What To Do On A Date
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I'm gonna let you in on a little secret: dates don't have to be all fancy shmancy for the girl to like you. All you really have to do is show her a great time. And today I'm gonna let you in on some specific ideas to lead to a successful date.
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Step 1: Wear a Mandalorian outfit
This is the way
He has spoken
This is the Way
This is the way.
this is the way
Do you actually laugh at memes? I just kinda exhale out of my nose at best
Just exhaled out of my nose at that one buddy
Depends on quality of memes.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Depends on how spicy the memes are.
For some reason, earrape memes always get me laughing.
Or dark humor in general really. I've always laughed the loudest to dark humor like racist memes, and for most men I know it's the same.
Women however, usually find dark humor distasteful. Talking from personal experience here.
If you're going to touch your date while making a joke, make sure you're confident. If you're not confident while doing it, it will be awkward.
PSYCHO RAGED
This.
And don’t look at where you touch, look at her eyes or face while laughing.
Makes it appear way more natural and subconscious than preplaned.
If you tryna make sure of something you forcing confidence. Just relax
Guillaume R same thing with forcing natural contact
Yes
Ya just slap her in the face while being confident she will love it shows your manly 🌚
My social anxiety is going crazy
FirstComment x2
*ABANDON SHIP*
*THIS IS NOT A DRILL*
Just by watching? Because I feel the same
Trough the roof!!
I'm sweating, my heart beat racing thinking about it.
Bruh this dude is like the English teacher of being a gentleman
No comments
I swear to if i heard someone say the word gentlemen one more tim-
@@nomejest5919 what's wrong with it? never heard something like that before
i mean someone complaining about it
First date tomorrow with my crush and I swear I'm panicking already.
No clue what to do.
Edit : It went perfectly, she's my girlfriend now.
Be urself
Yeah man, be yourself 😎
Noice
Nationalism hellllll yea
Do people always become boyfriend and girlfriend after one successful date where you are from?
I see, always watch memes before going on a date. Got it.
Man I am preparing for a date every minute of my life.
not just before a date though
@@daanbergmans4689 even during the date
Yeah
Need those classic haha memes
@@samuelpetrowitsch5437 lol
As a girl i 100% approve. I hate when guys ask me “so whatcha wanna do”
And then at some point you say, we dont ever do the things i want to do...
Suzan Amato So uhh whatchu tryna do? 😎
Same
In my point of view, I just dont wanna be an asshole and do things you dont wanna do, but watcha said is good to know
so..... what you wanna do
My first boyfriend invited me over for an anime binge watch session. I came over and we started off by eating snacks and getting to know each other. We drew some characters we like and exchanged social media info. We went to the couch and watched a series on Netflix and eventually fell asleep in each other’s arms. When he was getting up to get a drink of water he casually kissed my cheek and called me cute. I was caught off guard because we were talking about the show. It made me feel comfortable and I blushed a bit. He came back and we cuddle some more and then I fell asleep. It was nice to let my guard down around him because I felt safe. After the show was over, we kissed a bit and had dinner and he got an Uber for me to leave. It was my first date ever so I liked being able to stay in one spot and do multiple things. We got to know each other and now we’re planning our wedding.
wow
Aweseommeee
I'm kinda late, but I still wish both of you the best of luck!
This gives me hope, God bless!
Did you smash on the first date
Why in the hell this appears right after i failed my first date with my crush!?
Because they watch you, listen to you..
Be thankful you experienced dating your crush. Not everyone has the privilege to have that.
@@pradeljames3260 ikr
I would like to hear the story of how you failed :D
Because the algorithm is fucking bonkers. Plus you're phone is constantly listening to you. It's not conspiracy, its fact.
1) Get into a fun and playful mood before the date
2) Lead by having the logistics planned out
3) Vibe with her
4) Casually use touch
5) Go for it
Hmm. Appreciate the summary.
Thx
Point 2 is a problem, i dont even know what i want to do with a girl expept for having her around in the evening or sometimes to maybe do somethign on weekends. Why do they never have any ideas ;D.
@@phoenixsui fuck their ideas, go for a walk, coffee, hiking, skating, whatever just keep it low budget
Also when sitting in a bar or something SIT FUCKING NEXT TO HER NOT ACROSS
Good luck ;)
@@phoenixsui they do, but it usually involves a considerable amount of money lol
When girls are all like: OMG I had to put in so much effort to make myself look good for this date, guys just show up!
Guys:
Das fax
It depends on what we're doing for all you know we're wearing are good casual clothing
Fax
@@nomejest5919 no thx
@@nomejest5919 that's why splitting the bill on the first date is a good way to test the partner
Go on a date
Be yourself
Learn from the experience
What if you dont know what you did wrong
@@KyngD469 if she calls the police...you definitely said something wrong
The experience part is yet to be learned.
Instructions unclear, stuck at first step. I probably haven't watched enough memes, huh...
@@KyngD469 that’s why you need to have friends that you can trust to help you out
Worst advice: Be yourself.
Me: That´s the reason why am I single.
Exactly😹😹😹lmao
It's worth being yourself in the end though, because its a date you should show genuine fun and interest. If you aren't yourself from the beginning you'll be playing a character which can be exhausting in the long run, plus you want her to be attracted to the real you otherwise if she doesn't accept you as yourself it's not worth spending time with them.
lol 😂
Be yourself no matter what. If yourself doesn’t get dates and you want dates, then better yourself for that goal. Nobody likes a disingenuous person
@@michaelaguilar4913 on point !
"It's as important to be INTERESTED than interesting.." Omg this right here. I sat through a 2 hour date with the guy who basically gave me his creme de le creme resume but did not ask a single question about me.
I bet it was helluva good creme de la creme 😋
Also, of course it is important to be interested but yet, it still led me to a friendzone everytime.
Honestly if you're not interested and instead try to be interesting first you kinda come off as obnoxious, that and you probably don't even like her if you aren't invested in who she really is
It can be hard to find balance. Because some girls just won't tell you much on your questions, so you have to say something.
she asked me out and i went to the wrong place🤦♂️
where was it?
I'm so sorry
NAH LMFAOOOO NO WAYYYY
F
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Idk about choosing her food that seems kinda rude
It won't be rude if you hype it up to her prior to the restaurant to get her excited..something like: "Hey you gotta try their chicken sandwiches, its their most popular item and what they're famous for! "
@@thegentlemensgame whoah as dumb as it sounds i wouldve never thought of that thanks a bunch that actually seems very smooth
@@marcoflamenco3407 that's hella backhanded haa. Have you never seen a movie where the man orders for the woman during a date? Obviously it's a only movie but you'd have to wonder why the guy would do that.
yeah i would hate if a guy did that to me, but i would agree just to be polite
Well here’s an idea, instead of YOU choosing the food, you could let her choose the food instead and say that you’ll just get the same thing as her. Or you could both scour the menu in search of something that maybe the both of you would like.
Physical touch is definitely one of the most powerful things.
I know I felt it when she punched me in the face
Just for the joke, it didn't really happen ;-)
I'm a girl but I'm still watching this for tips lmao.
same
Mood
Why are you gay
now date me 😅😅
Gaining the enemy's information, smart.
Protip for my fellow introverted/logical brothers and sisters: Make your number one priority that you are enjoying yourself on the date, because it will make you more relaxed and will most likely rub off on your date, thus making also more enjoyable for him/her. This has worked wonders for me so far.
Wdym by "enjoying yourself"? Like, be in a good vibe with yourself?
I wish I learned this earlier in life. But as they say, it's never too late to improve yourself.
How old are you? Never too late my friend
@@thegentlemensgame I’m 18 :(
@@kerm1tth3fr4ud9 Bro your still young
I'm 18 myself. I'm still learning these kinds of things even tho I've been with this one girl for a year now. I'm a slow learner too, but I'm slowly getting the handle of things like taking charge and coming up with fun interesting things to do on dates, and knowing what your partner wants without them telling you, things like that.
I mean...
Kinda late if you're dead
I like doing a 3 step date. Do something active like skating, arcades ect. Then food at somewhere unique doesn't have to be pricey but it should have some character then somewhere passive like parks or museums or window shopping. Active places sets a physical and playful tone. Food...well girls loves food and it kind of advances your playfulness while learning about eachother. And the passive helps cool down and allows for more intimacy. If you are window shopping go to upscale malls it has way more stuff to look at and makes things more interesting
Great tips
Ohh.. anime romance way heh? Nice choice😆
"girls love food" well I'm pretty sure everyone loves food
That's the perfect date! ☺️
i disagree on the park one, i recently had a date, and it went amazing at the park, it could've been that we talked nonstop for hours, about life stories and such, it depends on how good you're at talking to people, if you suck and have not that many stories to tell, i agree on switching things up to spark emotion, if you can't by yourself
what if I'm vegetarian and the poor guy thinks he's going to impress me with fried chicken or burgers...that would be so awkward
I told her prior to "hey, you gotta try their chicken sandwiches they're amazing". If she was vegetarian she would have cleared it up then ; so you just have to give her a heads up honestly
@@daz1676 that's not how that works lmao
That's why you get to know the person beforehand?
just say youre vegetarian ideally he wint take it personal
You should never date someone who isn't also vegan or vegetarian.
Valentines day is coming up, and I have a girl in mind. Wish me luck, gentlemen.
How’d it go?
did it go well?
How’d it go bro?
How’d it go?
I think he got kidnapped by the lady 🤔
An easy way to get someone to keep talking without asking a thousand questions is just to say nothing and keep paying attention to them. Ask a rlly good question here and there and maybe a witty line and boom, you don't have to do a lot of the heavy lifting in a convo
That's what my therapist was trying to do with me, she was just staring at me to get me to talk. I just stared back and fired her a month after
@@ch-mn8tz lmao
It's ya boy here with the perfect advice, tell her you got a star wars lego set, guranteed those pants will hit the floor.
Who is interested in toys
@@anuragsosa men
@@anuragsosa cute girls
@@anuragsosa you'd be surprised
The perfect definition of underrated .
Straight up respect the hell out of him after hearing this story
IDK why I laughed so hard lol sorry xd
Best thing u can do is tell her, that her eyes are really pretty
Adrielle Drexler Ramos
make sure you got a condom on you
@Adrielle Drexler Ramos if she reacts in a flirty way, then continue to flirt but then ask for her number and set up a date after a month of talking
@@lolkiller111222333 that to
@@habenwoldemelak4507 Set up a date after a month of talking lol Horrible advice
@@habenwoldemelak4507 ur clearly a virgin, month of talking btw
If someone kissed me on a first date I would have a mental breakdown :D
Same maybe because I've never kissed anyone though
Just try to have it after he drops you off once the date’s over 😂
Gotta read the vibes
OMG this is PERFECT!!! Especially the leading part...asking her to follow you, ordering the food and just knowing what to do and where to go. I hate being asked where to go or what to eat...I'm so indecisive and this takes away alot of pressure.
First date today, wish me luck. I’ll update.
Update: Went on a sushi date for first date, and poke bowls/bowling for the second date, and now we’re aiming for a third date. 👌🏽
Update?
I know this isn't the most important part of the video, but I absolutely love the art style. It really made the video a lot more enjoyable (not that it wasn't enjoyable to begin with), as well as earn you a new subscriber! ^__^
ah okay gotcha i am now ready
all i need to do is actually meet someone ah shit :/
Simple points yet I have never thought about stuff like that. Good view on that.
Y is dating and love so hard and complicated. Y can’t people just be themselves and let chemistry do it’s thing
Because it’s natural selection to have sex and a relationship with someone who can bear strong and desirable children and keep them protected
The more you date, the less scary it becomes due to the experience you gain from it.
This has probably been the best video I’ve seen on what to do on a date.
You explained each thing you did and gave an example. Great!
This Channel will go Sky High in no time
Safak yeah no doubt
I really did start watching dating advice videos knowing full well that I'm not going an a date any time soon, like the absolute clown I am
damn that shit hurted
Bro tip: 1) cut or reduce Masturbation (increase desire) 2) start working out (increase confidence) 3) go to clubs or activities you like (increase chance of seeing girls) -> I will buy you a new car if you follow this and won’t have at least a date within the next few months
Same 💀💀
the thing i love the most about your channel is the self compassion in your tone, it makes it easing to listen to you while you are talking about a hard that most of us struggle with: interacting with women and getting into bed with them.
maybe you should focus on friendships with women to understand that they're more than just someone to interact and then to sleep with
Yo I found this vid at the perfect time
Me too! I’ve got a date with a girl in a few days lol
Same here
How’d it go??
How'd it go x2
You guys have dates?
Been on plenty of successful dates but always good to watch the fundamentals! Thanks man!
Subscribed. You deserve it mate.
Saved me from my own destruction 😤
I didn't know that one date could be like a math test.
POV: This video came at the right time
This just appeared in my recommended when I needed it the most. Thank you!!!
What to Do on a Date // SUMMARY
1. Fun and playful mindset
2. Leading
3. Vibing
4. Power of touch
5. GO FOR IT!
Also, try visiting 2-3 different locations to increase PERCEIVED TIME!
This is actually really good advice not what I expected from a CZcams dating video
"Be sure where you want to go, don't hesitate and be decisive"
Yea that's my main problem, I can't even start a talk
You basically just described what my perfect day would look like. Sadly I don't have the confidence to ask a girl out right now because I don't trust my social skills to handle the situation that smooth.
Hope I'll get there one day though.
You explain us in detail, and it's very clear and it's very helpful also. I really like it. Keep up the good content!
Thank you bro, for the vid. I'm your big fan in Vietnam. Keep working. This channel are fu**ing awesome
This was really helpful. I've already been on my first date and it wasn't so good but this taught me what I did wrong and what I should do next time. Thank you
As a girl, this is actually all really good advice!
this is the most logic, lighthearted, non-toxic and helpful dating guide i have ever seen
I love the fact that you put recaps at the end of your videos
I have a date tomorrow and this got recommended and I didn't even sear h anything related to this. Wait a min...
To build off that idea, my first dates always go the exact same way. Pick her up and then do one planned thing (9 times out of 10 bubble tea) and then one semi-planned thing (drive to a random park and walk around).
With both plans, you're precise in what you want to do and that shows initiative. But with the second part, it still shows initiative, but also that you're adventurous and don't exactly have to do everything planned and by the book. Every time I do the second part and say something like "I've never been to this park, but let's walk around and see if we find something interesting.", the reactions are always great.
This was legit the best video I've ever seen
Woah this is actually a pretty good guide. Thanks.
this is one of the best videos ive seen
Great. Now to rewatch this several times until I've mastered the art
This video is underrated.
So much information in one video. Love it ♥️♥️
Never thought I'd remember this. Thank you.
I have always been the one planning the date and i never had a problem with it. No problem with putting a little effort in^^
Something that always bothered me a bit on dates: when we just walk and talk (which i love) i like to walk slowly, maybe i can hook my arm in. Bit guys for whatever reason just walk so damn fast. So take my advice: if you walk with your date, adjust your speed
This is all extremely solid advice.
This video is... perfect. Perfect like the date you discribed. I knew a lot of things already because it's in other videos and e-books aswell but still.. well done sir. Three weeks ago I went on a date with a girl and did almost everything described in this video (without seeing it).. it was a smashing success.
Wow! I do a few of these things already but I picked up a couple things too! Great vid, love the animation
I was there before the million subs
Seems like the youtube algorithm understands me more than a lot of people
This video randomly popped up in my recommendations and it made me tear up! You guys had the exact same date I had back in 2018 except of the kissing part. We did not end up in a relationship but we def had the best date of our lives.
I love how this story is so similar to my date that I went to last month 🥰😅
This video was so helpful! I noted them all and it worked completely fine! I went on a date and it was amazing! Until.......
My alarm.....
You’re the best 🔥
I feel anxious just from watching this
Like im remembering every single date i ever had and realising what i did wrong
scarily perfect timing
My ideal date: going to a park and eating pints of Ben and Jerry's half baked together. Possibly an art gallery and maybe a restaurant. Idk I'll figure it out when I get one 😂
These were great tips. I have a date in a few days and I’m clueless. Was just thinking oh we’ll go to dinner. But now I’m thinking a little hike beforehand would be way better
How'd it go?
@@ConcealedWeaponry I think he died on the date
I like the simplicity, thanks Learned a lot!
I’ve never seen any of your videos but subbed after seeing this one
I just love his voice ❤️
First date: take a walk or something active instead of sitting down and eating. It's less stressful trying to build up a conversation, especially those who are more shy/introverted. Plus it builds up endorphins.
I'm going on a date this Friday and I think this is the best tips I came across. Thanks and wish me luck 🙏
Thanks man, well structured and nicely put together video. Good job brother
The question is though: "Did you pay the bill?"
Dont try to date if you are broke for your age, with no car and no place. (If over 20). You have more important things to worry about.
Asking the real questions
Finally someone pointing the elephant in the room
If you ordering for someone it seems polite to pay. If you don't plan to pay for dinner just don't take your date to dinner. Skip it. Do a park or beach, grab an icecream (maybe a cup and share).
If you not prepared to pay, instead of stressing abt it, just take it off the table completely.
If your date then suggests grabbing something to eat then you are off the hook to pay and the date should be prepared to at least go dutch.
Mr. Take Things Too Seriously exactly!!!!!
Imagine holding hands before marriage
*DISGUSTING*
Sick vid and awesome advice bro! Thank you 🙏🏽
thx CZcams recomendations, now i gonna lvl up my dating lvl
For me this is more like how players make moves. My expirience.
Wow, a dude giving practical advice that isn't a misogynist or an incel? What a fantastic channel
Dam thanks mate you make it sound so easy and fun. I have a date next week so if it goes well all credit goes to you
I’ve been with the same girl for 5 years and it’s nice to see a video about how to start a date. The animation made me feel like watching an anime and made my heart gush
When you talked about research backing you up, you gained yourself an instant sub! (Although I would like to see the exact source, that would be better!)
Hey Francis, thanks for the support! Here's the study: www.wsj.com/articles/want-to-build-trust-order-the-same-food-1468508945
Me and my girlfriend have this problem where we dont talk that much when were alone.. i now always invite one of our really close and mutual friends whenever we go out. She talks more with him than me.
TheRussian Walrus u need to have a more interesting life , also naking her better life
Damn thats sad as fuck xd
this is amazing!!! thx bro
bro you really helping a lot here
LOL!! I would just freak out at the thought of having more than one place to go, pre-planned and might cancel the date. The dilemma of knowing "fun" places around the city, is to objectively be this ideal "fun-seeking" individual within yourself before introducing someone else into that "fun-bubble" and if you're seeking company to really find that "fun", than ofcourse this won't work coz, apparently according to this dude, it's always girls, who get introduced to "fun" while the guy has to have all the "fun" experienced beforehand.
Lmao. If I ordered my girlfriend's food for her on our first date she would have flipped out.
😭😭😭😭
This is the best video about first date I've watched.
Thanks
This was so much help, the art was amazing looking
Now I just need to learn how to be more funny more confident and less socially anxious and then I'll have it LOL, thx for the tips