girl, wtf have you done to ur boobs...?!
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- čas přidán 16. 09. 2023
- Breast augmentation aka the 'boob job' is the most popular plastic surgery worldwide. It's almost harder to find women in the public eye who HAVEN'T felt the need to surgically alter the look of their breasts, than it is to find women who have. It seems like every influencer, every successful model, every actress, every singer has had their boobies changed. Which begs the question. Why on earth, are we so insecure about our natural boobies? Why are we so ashamed of them, that we undergo SURGERY in order to alter them to look more aesthetically pleasing? Just like bodies in general - boobs come in all different shapes and sizes. Sometimes, different shapes and sizes on the one woman. It's NORMAL to have one boob bigger than the other. It's NORMAL to have 'saggy' boobs. It's NORMAL to have small boobs. It's NORMAL to have big boobs. What's NOT normal however, is for us to all have the exact same boobs. Let's stop this damaging normalisation of breast augmentation surgery (with all the potential side effects and recovery that it entails) and start normalising different breast sizes and shapes.
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Ok - first off:
It's odd that we are judging what a woman does to her own body.
Secondly:
Let them figure it out for themselves. They will learn.
Thirdly!!:
Chill OUT with all this hyper judgment to feed to the masses. What happened to 'live and let live'?! Or is it 'once it goes onto social media, of any kind, its free game to pick apart' now?! I just dont get it. WHY WASTE YOUR DAMN TIME ON THIS NONSENSICAL GRIPE?! We have DECADES of this crap. It isnt new. Its exhausting.
There is SO MUCH to learn, to do, to be happy while not bickering over someone else's PERSONAL life (they OBVIOUSLY DID IT BEFORE POSTING SO YOUR OPINION ISNT GONNA CHANGE THEIR MINDS!!!) choices because youre making the correct ones for your own dang self 🤷🏻♀️💡
I fully understand commenting on this helps boost this video but come the hell on --- move on!!
Your life is your own - so go live it, happily (film THAT), as long as you're not causing harm to anyone (just like these women in the video).
❤ JUST BE GOOD TO EACHOTHER, DAMN.
You obviously don’t understand the message. These videos are not about judging what women do to their bodies, it’s about the false message they put out there.
you didn't understand what this video and her channel is about.
This obviously hit a nerve because Stephanie is one of the few CZcamsrs who doesn’t judge these women many times throughout a single video she calls them beautiful, attractive before & after surgeries. No one is stopping you from getting all the surgeries you want she speaks on the effects of surgery & photoshop all over social media.
@@jonyrey8078exactly, I've had a boobjob myself, but lipofilling, and I love it! But what's being said here is so, so important! Never follow trends, and surgery is too risky, expensive and painful everyone should reconsider all of this before undergoing a boobjob
You said be good to each other and yet you are criticizing her content.
Lady she is being good to her younger sisters out there. Image insecurity never get old, and fyi she is not talking for those who already did it she is talking about those whom MIGHT feel insecure because of what they see online. Her content is helpful damn! If you don't like it YOU MOVE ON. WE other people need it. Thank you.
It took me until my mid 20s to realize that women's boobs don't actually look like that naturally.
It’s the porn star look.
sadly, men like it like that, and they think b00bs were supposed to look like that. perky.
that's why my biggest insecure are my breasts.. even my ex said it looks like fat man b00bs..
SMH...
Girl Saaaaame. I thought my boobs where the outliners, the odd ones, but noppe turns out I was just fed a false narrative
But men's like it I guess
Same 😢
I have huge boobs, and I still get made fun of. There’s no win for us.
True unfortunately. When you don't have you're flat, when you do, you're still made fun of.
I got bullied for my large chest until i left school
@@viovalentine273 :(
Let's not even start with the back pain.
true.
Paris Hilton has always been kind of a "breast rolemodel" to me. Back in the days she had really small breast and I remember the media teasing her about it but she never gave in. She just rocked it - I admire her for that. Now it seems like they have gotten bigger but I think that's because she gained a little weight over the years (which is fine, of course).
Maybe because she is a mom now?
@@huevitoestrelladoo she is but thanks to a surrogate, so her body stayed pretty much the same
I love her for that
It's crazy how big of a role Paris played for me, because she was very much in the picture simultaneously as I was teased for my chest. Just her existence and not giving in gave me invisible confidence to just not to it, and wait it out. I do think Paris did plenty in terms of cosmetic surgery, but she kept it as natural as possible as a celebrity. I'm glad she was there though, because it was rough with the quickly changing body standards.
It’s true. I remember Paris talking about how much she loved rocking outfits without needing a bra and I thought that was so empowering. I had never thought of my small boobs are something to appreciate and lean into rather than a flaw to hide with a padded bra or whatever
Breast asymmetry is a common and completely normal occurrence in women's bodies. It should be accepted without judgment or concern. In fact, nearly all women have some degree of unevenness between their breasts. Embracing this natural diversity is essential for promoting body positivity and self-acceptance. Very informative and good video, Stephanie.
It's really normal
Fr I don't think men's balls look 100% the same
The norm is for them to be uneven with the fact that the left is generally slightly but noticeably bigger, it's fine as long as we are healthy looks don't matter we're all gonna die eventually and die wrinkly and weak it's beautiful and it's okay ❤
I've literally never SEEN or KNOWN anyone with breast asymmetry. I think it's a sign of something being off when you grow through puberty, and i say this as someone with a crooked jaw from injury so don't even try dismissing my opinion as hateful for no reason, i'm being honest
@@zizojaezekeom3565 I've heard from women that right is generally slightly bigger
Getting a boob job was and still is the biggest regret of my life. I was modeling back then and felt the pressure so I jumped on the bandwagon without thinking of the possible consequences. I ended with with breast implant illness and had them removed. The scar tissue around the implant had adhered to my chest wall and my surgeon had to scrape it off along with a lot of my natural breast tissue. I am now a 32A and was a small 32C/large 32B naturally. While the implants themselves don’t cause illness it is a foreign object in your body which causes inflammation and puts your immune system on high alert. High inflammation is also very aging. Our immune systems get weaker as we get older, so what your body can deal with in your 20s changes in your 30s and beyond.
Thank you for this post! I hope you are ok ♥
I was 21 in 1988; living in LA, the pressure to get BA was intense. I was an A cup (on a good day), and huge, round, fake-looking silicone breasts (“80’s Boobs”) were the rage.
I am SOOO glad I never succumbed to the pressure. My body was/is beautiful, and best of all, it rarely gives me any problems. Though I think people can/should do what they want with their bodies, I wish more women felt like I do about what they’ve got.
Best of luck to you. Perhaps, one day, you’ll be able to go bra-free when you’re an old lady like me!
**NOTE: My comment is really meant for us “bitty-titty” girls; I do want my “bountiful bosom” sisters to share the same body confidence as I have, but I realize that it’s “easy for [me] to say.” Breast reductions are often done for different reasons than BAs, and I don’t consider the surgeries in the same way.**
thank you for this. i am 28 and have been a 32A my whole life, it is my biggest insecurity honestly. it's hard to feel sexy and like a woman. even women have made me feel horrible for having a flat chest. but comments like this make me feel like maybe it's not so bad.
@@urkittenmee Small breasts are gorgeous. I’ve never had a man complain about mine! 😉
Not to mention textured breast implants specifically are linked to BIA-ALCL. ☢️
I breastfed five babies for a total of 10 years. It was always easier to feed them on the right side so I had one bigger than the other all that time. I can assure you they do even out again. And my boobs are still amazing. I honestly think breastfeeding kept them perkier. I hate that boobs became a sexual object to where women feel like they need to have bigger perkier ones to please men. I don't give a s*** what men think about my boobs. They did what they needed to and fed my children.
Because of the breastfeeding, my breasts were swollen and covered in stretch marks, causing them to sag due to gravity afterwards. It was difficult for me to accept my body's changes at first, especially since my tissue isn't as firm as it used to be, and I naturally have very bad tissue. My stomach is also covered in stretch marks up to my belly button. However, my husband still finds me as beautiful, if not more, because my body reminds him of the happy memories we share from my pregnancy with our son.
well said
I believe there is a great misconception that us women with the desire to have bigger ones do so for men. No. Yes obviously we live in a society and are under influence of the wishes a society posses. However I always wanted to have big boobs. As a child I wished for them to grow to a size similiar to my mom. I was excited when they started to grow. I want them for myself. I want them cause I believe they will compliment my figure a bit more,because clothes will fall much better (at least the once of my styling choice). I want to wear dresses with nice cleavage but I would need tits for that to work well. I dont care when men say they like or even prefer them smaller. My bf has never complained either. It what I want.
@@SaschaBraus77 Believe me you don't want them. I am laying in bed for the last 2 weeks with ice packs and heating pads because they are killing my back. They are not fun.
keep telling yourself that but it ultimately leads back to the beauty standards created by men so, yes, having breast implants is most definitely done with the intention of pleasing men whether or not you like it@@SaschaBraus77
I seriously feel like the normalization of sex trafficking/the porn industry, the male gaze in film being the norm: female nudity in film being the norm, and marketing to put us down and make us buy to think it will make us look better? Btw, what is up with advertising for women? As I straight female, I do not want to see all of that! But yah, it’s a very bizarre situation, but it needs to be discussed and better solutions had. Women should start to demand more. Thanks for the video.
💯Patriarchy and the casual @buse of young girls are 100% the cause of our dehumanization and the non-human beauty standards we're subjected to. It's sick
🥰🥰.certainly, i might not be american nor i know the big struggle of american women with these beauty standards. but after i watched a lot of american content (hhhh it's all over my foryou page) i confirmed that what media says about you is so wrong ( i believed it wasn't half true from the beginning but still...) trust me girl the image of the american women in the rest of the world eyes is tarnished as if every one of you is like a porn actress ( and it's so sad but rumour will always be rumour and false advertising did not leave anybody) after watching so much of my favourite american youtubers including stephanie it's bothering me a loooooot😡😡. in my country beauty standards may exist but not in the same scale and women who have done plastic surgery are looked at in a bad light so it's not popular at all but still everything we women do is wrong .
Yes! My thoughts exactly. It is so weird and so uncomfortable for me.
I’m from India and let me share you an incident in rural India. There is this guy who married a girl via arranged marriage demanded the girl to get a boob job done otherwise he said he will give divorce. He sent the girl to her parents house only to take her back after the breast augmentation surgery. The parents and relatives convinced the girl to do it. Rural parts of India. Pushing people to have boob job. This is sick. There are so many side effects to it. What if guys normalises it due to ignorance? Omg !!! I can’t imagine what the future holds. Scary picture
I hope she gets the divorce 😐😐
But that's considered bad in rural India right?
Effects of P**n! If that guy wanted a girl with big tits, he should've looked elsewhere and not put that poor girl through misery 😑
@@Frankie.s yess. And since it's rural India I am gonna make a pretty bad generalization and say that she doesn't even has any job experience or support of family to choose who she wants to marry. She doesn't has a choice
@@farmcottage5404did she force him to get pp. Enlargement surgery!?
@@kyrak.4143 there was no mention of pp enlargement surgery. So No. It was the husband who wanted the wife to get better boobs and threatened to leave her if she didn't. There was no mention of her making any demands for enlargement surgery.
I am 47 years old. Two years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I have wanted a boob job my whole life. After hearing I might have to have them totally removed, I have never been more grateful to have what I have. My whole perspective has changed. I’m so glad to be cancer free, small boobs and all
Congratulations on your survivorship!
@@geneva5619 thank you!
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I’m really happy for u being cancer free is amazing❤ I’ve always wanted a boob job bc mine r so big so a reduction. Small boobs are so much better❤
from a girl whose been busty since puberty (I was a 38DDD) at a lower weight in my teens, to a 44DDD now in my 30s. let me tell you, big boobs are a pain. I haven't had a breast reduction bc I'm afraid of surgery. you have to wear bras almost all the time so your back won't be in pain and it limits the clothing you can wear bc if you wear any thing that maybe accidentally shows your cleavage ppl try to sexualize your body immediately. the way that ppl will look at me just bc I am busty is uncofortable tbh.
I feel that 😒
Also, the pain AFTER you remove the bra at nighttime when you've worn it the whole day is sooo bad. Suddenly your back remembers what it had to carry all day.
girls!!! i had a boob reduction at age 22 (so 6 years ago) and it was the BEST decision ever!!! I had been so unsure whether I should do it but my back was killin me. Do what feels right for you, but it was the best decision for me personally 🙂
I’m similar but different. I’m a D cup and some say I’m DD but I have small boobs. It’s weird but it’s just because I have like an abnormally small rib cage or something. So I can never find a bra that fits me right. I can’t even image your pain though. ❤
Omg you have said it perfect girl! In my younger years I was a 34H(looked odd because of how small my body WAS) and now at 44 years old(one child later and diagnosed with congestive heart failure which means lots of swelling/fluid weight) I’m now heavier and a 40J!!!! My precious momma who passed from Covid in 2021 was big busted so all the girls inherit these big ole jugs-some say blessed however my back doesn’t think so!!! My boobs are so heavy I have dents in my shoulders. Of course a boob job isn’t near as heavy as real ones so of course it’s easy to say get a boob job if you want it! I see a boob reduction in my future! 😂
I’m sixteen, and am almost completely flat if I have a bra on. I used to be really insecure, but now that I’ve gotten into running and other cross fit, it really is a blessing to not have everything jiggling around😅
i used to have E cups and running sucked so bad. i don’t miss my tits at all. it’s so much easier being flat
Girl keep that mind set because I would love to have my 16 year old small ones back. 🙌🙌 I think their kinda pointless lol Plus you don't have to wear a bra aka boob prisons 😂
@@Tiffany-RoseI’m a small breasted woman but I still wear bras when I’m out cause I don’t like when things run against my nipples 😭 I feel like I’m the only small boob girl that likes bras.
@@BlackNoiseCat ahh, I can understand that. I have sensory issues but thankfully not there 😣 I used to not mind them but the last couple years I've just felt I was wearing some torture device even bralettes are driving me nuts now 🤷♀️ Lol
@@Tiffany-Rose I totally agree when it comes to just chillen at home. But when I’m out I need to wear a bra depending on the activity.
The girl who had a breast lift and then said she looks like she's been attacked by wild dogs....I had a breast reduction at 16 because I'd developed H cups by 14 and was being followed by grown men on the street, had ridiculous back pain, couldn't exercise properly etc. Point is my boobs look like hers underneath now, they have scars and hearing her describe them that way stings. I've never regretted my reduction and have embraced the way that they look, but hearing other women be so hateful of the same things on their body hurts.
I understand that feeling. I think it's all relative. One side is getting those scars cause of vanity, that we change something that isn't even faulty to begin with and end up with other "faults". And the other side being more medical, someone with huge issues and limitations in life that can get rid of that and the only consequence are some scars "faults". It's all about what we have to begin with and what we gain or lose 💕
The way I see it, she's angry at herself for getting the surgery and that's why she's using hateful language to describe the scars/herself. It seems like pretty much everyone who gets a reduction or augmentation has some scarring but it's more of an issue for her because she didn't even really need the surgery in the first place. If you're happy with your own results then those scars are totally worth it! Everyone has scars for one reason or another and yours is a very good one
I have really small breasts, but if I were in your shoes I would say the scars would be worth it. I had a good friend in high school who had a reaction and she was so much happier after! The poor gal was in so much pain and couldn’t participate in PE. It was so worth it for her! Plus I have so many scars from c sections. I don’t notice. They’re worth it.
Your scars are worth and necessary which is what makes them beautiful. Her’s are from a procedure she never medically needed and she’s angry at herself for having it done.
Many celebrities say "I got this done but I regret it" but they have plenty of money, why don't they just reverse their surgeries and get their implants out or their fillers dissolved? They say that just to be more likeable, they don't actually regret it in my opinion
Totally agree with you
Watching this a man this is honestly very shocking to see. I feel ashamed that the majority of the people of my gender pressure woman to such extremes. Thank you for spreading awareness and educating woman on this topic. Sadly most men probably won't get videos like this recommended even though they should know about this. Much love to all people who feel pressured by social media and lying influencers etc.
You are already good enough and amiable
I didn't expect to see a comment like yours. I noticed all the likes... you've said words that lifted many women 😊
Thank you for this post! I actually think it's not really men who are pressuring women to look a certain way, but other women and society, influencers and social media. It's an indirect, insidious pressure.
No it's definitely men pressuring women women only pressure other women ....for the competition of men
Thank you, thats very sweet.🥺
@@annefrancess1224 I feel pressured by society in general and comparing myself to other women. And I'm not even interested in men! lol
I’m 33, and am so glad I didn’t follow through with augmentation at 25. They’re PERFECT in my 30s, and came to amazing symmetry and sit perfectly no matter minor weight fluctuations. I was always a gradual developer, and I didn’t realize how your body can sometimes come to its final form later- let alone your late 20s/early 30s. Give yourselves a chance to love your bodies before you change them.
I'm definitely part of the Itty Bitty Titty Committee. I was bullied as a kid, called "flat chested" etc. which made me feel inscure. Now, that I am turning 30 in 2 months, I love my small boobies. I think small boobies are great, big boobies and medium boobies as well. The important thing is to accept your body, if that means getting a boob job - so be it. As long as it's your decision and not just outside pressure, and your happy with it, you go girl.
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I remember walking out of my apartment elevator when I was a teenager (maybe I didn’t look like one but still) and this girl had the nerve to comment on me having “no booty” as I turned around to walk to my apartment as she went down. Coming from another woman that comment really hurt me and I’m now 24 and I think about it often. I don’t understand why this body standard or sexualization of women’s bodies are something everyone harps on. Everyone looks different but now we’re all trying to look the same.
Why would a stranger comment on someone else's body? It's so weird.
Ugh, there was no need for her to say that, and I’m sorry she made you feel this way ❤️. I’ve had a lot of comments about my body from people, throughout my life, and most were just dropped on me out of nowhere like your situation, as well. This girl obviously got triggered by you (jealousy/envy) and decided to project it onto you. Not cool, at all.
@@ivysaurus87exactly!! I came here to say the exact same thing! She saw something in her that she thought was cuter/hotter/prettier/better etc than herself. So she had to comment on a "negative" about her. So fcking lame and petty!
I COMPLETELY understand those negative comments sticking with you throughout your entire life! I truly wish I could say that they go away permanently. Though they can get a little quieter. I literally cannot stand how people think they have the right to speak to someone else about their looks or bodies! Fck youuu lol! Who wants to go out of their way to hurt someone and hurt their feelings? Make them feel bad about themselves? Try to beat them down and ruin their day. For literally no reason! I'm sorry sweetheart 💕
She had to be so insecure to project her insecurity onto you, check if you had a booty and then feel the need to say it to your face 😂
Breast implant illness had me bedridden. Four years later after having them removed, I am finally healthy again. I actually love having natural boobs again. Implants were physically very uncomfortable for me.
Wow! I’m so sorry
I’m having the same problem 💜. Even went through a round of chemo therapy, the doctors cannot figure out what’s wrong with me. And I have a sneaking suspicion that it is my breast implants. To anyone that’s reading this, it’s totally not worth getting them. I’ve been through hell 😢
As soon as I can afford it, I’m taking them out. Worst thing I ever did. And I love Botox, fillers, all sorts of medical beauty procedures, but I would never do this again 👎🏻
could you feel them sitting inside you? that's one thing that kinda scares me about the idea of implants. i feel like it would feel unnatural
@@katie-mz6si I had saline implants and the best way I could describe it, for me, is having plastic baggies with liquid inside my breasts. It felt as weird as you would think it would. If I bent over, I could almost see them on the sides. Sleeping was terrible, I had to prop pillows a certain way or it would hurt. They looked amazing, I had a mammogram and the techs doing it said that was one of the best boob jobs that had seen. But the pain and the health issues were completely not worth it.
@katie-mz6si yes. Especially when you pick up something heavy and flex your chest muscles. I dont workout upper body. It feels too weird
It took me until I was almost 30 years old to appreciate my small, natural boobs. They even got smaller than ever after I was done breastfeeding, so I spent a ton of time fretting about how "un-ideal" they were. Until I came to realize a lot of what you're saying here. I'm a 36AA and more confident than ever about my boobs 😄🎉 thanks for putting these thoughts out there for other women to come to truly see reality and how beautiful they REALLY are!!
This video is what the world needed!!! Thank you Steph, for being so honest about your own personal struggles…so many of us feel the same way, but are ashamed to say so and go against what our society has brainwashed us into. I needed to hear this today, thank you for sharing!!❤️
Had a ex who made fun of my small breasts, B cup, not even A.
But of course when PH is the source of men's sole experience with women, they actually start to think that's how women look like or should look like.
Like you said, they have a purpose, breast feeding... sustaining life.
But I don't think most people think of them that way.
Yet another reason porn is so harmful
Then u had to reply with 'so is ur pp but u don't see me complaining about it'.
Great that it is now an ex :) Dudes like that aren't worthy of you!
I had the same thing & it made me feel so self conscious. Im 36 and still feel so insecure about my boobs.
I do a 32C which isn't big but considering my bust size, I do have boods, and also had an ex comment on how small they are... I'm perfectly fine with my breasts today but back then it was so hurtful. Like so many dudes are self conscious about they D size and this topic but I don't think women would say so casually to the guy they sleep with "oh yeah, you're really small, that's a shame". When it is very common for us.
It's honestly sad how we as humans are striving away from what matters, and how we are our worst enemy. Boobs or any part of our body should not serve as our identities. They were created merely to function and not look all pretty and perfect. They sustain a literal human child, what could be more beautiful than that? Love you Stephanie for being so honest and inspiring.
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exactly, and now that’s beautiful
tell that to trans people lol
@@geraldinekimm8714 That’s a whole other can of worms
This isn’t new tho like she stated we’ve been doing this for centuries
I always hated my boobs. Particularly, I’ve always thought they’re too small and I hate HATE how they look kinda pointy from the side which makes me super insecure and makes me feel like I still look adolescent. My ex used to make comments on other women’s big boobs in front of me, it just made me feel worse, even though he said he loved mine, seeing him only comment on boobs bigger than mine made feel so insecure, even to the point where I was convinced that was why he cheated on me. But I have slowly started to learn overtime that I’m very fortunate. I’m a 34C, they’re not as small as I think, they’re a handful. Plus, I never have to wear bras (unless I’m at work, in another professional setting, or when I wear clothes that make them look even pointier) because they’re perky and don’t cause me any back pain. The pointedness always bothers me the most but that’s just a common thing for perky boobs. I’ve wanted a boob job since I was 13, but now I just feel lucky to not have big boob problems.
Same, I don´t particularly like how my boob look in most outfits, but they are so confy and look good with the rest of my body. I never feel sexy about my boobs, but I've learned to love them for what they are and to feel sexy about my body as a whole.
Happy to hear that. I grew medium to big boobs out of nowhere which immediately started sagging from the weight and the pain is horrendous. I can never take my bra off without my chest being completely sore. I'm actually thinking of getting a breast lift to give them more support so I can actually take my bra off and relax.
34 C is on the bigger side so don't worry. Your ex was just a POS. There's many benefits to smaller ones. I miss my HS small boobs. Smaller the better in my opinion, less BS to deal with 😆
I have the same pointyness which is why I wear a bra but I love the size of mine because it was so easy to breastfeed my baby in public. Nobody noticed what was going on and my shirts were big enough to cover.
Shut up your beautiful and that’s not small I’m a 32 A I’m small, I promise, I wish I had a c
God bless you, steph. So grateful for your content countering our toxic, psychotic beauty standards!
i’ve wanted a boob job since i was 12. which is obviously absurd. i ended up not growing any more past that point. 23 now and i’m telling myself to at least wait until 25 when my brain is fully developed to consider it seriously. i have a love-hate relationship with my 32As
edit: for many reasons, i’m not eager to have kids nor am relying on that to make my breasts bigger. thank you for all of the support and love ❤️
You might grow to love-love them. I felt the same way but by 30, I actually embraced my smaller bust size. We’re all different but I think many women feel pressured to meet a certain beauty standard when young, then as we age, we realize it’s best to be with people who love us for who we are naturally. ❤
if you have kids or go on birth control, they'll grow. if you're really skinny, maybe you just need to gain a bit of weight.
@@MinnieMousey06 I've always had a small B-cup and going on birth control didn't change anything. Also after having kids they usually deflate back.
Please do not ever feel like you need bigger boobs. Embrace your natural beauty, because I'm sure they are perfect the way they are.
every type of boobs is beautiful! people with big boobs want smaller boobs, the grass is always greener on the other side. i have average sized boobs but sometimes i get jealous of my friends with smaller ones because they can wear really cute tops and not make them look sexual. we should all be grateful for the bodies we have and i bet you look super pretty
I've always had big boobs, in my teens I was very insecure about how they weren't all that perky or the same size & outside critics just made it worse. I almost considered surgery at 18. Now in my mid twenties I'm learning to love my boobs, body in general. Self love & appreciation helps a ton.
For what it’s worth, I’m proud of you! Self love is so very important.
I hope to get there some day, at seventeen I'm an E and they make me feel like I look 'too maternal'. :/
They make for a great cushion when I hold my cat though! :)
@@barbecuedsimsbaby society has so many different ideas of what "perfect" is cause, perfect doesn't exist. Others will criticize big boobs, when others go gaga over them. Same can be said for small boobs, a big or small booty, etc. Trends are always changing & making us feel bad for absolutely nothing when you think about it. So the best thing we can do for ourselves is love what we have & own it to the best of our abilities. I'm in my mid 20s wishing I learned to accept my body & my self at a younger age, instead of wishing to look like celebrities. Something that helps me with my self image is not comparing myself to anyone & appreciating my body as it is. It's a process, but it helps a lot.
Who the hell would complain about being well-endowed?
My best friend had breast reduction surgery in June, she was a DD cup and it was messing up her life. She never felt confident wearing tight tops, no bras would fit comfortably, she actually had to sleep with sports bras to feel supported. If your breasts are becoming something that’s hurting you, DON’T BE AFRAID OF GETTING A BREAST REDUCTION!!! Bigger isn’t always better. Don’t let others people’s opinion get in the way of what you feel is better for you.
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You literally described me 😭 th e exact size the sleeping in sports bras..I haven’t had surgery yet but would like it. for now i wear compression tops/bras (softer alternatives to chest binders)
I'm with you Stephanie. I've been bucking the trend for decades and finally decided to be happy with my body type.
I don't need is to be "eye candy" for strangers.
I am 35 years old and a 34 AA. I have NEVER filled out a bra in my entire life and was constantly surrounded by busty friends and relatives. It definitely hit my self-esteem in how "womanly" I feel, but I really just don't like the look of a breast augmentation. I'm incredibly skinny and a boob job would like I glued two beach balls onto my chest. Honestly, I may have a difficult relationship with my breasts, but if I got a boob job that I didn't like, I would feel *mutilated*, not worth the risk for me personally. Fun fact: I've had people ask me since I was teenager when I would get a boob job and/or a nose job - I wasn't even insecure about by nose before that!
gosh, i can relate. Altho,from tiny chest to tiny chest, the brand pepper has bras for little chests. they work wonders and actually fit! If you were wanting one to find one that fits amazing i def rec. :)
@@noellesanchez4978 Thank you, I didn’t know about this brand!
I’m super skinny I have 15% body fat but I have gotten an atomic implants UBM and they look super amazing and not like u say
But ofc if u go to big and not anatomic it will look super fake with our body type
I wouldn’t want to miss mine ever tho ❤
since people picked those two parts of your body to sugest surgery on: they maybe thought that you fit every other single beauty standar! Just not big boobs and instagram barbie nose (I don´t think many poeple have that nose naturally anyway) :P
@@N0N4M30 Don’t get me wrong, I am not trying to talk other women out of it, I’m just extremely conservative when it comes to cosmetic alterations on myself. I’m 35 and more and more women my age are getting Botox and fillers and I just have no real desire and I have some fear of a bad reaction or a procedure going wrong.
Another thing that is SUPER important to keep in mind is that you’re supposed to have your implants replaced every ten years. I’ve heard the recovery is HORRIBLE and you’ll have to go through that all over again.
Wow I'd never heard of this! That sounds really stressful.
Not true. Modern breast implants basically last forever. As long as you're happy with how they look and/or aren't having health issues, you don't need to get them replaced.
The implant replacement surgery is nothing compared to the first surgery when all the muscles/tissues are stretching - that’s why it hurts so much
I witnessed my roommate go through the recovery of getting implants. She was basically bedridden for over 2 weeks, her bf had to help her get up to go to the bathroom and every little movement hurts. You also have to CRACK the scar tissue yourself so the implant doesn't heal onto your muscle. If you don't keep up with it and it gets worse, you have to go in to have a doctor do it and it's 100x more painful. Non of this is worth it to have bigger boobs. I am thankful I never gave into the temptation and now I have my little bitty boobs and I can go braless whenever I want.
@@meschakakur Your statement isn't exactly true either. It is true that breast implants can lasts up to 10-20 years, however, many women have opted to only keep the first set in for 8-10 years. You must consider if there are complications like hardening, etc. that cause women to get replacements.
I would just like to say that I LOVE YOU! I just subscribed because your videos were recommended to me. I've struggled with an eating disorder since middle school, I had to go to rehab for bulimia and I've been recovered for almost 3 years now. I'm 31, I made it through a lot and I'm currently going back to school to be a Mechanical Engineer. What you do is beautiful. It's so important for everyone to know that they are beautiful regardless of whether we age, how our boobs or bodies look. Even our hair! We pick on ourselves and sometimes each other. We are told from a young age what is acceptable and what isn't. What will make us loved and what we should want to be like. I love that you've taken time to make these videos and help so many people with your words. I hope you know that you're a beautiful person inside and out. I hope that you are just as appreciated because you are honest and vulnerable. It's refreshing and I love it! Thank you so much for what you do!
I’ve had a breast augmentation due to my breasts being severely uneven. I must admit, I’ve never felt happier! Was 100% worth it for me ❤
Me too!! I absolutely love mine ❤
I love mine too :) I didn’t get a huge size and I’m happy only got 260cc and I’m happy
@@robinsutherland173that’s good but the problem is at some point they will have to be replaced
same
I speak from experience…breast implant illness can happen at ANY point that you have the implants. Months or YEARS with them. They almost killed me. Good Luck.
You're such a breath of fresh air. Society is breaking women by making us feel like we're not enough or that we're ugly. I love your focus on body positivity and self worth. Beauty standards today are ridiculous. Thank you for your content and for caring. ❤
hey stranger, we're matchingggg :)
no wayyyyy we matching @@katie-mz6si
I'm the only one in my family that hasn't had a breast augmentation. It's so crazy¡
This is for you 💐
@mellymello7858 thank you
I had gone for a consultation back around 2005. I decided not to do it. Im so glad that i did. Today im 49, & all natural. I dont color my hair, & use natural skin care. ❤
I've lurked your channel for about 6 months now - YOU ARE MY FAVORITE PERSON IN THE WORLD GIRL!! YOU ARE AWESOME!!!
Now with that being said oh, I wish I would have started watching your Channel about a year ago before I had my breast done my butt implants my lips, and all my tons of fillers.... everything you are talking about is so real it realllyyy hits home with me. filters on social media quite literally RUINED ME and my vision of my self..... it was so bad I didn't look in the mirror for a year! You know the year I was getting prepared for all my numerous surgeries... (January 2023)
I've only had all these implants for less than a year and I would literally get rid of every single one of them, the only thing I would do is I would probably keep some sort of boob implant definitely not as big as they are now though I would have never ever ever touch my behind! I've got big HUMUNGOUS butt implants..(I weigh 100lbs - bbl was NOT an option) and now here I am(about 10 months in) saving up the money to get them removed. I BEG women to rethink and research EVERYTHING. Oh and women and friends being petty? At 33years old my two longest BEST female friends decided we were not friends anymore because I told them the surgeries were a joke and not even worth it - they honest to God thought I was saying that because I didn't want them to have 'my' surgeries! Does that even make sense?? So yeah I'm over here video-hoe style pretty, wishing I never did it - and I lost my two besties. So. Yeah. NO GOOD.
thanks for doing these vids but also thank you for often sharing your own insecurities and 'imperfect' body stuff, the commentary plus this really hits.
I think one of the most frustrating things is that the health risks associated with boob jobs are actually way more expansive than people realize. Most think the biggest risk is being "botched" or looking "plastic", but there are way bigger dangers. Breast implant illness is barely understood but all signs point to it being very real, and far more common than previously suspected. So many women struggle with weird symptoms after the surgery, like odd body odor, insomnia, digestive issues, joint inflammation similar to lupus, overall a huge decline in quality of life etc. Any time you put something "foreign" into the body, be it a hip transplant or boob implants, there's a chance of the body rejecting it or responding poorly, but breast implants have this particular issue of... they don't appear to actually be air-tight like previously thought. Women are getting their implants removed and finding they're full of pus, mucus, blood etc, realizing things were leaking both in and out. This is a serious problem and I wish more people knew about it before pursuing the surgery. There is so much we still have to learn about these procedures and too many doctors are making false promises to line their pockets. I'm generally in favor of plastic surgery but what with capitalism, there are many who will underplay the risks to make a buck and you have to be so, so very careful when making the decision.
I have been feeling the pressures from society and social media for a breast lift after 2 babies and breastfeeding. Thank you for this. I even made my husband watch it (he said I told you your boobs were perfect all along). Thank you for speaking out on the true facts of life! If we don’t love ourselves who will?
your husband is a keeper! 🙂
Jesus because we were all made in the image of God! Much love!
@@ellastreets4579She's literally already married to him
girl, i'm in love with your thinking. i just watched your video about fillers and now watching this one straight after. I'm so glad I found you, I needed to hear all your talk about in this video here. just subscribed, love ya.
your videos always make me more confident sis 🤍
This video was just the pep talk I needed! I’ve been feeling super insecure about my boobs lately and wanted to get a breast lift. Thank you Stephanie for talking me off the ledge. 😘 My body is beautiful just the way it is.
The risk of breast implant illness should scare anyone away from them.
Thank you! I really needed this video. Not only do many other women in my life have boob jobs, which makes me feel a pressure that I’m inadequate without one. But my image/ perception of my natural breasts without a bra is completely contorted because they don’t match up to the standard of perfect roundness and fullness that a fake breast achieves. I feel insecure without a bra. I feel that I’m less attractive with smaller breasts, and that I don’t meet the expectations of today’s beauty standards. It’s hard, that pressure is present and felt very often. Consequentially, I grapple with the idea of if I should get a boob job or not. I don’t really want one, yet I feel that my body looks flawed without it. I never understand when women I know, that have gotten boob jobs, tell me not to, it feels so hypocritical. I’ve been struggling a lot with my body image recently and your videos keep me grounded and humble. We need more people like you making content like this. You are making a difference ❤
That's a really hard situation. I'm sorry you're going through it. But I don't think those women are hypocritical. To me it sounds like they have learned from their mistakes and want to advise you to not make the same one. Believe me, you can change your body image to be positive.
thankyou so much steph for making these video's exposing plastic surgery, it's become way too normalised, and i feel like so many young beautiful women are going to rush in and get work done then regret it when they are a few years older and wiser, we need creators like you doing this amazing work!
I like how you mentioned the size of your boobs doesn’t affect your femininity. I hated going to the gym because every woman seemed to have bigger boobs than me, and I didn’t feel feminine at all!
Boobs have absolutely nothing to do with femininity. Look at Cate blanchett and Gillian Anderson, they're probably 2 of the most beautiful women on the plane, feminine goddesses and they have small chests. Besides gym/exercise and big boobs don't mix
Why do female celebrities even need to talk about their bodies and what they don’t like about them. Male celebrities are never asked about that. Can you imagine George Clooney talking about not liking his pecs or thighs or under-eye circles?????
It's because there are industries feeding off women's insecurities. 🙁
Stephanie-- thank you so much, I have struggled with so much body dysmorphia because of my chest size that I even looked into a breast reduction. I didn't feel skinny, desirable, or even feminine, and it all had a lot do to with not being able to fit into clothes. I look forward to your next video.
Thanks for speaking about this topic - something I needed to hear ❤
It's absolutely mind blowing that the first successful breast augmentation surgery was less than 100 years ago and in that short time has gained a complete chokehold over our society.
I naturally have a 34ddd and let me tell you, big boobs are a PAIN. I’ve had large breasts all my life and there’s so many things that come with it. Back pain, breathing problems, posture issues not to mention it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE to find any clothing that fits correctly as I usually have to go up 2 sizes JUST to have it fit my breasts
Also the extra sexualization for simply existing!!!!!
Same and I'm pregnant now had to shell out $80 for a bra lol and I still pop out and it'd so tight it hurts to laugh
28-30 F
Turns out to be my bra size. Yes F cups. I even have a couple G!!
Am I a huge gigantic bosom walking around in everyone’s face? NO.
There’s a relationship between band size and cup size. It isn’t the proverbial rocket science either (although I had multiple graduate degrees in science by the time I figured out my boobs!!!
And I say, Don’t wait until you’re in your 30s as I did to find out your proper bra size. It can change your relationship with your breasts significantly both in terms of aesthetics and how they feel.
@@meghansullivan6812so unwelcome and starts at such a young age… nobody wants to talk about that though, it doesn’t sell I guess 😢
People have all these problems without bigger ones tho 🤷🏾♀️
I've been going through my journey of self acceptance and sis, it's been hard! I got pregnant as a teen and didn't really take care of my skin so I have my tiger stripes on my belly. Any one who has had a baby knows that, even when you lose weight, your stomach just isn't the same. I breast fed my son so my boobs are definitely not perky anymore. I still have days where I look in the mirror and can't stand my face, though some days the way I wear my hair changes how attractive I consider myself. Your channel has been helpful and healing for me. I grew up with a really health conscious mom who is now realizing she has body dismorphia so her insecurities got passed to me, even if she didn't mean it. Even as an adult I still get that judgment feeling from my mom. Love her to pieces but sometimes I just want to put her on mute.
Thank you for the content you put out. While I'm not thrilled with my body I am getting to a place of accepting my body for what it is, and my focus is now on how functional it is and not necessarily if I fit the beauty standard. It's been pretty freeing.
Thank you for making this video. I had no idea so many of the models and actresses that I have compared my body to have had boob jobs. I'm grateful to know that they used to have a body like mine, or they too had insecurities over their small boob size. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who has felt like my boobs need to be bigger or perkier or perfect to be beautiful and womanly. I like your message that "our femininity does not depend on how big our boobs are." That, essentially, we are already feminine the way our boobs naturally are. I'm not less of a woman just because my boobs are small. Big boobs are beautiful and fun and sexy, but they aren't "better" than small boobs --- I think this is a good and powerful reminder for me. It makes me better appreciate my body. Thanks again!
Models traditionally were hired to showcase the clothes. The models had to be thin and straight so as not to detract from the clothes.
I took mine out because they were making me SO ill. I absolutely love what I have and don’t even know why I had them done in the first place.
I do understand, people have their own choice to do what they want with their body.
I hope you're good now.😊
@@_voyageuse thank you 🙏 I’m far better now ❤️
I'm 44 and have always had smallish boobs (small B cup), and in my late 20s I went for a consultation for a breast augmentation. I was tempted, but I just couldn't take the risk that I'd end up hating the result, and feared that I'd ruin my body, which was beautiful already, like all of us are. Now I call them "Sag" and "Droop". (even B cups succumb to gravity!) 😅
Thank you for another amazing video!!! ❤
I have B cup and honestly I think they are not too small, somewhat medium.
@@_voyageuse I think the reason I've always found mine "too small" is because of their natural shape, being very flat on top with all the weight / fullness underneath. If I put my hands on my upper chest so you can't see the flatness, they look great! lol
45 b cup sending love ❤
@@ladybaabaa3294you're hysterical! You crack me up lol! The best thing in life is to have a good sense of humor and the ability to laugh! If we can't laugh at ourselves, then we got nothin!😂😜💕
@@eveningstar8581 Haha, exactly!!! And thank you for your lovely comment! 🙏
I’ve wanted to get a boob job for years until now. I won’t always love everything about my body, nobody does and that’s okay. But the thought of regretting some surgery and wanting my old features back is so unbearable. Thank you
Crazy this video came out right after my boob job LOL. As I replied to someone’s terrible comment, I really wish I’d had your videos when I was younger Stephanie. Maybe I wouldn’tve been feeling so bad about myself my whole life. Thank you for your work ❤️
You don’t have to feel bad about yourself your whole life. It’s ahead of you. And aging isn’t nearly as horrible as people are making it out to be. I should know I am old. ❤
Getting a boob job is always in the back of my mind. Just like you, I don’t want one but every now and then I reconsider it. As someone with TRULY small boobs (I hate when people say they’re small but they’re a C cup) it’s a hard internal battle. Everyone promised me when I got pregnant they would get bigger. They did not and I am still breastfeeding. So don’t hold out for that but find a way to love who you are and be at peace. Or rewatch this video when you need a reminder.
Thank you for this video because I have based my entire person and relationships off of whether my boobs are big enough to be a woman! This mindset is something that my parents unfortunately put into me because of their insecurities and it’s been incredibly damaging to my entire being!
I have small hershey kisses and really struggle but only because I compare myself to others instead of feeling enough for myself.
It is my hope that you will be able to find a life that isn’t focused on this aspect of your body or any other. Beauty standards are arbitrary and constantly changing. None of us will ever fully meet that ideal. That says nothing about your worth as a person or even how feminine you are. There are so many ways to be human and so many things more important than this or that body part and how it compares to other people.
the fact that you addressed them as small Hershey kisses is so adorable it literally made me a little less insecure thank you lol i will be using that
comparing a picture of taylor when she had an eating disorder and was clearly very underweight to her body at a healthy adult weight and claiming she had a boob job seems like a stretch to me.
Right? I was just aboyt to say tay just got healthier
I am currently 36 and have been part of the IBTC all my life and had always wanted big boobs (I am a 32b on a good day and I am naturally skinny so there is almost no fatty tissue in my chest). Some of my really good friends from highschool got boob jobs a few years back and I had always been tempted to get the consultation but never quite followed through with it. Years went by and I happened to develope my love for excercise which actually made me build muscle and now my itty bitties don’t really look that itty bitty anymore because they have enough muscle behind them to project them forward and I lost the tiny belly I had so I look better and healthy which is the most important thing. Those friends who got their boobs done in our early 20’s are Now getting them removed due to having children and then be coming saggy or due to breast implant illness which is something I am glad will never have to go through!
I have to admit that when I had a toxic relationship Ifelt a lot insecure about my breasts size, I wanted them bigger..now I love them, bc I went to therapy and love my body a lot more even my nose that is not esthetically beautiful in this time, so thank you Steph to talk about this stuff
thank you so much for making this video. i've felt so insecure about my boobs for years
I had a boob job 3 years ago, I understand what you're trying to communicate, and I totally agree with the point. We shouldn't feel insecure about them to the point that we feel like we need surgery. None of my partners ever complained about my breast. In fact, they liked them small. It was all me, I wanted to feel better in my skin, so I did it. I had no complications, and I absolutely love them, I no longer hide or avoid certain clothes. I regret I didn't do it sooner, to be honest, but even more than that, I wish I never felt the need to have the surgery in the first place, but that isn't the case
Whatever works for you, imo they looks pretty unnatural
@@viktorias63snd she doesn’t care lmao it wasnt for you or to look like your idea of natural. It was for her and shes happy 😊
I’m getting mine done soon and I’m so nervous but excited at the same time, how did you need downtime ?? What was it like when you first woke up from the surgery?
Stephanie, thank you for the voice you contribute to these important conversations! 🙏 I always enjoy your content. Thankful for the reality check needed at times too!
I had big b00bs since I was l young but not “perky” until I started working out consistently and it seemed like the muscles behind the boobs needed stronger muscles to be supported. Idk if totally true but it’s what I noticed. I even had a breast feed child and had perkier boobs then i did in highschool
💯% agree. Chest presses made me stop thinking about any surgery 👏
Oh it's true. I've been lifting heavy for about 3yrs now and my boobs sit much higher than before due to my bigger pectoral muscles. It's the best thing I've ever done for my health, lifting heavy-ass weights 🥰
It's true! Mine do the same when I'm consistently working out haha
Yeah exercise and building pecs can make them look perkier and kinds make them look a lil bigger
hmm… good to know. mine are huge but sag and its upsetting. I’ll do more chest and back weight workouts 👍
thank you!! Needed this today to celebrate what these girls did vs. how they are looking to me right now! One year postpartum after my 2nd and I'm finally getting to a size where I might stay? who knows - long story short - nearly no former bras will work for me now for one reason or another and size differences between the 2 seem to just be exaggerated. SO glad I never dove into getting a boob job. I got lasik instead and am thankful every day for not having to deal with glasses or dry eyes/contacts
I was just feeling bummed out about my size a couple days ago. I gained a lot of (emotionally and physically) unhealthy weight these last couple of years. I’ve been losing weight and now my bras don’t fit like they used to. I’m glad to be more healthy but got bummed out because of how small my chest is now. I know it’s stupid to beat yourself up over your chest size but I still do it. So thank you, as always, for these amazing videos.
Bless you for the work you do. I will say that out of everyone you listed I'd give Taylor Swift the benefit of the doubt. She admitted to recovering from an earring disorder and learning to be comfortable with the subsequent gained weight, slightly bigger boobs usually come with weight gain, the change wasn't unrealistic when you note the rest of her body's change.
I can confirm that boobs do get bigger with weight, at least in my case.
If you look at various photos, her boobs grew years before the weight gain. There was rumours of her undergoing a boobjob in 2012. But i agree we still can't know anyone's medical history.
She’s lost weight (healthily) before and throughout the eras tour and is almost back to her past slender figure, and I’m pretty sure she got a boob job. There are also several pictures where you can see the distinct implant line vs weight gain boobs which wouldn’t have such distinct line separation. Just i honest thoughts coming from a fan…
Yep. Facts. I also had an ED and was an A or even AA. I then gained about 40 lbs and they are annoyingly large now as large Cs. With a push up bra, they’d be looking like D’s easily.
I noticed a change before she gained weight though. I think she got a subtle boob job (unlike most of the people on this list)
I hate that in some societies it's so normal to get a procedure for this. That families gift their daughters with a boob job on their 18th birthday and such. I'm super happy with my own natural boobs, but it's difficult to not compare yourself to other women that you perceive as having better/bigger boobs.
I love your videos Steph ❤ I think it would great if you addressed the new skinny trend that seems to appearing with celebrities especially the kardashians (like they was known for being curvy and now suddenly they are looking super thin) and how it might be linked to ozempic. I feel like celebrities are going back to the "90s" model thin era which is worrying especially if they are taking drugs to obtain it
Thank you so much again Stephanie I’m struggling with the looks of my boobs for years now. I was wondering why does everyone have such beautiful ones and I have to be so dissatisfied. I looked for boobsurgerys since middleschool
I got bullied for my smaller boobs in my Teenie years. I was so sure that I want a boob job when I’m old enough for one! In my early 20‘s my boobs got so much bigger from nowhere and now I wish I had smaller ones. Bigger is not better guys, I’m struggling to find fitting underwear and normal clothes and I have neck and back pain…
I have big ones and got bullied for those... got called "p*rn star" and all kinds of degrading stuff. Older men came up to me and wanted to know my bra size when I was like 14/15. Absolutely disgusting. The thing is - we can look however, there will always be ppl who think they can comment on our bodies, bullying, sexualizing and fetishizing tf out of us. I hate it here.
In high school, i was a large b/average c, but then when I turned 23, I jumped to a 36D. Followed 3 years with a 40DD. Late 30’s, up to a 42DD, and stayed there until I had breast cancer. First, I couldn’t find clothes bc my boobs were too big, now I can’t find clothes bc I have 2 very different size boobs. My prostheses is actually bigger than the boob it’s meant to fill out…wtf???? I laugh now, bc if I don’t, I’ll likely crawl in a hole and die. I think said “influencers” should be stripped of the power, so many willingly bestowed on them.
@@91clarie it’s not fun to talk about these things but they also affect people. I’ve been sexualized that I’m aware of since I was 11. It may have started younger. As an adult, my breasts are not proportionally huge but I still have some level of anxiety about them. And I had terrible posture and back pain for many many years so that I could make them less visible.
Finally, boob-centric episode) I honestly think we should talk more about boob image because this is really damaging.
thank you, you're helping me feel more positive about my body. this is healthy content for me 🌱
THANKYOU. I needed this video!
In my personal experience, the only people that have ever made comments about how small my boobs are… are women lol. never once has a male of any relationship (friend or dating) to me made any bad comments
Totally true! Men love small and perky boobs. I mean why not they are cute and squishy lol. I domt mention this much but small boons def make a girl seem more youthful
You're lucky then, because I have been shamed largely by men I have dated for having a B cup. Both our experiences are anecdotal evidence. Your comment smells a little like internalised misogyny but maybe I'm reading it wrong.
@@giulia2051 that is exactly why I said “my personal experience”. All our experiences are different. I’m lucky to have never picked anyone like that to date
@@giulia2051 actually one more thing lol. I tell my experience of being bullied by women and you (I presume) as a woman… basically tell me my experiences don’t matter because the perpetrators weren’t the right gender… and I’m the misogynist? Yeah okay lol keep telling yourself that.
If I was bullied and made fun of by men, it sounds like you would have backed me up and been on my side. But because what happened to me went against your misandry, you call me names. Lol alrighty
Can't relate, when I was in my early 20s guys would make me feel like shiuit. Not on purpose, just would make insensitive comments.
I SHIT you not 20 minutes ago I was looking in the mirror and thinking I wanted a lift. Thank you for this, I needed this.
Stephanie I appreciate videos like this so much. I hope you’re well and look forward to whatever you put out soon ❤
I’ve followed you for a decade and have always felt so empowered by your channel. What a gem. Also your family is beautiful and it’s been so fun and wholesome following your journey. How is it possible you are equally gorgeous as a blonde and brunette!? ❤
I know right?! She looks absolutely gorgeous with any hair color! She's just stunning!
So glad I didn't get a boob job when I turned 18. 26 now and content with my A cups 💙. All boobs are beautiful.
Thank you. I needed to hear this. ❤
Really sad to see what women must go through! Period pain is already so much, the sexism and misogyny... then going under the knife to conform to society's norms and expectations!
You are doing a great job fr, each person deserve to love themselves and not hurt their bodies unless it's a medical emergency.
Love your vids so much. I just turned 33 and my weight has been up for about a year. It’s just not as easy as cutting down my food intake for a week as it was in my 20s lol! These videos remind me of the fact that even at my lowest weight or when my skin is perfect or I have a face full of makeup it really does t change who I am or how I see myself on the whole. I plan on having a child in the next year as times ticking away and your videos help me remember what’s important and that cosmetic surgery or changes on the outside aren’t the be all end all. We all have worth no matter our shake or size ❤ boobs or otherwise haha!
Great for you. Wisdom comes with age 😉
As somebody who has had open heart chest surgery (heart condition), I would 100000% not want any kind of surgery at all going on around my tatas. I already have a scar going down my cleavage, I don't want any more surgery on my body, unless I'm getting a facelift or whatever, which, thanks to plastic surgery being totally normalized, I am now comfortable with going, "if I had the $$$, I think I'd get a ponytail or face lift", but, I also, thanks to your videos, don't think I'd get one and I feel comfortable being me in my own skin, like, legit, I'm not kidding, your videos have helped me so so so so much that I thank the lord/universe that you were born and are who you are.
Back to boobies, I am not pleased my tatas are starting to age, but, I lost a really insane amount of weight (23lbs in 7 days) while I was going through withdrawal (long story, it was not from addiction), and it LITERALLY changed the shape of my tits, and, it makes me sad, but I'm just glad I still have titties, being totally honest, cause I could have had to have a double masectomy, and I thank god I haven't needed that. I am worried about what my upcoming surgery will do to my tatas (heart surgery), but, I guess I'll just have to hope for the best. Thanks for the video, and I know that you said you're making this for yourself, and I hope that you can feel comfortable in your own skin. Wishing you the best.
Your videos are so important and literally potentially saving LIVES. ❤
I needed this. Thank you Stephanie
Please understand there is another side. Those of us who have huge boobs naturally. The tremendous back and neck pain that can be debilitating at times. Not to mention really bad posture from a lifetime of hunching over to hide your chest. I’ve always envied woman with small chests… to be it’s so beautiful. Grass is not greener!!!
I wish this was talked about more often, or women who have to get implants post mastectomy, but nope!
Breast reduction and constructive surgery aren't what gets talked about 😑
I have a very small chest and there have been times when I felt insecure about it but today I'm so happy about it. I think they are beautiful, feminine and I don't have to wear a bra for support and that's honestly so cool. It's just so much more comfortable to me
thank you I needed to hear this!
Thank you Stephanie for making this video x ❤️
Great video and love the honesty! I have zero interest in ever having this done, but I appreciate you sharing the potential side effects. They seem abnormally common from what I've seen. Health is most important to me. 🙏
Padding and makeup can do wonders! Don’t purposefully give yourself back problems, there’s a good reason breast REDUCTION is the #1 “happiest result” surgery
Thank you for your videos. They're giving me so much more confidence ❤
i have what I called traffic cone boobs, tiny, really triangular but not perky with a huge space between them. I was really insecure about them until a friend that had my ideal pair of boobs told about not being able to sleep on your tummy and ALWAYS needing to wear a bra. I was like OH HELL NAW. I wish they were a different shape tho but for most of the time I don't mind them, and with time I realize what a relief not caring about my boobs is
Sounds like mine. 😅 Even though I'm insecure about them, I'm not conscious of them enough to get something done. Who sees them anyway?
I don't get it about always needing to wear a bra because they're big. I breastfed and mine changed. Now I feel like I always need to wear a bra because they are not as big as they were.
@@chellybabyme because it's uncomfortable and it hurts when you walk around or do any activities. The bigger they are the more they bounce and it pulls down in a painful way.
@@ems6800 I guess I thought that was only for the ultra big boobs.
@@chellybabyme genuinely after a while the skin holding my tits to my chest as well as the muscles underneath will start aching horribly and the only thing that will help it is a sports bra. The breast tissue is literally screaming out in pain like "HELP ME HOLD THESE HOLY SHIT"
Stephanie, thank you! I needed this video.
Thank you 🙏 I needed to hear this!
My chest is uneven - an entire cup size different between the two. I have never had any desire to get breast implants or surgery. One girlfriend of mine had a leak in her implant and she was horribly sick for about a year until they figured it out and my sister-in-law recently had a breast job and her body started to reject it and was literally pushing it out. Multiple surgeries for both of these women.
Men have uneven testicles, so if they can do it, so can we 🙌🏼
I also have uneven ones but i am still in puberty. But sometimes I feel so sad about it. When I wear a bra and tight shirts you can‘t See it because it Looks normal than and the same size. Because i push the other side a Little. I wish SOCIETY World Talk more about that.
I am a very small boobed gal, 36AA, but I have always loved my boobs. People consistently asked me when I would get a boob job but I said my body wanted me to have these and I’d look so strange with huge ones 😅 I am self conscious about other things but my boobs have always been the things I have loved!
I also love my small boobs
i'm so jealous. i want to be happy with mine, they make me so insecure. sigh
LOVE that you shouted out Karissa