He marries 19 year old Filipina, then has a stroke. "You can leave me if you want."
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There is a lot to unpack with Monte and his life here in the Philippines, pretty remarkable story of perseverance and devotion. Being an OT myself and familiar with CVA's, Monte has definitely worked hard to get to where he is now, and definitely has the right mindset to overcome barriers and accept the changes. And needless to say, he found himself an incredible spouse who supports him through thick and thin. Hard to find that nowadays. Check out his CZcams channel for more of his story and life here in the Philippines czcams.com/channels/cxJQGHUnWzZywBlD3CVNcQ.html
I always appreciate interviews with Monte and would love to see a part 2. Excellent video good sir, and I look forward to more of your videos 😁👍👍
Monte, an his wife, are very loving and devoted couple. Love their channel, and follow them. Great story of true love😊
If you do make a Part 2 include his Wife in the video i would love to hear her insight and thoughts Chad.
why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.
😅
I also met my wife when she was 18 and I was 59. Stayed with her 1 week, then a month later we stayed together for 1 month. Then 4 months later she came to Australia while pregnant and has stayed the last 7 years. I had major surgery for Liver cancer when we had 2 kids and she was pregnant with our third child. She took care of us all without complaining. Now I am a retired father taking care of our 3 children while my wife is studying to be a nurse (6 months to go) and she also works part time to support the family.
Good Fortune to you and your family.
That's nice family building. She probably will have no problem becoming a nurse.
God bless your Family ❤❤
you are wealthy and/or she is having her fun on the side. No other explanation, I am afraid.
Not all women are like you@@suepari
I am a Filipina. If a Filipino girl asks money, leave her. There are a lot of good Filipino women out there. If you offer money, and she does not accept it, she's a good one.
Are you a good one?
I believe you. Had a wife who God took because of a terrible cancer. She was awesome, supportive, and a good wife. Now I'm a widower at 54
Good morning from Europe and how are you doing?
They all ask for money from day 1
What if she lives in the slums of Davao. Has two teenagers, and she never asked for anything. Doesn’t work. Doesn’t disclose her pre diabetes and thyroid issues until the 3rd week when I’ve told her about my health issues from day one.
I sent her 5000 pesos and she accepted.
She uses her money For her phone communication with me. She bought food for her family with what I sent.
I am proud as Filipina im married to american man too,,he loves me so much, and thats the reason why i love him more myself, i respect him more than anyone coz he loves and accepts my family and most my children he love them...Hope GOD WILL BLESS US HEALTHY HEALTH so that we can stay together long.
kindness of heart surely goes a long way for people who are born with one thank the heavens by practicing charity i n words n in deeds
I am Canadian. I wish our women were like you. Although some would say they ARE like you, they definitely are not.
Canadian men trust them to add. That is disturbing. All my friends and most of my family are divorced and have kids with different partners.
Only for his money that the truth
God bless Amen and Amen.
I’m American, and a rare breed. I’m far from perfect, but I’m a take care of my man type of girl. I would have never left you either!! I’m so happy you found true love!
Im 52 filipina my American hubby 82 we're good together 20 years now..he got a stroke in 2010 took good care of him too❤ God bless you both more years to come❣️
Poor you...!!! Giving your body to touch, an OLD donkey...!!!
❤
Kiss to you, Ms. cook. (You know what's up. When he pass's, he'll take care of you.)
and the REST of the Family...!!!@@tymesho
Ewwwww
Met my wife in the Philippines.. 33 yrs later we are still going strong.
is she financially independent?
@sunnywynn56 33 yrs together..wtf does that mean.they are a couple..financially independent?!!
I met my Filipina wife at our Nazarene Christian church in Los Angeles, CA who was born in the Philippines and arrived here in the U.S. 22 years and in our forty's now and with the Good Lord's goodness and blessings, we are still going strong. I was also born and grown up in the Philippines and arrived here in the U.S. when I was 15 years old and where I'm from in the PI, we are called the Igorot who are the Indigenous people of the Philippines.
- Howdy from the Nevada Desert!🤠🏕🏜
@j.l.salayao8055 i was born jersey.came to phillipines back in early 67 when i was on R&R from vietnam during war.jannes was born here was a nanny abroad in saudi.we are just 8yrs now.theres plenty of love,trust n respect tween us.theres big age diff beteen us that concerned me before.shes happy i can see that..
It's so wrong old men of nearly 60 going with teenage girls, no matter how you try to bullshit people, it's disgusting.
Monte is very lucky for finding true love..glad he found a home in the Philippines. So happy for him 💗💓💞
I knew a man that married a filipina and after she got her papers she divorced him. There are people of all kinds of attitudes all over the world.
Happens alot, that is why I never married anyone from another country. Never trusted them. It is a gamble I did not want to take.
Keep in mind if your Christians.
Matthew 5:31-32
Mark 10:11-12
Men if your divorced and
marry these young girls
you cause them to commit adultery even
Though they live by No
before marriage well even after marriage .
Repent..this isn't taken
Seriously. In Deuteronomy 24: 2-4
It says this.
Adultery: Sex between people who are married.
Fornication: Sex between people who are NOT married. Learn the context and don’t judge people.
Better to marry someone from ur own country
@@luxuryqueen42 Love has no boundries....
My wife is 38 phillipino, I'm 66 we have been married for 5 years she has no kids or past boyfriends ,she now lives in the UK and has full time employment as a chef ,remarkable lady doesn't smoke or drink swear or take the Lords name in vain ,the best addition to my life ever , I dont deserve her but she is here with me in the UK and the pure love we have is undiscribable.
A1a
If you dont deserve her then you are a dirtbag for manipulating her to be with you
@@perrykomick9478You totally misconstrued his humble statement
What a shame.
Every Filipina I chat with has kids
@@gregtucker2892no matter if she has a child just learned her first before your gonna fall on her.Sorry of my English😆Anyways goodluck n hope u will find a good one no matter what in Gods wilß
I am a pilipino , married to a pilipina , we been together for 35 years , I can say that she truly love me and I love Her more than I love my self , true love is the most precious thing in the world one can find
Woww,,, 😊😊😊
What do you think of women marrying old white men? How many do? Half? Less or more?
@@vitalucas9452 *_"Half?"_* Really? It's very much a minority.
@@TonyRule It seems odd to me. Every other ethnic group seems to encourage marriage between people of their own ethnicity. Not so much in the last generation, but parents prefer that.
You must be white.
What a beautiful story, ❤, I love the Filipino people, they are intelligent, witty, loyal and great companions.
and 'LOVE' rich, all for fist of $$$
“ Do not squander your pearls before swine, unless they trample on them and kill you.” The swine is you in this biblical prophecy. Unless you are the pearls though..
Monte had 2 strokes and a heart attack, and by looking at his index finger and thumb, he is still a heavy smoker. Is this guy playing with fire?
His wife just wanted mixed-race kids and to live in the West. Phillipino guys can't provide that.
@@Sasha-dr4or FACTS
@@Sasha-dr4orAnd, he wanted a traditional women that wasn't a hateful narcissistic biaaatch. One that does nothing but complain about the lack of equality while receiving preferential treatment while being good for nothing. Not so easy to find in the west.
Awwww...salty much.. isn't it funny most of them stay in the phillipines. Enjoy your cats. @@Sasha-dr4or
And, he just wanted a traditional women that was good for more than her attitude
I am a Filipina . I married to a Filipino man , also . We separated ways when he went abroad as a seaman. That is how he changes his character and everything . He becomes bad. He becomes more a cheater. Then that is how my life becomes so miserable. Sometimes our own ambitions will only kill us and that is if we have more money. Money changes everything . So , be it, if we married our own race and color or we married a foreigner , i can conclude that it is the man who is the culprit of everything because he carries the decisions to leave his family. .We didnt discussed anything because he refused to talk to me. When he went abroad again , he didn't go home to us anymore. We have two children.I carry the burden. Unluckily for me , i choose the wrong man...Until now , i dont have the desire to have another man in my life.He left me when i was 35 years old. I am now 62 . Life is pretty tough though but we survived against all the sufferings with my 2 children. So , it doesnt matter whom you marry . But for me i blamed it all to my husband' s fault. We don' t communicate well during our marriage . Because he thinks he is always right and he didn't give me a chance to settle our marriage and voice out my own side. It was very unfair. Money rules, maybe because he earned much than me. Thank you for reading my old sentiments. I already moved on .
Sorry to hear of your bad experience and having to raise 2 kids single handedly on your own. This is what happen when men are given free reign or having some spare changes while their wife work and toil to support the family. Money changes everything in every form and is indeed the root of all evils when not managed or used carefully.
I wish you well...minus your ex because you are worthy of more. Good luck.
It sure doesn't sound like you've 'moved on', just that time has passed.
I feel your pain. Many Filipino men are babaero and lasingero.
As a divorced woman who raised a daughter. I married a man 14 years older than ,myself. He was rich, I was a young struggling acto/writer. I thought I was in love with him. He was abusive, cheap and mean. Without discussing it with me, right after I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, he had a vasectomy, thus denying my child of full siblings (he had one grown older son) and a woman of 25 more children. A few months after giving birth he hit me hard on the mouth. He was an evil man who plotted and did end up destroying my life. It was a long time ago. You cant carry around hatred and disappointment. You just find little pleasures and are thankful for small joys. I have so much and yet old and poor....I send you love and a soothing balm for your heart aches and disappointent....Please lovely lady...let it go....let God, love and laughter in....remember if you have a roof over your head, a meal to eat and one good meal to enjoy....you are rich....and it doesnt hurt to have a companion like a dog or cat....they will love you always unconditionally....go save and animal....the life you save may be your own.
Bless you for trying to make it work. I'm glad you were able to raise those children alone. I hope they understand how hard it was for you.
I'm a filipina and also married to an English guy. I look after my husband the same way. It has something to do with how we were raised by our parents. That love, care, and respect is deeply rooted to how we were looked after by our parents.
Kultura na Kasi ntin ang mas pinapahalagahan ang pamilya. Asawa mo means pamilya mo n Yun. Nasa moral values n natin ang mentalidad ng buo ang pamilya. Nag hihiwalay lng kung may sakitan n. Di rin Tayo mpghangad ng super yaman. Yung sapat ay ok n.
@@AngieLina-ou3grtotoo yan , mas mahalaga sa atin yung saan ka maligaya, age doesn't matter sa atin kahit mahirapan pa tayo sa buhay ang mahalaga mahal matin yung tao❤
Bless you 🙏
thank you so much for doing this video 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻May I 🙏🏻 pray for you that GOD will heal and bless you every day to be fully recovered to enjoy your times with your loving wife and little girl 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻 I feel for you Mr. Monte because I had a major heart valve surgery 3 years ago and suffered a mild stroke already 3 times and struggled to walk on my own with a walking stick daily. I can say it’s terrible when I used to be very active physically but now can’t walk normally on my own. I Prayed that as time goes on I can be normal again with medications, right diet and walking exercises. I’m not married and don’t have any kids but I have to keep on going and hopefully meet a woman kind and loving to accept me. When I’m already 64 years old 🙏🏻🙏🏻 do take good care Mr. Monte❤☮️🙏🏻🙏🏻
So you are more of a caretaker than a wife then?
So many horror stories about Filipinas have all been offset by this one story. Thank you for that possibility existing.
In my town I’ve seen lots of happy families over the years where the husband was an older Australian man and his wife was a lot younger from the Phillipines and they all lasted, had kids, grandkids etc
You're so lucky sir to your wife❤ love is everywhere 🙏❤️❤️❤️
I'm married to a Filipina I met during our graduate studies at the University of British Columbia for 35 years now. The marriage is not perfect, but we get along amazingly well!
There's no such thing like perfect marriage...
Its a miracle
@@megancentro3878obviously
important is you.get along well. there is no perfect marriage.. in the philippines what matters most are the children.. yes even grown up children .. why? when a filipina or filipino die... who will fix the burial ? the children. and on Nov. 1.. children will visit the cementary.. your wife? if still living and can walk ...
@@dellcruz2818l
I met my man here in Florida by coincidence after 5 years steady we get married in Las Vegas and now we been 23 years together ♥️even we don’t have children but Love and care communicate to each other is important to us! We retired early @60 years old, now we are happy here in the Philippines 🇵🇭 more fun and traveling, we drive all the way to Boracay, Gigantes island, Palawan, Siargao and enjoy life! Happy to hear your Love story
Maybe having no children is a blessing for you as you are more free to do what you want.
@@thinkie12no
He must be white then. Because you guys go for white priviledge. You guys think it's a priviledge to have a white husband regardless of his background. Even if he is a truck driver. Shame on you guys.😂
God bless her amazing woman God blessings to you family healing prayers
Friend's brother married a Philipina and they lived there for 5 years. He ended up with dementia and sent him packing back to my friend. She took care of her brother for the next year until he passed. People are people. There are people who take their vows serious and some do not.
user-bl8mlgn WOW SO SHE SENT HER HUSBAND PACKING. WOW I THOUGHT PHILLIPINO'S WERE LOYAL. WOW SENDING SOMEONE PACKING WHEN THEY NEED YOUR SUPPORT, AND NEED YOU MOST. BUT, SHE TOOK CARE OF HER BROTHER, BUT REFUSED TO TAKE CARE OF HER HUSBAND.
@@ericaaubie860 Find your Caps Lock key, and release it from the bonds of servitude!
You made me cry, reminds me of my husband. I just love him that I treat him like a king as he always said to people. But God took him away from me, I guess He loves him too and He don't want him to suffer a lot . Get well sir.
This is a good guy who got what he deserves - a good wife and a family that will be there with him thru thick and thin. The young wife is what a true Filipina is - trustworthy, loyal, faithful. Great story. Thank you for sharing.
Privy to an old man
Lots of women are trustworthy, loyal and faithful. Even women of your own age.
Chad this is a great interview with Monty and inspiring to hear his story
The thing is his wife is what we all hope we find in a wife and she must be a genuinely amazing person 😊
Im 47, fit and way more attractive than this man. I couldn’t marry a 19 years old girl. I cant even imagine doing something like that.
70/40 duds 70% filipina are good for money 40%best for family
Glad I found your channel Chad! Great story here
Great interview, I’m a FilAm and reside in Beaumont CA, and have investment the Philippines, so I travel in the Philippines a lot stories like this makes me proud of my Kababayan. I’m a 76 years old, so sometimes I feel like a 76 years old. #AbePagtamaActor
Fantastic story, it's nice to see that Filipinas are not all money diggers.
Best of luck with your health Sir.
you're right to say that, sir, not everyone. u'll find rotten tomatoes in a basket (goes w/ the others), but there are a great number of fresh ones in there. one only has to be keen on spotting the rots from not.
Money diggers Filipinos are usually those that are engaging in flesh trade.
Really glad I watched. Great interview, and the story of a good man facing real problems and the blessings that came to him. Touching.
Blessings to you both! 🙏🏼
Praying for a full recovery. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This story is heartening and so beautiful.
Real Filipina woman quality. I am married to my husband 15 yrs older than me and we doing ok.
Hopefully, by ok, you mean good. Ok sounds like it's working but not ideal.
@chris2489001 ur a negative person! Should of kept ur opinion off of here! Tooo much negatively!
@@chris2489001 many marriages are "ok" & it may be sad to many, however who knows other than the couple in question. Peace be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
@@chris2489001 That's a pessimistic interpretation of the word "okay".
Totally informative video content. Thank you for sharing it.
The age gap of 55 to 19is gross. Repulsive actually.
In your world it is....but not to them. Maybe you haven't found TRUE love yet, let alone experienced it.
Hey Chad, nice interview, Monty has had both an interesting and at times, a hard life as many of us minus the medical issues. I like others wish him well in his future endeavors in maintaining or improving his health as with completing his current home and being happy with his family.
Monte my man , From the depths of my heart I wish you and your wife and daughter all the very best for the future.
As you would be aware, we hear so many stories...many conflicting.
But your story my friend touched me deeply. The trials and tribulations , the clinging to life by a mere thread and to recover with you wife and daughter still by your side providing every reason to fight on and cope with the obstacles that remain.
Bless you and you family Monte.
Kind regards
Nick
I agree and wish Monty and family the best!
Monty is a great guy with a miraculous story!!!
He looks great in the video and is healing...Thank God!
He's a lucky man
The poor kid though. Will only know a sick and old father. That’s quite anxiety inducing for the child.
Whitney Anders- What a negative, terrible, critical, unthoughtful, disrespectful comment about my friend Monty Crew. You should be ashamed of yourself.
God has blessed Aragel and He with a beautiful little daughter. Little Faith has a promising future and parents who love her. I cannot believe an individual could with a clear conscience make such a terrible comment.
@@whitneyanders5945 Indeed! Not very considerate towards the child. If he was able to leave at minimum $100,000 USD and SSA child survivors benefits then at least it gives the child a fighting chance to have a better future and existence.
Great video guys.
Excellent story. I was 70 and married a 35-year-old Filipina. We are doing great. So far I'm in very good shape. No major medical issues. Most 18 and 19- year old girls are unstable and unpredictable. You are lucky. I was NOT wanting or looking for a 18-19 year old girl, but was introduced to one. A true genuine connection never formed. She was too immature and it did not work out -- thankfully. I made the right decision for me.
Filipinas, when treated right and with love, they will return the same, ten folds. God bless you both.🎉
Absolutely.
True
True!
Completely true in every respect!
this is i have found, very kind & careing ladies, i have many filipinas ladies who i dearly care about.
Married to an angel....what a heartwarming story....
Wow! This woman deserves respect!
Beautiful story!!
Monte? You struck a diamond Squire😊
All the best to you and your family. Try to see if you can do anything to extend a life of happiness Brother. 😊🎉
Monty has overcome a lot. Good for him and his wife for sticking together thru the ups and downs. Also a reminder to get yearly checkups with a full blood work, especially as we get older.
Good advice
To watch what you eat and keep active physically are the key to be healthy in any age.
Poorness is main reason of such bond.
My prayeris that you will be here for your wife and daughter for years. God bless you and family for many, many years to come. Always in my prayers, Atlanta, GA
You're a lucky guy!that's it!you find a very special gem here in the Philippines,I pray for your full recovery and live your life to the fullest❤
That's why I love Monte, he's just plain honest. He admits that he did everything wrong and knows that he's lucky as the year is long. Knowing the long version of his story (from his channel and other interviews he's done) really shows how lucky he got. Could another guy get as lucky, maybe but I wouldn't bet my farm on it. The quality of character of his wife is a true gem. She stayed with him during his major health issues, current health issues and money worries from when Monte had his business arrangements (US business income) hit a rough patch. But when you see them together as a family it all just connects, and it's easy to see they love each other. I wish Monte and family all the best both now and many years to come. Stay blessed my friend, as it's easy to see that even though life has dealt you a tough hand, you still have a true Ace of a wife that comes through regardless of the circumstances. 👍👍
He is ugly, he has a child bride (at that time), he has a helper, he has a personal Nurse, yes, he is very lucky.
why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.
@@hillbillyintheasia6122college is not important, many educated got professionals but they're jobless,
@@hillbillyintheasia6122stop projecting your inner issues on others… death has non age .. same when it comes to love… how many younger people who are widows or widowers… divorced or married their fellow age for money 🤦♂️😡
@@hillbillyintheasia6122 @hillbillyintheasia6122 Simple, once someone turns 18 its none of anyone's business who they love. Everyone can have am opinion sure but once they legally become "consenting adults" then it's up to them. Also just as you said his child can get his SS for 18 years. That alone brings up the quality of life substantially from a regular person on the street. You talk about college, but it's just as possible college wasn't an option for her in the first place. You are making a lot of assumptions based upon a western mindset, and your assuming capability when it's possible her options weren't that broad. Even if his life comes to a close a woman with her quality of character is in demand, and their CZcams videos act as a testament to the quality of her character as well. Most men would give their right kidney to have a woman so dedicated even if she was a widow with a child. Her future isn't even close to as bleak as you assume. She's got a path to income through their CZcams channel and there could even be more things Monte has put in place to make sure her and her child are taken care of, we just don't know. But all that said I wish you all the best 👍
right will look at it ..all the best Monte , your U tube channel is REALLY good ..ive subscribed to it.
Its not like she should be surprised he had a stroke. Look at the guy. She should have expected it.
I don't recommend too much age gap. If she is perfect in every way for this relationship you are taking her opportunities to experience being a young couple away. If its life and death for her, save her, by all means but for me, 10 years younger works very well. I'm 60, shes 50.
Wow! INSPIRING STORY, GOD BLESS YOU SIR & TO YOUR WHOLE FAMILY... PRAYING FOR YOUR FULL RECOVERY. SHE'S ONE IN A MILLION❤ ...
PROUD FILIPINA HERE.
As a Filipino, our culture is family-oriented. We prefer to live with our family. The parents take care of their children. And when the parents get old, their children and grandchildren will take care of them. We are selfless specially to our family. That is just the way it is and I personally love it. Cheers!
Same with Naga Tribes from Nagaland Northeast India
@@charlieneks4534 Filipinos even look like Naga. Very similar culture, including indigenous dress code. There's a genetic and cultural link someplace.
Just like anywhere else, there are those who take commitment seriously and an equal number who do not. The "culture" promoted about the Philippines is fading fast and will soon be a thing of the past. It's a sad reality we all need to accept.
Hi Guys
Sadly NOT ALL Filipinos and Filipinas are that way! My ex MIL is Filipino from the Philippines. She & her husband moved to Alaska for a few years then settled in Honolulu HI in the 70s maybe late 60s. Anyway, they worked there a$$e$ off! Rain or shine sick and all they worked worked worked! Im a part Hawaiian/Asian Local girl born n raised here in HI and to me it was a bit MUCH! I just didnt see where they’d find the time to ENJOY anything! Just LIFE! U know? Anyway, long story short. They had 5 children the youngest son is my ex (father of my sons) they absolutely LOVED their father. He was a very hard working man and a loving one at that! The mom was a hard working woman but she cracked the whip! NONE of her kids help her with almost anything. The father passed away many years ago from cancer, but she had to do ALOT of things on her own as none had there own lives and just didn’t help her. It’s very sad how they treated her and still do today. Yes they love her, however idk if they will “take care of her” when she’s unable to care for herself. All they want is what they can get from her after she passes. Im afraid it’ll be a real shit show when that happens. So my 2 cents is this. Not all Filipinos are the same. Don’t label a gender or a nationality. Unconditional love is found EVERYWHERE and all over the world.
You are a good husband and I wish all foreigners wishing to marry Filipinas are like you.
U are one of the few that found a single young woman and she fell in love with u stayed with you after all these years I beenmarried 40 years to filipino changed so much the last 24 years it's been hard to live withher.
May Monte's days continue to blessed with Good Health, God speed to Monte's healthy recovery,
As someone also married to a beautiful Filipina who is the most beautiful woman in the world i truly relate to every single word. God bless
good for you, i love filipenia ladies, they are special, & i only wish for a caring one could be mine, i lost my dear wife to cancer.
Filipinas aren’t rated the world’s most beautiful Asians. Koreans are.
@@Landis_Grantthat’s Forsure !
@@ormlongman266The woman will do anything marry anyone to get a foot in here It amazes me how gullible you Men are also my friends Dad was taken to the cleaners by one of
And they are not the most attractive woman by far
@@Landis_Grant There's beauty in every group.
My friend’s worry is the toxic utang ( borrow culture, without paying) in the Philippines. All of his wife ( at the beginning of their marriage) relatives and friends are borrowing money left and center without paying because they all think that all foreigners has unlimited money to giveaway. If you don’t give, they can call every names they want. Parents and siblings thought that they’re entitled to everything their sister has😅. Anyway, great fun friendly culture, until you stop handing out free money. So, be cautious , be careful! It’s ok to be kind, but don’t overdo it.
Yes, most of the time it's about dollars and cents and having a support system.
I have worn a shirt that said on it Proud KuriPot. They get the idea real quick. One of the first lessons I teach is that I am not the bank. GET A JOB. SO the gravy train does not stop. It takes a while but I teach them that we are not rich. THe numbers are just may times larger than theirs but we have all the same problems.
@@khenglim - You just have to let them enjoy the fruits of their inaction and forkery. I have said before, I do not care who is whining crying or dying... Tell St Peter at the gate I said hello. Don't delay, Be on your way... Says Mr KuriPot.
@@KlodFather
Agree... But what if they view and expect these men to be their ATMs? Quick run, I suppose. Haha....Fact is....many of my country men (especially the older folks) have fallen prey to these love scams and robbed of their life long pensions (in tens and hundreds of thousand) to women not just from the Philippines but also Indonesia, Malaysia, Vietnam, China etc. It's sad but the reality is that money matters and everything comes down to dollars and cents. Of course, there are success cases of marital bliss and I truly applaud these unions and wish them well.
@@khenglim - Agreed. If she is gold digging, then you need to set the boundry. If they don't let up, replace them like a burned out light bulb. You cannot fix that problem. Tampo is another big problem. I tell them No Chismosa No Tampo No BS No crazy relatives etc... They get that speech so they know I know what is up and its off limits. One girl did tampo and I said, OK. Time to go. Headed to the Jeep station and was talking to another... Oh my did that situation get turned around quick. But if they do it once they will do it again when they are comfortable. Just get out and find a peaceful one who does not engage in that shit. So much better that way. Its OK to trade some looks for a good woman who does what is right. ITs a No Brainer.
21:45 to 48. I agree and appreciate what he said here that the Philippines is one of the beautiful and wonderful place in the Earth.
Hello I’m so impressed the courage of being a young lady to be married to an older man it’s how we are family oriented culture
Awesome story proud to be Filipino/Canadian Living here in Toronto canada 🇨🇦
Good luck more power to both of you stay inlove
I'm just wondering if they are proud to be Filipino why are they leaving their own country and immigrating to another country?
I met my Filipino lady on August 17, 2022, on Facebook she sent me a message saying "Hi". I responded 2 days later saying "Hello". We started off just having a normal conversation I was asking questions about the Philippines 🇵🇭 and she was asking me questions about America 🇺🇸. After 3-4 weeks she said "I Love You" and invited me to come to the Philippines 🇵🇭. She never asked me for money and didn't want me to spend money only if necessary. Although she really needed money, we are getting married on August 17, 2024!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Nice love story
But you've been there, right.
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Congratulations and best wishes to you both.
wow nice,relate much...
You are blessed with a real Filipina , I hope she will not change. God bless your family ❣️
Anyone can say "I love you" but your actions speak louder than your words.
Another thing is they are of the same Faith and that is the key to any relationship.
It’s still early , but let’s talk in 10 years.
Proud to be a Filipina. That's what we are and you're very lucky sir. Congratulations and God bless you and your family
Her father said as long as you don't hurt her or abuse her... I told one girls father I do not beat women. If they are bad I will lock them in the CR after I used it. He laughed and said his wife should be locked in there. She was saying No No No and I was saying yes yes yes... Im going to the police store for the handcuffs LOL Mama laughed and said I was bad ha ha
CR?@@KlodFather
@@regnorse - Comfort Room. CR is short for the toilet or the Comfort Room. A Philippine term.
Haha not all are like this 😂. Most marry an old man for his money
not for bigger bananas?@@ptyh27
I've been married to an American.Now we are 7years and doing good in our relationship.I promise to my husband i will take care of him.Now his turning 73 yrs.old.
all for $$$...!!! Sold your Body and Soul...!!!
@@bozicayanc1932 American woman marries a rich man for money too. It happens all of the world. Every relationship is different and if the two parts of the couple are benefiting, that seems to be good enough right?
but, those 'ones' are so OBVIOUS...!!! @@andysnyder4603
Why are you burning. You can't marry your own country girl ?@@bozicayanc1932
@bozicayanc1932-- those of us who work for a living sell our bodies and soul.
Monte is a very, very, good friend of mine and we have a lot in common. He has been on my channel before and I hope he will come again as he continues to improve. Season's Greetings to all my good friends.
i do all the same for my husband. Hes 89 im 62 and neither of us look our age. He still golfs and i love him as much today as i did when i married him 7 yearsgo.. My husband early was hospilized for 2 weeks and came home and i looked after him with all my heart and i wouldnt have it any other way. Hes on oxygen now but ill be by his side forever. Im told that i am a very rare young lady and everyone sees how i adore and love him. We are not rich and less than comphy but we go on holidays 3 weeks out of the year and he treats me like a flower. Its a shame men feel that they have to go abroad especially men from USA but i really do get it. Love is very hard to find these day and its a rare gift and one to be blessed with. Even today people say what gorious couple, weve been give a state of grace and even if we didnt we love each other from the inside out and thats all the heart ever needs.
Excellent information Chad! This guy Monte is very honest and inspiring! Thank you
Excellent video. I appreciate you both for your honesty.
I’m from the Philippines I met my husband Year 1997 his American and we got married Year 2001 And I came to the U.S.A Year 2002 We had a child 2003
The married couples are not always perfect.especially we have a lot of differences and culture. But the most important thing is genuine Love, Respect and honestly.the gaps of our age 22 Years. But we’re happy couples.
We’re been married for 22 Years our daughter she in college now. And I been taking care of my husband for almost 4 Year because of health issues.And
My husband just Passed away Dec.21,2023
It’s not that easy for us this holidays season I missed him soo much..😢
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Hope you're well ❤
My sister married 2 times in new jerseys..her first husband was passed away then she meet another good guy now she's living in south Carolina...I'm happy for her ..
Very nice story,,thanks for sharing Chad😊
Really an incredible story. I was not sure if I wanted to watch just because of the age differences but I listened, tried not to judge and I'm glad I did. I hope and pray that Monte is able to maintain if not improve his health and enjoy seeing his daughter grow and experience the love he gets from his wife. The big take away is really how wonderful his wife is... He for sure found a one in a million match I think. I also respect him for seeking out her family as well as his own kid's feelings and approvals.
Great content! I am proud of your wife!
That's one fortunate guy who happened to find someone who happened to love him for who he is and is willing to stick it out to the end. I'm happy for you sir, You're blessed.
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Out of all the stories I’ve heard from the Philippines, that was the most inspirational😳
Chad, you are great at this youtube gig! I have watched you on other channels as well. Keep up the great work and I hope to visit there soon.
She’s one of a kind. I’m happy for people who found true love and happiness. Experience how to be loved and know how to love others genuinely, then you’ll see the good side of the story.
I beg to differ … There are a lot of USA women who love and care for their husband also .. Now a 19 year old girl might be difficult to find in the USA even though you do have money… I’ve also heard of Americans left by their wife’s after they are left broke in the Filipins … But I’m glads it’s working for him …. Health care is definitely better in the USA plus you can use ur Medicare benefits instead of having to pay cash the may hurt your finances …
Stay well! God bless you always!
I've followed this man for several months after his stroke. He looks a lot better today 🙏
My wife is Filipina. We met online. I must however say I worked and lived 25 years in SEA. I learned mty lesson. We lived in Philippines, Thailand and now in Florida. We are 30 years age difference. I have disability, we have 5 year old and her son from first who is 13 years old, we now all live in Florida, she works. I was married twice to US women - and divorced. No comparison. God bless you both, good for you. Filipina is the best wife
Awesome video! I appreciate the frankness! Thank you! 😊
New subscriber, from Laguna. Beautiful love story and praise God He gave you a good wife.
Chad nice line-up of questions.
Very good flow to the interview 👍👍
Great video 👍
Monte & Wife are a great couple 🌱
Thanks for uploading 💐
Greetings from Ireland 🎉
I could give a couple of eg but I’ll give one. Met this Filipina online and thought she was serious about me. She said all the right things. I even met some of her family over the phone. Had many video calls basically. Helped her financially every week. About a year into the relationship I had a bad accident and ended up in hospital. She literally ghosted me until I got out and started working again. No messages or anything after she read about my accident and that I couldn’t send her the usual money every week. She came back as soon as she saw the words, “I’m out of hospital now and back at work”. When she ghosted me I blocked a pile of money I’d sent just before the accident for a new phone for her, and she subsequently got super mad when she returned and started demanding to know why I had blocked “her” money. Lol She demanded to know whether or not I was going to continue with sending money regularly or did she need to move on? Lol That accident unfortunately needed to happen in hindsight. Needless to say that was the end of that. Saw she went straight onto the next guy who I tried to warn but I don’t think he listened? There are also plenty of people like this out there too so be careful folks.
Thanks again sir chad and sir monty for sharing this episode of life 🙋♀️salute you guys and Godbless u more!🙏🏼
Wow similar name to my daughter - Julienne 😊
@juliusjuispais7926 😍oh that's cool, sir🙋♀️but I'm from the northern part of the Philippines 👍
@@julieann2546 In the West, we do not treat these loser men with respect.
Great interview,I have seen other interviews on this subject and you handled it well congrats.
Wow. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. May God bless you, your beautiful wife and your daughter
So nice to hear your story, honesty true not everybody is the same, majority Filipinos if you respect them they will RESPECT you. Filipino values are Our no. One that we carry wherever you go. Thank you for sharing your story.👍
It sounds like this guy got really lucky. His wife sounds very responsible and caring.
Big red flags! What a mess.
yep before his time lucky Filipina
@@witchking008 Yep his money
She is stuck with no other option. If she divorces him, she will not get half his Social Security. Look behind the curtain.
@@iluvmoney6767Foreigners be winning in the Philippines. xD
Sucks in certain countries.
Your channel has so many great videos. I find myself watching video after video due to your subjects and your riveting guests! You have further inspired me to get off my ass and get my world in order so I can make the move!
I am Filipina American and I have been married to the same man for 52 years both were young when we met I work in a German hospital and my Husband was stationed in Germany USAF now we have moved to the States I have been talking to him that we should stay 6 months in the states and 6 months in the Philippines, I still have inherited property in the Philippines and we have a house in the province but I could always stay in my brother's house in Dumaguete my niece and nephew are both Physician so It is easy for us to have a Doctor.
Thank you very much for sharing such an awesome info and video. I am very happy to see Monty has recovered very well. I will check out Monty's channel now. Regards from Canada.
This guy still doesn't know how lucky he's been. Good for him!
oh yes he does
I have been following Monty's channel for quite a while now and I must say he has won a lottery with his wife. The way she treats him and takes care of him is one in a million. Don't make the mistake of thinking that all Filipinas are like that! If I had been in his condition, my ex-Filipina-wife would have dumped me with a caregiver while painting the town with other guys using my money. I'm pretty sure of that. So if you have a wife like Monty's, hold on to her with both your hands, because you will never find another one like her!
True, I'm Filipino. It isn't about the race, color of skin, status. It's only either you're able to get your sh!ts straight or you're a piece of crap. Although, women who are raised conservatively are more likely to get it, I think..
they already pointed out in the video... not all, but it'e common in the philippines because of the culture
Most Filipino women are caring and loving as long as you are the same. Perhaps you were just unlucky to find the wrong one. I was married to Canadian and we got along well and loved each other. Unfortunately he passed away in 2020. All my married female Filipino friends are very loving to their Canadian husbands.
Absolutely pilipina so caring, understanding and most down to earth.
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What a wonderful wonderful love story
I found your video most interesting. I am married to a filipina for 23 years and we reside in Siquijor. Thank you for sharing your information and knowledge with us. We travel to Dumaguete at least once a month primarily for my health issues. Would love to know who your cardiologist is. At present, I have none.
I have always liked Monty and his wife from the first time I have seen them.. first time I saw him he had a yellow house he was renting in Valencia and his wife gave us a tour of the place and it was cheap and beautiful.. I was sold on the Philippines when I saw that video of a house that cheap in the mountains of Valencia and such a nice and beautiful wife.I think it was 200 or 250 dollars a month.. great guy great girl and now they have a wonderful and beautiful little girl..😊😊
Hi Monty, I’ve been following your videos! Loved it!!! Pls continue to do more !! Always pray for you in your journey of good health & enjoife!!
She is a special woman you have there love her with all your heart as she loves you with all her