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  • čas přidán 16. 08. 2024
  • In this video, will we talk about how my life is transformed after healing the fearful avoidant attachment style. On this channel we talk a lot about healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, and one of the most powerful ways of healing, is knowing what it looks like once you have healed.
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    00:00 Intro
    00:54 Not feeling powerless
    03:40 Not seeing the world as a dangerous place
    04:45 Not being scared of people
    05:52 Being consistent
    06:45 Having close relationships
    08:15 Safety and stability
    10.25 Outro
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    ✅ About Paulien Timmer - Healing the fearful-avoidant.
    The way you feel right now is not the way you are. If you want more freedom, calm, love, and peace in your head, body, and life, it is possible. You are not too broken.
    ‌After spending 14 years healing the fearful avoidant attachment style, I am beyond passionate and dedicated to getting you to where I am now: living a life true to myself, waking up feeling rested and peaceful. Deeply in love with my husband and looking forward to the future. This is what life is supposed to be like, and it is my honor to help you get there.

    In the past 7 years, I have guided over 2000 people through my Dutch programs (I am from the Netherlands), to a secure attachment and happy relationship. Over the past year and a half, another 150 beautiful people have been through the English program Healed&Happy. I love seeing how lives can change within three months, and how NORMAL it can feel to have a secure attachment. I wish you so much joy, pleasure, and love.
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Komentáře • 22

  • @Vanillaiced
    @Vanillaiced Před 2 měsíci +2

    I never knew there were others out there who felt the same as me, this content has really given me hope that I can heal.

  • @seth_piano
    @seth_piano Před 3 měsíci +3

    I really appreciate the reframe that she gives in the beginning. I was ready to push back against what she was saying: that other people's anger, expectations, etc. aren't real. But she WASN'T saying that they aren't real. She was saying that anger, expectations, etc. are theirs. They aren't mine.
    I think a huge part of my avoidant behavior patterns comes from trying to shoulder everybody else's crap that never should have been mine to begin with - and failing at this impossible task enough to stop trying at all. I wish I understood better how to put 100% of myself into life without also feeling like I'm responsible for everybody else too.

  • @lilredheaded1
    @lilredheaded1 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing.

  • @Sweetroses369
    @Sweetroses369 Před měsícem

    Omg this sounds identical to my old behavior. I’m overcoming being avoidant and my life is so much better and so different.

  • @joshliam1967
    @joshliam1967 Před 3 měsíci +2

    So happy to hear that your life is going well, thank you so much for sharing your journey with us.

  • @azuresea8086
    @azuresea8086 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Paulien - thank you for your transparency - the light is shining through you !

  • @jasperjohns5956
    @jasperjohns5956 Před 3 měsíci

    Thankyou so much for this video Paulien. Your genuine honesty is as always wonderful, compelling, and inspiring; I particularly can relate to your description of not being able to 'follow through' on relationships out of a fear of rejection or some innate sense of inadequacy; your description of overcoming these limitations is immensely helpful, insightful and instructive. And you are always so modest about it, which makes me inherently trust you. Thankyou so much again.

  • @hannahgorman12345678
    @hannahgorman12345678 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much Pauline. Your wisdom, experience, and courage have helped me in some serious times of need. I was ready to blow up my relationship and my life many times. Now 2.5 years into my relationship I gradually experience longer periods of peace and ease and I am starting to see the benefits that safety and stability have to offer.
    I am so glad you touch on other topics like friendships and career because I know for a fact this fear and trauma extends beyond the romantic relationship.
    So thank you for all the time and thought you put in. It is a gift.

  • @Muse720
    @Muse720 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you Paulien for sharing your story & being vulnerable with us. You are healing the world everyday 🫶
    And now I have lots of good ideas for my vision board & more tapping sessions for who I want to shift into. ❤

  • @emmabrannen5417
    @emmabrannen5417 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Hi Pauline! Do you think you could make a video soon about how it felt when you were triggered by how good your relationship was vs how it felt when you were triggered by your man doing something that genuinely upset you? For me it feels the same for both and it's so stressful and confusing.

    • @seth_piano
      @seth_piano Před 3 měsíci

      I'd like to echo this ask :)

    • @steffiyoung1
      @steffiyoung1 Před 3 měsíci

      Seconding this request too!❤

  • @petermilne1203
    @petermilne1203 Před 3 měsíci

    Bravo Paulien!! You are our guiding light!! 🤗🤗 It’s also such a good thing to step back and look at how much you/me have healing. Because you can take it for granted and almost forget how dark life used to be.

  • @dylannmarie
    @dylannmarie Před 3 měsíci

    I relate so heavy to the things you struggled with in the past.

  • @nature-nomads
    @nature-nomads Před 3 měsíci

    🙏

  • @aciddiver1978
    @aciddiver1978 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I feel like im the only one that cant atleast get better from cptsd.

    • @don-eb3fj
      @don-eb3fj Před 3 měsíci

      Nope, you're not. I know it doesn't really change anything to know that, but at least you know that there's at least one other (and I suspect a LOT more) who experiences it the same way, and that you aren't uniquely f'ed up. Hope it helps.

  • @rwaart89
    @rwaart89 Před 3 měsíci +1

  • @koala01111986
    @koala01111986 Před 3 měsíci

    Really love your channel!❤ so much help and compassion

  • @breemarie9393
    @breemarie9393 Před měsícem

    How many years or relapses until this finally took place?

  • @DeadMysticx
    @DeadMysticx Před 3 měsíci

    Is it common that a FA dumper becomes angry after a breakup if you dont chase him? My FA ex dumped me, almost 2 years ago because of the typical avoidant reasons. We hadnt have contact for 1,5 years. I bumped into him on the street and he was really (passive) angry, cold, defensive towards me. Says he never wants to have contact again (although during and after the breakup didnt want to loose the connection). Did I trigger is fear of rejection/abandonement? I dont understand his behaviour.

  • @evadebruijn
    @evadebruijn Před 3 měsíci

    ✌️