sorry, you're just not a natural beauty.
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- so natural beauty is dead.
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Kendall Jenner, Megan Fox, Michelle Keegan are just some of the women who have been praised for being ‘natural beauties’. Their faces are technically perfect, apparently. Yet are these women actually ‘natural’ beauties? or, have their beautiful faces been tweaked, refine and enhanced? These days, it seems that to be considered a natural beauty, you need to have had a little help from a plastic surgeon. You need a little filler. A little botox. A little nose job. Thats still natural beauty… right? Well i don’t think so. I think we’re heading down a slippery slope where being an ACTUAL natural beauty - aka your face as nature intended isn’t good enough anymore. Its not enough to be pretty. To be yourself. No, you need to be PERFECT. And that’s a real problem. Because people aren’t perfect. We all have our own unique faces, features and quirks - but now they’re considered flaws. That we have to fix. Then we’ll be ‘naturally beautiful’. It’s actually really bloody problematic. And no - i’m not a natural beauty either. I’ve dabbled in all the things. Filler, botox and cosmetic tattooing. Is natural beauty gone for good?
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We're tired of celebrities lying to the public about being all natural, just be honest and not give young girls impressions they will naturally look like them!
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Um, why should young girls even be on social media in the first place? That's on the parents
I remember being 12 and thinking Megan was natural lmao
I think it’s high time we flip the expectation and instead of spending years wanting them to be truthful, just not expect them to fess up anymore.
Einstein said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing expecting different results.
But then how could influencers sell everyone snake oil?!
Who actually consider Kardashians as „natural beauty”? 🤨
Alot people on insta comments
They look so fake! 😱
@@susus9746 all I see in the comments is “pure plastic” so idk
Idk, but I've seen comments praising Kendall for not being "plastic" and getting work done like her sisters lmao ( ig being skinny and keeping shorter nails makes her natural)
A lot of people still claim Kylie has only had lip fillers. They really be thinking she grew 10 inches of hips out of nowhere
I had this conversation with my daughter yesterday. Made me extremely sad to hear her pick out all her 'faults' (in her eyes not mine). I had a double mastectomy 3 months ago, no reconstruction. I love my body because I no longer have aggressive breast cancer cutting my life short! I know flat is unpopular but my body has been through enough! Please be kind to one and other ladies ❤
Sending you healing vibes! ✨️ ❤
Sending you my support for you and your daughter.
❤❤ absolutely! I do have a very small chest and I’ve never considered getting a boob job to fit the standard. After all it’s mostly a fat tissue there to provide milk for an infant since when have we humans became so vain ? Heal your body in peace sending love.
❤ and this is why we need to appreciate and hammer home that ageing itself is a gift and a privilege that not all are fortunate to have. Sending you much healing love and a healthy recovery 🤗
So glad to hear you've kicked cancer in the unmentionables! I hope you heal fantastically, and I am so happy you are in love with who you are 👍I hope your daughter can see herself the way you see her, it's so easy to fall into poor self-esteem and very hard to get out. I have a very tall, bumpy nose, definitely not the standard, but I absolutely love it because it makes me unique and easy to recognize by people I know, and it's the same as my dad's, who I love to death. I hope she can see her features are something to cherish, and those that love her will find what's unique, and love it and look forward to seeing that face when they see her. :)
I feel so insecure and stressed about the way I look after spending time on social media... but then when I go for a walk outside in the I feel a sense of relief bc I see the real beauty of people. I think to feel less shitty about "these perfect faces and bodies" it to just put the phone down and know that you are beautiful and you are enough!
Also, I don't want to be rude, but most of those "enhancements" are very very visible in person, with natural light. You can see the scar tissue pulling the skin unnaturally, the weird volumes and the weird muscle movements, and it does look this side of the uncanny valley.
You can see everything exactly like those heavy makeup applications that look amazing with filters but horrid irl, and tbh....who would want that.
I feel you! I’m 25 and I can say that for the last few years I didn’t care much of these procedures (was still insecure) until I saw that a lot of women my age started getting them… at first it was just a rich people thing 😩
I became depressed and angry with the mirrors because of the fake beautiful people on social media. Later, when I got off social media and started socializing in the outside, I started to love myself more. I used to consider getting rhinoplasty and lip fillers, but now I love my arched nose and small lips, I hope all women like me realize how beautiful they are❤
Honestly, these examples she puts in the video, don't even fit my beauty standard! Everyone has different beauty standards, and these overly fake, swollen faces, all looking the same, are not attractive nor appealing to me at all! They look much older and aged. I like neotonous and delicate facies, which none of those are.
This is me right now , even though I deleted most of the social medias a long time ago I still feel insecure sometimes while being on CZcams and stuff. But then again people only post what they want us to see :)
natural beauty isnt dead. the word "natural" is simply being used incorrectly by a worrisome amount of people.
Good point👍
exactly
It's pretty much equal ugly and old now....
You're right especially about it being used incorrectly.....I'm reminded of people who still in 2024 assume Marilyn Monroe for EG. was natural (facially). 'Natural' was always misused I guess & even MORE now. Humm.
Movie stars from Marilyn’s era definitely weren’t natural either. Marilyn has been said to have had work done on her nose and chin along with receiving hairline electrolysis. Her hair colour wasn’t natural either. In 2013, X-rays of Marilyn’s face and medical records were auctioned off, and seemed to confirm that she had had surgical tweaks to her nose and chin. She was also way ahead of her time with her makeup.
Was going to make this comment. A lot of stars from the 50s had plastic surgery.
Exactly. This has been going on since the beginning of Hollywood. Tricking people into thinking famous people are more beautiful than they are is part of the allure. If they all “looked normal” they wouldn’t be famous. So to become famous they fake it with make up and to stay famous they do surgery. Marilyn used to enlarge her top lip with make up as well.
And supposedly a boob job.
Crazy how she looked somewhat thotty, too..
That may be true but at least they still had a more natural and authentic aura to them compared to today’s celebrities who look very alike to each other almost like clones of each other
For the longest time my opinion was "if it makes people feel better plastic surgery is all right".
And I kinda dreamed of slimming down my jaw and nose tip & having veneers - only after watching your videos (and those of some other youtubers) I realised what a fu**ed up mindset that actually is and that I don't want to lose my uniqueness while simultaneously risking further issues with my health.
Natural beauty for me means the beauty of being authentic individuals and embracing the fact that imperfection is indeed perfection.
Imperfection is perfection that’s true ! And this is coming from someone who used to feel insecure about certain parts of mine now wise and older 34 to be exact I love every little imperfection and very glad that I didn’t go via the route of blow up doll look that was never me to be fair and never will be fortunately
@@batchimegdamdindorj8557 I'm very happy for you that you learned to love yourself 😄 it's liberating and makes existing way more enjoyable and I truly wish everyone would reach this mindset at some point
What makes me sad is after the conversation of what IS beautiful, whether it be natural, subtle, every shape and size... does anyone really ask themselves, why do we even HAVE to be beautiful?
This is a great comment
Natural beauty is how nature created you, and not what a cosmetologist or surgeon created
Rihanna is natural
exactly
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@@sheca8699 She's not.
She did get a nose job and she wears weaves
This is why I can't help but laugh when some men think these women ARE all natural as long as they don't wear too much makeup. No my guy, she's had a nose job, filler, botox, eye lift, etc, etc, etc. 🤦
And sometimes they're in full glam or full coverage make up, but...with nude tones 😂
Guys when girls are in full nude glam + fake lashes: “😊 natural beauty”
Guys when girls are bare faced wearing only red lipstick: “🤬 she’s wearing so much makeup”
Yup lol💯
@jenna_maria f*cking true❤🎉😊
when will they learn
Marilyn monroe had plastic surgery and so did elizabeth taylor, she wrote in her autobiography that she had a nose job when she was younger because she was insecure about her nose
I doubt it was drastic compared to these days, and her body was natural. Today, ugh. Fake tits, fake cinched waist, and a bbl which, according to many a caveman, SMELLS. And, the cavemen, well, to each her own. Ya want a caveman, you go girl but don't complain afterwards. A man with any sense will sew his wild oats when he's young and then settle with a partner to make a life plan. Men who eternally flutter about are an ABSOLUTE waste of time.
Elizabeth Taylor did not have work done in her face ie nose job Marylin did. Later Elizabeth did have a face lift but Elizabeth was a natural beauty.
I am 18 and struggling with my self-esteem. Lately, I have been comparing myself with other women or girls around me. Thank you for this. You are God send. I am still am in the process of accepting and loving myself.
Just stay healthy and you will be fine
I’m tired of celebrities in general, I find myself not liking any of them nowadays
Yeah they should just go get real jobs for Christs sake lol
I find myself just so over all of this in general. Much better to spend time focusing on great people and improving myself inside out.
Me too!!!! It helps to delete social media platforms. My last one is yt...thats why I am here commenting😂
Yeah.. celebrities are boring and definitely not interesting.
same I'm so burnt out on celebrities
Today I cannot even tell a difference between filtres and injections/ plastic surgery.
I never could 😅
Wait....they are different !?
Is there a difference lol?
@@nik23338 What I meant is that I don't know anymore if an influencer is using "enhancing" filters or just got a few injections ( bigger lips, cheekbones etc ) for ex: on TikTok.
Me either, and I'm an artist, I'm used to picking out the little details in the pictures of people's faces. The less subtle I can easily tell, but both procedures and filters are at a level that, when done correctly and carefully, can easily trick you. x_x
It's a wild take to say it's "rare to see natural beauties in the wild these days." Either you don't go out in "the wild" and just live in front of your phone screen, or your perception of physical beauty has become so warped you no longer find non-surgically/cosmetically enhanced faces beautiful. Maybe both.
I think you're absolutely right. I'm 44, and there certainly wasn't as much pressure on women to have perfect looks when i was a teen/early 20s. I can't help but feel ugly when I look at celebrities, knowing full well I shouldn't compare myself but simply can't help it.
Even the “natural beauties” of the golden age of Hollywood had plastic surgeries. Fewer plastic surgeries, but still not natural.
Yes marilyn monroe for example got much done .
Priscilla Presley was 100% natural though as well as Sophia Loren and Brigitte Bardot, Barbara Bouchet, Debra Paget, Sharon Tate, Gene Tierney, Vivien Leigh, Hedy Lamarr and many more. These women were exceptionally beautiful and no one today could compare to their beauty. Women nowadays look absolutely awful and insanely ugly with all that plastic. It baffles me how they think they look good.
Priscilla Presley was 100% natural though as well as Sophia Loren and Brigitte Bardot, Barbara Bouchet, Debra Paget, Sharon Tate, Gene Tierney, Vivien Leigh, Hedy Lamarr and many more. These women were exceptionally beautiful and no one today could compare to their beauty. Women nowadays look absolutely awful and insanely ugly with all that plastic. It baffles me how they think they look good.
Priscilla Presley was 100% natural though as well as Sophia Loren and Brigitte Bardot, Barbara Bouchet, Debra Paget, Sharon Tate, Gene Tierney, Vivien Leigh, Hedy Lamarr and many more. These women were exceptionally beautiful and no one today could compare to their beauty. Women nowadays look absolutely awful and insanely ugly with all that plastic. It baffles me how they think they look good.
Priscilla Presley was 100% natural though as well as Sophia Loren and Brigitte Bardot, Barbara Bouchet, Debra Paget, Sharon Tate, Gene Tierney, Vivien Leigh, Hedy Lamarr and many more. These women were exceptionally beautiful and no one today could compare to their beauty. Women nowadays look absolutely awful and insanely ugly with all that plastic. It baffles me how they think they look good.
The more women alter their looks to appear exactly the same the more of a natural beauty I become.
I’m proud to have my natural features. I still get mistaken for my early 20s. Filler face makes you look like you’re in you’re 45-50
@@Bunny11344I’m exactly the same! All I’ve had “done” is colouring my hair to cover greys, done facial yoga, and kept up a good skincare regime, but I still get mistaken for mid-twenties at 44. I’m not claiming to be a “beauty”, but naturally youthful is good enough for me.
@@Melissa.Garrett as the pool of natural-faced people dwindles, the more of us become "natural beauties" haha
@@rosehipowl That is a very good point! 😂 It’s an ill wind, etc.
Same! 😂
You forgot "Fake Eye Color", Tiny Harris, T.I. "Tip" Harris' wife had her Brown Eye Color surgically change to Ice Blue. Her Mom is is a Blue Eyed White Woman and I guess she felt she should have gotten the Blue Eyes along with the light complexion. I'm not sure but I believe she allowed one of her adult daughters to get the same procedure. Colored contacts have come a long way, taking the chance to lose your eyesight to change your eye is never worth it...
Whaaaaat?! Did not know this, my jaw dropped
Yup, go look back her im videos and pictures of the group "Xscape", she had Brown Eyes. Why risk your sight for vanity...
Thank you for you existing❤❤❤ You just safe my self-esteem every time. Bc comparing your unedited self with celebs makes me lose it
When they lie to our face and think we can’t SEE!🙄
Men's can't see it 😂😂😅
@@a.b.3602 my bf can and he thinks it’s hideous
They lie about it because most people will believe it. It's not just men who fall for this. A lot of young people fall for this and people from communities where plastic surgery isn't common also believes this. More people take information at face value than question it, so celebrities take advantage of that when it comes to their cosmetic surgeries.
@@Bunny11344 Welp, then I suppose that your Bf is a keeper!
People keep talking about how all those cosmetic procedures that rich celebrities are getting are making women who can't afford them feel bad, but I think saying that is leaving out a more crucial point, which is the absurdity of going under the knife - with all the risks and pain it entails - just to fit some superficial standard. Women shouldn't feel pressured to literally cut their faces and shave their bones to feel pretty and like they have value as humans. It's 2024, come on
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This!! These alternations aren’t without painful side effects, some of which last for years or a lifetime. No thank you!! Being “perfect” isn’t worth that.
Yeah I’m baffled to see young women taking the world backward.
Things may change though as doctors aren’t prescribing pain medicine for surgeries any longer.
Nailed it. What i can say is these women are fearless, I’m a baby even to have necessary medical procedures done. I don’t know if I would have the guts to willingly alter myself. 😅
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I’ve recently booked an appointment with a cosmetologist to book some skincare procedures. Fast forward a couple of hours I was getting filler in my cheekbones and jawline. I was crying in the doctor’s office, yet, still wasn’t brave enough to call the whole thing off. It saddens me that not only do we feel the external pressure from media, but medical professionals also have a skewed perspective and, rather than provide you with the service you originally walked in for, they talk you into doing something else, promising how much better life and your self-esteem will be afterwards
In reality, they just want our money 💰 but I hear you 😔
im sorry that happened :(
Please do not go back there again! They sound completely unethical and pushy to pressure you into procedures even when u were crying! That's horrid!
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Thank you for the support! Rn I don’t hate it, but the changes are minimal. I won’t go in there again and most likely won’t do any filler again. I’m also working on the quality of my skin, which is honestly something I was interested in in the first place
THere's a war on women. Love yourself is the only way to fight back ♥
The sad thing is everyone is blending into the same person. Unique beautiful faces- imperfections (individually perfect) faces are truly the gold standard to me ❤
So true!
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being naturally pretty is enough. Looking like a Sim is tacky. I dont care if my own natural beauty is or isnt enough, take it or leave it.
Yeah, I'm 57, don't wear any makeup except lipstick. Pretty Ok with everything but my neck at this point. I have had multiple people ask me where I got my nose done...UMMMM this is the original packaging, but thanks...I guess...
Can you tell me what a sim is? I never heard of that. Thank you.
The problem of beauty is that for be consider beauty you have to be not natural, unrealistic beauty
I don't think that's true, that's an AMERICAN and now, sadly a British view - I guess Korea too with the K pop thing? but lots of places elsewhere don't like it at all - France, Sweden, etc etc - honestly I also think all these young women with this surgery look awful. Megan Fox looked so much better pre surgery. sooo much. this ski jump nose, shaved pointed chin line etc, looks like a puppet it's bonkers. @@uvaverd
From a video game! Its a simulation realism game where you can make families in the world! Or they are talking about them looking like a simulation of eachother.. I'm noticing celebrities just all look the same.. Same with people who get work done! @AdrienneMint
Sometimes I wish makeup was never invented so people wouldn’t be so conditioned to expect women to wear it and so their idea of what’s natural isn’t so warped. I know some ancient (and less ancient) cultures wore makeup, including men, but idk how much it was expected back then. I just know about today. I wish it was the standard for us not to wear makeup and be just as barefaced as men, which is what should be considered natural.
What also concerns me is that the "natural beauty" demonstrated by many of these celebs via cosmetic surgery is essentially "westernised beauty". Ethnic features are being eliminated across the board and it's really worrying. The people suggesting these changes are presumably people with the power to make or break a career, reinforced by a media which praises the results, so there's also a power dynamic involved. It's something that's gone on since early Hollywood but it's gained so much traction in the last few decades. The net result is that children from non-white backgrounds will feel that their very heritage renders them ugly. It's so sad and scary.
So sad that people want to look the same! It reveals how much they truly dislike themselves.
I agree
and then scamper to get different fillers as soon as the trends change lol
It’s not weird when you get bombarded with the same face ten times plus a day. The unconscious mind registers “this is beauty” and when we look in the mirror “this is not beauty”. Notice people who aren’t chronically online appreciate different types of beauty but people who are online can only appreciate one type. Hence why they want to fit into that mold. I don’t agree with it, but it’s human nature.
@@user-rx7uh9mg4fWell said. Enslaved minds.
Money, money, money……
I don’t believe in the ratio system for judging “beauty”. Unique features, facial expressions, and looking after yourself are far more important, IMO.
and symetry isn't all that, I found myself attracted to people that are very far from symetrical
@@tdelioncourt1268 I’m the same, sometimes they’re very far from the “accepted” idea of attractive.
agree with this
ain’t this the truth. i wouldn’t call bella hadid the most perfect or beautiful woman in the world just because of some ratio. i don’t need a ratio to tell me what to find attractive or desirable. some of the most attractive people i’ve seen are asymmetrical and “imperfect”
Exactly, historically we always find some sort of exaggerated features more desirable, as they stimulate us more than just a pleasant symmetry. Like sure the symmetry is nice but then throw in some tweaks that exaggerate certain features and it's so much more interesting!! Like personally I am a sucker for big, beautiful, bumpy noses. The most beautiful feature apart from obvious ones like the eyes because they make dynamic. And even with eyes just think of the example of heterochromia and how many people go crazy over it because it breaks up the symmetry in an interesting way!
Thank you so much for what you do! I needed this one today 🙏🏻
Stephanie, All your videos are helping me to appreciate my own natural beauty. I like my skin, my hair, my face. True Body acceptance?? That is a working progress.
A guy once showed me a face of a girl that had TONS of makeup on, and he was praising her saying she looked Natural. Meanwhile the girl in the photo had tons of foundation, eyeshadow, contour, highlighter, a nose job, filler and he was fooled thinking it was natural, just because the tones of makeup were close neutral lol. Oh the naivety.
lol
The problem is that we are on our phones 24/7, so we see all these “natural beauty’s” online, and assume that this is how it should be. But what we do even less is to just look around when we are for example sitting in the subway. Not every second person has undergone surgery, and that’s completely fine. To just see how normal it is to be natural.🥰
Ppl have forgotten the beauty of everyday, working class people, that obviously take care of themselves but can't or won't have plastic surgery or enhancements. I'm not kidding, I see much better looking people by just walking down the street than on any social media, reality show or movie, and I know for a fact the people irl don't have filters on them.
This why British TV is more relatable.
Anchors, actors look more "normal"
I would recommend a trip to any city in germany and spend a day sitting in the subway just looking at other people. I live in Hamburg and almost no one wears a full face of makeup in their day to day life, a whole lot of women don't wear any makeup at all. It is so refreshing and wonderful to see all these natural faces. And I think most of them are just beautiful but not in a threatening way, more like in a piecefully coexisting way :)
Stephanie loving your videos- you keep me sane😂
I MISS THE TUTORIAL FOR HOODED EYES AND PORE CONCEALLING, GURL I'M AN O.G, BEEN HERE SINCE HE VICTORIA SECRET DEBACLE WITH THE UNRULLY BACKDROP, LOVE YOUR VIDEOS, YOU ARE ONE OF MY OGS HERE AND ONE OF 2 THAT I KEEP COMIMG BACKTO, LOTS OF LUV FOR YOU AND YOUR FAM!! GRETTINGS FROM MEXICO!!
Priyanka saying the surgeon “accidentally” shaved off the bridge of her nose 😂
NO SHE DID NOT!!!! Seriously???? 😂😂😂
IIRC Priyanka has also bleached her skin (at least in the past).....
@@ZoraDelaney no she didn't
Oops
but they did?? She even went into hiding from the public eye after it. Also why are you wh!te women getting into her business?
Didn't Marilyn Monroe have a rhinoplasty and various other cosmetic surgeries? The subtle surgical tweaks have been around for many moons!
Tweaks are a little different than complete changes in appearance..
Her chin, something on her brows that altered her hooded eyes also, her nose and i'm not sure about this last one, her chest
@@theresamcdonald-smith5046 she has a lot of plastic surgery for it to be considered only "Small Tweaks"
Yes marilyn monroe got much done nose, breast, chin, cheeks, brows, hairline and many more ... I guess that was always like that...
@@1rat4belle I think remember seeing something about a brow lift but that could be completely wrong!
Grrrrl, I"ve adored you & your content for years now - basically since your "lovely" Bondi Junction lip-tattoo saga lol - but it's the first time I'm commenting. Just really wanted to thank you for providing such a fun, healthy space to question & discuss all the "beautiful", crazy, fake, sick, homogenised, plastic-fantastic of today! You rock & you're gorgeous ❤
Love these uncut videos too and love your hair colour and style at the moment. It would be interesting to see a video analysis of Ryan Gosling.
Natural beauty does still exist. Just not in Hollywood.
Aside from plastic surgery & injections, makeup really makes a difference too. These celebrities would look like your everyday woman if it wasn’t for that too. Social media is so fake
Not to mention they have a village of people taking care of them
just be yourself
Don't forget the expensive dermas, creams and treatments. These people don't live "normal" lives, even with 1\4 of the care they receive any "average" person could look stunning. Just think about being able to sleep 8 hours per night and having a no stress life, that alone could make ppl look 20 years younger lol
Steph I love having you in this crazy world - thank you for all that you do xx
Thank you for making videos like these, they are important ♥
Natural (beauty) isn't rare. If you don't live on social media you see PLENTY of it. Your view of the actual world is skewed because you mistake what your social media algorithms are serving with real life.
@@user-ky4lh3uz7j India and Mexico too, stunning women there also
I decided to let my natural gray hair grow out at 40, and I can tell you that I get a lot of pushback from friends. It seems you can't win. Age naturally and get criticism. Get work done and get criticism...it's a tough journey for sure.
Do what you want, you only have one life to do it. Screw your friends 😊
I've always thought gray hair was stunning, I can't wait to have more. Aging is a gift we don't all recieve!
If someone says “you look old you should get your hair done” say “you say that like it’s a bad thing”
I plan on doing this too. I have hair down to my butt and already have visible white hair at 29. Im planning on letting it be all white and once the hair is fully colorless I’ll also wear white contacts and walk around like the incarnation of Storm.
Gets tougher, enjoy.
i feel so much better after watching this tysm xx
So cool that you're sponsored by Typology. I've been wanting to check them out for a while, might do so now. Thanks Stephanie!
i appreciate this video so much.
i’m so sick of my boomer female coworkers calling kendall jenner a “natural beauty that hasnt had any plastic surgery.”
& i’m like oh, a brow lift, lip filler, nose job and boob job are no longer “plastic surgery” anymore!? what the hell are you talking about!!!
Raise your hand 🙋🏻♀️ if you still have all of your original body parts? No hate if you want to change your face/body just don’t lie! 🇵🇹🇧🇷🇺🇦🇷🇺🇷🇴🙋🏻♀️ 3:00
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I have the funds to get work done but I love myself too much and don’t think I need it. Women need to focus on the bigger picture in life.
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Chipped my tooth so I have a cap but other than that, I'm natural 🫰🏼
Me, but i need to have a surgery on my ears bc the hole i used to put on earrings on my left ear is completely destroyed as if someone cut it with scissors, and the one on my right ear is too big, so there's a chance it gets destroyed too
one of my fav videos so far, thank u sm, seriously
There are still some natural beauties out there!! I'm in the middle of nowhere Oklahoma (United States) and there's not a ton of women around here getting procedures done. There are the outliers of course, but most of us are still completely natural. I've never had any procedures, fillers, fake eyelashes, hair, etc. the only thing I've ever done is to dye my hair, and that is a very rare occasion that happens maybe once every couple of years. Those that stay off social media or don't follow influencers aren't "influenced" to live these lifestyles, but that is definitely becoming more rare! 💖
I feel so lucky, at 41 to have had zero tweakments.. i rock my grey hair.. and i feel great!! I wear very little makeup, i go to the gym most days and enjoy walks.. i use good skincare but not to excess, aaaand i genuinely like how i look... that to me is natural beauty. An appreciation for yourself, as you are.
I feel sad for these 'beautiful women'
I noticed when naturally beautiful women have work done on their faces they lose something-a sparkle, a glow something that they can’t get back after surgery. And it’s the thing that made them so alluring!
Agreed! Seems like they actually become uglier!!
That's exactly what I thought when I saw the jlaw pic
Apparently no Cindy Crawford
Anya Taylor Joy. God. She had this unique look/aura to her face, add the unique eyes to this. Then she did whatever to her face and looks very stone-like, cold.
Because naturally beautiful people already have a harmonic face, with certain things you focus on to bring it all together.
But they end up changing the wrong things and ruin that, and makes the whole face to loose balanced contrast between features, and the slight "imperfections" won't lead your eyes to their standout features anymore, and they wont stand out as much.
Does that make sense?
Absolutely agreeing witth you on this one. This is damaging to young women, and particularly young women/teens with small extended families or broken homes. When you don't see people that look like you, and especially as females because looks are so heavily prioritised with females, and the ones shown to be "beautiful" have no characteristics you have, it's easy to believe you're not attractive. Seeing the relatives you get your looks from can be helpful with this, I think. Granted those relatives will be older, but the feeling of belonging goes a long way. I regularly talk to my daughter about her grandmother because she looks just like her and never got to meet her. I know she's struggling with beauty standards, so I really want to remind her that beauty is more than what your skin, hair, face, etc. looks like. Her gran was a beautiful woman and I tell her regularly (and I'm pleased to say her dad also says that about his mom, which is really good feedback for a daughter to hear from her dad).
Imagine Pryanka’s plastic surgeon hearing her say they made a mistake and “accidentally shaved” off the bridge of her nose 😂 I’d be so mad at my credibility being called into question
😂😂😂 excellent point. I always thought she had a plastic looking face, I’m surprised she tried to hide that.
I think it’s important to recognize that beauty is subjective. The media or “society” on average may think Kim Kardashain or Bella Hadid are the definition of beauty, but I know plenty of people who don’t like that manufactured look at all. It comes down to personal taste and attraction. Chances are while trolls on the internet might think a natural face is ugly, the real people in your life do not.
but they’re also really different across the world. in north america, having straight, white teeth is attractive but in japan, some misaligned and crooked teeth are considered youthful and attractive.
I agree and I think most people in the world wouldn't find that look as attractive as a naturally beautiful person still, I think that people often confuse beauty trends with beauty standards when I don't think the standard is that sort of look at all.
It's funny because in my country Kim Kardashian looks extremely average. You go outside, you will meet everyone looks like Kim Kardashian. Her face would not phase anyone in my country. Same for Jennifer Lopez. She is considered very beautiful in USA but you will find millions of women who look just like her in my country. Difference is, they are considered average
Not subjective at all.... from Jesus to greek gods to Marlon Brando ,Romy Schneider or Brigitte Bardot,beauty have Always subjugate peoples
@crestfire8008 which country?
I came into this video expecting it to upset me, yet I left feeling honestly a little bit better about myself... relieved? Seen? Thank you for talking about this, because now I see that what I've been comparing myself to as a 26 year old is not real, and I ACTUALLY get it now.
Yes,I feel the same.
You go girl! You are beautiful the way you are!
@catherinewardwell2117 thank you, the same for you🙏✨️
You run with your naturally beautiful self sweetheart...You Be Youtifull🌹
@karenwencke5511 thank you, friend, and and to you🙏✨️
I'll be 54 yo and I needed this reminder. I get fooled over hair and I know there's some with thick beautiful hair naturally but most have extensions. Also teeth, so many ppl have veneers and I appreciate when people come forward and share what they've had done. ❤
There are still lots of us women who remain untouched by Botox , cutting and clipping . I’m aging naturally . I don’t want to look like a weird smooth seal .
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@jupiterssong8127, That is the best description I have heard in a long time! I will be using that in the future. Thank you for brightening my day.
‘Weird smooth seal’ is now my go to phrase for the plastic women in the office….😅
Totally agree with everything you say. I admire Barbara Streisand who once said why should she have a nose job when her children (daughter) had the same nose as her mother. Their children can have the features they were dissatisfied with but children are no longer looking like their parents. A lot of women are all looking the same, even alot of Male actors have nose or facial lifts. These days to be a natural beauty does not include celebrities or actors. The bad thing is these procedures need maintaining, it's not just a one off.🇬🇧🇬🇧
Underrated comment. I didn’t know she said that, but how true! Why get all this work done when even your offspring will no longer resemble you.
I want many plastic surgeries, but alas, I am not rich. But natural noses are so beautiful! It's the one thing I'd never change on my face or anyone else's. Part of the reason is that it makes me feel connected to distant ancestors and family members I'll never meet.
thank you for making this video, gorgeous 💜
Thank you for bringing this to our attention as we have all been duped. For example, the beauty of the women in the 70s soap Charlie Angels can't be compared with their beauty of women in soaps today.
Wait for five years. Then we will have a verdict on the extent that they are natural beauties.
Or ten. :)
Agree fillers destroy your face
honestly its enough to see ariana grande's face - or jennifer lawrence's. first lady have started very early, second have done pretty much in short period
people have been saying this for so long, just accept they can afford not aging, fixing whatever botched surgery
I can't wait for the "trend" to be over. Then us actual natural (regular not rich folks) beauties will shine!
i do think that natural beauty is dead, this societe pushes you to either get plastic surgery/fillers/botox or to cake your face with makeup but no matter what you'll get criticized. If you have work done to your face is bad, if you put on too much makeup it's bad but if you don't put on any makeup you'll also get criticized and get comments like "you're not put together", "you could've make an effort and put on a little bit of makeup", "you look sick".... I even feel like you're unconsciously forced to be into skincare because you're bombarded with girls with perfect glass skin everywhere, with no pores, no blemish, no redness and if you have some "imperfections" you can get comments like "you should try this and this and this, you're skin will be perfect afterwards !"...
Definitely. People make billions from our insecurities so the more natural beauty is dead- the more we need to buy to feel like we even look non-ugly/reasonable.
All of this banks on you caring what others think though. Just do what makes you happy and screw what “society” wants you to look like. I know it’s easier said than done, but we’ve gotta to start rebelling against these notions instead of giving in to them.
my biggest question when someone tells me to "put more effort into how you dress" im like, FOR WHOOOO BITCH FOR WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! because most likely "for myself" isnt a good answer for them.
Thank you for making this kind of content. It’s really important to talk about and you get the right balance of not calling anyone ugly etc in their old appearances but still highlighting how they’re gone to alter their appearances and how we haven’t noticed and think we are so inferior to these ‘naturally’ beautiful celebrities. I also applaud you for speaking openly that you’ve had things done as you are also very beautiful but again we know that while most of that is you and your genetics there is that added element which requires enhancements to look like what society currently defines as naturally beautiful. More talking about this could make some people get these procedures but I hope it ultimately makes people realise that this is all a facade too and we are finally seeing behind the curtain! I hope society can start turning away from all this but I think it will only be increasing unfortunately. Like in South Korea it seems like so man young girls are already doing what previously only people in the public eye were doing.
I think we’ll see a major backlash against the impossible beauty standards. Beauty ideals come and go. I think the backlash is already starting.
the surgeon shaving priyankas nose by accident XD as if
Yeah right 😂 girl please. What a lame excuse. If I was her surgeon I would rat her out. Making him look incompetent just so she can try to not look like a hypocrite.
@@nitely2345 You have to wonder about the IQ of someone who wants us to believe her surgeon "accidentally" shaved her nose
(!). What kind of mind could come up with such a fantasy...and expect to be believed??
that actually happens. it’s called or referred to as an accidental nose job
@@leinaleilani Yeah I had a correction to my septum because of a breathing problem I had since I was twelve. I had previously had a bump on my bridge and I never said to shave it, in fact I said to leave it, but it was shaved, in fact my bridge was what surgeons call "overscooped". I wondered if he had me confused with someone else! But then, he did fix my breathing issue so I guess not? Anyway, I went back for a revision to get him to raise the bridge of my nose (it didn't give me my exact old nose back, but it's a lot closer to what it used to be). There's a problem of a bundle of scar tissue on my nose tip that makes my eyes water/sinus sting for some reason if I rub it a certain way but I'm not going to the same surgeon three times because he seems to be a screw up. I think I will have to travel to get that repaired because the only other surgeon in my city that I called, the receptionist hung up on me every time I tried to introduce myself over the phone (I suspect it was because I spoke English) and so that left me with one option. He had good reviews and stuff and since I was only going in for a medical issue and not cosmetic I thought no big deal but unfortunately he decided I wasn't good looking enough and that he needed to play god on my face. So now I will have to pay for yet another revision. But on the bright side, my medical problem was solved so I do try to focus on that because it was really a big problem for me (I had basically massive sinus headaches, as if they were migraines, for about 10 years). So yes, you are right, it DOES happen. It seems like she is fibbing, but there's a chance she's telling the truth (but in her case I kinda doubt it).
@venus_envy -- That's... weird. He shouldn't have been in that area of your nose (the bridge) if he was just fixing the deviated septum. And then to not get it right a second time? That's straying into malpractice territory, one would think, since he did something you specifically told him not to. From both personal experience and anecdotal evidence, fixing septums and/or turbinates (often done together) doesn't change the outside shape of your nose (I was disappointed to learn, as I'd hoped my nose bump would get smaller).
I honestly appreciate the effort Stephanie puts in her videos❤I’ve really been struggling with my body image but these videos truly help me and uplift my self esteem-Love you lots and you’re rocking being a mom❤
its nice that someone is talking about this problem, thank you for that Stephanie :))
When I was younger a natural beauty was more like someone who was pretty and didn’t wear hardly any or no makeup and even didn’t dye their hair. It meant more like a laidback girl next door, almost a tomboy or a granola. If someone is wearing tons of glossy makeup they already aren’t a natural beauty to me. It was more like a style or a choice.
Megan Fox saying she's only had a nose job, breast augmentations and one "gate kept" procedure 😂
When she’s literally had her whole face done
Frankly, most of these natural beauties barely look human anymore. To me, anyway.
@@walterco7701 they look like they're always swollen, like perpetually in pain
Who gaf, Megan is stunning and always has been
She has definitely had some body work done as well but of course denies it. The entire podcast she repetitively said how she “has no fat”, “is so tiny”, “is so thin” 🤦♀️ sounds unhealthy to me.
I might be nit picking here and also could be wrong but I'm pretty sure Marilyn Monroe had work done too, she looked very different in her norma-jean days
The bosses at the film studios made her change her looks because they had the idea of what a natural woman should look like.
@daryljackson3430 and her old face fit not in hollywood she had a very average looking face that why she got so much plastic surgery done and change completely how she is ...
I have followed you for years and absolutely love you!
I always wait for Stephanie's videos . Love from India Great work keep it up ❤
you said exactly what ive always been saying. people only admire natural beauty if they naturally fit the IMPOSSIBLE beauty standard.
There are plenty of natural beauties, they just aren't in the public eye, because the public expects fake.
I like my face. I have a lot of features these celebrities have chosen to alter, and I'm not sure what they thought was so wrong with them. Like, why does your nose need to be thinner? What's wrong with your full, youthful cheeks? Your thinner, but still gorgeous smile? I see almost the same face on every woman in the public eye, it's disconcerting.
Off topic, but your skin is glowing and your hair really brings out your skin tone! Gorgeous 😍
How backwards the world has become.
no bc give me a time when it wasn’t
It’s been broken since the fall of man, but it’s definitely getting worse and worse
I'm grateful to have never had a single procedure done after having seen some of the women I used to go to middle/high school with start to get botox and lip fillers. Most of them look overdone, and OLDER. I'm 30 years old. Only a couple actually ever just got a nose job (which was the one procedure I was thinking of getting, but I eventually realized that my nose is a pretty normal size and shape) anyway, I do have forehead wrinkles starting to come in, and I have found that those patches called Frownies have been a game changer for me. You have to wear them at night consistently, but they work pretty much overnight. The effect lasted at first for only a few hours, but I'm a month into it now and it lasts all day, and your skin tells you when it's time to wear em again. Awesome product, and not permanent!
Stephanie, I really appreciate this series of posts you have done which exposes the truth. It’s really young women who need to be informed that what they envy isn’t even real. So many don’t know. Discovering that those women that they wish they could be like are largely artificial may be the very impetus that flips the standards from artificial to true natural beauty. As you pointed out, they do exist but they are also unique. And of course, it’s still about who you are that brings all of it to life.
Stephanie, thank you! I was watching Fool Me Once thinking that the actress (yes, Michelle Keegan) is wayyyy perfect and how does she do it. Then I started noticing the same lip movements that I've noticed on numerous other people that got lip fillers. And I looked her up. So yea, I was kinda fooled once, but it took only around 3 episodes.
Gosh, why do these beauties tend to not be happy with themselves?
Wake up having plastic surgery is not natural. Happy Easter 🐣🐇 too you Stephanie.❤❤❤
I agree. Let’s just let it go. “Perfection” is not real. It never existed and never will.
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Yeah ... There is always going to be the argument for freedom of choice when it comes to plastic surgery. My concern is that this pressure to look like a doll as a cis het woman is too close to making our lives a performance (for societal norms/the male gaze etc) and it is very hard for me to be convinced that the main reason someone is getting plastic surgery is "I did it for myself" and not because life is easier in the patriarchy when you fit the standard beauty norms. And I feel sad about the implicit pressure we all feel to play along with that game in order to live a fulfilling life "for ourselves"
“I did it for myself” is a cop out. Choice feminism is a cop out.
Male gaze lol. Men never asked for this nor do they care about it. The beauty industry is run almost entirely by women and gay men. Women influence other women to look a certain way = its mens fault. In order to solve the problem you have to look at whats causing it and its womens own securities and herd like mentality where they just have to follow the next trend.
I LOVE this comment 🎯
The "I did it for myself" is such major bullshit lol just admit you wanted to conform to the beauty standards to feel more attractive and go, no need to make up excuses. As if I'm gonna believe anyone would spend time and effort in a full face of makeup or fillers\botox\plastic surgery if they were on a deserted island with no other humans because that means "I did it for myself".
I use makeup because it makes me feel good, because I feel more conforming to what society expects from me as a female-presenting person, I'm aware of the mechanism and I chose to abide by the rules to live an easier societal life. That's it, no need to hide lol
Hi Steph! Love your videos. They’re the perfect reminder that the Internet isn’t real, and neither are beauty standards. I was wondering if you could please make a video on “fat arms?” This is an insecurity I’ve struggled with all my life, and it’s the only cosmetic procedure I’ve considered getting. I almost exclusively wear long sleeves to hide my arms. It would be great to see a video like this breaking that “issue” down. Thanks!! Sending love from Massachusetts, USA
I love you Stephanie Lange. Even after all these years as a CZcamsr you still keep it real ❤ xxx
People keep asking why celebrities won’t just admit what they did to their face. It’s because when you’re in high position of status and fame, you become narcissistic let’s be honest, and you want to feel superior to everyone, making others feel inferior. It’s all about ego.
Bring back big noses, crooked teeth, chubby cheeks, weak jaw lines, small lips…let’s bring back some differences please, let our children grow up to know it’s okay to be different and still feel beautiful
I think its best if people dodnt need to think they were beautiful to feel worth something. Plenty of people will say im not clever or i suck at maths and not see themselves as less than others so why do people HAVE to seer themselves as beautiful? Why dontthey just say im not the pretiest and be ok with it? What vanity it is to believe that you have to be beautiful. Its the same arrogance that is there with people who have to be smart/intelligent.
maybe not "beautiful" but part of the landscape@@lcako1616
Nicely made points, Stephanie 👍🏻 Loving your videos ❤️❤❤
Stephanie! I love your commentary and your gorgeous. Cracked up with 'every man and his dog' with the dog barking sound added in to the background. 😂 Love your work! 😊
Take a look at Gillian Anderson. She gives me hope that natural beauty still exists and will always be there, while instagrammers and tiktokers will chase next big trend.
She's gorgeous! Love her.
she's lovely but she's absolutely had work
Isabelle Fuhrman also still has her original "orphan" look, which I like 😁
I hope she never gets lip filler, it's a shame because some girls look way prettier with natural thin lips
This content is so necessary! Thank you
Video topic aside, whatever makeup thing you did under your eyes is really cute. Very mesmerizing effect that draws the eyes to it as you articulate with your face as you speak :3
You’re so right! Thank you for these videos 🙌❤️
I love these videos so much! Thank you Stephanie once again.
Maybe online. In real life normal people I don’t know anyone who’s gotten work done. La isn’t the whole world
You included Brian in the end, love him ❤
Emma Stone, Jenna Ortega, Zendaya and Anya Joy Taylor also have v impressive subtle work
I wouldn't call Anya Taylor Joys, Emma Stones or Jenna Ortegas work subtle. It's a pretty drastic change.
hi stephanie love ur videos! Such an amazing content.