Nice guys DO NOT finish last with girls in the Philippines... learn from this!
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Chad you should be commended for laying back and letting this extraordinary man stream his thoughts. You raised the bar with this interview.
Thank you I appreciate that glad you enjoyed 🙏
I agree. Good job. So many people interrupt after asking questions.
"If I was wealthy, I wouldn't be here". Amen brother
I can relate with this guy. Very observant and straight. Honest and that's what true filipina looking for. Hope he finds a good woman because he deserves it.
This interview was great. Not only this man speeks English with more depth and expressiveness than average Canadian (esp. Ontarians) but he gives voice to things that are more substantial. I hope Canadian women in that woke, progressive, girl-power heart of theirs will listen to what he is saying about Phillipino women, and the meaning of values, and kindnesss.
“I’m a musician. I’m an artist. If I can’t do that, I kill myself”…..I’m glad you stayed a musician. The world needs more men like you.
Simps stick together
@@krakerjak3 I love you too
An extra-ordinary man found his home in a country where extra-ordinary men and women are ordinary.This was your best interview.
One of the most authentic conversations that I've ever heard. Thank you! What he said resonated some much with me. The world would be a better place with more individuals like him. Great job!
That's fantastic I am glad you enjoyed and that you could relate, I agree with you with what you're saying... Too many people are worried about their image and putting on a front and not being true to who they are.
“Nice guys finish last” Yes true, most girls I have known, thought it was nice if I finished last.
Hilarious ! Stealing that👍
He is definitely the opposite of what the modern western 304 wants. Good for him. He deserves better.
A very honest man. His words are frank and simple. As a Canadian and an expat, I know him and I love him❤
The best interview yet... Yes some things in life are "Priceless". It takes some people a long time to learn that lesson.
Thanks 🙏 yes I agree
@@MelPatton-yi8se I don't he was talking about putting women on a pedestal, but just being appreciative of all the things they do and put up with, and showing proper gratitude and respect.
Thank you so very much for this moving interview. While I hated that it made me face my own wells of sorrow, I’m grateful to know there is a chance to fill them with happiness. All the best!
Scott, not sure how I ran up on your channel but I started from the last video you posted and this was the fourth one I've watched in a row. Wow! This was the video that compelled me to buy you some cups of coffee! Not to mention, the interviewee was dropping F-bombs left and right, and so I know it's possible this one will get the monetized 🤣 I was worried at first when the guy started talking about 'identifying as a man', but the way he explained why he was saying that and when he was talking about made the hesitancy go away. This is a great video man! I was raised by a single mother who was a concert pianist. I so resonated with this guy on so many different levels, especially his love of the arts and music. I will be reaching out to you for a consultation because I'm convinced that the Philippines is the first place I need to put boots on the ground (it was this video that was truly and sincerely, the nail in that coffin) leaving the states for good, sooner than later! The way he broke down the value that a Filipina can bring to the table.....dude....this was a 'next level's video! Wow!
"Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple." - Regina Brett
If you were as poor as your average Philippines man, you might find yourself "friend zoned" just as you were in the West.
Valid point.
Unless you're tall and good looking you can get away with it
I think that is true...I knew a Filipino call center guy in Angeles City who was bright, articulate, and of decent looks and he was still looking for his kindred spirit in middle age.
I hope you'll find that great catch Filipina you are looking for. There are many of them looking for a loyal, sensitive and smart guy. You being an artist is an advantage as we value creativity here in PH.
I didn't occur to me until just now. There may still be French speaking ladies in Viet Nam.
I lived in St Paul in the 80s. There were all of these French Bakeries, so I took my brother out one Saturday. We walk in and the place was filled with cigarette smoke - all these old Vietnamese were hanging out drinking coffee and smoking, at least two dozen of them. I shouldn't have been shocked. I loved it!
This is courage on display.
And beta energy on display also
@@krakerjak3you’re a jackass
As we say in Canada: definitely one of the best 1 on 1 interviews I have ever seen on You Tube, or anywhere else for that matter... The Priceless thing that Philippines brings to the table that surpasses anything I have witnessed anywhere else I have been, is both their Core Values and True Passion for what is right, but to be honest, what was for me even more impressive is their solid Family Values which seems to be the basis for their undeniable resilience in the face of adversity... Un gros Merci to Stephane for sharing his very seasoned, well travelled and mature point of view on subjects that far to often are swept under the rug as taboo. Hats off to both of you for a great interview and a big thanks to Chad for sharing this special moment for all to learn from. Amping po
Thank you I'm glad you enjoyed that, I am definitely grateful that Stephane was willing to share some of his life story for everyone he's a passionate and genuine guy with lots of experience to share, and he's not afraid to be vulnerable and open up about things
I can't get enough of Stephan. He is so refreshing and real, I appreciate his perspective and humor.
Chad...You did a masterful job interviewing this gentleman. You set a subtle tone and direction and then allowed your guest to express himself honestly and completely. Often the best interviews unfold in that way. This was an excellent video...Thank you!
Great that he mentioned Metallica. I wonder if he knows that Kirk Hammett, a lead guitarist of the band, is actually Filipino American?
Whoa I just learned this
No I didn't. But I hated having to play Metallica in clubs as an 18yo into jazz
This guy has good self awareness and good observational skills.
Such interesting interviews. He has the wisdom to know what is important in life. Reflective and honest.
With women, anywhere in the world, you say it with flowers but you do it with bananas. You have to be able to make the move.
Fantastic interview Sir, what a unique personality!
This guy is awesome!!! Thank you for having him on your channel! I can relate to this guy in a lot of ways.
And there’s so many more guys like that. I’m sure many guys out there recognize how they don’t feel compatible with the average guy from the west and what people expect from typical guys from the west.
And yes, those guys often get just friend zoned. Never stay where you are not appreciated and go where you are wanted 💪🏼👍🏼
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I'm more of a typical guy who's into sports, but I do have an alter ego name Maurice, who is a brooding, complicated, misunderstood, French existentialist. And Maurice gets more ass than a toilet seat.
😂
Your best video yet!
Your guest was great.
Insightful and intense.
Great interview! I like his personality and honesty.
Hi Chad, I love this guy and his insights! A true Canadian. IMO, here’s a real person who has had lots of time to contemplate and think about life. Surely he has had great periods of solitude in his life. Something we all can benefit from. He’s had more than his share of hard times and this has allowed much time for personal growth. He says it like it is which is wonderfully freeing (something I struggle to get my students in Japan to do). I want to meet real people like him in the Philippines.
Yeah I love meeting people like this you can just see right away how he has gone through many ups and downs... I love when people get to a point where they stop caring what people think and they can just be themselves
@@ChadFosterExplores Yes Chad, so true. Too many people often put on an act since they want to be perceived a certain way - whether cool, hip, smart, clever, etc., etc. Far better to simply be yourself and not be afraid of what others will think. David in Japan.
Excellent interview…it’s rare to hear insights from a man like this and I found his commentary regarding Filipina women to be beyond fascinating. I would love to hear his insights about Vietnamese women and a compare & contrast between the two cultures (insofar as women are concerned …their perspectives, their desires, etc)…I am considering both countries for retirement and relationship and would really appreciate that type of insight (Vietnamese vs. Filipina). Thx Chad…really great interview here.
Thanks 🙏 ...This topic is high on my list to do so stay tuned.
Good honest review really enjoyed it.
1000% relatable, unfiltered, and honest/biased!
Great interview. Great interviewee. Keep up the good work.
Wow. Great interview. Great subject.
Best interview yet. New subscriber.
I can relate to this interview.
Glad to hear that, I figured there were others that could relate
Thank you so much. I relate to him.
The best, most honest interview that I’ve heard absolutely ANYWHERE !
He’s a person who won’t try to fool you or himself.
To the gentleman you have just interviewed Chad, I personally do believe that there's someone for every one. Maybe that someone has not crossed his path yet because he is not yet ready, because pure relationship should be coming from inside (heart ). Maybe it would be advisable for him to pray to God (if he is a believer), and for the meantime, he just enjoy life, doing what he is passionate doing. He needs to have a woman who , more or less, has the same passion, characteristics (traits) as him, to complement himself. I think you need a relationship that is based on love, not on attraction. Good luck Sir, LOVE should not hurried.
Great interview
Their music can be crazy especially when on road trips with the fam. Easy to get sick on the bouncy roads.
His insight is precisely true, to its truest meaning.
You are a great observant.
Filipinos love life, simply because we know who holds our future, and our Creator. 💓🙏🇵🇭
As a Canadian living in the Philippines, I enjoyed this interview very much. I have some experience with French people in Canada and I have found them to be very emotional and with short fuses. One moment they will be angry as hell and 5 minutes later laughing their heads off. l agree with him when he says if you are wealthy, do not come to the Philippines. With enough money you can bring your Filipina to Canada and if she leaves you just bring another one who might be better.
Amazing interview.
Hello! New follower here. As a french 🇨🇦 canadian, i'm looking forward to come in the Philippines. Visited once for a month in 2019. From now i will check your channel for news & advices. Thx for sharing
Great interview. Very wise individual.
This guy is Spot On!
Thank you..much appreciated
As we foreigners search the Philippines for the perfect Filipina CZcamsrs search for the perfect guest, congrats you found him Chad
Excellent interview from a man with a different heart, different eyes who remains humble.
Merci beaucoup!
Thank you and merci 😊
WOW!!! An excellent interview with a lot of good nuggets of information. Thank you for a great video.
You are very welcome and thank you 🙏
good info good video
Great interview. For a romantic he has grit and honesty too. Masculine qualities both men and women respect. The French poetic accent is movie star level - he would be in demand for voiceovers for that alone; aside from producing music and art. Could make bank on Fiverr in that category.🤔😄. He underestimates himself. We hope the best for him. Thanks Chad!
Well said and I agree! 🙏
He is a very humble, sensitive, kind guy. I’d consider you a great catch for a good Filipina.
Good man, I think a mature filipina would suit him, they like to take care of things and he could focus on his art and music passions. Also he needs a caring person that won't abuse his sensitive nature. Some of us are not into the manly or controlling thing, just want to enjoy what we like and live in peace.
Great interview.
Thanks 🙏
A great one.
GREAT INTERVIEW,
Best one you've done. He was very genuine.
Thank you 🙏 yes extremely genuine guy
@@ChadFosterExplores Most of us western men have gone through too much of this. It's refreshing to hear it spoken. He's a real man more than most.
Nice to be reminded about the many traits of the Filipino culture. Good interview and wish your interviewee good travels. Thanks for the video, Chad...Jim
You're welcome Jim and thanks 🙏
He's from a city 50 miles from Maine, and he sounds European. Lol.
This interview is one of the most authentic I’ve seen.
I love Jazz too! Watching from Toronto..
There's an Afghan Canuck who has a great travel CZcams channel, currently in the Philippines. I knew he was Canadian as soon as he said, "I am from Torano." Only Canadians say that.
delightful guy, great interview!
Best caption ever Canada US wherever it may be as long as you ended up in the Philippines - April 19th homeward bound - thanks for taking us on a ride I checked a lot of dots watching your content . I’m a six-year Expat from the US living in Brazil in Columbia both beautiful countries. I love them. I learned Spanish I saw what I wanted to see. I know how to live the nomadic lifestyle and I run my business remotely 42 years old audios amigos you can catch me in the Philippines cheers mate
Perfect ❤
Chad,
I enjoy your videos when you travel but the interview in this video is some of your best work. My family are mostly Quebecois so I completely understood the perspective.
Great interview and hopefully I run into you in Cebu when I’m there in August.
Cheers
Thank you I appreciate that, yeah I'm grateful that he was willing to talk about some of his life experiences to share for everyone, he's a genuine guy
Great interview! Great guy! Great Canadian! ;)
feel for him and can relate
Great, honest interview...can relate in some ways. 🤣
"My Father was a priest you know, and I am not a beast you know." (Peter Sarstedt and the song 'Take Off Your Clothes'...
intersting interview chad. Ive read some of the comments and i couldnt care less if he is homosexual or not. I enjoyed listening to him. I am interested to know if you have found many filipinas aged 35 or so that are still in shape and attractive. I was married to a filipina for 20 years in the US. I still like her a lot and have a lot of respect for her. The relationship faltered but it was never hateful. However, neither her of her friends ever stayed in shape. Terrible diet and no desire to exercise. I would love to meet another filipina when i move to the PI next year. But, one that exercises and eats better. What has been your experience around this topic?
It's an interesting point you make, just my own observations I would say it seems like the majority of Filipinas I see as they get into their later 20s and beyond do carry a fair amount of extra weight and I do see that the diet here for the majority is not healthy at all and there is an overall lack of focus on exercise or desire for exercise.
Couldn't beta bucks in Canada but can easily beta in PI. Keep it up my dude.
Chad your videos just keep getting better and better. Really enjoying your content. If I come to the Philippines I would really like to meet you. Thanks for work you do.
Thank you I really appreciate that 🙏 I'm heading back to Canada but I'll be back again in a few months stay in touch
Interesting man
Hands-down, the best video I have ever seen about living in the Philippines. Both encourages me and gives me pause. I truly appreciate the honesty. I also truly appreciate that this guy is an artist the way I am. And a nice guy the way I am. We are the oddballs. Perhaps sigma males, definitely not alpha males. And often women do not appreciate that. They appreciate the noisiest monkey in the bunch.
Seems like a nice guy. If i get friend zoned, i say bye and block their number and on social media. Im fine with friend zone but i won't be sticking around. I have women friends but we aren't dating. I was in the Phils last January, February.
"What a filipina can bring to the table has so much value that his money is nothing", it's priceless.
AND the wrong Filipina will suck your soul and wallet dry.
The worst thing you can be to a woman is safe/nice. All they want is drama and what’s bad for them when life is too easy.
Anyone and everyone over 50 should go to the Philippines. It's like the CFL was for the NFL, love it (no shade on the CFL, of course). If you are a young man, stay in the North America or Europe. This is the way it is, and if you don't think so, do some research.
Philippines turning into the dumping ground of aging guys who are financially challenged 😂
@@jacked6 Can live a good life in the Philippines...
@johnnypastrana6727 No disrespect to the women in the Philippines, Thailand and Vietnam, but surely , is it difficult for you men in the US and European countries to find a good woman in your respective country ?
I'm a young guy and I plan to go to the Philippines. Why would I stay somewhere I'm not valued in my prime?
@@CQchaos7474 why aren't you valued though? Not everyone is equal. Anywhere you're a minority you will stand out. Guys under 50 who are tall, good looking, have a level head, intelligent can find partners anywhere.
This guy should go to Thailand for better EVERYTHING
Interesting perspectives from this guy. Not afraid to tell it like it is and is very honest about his rocky path through life. However, at one point he said, “if I had more money I wouldn’t be here”. Comments? Interesting guy for sure. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
To make things a bit more clear here :
I WAS broke back in my younger days so struggling with women ( that i would have really want) as a consequence was one thing. I'm not a wealthy westerner (ex 1 mil assets + in the west which isn't that much...kust need to own a block) but I'm OK / good with $ NOW and it puts me in the top 10% if not up in Asia / in the Philipines. Back home, i can't afford life as good as in the philipines / Asia
People confuse my past with my present in here when it comes to $ as well as girls. It should have been explained maybe but whatever...
As a music producer for independent artists in Quebec, even if this is not that lucrative, it has status and, i csn make a full time living of thst remotely traveling Asia or anywhere i can afford. So i can still attract much younger in the west TODAY, but those rareties are audacious/curious girls m or with daddy issues HAHAHA
ALOSI, There is a gap in the story here: 15 years ago, at 40, i was sugning autographs to 18 20 girls ...my band was making the cover of magazines back home. Like ...huuuuuuge succes !
But im still this sensitive, good chubby guy. Here in Asia and in the philipines especialy, is another level when it comes to the dating pool available to ANYONE !! My God !!!! I heard it saw it on CZcams during covid but it is insane here !
And women that really appreciate guys that don't fit the conventional 'how should be a man in the west', which I dint give a fuck to identify with, these women are legions in the phils. And as mentioned, the wage gap is a huge thing yes, but the 115 millions population of tis country gives us more options .
Hope this clears out the gaps in my story here for those trying to figure out.
And hell no, I'm not gay Jesus 🙄 ! Those gays man ... If I'm not identifying with what should be a 'real man' in someways back home, that doesn't me or those alike me, gays. What a dumb deduction. I would have figured that out at 55 ... I mean 🙄.
The whole purpose of this video is the emphasis on the fact that sensitive chubby older dudes can have acces to an incredible pool of women . Much younger being one of the thing but that's not the focus.
I'm currently dating a wonderful filipina buy the way 😊
Ok... I'm the dude interviewed here.
I like to read the comments...it's very interesting...flatering and selfgroweing to some interesting comments. I like to interact as well, so I'm writing this to cover some gaps in the story here, hoping to clarify and help some for a better understanding of my thing.
And if you're full of shit, you're kindly invited to get a life 😊
To make things a bit more clear here :
I WAS broke back in my younger days, so struggling with women that i would have really wanted a consequence was one thing. I'm not a wealthy Westerner (ex 1 mil assets + in the west, which isn't that much... someine just need to own a block for that). So... even if im not weakthy intuevwesy, I'm OK / good with $ NOW, and it puts me in the top 10% if not up in Asia / in the Philipines. Back home, i can't afford life as good as in the philipines / Asia
People confuse my past with my present in here when it comes to $ as well as girls. It should have been explained maybe, but whatever...
As a music producer for independent artists in Quebec, even if this is not that lucrative, i can make a decent living of that and remotely while travelling Asia (or anywhere i can afford)
ALOS, There is a gap in the story here: 15 years ago, at 40, i was signing autographs to 18 20 girls ...my band was making the cover of magazines back then. Like ...huuuuuuge succes !
But im still this sensitive, good chubby guy. Here in Asia and in the Philipines especialy, is another level when it comes to the dating pool available to ANYONE !! My God !!!! I heard it saw it on CZcams during covid, but it is insane here ! For REAL!
And women that really appreciate guys that don't fit the conventional 'how should be a man in the west', which I never gave a fuck to identify as... these women are legions here. As mentioned, the wage gap is a huge thing, yes, but the 115 million population of tis country too. Factually, it gives us so many options !
Hope this clears out the gaps in my story here for those trying to figure out.
And hell no, I'm not gay Jesus 🙄 ! If I'm not identifying with what should be a 'real man' in someways back home, that doesn't make me, or those like me, gays. What a dumb deduction 🙄 out of touch with the purpose of this video.
The whole purpose of this video is the emphasis on the fact that sensitive chubby older dudes can have access to an incredible pool of women. Much younger being one of the thing but that's not the focus. The phililines are an amazing place to meet wonderful women no matter if you're unsuccessful for whatever reason in the west. period.
I'm currently dating a wonderful filipina buy the way 😊
Thanks for your videos it's very helpful to watch and learn I was in the Philippines over a week ago for 3 weeks and I will tell you if it wasn't for videos like yours and others that you know of that I watch I probably would have been lost cause I traveled there alone for the first time that far in my life I'm 47 and will be going thru a divorce soon, and I'm fine with that but thanks for you taking time to make videos
Hey thank you so much for that donation I really appreciate it and thank you for the kind words, I am glad that my channel has been able to help you with your journey out here for three weeks I hope it went very well. Going through a divorce can be tough but there are brighter days ahead!
@ChadFosterExplores thank you again keep up the good work
Fusion jazz is badass
I would love to hear his thoughts on the Philippines versus Vietnam. If you ever interview him again because he said he also was in Vietnam.
While I have never been to the Philippines, I have been to Vietnam and I love it there that is where my GF is.
I’d be interested in hearing some of his views on the differences in both the culture as well as the women
Yeah definitely going to be diving into this topic soon and I'll see if I can do a follow up with him...
Awesome that would be great. Thank you.
One of the best interviews of an expat that I've ever seen.
Vraiment sympathique ce gars, je me reconnais dans la façon qu'il voit les choses!
This guy should start a youtube channel.
Philippines IS A GREAT PLACE IF YOUR READY FOR PEACE OF MIND IN YOUR LIFE.
I don't know if I missed the answer somewhere in the video, but if you were "Western wealthy", where would you live?
In a 300KUS$ Villa + 1M front beach piece of land with private pool + gym in Bali no neighbors (no roosters) for a recording studio. Or in Italy same kind of setup... but hey !!! I love the people here and so much things surpassing what annoys me in the west that i may end up having a nice home near the sea here and an other in vietnam ... who knows ? Im still on a young journey with this new life. I give myself time ...
Oh... and time to figure out if I'm gay !!!!! 😂
Hawaii definitely
I'm from Quebec also and he's rigth on every level about girl here in Quebec. 👍I was also a musician when I was young and did jam nigth's in bars.... "provocante..😂" pu capable d'entre ça 😂
You’re still young, 50 y/0. You can still make 3 rounds lol😂
It's so bad here in Canada, having a decent girlfriend in Canada without having a lot of money, a house etc. i live close to Vancouver, so it's insane, the top 10 guys have their choices. I'm really not going to end up taking what's left. So I'll probably move to the Philippines
oh this guy is not flaming he is ON FIRE 🎉🎶👏🎼👀🥰😵💫☠️
I look for priceless things. Acts of kindness and care are indicative of these things. I may come to the Philippines to seek a relationship. I've traveled for love but found it a trap. Honeytrap. I won't want to own or be owned except by love itself as Jesus displayed it. I'm a clairvoyant. It's not about money but warnings of danger when it's near. It's a kind of a God protection I don't control. It has saved many lives so far. They didn't know about each other.
Haha, I’m 3 minutes in and I totally identify with this guy…let’s see how long that lasts.😂
I let. Maide. Go. And. Went. To. Cebu. And. Got. A. Good. Gf. And. A. Cat name. Seven eleven
Finally a honest man view point, if you have money there are many better places to live. He just missed the fact the food is very average I'm a foodie and Thailand, Vietnam are the places to go. Would love to meet a Filipina however hope she ok to move I can't live in a 3rd world country.
Ok solve this in Phils by living in the city and eating at ethnic restaurants. It works fine.
@@simonsykes4688 Or go to Thailand and eat some of the greatest food in the world same with Vietnam
i see you rekived many comments are yiu the new Mark Thornton
I would not live their ether if i was wealthy or a Filipina wife