virginity is the best gift that u can give to ur husband,thats why we filipina's values our virginity in the first place.my husband is a filipino he is so proud that im still a virgin,how much to a foreigner which...very proud of you sis...
Traditional values in the Philippines includes sex before marriage being a sin according to Catholicism. This couple is strong and has a very mature attitude.
I admire this couple and wish you all the best… I am a Filipina, married for almost 59 yrs to US Air Force. Now both of us retired living in Honolulu, Hi..
My wife is from Indonesia. She also would not have sex before marriage. That was difficult at times, but I respected her for that, so waited. We’ve been married 16years and still going strong 😊
I was 19, and my hubby was 31 when we got married 1980. We were both single and never been married. During our years together, I never let my husband support my family. When I migrated to Canada, I went to school and worked to help earn money for our family. We help out with my family in the Philippines,only during emergencies. After a few years, We managed to sponsor my 6 nephews and nieces, and 2 sisters… we even played match makers to some of our friends and relatives. We are both retired now, enjoying the best of our two countries…
My girlfriend and I are in an LDR, and she's Filipina. Everything they say here is true about traditional roles. I love being with a Filipina and we are planning on meeting in person soon.
Patrick is incredibly fortunate to have found a genuine Filipina who upholds traditional values in this modern era. As a Filipino, I can confidently assert that there are still many religious Filipinas who abide by the cultural norm of abstaining from sex until marriage.
@@selohcin That is rare to find nowadays because of the civilization and influence of the western world especially the entertainment industry, the ratio statistically is 1 out of a hundred, you can find a girl who accept long age gap but she'll go only for money, some were seriously genuine but not accepting over 10 years gap, they are variety of choices and types.
I'd like to remind people, the girls can lie right?! Lol she could be 100% genuine but also I'd keep my guard up and make sure I'm not getting scammed or anything bad that could happen.
Wonderful couple! I was married to a Filipina for 21 years and knew her for another 4 years! We had a wonderful life till she passed away form cancer in August of 2022.! I hope I can meet another Filipina when I am ready!
That’s heart-breaking to hear. I can only imagine it must be incredible to be married to a Filipina. Praying you find another one who will love you as much as the first
If a woman is a virgin, I could see why she would want to wait a little while. There’s nothing wrong with waiting until after marriage. But, once you‘re married, never stop doing it.
Women have the right to decide to wait for marriage even if they're not virgins. Men are not entitled to our bodies any more than we are entitled to your money. Everyone can set whatever standard they want.
I’ve been trying to reply to the viewers who found the term “Daddy” icky. That’s how Filipino couples call each other, or even Mama and Papa, or Nanay and Tatay. It’s a term of endearment for us. My American husband and I call each other that, and he’s only a few months older than me. It sets the tone on how the kids address their parents. My parents and grandparents were the same way. There’s nothing weird or dirty about that, unlike in Western countries.
I do the same i want to keep pure till get married. But my ex did not want that. So he did not come back here again. Its okay God save me from the wrong person. I like this man he has a lot resect to his woman. God centered relationship was the best. God bless you beautiful couple.
I admire you. Make sure that you do not fall for s-x before marriage. Please write to me. I live in California and would like to correspond with you. May God always protect you and guide you.
Being a Christian man and finding a 28 year old young beautiful girl who is a virgin is idea in my mind. Like the guy stated, he is a Christian, he should wait. Good for them. I wish them nothing but happiness and success.
lol i didnt hear she said she was virgin, haha i met lots of them who want marriage first before sex. and i asked them if they are virgins and they said no haha.
For foreigners looking for a good Filipino wife, explore the right places. Don't expect that you will find a good catch while spending time at the nightly bars. And don't give out money, Filipinos can fend for themselves - the responsible ones, I mean.
I married my American husband for twenty years never ask money from him, I work for own need and extra for my family since then. Husband just take care rent and insurances, mine is food and utilities. That’s my arrangement. I feel ashamed to ask money from my husband for the reason I’m financially earn my own since after high school. Even I went to college never ask from my parents.
Good for you, everything is case to case basis , it is not easy to find work here in the Philippines but if the guy will bring him to United States and there's job's that we Filipinos can work we take those chances ,we are not dependent people ,we work even during holidays, so have some respect to others you donot know them as i do not know you, thank you for your comment anyway. Happy holidays.
That is what most adults do I understand you live in a hard country to make a living but it is not imposable many people living there make a livable wage it is just if you want to do what it takes to get such a wage.
If the girl respect her body she don't give her virginity as easy like that.. to me virginity is one precious gift to a a coming husband.. great video content
I did the same to my partner. We didn’t have sex after we got married. We been married for 30 years, with one beautiful daughter! Every marriage have a challenge and everyday is a surprise day. Just don’t give up . Love can conquered anything . Just don’t forget God🙏🙏🙏
I was so impressed by this couple and how they love and respect each other. I also love that they are not having sex before marriage and that they don’t cross certain boundaries so that their marriage will be their blessing to each other.
I really don't think sex and intelligence are connected. I work with Filipino doctors and nurses who are all incredibly intelligent, and they all believe in sex before marriage. Which makes a nonsense of your comment. And they are totally totally fluent in English too !
@@timmy4wimmy i just think its intelligent to Not give away sex easily for a girl. i think its dumb for a girl to give away sex easily. which part of that didnt you get, the eas or the ily? a man can already tell if they wanna marry a girl by their physical appearance , personality and/or level of intelligence. sex is not a factor unless youre the most shallow man on earth
I met my wife. She was 30, I was 46. She'd never even kissed a guy before. But, she had a good job, and had decided to have a baby (which I didn't know). She called me a couple months after I was back in USA from my 2 week trip and told me "I'm pregnant, it's ok if you don't support us". Well, I wasn't going to leave my child in Philippines, and now we've been married 17 years :).
@@timngim583 Nah he doesn't care about silly stuff like that, the main thing is she said it was his baby, so regardless if it's his biological baby he feels like a father.
if you want to marry Filipina, the simple way is, don't be a bossy, don't be like a rude king, don't hurt her physically and mentally, you have to be equal decision and talk about your own responsibility, then you can have what peaceful mind you are expecting, sometimes Filipina there's a something called, "Toyo" means, she's angry without any reason, but don't be mad very quick, you just have to be quiet, don't talk to her for a while, then after a minute or for an hour, come to her back and say the 3 words and say "where do you want to have dinner"?, then your happy life must go on.
Chad thank you so much for your videos, I've watched many of yours and some others also, but content from you is superior and especially appealing because you are not one of those guys just looking for a hookup. This is your best interview yet. What a genuine couple that you have here. It so special especially in today's world to find people that choose to honor their commitment to the Lord. Please do a follow-up interview after they're married. Keep up the great work and may you be blessed.
Met my fiance in Colombia and a lot of the same values. The USA is one of the most dysfunctional societies in the world. I highly encourage men of any age to travel and find a woman overseas.
Interesting video with 2 nice & pleasant people living their own lives. Too bad there are so many jaded & judgmental folks making negative comments but that’s CZcams.
Another great interview with good subjects. very happy they both met each others rare standards; the same as I would look for. Very good examples of the right way to establish a relationship. 👍 I will be there in a week for the month of January at Dauin.
Not a scam. In the Phils. having so many sex partner before marriage is seen as dishonorable and unpure. Tradtional and conservative Pinays hold on these values of being pure and clean until the wedding rites are done.
No offense also but some foreigners also after sex they go away 😂😂😂 and lots of filipina also have a kid from a foreigner that missing in action so its a scam ang stupid foreigner also no offense😂😂😂 My husband is european and we are 2 years happily married and counting..if want true love from a filipina show your love not your money😊
I have found a beautiful Filipina woman, that we both have vowed to keep traditional values. I understand that there are desires, but I told her that I will respect her always which means that I will never go against her and our values. We are expecting to see each other later this year. We have respect for each other.
I'm a Filipina, married an American at the age of 38, a virgin. I have a couple of friends who are now almost 60 but still virgins. Virginity is big deal in our family.
👏👏👏👏👏 I salute her! This world full of immoral, immodest and impure people needs more women... AND...men like her who want to wait before marriage. The man she ends up marrying is very lucky. Please treat her right!
Honestly I can’t find all the words to describe the emotion I felt watching this episode, but God Bless the beautiful couple. Hopefully I can be blessed in the same way too. True values between a man and a woman. ❤
Very informative and useful. As a Catholic, it is very useful to share this video. The info on a Christian dating site is extremely helpful. It's nice to know that there are provincial ladies who save themselves for marriage. The great part is for Filipinas to see that there are men with the morals to wait for a physical relationship. For Filipinas to be natural, and not be worried about language--Americans don't care about the difference--"all" relationships take time to build and learning the language both ways is just one of those building that relationship. God Bless!
I think it's very telling that Alona acknowledged that even in the Philippines, it was very hard for her to find a Filipino man who was willing to abstain from sex until marriage. All the best to Joe and Alona!
Your interview with this couple is why I subscribed to your channel Chad. I cringe when I hear all the negative interviews and comments about Filipinas who treat foreigners as a meal ticket and an ATM. Sad to say that in most cases this is due to the fact that these stories so often come from the mouths of foreigners who have arrived here for the first time and have very little knowledge of the Philipino culture and even less knowledge of the girl or her family. They make the mistake of not telling the girl from day one that they are not a bank or a loan company and they are here to find happiness and share that with someone who will reciprocate in every way. That means in honesty respect , in attitude, and tender loving care. They should point out that the relationship between the two of them has to be developed before committing to any financial assistance towards her family and make it crystal clear that it is a non negotiable condition until enough time has passed for the foreigner to feel that the girl has a genuine desire to build a.Happy and loving relationship together.
One of very few good stories older American man married young Filipina . I hope they stay together for ever. I wish them good luck in their life journey.
You don’t know someone, as a partner, until you sleep with them. If it’s the woman requesting no sex before marriage, you truly have to ask what you’re buying here. Marriage is just about FOREVER in the Philippines, so good luck…
Very nice couple. Good girl and a very nice gentleman. You're very lucky to have each other.I do believe that waiting till after marriage is such a beautiful promise & commitment . Good luck to both of you .
My best friend is 63 and was dating a very young girl who is 28 with a 10-year-old daughter. He took $140k of his 401k for her to build a house, and he can only afford a peanut butter sandwich for lunch and dinner, because, besides the $140K, he still sends her $1000 every month.
but it's exactly the same in the West, dating decisions are massively influenced by status... i.e. money, just in the West we try to wrap it up and delude ourselves, try telling your girl that you want to step-back and have a more chilled lowered paid job and then count the months until she leaves you... fact
I watched this video and it is so close to mlour story, been here for 4 months, been traveling now for 2 yrs, and I must say there story is so similar that even my fiancé was tapping me on the shoulder. But I agree 100% on getting the right one!!
21:25 “Have fun, enjoy life and honour God.” Patrick would put that on his family crest What a great philosophy That is my reading of the Book of Ecclesiastes 🎉
So many filipinas still have that traditional belief even me im 29 i got married first before i had that even my sister she married an american and he respects my sister he waited until they get married and now they are still together and married for almost 33 yrs and me 31 yrs so you guys be patient if you met that kind of filipina
Sa panahon ngayon parang kunti nalang mga kababaihan na pinahalagahan ang virginity. Matagal akung nakapag asawa dahil din conservative ang personality ko, wla akung naging bf na pinoy dahil takot ako, mahilig maglaro ng kababaihan ang mga pinoy kaya maraming nabubuntis at hindi nagkatuluyan.I got married at my age 45 and my american husband also followed the old traditions of marriage.
I agree completely with preserving the sanctity of a woman's purity as a gift to a couple's union. That being said, I've long since come to question the whole idea of ritual marriage via statutes and laws. Is it not about personal vows between two souls under God and His word? Either way, it is quite admirable and rare to witness. May their path be paved with God's blessings...
She has already done the deed. She setting a trap for you. Once you marry her your life is screwed. No to mention you will be supporting her entire family and her Baby Daddy. ( Most likely the guy whom she is still doing the deed with )
Based on other comments I guess I am minority view. I do not think sex should be used as a carrot for marriage. It should be enjoyed by two people who want to enjoy it as long as legal age.
@@mmchannel8056 theyre not corpse anymore,you meant their remains ,except for judas who commited suicide.we also have the crown of thorns of jesus enshrined and safeguarded at notre dame cathedral in paris.
Yes, but Alona should not change her Catholic faith, as she is ALREADY Christian! Patrick is a Catholic name - and this fellow who is very nice, but has a quite wrong idea that “she is trending Christian“. The best thing for him is that he converts to Catholicism to receive the intended form of the Christian faith intended by Christ - and not upset his original wife’s faith - he should remember she is the way she is because she accepted AND practiced the teachings of the Catholic faith. The more Catholic you are - the more beautiful you become.
I don´t think that mean a whole lot in the Philippines, why are there so much Crime,murder,theft,teen mothers,single mothers ? Money is the true religion
I have to disagree, religion is mostly bad and the root cause for war and destruction. People would like to rule how other people should live?? why Don´t interfear with other peoples life/country if they go to hell??, so be it. People can and should be free to make up thire minds and not be attacked / forced by others. Now we have War many places, fx Ukraine,Gaza, religious riots in India,Pakistan,Nigeria,Sudan. And more wars is waiting to go off, Fx in China. If religion was Banned and not learned anymore ? the would would be a more peacefull place. Let the State take over all religious property and help the poor for real. have a nice day T@@mmchannel8056
Lucky man, she’s beautiful and very sweet, the first time I heard about a 31 year old virgin in the Philippines I laughed because I thought that wasn’t possible but now I know that’s very common in the Philippines for woman to remain virgins until marriage, my wife is a Filipino and she has a good friend who was a virgin until she got married at 45, I know to Americans that sounds crazy but these are traditional Christian women and it’s not uncommon there.
Amazing couple! Lucky man, this pinay is genuine, God fearing and they will have a good future for sure.. God is the center of their relationship…. The guy also is very kind and decent!
You've got a winner very impressive lady Well she's a very classy lady she's Not a supermodel but she's got character and ethics which are much more valuable
Blessed this couple 🙏. My fiancé and I were both working . Which better we have financial freedom to share to our family .We didn't fight it's a waste of time , have conversation to settle issues instead.
I'm a Filipina. I've met white men and they don't believe that I'm still a virgin at my age😅. I told them in the first place that I'm not into premarital sex and I notice that they don't agree with what I want so I let them go🤷.
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virginity is the best gift that u can give to ur husband,thats why we filipina's values our virginity in the first place.my husband is a filipino he is so proud that im still a virgin,how much to a foreigner which...very proud of you sis...
virginity? hell nah
@@EG-O What?
Why so many single unmarried mums in phil then?
@@MrBoatman46 no divorce at least not yet.
@@EG-O It's cultural
Traditional values in the Philippines includes sex before marriage being a sin according to Catholicism. This couple is strong and has a very mature attitude.
It was that way pre-1965 in pretty much the entirety of America, Europe, the West too.
How come so many Filipinas have kids at 18, 19?
@@MrSoccerpues Remember IMACCULATE CONCEPTION , they are Catholic :)
You are so right. Therefore most of Filipinas(60%) become pregnant out of wedlock. LMAO
@@MrSoccerpues because the have sex outside of marriage
I admire this couple and wish you all the best… I am a Filipina, married for almost 59 yrs to US Air Force. Now both of us retired living in Honolulu, Hi..
My wife is from Indonesia. She also would not have sex before marriage. That was difficult at times, but I respected her for that, so waited. We’ve been married 16years and still going strong 😊
Was she a virgin?
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She appears to be very kind and affectionate. I wish them well.
I was 19, and my hubby was 31 when we got married 1980. We were both single and never been married. During our years together, I never let my husband support my family. When I migrated to Canada, I went to school and worked to help earn money for our family. We help out with my family in the Philippines,only during emergencies. After a few years, We managed to sponsor my 6 nephews and nieces, and 2 sisters… we even played match makers to some of our friends and relatives. We are both retired now, enjoying the best of our two countries…
She’s smiling sweetly at him and he’s so proud of her. They give off a loving couple vibes.
check the update
the update is posted 4days ago
Loving couple... but she calls him ''daddy''
men who go to these countries looking for “love “ are abysmal jerks 😑😑😑
Hes a simp. shes got her ATM wrapped around her finger without even haveing to give up her only value.
My girlfriend and I are in an LDR, and she's Filipina. Everything they say here is true about traditional roles. I love being with a Filipina and we are planning on meeting in person soon.
Patrick is incredibly fortunate to have found a genuine Filipina who upholds traditional values in this modern era. As a Filipino, I can confidently assert that there are still many religious Filipinas who abide by the cultural norm of abstaining from sex until marriage.
How much interest in older Sub-5 foreigners vs hot handsome young men back home?
@@bobbruce4135👍🏻👍🏻
What percent of Filipinas are like that? I know that many aren't. If you could give us a breakdown, that'd be appreciated.
@@selohcin
That is rare to find nowadays because of the civilization and influence of the western world especially the entertainment industry, the ratio statistically is 1 out of a hundred, you can find a girl who accept long age gap but she'll go only for money, some were seriously genuine but not accepting over 10 years gap, they are variety of choices and types.
I'd like to remind people, the girls can lie right?! Lol she could be 100% genuine but also I'd keep my guard up and make sure I'm not getting scammed or anything bad that could happen.
Such a wonderful love story! ❤ It's blessed to have someone who shares the same values/beliefs that you have. True love waits. 😊
Wonderful couple! I was married to a Filipina for 21 years and knew her for another 4 years! We had a wonderful life till she passed away form cancer in August of 2022.! I hope I can meet another Filipina when I am ready!
That’s heart-breaking to hear. I can only imagine it must be incredible to be married to a Filipina. Praying you find another one who will love you as much as the first
Very sorry to hear of your loss. I believe that those who love us but are now gone, want us to be happy. ✌️
That's heart breaking!😢 at least u know what a good Filipina are! Good luck dude!
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Sorry to hear about your loss...best of luck in the future.
If a woman is a virgin, I could see why she would want to wait a little while. There’s nothing wrong with waiting until after marriage. But, once you‘re married, never stop doing it.
Women have the right to decide to wait for marriage even if they're not virgins. Men are not entitled to our bodies any more than we are entitled to your money. Everyone can set whatever standard they want.
@@Amethyst454 yes, but most people that have had sex before, previously married or not, won’t wait until marriage.
I’ve been trying to reply to the viewers who found the term “Daddy” icky. That’s how Filipino couples call each other, or even Mama and Papa, or Nanay and Tatay. It’s a term of endearment for us. My American husband and I call each other that, and he’s only a few months older than me. It sets the tone on how the kids address their parents. My parents and grandparents were the same way. There’s nothing weird or dirty about that, unlike in Western countries.
Daddy mamma I'd proper if you have children.
“To the pure all things are pure”
All things seem to be dirty in the US rn
No they don’t. I’ve been married to the same Filipina for 34 years and I am not daddy.
Hes lucky to have a filipina like here she's very pretty and kindhearted woman 😊❤
I do the same i want to keep pure till get married. But my ex did not want that. So he did not come back here again. Its okay God save me from the wrong person.
I like this man he has a lot resect to his woman. God centered relationship was the best. God bless you beautiful couple.
You did the right thing, save yourself til you get married.
I admire you. Make sure that you do not fall for s-x before marriage. Please write to me. I live in California and would like to correspond with you. May God always protect you and guide you.
I salute to you girl.
We should value our tradition. You are not alone.
easy for her, (she has a bf on the side), if a girl says no sex before marrige ? 99% its a scam
Its scam maybe because you had sex before marriage if you're not conservative you wont believe her
What a wonderful couple! They both have hit the jackpot. Good wishes their way for happiness and success.
Yea wonderful daddy / daughter coupe. Gr8
Being a Christian man and finding a 28 year old young beautiful girl who is a virgin is idea in my mind. Like the guy stated, he is a Christian, he should wait. Good for them. I wish them nothing but happiness and success.
yeah right
No Filipino girl that age is a virgin
I'm 43 in waiting 😊
lol i didnt hear she said she was virgin, haha i met lots of them who want marriage first before sex. and i asked them if they are virgins and they said no haha.
For foreigners looking for a good Filipino wife, explore the right places. Don't expect that you will find a good catch while spending time at the nightly bars. And don't give out money, Filipinos can fend for themselves - the responsible ones, I mean.
These foreigners look so old …this guy looks like 70 plus.
@@Eric-qm5xwWho cares ffs
@@IrishFrank22 lol you obviously do 😂🤣😂🤣
@@Eric-qm5xw I'm good man. Does it bother you older men can get women and you can't because you have no charm or you're poor 🤣🤣🤣
Yes! Stupid guys pag ganon. Explore. Girls ,d same.
great interview, questions, engagements....these two are so cute. blessings to them both!
I married my American husband for twenty years never ask money from him, I work for own need and extra for my family since then. Husband just take care rent and insurances, mine is food and utilities. That’s my arrangement. I feel ashamed to ask money from my husband for the reason I’m financially earn my own since after high school. Even I went to college never ask from my parents.
Are you a Filipina?
Good for you, everything is case to case basis , it is not easy to find work here in the Philippines but if the guy will bring him to United States and there's job's that we Filipinos can work we take those chances ,we are not dependent people ,we work even during holidays, so have some respect to others you donot know them as i do not know you, thank you for your comment anyway. Happy holidays.
That is what most adults do I understand you live in a hard country to make a living but it is not imposable many people living there make a livable wage it is just if you want to do what it takes to get such a wage.
That is not a husband, that is a roommate. Husband should be the provider.
You are perfect
I'm proud of this young lady for standing by her traditional values.
Yea I respect that but I wonder where the two stand on kids
They discussed that.
check the update on channel
@slither... Sounds like somebody is jealous! I'm afraid this young lady is taken. Looks like you will have to find your big break somewhere else.
@@slither... that money why you pretend and greencardo
If the girl respect her body she don't give her virginity as easy like that.. to me virginity is one precious gift to a a coming husband.. great video content
I did the same to my partner. We didn’t have sex after we got married. We been married for 30 years, with one beautiful daughter! Every marriage have a challenge and everyday is a surprise day. Just don’t give up . Love can conquered anything . Just don’t forget God🙏🙏🙏
I was so impressed by this couple and how they love and respect each other. I also love that they are not having sex before marriage and that they don’t cross certain boundaries so that their marriage will be their blessing to each other.
are you on crack
She is so adorable!!! He’s a very lucky guy!!
a woman who values herself and has a brain
I really don't think sex and intelligence are connected. I work with Filipino doctors and nurses who are all incredibly intelligent, and they all believe in sex before marriage. Which makes a nonsense of your comment. And they are totally totally fluent in English too !
@@timmy4wimmy i just think its intelligent to Not give away sex easily for a girl. i think its dumb for a girl to give away sex easily. which part of that didnt you get, the eas or the ily? a man can already tell if they wanna marry a girl by their physical appearance , personality and/or level of intelligence. sex is not a factor unless youre the most shallow man on earth
@@timmy4wimmyThere is a big divide between intelligence with privilege and intelligence with morals.
@@jamesortega8681 These girls put out young, their boys make sure they do.
That's why mine stayed at home, never went to parties or drank. She just went to church all until present day.@@libatalklieb5793
I met my wife. She was 30, I was 46. She'd never even kissed a guy before. But, she had a good job, and had decided to have a baby (which I didn't know). She called me a couple months after I was back in USA from my 2 week trip and told me "I'm pregnant, it's ok if you don't support us". Well, I wasn't going to leave my child in Philippines, and now we've been married 17 years :).
God Bless you
Didn't do a paternity test?
@@timngim583 Nah he doesn't care about silly stuff like that, the main thing is she said it was his baby, so regardless if it's his biological baby he feels like a father.
Dna test is a must
Hahahaha😂😂😂
if you want to marry Filipina, the simple way is, don't be a bossy, don't be like a rude king, don't hurt her physically and mentally, you have to be equal decision and talk about your own responsibility, then you can have what peaceful mind you are expecting, sometimes Filipina there's a something called, "Toyo" means, she's angry without any reason, but don't be mad very quick, you just have to be quiet, don't talk to her for a while, then after a minute or for an hour, come to her back and say the 3 words and say "where do you want to have dinner"?, then your happy life must go on.
Yes, equal decision
WOW mate. You Sir are one lucky fellow. She is smiling with every part of her face. Lovely couple
Awesome! EXACTLY! We are Christian and we wait until marriage. My Filipina wife and I waited. What a blessing.
Good for you both! It’s about time I hear about someone with the guts and honor to wait until marriage!!!
Guts and honor. Please … stop the BS.
I've lived a Christian life style but if I was dating I could never wait so I'm not a good Christian!!
@@bradleymiller7375 - as per all the ‘christens’ in Philly with all the separations.
lol. Only to find out she gives bad sex and can't be fixed? and there is no divorce in the Philippines.👀
@36handy Guts and horror you mean 😅
Chad thank you so much for your videos, I've watched many of yours and some others also, but content from you is superior and especially appealing because you are not one of those guys just looking for a hookup. This is your best interview yet. What a genuine couple that you have here. It so special especially in today's world to find people that choose to honor their commitment to the Lord. Please do a follow-up interview after they're married. Keep up the great work and may you be blessed.
Usually I would say yeah right!! But listening to her I think she is genuine, congrats
This a great example of two people giving each other what they need in a relationship. ❤
Money 😂
🤣
Yeah right
I wish to meet someone who could wait till marriage. I'm a widow.
Craziness...
uh you have allready been active if you are a widow...
I pray that God bless you with one, to me that stand is great and I congratulate you even though many compromised people don't adhere to this...
That was a great interview with a great couple best of luck to you both
Any guy who says, she’s never asked me for money. Has already offered it up. And.. Patrick just admitted to such as I’m typing this haha😂😂😂
Met my fiance in Colombia and a lot of the same values. The USA is one of the most dysfunctional societies in the world. I highly encourage men of any age to travel and find a woman overseas.
They are so very compatible Congratulations Guys!
Oh yes, they have so much in common LOL
Great video Chad. I laughed a lot. I bet he cant wait to get married 😆
She is definitely a 1% of the women population. I think this is great. She has proven that a few are still out there.
More than 1% of the filipinas are traditional... but if really shes a virgin at 28... even in the philipines... way less than the 1%
Interesting video with 2 nice & pleasant people living their own lives. Too bad there are so many jaded & judgmental folks making negative comments but that’s CZcams.
One thousand thumbs up!
Another great interview with good subjects. very happy they both met each others rare standards; the same as I would look for. Very good examples of the right way to establish a relationship. 👍 I will be there in a week for the month of January at Dauin.
Dauin is known for scuba diving
Lucky old man. I hope both happy together.
She looks like an amazing catch. Best of luck to both of them!
Her charm is that big smile !! Wishing you both happiness 💖💖💖
No offense to her. But given the marriage laws in PH, this seems like a scam.
Ha? Western marriage is the scam.
I agree.
Not a scam. In the Phils. having so many sex partner before marriage is seen as dishonorable and unpure. Tradtional and conservative Pinays hold on these values of being pure and clean until the wedding rites are done.
@@mariaceciliaapolinar3125 yeah right haha. Met plenty of them that arent virgins but want marriage after sex.
No offense also but some foreigners also after sex they go away 😂😂😂 and lots of filipina also have a kid from a foreigner that missing in action so its a scam ang stupid foreigner also no offense😂😂😂 My husband is european and we are 2 years happily married and counting..if want true love from a filipina show your love not your money😊
Why the wait to get married. If in love they should have been married already. Based on the conversation and interaction it makes no sense.
Great story, the fact that they waited is such a good example of how it should be done.God bless them .
I have found a beautiful Filipina woman, that we both have vowed to keep traditional values. I understand that there are desires, but I told her that I will respect her always which means that I will never go against her and our values. We are expecting to see each other later this year. We have respect for each other.
That's awesome!
I'm happy to hear that money is being discussed, that's really important for success!
I am busy with my old lady so I will watch this later today!
I'm a Filipina, married an American at the age of 38, a virgin. I have a couple of friends who are now almost 60 but still virgins. Virginity is big deal in our family.
👏👏👏👏👏 I salute her! This world full of immoral, immodest and impure people needs more women... AND...men like her who want to wait before marriage. The man she ends up marrying is very lucky. Please treat her right!
Honestly I can’t find all the words to describe the emotion I felt watching this episode, but God Bless the beautiful couple. Hopefully I can be blessed in the same way too. True values between a man and a woman. ❤
Very informative and useful. As a Catholic, it is very useful to share this video. The info on a Christian dating site is extremely helpful. It's nice to know that there are provincial ladies who save themselves for marriage. The great part is for Filipinas to see that there are men with the morals to wait for a physical relationship. For Filipinas to be natural, and not be worried about language--Americans don't care about the difference--"all" relationships take time to build and learning the language both ways is just one of those building that relationship. God Bless!
I like it! I did similar. I married my Filipina in 3 months after meeting her!
That's the goal of the ultimatum.
I think it's very telling that Alona acknowledged that even in the Philippines, it was very hard for her to find a Filipino man who was willing to abstain from sex until marriage. All the best to Joe and Alona!
Well they're being realistic
I beg to disagree.
Your interview with this couple is why I subscribed to your channel Chad. I cringe when I hear all the negative interviews and comments about Filipinas who treat foreigners as a meal ticket and an ATM. Sad to say that in most cases this is due to the fact that these stories so often come from the mouths of foreigners who have arrived here for the first time and have very little knowledge of the Philipino culture and even less knowledge of the girl or her family. They make the mistake of not telling the girl from day one that they are not a bank or a loan company and they are here to find happiness and share that with someone who will reciprocate in every way. That means in honesty respect , in attitude, and tender loving care. They should point out that the relationship between the two of them has to be developed before committing to any financial assistance towards her family and make it crystal clear that it is a non negotiable condition until enough time has passed for the foreigner to feel that the girl has a genuine desire to build a.Happy and loving relationship together.
One of very few good stories older American man married young Filipina . I hope they stay together for ever. I wish them good luck in their life journey.
Glad you two are happy, good luck in future.
I wonder if she would throw a temper tantrum if he said you pay for yourself until we get married.
The reason she has to wait is that, she really has to uphold the traditional way of marriage that what it is.
@@johnapid7801
She CHOSE to abide by the “traditional values”
Weird comment that would make sense in the west only
@@stephanerancourt7188 You would understand my comment if you had common sense and a spine.
You don’t know someone, as a partner, until you sleep with them. If it’s the woman requesting no sex before marriage, you truly have to ask what you’re buying here. Marriage is just about FOREVER in the Philippines, so good luck…
might be a transwoman ? or lesbian LOL
@@mabuhayproductionltd3627 Oh my....need to look at the goods 😂 make sure there's not junk down yonder.
You wouldn’t buy a car without a test drive. Don’t want to buy a lemon!
Secular carnal thinking like 90+ people in the world think.
I can tell she's a real gem and the real thing. Good going.
5000 pesos for her and 5000 pesos for the Mom and she was like 'okay daddy'...Ugh ugh ugh.
Very nice couple. Good girl and a very nice gentleman. You're very lucky to have each other.I do believe that waiting till after marriage is such a beautiful promise & commitment . Good luck to both of you .
My best friend is 63 and was dating a very young girl who is 28 with a 10-year-old daughter. He took $140k of his 401k for her to build a house, and he can only afford a peanut butter sandwich for lunch and dinner, because, besides the $140K, he still sends her $1000 every month.
Good for you both. Blessings for your marriage and life together ❤
She sure is beautiful and seems to be beautiful on the inside too. I’m planning to move to the Philippines soon.
What motivated her is 1 reason "MONEY" a ticket out of poverty and a green card.
exactly
but it's exactly the same in the West, dating decisions are massively influenced by status... i.e. money, just in the West we try to wrap it up and delude ourselves, try telling your girl that you want to step-back and have a more chilled lowered paid job and then count the months until she leaves you... fact
Wonder what god really thinks of sugardaddys. Bless em eh..
The Bible has lots of age gap relationships 😊
He is a lucky man, to have a real lady like that.
This couple is something that I’m looking for in a relationship but it’s hard to find as a Canadian
Get outta there
I watched this video and it is so close to mlour story, been here for 4 months, been traveling now for 2 yrs, and I must say there story is so similar that even my fiancé was tapping me on the shoulder. But I agree 100% on getting the right one!!
If I end up finding myself a sweet Filipina like this one, I know what I will want her to call me now... thanks for that, daddy!
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“Have fun, enjoy life and honour God.”
Patrick would put that on his family crest
What a great philosophy
That is my reading of the Book of Ecclesiastes
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Lucky guy...I'd never get tired of that smile.
Absolutely no.
Great interview. I m thankful there's still women who value no sex before marriage... The interview makes me smile & laugh. Nice Chad!
very rare, they dont get any BF, but then have time for a education,job ect. Then hard to look for a man as 35 years old virgin 🙂
So many filipinas still have that traditional belief even me im 29 i got married first before i had that even my sister she married an american and he respects my sister he waited until they get married and now they are still together and married for almost 33 yrs and me 31 yrs so you guys be patient if you met that kind of filipina
Sa panahon ngayon parang kunti nalang mga kababaihan na pinahalagahan ang virginity. Matagal akung nakapag asawa dahil din conservative ang personality ko, wla akung naging bf na pinoy dahil takot ako, mahilig maglaro ng kababaihan ang mga pinoy kaya maraming nabubuntis at hindi nagkatuluyan.I got married at my age 45 and my american husband also followed the old traditions of marriage.
I agree completely with preserving the sanctity of a woman's purity as a gift to a couple's union. That being said, I've long since come to question the whole idea of ritual marriage via statutes and laws. Is it not about personal vows between two souls under God and His word? Either way, it is quite admirable and rare to witness. May their path be paved with God's blessings...
Wow! 😮 wow, struggling for words but just wow, it’s beautiful to my heart.
My wife was still a Virgin at 30 yrs old when we got married, I was 55 yrs old.
You didn't believe it, did you?
@@libatalklieb5793 Yes Sir, I sure Did! And 100% True!!
@@glennhartwick7528 She never broke herself in with her finger?
This is very respectable, most parts in this World the Girls before they turn 18 had already more experience than most 60 year old all there Life.
After all the waiting and marriage, she finds out that the guy can't get it up :)
i've met a single mom who won't do the deed until marriage... i'm thinking like ummmm it doesn't work that way
That's a head scratcher!
it’s Ole Scotty Boy in the house….of course it doesn’t work that way…for you and 98% of the world these days
She has already done the deed. She setting a trap for you. Once you marry her your life is screwed. No to mention you will be supporting her entire family and her Baby Daddy. ( Most likely the guy whom she is still doing the deed with )
Hey, Scotty Boy, in the building 🫡
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Based on other comments I guess I am minority view. I do not think sex should be used as a carrot for marriage. It should be enjoyed by two people who want to enjoy it as long as legal age.
Catholicism was the first and original Christian religion,since 33 AD.im glad that he valued her faith and conviction.god bless on their marriage.
@@mmchannel8056 theyre not corpse anymore,you meant their remains ,except for judas who commited suicide.we also have the crown of thorns of jesus enshrined and safeguarded at notre dame cathedral in paris.
Yes, but Alona should not change her Catholic faith, as she is ALREADY Christian! Patrick is a Catholic name - and this fellow who is very nice, but has a quite wrong idea that “she is trending Christian“. The best thing for him is that he converts to Catholicism to receive the intended form of the Christian faith intended by Christ - and not upset his original wife’s faith - he should remember she is the way she is because she accepted AND practiced the teachings of the Catholic faith. The more Catholic you are - the more beautiful you become.
I don´t think that mean a whole lot in the Philippines, why are there so much Crime,murder,theft,teen mothers,single mothers ? Money is the true religion
I have to disagree, religion is mostly bad and the root cause for war and destruction. People would like to rule how other people should live?? why Don´t interfear with other peoples life/country if they go to hell??, so be it. People can and should be free to make up thire minds and not be attacked / forced by others. Now we have War many places, fx Ukraine,Gaza, religious riots in India,Pakistan,Nigeria,Sudan. And more wars is waiting to go off, Fx in China. If religion was Banned and not learned anymore ? the would would be a more peacefull place. Let the State take over all religious property and help the poor for real. have a nice day T@@mmchannel8056
What is your definition of Catholicism and why do you believe it was the original religion of Followers of Jesus
I like to find someone like him too. Nice interview very natural so much fun to hear their story.
Lucky man, she’s beautiful and very sweet, the first time I heard about a 31 year old virgin in the Philippines I laughed because I thought that wasn’t possible but now I know that’s very common in the Philippines for woman to remain virgins until marriage, my wife is a Filipino and she has a good friend who was a virgin until she got married at 45, I know to Americans that sounds crazy but these are traditional Christian women and it’s not uncommon there.
That would be great ! That would be good trial of being honest to each other
Amazing couple! Lucky man, this pinay is genuine, God fearing and they will have a good future for sure.. God is the center of their relationship…. The guy also is very kind and decent!
You've got a winner very impressive lady Well she's a very classy lady she's Not a supermodel but she's got character and ethics which are much more valuable
Bring them back for another interview 1 yr later😅
😂😂😂
Great interview and great couple. Best wishes to them!
Blessed this couple 🙏.
My fiancé and I were both working . Which better we have financial freedom to share to our family .We didn't fight it's a waste of time , have conversation to settle issues instead.
She's stunning
I'm a Filipina. I've met white men and they don't believe that I'm still a virgin at my age😅. I told them in the first place that I'm not into premarital sex and I notice that they don't agree with what I want so I let them go🤷.
Not until marriage... I can respect that. Just make sure she's willing to sign the prenup.