How to Know if Your Partner REALLY Loves You | HealingFa.com

[@jameswojno1216]

I really appreciate how much these examples speak to personal insecurity and the *wanting* of immediacy, which isn't actually a need. It can be so hard to understand what is a "want" and what is a "need," and the idea that most of what I need is already inside of myself has been such a radical idea to try to digest!
I look forward to your weekly reminders that security comes from within SO much!

[@jellyrcw12]

Your channel has been so helpful to me on my healing journey. Thank you for sharing❤

[@Calbizzle]

Thank you. Between your work (mainly your course) and the Gottman’s work I finally feel secure in a relationship in a way that I’ve never experienced before. Thank you for facilitating this peace Paulien ❤

[@heatherariza8463]

I am anxious preoccupied and this describes me to a t

[@tom33067]

Excellent! You do great work. It is so helpful to hear it from someone who has been there.

[@nardo218]

wait are you saying that bed death is caused by over-enmeshment or deep co-dependance? That's a bold statement. More, please?

[@reneedavis7248]

I’m glad I watched this and good job to you

[@marguskiis7711]

True!

[@aciddiver1978]

I dont have one.

[@bradorme9104]

I need some advice peeps?
My girlfriend has split up with me she's a fearful avoident and I normally end up reaching out and we continue but is it best to not do this so she knows that they are consequences and that I'm not guaranteed to be there no matter how she acts?

[@elizabethmarrerocreates]

Just be authentic, completely honest and transparent, not manipulative

[@Kingelias95]

How long did it take to heal your Attachment style?

[@wardahasin3417]

She said in another video it took her 12 years

[@paulientimmer]

It's true it took around 12 years from the worst time (crash state) until I was healed, but that's because I had NO idea what was 'wrong' and what I could do about it! It was soo much trial and error. Healing definitely does not have to take 12 years. The ones that go through my program and really do the work can feel like they've healed in about 3 to 6 months. It's all about knowing WHAT to heal exactly! Ofcourse it varies per person, no guarantees. But it really does not have to take 12 years

[@javiercruz9745]

I need your help
My FA ex and I were doing just fine. She was caring and loving. I was the same. So one day I have her a flower and suddenly later that day she blocked me on everything. About 2 weeks later after no contact she unblocked me so I said I hope she is doing good. And so then she blocked me again. It's been about 2 weeks again and I'm still blocked. I am heartbroken and confused. Any ideas that maybe helpful to me at this point?