Not true at all. I have had attractive men flirt with me so many times in my life so far but if they make it very obvious and very open in front of others before we're an item then it becomes especially annoying and unwanted. If the attention is also sexually charged as well the man has fully entered into creep territory.
Point out a specific part about her that you find attractive. Instead of saying "you're beautiful", you can say "your smile is nice", or "I like what you've done with your hair" (this one is very cliche, sorry lmao), or compliment her outfit/accessories "I like that necklace you're wearing, it brings out your eyes" (or whatever really). All in all, just be respectful.
Say "that's cute" instead of "you're cute", if you make a risky remark, play if of as a joke (right after in a confident fun way, don't leave room for things to get awkward in that situation and do not lower your voice when saying you're just messing around). Instead of thinking "this dude just wants so fuck me" she'll have to wonder if that's your intention and she might feel a little disappointed you immediately shut off the green light again. And always remember to listen and to back off if she says she's not interested. Your worth is not determined by the people who reject you and you will find someone who you have chemistry with.
This is spot on. The OP was on some nonsense. A guy can think you're fun and want to be around you but not feel any real attraction. Women aren't mind-readers! The OP is saying "never, ever". But "that's cute" is a breadcrumb in the best way.
I like this comment. Whenever I get complimented by things I do like, “Your laugh is cute.” Or “It’s so cute when you do that.” It makes me feel some kind of way haha. I think it’s because it’s the fact that the guy is noticing small things about me instead of saying, “hey beautiful.” “You’re really attractive.” “You’re cute.” In some ways, it does work. But it does make me feel like they have intentions for just a hookup which isn’t much of a turn on honestly. I’m pretty sure most women tend to prefer to hookup with men if they can see themselves in a relationship with him. So, noticing the small things like her outfit, her smile, the way she spins when she’s happy, or her interests. It can really start up something!
As a girl, I would fall in love if I guy said “That’s cute” to me. It’s nice and sweet and y’all look cute saying it and it’s not coming off too strong but well enough to understand what you mean. Good luck guys I’m rooting for you 💪
"play it off as a joke" the universal get out of jail free card that allows you to say absolutely whatever you want with no consequences because "it's a joke right?" That never works on me, it's one of my biggest pet peeves, when someone says something stupid or offensive and then plays it off like a joke, and then continues to blame you like you can't take a joke.
@@JAMMzMHWthank you. Yup always hate the "it's a prank bro" mentality. Ik it's not quite the same, but I just see it that way. At what point do people seem genuine? Sadly this isn't the populous mentality. Most people love a jokester
Bro I’m 6’3, buff, pretty good looking, and I’m successful. I’ve gotten away with some of the absolute dumbest shit and I even got a girl to laugh flirtatiously when I started talking about legos. It is absolutely down to how you look so fellas I can’t stress enough to stop paying attention to cheap hook up hacks. Get your ass in the gym, start taking care of your hygiene, work on your career, buy better clothes, talk to a therapist, and start building social skills.
As a 6'2 decently jacked guy, thats fucking true. I mean that other shit is important but women will put up with a fucking LOT of u are in good shape and tall. I literally made a fucking fart joke at a party that was stupid as shit, and one that my friend made like min before that they didnt give a shit about and the girl STILL came up and acted like it was the funniest shit ever
As a 7’5 300lbs dark handsome man I completely agree. I’m constantly fighting off women and want it to stop. I need a video on how to get these hoes offa me 😂🤞
for real tho im not gonna put on an act and play a character just to get a woman's approval... if she don't like me for who i already am then i dont want her
as a 7'1 man who is still considered short in the netherlands undergoing my limb lenghtening surgery to be at least 7'7, I can confirm that I finally get women to be friends with me.
Here's a foolproof way to flirt with her without being a creep, flirt with women that have a high level of attraction to you. You could slip on banana peels and if the girl is into you she'll think it's the hottest thing ever. On the other hand, you could have the flirting skills of James Bond and if she sees you as a 2, you're a creep. But most women that we date will see us somewhere in the middle, so sound advice.
@@BellaVlogsLife most women have hooked up with a guy on the first date at least once, you don't know that guy within a few hours of meeting him so not buying that women always need a "connection."
@@BellaVlogsLife and how the hell do I even get to that point. Cause when I try to ask a girl out, I make it clear it's not a date, I want to be friends first. Get to know you first. Still she's not interested
It depends on how humble you are as a person. Narcissistic people will take an advantage on compliments and will hurt you psychologically. Btw most people have narcissistic tendencies nowadays
This is facts but it's how you deliver it because I've said to a woman yout gorgeous but I said it In a playful sexual way she wet herself got nervous. But when your delivery is dry and nervous it will come put creepy.
Step 1: drop this advice Step 2: Only date if there’s high levels of attraction and genuine compassion for each other, there will be no need for these flirting games
@@Ash_Wen-li Yeah, I really meant you shouldn't when first meeting a girl. Your best bet is act like you have little interest, especially with the most attractive woman. 90% of men are intimidated around an attractive woman and they go through many emotions like feeling nervous, shy, overly excited or afraid of rejection. Not showing any of these emotions makes you stand out from 99% of men.
@@JhonnyStone100 I have more success not letting girls think I'm interested. Alot of times I don't even ask girls for their numbers. They usually will ask for mine or ask me to come over.
Not true... You can definitely come on too strong... Or too sexual. Or seem so uninteresting in me that I'd feel stupid for continuing trying with you.
"Dating" is a trap. Make friends, become positive and stoked about you life, then share your life with other people. Then you'll have suitable women approach YOU. That's how couples meet in schools, work places, and sporting events.
Dating not make us Happy trust me, i just start to make a suffering thing, thats bulsh1t who someone in relationships saying they are happy 😅, they just tell the good thing not bad thing
It's ok to give her ONE compliment at the beginning. Nothing over the top, but she has to know you're interested. Everything else - tone down compliments, I completely agree
@@Cousinbiddy1 Why are y'all so dumb. "wElL iT dOeSn'T hApPeN tO mE". EXCEPTION DOES NOT MAKE A RULE! A RULE IS FOR MAJORITY NOT MINORITY. Try to learn this life lesson, you'll be able to see through a lot of BS.
I disagree. It’s all about the internal mindset and how that comes across when you’re saying she’s attractive. Being direct is good and effective and saves you and her time also. A lot of women will think it’s weird that you’re not saying you think they’re attractive because they’ll wonder why you really came over to talk to them
No u got it wrong my guy it's in woman's nature to chase and want what they can't have u yes they like directness but not in that way women are born into being told what they wanna hear simply because there girls there use to being told oh ur so beautiful oh ur so pretty oh ur this ur that so by the time a guy comes and tells her these things she may smile and say thank you but she going to be bored and not take the guy seriously because she now has nothing to chase so now u become beta simp number 589 because she hearing what she's heard her whole life versus a mf thsts comes and there and tells her uh idk your kinda ugly or back hand compliment her yeah ur pretty but yeah she'll get mad because ur shattering her ego but her female nature will love u for that because the fact that u had the confidence to say that to her means u have the confidence to go out in the world and serve as a proper protector, a woman when she walks in the room is looking for the strongest man in the room for protection that's ine of the main things women want is protection and if she spots any weakness in a man her respect she may have had for u is now gone women wanna chase u going in there saying she's pretty after she done heard that her whole life is boring to her
It's so freaking hard to flirt without conveying energy of a creep. Even though I'm off the market and have been for nearly a decade I can't help but remember when I was younger I was afraid to approach girls for that particular reason and I never had an incentive to make the first move for the fear of being rejected thus lacking confidence though when I would get compliments on my looks that would boost my confidence instantly. I also think to myself had I grown up in a different area/town I probably would have had much better odds.
1. Be Handsome 2. Be rich 3. Be eloquent If you aren't anything above then give up, you're wasting time and energy, work on yourself and your other goals, quality women who see your worth will come to you automatically.
This is not true for every girl. To every man trying to flirt with a girl please just do what feels most natural for you. Some girls like honesty and don’t want a game just an honest and kind man.
The guys who were confused, are still confused. Be confident, have a reason to talk to her that makes sense. Be present, pay attention to her tone, and body language, etc. This was not a very informative video. I pulled my hottest girlfriend, who moved in with me later just by asking her if you likes fun. My haircut was flawless, so was the way I was dressed, and wore my best smell good, I was also in pretty good shape. Make sure you look the part too. Game is not only what you say or don't say. If you are in shape, well groomed, well dressed, and smell good, the pressure for a flawless approach is not as much.
It doesn’t matter what u say , I’m sure if an attractive guy says hey beautiful ur so cute it will work 😂 it’s more of how you look /dress /behave making her want u
As a girl the first one isn’t always valid. My love language is words of affirmation so if you call me attractive I will not stop thinking about you and I will probably kiss you
This just literally happened to me with a girl who approached me. I was just there for business and not in the mood and felt forced to interact with her because she was gorgeous. That feeling forced came across and she got majorly turned off. They never approach when you are actually looking just when a chick is the least thing you are in the mood for
Only towards guys she's not attracted to. If you're attractive, you can tell her you just took a sh*t and she's gonna giggle and drop the digits. They don't like compliments from the "wrong" guy. They get offended if they're not attracted and they catch you glancing their way.
This is true, I compliment my GF all the time, I call her beautiful, sexy, pretty and she's fine with it. As long as you's have a strong love for each other, it shouldn't matter. Not all woman are the same. Sometimes you gottah stop watching these online videos and just live life as it is. Too much information and it just does your head in, you end up trying to be someone else you're not.
@@lakz_1844 My guy, she is your GIRLFRIEND. You don't need flirting advice for someone that already agrees to be with you lmao. This is por talking to people you don't know, that's the point. If she is your girlfriend and she thinks you are creepy for complimenting her, you are with the wrong person.
sing this after "HELLO", "is it me you're looking for? 'Cause I wonder where you are and I wonder what you do Are you somewhere feeling lonely or is someone loving you? Tell me how to win your heart, for I haven't got a clue But let me start by saying, I love you I love you I love you.." - by Lionel Ritchie
Bro, just because you’re ugly doesn’t mean you can’t get an attractive girl or that she will see you as a creep. It’s simple men today don’t have game. There’s only 10-20% of men who are sexually active with women. At first yes it matters what you look like but if you’re an ugly dude and you’re funny, and you have game, you can still get a hot girl. Instead of whining about being a creep work on your game. Get to know yourself what qualities do you have that attract people to you?
I love this. It gets weird when someone just says you’re beautiful, especially when they have nothing else to say. It usually ends with an awkward “thanks”. Personally, I don’t think it matters much how attractive someone is. I’ll take personality over looks all day long, that’s what makes someone attractive to me.
The real truth is if she has a chemistry with you, she will love the compliments. If she doesn’t have a chemistry with you even if you play your cards right , she will say your a nice guy but that’s it.
I just like her a lot…she’s not a game to be played. I want to start taking care of her, being at her side, keeping her happy, letting her know how important she is.
How to flirt with women: keep it mysterious, playful, imply she is hot without saying it, be creative, witty, funny, charming, etc... How to flirt with men: open legs This applies to all sexualities
I never comment on them! I just like their sexxxy/near nude photos! If the Instahoes show pics of them with their "boyfriends", I purposely do NOT like those pics nor do I like pics of them wearing clothes and doing non-provocative stuff! They are just mere fap bait for me after all and should just stick with that! 🤣🤣🤣
@@giyuutomioka6974 yeah, it almost seems counterintuitive or something, but when you tell somebody your intentions right off the bat, they just can't handle it for whatever reason. They are used to trying to have to figure out people's MO, so I think it really throws people off when you actually just state it outright like that and they can't handle it.
@@Squirrel-zq6oe Sometimes I meet girls and talk to them just for a few minutes, I start pointing to my lips and start making out. Only at night when I go out tho, I couldn’t believe it was so simple but U have to keep in mind that most of the girls want to be approached by guys in general, and somehow if u believe ur funny they will think that too
If you’re flirting for the sake of it, sure leave that out. If you are flirting with the intent of building it up to a date, sure leave that out… If you see a girl at the cafe and you want to spend the morning with her, you have to tell her you find her super attractive, you have to be straight up and ask what she’s up to for the rest of the morning, what you want and what you are proposing… you yourself will need to have your shit together as she is not gonna consider a romp in the sheets with a dude who does not attract her.
I completely agree with this. I much prefer a guy to show his interest rather than telling me what he thinks of my looks. It doesn't come across as being direct, it's being insincere. He's trying to win you over with compliments, but a man using his words and body language to express himself is always much more attractive. To the men who dispute this, young, immature women will accept less than ideal behaviour out of insecurity, but if you want a mature woman, she won't like this type of "directiveness."
ok i understand but with that being said look at the fine line us guys have to avoid from being a nice fine gentleman to a creep. that feels so unfair ngl... but it is what it is.
But if a guy doesn't come on strong enough the ball never gets rolling. As a guy your looks, money and status are what matters. You have the right looks and status you can say almost anything. If you don't look good you could talk perfectly and the women won't even give you a chance.
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I said it just like you “hey beati-full, you so cu you so Beau Tee Fool” and she laughed and smiled and we both laughed. So really you can say anything just how you say it.
@@Cousinbiddy1 being above average is not good enough 😂. These days you gotta be super jacked and sexy to be considered "sort of attractive" to women lmao.
@@Cousinbiddy1 these guys don’t want to listen to how they can improve. They just want to complain about women not wanting them or only wanting a certain type of man.
Don’t take advice from this guy… Women love when your forthright with them…. Yeah subtlety is good too but you’re not getting straight to the point. Women want a man with confidence. If you are too subtle she will friend-zone your ass. It’s better to take your shot than to be stuck there. At the very least you’ll know where you stand.
You won’t get friend zoned if you do it correctly. You should make it pretty obvious that you like her without just blatantly saying is. If you do it, trust me she will know, women are smart. Read how she responds, if she responds in a way that is going along with it that is a way of knowing you could maybe start being a little more direct until you get the number. If she doesn’t, move on. When you are so direct at the beginning you turn it into a numbers game, you will get rejected over and over again until you actually find a girl who won’t reject you. You can be as confident as you want, but if you haven’t built a rapport, then she will just reject you.
In my personal experience as a girl, It depends if it comes off as sincere. If you just met and the first thing you say is “you’re pretty” than it seems like you just want something. If after gaining my trust and having some connection you say that, then it seems genuine and not like you’re trying to gain something from me.
Nah bro just nah. I’m not a ladies man but as someone newly engaged I can say that advice ain’t it. If you want to express how you view the woman you’re talking to just do it. Tell her whatever you want cause if you change the way you are and she falls for you then it’s not gonna matter because she wasn’t fond of you but the person you portrayed yourself as. Just be you and the right one will come up, don’t chase it tho.
I don't flirt with girls I ask em out directly. I tell them straight up I suck up pick up lines but I would like to take them out. They agree and we go out and have fun, I don't need the flirt that's why I asked her out. It's annoying to me personally.
He's telling the truth. Your good looks won't save you if you're being needy. Women aren't attracted to that, handsome or not. Women are less visual than men. Women don't care about good looks. They care about the way a guy carries himself, his vibe, his personality.
No 🤦. If you actually believe women don't care about looks or are less visual than men, I'm guessing you're at least an 8 or a 9. If you weren't then it would very clear to you how much they care about looks.
That tight ass shirt is flirting with the end of its life.
Omg 💀
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Buddy need a inhaler after this conversation video
My goodness 😂😂
That tight ass shirt is just one more way to flirt... guys tryna show off his guns.
The difference between flirting and being a creep is how attractive the guy is.
Nah bro
Most of the time yeah unless he is really good at flirting. Unfortunately.
Facts
Not true at all. I have had attractive men flirt with me so many times in my life so far but if they make it very obvious and very open in front of others before we're an item then it becomes especially annoying and unwanted. If the attention is also sexually charged as well the man has fully entered into creep territory.
@@ShanyShannon You’re 🧢 here because you gave the most politically correct response.
"Creep" means unattractive. Attractive men can flirt however they want, or not even flirt at all, and smash on day 1
Facts works well.
Nope. That's just gross unbacked generalization of how attraction works, stop the cope
@@dobridjordje 😴
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@@dobridjordje Yes, you're so interesting I couldn't keep from losing consciousness 😴
Give examples of being less direct in the flirting...
If she has green dress on. You can say suddenly green is my favorite color. That’s an example Formula
@@bmgfrosty7089 lol my D wasn’t dry after I used that example
Point out a specific part about her that you find attractive.
Instead of saying "you're beautiful", you can say "your smile is nice", or "I like what you've done with your hair" (this one is very cliche, sorry lmao), or compliment her outfit/accessories "I like that necklace you're wearing, it brings out your eyes" (or whatever really).
All in all, just be respectful.
@@bmgfrosty7089 Her vagina would get drier than the Sahara desert.
@@SparrowValentine
Me: "Did you bathe today"
Her internally: "Wtf do I smell?"
Me: "Yeah, me too."
Say "that's cute" instead of "you're cute", if you make a risky remark, play if of as a joke (right after in a confident fun way, don't leave room for things to get awkward in that situation and do not lower your voice when saying you're just messing around). Instead of thinking "this dude just wants so fuck me" she'll have to wonder if that's your intention and she might feel a little disappointed you immediately shut off the green light again.
And always remember to listen and to back off if she says she's not interested. Your worth is not determined by the people who reject you and you will find someone who you have chemistry with.
This is spot on.
The OP was on some nonsense.
A guy can think you're fun and want to be around you but not feel any real attraction.
Women aren't mind-readers!
The OP is saying "never, ever".
But "that's cute" is a breadcrumb in the best way.
I like this comment. Whenever I get complimented by things I do like, “Your laugh is cute.” Or “It’s so cute when you do that.” It makes me feel some kind of way haha. I think it’s because it’s the fact that the guy is noticing small things about me instead of saying, “hey beautiful.” “You’re really attractive.” “You’re cute.” In some ways, it does work. But it does make me feel like they have intentions for just a hookup which isn’t much of a turn on honestly. I’m pretty sure most women tend to prefer to hookup with men if they can see themselves in a relationship with him. So, noticing the small things like her outfit, her smile, the way she spins when she’s happy, or her interests. It can really start up something!
As a girl, I would fall in love if I guy said “That’s cute” to me. It’s nice and sweet and y’all look cute saying it and it’s not coming off too strong but well enough to understand what you mean. Good luck guys I’m rooting for you 💪
"play it off as a joke" the universal get out of jail free card that allows you to say absolutely whatever you want with no consequences because "it's a joke right?"
That never works on me, it's one of my biggest pet peeves, when someone says something stupid or offensive and then plays it off like a joke, and then continues to blame you like you can't take a joke.
@@JAMMzMHWthank you. Yup always hate the "it's a prank bro" mentality. Ik it's not quite the same, but I just see it that way. At what point do people seem genuine? Sadly this isn't the populous mentality. Most people love a jokester
Bro I’m 6’3, buff, pretty good looking, and I’m successful. I’ve gotten away with some of the absolute dumbest shit and I even got a girl to laugh flirtatiously when I started talking about legos. It is absolutely down to how you look so fellas I can’t stress enough to stop paying attention to cheap hook up hacks. Get your ass in the gym, start taking care of your hygiene, work on your career, buy better clothes, talk to a therapist, and start building social skills.
As a 6'2 decently jacked guy, thats fucking true. I mean that other shit is important but women will put up with a fucking LOT of u are in good shape and tall. I literally made a fucking fart joke at a party that was stupid as shit, and one that my friend made like min before that they didnt give a shit about and the girl STILL came up and acted like it was the funniest shit ever
As a 7’5 300lbs dark handsome man I completely agree. I’m constantly fighting off women and want it to stop. I need a video on how to get these hoes offa me 😂🤞
for real tho im not gonna put on an act and play a character just to get a woman's approval... if she don't like me for who i already am then i dont want her
as a 7'1 man who is still considered short in the netherlands undergoing my limb lenghtening surgery to be at least 7'7, I can confirm that I finally get women to be friends with me.
@@themasculinesociety😂😂😂
Here's a foolproof way to flirt with her without being a creep, flirt with women that have a high level of attraction to you. You could slip on banana peels and if the girl is into you she'll think it's the hottest thing ever. On the other hand, you could have the flirting skills of James Bond and if she sees you as a 2, you're a creep. But most women that we date will see us somewhere in the middle, so sound advice.
@@BellaVlogsLife most women have hooked up with a guy on the first date at least once, you don't know that guy within a few hours of meeting him so not buying that women always need a "connection."
@@BellaVlogsLife um usually that is true, girls get to know ppl before they like them but not always... I know from experience 😭
@@Jukeboxster spot on
@@BellaVlogsLife Well guess I'm a woman now.
@@BellaVlogsLife and how the hell do I even get to that point. Cause when I try to ask a girl out, I make it clear it's not a date, I want to be friends first. Get to know you first. Still she's not interested
You are only a " creep" if the woman isn't physically attracted to you.
Blackpilled
Not true at all...
@@ShanyShannon as a male with a facial deformity it's ture
@@ShanyShannon wrong, it’s true.
As long as you’re clean, good haircut, don’t dress like a bum, then your personality will matter, even if your face is kind of ugly .
Nope. I LOVE when a man is direct and tells me I’m beautiful or gorgeous. That’s a man who is confident and isn’t playing games.
It depends on how humble you are as a person. Narcissistic people will take an advantage on compliments and will hurt you psychologically. Btw most people have narcissistic tendencies nowadays
@@sepehradonis6959she stated what she likes and you are trying to make her believe otherwise 🤣🤣
@@carloscabrera5311this comment section is very concerning
@@carloscabrera5311 -------------Ya typical moronic dude right there
This is facts but it's how you deliver it because I've said to a woman yout gorgeous but I said it In a playful sexual way she wet herself got nervous. But when your delivery is dry and nervous it will come put creepy.
I'd rather play a game on my computer than with a stranger over text messages.
Me too. Talking to girls is such a waste of time.
Watching VHS tapes of Rammstein in the 90's and 00's is a much better use of time@@534sander
Yes, and along those lines, a man does have to show intent to avoid the platonic "30 minute conversation to nowhere"
At some point you have to cut to the chase, right?
Please elaborate for myself and others, thanks!
Step 1: drop this advice
Step 2: Only date if there’s high levels of attraction and genuine compassion for each other, there will be no need for these flirting games
Tom Platz said i needed to acheive failure, thats what im intending to
You fucking king
Never tell a girl they are attractive at all. They'll hold it over your head.
You can admit she's attractive but don't do it early and don't act like it's a big deal
You can tell a girl she’s fine or whatever just don’t do it in a simpish ass way. Don’t make it a big deal and don’t treat her like she’s above you
i only let her know i think she’s pretty in the beginning once or twice to show i’m interested. don’t compliment again
@@Ash_Wen-li Yeah, I really meant you shouldn't when first meeting a girl. Your best bet is act like you have little interest, especially with the most attractive woman. 90% of men are intimidated around an attractive woman and they go through many emotions like feeling nervous, shy, overly excited or afraid of rejection. Not showing any of these emotions makes you stand out from 99% of men.
@@JhonnyStone100 I have more success not letting girls think I'm interested. Alot of times I don't even ask girls for their numbers. They usually will ask for mine or ask me to come over.
Doesn’t matter what you say to a girl if she’s into you she’s into you.
Yup! So fucking true! You can say some seriously cringey shit and they will still ride you later that night if they find you "hot"! 🤣🤣🤣
@@mrconfusion87 thank you mahn
Exactly. Some of these " dating coaches" make it more difficult thanit has to be.
Right on
Not true... You can definitely come on too strong... Or too sexual. Or seem so uninteresting in me that I'd feel stupid for continuing trying with you.
Everyone avoiding coming off as a creep meanwhile I embrace it. Creeps need some love too
Then you must get ready for the authorities to start having conversations with you. 😆🤦🏾♂️
"Dating" is a trap. Make friends, become positive and stoked about you life, then share your life with other people.
Then you'll have suitable women approach YOU. That's how couples meet in schools, work places, and sporting events.
Facts
Dating not make us Happy trust me, i just start to make a suffering thing, thats bulsh1t who someone in relationships saying they are happy 😅, they just tell the good thing not bad thing
The simps will disagree with these FACTS
You have no idea how corny and lame you sound😂” become stoked about your life “ 🤓🤓 ayooo 😂😂
How to make friends
It's ok to give her ONE compliment at the beginning. Nothing over the top, but she has to know you're interested. Everything else - tone down compliments, I completely agree
Already did everything you said not to, now she's my girlfriend 💀
King ❤
Did everything still nothing thinking I should kms
When you attractive af, its flirting.
When you ugly af, its harassment.
I’m attractive and many types of women are not interested
@@Cousinbiddy1 Why are y'all so dumb. "wElL iT dOeSn'T hApPeN tO mE". EXCEPTION DOES NOT MAKE A RULE! A RULE IS FOR MAJORITY NOT MINORITY. Try to learn this life lesson, you'll be able to see through a lot of BS.
It’s not fair
@@UltimateD755 it is fair , if ur too lazy to not work on ur self to look like a 10
It's not being lazy. You can't change your looks. If you're born ugly you're just gonna be alone for the rest of your life. It's the truth.
the amount of trust he has with that shirt
Is it bad
Those buttons are working overtime
If she's playing teenage games like this, then see the red flags and run
If she sees you’re wearing a shirt that’s too tight, she might think you’re a creep 😂
also being in your mid 40s-50s and making shorts about flirting with girls.
@@NotFamous-vm1is Two miserable losers up in the comments. ^
@@NotFamous-vm1is what ? there's an age ? to learn/teach to seduce women ?
Sometimes the only difference between being a "creep" and "not a creep" boils down to whether she finds you "hot" or "ugly"! 🤣🤣🤣
I disagree. It’s all about the internal mindset and how that comes across when you’re saying she’s attractive. Being direct is good and effective and saves you and her time also. A lot of women will think it’s weird that you’re not saying you think they’re attractive because they’ll wonder why you really came over to talk to them
And you want waste your time!
No u got it wrong my guy it's in woman's nature to chase and want what they can't have u yes they like directness but not in that way women are born into being told what they wanna hear simply because there girls there use to being told oh ur so beautiful oh ur so pretty oh ur this ur that so by the time a guy comes and tells her these things she may smile and say thank you but she going to be bored and not take the guy seriously because she now has nothing to chase so now u become beta simp number 589 because she hearing what she's heard her whole life versus a mf thsts comes and there and tells her uh idk your kinda ugly or back hand compliment her yeah ur pretty but yeah she'll get mad because ur shattering her ego but her female nature will love u for that because the fact that u had the confidence to say that to her means u have the confidence to go out in the world and serve as a proper protector, a woman when she walks in the room is looking for the strongest man in the room for protection that's ine of the main things women want is protection and if she spots any weakness in a man her respect she may have had for u is now gone women wanna chase u going in there saying she's pretty after she done heard that her whole life is boring to her
Never wear a shirt where your buttons are struggling to stay together.
Shiiiiiii, I liked it 🤷♀️
It's so freaking hard to flirt without conveying energy of a creep. Even though I'm off the market and have been for nearly a decade I can't help but remember when I was younger I was afraid to approach girls for that particular reason and I never had an incentive to make the first move for the fear of being rejected thus lacking confidence though when I would get compliments on my looks that would boost my confidence instantly. I also think to myself had I grown up in a different area/town I probably would have had much better odds.
well then you are, in fact a creep dude lol
The title should be more like: "How not to be a creep" No examples of how to do it were provided, only examples of what not to do.
Be goof looking is how not to be a creep
Haha nyce 1 mate I was gonna txt the same sh
Replace creep with Simp.
1. Be Handsome
2. Be rich
3. Be eloquent
If you aren't anything above then give up, you're wasting time and energy, work on yourself and your other goals, quality women who see your worth will come to you automatically.
I know I’m crying
This is not true for every girl. To every man trying to flirt with a girl please just do what feels most natural for you. Some girls like honesty and don’t want a game just an honest and kind man.
With this foolproof advice, even a 5'2 balding indian janitor can flirt with stacey and not be seen as a creep. Brilliant.
As if he doesn't already slip into her socmed DMs to ask for her "bobs and vagene" pics, while boasting that he's packing a "one foot pinus"! 🤣🤣🤣
Perfect advice bro! Also loved you in The Punisher
I's so glad someone said it 😂
I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking he looks like Jon Bernthal
Don't try this if you wanna stay out of jail. These mind games are not worth.
He's absolutely right and it's also why guys are way easier to understand than women. Imagine a guy being turned off because a woman called him hot.
These shorts are simply amazing. Very informative and straight to the point.
I go straight up and the girls lend me their things.
Being "creepy" is entirely in the eye of the beholder. What some girls find creepy, others find bold.
Don't worry about being "creepy".
"Hot" and "Ugly" is also often in the eye of the beholder as well! 😊
The guys who were confused, are still confused. Be confident, have a reason to talk to her that makes sense. Be present, pay attention to her tone, and body language, etc. This was not a very informative video. I pulled my hottest girlfriend, who moved in with me later just by asking her if you likes fun. My haircut was flawless, so was the way I was dressed, and wore my best smell good, I was also in pretty good shape. Make sure you look the part too. Game is not only what you say or don't say. If you are in shape, well groomed, well dressed, and smell good, the pressure for a flawless approach is not as much.
It doesn’t matter what u say , I’m sure if an attractive guy says hey beautiful ur so cute it will work 😂 it’s more of how you look /dress /behave making her want u
It absolutely matters. First impressions matter.
As a girl the first one isn’t always valid. My love language is words of affirmation so if you call me attractive I will not stop thinking about you and I will probably kiss you
You're attractive.
That depends on how attractive the guy is lol
You not kissing every guy that tells you youre pretty 😂😂
You're gullible af girl, you'll learn it the hard way lol
I used to be either totally afraid to flirt or be way too forward and creepy in a nervous way.
Thank you Punisher.
lol 😂
I cant believe the #1 search to how to talk is this
Thanks gigachad
I’m so glad Serj Tankian is teaching me how to pick up girls💀
This just literally happened to me with a girl who approached me. I was just there for business and not in the mood and felt forced to interact with her because she was gorgeous. That feeling forced came across and she got majorly turned off. They never approach when you are actually looking just when a chick is the least thing you are in the mood for
Only towards guys she's not attracted to. If you're attractive, you can tell her you just took a sh*t and she's gonna giggle and drop the digits. They don't like compliments from the "wrong" guy. They get offended if they're not attracted and they catch you glancing their way.
As long as the girl also like you, she won’t perceive that you are a creep
She still will get turned off if you act like a strangely.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive true, like maybe she'll think you're a serial killer or something if you're just very attractive but kind of off.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive Yes you are correct sir!
This is true, I compliment my GF all the time, I call her beautiful, sexy, pretty and she's fine with it. As long as you's have a strong love for each other, it shouldn't matter. Not all woman are the same. Sometimes you gottah stop watching these online videos and just live life as it is. Too much information and it just does your head in, you end up trying to be someone else you're not.
@@lakz_1844 My guy, she is your GIRLFRIEND. You don't need flirting advice for someone that already agrees to be with you lmao. This is por talking to people you don't know, that's the point. If she is your girlfriend and she thinks you are creepy for complimenting her, you are with the wrong person.
If you're not getting strong choosing signals, steer clear of her, and a sexual harassment charge.
Some women like a guy who is assertive and upfront
I don’t even know what to say after “hello”
sing this after "HELLO", "is it me you're looking for?
'Cause I wonder where you are and I wonder what you do
Are you somewhere feeling lonely or is someone loving you?
Tell me how to win your heart, for I haven't got a clue
But let me start by saying, I love you
I love you
I love you.." - by Lionel Ritchie
We live in one hell of a world when calling a woman beautiful is "creepy". 🙄
It’s only harassment if she doesn’t find you attractive
Right!?
Bro, just because you’re ugly doesn’t mean you can’t get an attractive girl or that she will see you as a creep. It’s simple men today don’t have game. There’s only 10-20% of men who are sexually active with women. At first yes it matters what you look like but if you’re an ugly dude and you’re funny, and you have game, you can still get a hot girl. Instead of whining about being a creep work on your game. Get to know yourself what qualities do you have that attract people to you?
Improve personality and expand your social circle even it was just 20% friends and 70% acquaintances until a woman will match for you
@@Chewbachi thank u for the advice Mr.Player guru
@@jaquanellis2534 nah y’all just love too whine because you don’t know hot to interact with the other gender
I love this. It gets weird when someone just says you’re beautiful, especially when they have nothing else to say. It usually ends with an awkward “thanks”.
Personally, I don’t think it matters much how attractive someone is. I’ll take personality over looks all day long, that’s what makes someone attractive to me.
Those buttons bout to flirt with flying to space
I hate games. I hate that men have to cater to women so much just to have a chance. I want a woman who is direct.
Creeps unite. We don’t play games
That under shirt is the real hero in this video
The real truth is if she has a chemistry with you, she will love the compliments. If she doesn’t have a chemistry with you even if you play your cards right , she will say your a nice guy but that’s it.
I just got the "forget it" mid flirt
Damn son! Although to be fair that might be nice because then you know you're just wasting your effort.
thats true. thats whay random weirdos in her DMs tell her
Including the world infamous "Bobs And Vagene" hunters! 🤣🤣🤣
I just like her a lot…she’s not a game to be played. I want to start taking care of her, being at her side, keeping her happy, letting her know how important she is.
The punisher giving flirting advice.
How to flirt with women: keep it mysterious, playful, imply she is hot without saying it, be creative, witty, funny, charming, etc...
How to flirt with men: open legs
This applies to all sexualities
99% of comments on insta-thots’ posts: “omg you’re so beautiful, blah blah….” Then those simps hope and prey the girl likes him back…Ha!
I never comment on them! I just like their sexxxy/near nude photos! If the Instahoes show pics of them with their "boyfriends", I purposely do NOT like those pics nor do I like pics of them wearing clothes and doing non-provocative stuff! They are just mere fap bait for me after all and should just stick with that! 🤣🤣🤣
Handsome guys can tell a girl she’s beautiful as the opener statement
Just be a winner and have money guys
If you’re a 8.5+ out of 10, all of your creepy flirting problems will be solved 😂
This actually makes a lot of sense. Basically beating around the bush is the way to flirt. Thanks man
Glad you found value.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive thanks for the help man. I just gotta remember to basically pull a fake-out move in order to keep her guessing
@@giyuutomioka6974 yeah, it almost seems counterintuitive or something, but when you tell somebody your intentions right off the bat, they just can't handle it for whatever reason. They are used to trying to have to figure out people's MO, so I think it really throws people off when you actually just state it outright like that and they can't handle it.
@@Squirrel-zq6oe Sometimes I meet girls and talk to them just for a few minutes, I start pointing to my lips and start making out. Only at night when I go out tho, I couldn’t believe it was so simple but U have to keep in mind that most of the girls want to be approached by guys in general, and somehow if u believe ur funny they will think that too
@@ht4373 haha right!? I feel that
The ones who were waiting for him to give us an example
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this is like taking advice from the guy on wolf of wall st. the drug dealer one
All of this doesn’t matter it works if they think you’re attractive also.
If you’re flirting for the sake of it, sure leave that out. If you are flirting with the intent of building it up to a date, sure leave that out… If you see a girl at the cafe and you want to spend the morning with her, you have to tell her you find her super attractive, you have to be straight up and ask what she’s up to for the rest of the morning, what you want and what you are proposing… you yourself will need to have your shit together as she is not gonna consider a romp in the sheets with a dude who does not attract her.
Be good looking and you won’t be a creep 😂🤦♂️
Excuse
nah good looking can still come out as creep
@@Christopher-ms5ke cope
Being confident inside matters much more than just being good looking.
all i hear is excuses
Alright,men it is then-
I completely agree with this. I much prefer a guy to show his interest rather than telling me what he thinks of my looks. It doesn't come across as being direct, it's being insincere. He's trying to win you over with compliments, but a man using his words and body language to express himself is always much more attractive. To the men who dispute this, young, immature women will accept less than ideal behaviour out of insecurity, but if you want a mature woman, she won't like this type of "directiveness."
ok i understand but with that being said look at the fine line us guys have to avoid from being a nice fine gentleman to a creep. that feels so unfair ngl... but it is what it is.
Nothing's creepier than being the guy who teaches people how to flirt
Lmao 😂
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fr and luck at this schmuck
you look like a rlly buff punisher LOL
Flirting is fun this way, i love it, definitely agree with this
That’s not flirting that’s just giving complements.
But if a guy doesn't come on strong enough the ball never gets rolling. As a guy your looks, money and status are what matters. You have the right looks and status you can say almost anything. If you don't look good you could talk perfectly and the women won't even give you a chance.
Should have given atleast one example..
Here are my real examples, czcams.com/video/yaz14BBV8-w/video.html. You can also learn more about how to flirt properly here, czcams.com/video/CamiYFrW7TY/video.html.
I said it just like you “hey beati-full, you so cu you so Beau Tee Fool” and she laughed and smiled and we both laughed. So really you can say anything just how you say it.
Thank you John bernthal. Much appreciated.
How to flirt well with a girl: be good looking 😂😂
Be handsome and tall then just talk normal
I’m attractive and many types of women are not interested in me
@@Cousinbiddy1 being above average is not good enough 😂. These days you gotta be super jacked and sexy to be considered "sort of attractive" to women lmao.
Ok, no hope for you then. Give up. 😂
@@Cousinbiddy1 these guys don’t want to listen to how they can improve. They just want to complain about women not wanting them or only wanting a certain type of man.
You should make a course on how to flirt for guys
Awesome tips! Keep calm, playful, build chemistry..
Thanks man, great results!
Don’t take advice from this guy… Women love when your forthright with them…. Yeah subtlety is good too but you’re not getting straight to the point. Women want a man with confidence. If you are too subtle she will friend-zone your ass. It’s better to take your shot than to be stuck there. At the very least you’ll know where you stand.
You won’t get friend zoned if you do it correctly. You should make it pretty obvious that you like her without just blatantly saying is. If you do it, trust me she will know, women are smart. Read how she responds, if she responds in a way that is going along with it that is a way of knowing you could maybe start being a little more direct until you get the number. If she doesn’t, move on. When you are so direct at the beginning you turn it into a numbers game, you will get rejected over and over again until you actually find a girl who won’t reject you. You can be as confident as you want, but if you haven’t built a rapport, then she will just reject you.
Jon berenthal?
Damn even i thought that 😂.
Lmaoooo
Jason momoa
In my personal experience as a girl, It depends if it comes off as sincere. If you just met and the first thing you say is “you’re pretty” than it seems like you just want something. If after gaining my trust and having some connection you say that, then it seems genuine and not like you’re trying to gain something from me.
I don't agree, I love it when a guy tells me straight away that he thinks im beautiful. Melts me, and my friends, every time.
Nah bro just nah. I’m not a ladies man but as someone newly engaged I can say that advice ain’t it. If you want to express how you view the woman you’re talking to just do it. Tell her whatever you want cause if you change the way you are and she falls for you then it’s not gonna matter because she wasn’t fond of you but the person you portrayed yourself as. Just be you and the right one will come up, don’t chase it tho.
Don’t have an ugly face and don’t be short.
yeah il try not to be short, totally try my best
Haha I know! What are those people going to do? They better make a lot of money I guess.
I don't flirt with girls I ask em out directly. I tell them straight up I suck up pick up lines but I would like to take them out. They agree and we go out and have fun, I don't need the flirt that's why I asked her out. It's annoying to me personally.
He's telling the truth. Your good looks won't save you if you're being needy. Women aren't attracted to that, handsome or not.
Women are less visual than men. Women don't care about good looks. They care about the way a guy carries himself, his vibe, his personality.
No 🤦. If you actually believe women don't care about looks or are less visual than men, I'm guessing you're at least an 8 or a 9. If you weren't then it would very clear to you how much they care about looks.
@@apachewraithThis is cope. If you simp, she will lose interest. No matter how good looking you are
so calling a girl beautiful is harassment ?😂
If you're harassing her, yes it's harassment.
@@BulldogMindsetArchivesaying it once isn't harassment
@@iiTzLurksthere’s nothing wrong with telling her how beautiful she is how is that being weird or creepy she’ll probably appreciate the compliment
It all depends on whether she finds you "hot" or "ugly" my friend! 🤣🤣🤣
I'm just going to remain single. This is getting way too complicated if we are being honest.
He is complicating things