7 Tricks To Get Girls To Approach YOU!
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Better tips:
1. Look good
2. Be attractive
3. Have abs
4. Have glutes
5. Be handsome
6. Be attractive
7. Don’t talk about fight club
Dude! First rule...😂
1. be attractive.
2. don't be unattractive.
It's especially easy if you won genetic lottery. Otherwise you will need much more exercise and throw lots of $ on surgeries and stuff lol. And even then the effect is not 100% foolproof, because if you won't have the game, it will be for nothing anyway.
be anoob already just stop ur bs
Dude it doesn’t matter if your attractive and muscular. I go to the gym daily and am pretty fit but I am still shy as hell around girls and people who aren’t in my group of friends in general.
@@joeyhammer6702 Btw a quick tip dont tell anyone ur a virgin they will use it as an ego boost if u say yes and look aesthetically attractive. They want power over u
Me when a girl is approaching me: "Hoh, so you're approaching me?.."
Максим Важов girl: I cant reject you properly without getting close
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1) fashion,fitness and grooming
2) piercing smile, eye contact
3) social orbiter
4) good in your craft
5)
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5. Giving value
6. Be a leader
7. Wave priciple
4) good in MINECRAFT
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5) Have a car and drivers licence and become the ultimate free uber experience
6) Be a provider ready for a family
7) Sacrifice everything for the soul purpose of reproduction and watch as all your efforts mean fuck all as you watch all of her attention go to your kids and you realise you are no longer number one but for some reason remain faithful
8) Neck myself after 40 years of suffering and realising I could of been happy alone and regret not appreciating Dan Bilzarians lifestyle choices.
Your awesome bro, your not just giving, advice on how to get girls, your giving advice on how to, change as a person in general, and become more, healthier, good looking, confident, talented, and everything, your videos are appreciated bro👍👍👍
I appreciate that mate
Tbh i think that you should not work out and try to be better looking for other people and that the chance girls approach you increases.
Work out and be healthy for yourself, so you teach yourself selflove aswell
And he’s doing it for free what a great guy actually. not like these others out there
Yea for $75 an hour
First time I’ve put all these self improvement and dating advice vids into practise. Not focused on women’s bodies haven’t fapped in months eating the best I’ve ever done workout every day without fail reduced social media and it’s all coming together. I feel great no matter what people think of me and that is the key to personal happiness. No one gets anywhere by doing what other people want them to do. Go against the grain and level up. Take action and you’ll go somewhere
Action is numero uno
Talks can be all blatant
Walk the talk, big difference in knowing the path, or walking the path
You said it right my friend
Regarding fitness, I’d say cut back on carbs rather than fat. Just get the fat from healthy fats instead of junk food.
Really depends on your training style, your body may actually need more carbs
I agree
Processed sugar rather than fat
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Attempt 1 at the Gym
Me: Eye contact, Smile + Nod
Gym Girl: (What the fuck do you want?) face
Me: Thumbs up myself mentally and walk away
Attempt 2 after a night of convincing myself I don't need a woman and I'm happy by myself
Me: Focusing on me and giving her zero attention because I genuinely don't give a fuck and the heavy metal and coffee is hitting just right making me enjoy my work out
Gym Girl: Doing her exercises right next to me, specifically squatting trying to get my attention.
Me: Ignoring all of her attempts walking away and making sure she understands I really don't give a fuck.
Gym Girl: Strategically bumps into me and asks what muscle group I'm doing today to spark up conversation.
Long story short they are all fucking crazy and once I emptied my balls I quickly realised and found a new appreciation for my bachelor lifestyle and genuinely love being alone free of nagging, judgment and having to deal with emotional stress like no other. If you really want one so bad its like $100+ roughly to get laid and then once your penis is satisfied go and make something of yourself. Live your dream, buy a fleshlight, make a sandwich I dunno just stop watching videos on how to give women so much power.
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It's certainly better to try bonding over some mutual interest, the cold approach to unknown girl on a street won't work. It's exactly what it says, a cold approach. It's like a beggar who comes and asks for a spare coin. It might also say "does he really know nobody that he has to hit on random people?", it looks like desperation.
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@@masterexploder9668 I think the same way bro! It's like I'm doing too much or being desperate, I prefer a woman to look at me then I'll approach
Imagine you’re a guy in a room and every other guy is trying to be the social orbiter...
be the opposite like Einstein once said: "just be better" (idk if this is true tho)
Operative word, “trying”...
7 Tricks To Get Girls To Approach YOU!
00:39 #1 good fashion, fitness, grooming
02:10 #2 a piercing smile
03:37 #3 be the social orbiter
04:39 #4 displaying competence
05:51 #5 giving value (to benefit another)
07:07 #6 be a leader
09:08 #7 the wave principal (compliment and move on)
Your art goes wildly unappreciated! I absolutely love the drawing/animation
You are among the best channels out there about dating. Most other guys have an aura of arrogance around them. You, however, seem to have a much more controlled and safe view when it comes to dating.
Keep going man!
I like that point of showing something you’re good at, to show you know how to follow through w something and don’t quit. 👍 Good point man
I’ve watch bunch of your videos and got so confident to the point where I can ask my teacher out
Bruh, I remember that episode for that specific reason. It's so cool to see you use it as an example in videos like this. Drake & Josh is the shit!
i tried the wave principal when i was in highschool and i want to add something. You said everything right here but it only works if you have the FFG and ,if you know the girl like from your school, a good first impression.
when a girls approaches you:
a surprise to be sure, but a welcome one
"Foolish...but welcomed"
"Twice the pride, double the fall"
I grinned and she called the police. SMH
In the animal world, flashing your teeth is a threat, not an invitation 😂
Great video man and i'm gonna use the pdf ofc. Thank you!
My reaction when I read the title:
Is it possible to learn this power?
Not from a Simp Boy
You're doin' a great job! Your suggestions are really cool and may save some people before doin' something wrong....thanks! And keep on giving us suggestions on these kinda things!!!!
Damn this video just made me feel better
By far, one of the best dating/life advice channel for men. Keep it up bro 👌🏼
you putting alot of effort in these videos man, thanks
U picked the right subject✌🏾
None of these points would work in 99% of cities in Russia though, except maybe for the 3rd point about a social orbiter, but even in this case, it will work only on rare occasions.
In fact, during the last several years this only happened to me once that a girl whom I didn't know approached me on a social event. She noticed me being in the center of attention and, hearing that I was talking in English, she thought I was a foreigner and was so excited to introduce herself that she immediately hugged me even before asking my name, lol.
In Russia, 99% of girls always wait for you to act. I used to be very depressed during my school years thinking girls never approached me because they didn't like me but now I know that here a man should approach, not a woman. In Russia, a girl can like you very much but she will very rarely show it, so it is always on you to make the first move.
In countries where there's still a very traditional culture with strong gender roles, it is expected for the man to be the one making the first move always, starting conversations, asking for dates or flirting, most of the time the man should do that. Girls just wait for the best option to come around and is usually the interesting, misterious, strong, confident guy who doesn't care too much about stuff the one that gets their attention.
It's a eastern european thing in general I think. I'm from a post-soviet country and I agree that girls are less pro-active here. Still, if you're a social orbiter or act as a leader, they will give you hints and signals, just in a more subtle way.
@@Cooltural i will approach woman only when i am very good looking and i won't waste more than a second dhe says No
I thought in Russia, approaching girl is same like here in Bulgaria.
Buy alcohole for her and she will love you :D
@@teodortodorov1662 🤣🤣
Be the social orbiter
Me as someone who's antisocial: *hisses like a demon at a crucifix*
Yes i feel that 😂😂👍
Man this really works! You deserve way more subscribers!
Appreciate it mate!
Amazing dude! Thanks so much for this.
To all my little brothers watching this video. All these points are actual good valid advice. A lot of your ability to speak to women is in how you are perceived by others within the same social group. The shiny toy always gets picked up. If anything remember that. Be polished, have value, and be positive. If you shine in a dark crowded room, guess what, they notice you.
It also depends on the type of girl and what floats your boat in a relationship. For example I don't dig the mainstream girl. Specifically the girly girl to be exact. Each time i've been friends with girly girls it never works out. We have nothing in common so all there is basically is just small talk. Sure while they maybe pretty in all good hygiene alone isn't gonna cut it for me. I want to date a girl who I can actually relate to. That's where the tomboy comes in. I've found tomboys much easier to talk to and have conversations with because since they enjoy pretty much all of the same activities I do I never have to worry about being bored. To be exact I want a girl who shares common interests with me and doesn't necessarily dress up in guy's clothes but in a more practical way. Basically a girl who's feminine without all the work just like me. I'm conscious about my health but I'm not a high maintenance predominate in that I don't need six pack abs or a full grown beard and mustache to be a man.
I remember that drake and josh episode like it was yesterday always a good recall I'm like Josh and brother is like drake
To expand on the “reduce fat intake”. The right fats (monounsaturated/polyunsaturated fats and, to some extent, saturated fat) are okay to take in. The only reason to not go crazy with fat intake is they are higher in calories than carbs and proteins (9 calories/gram). Basically, Your body needs fats for proper function so we should have a proper intake of nutritious fats. But, the only fat we should never intake is trans fats. The only way to lose weight, my friends, is a caloric deficit.
That said, great video, my guy.👍🏼
Bro these are all good and on point!!!
You just got a new subscriber…
Keep up the good work
Nice counsel brother, keep it up!
Your thumbnails are always too cute that I can't resist clicking
I highly recommend learning color theory and match your skin tone to your clothing. You could be shopping at walmart but look super snazzy when you match your skin tone and clothing colors.
Great educational video, I learned a lot, thanks!
Glad to hear it!
Ohh god why you give me this channel so late, gave me when I was 15
Last tip is the most powerful
You should cut down your processed sugar intake rather than fat.
My ex approached me by getting my number through our friend and then texting me. How I made her attracted to me without noticing her first without noticing myself is something that I probably won't ever know. I never dated anyone in high school since I was shy, sometimes funny, and I felt neglected since every girl I liked never liked me back. Meanwhile this girl was the complete opposite, to being probably THE most popular girl from a really expensive private school. When she said that she thought that I was "hot", I thought I was either dreaming or thinking she was blind😅.
The last one is a bam 💥 👍🏽🇯🇲
Great content ❤️🔥
Thanks bruh! I like all of your videos, keep up a good work bruh!👌
Appreciate it
A one-hour ad came up and it was on the same topic making your 10min video feeling like the ad.
I am an introvert, very quiet, only speak if spoken to, training in martial all my life, and I really crafty when it comes to writing poems. One thing would try out to see how a smile and eye contact will work in a setting. It's very hard to figure out what women what's in their minds which you be attracted to and want to approach. The things that be on many men's minds be are: Is the woman have another guy on her mind that she is interested in, not want to give the man a chance to talk to her if she is into men at all with this new age, will they call the police on men they feel are not the best looking, the me-too movements, and if she is not interested in you. Those are some of the thoughts and the reason why men do not have the confidence to approach women. Plus you have the really stunning women out there that all the men want but can never get because those types of women can see through a lot of the men's efforts, pick up lines, never chase you because they are ones that see-through men's true colors no matter how you try to hide what you want they all know. Thanks for the upload The Gentlemens" Game can not wait to see more of your videos Keep up the good work and Happy 2021.
The only thing this vid taught me if ur not attractive then use that disadvantage to work a bit on urself physically and have ur mental side (being funny, confident etc) as ur main weapon of choice
So lets make it simple for the dummies
-if ur ugly get funny (and confident)
-personality is the cake and fashion, fitness and grooming are just icing on the cake
I thought i was the only guy that remember the scene!!!!
Thanks!! man
bro u the best thanks so much u have no clue how much
u helped me out
Glad I could help
Dude, I thought I was the only one who still thinks about that drake and josh scene to this day! It's been stuck. Glad
7:35 Being introvert doesn't mean we lack communication or leadership skills. You're making people misunderstood more and more about the term than they already did with your assumption. Plus being a "hey dude" or "the guy who knows everyone in the room" doesn't necessarily get you girls, some girls are just crazy about those guys who sit in the corner and saying nothing. It's about personal taste. BE WHO YOU ARE AND IF SHE'S NOT INTO IT ? IT'S FUCKING OKAY AND MOVE ON.
You shouldn’t be ashamed of being an introvert but enjoy being single 😅 I hate being an introvert sometimes
Me: looks at girl
She:looks back
Me:Smiles
Face mask: Nope!
Nice thumbnail, good vid
Legit, this tips feel golden - I can feel that this sorta person is someone I'd like to know. You might still have to approach a girl, it can be intimidating to approach someone who's popular and really a likeable person, especially if they're attractive and you're developing a crush on them, and girls aren't typically conditioned to approach other people with romantic intent (tbis is a problem in lesbian spheres), all of that none-the-less, just doing these things makes you really attractive, in many ways, and, if you follow up on your oppurtunities, and learn how to try to pick up on other people's social cues, and especially how to ask, you will get a lotta good people around you, interacting, and developing strong relationships, of all sorts, with you.
Point 4 catches my attention, because if I consider myself competent to do something, it is to observe, simply OBSERVE (remain still and quiet, paying attention to the moment) ... And that nonsense (if it can be considered "competence") seems get the attention of some women. To me, it's strange (well, actually, awesome).
The last one is very powerful
I loves gentlemen game because he's not trying to sell me something, he's really making youtube vids for young men
not sure why this was in my recommended but I gotta say one thing
I do most of these things because I care about my health, like to excel and because being a good person is free but I don't know how to feel about someone calling these things "tricks" to get girls; especially when its about looking out for yourself and being a good person towards others
get fit for you, be good at what you do for you and be nice to others because theres no logical reason not to be
doing these things in mind with getting girls will make them rather hollow and unfulfilling even more so if it doesn't work to attract someone towards you
the smiling and confidence is a good one tho
do a dedicated one on fitness esp woth lockdown now
The very video i need to watch
Informative....
Gold video brother
the smiling and head knoding works no bullshit i tried it in my school
The best way is just focused on you don’t focused on women and trying to grab there attention especially if you’re a shy person trust me focused on you , your mentality , your style , get in shape etc , trust the women will come
Imagine youre in a room where everyone tries to become a leader
Then you're the one not giving a fuck and doing your own thing.
Yes. I've been in rooms like that where people are competing to be the loudest, interrupting each other and it's just tiring. I usually go meet new people then.
Might I make a suggestion. In the midst of global health crisis could you go deeper into the online dating world. I enjoyed the video about tinder. How about advise on vitural dates during a video. I would love to see your perspective on this topic.
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9:15 OH... MY.... Godd.. Drake and Josh!! I just rewatched that this week
honestly when a girl approaches me i think "what is she doing like she's so desperate for a guy that she is talking to me?"
Damn right
The Game is still the same. The same rules still apply. We just play a weeny bit differently.
damn this is a strong video
holy moly this episode if drake and josh is also in my mind always! but are you sure it really works???
Damnnnnnn , those are some good looking unibrows
Drake and Josh. I Always watched tis.
Im from Belgium and from 2002.
Great Show back then.
I love the drake and josh tip!
when you catch eyes with someone attractive, it’s better to smile after you look away. You don’t have to move your head, only your eyes. This subconsciously let’s the other person know you enjoyed that. The smiling nod can work, but can come off as creepy to some people if you hold eye contact too long. It depends on your personality, what the moment calls for, and the distance you are from the person.
Loved Drake and Josh. Also remember that episode. "WHAT ARE YOU SOME KIND OF WIZARD!!"
*get a good haircut* - hmm, not when the hair salons are closed. a DIY buzz then? lol
That's what I've been doing lol. I've gotten pretty good too!
My piercing smile behind my mask doesn't work so well.
I can only mumble when a girl approches me
#7 @ 9:09 seems to be my favorite
If eye contact happens just go to her and say hey I just show you and I feel that I should talk to you and say hi to you and shake her hand simple pick up skill or communication opener whatever you can call this. If her attitude is good than ask her number by saying I am in a hurry I'd love to know you more.. case close.move on and call her after a day simple...
Yeah it's more comfortable than smiling+nodding. It works most of the time
Nah give your number to the girl, if you want a girl to approach you. It weeds out the girls who are potential time wasters. If she’s interested she’ll message you and won’t feel the pressure of giving out her number
Guys I need help cuz my crush is actually a pretty shy person and she doesn't have any close guy friends so it's kind of hard for her to form a bond with me. What should I do?
@@dan182v Give/send her a paper note, where You'll write that You would like to know her better, also add that if she's interested in knowing You better too, she can meet up with You somewhere and sometime (write exact place, date and time) or if she's too shy to meet in person, write Your mobile number, so she can text You, if she's interested in knowing You better :)
@@T0pMan15 yes, a great alternative, however an easy cop out too. By offering your number, hou save yourself the rejection of her not giving you hers if you ask, but by asking for her number, even if she rejects you, you walk away a better man, for taking the initial risk.
Am under going a situation were by she has given mi her contact and she wants me to be her friend and yet I hv feelings for her.plz help me and what should I do
Tell them you love them that is it
the message: not be yourself
And me watching this with a social anxiety.. 🙄
7:30 what about people that are neither leaders nor followers? They are rebels, misfits, outliers.
Good tips 👍🏻
I've been able to make a girl approach me. She started to teasing me. But I didn't know what to do next.
You don't need to know what to do next. Go with the flow so to speak.
Buy a rubber
Basically just focus on your self till a girl notices you doing good
1:42 promoting Tesla 😂😂
No 3 and 6 is kinda difficult for an Introvert!
Is this another channel of improvement pill
Nope, we are friends but not the same person
Whole life i was like a darkness, trust me nobody loves darkness even if they pretend they are kind of nyctophile.
Was skeptical about this channel, but then he brought up THAT drake and josh scene
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....my boy.
I find it really interesting how women's and men's self improvement channels seem to have the same tactics. For example, getting sole is a female topic now because of getting slim-thick. I actually find it funny though that women's channels seem to be more scientific, even though they talk about the same thing. I would think guys would get a lot of value watching female led channels, as well as learn all their secrets. If I were a guy, I would 100% be doing this.
As a dude, I've watched the "How to get men" videos and womens advice on how men should go about getting a women and it really just comes down to, do I like you enough to see a future with you if so then I'll make the effort to make it work naturally. If not I'll continue working on myself until I find what I'm looking for. If she is the ying to your yang it'll work. All these tactics work on getting to pound town but finding a solid person to spend the majority of your life with, that takes a certain level of just being yourself, being vulnerable and letting someone in even it means you may get hurt. Imo it just comes down to do you love yourself enough to take a leap of faith and potentially burn a percentage of a precious resource called time and may have to start all over from scratch if the shit hits the fan. Simply put, self love and resilience.
@@BrentWood007 100%
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Tip 2- yesterday, i walked to a girl and try to talk to her in the gym but she wasn't really interested in me so do I maybe need to train harder???🤨
try someone else. you cant just say that no girl likes you if only 1 girl says no.
do keep training though. it will only get better and better.
no guarantees on this advice though. i just cant get enough strength to talk to a girl.
no..every girl likes other types of boys or she was busy..