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I actually think the opposite: you should briefly discuss the hard topics up front if they are a dealbreaker for you. Then you don’t waste time with each other dating and getting emotionally invested in someone you would leave because of those things.
@@RayTheomo right... because it's better to be married to (or dating) the wrong person than it is to be single? The are the exact things to discuss on a first date if your looking for a long term, compatible relationship. I think the authors should have said don't say these things on a first date if your just wanting to hook up for a fling"
I humbly disagree. Politics and history (body counts to be exact) are the first things I would want to cross off my check list so I don't waste time, energy and resources.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive why waste your time if you are not compatible with the date? If you are not 'equally yoked' in your political beliefs or religion -- it is best to finish your date and wish them a happy life.
For me recently, I meet girls then talk real casual at wherever I see them/ meet them, then if I think it’s worth pursuing I’ll ask them to coffee or dinner and they usually say yes. Well then when time comes to actually meet up they cancel. What’s this all about? They say can we reschedule and never happens. Haven’t been on a date in like 7 or 8 months pretty depressing stuff, like a waste of time and discouraging bc it’s ain’t even worth trying it seems like
It's not boring. It's intellectual and fascinating. And I won't get along with progressive women with their aggressive stance and undertones of anger and being a gentleman is some kind of oppression. So yes, politics absolutely matter.
It’s quite important actually because when you don’t know jack shit about politics in a country thats mandatory to vote, you don’t vote probably you just end up picking whatever which is a really bad way to vote it’s important to know what party’s are wanting to do and policies etc
I feel like a gen Z, being super impatient for you to actually get on with the next points. I wish you gave all 3 first, and then went on to explain each one.
I recently stopped seeing a guy bc he kept hating on his exfiance. I was not comfortable knowing that he would bad about someone he wanted to spend his life with at some point.
Politics I'm 50-50 on. And it depends on how the person handles it. Past relationships though, DEFINITELY NOT. When chicks try to talk about or dig into my past relationships, I just let them know we're not going into thet right now.
Actually, it’s horrible advice to tell people to waste time dating a person who is potentially incompatible due to something as important as political affiliation.
How do you NOT talk about politics on a first date? Do you wait for them to casually tell you they’re a nazi on the second date? I feel like politics is a really important and non-rushed topic to at least brush over to make sure you’re on the same page on a first date. I obviously don’t mean the two should get into a heated argument or discuss it down to their own votes for mayor, but like, the way people view politics usually reflect who they are and everything else they like or believe in. And it doesn’t feel too early to talk about like kids, marriage or religion relating to marriage.
I disagree with the politics one. Don’t waste each others times without being able to discuss politics, even if that means you guys don’t agree on some things. It’s makes discussion exciting. Plus you’ll know right away if you’re going to vibe with this person or not.
Don't talk about you ex period, during the entire relationship, it's toxic and shows your still in love with your ex and they got your heart,leave men like this alone your wasting your time,no future in that because they stuck in the past, so you will never have a future period,
If a guy is having trouble in his dating life then it's normally because he is struggling to attract women or get a woman attracted to him in the first place, however if a woman is struggling in her dating life, it's normally something else, for women meeting a guy or getting a guy attracted to them is normally not the problem, it's normally something else. Some people say it's keeping a guy but getting the guy is never a problem
I need to know his political affiliation. If he doesn’t believe in woman’s rights, gay rights, trans rights, (basically human rights) climate change, not taxing millionaires, healthcare for the poor….. need to know that immediately. Your not a good or decent person. Don’t want to waste my time or energy on someone with no compassion for marginalized people
Having different political views doesn't define if someone is a good or "decent person". That's a toxic and ironically hypocritical mentality. Based on the things you said, I'm assuming you care about inclusiveness and accepting all people of different backgrounds, perspectives, and views, right? For example, many religions and cultures have instilled beliefs that go against the values the lgbt community holds. So do you not accept people who follow their religion/culture and deem them as "not a good person"?
@@zomb7138 If that “religious” person judges the LGBTQ community or another marginalized group, yes I believe they are not good people. I am not from a marginalized group but I am all inclusive. I try to befriend and assist anyone in need.
Nope, can't stand angry progressives like you. Good luck finding an effeminate snowflake beta who doesn't even know how to change a tire or run away flapping his wrists in the face of danger. I see minimum 3 cats in your future. 🤦♂️
@@dianaortiz9775 If they judge = bad. If you judge = righteous. Your sentence isn’t even coherent. Judges what? This is why you don’t break rule #1. You could have the same values and this aggressive hostility could very likely be off-putting or come off as uncalibrated/weird. Most people don’t spend much time regarding government politics regardless of their values anyways. It’s why a republic was created in the first place.
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Why would anyone talk about politics ever? 😂
dude i dated an activist 😂 i ghosted him on 2nd date
Some crackheads do man 💀
You'd be surprised haha.
Joe Biden
😂
If she can't share a hatred for politics, taxes, and fed reserve she ain't wifey
Women don't care about that
Accurate 😁
@@philippossnortis2035 i will study poli sci after my law this year
Facts. She also should like austrian painters
Fr.
This guy brought up his ex on a first date and honestly her and I would be friends
I actually think the opposite: you should briefly discuss the hard topics up front if they are a dealbreaker for you. Then you don’t waste time with each other dating and getting emotionally invested in someone you would leave because of those things.
So, two and a half things I can't talk about. Got it :/
Bro said "half" 😭😭😭
😭
My first date with this woman we talked about everything
Oh, WAAAY before the first date, I need to establish that he’s not a liberal. Not playing that old “we’ll work it out somehow” game again.
Exactly! There isnt working out politics. I need to know now if im wasting my time. I dont want to be stuck with a liberal karen in 20 years 😂
@You should be ?? I’m not sure what you’re saying. I’m not even going on a first date with a liberal.
My gf is pretty left and im more right but we get along really well. We just dont talk about politics 😭
It’s a lot easier when you don’t give a shit about politics
@@logicbomb8977 facts
Before you got to the last P, my immature mind thought, "penises!" 😂😂😂
Do exactly the opposite of this if your looking for a wife.
On a first date….?
Exactly lol, I’m not wasting my time and if she were to the same then I know she wants to be serious as well
Then you wonder why youre single😂
@@RayTheomo right... because it's better to be married to (or dating) the wrong person than it is to be single?
The are the exact things to discuss on a first date if your looking for a long term, compatible relationship.
I think the authors should have said don't say these things on a first date if your just wanting to hook up for a fling"
I definitely do not agree with the first one. I need to know NOW if im wasting my time. I do not want to be stuck with a liberal Karen in 20 years!
AMEN!!!
Looking buff my man!
Thanks brother. Lifting 2 days a week for 20 mins.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive stop roiding lol
If they don't hate the government I don't want them
How do those boots taste?
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I always start off with politics and then follow up with my past and then at the end it’s always about the PeePee.
I humbly disagree. Politics and history (body counts to be exact) are the first things I would want to cross off my check list so I don't waste time, energy and resources.
You don't sound like very fun to take on a first date.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive why waste your time if you are not compatible with the date? If you are not 'equally yoked' in your political beliefs or religion -- it is best to finish your date and wish them a happy life.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive my first date would include swimming. It's fun and I get to see that person without makeup.
@@snmrz or just sack up any tell them “hey don’t wear any makeup on our date” if that matters so much to you.
Amen
If I meet a girl for the 1st time, I will ask her if she likes Donald Trump and Joe Biden?😂😂😂
For me recently, I meet girls then talk real casual at wherever I see them/ meet them, then if I think it’s worth pursuing I’ll ask them to coffee or dinner and they usually say yes. Well then when time comes to actually meet up they cancel. What’s this all about? They say can we reschedule and never happens. Haven’t been on a date in like 7 or 8 months pretty depressing stuff, like a waste of time and discouraging bc it’s ain’t even worth trying it seems like
😂 you made me laugh at the end. That had me completely caught off guard.
No way! I could NEVER date someone without my Christian CONSERVATIVE values and basic logic. It's important!
Solid advice
Thanks! ❤️
Our pleasure.
Those are good points honestly
I gotta say, all three of these make sense.
But who would talk about politics? That stuff is so boring and too slow for Me.
You'd be surprised.
It's not boring. It's intellectual and fascinating. And I won't get along with progressive women with their aggressive stance and undertones of anger and being a gentleman is some kind of oppression. So yes, politics absolutely matter.
@@steveh5307 it’s definitely boring and controversial
It’s quite important actually because when you don’t know jack shit about politics in a country thats mandatory to vote, you don’t vote probably you just end up picking whatever which is a really bad way to vote it’s important to know what party’s are wanting to do and policies etc
@@thatguy8012 voting is just for show
We kinda talked about all 3 and it went great
Good to see the punisher turning his life around
Politics is way more important than ever
So talking about pee pee was the reason why I never get past first dates.. got it
I feel like a gen Z, being super impatient for you to actually get on with the next points. I wish you gave all 3 first, and then went on to explain each one.
Ohh yeah so tru
Mannnnnnnn looks like your girl got lots of experience
I recently stopped seeing a guy bc he kept hating on his exfiance. I was not comfortable knowing that he would bad about someone he wanted to spend his life with at some point.
Gentlemen, never, never talk about you past relationships with your future wife or your actual wife. Men do not have memory. Period!
But what if she brings it up I can't just shut it down
Those two couples want to make everybody believe they know everything about birds and the bees 🐥🐝
Politics I'm 50-50 on. And it depends on how the person handles it. Past relationships though, DEFINITELY NOT. When chicks try to talk about or dig into my past relationships, I just let them know we're not going into thet right now.
We have to talk about them
And Religion too
Should things like these be brought up asap to not waste anyone’s time?
I don’t date people that have pronouns in their bio
Is that Shane from the Walking Dead?
My parents Dad was a Republican whip and mom's Dad was a Democrat whip. That was in 1960! Married 33 years.
Dude looks like Jon Bernthal
bro looks like Jon Bernthal
You mean to tell me all this time I failed on dates because I didn’t stop talking about my 🍆?! Whole new life perspective. Thank you so much!!
Tell us something we want to hear, don't tell us about things we already knew🤭🤭🤭
Actually, it’s horrible advice to tell people to waste time dating a person who is potentially incompatible due to something as important as political affiliation.
What if I hate Politics?
Or those people who dont care??
Ummmm why you look like the Punisher bro??????
I would ask well who payin for this shit cause I’m not 😂😂😂
looking like john
❤😊True
I always bring up politics, religion, and exes.
pp ,, what does it mean ?
❤❤❤❤
Me who thought the 3rd P is problems 👁👄👁
Definitely ain't gonna talk about politics on a date, because we wouldn't be on a date if I thought she might be insane.
This dude over here looking like he ready for the zombie apocalypse
Ouch! What was the third P? peepee??? He dropped a clanger there!😮
why would you even talk about past relationships not on the first date but at all
You can uncover a lot more about a person
Make sure she asks : " So, how much money do you plan to spend on me.....? "
How do you NOT talk about politics on a first date? Do you wait for them to casually tell you they’re a nazi on the second date? I feel like politics is a really important and non-rushed topic to at least brush over to make sure you’re on the same page on a first date. I obviously don’t mean the two should get into a heated argument or discuss it down to their own votes for mayor, but like, the way people view politics usually reflect who they are and everything else they like or believe in. And it doesn’t feel too early to talk about like kids, marriage or religion relating to marriage.
I disagree with the politics one. Don’t waste each others times without being able to discuss politics, even if that means you guys don’t agree on some things. It’s makes discussion exciting. Plus you’ll know right away if you’re going to vibe with this person or not.
wasn't he in the walking dead?!!! 🤯🤯🤯
Whoops
The third one was dumb, and also sexist, but just dumb.
Hi! What’s your name? Let me tell you about my crazy ex.
Don't talk about you ex period, during the entire relationship, it's toxic and shows your still in love with your ex and they got your heart,leave men like this alone your wasting your time,no future in that because they stuck in the past, so you will never have a future period,
Never will ever talk about my peepee
I disagree, if you value your political views and wan a partner who shares those views, talk about it before the date
So prenup is on the table? 💀
What if they do the 3 pees 😂
Whoever talks politic on a date deserves to be alone forever.
Wrong. I would ask a girl im interested if she is still a virgin.
If not i dip
Fucccccc I spoke about politics with himmmmm after he asked me out aaaghhhhh
You girl's kinda cute bro, I subbed cz of her haha
3rd P should be Private Parts in general.
😂
4rth P is pusha P
who would ever talk about pp on a first date 💀
I honestly thought the 3rd P was going to be your problems. Also, surprised they didn’t try to finagle religion into this list.
And no principles! Woman hate having any kind of principles. Principles means accountability, so no principles. Are we clear!!!
That's great! So, now I get a free pass to talk about RELIGION!!!!!111111
So I should ditch the MAGA hat?
Only if you want, to not hear, from her agin..😊
She’s cute
Women always talk about how much their last boyfriend loved their vj jj
If they talk about last boy friend, they are just using you as a way to get over him.
I agree on politics and baggage and no-nos. But wish he had talked about his peepee before the 1st date. It didn't work
For real. I have a aversion to foreskin.
Lies You are finding out 2 asap
is that your daughter?
Thanks for the compliment
What’s wrong with politics? 😢
Ore hear me out.. only talk about those 3 things
If a guy is having trouble in his dating life then it's normally because he is struggling to attract women or get a woman attracted to him in the first place, however if a woman is struggling in her dating life, it's normally something else, for women meeting a guy or getting a guy attracted to them is normally not the problem, it's normally something else.
Some people say it's keeping a guy but getting the guy is never a problem
Who cares..
I need to know his political affiliation. If he doesn’t believe in woman’s rights, gay rights, trans rights, (basically human rights) climate change, not taxing millionaires, healthcare for the poor….. need to know that immediately. Your not a good or decent person. Don’t want to waste my time or energy on someone with no compassion for marginalized people
That’s such a Strawman😂
Having different political views doesn't define if someone is a good or "decent person". That's a toxic and ironically hypocritical mentality. Based on the things you said, I'm assuming you care about inclusiveness and accepting all people of different backgrounds, perspectives, and views, right? For example, many religions and cultures have instilled beliefs that go against the values the lgbt community holds. So do you not accept people who follow their religion/culture and deem them as "not a good person"?
@@zomb7138
If that “religious” person judges the LGBTQ community or another marginalized group, yes I believe they are not good people. I am not from a marginalized group but I am all inclusive. I try to befriend and assist anyone in need.
Nope, can't stand angry progressives like you. Good luck finding an effeminate snowflake beta who doesn't even know how to change a tire or run away flapping his wrists in the face of danger. I see minimum 3 cats in your future. 🤦♂️
@@dianaortiz9775 If they judge = bad. If you judge = righteous. Your sentence isn’t even coherent. Judges what? This is why you don’t break rule #1. You could have the same values and this aggressive hostility could very likely be off-putting or come off as uncalibrated/weird. Most people don’t spend much time regarding government politics regardless of their values anyways. It’s why a republic was created in the first place.
Omega male advice eww!
The pee pee wtf are we five
Guys just mentally cannot learn the last one
Bruh people are too soft start off with politics 😭