How To Respond To a Girl's Texts (THESE are The 4 Types of Texts She'll Send)
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This is episode 2 of my 4 part series on texting girls. In this video, we'll go over the 4 Types of Texts that a girl normally sends, which are: Ignoring, Testing, Friendly/Logical, and Positive. We'll learn how to tell where you are in the interaction based on which type of text she's sending you, and then how to respond to each type of text to steer the conversation towards positive.
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I failed at “when a girl text you” smh 💀
SlimyTrex Yeet "Mission Failed will get em next time"
I failed at having a girl on a messaging platform
Run
Run and hude
Same lol. lonely life 💪😎
I failed smh
how to response to a boy's text
step 1: just answer
thnx for watching guys!
Is it that easy?
@@evelieningels9408 idk never had a girl text me before
Mr_Baksteen _HD lmao
just reply
hmm
Truee
Boys, find yourself a girl who doesn’t play games like this.
Scott English peepee poopoo
Scott English my crush never responds to me and pisses me off, but i never tell her
your thinking of a man
Poo poo pee dum dum
All women will test you! It’s just nature 🤷♂️
Pre-step: Have a girl that is texting you
Which I don't have
Fuck my life
Dude. Like WTF? You are lacking girl in your life. But not any particular girl? It's not because you can talk for hours. It's not because she understands you like nobody else. You just want any human with vagina. And that's why they don't want to talk with you.
Theses responses are halarious
im having some difficulities, deffinetly the hardest step
@@tomaszgolinski1689 i have a girl texting me and i dont have a type if they look good and have a good personality then we can date
Girl: Ignores me
Me: Dates her sister
Girl: what about me
Checkmate
@Ahh Ayy Boy: What ABOUT you?
@@Black_Knight_-BK- *Mission accomplished. Chad level: 6900*
@@ZealousWins ITS OVER 9000!!!!!!!!!
Dayum💀
We really do be putting this work in just for a girl to like us don't we
okay just a lil update: I don't exactly remember the time I wrote this but I'm pretty sure it was the time I was speaking to a lot of girls
Fucked up many opportunities or just straight up refused to do anything with the'm because I didn't want to at the time. And that's basically it, haven't had anything happen since then :')
update 2: basically found out my crush liked me,we went on a date,I was feeling emotionally unavailable for some reason and it was obvious but instead of telling her I just seemed like an uninterested dickhead. Rejected a few girls I didn't like as well so I'm basically on the same spot I was one year ago with a little more experience maybe
@@sarahkhan07859 bisexual or bitch
@@levievieuwu7919 lmao💀💀
LeviEvie UwU 😂😂😂💀💀💀dammmm fuck it maybe the ex put in alot of work to get this person imprinted
Yes. At what point do "we" realize it's all bullsh*t?
@@hombreenojado lol just be the bull
bro did i really find this video after 4 missed shots
Isaiah felt this so hard xD
Well now you know for shot number 5
Same
Lmao
Shots?
6:00
-me holding nerf gun to my head
-also me “hey girl wanna go out”
-her “no”
-ME PULLING TRIGGER
Weirdo. Enjoy your right hand
@Paul Rodriguez remember do not hesitate to pull the trigger no matter the outcome
@@CardboardRyan Ah yes, woooosh
@@pawanrohidas1163 bro what💀
@@pawanrohidas1163 good advice. Respect to this genius right here
4 Types:
1. Ignoring
2. Testing
3. Friendly/Logical
3,5. Positive and friendly
4. Positive
How to respond:
1. Funny and engaging, without asking for anything in return (e.g. joke)
2. Exaggeration,don't be too serious, just pass the test (e.g. sarcasm)
3. Playful flirting (e.g. cheekiness)
3,5. Treat it like it's positive
4. Start making plans to meet up (e.g. concerts)
🐐🙏🏼
Thanks
Why you telling us how we have to be. Just be yourself..
If you are never serious she wont tell you anything to personal tbh
You are right thanks
Imagine being on the positive texts but she got a boyfriend... (and keeps talking to me the same way)
Am I allowed to laugh?
She's either gonna friendzone or gonna cheat
I have this we just jokingly flirt. She probs wanna cheat but I ain't gonna do a man like that even if he talks to her like once a week. I'm pretty sure Ik more abt her than her bf anorl lmfao.
kzip247 do em like that
Become the side nigga
Same here. Pretty much bs how girls play with our minds
Ha bold of you to assume a girl would be texting me...
One day man 👊
Ethan D. Don’t do that... don’t give me hope
@@marcorichterdemedeiros9469 I believe in you 🙏 you've got this
Ethan D. That’s what we call false advertising
There was this girl who actually I wasn’t really interested, because we didn’t know each other, and she just slides into my dm’s and we started talking lol
Mom: *TEXTS*
Me: What kind of text is this
Wutttttttttt. You had us in the first half ngl
“I know a thing or two cause I seen a thing or two” ~ The Gentleman
Same
This is the stuff they should be teaching in school
Underrated comment
yeah ok
no it's fucking not
@@issam5000 yes it fucking is
@@issam5000 this stuff is more useful than half the shit i was taught - I would take 4 years of this over 4 years of french (which i was forced to take btw)
I know she’s interested. Because she has said it. But all she does is give me dry ass replies like ‘lol’ ‘yeah it was good’ I really don’t know how to respond. :/
Ben Dover actions talk louder
I got the same response everytime I text her.
If she comes off as harsh or too dry just say something like, yeah I’m gonna go do (so and so).
See if she’ll text you on her own. If she texts you later herself then you’re all good hopefully she opens up. Try to seem uninterested without being rude. Make it seem like you’ve got better things to do than wasting time with her. Don’t get offended or overreact to anything she says. If she takes 5 mins to respond take 5 mins if she takes 20 take 10-15 if she takes an hour take 30-45 if she takes 2-3 hours take 1-2 hours if she takes more than a day or few I’d say move on because she’s not worth that long of a wait you could find better
If not the second thing I’d try to do is joke a little bit to get her say more than lol. After that I’d get annoyed and just flat out ask her why she’s being so dry if she’s interested 😂 flat out asking her is sort of my last resort option because I couldn’t care if she’s interested or not at that point I just want to know why she’s being dry
Another thing, try to flip the script and ask her questions about things she’s doing. If you talk and talk yourself she’ll become annoyed just listening and maybe dry. Make her do most of the talking without her knowing she’s doing it
lol
Ben Dover 👌
Girls:i want to play games
JigSaw:aww shitt
AYYYEEEEE
You don't really need to follow these rules. Be yourself and don't ever expect a girl to like you.
"Don't ever live your life to find a girl, live your life by doing what you enjoy and you'll eventually find a girl that enjoys doing the same things. Then after that, ask her out."
-unknown
That's a priceless wisdom
Damn....don’t leave us
A Man of culture right here
"Be yourself" Stop with the bullshit, instead be the best version of yourself everyday, not just be yourself
@@sgrodoloxus9264 its still being yourself youre not acting like someone youre not
Fun fact: I went through all stages but in reverse
same
Same here. And like barely 2 weeks before lockdown ended, it was all over.... farking sad. First girl I REALLY clicked with too 😔 😟
I got game in person, but am pretty floppy when it comes to texting.
the less is better in my experience
And I still dont know how to respond to the dry ass response "hey"
If she's reaching out then it probably means she's already into you. Don't overthink it and keep it casual and fun
@@thegentlemensgame but that doesn't really give an explanation to respond to "hey" what am I supposed to say
The Gentlemen's Game you’re telling him if she reaches out but you’re not giving him the ammunition to shoot her back with.
You’re giving him a cap gun with cap gun ammo that isn’t shooting shit.
Give him examples of things he should say or examples of how to converse.
Dude i loved cap guns when i was 7! But yeah it sucked they didn't shoot shit.
Maybe we should use the same techniques on the gentlemen’s game to see if he can give you a response ;D
This helps me understand a little now
But it seems like the girl I'm texting does all 4 categories 🤣🤣😔
I ended being too nice and got friend zoned
Dq Arts just say I think you are cute then wait for her if she chases after you she likes you
Friend zone is a mind makeup think you can still get her as long as you have a penis.
simple thing is you gotta tease her
just don't do a friend is suppose to do.
same shit bro
I had a friend zone friend and got to hit it. Just tease her. It really was the last thing I expected but it just happened lol
Dq Arts too nice is just an excuse pal. She’s just saying that ur boring. Make jokes at her expense every once in a while lmao (obviously nothing serious, like if she does something dumb then tease her about it, don’t make fun of her appearance lmao)
I'm such an introvert that a girl just texted me first, my heart just dropped.
@Udith Arora bro don,t rush it
@Udith Arora yo. Relax. If a girl gets a feeling you're desperate. Then that means it game over.
Lol
Ok
Smh
Lmao
K
😂
This is what kills every text conversation
True
And haha
The ultimate killer: "huh".
@@Frank-el2wf ask a question for example: her favorite food
And tease her about it somehow
If each Time she overreact when a other girl is mentioned but still says she's not into me is that the test phase
yes
Nah homie, that's when you run the other direction. And fast too.
Jaye Hughes 😂😂 so true
Shes possessive stay the fuck away from that girl
Your advises are godly.. u r just gold. Thanks man. Keep doing the good work
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Great video and i agree with all points. I like the idea of asking her questions about a date to feel it out, going to use that next time instead of just asking her out after a positive texts. I kept doing that and it would work like 50/50 because I think it would just surprise the girl and she would get nervous and overthink and start asking a bunch of questions... Good call man
Jay Cobarrubias 🔥
This boy straight up called at 9pm (hasn’t even texted me before). Since my mom had taken my phone earlier, she answered.
"Awh you wanna meet my parents already"
I hope he thought your mom was you :)
Rachel Ouk 👌
Damn thanks CZcams for recommending this. Actually need it
She now sends me so many lols and lmaos now. She has opened up to me.
Why am I watching this I don't get texts
TheGamingBasil message a random girl, and try go from phase 1-4 if it doesn’t workout find another girl
@@smitty4483 that's mean if u don't like her...
luluwaza YT pretty sure they mean text a random girl that you think is cute, obviously
@@TheGamingAaron yeah, but if u don't like em it'sk inda mean imo
luluwaza YT but isn’t thinking they are cute technically liking them tho? Obviously I wouldn’t do it to a random girl I had to interest in
The gentleman’s game it’s just like chess
😎😎 I appreciate your time and
effort into this generous information! your thoughts and advice are to
be heeded.
im a girl! this guys is right. the worst thing a guy can do is see us being positive (aka US HINTING WE LIKE YOU) and you not making a move and being sweet right back! so do it
When you are in the positive part you can even start being aloof / distant or using Push / pull for making her chase you.
Nah don't
maxime demars definitely do not do that
@@TheCreator1875
Love isn't a fucking game, but if one is playing then don't be surprised when there's two.
Engaging in behavior like that, while manipulative, is a way to test the mettle of the interest you've built up with her. So far, it's obvious that the guy is doing all the legwork here. Turning the tables and letting her put in the effort for a change demonstrates the capability that you two can form a mutual bond.
Video: Have you ever received a text from a girl you like and you didn’t know how to respond
Me: No
Wow, you must be very good at this stuff then, what are you doing on this video bro 😂
Clearly you know how to respond to every message, right?
what happens if she's in three stages at once? (One word text, Testing, and Friendly)...
If she is friendly then start to flirt a bit and then take out attention and show her that you have a world outside her logistics
Omg it worked man! Thanx and keep up the good work.🙏🙏🙏
Thanks man for uploading
Sucks that I'm that far off my game that I gotta seek to improve consuming content like this...seems effective...logical.. so thumbs up and subscribed bro...🤙
It's how it is. Everyone has said for YEARS that tall, good looking guys with money get women. Yet all those things have done NOTHING for me. I have zero game except the ability to avoid the crap girls who are interested in me.
Idk why I’m watching this, women don’t text me
I was not searching for this, but hey not gonna waste this opportunity
So many videos now a days to help people to understand and how to mange it.
Just wish cd have had this 14 years before and I cd have saved my life from disaster.
All I can say be careful and be happy in life.
Wish no one should suffer and think every moment life being in pain forever.
I found u on Reddit... And your content is awesome
The problem I have is that we both like each other but I'm scared. Relationships r too much stress
Facts
nah dawg you had me at "asking her out"
this is a powerful guide
One girl usually rejects me, but invites me to groups and maybe comes if I invite other people too (like 50% of the times). Her typical answers are: "Sorry, but I'll be with my friend on that day" "Sorry, I won't be home" or... "Of course I'll go". It's hard for a guy who was insecure in his whole life... But I'm learning and changing.
She may really be busy... Once she said, I should invite her at least a week earlier. So I'll do that. But I also think she don't want our meeting to be viewed as a date, even though we spent a lot of time alone "accidentally". Like 4-5 hours at my home before our friends came... And she never seemed to be unconfortable.
So there are girls who are really insecure about relationships. Try to have concrete programs and ask her if she's also interested.
Be intentional with your actions and you'll see progress . There are things you can't control, like how she might be feeling or her schedule, but just put your best foot forward to see if she likes you and if not, kindly move on
@@thegentlemensgame Thanks. At first I was too clingy, then heartbroken, but I finally started to understand things. 😀
That dumb bitch is full of shit !!!! She's a bitchass flake !!!
Kristóf Kovács 😢
people like me be watching this even tho we dont get texts in real life lol
Great Video! You're awesome!
Your channel is great
Bro your videos are amazing
Badass Productions 👍
The thing is i'm funny irl but i lack texting skills my jokes come spontaniously
Before rhis video I went to friendly logical to ignoring me 😅😅😅 I have depression and this gave me a confidence boost
very informative vid yo i mean it's dope man
She told me she doesn't like me in that way but she always responds in a friendly and logical way
L bro ur in friendzone
@@-Soren she was my crush for like 2-3 years it hurts
@@penceritahorror9745 but she said she doesn't like me tho in that way
@@binlarden3120 Yep, that's friendzone. But hey, you have a friend at least, many are unfortunate enough to not have one
@@lucaventinove3151 I guess so but would of been better to be a bit more than friends
A friend I know for 5 years.
We started talking for 3 months and when I ask her out, she ignored me for 2 days and we start talking again.
But every time I ask her to meet up, she ignore me, then we start talking again.
We still talk tho. Probably I got friend zone.
Still like her tho.
Sounds familiar. But in reverse. Seemed like the guy was gung ho and interested. One date. And now the idea of future dates are agreed to. But no actual date happens. Conversation has gone dry. But continues every few days or so. Some pictures are exchanged from activities during the day. Then fizzles.
Oh my boy🤦♂️
She gave you the attitude yet you still attach your ass to her. Find another one and cut off your convos with her.
Friend zone for sure. Give her some more talking, maybe a few months more and see if she will move closer. Try to be seen around other girls after a couple of months and she'll suddenly want you.
This would probably work if I was just more confident talking to girls in general
Bro this actually worked
my experience:
first 2 days: positive
day3-7: ignoring
week 2-4: friendly logical
week 5: testing
week 6-10: friendly logical
week 11-12: positive
week 13-15: friendly logical
week 16-now: ignoring/ friendly logical
its been a rollercoaster, but this is what the friend zone is. its a crazy ride that will only hurt you the longer youre on it. if you see this type of pattern, disregard A N Y F E E L I N G S right way. good luck everyone.
Hehe boi i'm at the positive stage
Tought i was at the friendly stage
The whole video its just amazing that will help me allot
I instinctively did the first one lol . I sent her a funny meme and a joke and kept it light hearted
I liked a girl, she liked me back too.... But..... We never met , and probably never gonna meet... So she said if we never gonna meet then it is waste of time, same thought by me too...
Why didn't you tried?
@@dinamosflams tried what?
@@tanp8084 to meet
Is it really impossible to meet as in you guys just chat online and liked each other kind of situation where you're also way too far apart to even try? Cause that i would understand
@@DarkSwam56 well, we live thousand or 2k kilometres apart.. and its like if we met in 1 nd half year, we will see... If doesnt then nvm because she will go to abroad...
Me : cool story about what happened to me today
Her: that's wild bro but who asked
King, she's not worth it.
She belongs...
@@ZealousWins to the streets
my fav response to "I bet you say that to all girls" is "Yeah and they all said the same thing back, weird."
Great video bro 🔥👍 but just imagine how girls do not have to go through all this crap.. they just sit tight while you have to do the work and get rejected.
Why did CZcams recommend me this video. When I don't have any girl-friends in my life 😪😪
Som um this girl been asking me to send her how I look, I did. And she replied “that’s cool” ☠️
that feeling when, it started with Positive to Ignoring
i can approve this one guys, the last one is my personal experience 🤦♂️🤣🤣
It sounds so easy 😂
it is
@@derritter4970 nt
It is, son
you know it's weird they might be busy or caught up with something and you'll think they're ignoring you, but they could actually still be interested and by the time they text back you already moved on
thats the thing. boys can NEVER move on
So many times "busy" is just an excuse.
@@OrbitArc maybe for you, especially considering the way you type. Some of us get fixated on one. I wish we could just kidnap them Kazakhstan style and get on with life.
@@OrbitArc all are different
@@OrbitArc and a lot of the 4.5b is children and grandmas
This is awesome
this is fire
She has told me that she has liked me,but she rarely text first/and takes a while to respond to the first text but when we get a convo on it all goes well plz help!
Not WAF I’m not an expert, but what I’d do is I would spark a really good conversation. One that she wants to keep up with and she’s be upset almost if you left it. I myself couldn’t really care if one girl is dry with me or not because I’ll find another it doesn’t matter. So what I’d do is spark a great conversation and then at the absolute peak of the conversation when she doesn’t want to stop texting you say something like, “I’m gonna go do (so and so)”. This is a little extreme but after that I’d stop texting her for a few days. If she texts you saying hello or something then hopefully that helped figure out the problem just don’t be the conversation starter and don’t be the only one all in to sparking convo. If she doesn’t text you I’d move on and find another girl. And if she ever seems like upset at you for no logical reason pull the same card,” yeah I’m gonna go shower” or somethi and don’t text back. Sometimes when girls don’t have a logical reason they’ll break down and feel bad for coming off harsh ( at least in my past experiences)
Rob Stephenson thanks!
Rob Stephenson will the fact that we have been texting for a Month effect anything?
Not WAF 🔥
Not WAF it depends. What do you fear it might effect?
Take it from a woman: just CALL like a confident man, don't hide behind texts.
Jesus, I was already at the positive position without realizing it and not knowing what to do.
I really did fuck up, I now understand why i was rejected 12 times
Is it something to literally have a psychic link? Without telling each other, we watch the same videos at the same time. Also, is it something to like the same topics and text late at night and talk for hours? Also is it a good or bad thing when she says she loves you as a friend? If any of these are positive signs, im really in deep
Loves you as a friend equals friend zoned. But you might be a soul mate.
@@OffGridInvestor this comment old as hell bruh, her and I stopped talking a while back when she started dating this douche and I realized she was not worth my time lol
We've been on positive stage for a while, and when I asked her about her schedule she literally said that she's busy every single day, and when I made it clear that I'd like to meet her she didnt show any intrest in suggesting when she could find the time...
MrMixCro you can always make time for someone if you really want to, let her go king
F
@@godwinuwaeme3472 legend
No matter how busy someone is, there is always a way to sacrifice some time for anything. If she doesn't want to fit you in her schedule, she simply is not on that level of interest that you think she is. Move on ma guy, better things await
I've had all of those before and I think I'm in the mix of friendly and positive ....I never even tried 😂
Solution for this "be single "😎
what if she gives positive response but doesn't want to meet up with you?
deathtoy101 👀
Then,you my friend, are friend zoned
Well think abt it this way, she probably is a positive person in general and with others as well, talking to her and all that makes you feel something special i assume? but a meet up would be a no go if she's just not comfortable with the idea of that. I can't say for sure since it depends on a lot of things like how close are you guys things like that
She doesn’t meet then simply block her ass
WHEEE WOOUUUUUU WHEEEEEEE WHOUUUUUU 🚨🚨 THIS IS COMPLETED! That's it ima just be single
this gold
You got a Quarantine addition
I made out with a girl on a party, we first met there, now we're texting and i feel like she is not that active
Maybe shes either doing push pull strat or shes testing u... Worst case scenario shes into another guy :(
@@ricardobrites8141 shes giving me mixed signals
@@luzkiefer6014 good luck with that man :(
If i was in that situation i would just ask her right out front if i had that type of connection with her...
Luzkiefer Just ask her out. You already met her at a party. If she says no move on
You’ve probably already made a move but I think she’s in a situation where she doesn’t know what to do and is unsure if she wants to keep texting you. Just try bro and if it doesn’t work out, fuck it
I swear I’m so bad at this lmao. This girl hit me up 2 times last year out of the blue. And they were all positive texts. What do I do? Carry the conversation.
Bro best thing to do is text some stupid flirty shit and then FaceTime her FaceTime her a few more times (don’t do it daily like spread it out like once every few days) then hit her up on text saying U tryna link (don’t go to the movies you wanna talk to her and get comfortable) always make it seem like you got shit to do and your busy a lot make it seem like when you set up the day of the day you say when ur free (and don’t say ur free anytime cause then she will think ur some loser that sits home all day and jerks off)
Jacob JL ima try it next time. That girl is now in a relationship lol. I don’t really like talking to girls because they never seem interested in the conversation and I don’t wanna come out as creepy and immediately start flirting.
Igno 1:56
Test 3:14 and 4:42
Fren
Posit (facet)
Oh God thankfully I came to the same conclusions and it's what I've been doing
I met a girl and she likes me but over text shes extremely dry but when i call her she sounds likes she actually likes to talk.Any advice?
Perhaps try to use texting to set up meetups and do all the talking in person
I was going to say the exact same thing as the other commenter. Meet more. Not everyone likes texting - I sure as hell don't.
9 months later... how did it go?
I was texting with a girl and she's boring as shit. At one point I thought she might be autistic from the way she replies lol. Glad I knew the texting world and a girl in person are very different so I decided to ask her out. Guess what, I still think she's autistic and she shouldn't be driving.
Main rule : we text girls to meet up, not to become a pen friend
went from positive to ignoring bruh
Found this AFTER 3 misses shot, the last one was huge
Thanks for putting me in the FRIENDZONE 😭😭😭
This is just texting buddy, if you're in the friendzone you did that to yourself in person lol
I am a girl.Whoooopsie.
This is why im here
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