Many guys run and hide when this happens, for him it was a blessing. What would you do?
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Kudos to him for being a stand-up guy. Most guys wouldn't go 5 miles to support there kid, let alone move half way around the world. Then to have the relationship not work out with the mother, but still support the kid, that says something about his character.
He is a lucky man. He found out young enough so he didnt waste his life in New York.
I came to Cebu to live age 38. So glad I didn't waste my youth in the US
New York is one of the top tourist world destinations. Far from what you'd call a waste
Finally someone says that you can live as cheap or as expensive as you. So many foreigners say you need a lot of money because they spend a lot. Thanks for the interview
Not true most will say you need 1500 minimum
@kevinr8431 well I had an expat on a live told me that $3k was not enought for me and my girlfriend. He said we could not eat out or eat western foods and we could not travel to places in the Philippines or do anything
He's correct I live here.
@@bkbroiler8347 What. Really... $3K not enough? Maybe if you're in Vaca mode.
@@bkbroiler8347 who is correct
I like his perspective just find a women with a beautiful heart that take care of you till you get old and stay with you till the rest of your life.
Hhh a people brought up in large communities have survived thousands of years living together in peace. We learn to forgive each others shortcomings, accomodate their quirks, just let things pass because nothing is more important than harmony, peace and happiness. In our homes, our community and our society. We are hospitable to strangers of whatever color and stripe.
As a Canadian living in the Philippines, I would like to thank and congratulate this gentleman for not abandoning his child. I detest so called men that do that. I would like to remind everyone that testicles make you a male but not necessarily a MAN.
You are assuming it's his child ! She could have been having sex with many " customers ". I would bet a cent to a dollar it's not his child
The most important thing he said which I 100% agree with is NEVER use dating apps! Yet so many CZcamsrs promote these and mislead.
Just because you have no online skill and restrict yourself whoever you pass on the street explains why you are still single to this day
It depends how you look and carry yourself. Using Tinder and Bumble is extremely popular nearly everywhere in world amongst the younger/younger middle age generations. If you are tall and good looking you will strike gold on many online platforms
Great video. One of the best I've seen in a long time. The pace was great as well as the subject matter
Very inspiring video. Thanks
Good interview
I have 3 questions...
1...Was his child's mother a bar girl?
2.....Has he had an HIV/Aids test?
3...Did he get a paternity test to prove he's the Father?
I feel like he could have been suckered, and you dont even approach that subject.
Read my mind
I would say no matter what the mother is, he's not looking to settle down right now. He's enjoying the Philippines yet seems to enjoy being a father. I'm' sure there were blood tests done at the time of pregnancy.
Im sure blood tests baha haha. Young filipinas are waiting for you.
One year later....money ran out and im broke video. bahahaha
@@bkbroiler8347😂agree. I reckon he's been taken for a ride
Nice guy. Good insights. Great interview again Chad. You do a great job.
I wonder if the kid is his.
Hmmm...
funny...
that was I thought too when he said his gf got pregnant....
Thinking the same here. Need a 🧬 test
I'm gonna save this video under the heading Westernized Filipina.
Yeah. The kid has Caucasian features.
..wow.. things lining up, that's great
Good interview! It would’ve been good to know how he is planning to support himself over there? Would have to be something online I would imagine.
Good video.
Great and very informative interview, Chad... although I had a little trouble hearing your questions to Shane. Overall, he is spot-on with how he sees life here in the US versus PI city/province life. Thanks for getting his take on his experiences and thanks for sharing your story, Shane!
Yeah my audio didn't turn out well I'm going to be changing my set up for future interviews so that won't be a problem. Thanks for watching and glad you enjoyed!
I admire the guy and a bit envious.
Thank you Chad
@@matthiasherfert1342 you're welcome and thank you 🙏
He's a good looking guy. Kind of relax and cool man I watch in an interview
Since I have moved to Philippines, my stress level has gone from 98% to 30%.
I AM rent free, debt free, bill free, and most important, stress free.
My only two expenses are, my food expense and helping my Wife's Family only. And those two expenses are just pocket change for me.
If I do help someone with money, I only help those that never ask.
If anyone ask to borrow money, the answer is always no.
I have to help myself first, before I help others second. And my Wife's Family always comes before anyone one else.
Whenever someone asks to borrow. My first thought is, why are they not thinking of these sort of things for their future. Plus they will never come up with it to ever pay it back.
I totally agree with you! Stress level has come way down
Is it possible to be with a filipina where it's not about money at all?
How do you deal with it psychologically not to be able to own land, property, farm -- given it's about money so much there?
@@matthiasherfert1342I know quite a few ‘passport bros’ who married Filipinas, and other nationalities, and none of them seem about the money.
They seem to genuinely cherish their husbands who genuinely cherish them.
@@matthiasherfert1342yes
As one of the wealthiest men in the Philippines, who used a dating app four years ago, there is absolutely no Expat in this country that can match my beautiful wife, youth and beauty let that sink in. Never never never restrict yourself to only the women you might pass in a mall or the street all the beautiful ones are in far off provinces and are online.
Excellent point, go where there are not many Expats and you'll be noticed and desired by many Filipinas.
Same here. Found mine on Tinder (NEVER had success in America on that app).
Why are you telling people that you're wealthy? You sound really insecure and that has nothing to do with the point you're trying to make. Stay broke dude
@@blockaderunnerit depends on city. LA is amazing on Tinder. As well as San Diego. I had a new girl every night
How do you find them online?
Great interview but I wish your audio was better Chad! It was a bit difficult 😞 to hear you ask the questions 😊
Chad needs to stop using the iPhone and step up to a proper camera!📷
Very enjoyable interview video, and nice "Many guys run and hide when this happens, for him it was a blessing. What would you do?" sharing, I really enjoyed watching it! Full support & Best of luck po/Ned 👍👏👍
Great interview chad .. i been there 7 times and love it .can't wait to retire there .. keep the video coming chad and you are great to listen to . Take care always. Marty from Australia 🇦🇺
Hey thanks Marty! I appreciate it
She won. He lost
We had the same experience and I’m about the same age minus having a kid (I’ve restrained myself even though married) and quitting my job. He nailed it on province life. To me you have to be okay with sleeping all the time in province life. They like to eat all the time. At home I’m generally a one or two meal a day guy but when I ate 3 times like they do and fried food then if I drank half a red horse on top of that then that food is coming up later and I NEVER throw up in my life on this planet I’ve gone over a decade without throwing up or really getting sick.
Too bad he got that lady pregnant!
He could still go home and just send money 🤷🏻♂️
Completely agree - 40 year old woman with three kids (who would never let him forget how lucky he is to have her). J Good for him taking care of his daughter.
I have been on the fence about moving to the Philippines really there’s nothing in the USA for me. I have an army retirement of about $4000 a month and I have a little over a quarter of 1 million saved. I’ll be 50 this year. I really don’t know why I’m still in the US.
Go and make a filipina happy 😀
#1 rule, Don’t lead with your wallet. Never tell anyone how much money you have or will have. After you do that everyone who knows and all their friends and relatives that they tell will be trying to make that how much they need.
@@macwil2359 it's definitely worth checking out to see if it's a good fit for you
Yes go ahead make their day Rambo. Its unicorns and rainbows per Chad the expert.
And then save a Filipina by keeping her in the Philippines
WORKERS IN THE PHILIPPINES ARE BEING PAID FOR A MONTH .. WHILE THE MENTALITY IN THE U.S. WORKER IS PAID BY HOUR. .. THIS IS WHY PHILIPPINE WORKER TAKE THEIR TIME TO DO THINGS AND AMERICANS THINKS IT TAKES FOREVER TO WAIT FILIPINO SERVICE.. 😁✌️..
This dude is cool as heck!
He's a cool dude
This is the on steroids version of a "passport bro". Another good traditional man that Western women missed out on.
They don't know how to keep a good traditional man for a long-term relationship anyways
What have they missed out on about him?
Okay 👍
Great video once again, wish you would have asked him what is he doing now to generate income while living in the Philippines. That is a big challenge for ua that want to live there.
Unless you are already independently wealthy, or you're still earning US dollars (and that job is paying your Social Security premiums), moving to the Philippines before you reach retirement age is foolish. Doing so for 5-10 years is fine, otherwise you're throwing away money you will need in your golden years. (Not including those who have other types of pensions.)
Good interview Chad 👌 I was hoping you’d ask how he supports himself in Philippines, what he does for work for example?
@@KenzoKohl essentially he is retired, good investing while working hard all those years and then he mentioned that buyout that he got.
@@ChadFosterExploresah makes sense, thanks for the reply Chad 👍
@@KenzoKohl
You're welcome !
This guy knocks up papa's young daughter while on vacation because him being the good guy that he is did NOT wear a Condom. His boots on the ground "good girl" relationship did NOT work out. But he is advising other guys what not to do. Acting like he received some life long supporting payout from his previous employer. These youngsters nowadays need a damn role model.
@@KrayPurnas a 35 year old we are old enough. Anyone pushing into their senior years are invisible 😂
I wouldn't want to be in his shoes.
Homie got played like a fiddle…
Yep! I I had the cream of the crop in Olongapo before the volcano erupted. Good times!! Jar heads paradise!
Good video lol I like the part about traffic as a truck driver in America. One thing I will say though is the traffic over here moves incredibly fast obviously in America now when I was in Vietnam, everything moved slower and it was pure chaos like he saying there in the Philippines.
But in Vietnam, the horns never stop lol everybody is constantly honking their horns at each other. I think part of it is just hey I’m here. Make sure you notice me but then sometimes it’s also people trying to get around somebody moving slower like get over I’m coming around.
It’s actually obnoxious all the horns that are honking nonstop in Vietnam lol
Yeah the horn honking is crazy but it's the way everyone communicates to each other. It's the same in places I've been in South America as well
Chad, let me get this right. He left NY to go there because of the low cost of living, better weather and to find a girl. Let's just get right to it. He went there for the girl. It's low cost of living if you come from NY. There are no jobs in the PI and many overseas workers go abroad. You need to have income. As for the weather then that's funny because it gets very hot in the PI and electricity and AC are expensive and nobody has it. They don't have sidewalks or toilet paper for that matter. The real reason why people go there is for the women and if you are 70 you can find a 20-year-old if you have the money. You can go to any warzone country and find the same. Go the PI and leave your money there. GIve it to the 20 year old and her family. With any luck they can all make to NY after the guy is dead.
Do you have a video on good places to live in Cebu. Thanks
I plan on doing an update video on this stay tuned
My coworker she is 42 yrs old divorced with 3 kids dating a 28 yr old guy that’s works in Boeing. That’s the situation in Seattle Wa if you are a dude. 😞
PH is heaven on earth for rich Filipinos only & not for foreigners to settle foreigners in PH can't own properties full business ownership have very limited rights & many are deported foreigners can be naturalized PH citizens if born & raised in PH like the prominent Spanish Ayala family which is not the case of newcomers
josepaniccuci18591 Nailed it ! 🛠️
Seems like a decent guy trying to do right by his kid.
Based on the thumbnail, I thought you were going to interview Regular Guy
😂
He's lucky he has a child.
As they say, every child is a blessing.😊
I'm gonna save this video under the heading Westernized Filipina, thanks for the warning.
When I early retire money won't be an issue. I prolly live in Florida and Dominican Republic mostly, but I'll try to check the Philippines 🇵🇭 beautiful girls there.
Did he say he lives on $1000 in Cebu? I don’t think that’s possible
12:48 SPOILER ALERT: the Canadian Balut Betrayal was Justin Trudeau.
this guy got janmed up , and so just getting by is giod enough. for him
DNA test absolutely
Rice is not affordable anymore 🤭🤭🤭 No matter what, rice is essential in every Pinoys meal
What? Rice is affordable and very cheap and it’s everywhere.
Food is a lot cheaper in the Philippines.
@@RR52517 For you, it's cheap. You only say that because of your economic status 😁 The best rice is around 70-80 pesos per kilo. Consider this: 3 or 4 meals a day, how many people in the household? (And if you're not lucky, the 50-55 pesos per kilo rice sometimes smells like a cockroach after it's cooked. Though there's a remedy here, pandan or lemongrass)
And how many Filipinos fall below the poverty line? 🤔 Yeah, millions!
Car users: want GAS price go down
Rice lovers: we're all dreaming of the day when rice is affordable again.
Just my cup of ☕ and sinangag rice in the morning. ✌️
@@RR52517 For you, it's cheap. You only say that because of your economic status 😁 The best rice is around 70-80 pesos per kilo. Consider this: 3 or 4 meals a day, how many people in the household? (And if you're not lucky, the 50-55 pesos per kilo rice sometimes smells like a cockroach after it's cooked. Though there is a remedy here, pandan or lemongrass)
And how many Filipinos fall below the poverty line? 🤔 Yeah, millions
Car users: wanna GAS price go down
Rice lovers: we're all dreaming of the day when rice is more affordable again
Just my cup of ☕ and sinangag rice in the morning ✌️
@@RR52517 For you, it's cheap. You only say that because of your economic status 😁 The best rice is around 70-80 pesos per kilo. Consider this: 3 or 4 meals a day, how many people in the household? (And if you're not lucky, the 50-55 pesos per kilo rice sometimes smells like a cockroach after it's cooked. Though there is a remedy here, pandan or lemongrass)
And how many Filipinos fall below the poverty line? 🤔 Yeah, millions
Car users: wanna GAS price go down
Rice lovers: we're all dreaming of the day when rice is more affordable again
Just my cup of ☕ and sinangag rice in the morning ✌️
@@RR52517 For you, it's cheap. You only say that because of your economic status 😁 The best rice is around 70-80 pesos per kilo. Consider this: 3 or 4 meals a day, how many people in the household? (And if you're not lucky, the 50-55 pesos per kilo rice sometimes smells like a cockroach after it's cooked. Though there is a remedy here, pandan or lemongrass)
Like he said 41-51-61-71, it will change your life. The only bad part is the fact that it will take over daily thoughts until you return to the Philippines.
Definitely more fun in the Philippines.
Oh yeah, you can be in your 50-60s , and maybe 70s to have those unspeakable adventures. 😊
DNA test
Biggest thing I had problems with is patience.....in the west we have bred ourselves to be impatient...I can't stand queing...in Philippines there were 12 people in line at atms, grocery store checkouts, everywhere..
no free tables in mall food eateries....holy shit it drove me mad....but I am determined to retire there and grow my patience and take deep breaths..lol....love it there....good interview
Hi how are you
Doing great thanks and I hope the same for you! :)
As expensive or as cheap! Try that in the US. It is a big challenge. I have been visiting the PI for over 20 yrs. Cities are expensive, while the province is cheaper. After Covid, it feels like wages are NOT keeping up. They never have. The PI is much more expensive too. Still cheaper, but depends on your lifestyle. If you can do without AC, an occasional power outage. Maybe you don’t need transport. Use public, or walk. I think if you have a foreigner lifestyle in the PI, there is not much difference. A little cheaper. I am 50. I have enough, but I wouldn’t be traveling every weekend, or the AC would be off most of the time.
Food here is way cheaper. McDonald big mac in US costs $22! That is the same price of a “Eat all you can” buffet at popular Vikings restaurants in malls with so much variety of food.
Baby trapping works!
3:50 Bad girls on dating apps. Good girls in person. Sounds good. Now, let's define "good girl". Sleeps unprotected with a guy who's on vacation, in town for a couple weeks and gets knocked up = good girl.
These guys. Do they even hear themselves?
@MrWaterbugdesign Yep, they never do ... typical American/Western double speak.
I don't think he was exactly saying the girl he knocked up was a Good Girl... as things didn't work out with her. I took it is that was a lesson he learned the hard way. The On-Line/App girls (or aggressive girls at the malls) are Probably Not the good girl you're looking for. All the same, he seems quite grateful to have a child in his life and Course Redirect it inspired. Good on him for being a good man and stand up dad. Peace and Love, B Goat
@@Billy_B_Goat well said!
Its all this guys experience , ive known shy women who have gone bad , women i thought were forward turned out to be beautiful people . There is no blue print , best advice is to move slow , watch and listen . Women are women .
@@tryscience-px3fs Sure, everyone and each situation is unique and ain't that the truth world wide... however, stereotypes exist for a reason and we are trying to help guide or outline were your odds are most in your favor for whatever kind of person you're looking for. You must Generalize in order to have that discussion. Personally I found on-line Dating Apps to be a 90+% scam and Tinder/Bumble is worse IF your looking for a Good Girl instead of a hookup.... Soooo the shy province girl is more likely to be a good girl........ initially anyway.
Get a paternity test my good dude.
i wish I can move there. but my kids are still young. hopefully when I Retire. i was talking to my fiance last night i think we are gonna build something in lapu lapu city. her mom owns some land there. maybe a condo or apartment complex.
Retired US Army Special Forces, Navy Ranger Airborne, Great VA Disability Pension US 5K per month. Top health cover through VA GOLD CARD. Big payout from VA Disability US 1Milion Plus Plus Plus. I am still very good looking and get looks from super-hot Babs all the time State Side. I will be in the Philippines August this year once my 100% disability come through from VA. Then i am done with the US. Once i am boots on the ground in Manila i will visit the VA Clinic and get a full FREE checkup from VA and ask about my entitlements from this clinic. I believe VA Manila will refer me to a dentist to get any FREE dentil work that i require being 100 % disabled. Dan,
I'm seeing hella jealousy from commenters in this thread. Here is a guy who was successful on several levels, including what he found in the Philippines. Love and a family. His suggestions were met with ridicule. Look, he is stating, meet the ladies in person. Not on an app. Implying that his partner is not a "good" girl is not only ignorant but offensive. Western women are known for being "slutish" are there some good ones? Yes, they might even sleep with their partners before marriage also. Most do. The Philippines is NOT your culture. Get over it. A lot of filipinas are family oriented and motivated, with conservative values. They too are looking for a decent partner. So, go play in Pampanga, Angeles, Olongapo or Phuket. But a bar girl, as in any country generally, NOT always, are a bar girl.
If he spent $5 he could have saved himself sometime. If I was getting paid 500 php a day. I wouldn't be cashing out people fast.
The USA 🇺🇸 is where you make your money, after you have enough of it travel frequently!
He said stay off the dating apps, yet Chad and several other vloggers all recommend Christian Filipina as a legit dating site. If you find girls on your own, how do you vet them ? Do you ask everyone for a Cenomar certificate to insure they really are singe ? Adultery is illegal over there, is it worth ending up in a Philippine jail just for a girl you met at the mall ?
Tinder is the best dating app anyway. Free and easy to use. Besides who meets people at mall anymore? Lol everyone is in their own bubble using their phones. Downright creepy when strangers come up asking personal questions
It's illegal but it happens all the time. Tinder has exploded amongst the younger generations
Well Let me tell everyone what this guy isn't telling you about the Philippines! The philippines has the most beautiful woman in the world! Plus they are very devoted and loyal to their husbands,! The countrie is one of the most beautiful places' on earth! Everything to buy is dirt cheap to buy! And its surrounded by water...... He was talking about how people drives here, Its called ( give and take system ) most intersection doesn't have stop sign its give and take. I been here for 12 1/2 year and its still like a dream!!
When it comes to birth control...............do foreigners have any concerns that possibly the filipina may not indulge.
I met my Filipina wife in person in Hong Kong 10 years ago. We have a child together and I have adopted her daughter, for whom I provide and is who currently at university. We own property, have a business and a decent income. Apps? Really. Can you not interact with someone on a personal level?