6 Best Things To Talk About On A First Date

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  • @Chancellor255
    @Chancellor255 Před rokem +134

    Great advice as usual, O.G.

  • @KorihorTheSaint
    @KorihorTheSaint Před 11 měsíci +27

    Family
    Occupation
    Recreation
    Dreams/Desires
    The F.O.R.D method

  • @da4728
    @da4728 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Most of all this is asked over phone whilst trying to arrange the 1st date

  • @WealthTracker
    @WealthTracker Před rokem +48

    It's all cool until yall end up sleeping w/ each other right after the 1st date & she tells you she loves you by the 2nd date... 😂😂😂 I think it pays to tell the public that it's very important not to sleep w/ each other until at least a few things have been agreed upon...
    Too many folks had whole offspring after the 1st date; then became greatest enemies while the poor offspring suffer for life. Of course, I'm stretching on the post. Thanks again, Style OG, for most amazing consistent content.

    • @FreePalestinenyc
      @FreePalestinenyc Před 6 měsíci +2

      Nah you cooking fr! Foster care is so full that they don’t even send cps out anymore! I lost my best friend in middle school because of her parents and she couldn’t take it anymore! People need to stop sleeping together so f quickly!

  • @abendiaye3330
    @abendiaye3330 Před rokem +33

    If the first date feels like a job interview or CIA interrogation; GET OUT OF THERE 💀

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Před 2 měsíci

      I'd say play it by ear on that. It could be awkwardness, esp. if you're too quiet and the other person is striving for ways to carry the conversation.

  • @winterwraith8339
    @winterwraith8339 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Woow first person ive run into thats goving advice that sounds good

  • @ChachiTelevision1979
    @ChachiTelevision1979 Před rokem +9

    Gotta be outliers in here. When I went on a first date with my now wife, religion was definitely a lot of our discussion, but we also met at a Catholic holy hour. BUT, even with that, totally with you that keeping it light and jovial is the best way to go.

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I agree. I would love to meet a Christian too. Talking about our faith would be a great first date start. If we've already well established we are both Christians, and that is important to us, then it's a huge thing we have in common. But the advice to keep it light still is good. You can get into controversies right away that you shouldn't. Even for Catholics that have a more commonly laid out faith, there are plenty of divisive things these days that would be best not be launched into.

    • @ChachiTelevision1979
      @ChachiTelevision1979 Před 2 měsíci

      @@saintejeannedarc9460 Agreed. We weren’t diving into the Summa Theologiae or current scandals in the Church.

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@ChachiTelevision1979 Congrats that you and your wife made it. If I was going to date a Catholic (which I have and would), I wouldn't be bringing up Fiducia Supplicans on the first date. I'd be looking forward to what he might think of it down the line, but it's not a good starter topic.

    • @ChachiTelevision1979
      @ChachiTelevision1979 Před měsícem

      @@saintejeannedarc9460 haha exactly!

  • @rsturdy4045
    @rsturdy4045 Před rokem +2

    Salute! Nice facts

  • @cloak7317
    @cloak7317 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you man, I’m kinda nervous tho. I hope it goes well

  • @CoreyJ0E
    @CoreyJ0E Před 7 měsíci +1

    Game is game at the end, would have been dope.

  • @AlreadyLeo
    @AlreadyLeo Před rokem +2

    THX MAN

  • @darrickwhite1986
    @darrickwhite1986 Před rokem +5

    Salute!!

  • @KPtheDJ216
    @KPtheDJ216 Před rokem +3

    Thanks for the gems 💎. Salute 🫡

  • @corinnehidrobo6520
    @corinnehidrobo6520 Před 8 měsíci

    helpful

  • @Mr-Keyes
    @Mr-Keyes Před rokem +29

    I always talk about which hotel we should go to afterwards 😃 .

    • @mahdman3
      @mahdman3 Před 4 měsíci

      Absolutely but I usually take it a bit further by agreeing to go dutch on the hotel room!

  • @johnmooresr2318
    @johnmooresr2318 Před rokem

    Takem to chuuurrrccchhhh OG ✊🏾💪🏿🤓

  • @s3renity690
    @s3renity690 Před rokem +5

    If we both shared interests and hobbies over then span of a week via texting, what should we talk about on the first date then?

    • @mrluis2479
      @mrluis2479 Před 11 měsíci +2

      How did it go? Usually avoid trxting much, dates are for get to know esch other, text just tonget dates

    • @mariellamccue2060
      @mariellamccue2060 Před 6 měsíci

      How was your date?

  • @latenuwashere
    @latenuwashere Před rokem

    salute

  • @Piznick64
    @Piznick64 Před rokem +1

    The rocks eyebrow

  • @phillipmcswain3084
    @phillipmcswain3084 Před rokem +9

    Bro...get that stuff out of the way, so no one’s time is wasted.

  • @FreePalestinenyc
    @FreePalestinenyc Před 6 měsíci +1

    Religion kinda should be brought up because you shouldn’t waste each other’s time if y’all got different views on how children should be raised! Like one is Muslim and the other is Hindu… it’ll honestly never work out unless they both break away from their families! Religion really does play a big role in a lot of people’s lives and should be addressed asap because waisting time is really stupid! We aren’t young forever!

  • @kiaragay3259
    @kiaragay3259 Před rokem +1

    I don’t get this. Why would you save the hard stuff for later? What if you really connected on the small stuff and next thing you know the next time they tell you something really big and now you feel more flustered and uncomfortable because they revealed a deal breaker

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  Před rokem +1

      but because when you first meet one or both parties may be nervous, not the best time to have heavy conversations

  • @bradwalker9309
    @bradwalker9309 Před 11 měsíci

    Who lined up your beard my dude?

  • @aayushsoni2356
    @aayushsoni2356 Před 22 dny

    Sry bro but are his eyebrows not the same level?

  • @LIBqueen
    @LIBqueen Před rokem +2

    Why waste time?
    I want serious stuff to see if they're a good match

  • @allenstokes1178
    @allenstokes1178 Před rokem +4

    What if you've been married for 18 years

  • @bigmarc5546
    @bigmarc5546 Před rokem +1

    O no Playboi my Faith comes out first , let’s me know if I’m wasting my time , Christ Has Risen 💯🙌🏽 !

  • @elite1234564
    @elite1234564 Před rokem

    Can you put all this in a written format lolol

  • @Nat-cx1dt
    @Nat-cx1dt Před 6 měsíci

    but would you date someone who has different political views? I wouldn't personally as some can be very narrow minded.

  • @invisiblerevolution
    @invisiblerevolution Před rokem +12

    Sharp ass suit.... like how it defines the chest area! 💯

  • @deeznuts-ho7jl
    @deeznuts-ho7jl Před 6 měsíci

    If only I had a girl to take on a date

  • @BtrDaze
    @BtrDaze Před 11 měsíci

    I always ask a woman..who do you prefer? Sade or Anita baker. And it goes from there

  • @tammycenter8757
    @tammycenter8757 Před rokem +7

    Bullshit. My hubby and I talked about all of those things on the first date. Been married almost 35 years now and still going strong.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  Před rokem +22

      guess, I should change the whole video based on your anecdotal experience.....

    • @SJPowerUp_1
      @SJPowerUp_1 Před rokem +5

      There’s one in every crowd. 😒

    • @latenuwashere
      @latenuwashere Před rokem +1

      lol?

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 Před měsícem

      You said it he didn’t
      Married 35 years and counting
      Key words
      This a new day in time and this generation is different, not cut from the same cloth I should say

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 Před měsícem

      @@TheStyleOGnope OG she said it you didn’t key numbers and words 35 years ago! 1989 .. that’s 3 1/2 decades ago
      Please times have changed and I mean drastically

  • @Lyfeastrey
    @Lyfeastrey Před rokem +4

    I don’t like to waste time or my money. Waiting to have “serious” conversations can be a huge waste of time if you’re not compatible. I ask the tough questions on the first date. Save myself the time and the money.

    • @TheStyleOG
      @TheStyleOG  Před rokem +2

      Ask a person you don’t know tough questions?? Interrogation techniques..smooth !! Lol

    • @Lyfeastrey
      @Lyfeastrey Před rokem +2

      @@TheStyleOG bruh dating in nothing more than a interview. Simps like to waste time and be “friends”. How do I get to know her if I don’t ask her the “tough” questions? Simps waste money and time. Guess that’s your thing 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @ssjswisher8290
      @ssjswisher8290 Před rokem +2

      ​@@Lyfeastrey lol i bet you get lots of quality women

    • @Lyfeastrey
      @Lyfeastrey Před rokem

      @@ssjswisher8290 You would win that bet. I don’t waste time with unqualified women. You guys have so much blue pill simp in ya in amazing… Yall love to waste money and time.

  • @Jb-gj5zy
    @Jb-gj5zy Před 4 měsíci

    Why are you screaming?