn't take it seriously eg, it didn't define her. I don't find it interesting beyond the initial attraction.
Peirce brosmans wife is absolutely gorgeous. Prettiest face ever!
Love how you endet your point with the debunction of the perception of ugliness and how it is subjective
pierce and his wife are both equally beautiful then and now
the internet is so cruel sometimes bro😭 same with selena gomez and her bf
There's so many reasons to not like benny but people only go for his appearance smh
isn’t she still dating benny blanco🤮🤮
@@panana6084what are these "so many reasons?"
@@mytwocents27he is a man dressing like a woman wearing
Dresses purses and heels
To events . Weirdo for sure
@@skyelizabeth65Does he have a controversial past or something? She seems so sweet so I hope not.
I think this is the first time I saw your video and I'm smitten. I am a plus size myself and I have had this solid belief system about being rejected for how I have looked and branded myself unlovable and not enough. Its a pure brain damage. Im so glad that i stumbled on this video. It really lifted my spirits. Thank you! 💜
Steph, you continue to be a queen. So proud of you. You are killin' this game, babe! Love ya guts!
What hurts it's mostly women who put other women down it's sad
Yes it's mostly women who do this. A LOT of women have low self esteem and only believe they have worth if they conform to beauty standards
Jealousy
people always do that regardless of gender
Cillian Murphy was crazy for Yvonne. She was vary about dating him and he pursued her! And they're so cute
I didn’t think I was going to like this video, but I loved it. Very well put and very well done!
I ssooo needed this.. Thanks you so much.. Even though I know this I tend to forget often . 💕
She’s probably a really good person. Who cares if she’s not the ridiculous beauty standards!🙄
because how does he even get it up? shes not just not the ridiculous beauty standards, shes far below average.
The double standard is so true and I never really thought about it like that because we think oh the man just must have a great personality… Well, and probably loaded!
@minamuse. "I've seen content that says that for a relationship to work, the man has to be "rustic", a little ugly and the woman beautiful. " That is obvsl bullshit
@minamuse.Have you heard of the meduim ugly trend that some girls are doing nowadays
it isn't a double standard, there are 2 different sexes.
@@Ebi_fuwafuwa your comment makes no sense.
This is not true, there is a huge amount of shaming towards male look, about the fact that if a beautiful girl is dating with an average guy, everyone says staff like: ew what you found in him, it is because of money, he is not worthy of her, etc. A lot of shit pours out from women's channels on ugly men and how they shouldn't be given a chance. You just watch content that doesn’t mention it and it passes you by and you live in an information bubble with a content like this
Thanks for video. Tough effort creating these mhm LOL. 🎉🎉❤❤💜
Love you for your point of view Steph, a really great topic u found!:)
I think women, that have been told they are ugly since childhood/teenage years , learn very quickly to not rely on their looks and naturally spend more time improving their intelligence, sense of humor and making career, finding hobbies. Also I can imagine how attractiveness can be a burden, because you often don't really know, if a person truly loves you or they only like your looks and will vanish as soon as you become visually unattractive (same with being rich and/or famous). One thing is clear: doesn't matter if you are attractive or not, being a woman always sucks, just in different ways🙃Cause we live in a judgmental society with double standards, and no one is safe. Kudos to all conventionally unattractive women who managed to find reliable, caring and loving husbands.
Trust me being a man sucks even more ooh you cannot even imagine it.
I remember when Alicia first started getting backlash. I find it so interesting that she got dragged, and he got pitied, all unsolicited and unwarranted.
and she’s not even “ugly” people see plus sized women and immediately equate them to ugly
@@solarsystems4394 Exactly! The whole situation is so bizarre to me. She's so pretty, and the fact that people feel like men are "trapped" or in some sort of awful situation because THEY don't find a guy's partner attractive is insane.
Health is beautiful and obesity is unhealthy. Alicia is obese and not healthy. These are just facts. Also she *heavily* glorifies obesity and promotes it in her content. But I agree, she still deserves a loving partner despite of being so unhealthy.
@@Shinigumi it's so funny how some of those men automatically think these plus size ladies are ugly, while complaining women are too picky with men, saying women discard any men that doesn't look like a chad.
@@quantumangel737Both genders literally have level 9000 hypocrites.
Bless these couples who value each other for who they are and not for how society looks at them. I'm genuinely happy for all of them.
Thank you for this video. It's a wonderful reminder of how vast attraction is. It is saved in my favorite folder.❤
You forgot to also mention Keanu Reeves's girlfriend. She got bullied a lot by the internet because of her look, too. Many said she is not good looking enough for KR.
Little did people know she makes great art. KR is smart enough and has been thru a lot, that I am sure he knows exactly what he wants in a partner. We don't have to worry about him.
Well said!
Aren't people always mentioning Keanu Reaves first when it comes to people being "normal"/wholesome despite being a celebrity?
She is his age and has grey hair. Other than that she is an attractive woman. People are so used to see Hollywood males with 20 year old models that they can't get over the fact that a man dates a woman that is not 30 years younger than him. Looking at you, di Caprio with the knock-knees.
I remember seeing people attack KR's girlfriend and I didn't understand because shes actually really pretty, the silver hair looks great on her
They're both the Same age.
I don’t like the insinuation that the reason those women were cheated on is because they are nothing other than their looks or they don’t have a good personality, that’s not necessarily true and it’s never the person who’s been cheated on fault for being cheated on. The reason they were cheated on is because their partners were trash and that’s it.
I was just about to say this!
Yeah it's a lot harder for attractive people to find good partners, a lot of the time people only want to be with them because they're pretty.
i came here to look for this comment. that one particularly felt off to me. feel like that part could've been phrased a bit more differently.
@@colegram1447 how about, you know, just talk to your partner about what bothers you, how neglected you feel instead of looking outside of marriage to satisfy your needs? if you talked to your partner and they doesn't care that you feel neglected then it's different
@@Ymir-wc2jo Yes, and attractive people are often naive, especially when they're young, because the world generally treats them better than it does "unattractive" people. So they are often more prone to being taken advantage of, because they don't understand how cruel the world can be.
One of my favorite videos you’ve made. Thank you!!
Great video! I just needed to hear this today. Thanks!
They say that Cleopatra (one of the most beautiful figures in history) was beautiful because of how intelligent she was. Not by the standards of beauty itself. It’s interesting, and inspiring.
Keely Brosnon is so beautiful and adorable. Her face remains in the top tier of woman despite an increase in age and weight. How is that not obvious to everyone when they look at her?
I thought it through. They are just jealous that she remains pretty even with weight and age. They know she isn't ugly, they're just jealous.
@@alexjurchescu4833100% agree
I think they are jealous of seeing a loving long term celebrity marriage.
I thought so too. She has a gorgeous face regardless of her size.
Step you make good quality videos! I am glad I can show them to my daughter and protect her
I loved this video. Thank you Stephanie for doing what you do!!
Honestly, I'd rather be with a person that is considered "ugly" but has a heart of gold and an interesting personality than be stuck with someone "beautiful" who lacks substance and with whom I'll have zero topics to talk about when we're old. Either way, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Why u act like all beautiful man are garbages?? It’s funny come on
Physical attractiveness is still important tho cause once the bad sides of persons personality start to surface you get some people who will leave the partner in an instance
If your physically attracted to your parner there will be no intimacy
Cliche response.
There is no guarantee that if someone is "ugly" he/she will have heart of gold.. come on. It depends on the person and the personality. You can not tell me that if you see some hot guy on the street and you won't look at him and say - Wow, what a hot guy! You won't say - Oh, what a nice inside beauty this man has.
@@z.yanakieva3263 some people think "ugly" people are more loyal and desperate for love because they dont have options and people chasing them
Thats the thing that surprises me sometimez like a women would date a untractive guy because ge might be more loyal than a hot guy and then when the "ugly" turns out to be bad and cheats the ego gets bruised and we get things like "He thinks his cute" "He was ugly anyway"
I’ve literally only met ONE ugly woman in my life. I just think so few people are truly ugly
Most people are very good looking, they just BELIEVE they're ugly...
And more than likely, her personality played into you thinking that of her at the end of the day! I’m with you, I literally don’t go about my life clocking “ugly,” vs “beautiful” people, it’s wild to me that some do. It’s when your heart shines through and your personality is a downer that I begin to “view” you differently. I’m not trying to assume your thoughts process, but that at least has always been mine.
you havent met me LOL
@@andromeda1903 we haven’t, but I’m sure you’re far from ugly!!! ❤️
@@andromeda1903 Just try to look your best, it really is the only thing you can do. I'm sure someone will appreciate your beauty, just believe in yourself.
I needed this reminder today
Thank you for another important video ❤❤
Thank you so much for your work! It gives me an opportunity to be more confident and encourages me to think and analyse.
Looks help - but they fade! Who wants to be stuck with someone with nothing up there for decades to come!
I agree. But the fact that she made an association with looks and cheating is not cool. It sounded like victim blaming "u they super pretty but it wasnt enough for him to stay", as if they didnt have any other qualities
a few minutes into the video and THANK YOU for mentioning Pierce Brosnan!
That always pissed me off.... also, when people praise him for staying with her...like, maybe think about that HE's the lucky one!
Mind blowing, I know...
He considers himself the lucky one actually, he once mentioned that sometimes he wonders how this wonderful woman still stays with someone like him 😅
@@evastern231 yeah i read that too (and also thankfully Stephanie mentioned it in this video).
@@elisamaza8909 Anyway it's crazy to think everyone would be repelled by weightgain, since some men only date bigger women. Pierce might at least now like it even more when she's a bit chubby. My husband told me the older he gets he finds himself more often looking at big butts he absolutely didn't like as a young man. And he doesn't care anymore if a belly comes with it or about cellulite. When young he was all about very slim and really lean.
People don't know what men actually value in relationships smh
your so awesome dude
um. ugly is not a good word to use to describe someone unless they are ugly in the INSIDE because that's the only place that counts.
I'm an attractive women yet I never been in a relationship. Nobody can tell by looking at me. Their is more to relationships then apperance. I have self esteem issues that blocked me from getting into relationships. Women are beautiful no matter the dumb beauty standard. Plus the beauty standard changes over time.
Yeah I feel you…28 and been in 1 short relationship so far. I have had a lot of ppl be interested in me but I’ve struggled with childhood trauma, self esteem issues, intimacy and commitment issues. It doesn’t matter how good you look, if we don’t heal from internal issues we will always attract and be attracted to toxic people. I also don’t care for male validation and attention the way I used to seek it in my earlier 20s… it amounts to nothing in the end. Your own self love and confidence is the best thing you can invest in.
Similar to you, people have said I’m pretty enough to model, but growing up with toxic family and emotional abuse, and not being pretty as a kid, I’m still that awkward hurt girl inside no matter how physically attractive. And I’ve attracted men that are not interested in my depth when it is deep like an ocean, they only care about the looks. So I relate to you girl 😢
@@Myatheroses same I feel awkward and in my own shell a lot, it takes a lot of effort to be confident. I think it can make me come across standoffish and misunderstood. Yeah I’d rather have someone like me for who I am on the inside.
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I don’t think Aaron Taylor Johnson’s situation is applicable in this case. While it may be wrong for people to call his wife ugly, the bulk of the criticism comes from the fact that she knew him as a child and started dating him when he was freshly 18. At the time she was in her 40s and married with kids.
that is 100% the issue in my opinion. I personally think she is quite pretty but that's not the point 😂
YIKES
Yeah that is dodgy af.
Ok, that's questionable
Hmmm something dodgy here indeed
So beautifully said, so beautifully done Stephanie 🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻
What I realized in my life : most often than not people who will call you ugly are also ugly - objectively speaking. That's the sad truth. Usually the not good looking people need to point out the flaws in other's appearance, maybe because themselves don't feel confident.
Conventional beauty standards are for impressionable idiots who can't think for themselves and always have been. IMO it's a sign of maturity and independence to see beyond them and learn instead to follow what your heart tells you is beautiful.
Exactly
Amen friend 🙌
Fat isn't pretty though
The way Alicia spoke was FLAWLESS, so articulate, I wish I could get my point across like that
This was a really eye opening video. Well done.
thank you so much for this. i often think that no one will ever want me because of my weight, but your video gave me hope
Just lose weight
Also, people who don‘t care as much about how they look, but are just confident from within can be extremely attractive
Completely agree. I also find vanity a huge turn off.
Its hard to confident if your untractive
Thank you! @@BrawlStars-io3fq
Lol, I can assure you that confidence doesn't get the results you think it does. Too much and girls think you're arrogant, too little and you're unattractive. As for girls, guys don't care if a girl is confident or not, as long as she's attractive.
@@BrawlStars-io3fq But if you can it makes you more attractive and being self conscious can turn people off.
Say you have two friends who both have big noses. One friend is always complaining about it, applying concealer and researching surgeries. Your other friend doesn’t give a sh*t what their nose looks like and never brings it up. I know who I would find more attractive 🙂
My husband was more handsome than I was beautiful. When we first locked eyes, our souls communicated and the physical aspect was a secondary thought. He was my soulmate and if I ever considered dating again, I'd not be lookibg fir eye candy but that deep connection I still have with my husband. May his soul continue resting peacefully ❤
I'm feeling so many different emotions reading your comment🥺.
Everything you said is beautiful & sad; I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine.
Seems your husband was an amazing man & you are an equally amazing wife.
I'm sorry the time you had together was cut short but I'm also glad you found & shared a part of your lives with eachother.
May your husband rest in heavenly peace 🙏🏿💞❤
I honestly love this video, it is so uplifting
women have the power to say "the most attractive thing about myself is my personality" but alas we chose to be objects on instagram
If they’re ugly, I don’t wanna know what would be thought of me… 😭
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I went to see what you look like by checking your profile picture and it's mfing Sal Vulcano😂😂
@@sierramcwenie6700so no. lol
with that Sal pfp you’re a hard 10/10
What?? You are attractive!
When my husband left me for abother woman, everybody said "How can he prefer that one? She's ugly!!! And you are so damn pretty!!!" Maybe for the beauty "standards" it's true but THIS IS NOT THE POINT! The point is: he felt in love with another woman despite to how she looks, and when you REALLY love someone, you consider he/she the most beautiful person in the world! Being pretty can help to meet more men, but people don't fall in love with a body!!! ..thanks god❤
You have a generous nature & i am sure there is a beautiful 'somebody' (or more likely many people out there) just waiting for someone like you...especially since i know you must be just as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside.
☮️&💜
@@jdsciano 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️
True ❤❤❤❤
You have a great heart and maturity to think like this. I realized this too. In college so called ugly girls would get guys but I was single for years. Looks don't get you commitment. Wishing you loads of love and happiness and someone who sees you for your inner and outer beauty
@@dr.m6152 thank you so much🙏🏼❤️
I just love that women that don't fit the mold are bagging these dudes, it slaps that beauty standards or societal beliefs on beauty in the face. And some people just can't handle that. I've also noticed that these are long standing relationships. It just goes to show that you don't need to look like a Barbie to be loved and happy.
I can't stand that lady tho, the Tiktok one. Her dude is weird, his energy is off, and she is obnoxious. Even if she was thin, she'd be obnoxious. He might be a raging closet case, we don't know these people, and clout is a hell of a drug 😂
This what you called true love, they definitely love the person not for their look but for their personality.
When I was younger I hated blonde guys. «I would never date a blonde guy, ugh🤢». And of course my husband is a blonde😂 15 years of marriage❤❤
What I want to say is that your partner even couldn’t be the embodiment of your preferences, personality will outweigh everything.
I have a similar experience i never liked blonde guys then i dated my ex bf who was way far far from my preferences ( i thought he looked weird the first time i saw him) unfortunately he dumped me
Agree 100% BUT not on Sam Taylor-Johnson. She was 42 when she started dating an 18yo Aaron whom she'd known when he was a minor. She is a groomer. A 42yo with a teenager is a giant no-no no matter the gender.
Nobody says that about an older man in Hollywood. Jerry Seinfeld dated a 17 year old high school girl in the 1990s, Shoshanna Lonstein, when he was 39 and no one called him a groomer.
@@kp4911people have been calling groomers out for their predatory behaviour towards minors in recent years
@@kp4911its both really bad
@@kp4911I'm really glad we're starting to call it out for what it is.
@@kp4911they should have then, and they would do nowadays
You literally speak nothing but truths 🙌🏼🙌🏼
This video was really good ✨