3 Things To NEVER Do On a First Date
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Today, I'm gonna let you guys in on 3 of the most common mistakes I see guys make on the first date with a girl. And these 3 things are:
- Overdosing on compliments
- Spoiling her too quick on the first date
- Talking too much about yourself
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Wow. Karen. Your elbows are so smooth.
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Ha ha 😆
Smooth elbows are pretty nice tho
Or, wow Karen you have such amazing eyes I can actually see myself in them. 🤣
Yoooo wtf
Treat a girl like a celebrity she’ll treat you like a fan
Altimate Lad Gaming Genius. Just genius
Then treat her like a fan :P
@@davidlozano5047 genius at stealing people comment
Classic line honestly . Rings very true
If she breathes she a thot
1. Stop over-complimenting!
2. Spoiling her!
3. Talking about yourself!
It says on the description
bro if her name was Karen, it wasn't your fault
For sure😂
Indeed nigga
I want to like this comment but I don't wanna destroy the 69 balance
@@darkfire_5439
*Nice.*
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So basically don't be too much
Too much compliment
Too much gifts
Too much talk about yourself
DON'T be the Nice Guy
then how do i be the bad guy?
Flare X I'm the bald guy
Ian 9876 😂 I know what you doing here
Wow Karen, your skin is very clear. You must have a really great self care regimen.
Oooh, I like that phrase: if you put her on a pedestal, she’ll look down on you. #truth ✔️
And the other two are major turnoffs to high value girls. Key words: high value.
Great insights!
We call those type of people simps
God left me Unfinished amen 🙏🏽
Treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan
“I could tell she was getting creeped out but I couldn’t stop”
Same happened to me 😱 so awkward to think about my past dates
Omg 🤣
This channel is mad underrated, love it❤
compliment her hair while she's wear hijab.
*hol up*
Lmaooo
😂😂😂🤡
Great video. Someone who actually gives proper and non stale advices. Appreciate it man !
on the first date of me and your aunt Robin, I said "I think I'm in love with you"
😂😂😂 you're a legend
HIMYM
So ryan how do I get a girl to run away from me screaming?
That could work if said as a joke tho
While I agree with you that over complementing a girl is a turnoff, I disagree with the why behind it. Instead of weakness, girls often dont believe your being genuinely honest when complementing repeatedly. It often comes across as rehearsed like your reading from a script you made before the date. Or in certain cases it seems like your trying too hard and they lose the thrill of the hunt from the date if they know your already hooked on her
Thank you so much!! Honestly when I clicked on this video and watched the “pedestal” analogy was a realization i had to face the hard way and thanks to you bring this to the forefront of the video this made me a more aware individual so thank you for all the you do and keep it up! 👍🏾
Very good content. Nice tone. Keep it up. Like your videos. I get re enforcement from them form my dates. I try to reflect on what went wrong and seen your videos give me ideas on what to improve. On mistake for me was going to the dancing clubs in the first date, which I new nothing about, but me being me I accepted a challenge. So we went, first thing was it was loud, which made it extra hard to listen to her and second I new nothing about dancing 💃. But I tried but anybody whose been to a Latin clubs those dances are not joke. Also she saw friends there and that interfered with the date. But lesson learned take them out to a quiet place and something your familiar to.
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not quite there yet lmao
It actually is.
@@askerzie lmfao
Great Video as Always man!
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I just found your channel and I like it a lot thank you
Very useful things. Thanks!
It's greatly appreciated and it helps, age is not a barrier!
Enjoyable and informative.
the art is so cute! who draws it?
I'm digging the red vs blue profile. OG!
Bro you're brilliant
Wait! He can afford to go to Le Fancie??? Damn, he is balling!
Had to go back and see it ha...
Yes, a quite nice list not to do. I would like to add also a few points not to do on your first:
- Ask the waiter to split the bill without checking with your date.
- Pay the whole bill without checking with her whether you may pay it.
- End the evening expecting a kiss.
- Talk about money or your salary.
3 things TO DO on a first date:
1) Arrive in separate cars. Don't offer to pick her up. Instead have a destination in mind and a time in which you want her to be there.
2) Suggest paying the tab separately. If you insist on paying, have her take care of the tip.
3) Have the activities planned out ahead of time. Women like when a guy takes the initiative. Never say to her "Soooo....where do you wanna go?"
Why not pick her up?
It depends. If the woman is more of an avoidant and/or independent attachment type person, they often like being in more control.
I already fucked up step one 😂
Omg u so under rated
This is helpful as fudge
Definitely made the compliment mistake a few times...
You and me both
The money part is 1000%%% true and being too affectionate at first then not being affectionate anymore
Good job👍
Once she gets to know you more and there's no more mystery she'll probably dumb you for someone else
And that will happen after 3 months
Not always, a relationship is not if YOU are interesting but how well you get along together a relationship should be like 2 best friends in love.
"I really like this girl, her cute face, slim figure, bubbly personality...pretty much everything" yep thats it dude. A cute face and slim figure, and like...maybe their bubbly personality I guess, you really knew this girl and liked her.
Yeah, I don't know what he was thinking finding a girl physically attractive AND liking her as a person. To think people assumed Hitler was dead all these years...
I like the mystery part
Thanks Man For The Advice 10/10
Respect the drip Karen
As a girl, I approve this message.
You got a Crush on Karen? You have a cursed taste
90% of letting the girl talks sounds like a horribly unequal date
lol
she s not your friend
bruh...
in that, he means that you should be interested in da gurl & not talk ONLY bout urself
and as Dale Carnegie says: "to be interesting you must e genuinely interested in other people"
Believe me, it works very well. Women usually say far more words daily than men on average, so it's relatively natural. Also, it works as a measure of making sure she's constantly involved in working to get information from you (which women generally enjoy the process of), keeping a layer of mystery for you (which undoubtedly makes you more attractive), and is a good measure of making she's interested in you. A girl will talk to you a lot when she's comfortable with you.
On a side note: IMO, the first qualification for going out with a girl is her interest. Too many dudes will peruse women who barely give time to even begin listening to them.
He literally said to let the girl do 90% of the comment, the dude Wile didn’t misinterpret anything
that's why I fucked up myself everytime, too mmany stupid useless compliments.... thanks G
Ohhhh shitttt i just found the first thing is what i always fuck up with thankyou
keep in mind, i have never gone on a date, but with the first thing when he was complimenting to much, it just physically hurt
So... I never did the don't but I also partially did the do's...
Not all is lost I think
Can you make a video on how to ask a shy girl out? Pls
It isn’t about spoiling her, it’s about commitment to the relationship.
Wow Karen, you’re so amazing it’s like your a freaking goddess, I want to give you everythiiiiiiiing
after an hour I have a date and I'm watching this video just to make everything perfect and grate for her, I really hope everything will be okay
How it was
how was it
How'd it go? We wonder :)
Ok so I'm a girl watching this cause I was board anyways if I'm having to do 80% to 90% of the talking let's just say we aren't going to have much conversation. Thanks social anxiety
Honestly I feel a good 60-40 female to male ratio of talking or so works well. If I don't say much I'm probably not interested in you tbh lol
@@Ian-sm3su I agree. A more balanced out convo is definitely preferable (especially for those with social anxiety).
Nevermind
A girl followed me on ig a while ago, we didn't have any contact nor texting. Is it weird if I just ask her out? Like " Hey we've been following eachother for a while now so I was thinking we should find a day and meet, maybe hangout a lil bit and get to know eachother? " Something like that
Be sparing on the compliments. Easy.
Be sparing on financial goodies. I'm on SSI and make less than most people at McDonald's, so I doubt that would be a problem.
Let her talk the most or don't talk about yourself so much. There's not much I can think of to say about me, and I'm not accustomed to talking to other people anyway, so again....easy.
Hard part is finding someone who wants to get that far.
Just build up the confidence, understand that you are in control of your own life. Go out and just talk to people, you'll get there fam.
Building on the first tip, what do you do rather than compliment?
I’ve been on 4 and so far only one of them was bad
Pretty sure you made your friend up
Step one : get her to say yes
KAREN, FOR THE LOVE OF, SERIOUSLY KAREN
I would like her to do 80-90% of the talking, but when I got to know her outside of the planned first date, she didn't talk too much and it caused some awkward silence.
So I thought I should talk more in the first date, to not let the awkward silence happen, but now you say I shouldn't talk so much. What shall I do then?
Don’t date?
Man you told the obvious 😂
Getting a girl to do 80 to 90% of the talking is very hard if they can't carry a conversation and are dull
I actually don't think that is the best advice; or at least on the surface level. I do think you should listen more and ask more questions and be a better listener if you're the one chasing but sometimes there has to be some sort of incentive/question/topic to really bring someone out of their shell. A topic related to your life may inspire the other person to bring up something about theirs but yeah, questions is probably how you do it.
Yes you are right man it’s hard with shy dull girls
Good thing I didn't do any of this... but be honest I didn't make this mistakes, but what I did was say something awful. Is there anyway I can speak with you?
I dated a girl twice botched both, and she seem losing interest in me. How do I salvage this?
I cant even get a date anyway
Oh I've been good then lol
azertyyy
BRO GIRLS GOTTA DO SOMETHING TOO WTF IS THIS IM SAF
The compliments thing has too much and ya saying em too often
He literally said that
Wow Karen
She didnt like your compliments because they were obviously fake and sugarcoated. Being fake makes you seem unreliable and unpredictable, and doesnt make you a likeable person.
Help me what should I do to revert a friend zone and get the girl I like to stop kissing and f**king others and pay attention to me and start dating with me, and start being girlfriend and boyfriend?
Just move on buddy, I know it sounds impossible right now but at the very least consider that option.
If you start to throw so many nice comments to ANYONE (male or female) you make it sound like you're worshipping them which makes everyone uncomfortable.
This has happened to me only while extremely drunk a few times...
I would reccomand every guy watch Craig Ferguson flirt a bit.
Never compliment a girl for what she didn't work her Ash off.
so go to a quite cheap place. stop talking to be mysterious and complement her once . got it
At the beginning you were definitely acting strangely, it's uncomfortable and it looks creepy. It's not showing weakness or putting her on a pedestal it's discomfort.
Tip number one: NEVER date a Karen
Dating is too much now days. Plus you have to be good enough to even have a girl interested to date you in the first place. Forever alone here I come old friend.
1. I never compliment anyone
2. I am poor
3. I have nothing to showoff..
Wow Karen